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| 188 | How extreme porn has become a gateway drug into child abuse | MALE DEPRAVITY | Unhappy-Apple222 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:02 PM |
| 91 | Burn it down instead! | MALE DEPRAVITY | Unhappy-Apple222 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:27 PM |
| 1 | But I thought "fantasies" don't mean anything. | MALE DEPRAVITY | Unhappy-Apple222 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Weird moment when even r/drama knows what's up... lol | STAY WOKE | Unhappy-Apple222 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:56 PM |
| 1 | I dread the idea of going through all this suffering to carry and birth some selfish dude's child, meanwhile only to find him moaning about "MuH PEnis!" on Reddit subs... | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | Unhappy-Apple222 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 07:38 PM |
| 0 | 11 yr olds are getting groomed and traumatized by violent porn everyday. How is this acceptable??? | Unhappy-Apple222 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 08:12 AM |
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| 1 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornIdk her personally. Alot of prostitutes are groomed into this kind of work. Alot of them don't have much of an option to leave. The diff between all the other work u mentioned is obvious. The abuse in other industries is not the feature,,not the selling point. You don't add value to the product by watching the workers get sadistically "destroyed" right infront of you. Grease in their eyes is an accident,it's not done purposely for the sadistic entertainment of viewers. The abuse is porn in delib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:55 PM |
| 1 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornYes n the person trying to discourage doing heroin is not in the wrong.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 08:44 PM |
| 1 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornUr logic would justify it is the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 08:42 PM |
| 1 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornSadism involves both physical n psychological abuse n degradation. You keep bringing up fake shit because Ur entire argument is fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 08:42 PM |
| 1 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornGo shoot up heroin then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 08:40 PM |
| 1 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornThis is incredibly childish. Plenty of this we can't do even if they ask. We can't buy kidneys from the homeless, we can't decapitate ppl etc. You literally admitted how some things involve self harm, but as long as you label anything abusive sex, we're supposed to act like the harm is invisible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 08:27 PM |
| 1 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching porn"The parties reached a mutual resolution to resolve the dispute and the terms are confidential,” Brian Holm, the lawyer for the plaintiffs, wrote in an email." Is this what Ur calling dropped? Kink degradation is not the same as real degradation - do you also think the people who play bad guys in movies harbour evil desires in real life if they enjoy the role a bit too much? Again, there's no CGI, stunt double, special effects when women are degraded in porn,like in a movie. I don't know why u k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 08:21 PM |
| 3 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornPeople routinely do acts that harm the body or psyche far more permanently than anal Weird u keep bringing up anal. But anyway, glad u understand that self harm is bad n should be discouraged even if done willingly. Just because someone lets me abuse them for money it still makes me a piece of shit for wanting to abuse ppl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 08:16 PM |
| 1 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornultimately removed in all those reported circumstances Only when they were sued and faced the financial consequences. And no, most SM sites don't do this. Harmless posts get needless taken down due to mass reporting. No amount of reporting resulted in PH taking down obvious CP. How exactly does a particular sex act unfalsifiably degrade someone? Because that's always openly been the whole point? There's obvious sadomasochistic elements. No one even denies it. They openly say they have degradatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 07:44 PM |
| 2 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornThat would do a lot more to reform the industry than an endless string of anonymous pitiful testimonies containing already known information about the consequences of unprepared rough sex, Many pornstars already have, including very famous ones like Lana Rhodes. It's done nothing because this is what ppl like. And no they weren't "unprepared". No amount of preparation is going to make harming someone's body suddenly ok. Like I said, an exercise in self harm, because there's demand for watching w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 07:35 PM |
| 2 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornThey do a lot more than most sites to get rid of it, as shown by them deleting more than half their stuff This is totally made up. There has been numerous instances of rape n a use being reported hundreds of times, for them to do absolutely nothing. They've never taken down anything until there's consequences. They didn't do shit until MasterCard dropped them and they started to get sued multiple victims. And you literally said "no sex act is inherently degrading". That's as relativist n post mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornPornhub does have a "report abuse" This was totally nonfunctioning. They do absolutely nothing with abuse being reported, unlike most social media sites . That's the point. No sex act is inherently "degrading" Ok, this type of relativist, Orwellian double speak is useless to engage with. Words actually mean something in reality, regardless of how you and I feel about it. analogy to video games Make better analogies then. You cant even find an equivalent comparison because almost nothing is this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 07:01 PM |
| 2 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornWe're privy to the fact that different periods in society had different sexual n dating norms/standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:47 PM |
| 8 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornHow old are you? We have eyes n ears. It's entirely obvious. Even porn looked significantly different in the 70s and 80s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:36 PM |
| 2 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornmost likely Again, for an platform that's made the active choice to profit off CP and rape, yea I doubt it was mostly benign. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:34 PM |
| 6 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornBecause if u pulled even half of this shit 20 yrs ago, everyone would think Ur a psychopath. There has always been niche groups, but this type of degeneracy was never normal among average ppl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:27 PM |
| 2 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornAgain, we're going to have to stop pretending like looking boobs and sex is the same thing as looking at the endless sea of utter depravity ever thought of by the human mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:22 PM |
| 8 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornThe fact that they pretty much had no reporting system, that they're being successfully sued for purposely profiting off rape n CP, gives me no reason to believe what they removed was harmless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:18 PM |
| 10 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornpretty much every other social media platform received far more complains of nonconsensual or abusive material uploaded at the same time, even by proportion, but no one called for them to delete half their user uploads Every other social media has a reporting system that tries to take down abuse content. Pornhub had no such thing. It actively profits off abuse. Most social media doesn't have unverified content that looks like rape and pedophilia. Video games are fiction. There's no ppl involved.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:14 PM |
| 6 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornHow do you know this? It's been sued by many ppl for hosting and profiting off their abuse and child porn. It had an almost non existent reporting/verifying system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:08 PM |
| 7 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornPorn was part of the sexual revolution,which played a part in turning sex into something insignificant, meaningless, it turned consent into something that can be bought n sold. This was the first mistake. Im not complaining about an OF girl selling underwear pics or whatever. I literally said idk that dudes jack it to other pretty women. I'm criticizing the overall hardcore porn industry. Here's a post bellow made by a porn star on trueoffmychest sub,with 11k likes. This is the reality of porn. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:04 PM |
| 11 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornPornhub was forced to scrub 91% of it's content because they literally can't verify if any of it is consensual or legal. Nobody cares what u do behind closed doors. The criticism is about the glorification,broadcasting and normalisation of depraved sexually abusive behaviours towards women/girls and the consequences of lt.No media is immune from criticism. Porn is no exception just because you like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 05:47 PM |
| 10 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornEvery single woman I know has those stories, yet dudes on Reddit tell you how it's the women always asking? So apparently nobody actually wants it but everyone is doing this shit for some reason? Like that checks out. It's honestly one of the worst phenomenons of the modern world.Every little boy, in every corner of the globe-before he can even hold a girl's hand or experience a first kiss-will be exposed to violent gang bangs that resemble a traffic victim being raped, as opposed to real sex. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 05:19 PM |
| 8 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornI honestly couldn't care less of he's jacking it to another lady. Ppl get off to sex scenes in a movie n celebs with no actual sex. The problem isn't that. That problem is the level of utter depravity, sadism, misogyny, the sheer exploitation and abuse(both real and fictional) that's normalised and spread because of porn. A 14 yr old boy would always want to admire a pretty lady, peek at nudity, feel a titty. But that's a pretty different impulse than wanting to choke, slap, gag degrade girls n … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?Nah. Redpill fantasizes about reversing roles, where they get attention like women while women pursue them like men.Its their power fantasy, yet they insist women want this. Every piece of female media meanwhile proves the opposite. Even the very dominant/ mysterious, even toxic male leads like Christian Grey is the one chasing. She's hopelessly in love, becomes super agreeable but still she doesn't chase. No woman wants to be treated like little fangirl Priscilla. That's everything that was wro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 09:17 PM |
| 1 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?Why are you still talking about children chasing anybody? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?Of course it matters.Youre describing a relationship dynamic between a child and adult.No body cares what a groomed 14 year old did.No body wants to copy that. I can't do anything with this example when this is not a desirable relationship to women. If you're going to talk about what works with women, every single romcom , romance novel is evidence what men chase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?How many women think this is ideal? She was 14. He already had godlike status and he chose a 14 year old. If this is what " leading" looks like , nobody wants it. Even his own daughter complained that it made him look bad. Again, maybe it's your fantasy, but it's not a woman's fantasy. Women liked Elvis, doesn't mean they like the bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?That doesn't even make sense. He isn't leading here if his attention is some place else. Men seem like leaders when they're proactive, attentive and ready to hunt. And hunting involves the chasing and getting what you want. Sitting pretty isn't leadership. They whole playing coy thing has always traditionally been female/feminine behaviour. Redpill turns men into women. This is the truth unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:01 PM |
| 0 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?None of this is true. This is a redpill fantasy, a power game. No woman actually likes being put in a man's role, whether initially or later. Pursuing has always been a make role, being In the driver's seat, being the doer has always been seen as masculine. Wanting to be chased like you're a passive prey and she's the hunder, has never been hot to women . It's girly and weird. Again, you're fantasy perhaps but not theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 05:52 PM |
| 0 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?Hookup culture is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:44 PM |
| -1 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?Yes she'll chase then feel like the man in the relationship. Great idea. Men leading involves them pursuing, chasing, initiating, being in the more active role. A woman following is her receptive ,reciprocating while being in the passenger seat because she is being chaperoned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:38 PM |
| 2 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?So you just openly advocate for narcissistic abuse and trauma bonding with women who have " issues and disorders"? Yikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 02:11 AM |
| 0 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?Obviously you don't believe that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?The whole time ideally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 02:08 AM |
| 2 | How does anyone connect if no one will chase?This was always the man's role before, courting,taking charge, initiating, pursuing etc etc.It's still the man's role in many places. Weirdos don't understand that a man acting like a passive princess ain't sexy. For many women foreplay doesn't just start in the bedroom. Foreplay is often the entire courtship process. Dudes used to know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's fair to say that women can never get too much attention from a man they're interested in?I'm sorry this was meant for a different sub. Someone is getting a divorce somewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Do you think it's fair to say that women can never get too much attention from a man they're interested in?Claiming something as a fact doesn't make it so. And you're creating a false choice. Not one said have sex 7 times a day, but most would agree that having regular consistent sex is good for your relationship. Everything else is the same. Consistency is good. Even lack of consistency isn't necessary bad depending on the situation. For example if I can't speak to someone for a while due to being busy that's completely fine as long as my partner knows where I stand with him/ her. Distance is not th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Do you think it's fair to say that women can never get too much attention from a man they're interested in?I never said go to that extreme.If she's not attracted to you, it's kind of a headache and kind of threatening if your pestering her to this level. My point was, elements of that show desire and effort and induce a generally positive reaction. Secondly, anxiety just like depression is a negative experience. Women already tend to be more anxious and depressed, and studies show they're more sensitive to negative emotions. People also tend to remember and be affected by negative experiences more th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Do you think it's fair to say that women can never get too much attention from a man they're interested in?Oh shit wrong sub!!!!!🤣 Edited the other shit.🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's fair to say that women can never get too much attention from a man they're interested in?I know you'll disagree but I believe the second is very rare. Most do not like to feel insecure, anxious. These are not sexy feelings. Most women won't be able to handle that in the long run. Look at every romcom, romance novel, even the super mysterious vamp/ millionaire/ wolf makes it pretty clear that he's obsessed with her, thats why shes willing to put up with all his bullshit. The notebook is also another example where the dude almost killed himself trying to get a date with the girl. I'm … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 05:40 PM |
| 8 | Do you think it's fair to say that women can never get too much attention from a man they're interested in?If she's into you, yes she'll want your attention, she'll want to feel reassured, she'll want to feel like you're invested. This is how women fall for super jealous, controlling, suicide threatening assholes. It's not because they're assholes, as the redpill likes to claim. It's because because of the attention, the reassurance, the investment of time and energy she's getting. She might think no other dude will love her this intensely,even if this dude is kinda toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 05:33 PM |
| 2 | [Science] Age gap marriages are not uncommon among recently married.Now imagine those same women at 18. I bet the they didn't get more naive with age, it probably was the reverse, even if they're still more naive compared to most other 30 yr olds.its highly unlikely they didn't learn, experience or wisen up more than they did at 18. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Is this insecure behaviour...a scenario....Absolutely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 11:57 AM |
| 2 | A major issue with the modern dating market is that immoral sexual behavior is heavily discouraged in men but either ignored or even outright ENCOURAGED in women in the modern era.If the man was writing about it to Reddit, don't y'all think he'd also think it's the low level behaviour? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 09:34 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedShhhh😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 09:02 PM |
| -4 | Billie Eilish says that men don't face criticism over their bodies because women are nice.Many women date ugly guys thinking they'll be treated better only to be sorely disappointed. Ugly guys can act just as bad( if not worse) as the " chad", without actually being chad. Many of them have become the worst of both worlds. I think redpill stuff is partially to blame, with all idiotic messaging that women like to be treated like shit. Now even seemingly normal ,mediocre, " nice" guys act like assholes. If anything they'll act worse because of their insecurities. They'll punish the wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 12:22 PM |
| -10 | Billie Eilish says that men don't face criticism over their bodies because women are nice.I mean it's true thro. Some ugly dudes really got a chip on their shoulders. They try to get hot women but treat them like shit. Not all obviously, but many do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 10:38 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men are jealous of women. it comes off as feminine and is one of the reasons men have issues finding partnersExactly 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 01:00 AM |
| 2 | A lot of men are jealous of women. it comes off as feminine and is one of the reasons men have issues finding partnersYes. I'm going to be blunt. Men acting like a princess or a bitchy woman is kind of weird and repulsive. Op is right. Nothing wrong with talking about your problems, but no need to turn into a Princess or a bitch, you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 12:29 AM |
| 2 | A lot of men are jealous of women. it comes off as feminine and is one of the reasons men have issues finding partnersI've noticed they also often try to reverse roles. Like they prefer the woman to approach them, court them, impress them. They literally want to be the Princess/ Prize. They don't seem to realize just how feminine that comes off. It's one thing to be jealous of lacking in masculine features/ privileges like height or wealth. But it's really something else when a man is jellous of a traditionally female roles,dynamics ,female privileges etc. Even some of the toxic redpill tactics like trying to i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 12:01 AM |
| 3 | CMV : Older women (30+ so called cougars) chase young college aged boys more than 30+ men chasing college aged girlsI've never seen anyone calling a 5 or 6 yr age gap creepy. It's usually middle aged men chasing teen old enough to be their kid, that gets called that. It's creepy for both sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 10:05 PM |
| 1 | The real reason women hate when older guys get with younger girlsDudes are grossed out by girls with huge body counts, and they make it known. So what's the problem with girls expressing they think something is gross? He'll, even most parents would freak out if their teen daughter is getting in on with grandpa's peers. Come on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 12:57 PM |
| 1 | in your opinion is it ok to dump good partner for a better one?You're talking about marriage,I'm taking about sleeping with young women consequences free. This is not allowed in any conservative Muslim country. Abdul gets the rocks for the cheating husband too. Malaysia is criminalising sex outside of marriage for both men and women. The situation you are describing makes you a criminal in strictly conservative cultures. This is a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:41 PM |
| 6 | in your opinion is it ok to dump good partner for a better one?Technically I'm a "eastern/ foreign" woman. Cheating is considered worse than wife beating here.People may overlook one slap, but having sex with another woman while married will get you shunned by the entire community. It's one clear obvious ground for divorce. You don't realize just how serious sexual violations are in most traditional societies. Hell, just merely unmarried sex is being criminalized in Malaysia. You get thrown in prison for or get stoned to death for any sex outside of marriag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?Yes, but only if I have equal control over the money, I am not be abused (financially/emotionally/, physically) and have full control over what I can and cannot do( minus having a job , and minus accepting any reasonable request out of respect for the person giving me this life😚) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | What men do you consider to be unconventionally attractive?Ryan gosling never did anything for me... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 04:03 PM |
| 12 | What men do you consider to be unconventionally attractive?Benedict Cumberpatch is a popular one. Looks likes an alien on first glance, but he's so elegant, kind, gentlemanly, olds school, intelligent, humble and sexy!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:00 AM |
| 4 | A question for all these guys who constantly whine about women having high standards and never giving them a chance: Wouldn't you do the same thing if you were in a position of that woman or a high value man?Aren't there expectation for Muslim men too? Also, as someone who grew up in a Muslim country, there was plenty of romance, love marriages or love/romance afterwards in arranged marriages. Most boy/ men that got gfs or had happy relationships just did very stereotypical, cliche, cheesy movie stuff(simping basically lol). The script boys and girls followed was very simple and traditional, unlike the psychological mind games, the competition, gender war and all this weird shit. I feel bad for ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Do you want to be the “ pretty “one in your relationships ?Sophia Vergara ( is that the right spelling?), I believe once said she initially thought her current hubby might be "too good looking" to date( I think hes younger too). But doesn't look to be an actual issue in their relationship. Also look at how Hugh Jackman and Jason Mamoa are married to older women who might look ordinary to us compared to the guy. But I do t think their wives are too unhappy with gorgeous men adoring them. It's only a think if they dude is treating you less than he would h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 11:11 PM |
| 4 | Do you want to be the “ pretty “one in your relationships ?Look at that show 90 day fiance, where old ladies date foreign 20 or 30 yr old men.Some women want the arm candy just as much as some men, but I'd say, it's as long as the man himself is treating the lady like she's the best woman in the world.Otherwise there's too much Insecurity it ends in disaster. Also see Hugh Jackman and his 13 yr older wife, or Jason Mamoa and his older wife. On paper they might look less good looking to us compared to those men,but these men seem to absolutely adore and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 11:05 PM |
| 13 | How extreme porn has become a gateway drug into child abuseIkr? Wth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 03:12 PM |
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