UngusChungus94 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Why feminist and people see the "gender gap" as an "advantage" but not the spending or dating up gap? That applies to so few women that it can’t be called “female privilege”. Maybe “super hot privilege”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 08:32 PM
3	Why feminist and people see the "gender gap" as an "advantage" but not the spending or dating up gap? If they do, I never met any of them. Every woman I’ve dated has preferred to split bills or alternate who pays for dates, including my wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 08:31 PM
3	Why feminist and people see the "gender gap" as an "advantage" but not the spending or dating up gap? I’ve wondered the same thing. I’ve never dated a woman who expected me to spend more on her than she does on me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 08:30 PM
1	Those men who have asked out huge numbers of women and eventually managed to land a partner, how do you feel about it? I mean… I’d start there? You don’t want to end up in the “gf/wife is your sole social support system” thing, that doesn’t work well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 01:12 AM
0	Struggling guys SHOULD go to bars/clubs/parties Aiiiiight. Best of luck out there, I’m just gonna be chilling with my wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 01:01 PM
1	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man Y’all wild. Do ya thing, I won’t hold you. I’ll just be with my wife lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 01:01 PM
0	Struggling guys SHOULD go to bars/clubs/parties Do what, again? I’m not shaming anybody, we just apparently live on different planets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 03:22 AM
1	The whole Pill Debates are the wrong focus point. Its a societal issue. And culture is the problem, neither man nor woman K Anyway, how’s the love life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 09:52 PM
1	Those men who have asked out huge numbers of women and eventually managed to land a partner, how do you feel about it? I mean, we literally met 2 years ago and just got married, so it’s p much the exact same world as today. I’ve had success on the apps, too, but not to the same degree (only one wife, ya know?). Anyway, point being, you don’t need a huge pool when you only need one good bite. The high-volume approach is evidently not going too well, given the whole existence of this subreddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 09:35 PM
4	The whole Pill Debates are the wrong focus point. Its a societal issue. And culture is the problem, neither man nor woman He proudly declared, mysteriously unmoored from the burden of proof. Can you back any of that up? I’m on the cusp of Millennial and Gen Z and I haven’t observed any of this. It seems like sour grapes from this guy’s perspective. I’m curious which gender roles you think I’m still beholden to as a man, though. Haven’t noticed any of those, either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 09:06 PM
1	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man He set it up as though you will certainly get no play in the west and certainly will in Asia, which is both an impossible-to-falsify hypothetical and also pretty damn stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 09:02 PM
1	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man That’s both nonsense and totally useless if you’re not white lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 09:01 PM
1	Those men who have asked out huge numbers of women and eventually managed to land a partner, how do you feel about it? I mean, yes. Building confidence is a prerequisite for most earned success in life. Rejecting that out of hand is a surefire way to maker sure you never get there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 08:59 PM
3	Those men who have asked out huge numbers of women and eventually managed to land a partner, how do you feel about it? Wouldn’t the best approach be to just have friends who also have friends and meet women that way? It worked for me. Seems more efficient than apps or cold approaches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 08:58 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. You’re making a whole lot of assumptions. And you know what they say about assuming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 08:57 PM
5	The whole Pill Debates are the wrong focus point. Its a societal issue. And culture is the problem, neither man nor woman …do they, though? Do they really? I don’t see it happening in the real world at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 08:56 PM
5	The whole Pill Debates are the wrong focus point. Its a societal issue. And culture is the problem, neither man nor woman Women are flirting with communism? Come on, now. That’s just another example of extrapolating a few online comments or videos into a problem with women. Next thing you’ll tell me Kamala Harris is a communist, lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 08:55 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. Comparing two neighborhoods for the rich and famous to one of the world’s most populous and diverse cities sure is one hell of a concept. Doesn’t make sense, but ok. There’s no place in America that serves as a perfect microcosm for the entire country, but NYC is closer than most. But I also didn’t see the person you originally replied to saying that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 08:52 PM
1	Struggling guys SHOULD go to bars/clubs/parties Catastrophizing. You won’t be killed by a negative social interaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 08:35 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. Last I checked, New York is as real a place as anywhere else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 08:33 PM
0	If makeup were illegal, it might not entirely fix the current situation but it would change it significantly If you’re operating from the assumption that women exclusively or even primarily date “up”, sure. I don’t know how you could hold such an assumption and also go outside and see all the ugly to average guys walking around with dimes, but that’s just me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 08:25 PM
1	Dating is not a meritocracy and it's toxic to suggest single men should "work harder" Objectively false. Wouldn’t expect a black piller to have any real experience with uhhh reality but needs to be said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 12:18 AM
11	Dating is not a meritocracy and it's toxic to suggest single men should "work harder" They’re never going to meet the shy winner because he’s too shy. I’d also add that the women who are dating drug addicted losers are not the women you want. Trust me, daddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 09:39 PM
0	If we assume that 20/80 rule is true, how would u describe the top 20% guy (in early 20s)? Having a car has been a deal breaker I’ve seen many times… for men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 09:31 PM
15	Dating is not a meritocracy and it's toxic to suggest single men should "work harder" The obvious answer is social skills. Being an educated high-earner doesn’t mean you know how to flirt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 08:20 PM
2	Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynists And who decides that? You? Men as a whole?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 04:52 PM
4	Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynists That pill ain’t looking too purple lol. Average dudes can get it in. If I could do it, anybody can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 04:51 PM
–	Who are the bad boys women like? Confident men or dangerous/evil men? Your call, man. Maybe start small by talking to people in your class and see if they want to study with you. Crucially, don’t ask those folks out unless it’s super flirty. Building a friend group is more important at that age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 04:16 AM
–	Who are the bad boys women like? Confident men or dangerous/evil men? Just with random people you met for the first time on the street and then asked out? Never did it. I met plenty of people at parties, though. (I wasn’t having tons of success dating back then tho. Mostly came senior year and onward.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 03:35 AM
–	Who are the bad boys women like? Confident men or dangerous/evil men? Wouldn’t know, I never really did that. Meeting women through friends, interest groups like college clubs or online was my game before I got engaged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 03:23 AM
1	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. So… you’re single I take it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 11:01 PM
1	Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women? Yeesh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 10:53 PM
14	Men say they want one thing in women yet their actions say something else entirely You’re discovering the fact that men and our tastes are very diverse. Stop trying to fit people into stereotypes and look around you — who are the real men you meet actually involved with? There’s no reason to give a shit who some rich chode on the internet is dating or why. I seriously doubt most trad men are going after IG models. Nor are the men who idolize trad women even the norm. It’s all internet smoke and mirrors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 10:47 PM
–	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. That’s not been my experience, but I hope your worldview brings you as much happiness as mine has. In my experience, women tend to be involved with men who are roughly their equals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 10:40 PM
–	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. We’ve all been single before. Often for quite some time. It’s extremely easy to not settle for a long term relationship with someone you aren’t attracted to and don’t really like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 10:39 PM
3	Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women? F-I-F fif! I plead the fif! Jk what does FAF mean	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 08:14 PM
2	Who are the bad boys women like? Confident men or dangerous/evil men? I never considered myself a “bad boy” even though I’ve been arrested, done drugs, etc. It’s interesting to hear that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:48 PM
3	Who are the bad boys women like? Confident men or dangerous/evil men? Safe risks are what makes you cool, yeah. Whether that’s doing a little yayo or wearing bold clothes that others might not. Being willing to stand out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:47 PM
1	It's almost impossible for a man to "use" a woman for sex unless she is mentally challenged or something. Behaving in a romantic manner is communication. Not all communication is verbal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:43 PM
-1	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. It’s really not that. Drop the victim blaming bullshit and acknowledge the fact that bad people can successfully pretend to be good people. Nobody would date a man they knew would beat them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:42 PM
6	What was your relationship with your mother like? Sometimes it makes sense to gather the data first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:41 PM
3	Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women? As a man, what.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:36 PM
1	Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women? By what mechanism do they develop these red flags, and what are those flags?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:35 PM
21	Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women? On Reddit, you’re either a zoo patron or the exhibit, no in between hahah	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:32 PM
3	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. That is true. I think that’s just how age groups work, though. People tend to date people their own age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:30 PM
3	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. Abusers must mask better than incels, I suppose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:30 PM
2	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. I don’t believe anyone appointed OP as the representative of women. This sub is full of outliers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:29 PM
1	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. As a pretty average man myself, I could go on 1-2 dates or encounters a month back when I was single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:28 PM
10	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. The whole notion of a high value man is so stupid that it’s not even worth addressing. Take your typical office environment. Who is high value there? The older boss who has more money but less potential and time left on Earth, or the young up-and-comer who has less money but will eventually be the boss? Or is it both? Real, normal people simply don’t think this way. People of true value don’t think this way. People capable of love don’t think this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:25 PM
16	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. Nobody has to settle. That’s weak willed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:20 PM
0	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. Nah. Not taking care of yourself is a thing, but it’s not a given.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:19 PM
4	I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance. That seems obviously nonsensical to me. Some people have an underdeveloped sense for toxic people, be they men or women. But many people are more perceptive than that. If I, as a man, can avoid an attractive yet toxic woman, why couldn’t a woman do the same thing? Your pill is redder than you’re letting on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 07:18 PM