Why was he consuming it if he cares so much about image? Make it make sense. He sounds jealous that 1, she’s better than him at coding and 2, that his friend didn’t get the job.
This part. He thought his friend was hot shit and he didn’t get past it all, if that tells you anything. They really try to play up their abilities to the highest power.
I didn’t realize sex = the only joy in life Gah, I mean what is this whole “feel sorry for men that can’t get sex” thing? I am just dumbfounded at the impossibility of men being able to live normal lives without a prostitute. This is just nonsensical. Say you like fucking random (debased) men and be done with it.
Life is so much better not having to deal with it. It clearly makes you uncomfortable and that thought will always be in your mind. Trust me. I was there and wish I never had been now. Save yourself. It only hurts worse in the end.
Imagine if it was really another man that raped them. They’d howl to the world about how they were vandalized while trying to do a good deed for someone.
It’s astounding how the male brain works. I should know how corrupt they can be, but it feels like a new level every time. Appalling. I would never have thought of that. I’m glad they reveal themselves like this.
Is he still going to be doing this when dating another woman? Not sure I’d feel that great with my man going to his exes house to cook her breakfast. Send a gift from your kids, sure. But the rest is too far, IMO.
This is essentially why FDS exists. So that we can not get put in these situations in the first place but men can be deceiving. Once we figure out their true colors, we shouldn’t have to be stuck with them for life.
I don’t know, it’s like they know they can’t do better on their own so they manipulate the one single woman that is interested in them into thinking she’s no longer enough and coerce her into getting other women involved with them.
Oh great. Now they have treatment so they can still have an excuse to continue to wank it to death yet everyone is still freaked out that women need period products.
It’s grosses me out how they never value the time a woman spends in a marriage quite like they do money. Wtf, she could have been doing so much with herself all these years but instead she spent it with a crusty dud and now she gets bad mouthed like she didn’t just invest something she can never get back, time? She can’t get those years back…. yet he’s the one they feel sorry for… smh
If you don’t mind me asking, what did you go back to school for? I recently started a college + a new course for data analytics/tech. I’m 35, and I’m just starting to wonder if I can actually get out there and do this.. I haven’t been in the professional field ever. I’ve been raising children. I’ve given up a lot to stick to this course, but some days I just wonder if it will even be worth it in the end.
THIS. Like wtf. Can’t it wait until after work hours at the very least. Aren’t we taught this at an early age? What are we even doing as a society for some of us to see this as acceptable? I was reading Invisible Women, the book, which is what prompted me to research why men feel the need to masturbate in public and found this BS.
It’s always mothers that take a hit at their job when children are in school, get sick, and need to be picked up. It’s always mothers that have to do Dr appts, dentists, extracurriculars. I hope she is unmoved by his obvious disrespect towards her choices.
I have kids and prefer not to date men with kids. I guess that sounds hypocritical.. I don’t know, but there’s a difference between a single mom and a single dad.
They’re men. Obviously they need it laid out for them. That’s why the whole internet worries about the man. We know how most are... that’s why we’re here.
Trust is earned. It’s always earned. Of course it feels easier to trust someone that has a history of being less harmful. This is why continuous vetting should always be put in place. I mean, can you ever fully trust anyone? Not for awhile anyway..
My CHILD is 17. He hates when I call him my child, but that is exactly what he and his little friends are... CHILDREN. And who said it was acceptable for a 70 year old to marry an 18 year old? He’s complaining about that while failing to realize that it originated from their deranged minds.
“Another woman around the house to talk to, we could do things together...” Isn’t what friends are for? This woman has probably been alienated from all of her friends.
Ummm okay? Let him gooo 🗣 <—- why is this emoji a man? Oh, that’s right because they’re always trying to yell at us how we should be 🙄 eff them DUD(e)S
I hate this so much. I wish she would just choose herself now instead of later. The “I just want to be with him and only him.” I just wish she would realize that he doesn’t and she shouldn’t be okay with someone not wanting only her. Life goes on if you break up... it’s not the worst thing in life and it’s the best thing for this scenario because she obviously doesn’t want that and he does. This won’t work long term. She’ll just end up hating herself more.
I saw a post recently from a man whining about not getting women because he has a small penis. In the whole entire comment section all he did was respond with about how he doesn’t like to “go down there that much” on women. I was so happy to see him being downvoted into the pits of hell where he belongs. He wanted to be satisfied, yet not be bothered to satisfy? 🤦🏻♀️
Right. Let him leave so he can see how dried up his little peepee gets, then he’ll be on reddit whining about his estranged wife living her best life without him and women in general on how they don’t want his droopy balls.
She’s probably just ready for him to leave. I bet he’s one of those that complains about everything, then if she got a job, would STILL have to do everything and it would never be enough. Always something with this type.
Wtf. Why are women still dealing with this BS? “I lOvE hIm ThOuGh” go find love within yourself, dang. Women would be so much better on a mental scale than dealing with this.
We’re not afraid to scare men away by chasing them, we just don’t want the ones that won’t chase because we know from experience that if they aren’t chasing you, they don’t like you all that much but they will settle for you. MEN go for what they want, it’s just a fact.
I feel it’s too late. He runs amuck everyday. It’s just accepted because “bubbbba.” I told them they need to quit coddling him and start holding him accountable, but they don’t care at alllll. Ive never met his dad but his step dad is a POS and his dad obviously is since he isn’t over here trying to raise his son. I just wish SOMEONE over there would stop allowing him to act like a little fool. He’s disrespectful AF.
True. I hate that fathers get let off the hook because I deal with that myself. I mentioned the mother because she actually says her little boy is the “man of the house” since the dad is not around. It seems to suck for the girls (5 girls, 1 boy). Now they do have a step dad that just joined in the family, but he’s absolutely awfullllll and so gross. I tried to congratulate her on her marriage and she responded with “eh, it’s marriage.” I was like ummm, that’s not how it’s supposed to be but oka…
It’s every other day with this one. They act like he’s a little king. “Bubba, don’t do that.” He’s so bad though. He’ll be out there hiding under their vehicle from them 🤦🏻♀️. I’m just amazed that they put up with the bs from him. The girls say he doesn’t even have to do any chores either.
“Bubba” oh wow. My neighbor’s child. He’s 8 and cusses his mom and sisters out. His sisters say he gets away with it all because he’s the only boy and the little “man” of the house. Wtfffff. He’s always running down the street unhinged and they can’t control him when he’s throwing a fit.
“Sorry I never gave YOU the chance to help me.” MF, help yourself. Is he a child? You don’t need this extra responsibility... women have enough on their plate. Just say no. 👎🏻
“Every person in this world has the right to set their boundaries at a level where they feel safe and comfortable. “ This. Why is this so hard for them to understand? It’s so basic.
It’s awful because what enters the mind never leaves. You can only control what you watch to an extent. It’s all over.. ads aren’t even filtered anymore.
It’s funny you say that because they described him as handsome! He was junk.. all he did was drink, feel sorry for himself, and surely didn’t take care of himself.
You’re giving him too much credit. He didn’t dress himself and his child like this. The ex did this and also took the photo. I bet they had family pictures made the same day and she was coordinating.
Isn’t it amazing how proud they are of that? Imagine that scenario flipped and a woman tells a man she’s been with 63 different partner. His jaw would probably fall off and hit the floor.
I don’t think they think they’re helping at all. I feel like they’re trying to tear apart a woman’s confidence, especially when she is way out of his league.
“divorce isn’t always the answer” No, you’re right... we should opt for plastic surgery when a POS doesn’t like something about our body. Of course that’s the answer. How could I not see it? Smh, that commenter obviously missed the part about how OP didn’t foresee a problem going into marriage. What sucks is she will now think about it for life like there is something wrong with her body. 🤦🏻♀️
Ok, so I had to google Tiffany Pollard and she’s the one that I watched it for back then too and could not for the life of me understand WHY she wanted him so bad! 😳
Gag. Why is she with this POS? F I V E years. I wish women loved themselves more. It hurts my heart because she seems so genuinely sweet, but sometimes you’ve just got to be the “b*tch” as they’d say.
I cannot wrap my brain around his comments. He’s content where he’s at, does not want to strive to be better, is happy living paycheck to paycheck, but wants someone to just come sleep with him? I bet he wants someone moderately fit and he mentioned attractive women in one comment and said “even women who aren’t models are like this (prefer a man that’s actually got something going for him)”
Is that the one where she (a teenager, I think) is raped in the woods and then hides in the river? 😩 I was traumatized as well from that. I will never forget that scene. So disgusting. That’s why I try to limit what my children watch/hear, but it’s so hard when it’s all so normal in everything.
Yes... it is APART from relationships. It should never be a part of a relationship. Men with their already limited vocabulary... 🤦🏻♀️ can’t even get basic words correct.
Hate group against who? Ridiculous that one would classify FDS as a hate group. We just refuse to be used, played, walked on, etc. They hate us for it.
-watch porn, leave -don’t have a job, leave -into rough sex, leave -don’t want kids, leave -believe housework is a woman’s job, leave -heavy drinker, leave -smoke or do drugs, leave -into casual hookups, leave -not between 30-39, leave -If you find it hard to believe men are the issue, leave They’d all be gone 😂
It’s disgraceful that we even have these thoughts. Most men are awful. I hope all these women leave and go find themselves and do better overall at life. ♥️ I remember being young (Already with child, unfortunately) and in an argument with my POS, his mother shouts “Why do you want to be with her, she won’t even let you look at porn?!”