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| 1 | This is how you cure approach anxiety.I can understand that. I’m not keen on talking about myself either. That’s why I had to learn the piece I mentioned previously. It’s a good way to keep people talking so I don’t have to. Another approach you can take is to give that 2-3 minutes that you have and then as something along the lines of, “What are your thought about that?” or “What do you think?” It is a way to create an open-ended feedback loop that keeps the conversation going. Another thing you can do is to try and mirror the comm… | /r/seduction | 18/04/23 12:40 PM |
| 2 | This is how you cure approach anxiety.One of the most powerful phrases you can use is, “tell me more about that.” It gives people an opportunity to share knowledge or experience on a topic that you might actually find interesting. It helps you find what makes the other person tick, and it can go a long way toward testing compatibility. If you can find a way to add to the conversation with and/or after that, it shows that you are actually interested in the conversation. Plus, it gives an opportunity for someone to ask you the same th… | /r/seduction | 16/04/23 05:14 AM |
| 2 | So what are you fellas doing for first dates these days?No disrespect ny any means, but I'm laughing so hard rn at how methodical you men are with these initial dates. Like, I had no idea you guys put so much thought into it. Is it typical for men to create their own dating process/guidelines or did I just stumble upon a feed full of entertaining people I'd definitely shoot the shit with irl? 😂 Cause man, I tend to just wing it or im too busy making sure I don't look like trash to even begin to concoct a strategy 😅 I think the only thing I worry abou… | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 05:43 PM |
| 3 | So what are you fellas doing for first dates these days?Thank god we finally got a woman weighing in on what she likes instead of only seeing what has worked for who. Extra insight is always appreciated | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 04:04 PM |
| 3 | So what are you fellas doing for first dates these days?Then find a good gelato place instead. The difference in process and materials can negate most (if not all) of the lactose issues. Plus gelato makes you seem much more sophisticated than simple ice cream. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 03:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Apprroach opportunities are very rare realisticallyBasic body language is relaxed and open if someone is interested and open. People tend to turn away, avoid eye contact, tense up, and close themselves off if they are not interested. As for the conversations, ask open ended, fact finding questions. If you ask yes or no answers, single word responses may just be a result of her insecurities or shyness. If you ask her something that requires an explanation or details, it forces her to start talking more. The more she talks, the more she relaxes. E… | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 02:56 PM |
| 5 | My body language is pretty weird, need some adviceWhen in Rome, do as the Romans do. It is not necessarily that you are doing anything weird, it is that you are not matching cultural norms so you are showing that you do not belong. That makes people uncomfortable. You see similar results from people’s appearances. Look up the theory of the Uncanny Valley. It is based on appearance, but is just as applicable to body language and mannerisms. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 02:07 PM |
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