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| 1 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseIt’s dumb and unsafe. You need to know who you’re with. Is he a narcissist, does he have terrible trauma or addictions in his background, what’s his character, will he slut shame you, STDs, there’s so many things you need to know before having sex it isn’t even funny! It goes for both women and men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 01:44 AM |
| – | When guys say women tend to go for jerks, what is the jerk behavior?I picked the wrong guys (and girl friends) too. I feel like I committed myself to ruining my life in some self-destructive manner and never figured out how to course correct. I am attracted to guys who are interesting and smart but they need to be physically attractive as well. I ended up going out with whoever was interested in me but that’s not a great idea…all men need to be gone over with a fine tooth comb to figure out what they’re really all about. I was far too impulsive for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 01:55 AM |
| 1 | The concept of gender roles is outdated and stupidThat’s kind of sad! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Dating single Mother's is a massive "L" For men.I worked with some Indian men who were good people, and funny too!! Engineers actually. But no never dated one. I’m old now 69 (I can’t believe I’m sharing that - I’m probably the oldest person on here) but found Reddit because I’m bored. I’m running out of steam at this point - I’m trying to get myself back to the gym, maybe swimming again. I need to locate my energy. I used to have tons of energy (when I wasn’t working). My problem is I need a man to help motivate me but looks like I’m on my o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative womenAnd if they used Prozac to heal the trauma or depression, that likely took away their sexuality because it has a tendency to do that as a long term side effect. Many aren’t told that at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 09:34 PM |
| – | Women's indecisiveness and overloaded lifestyle isn't talked enough aboutActually it’s both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Women's indecisiveness and overloaded lifestyle isn't talked enough aboutLife in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Women's indecisiveness and overloaded lifestyle isn't talked enough aboutI’ve had a ton of life experiences and still indecisiveness seems to be a plague. It literally makes me nauseous now because it’s been a problem for so long. I can’t seem to overcome it no matter how hard I try. Not making a decision is a decision but not the one I want. Something in my brain feels really broken and it scares me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Dating single Mother's is a massive "L" For men.I have to say a lot of this is true, as I was a single mom. My life is so ruined many times over because there’s no hope for me now that I am obese, I look like hell, I’m old and scared as hell to die alone. I am pretty positive no man would seriously consider me. I hate myself sometimes and want to crawl out of my own skin. Time marches on and it definitely left me behind. It turned south due to drinking in my 20’s, having my heart broken early on and making terrible decisions and some constant… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 01:13 AM |
| 2 | What Made you Decide to have Casual Sex and How did it make you Feel?I’m glad your girlfriend was there for you - she knew what she was talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 12:11 AM |
| 3 | What Made you Decide to have Casual Sex and How did it make you Feel?When I was super young the guy I lived with kept accusing me of cheating when I wasn’t, he turned out to be emotionally abusive when he drank too…so I wasn’t all that into him. About year number 3 I was so sick of being accused and many other things, I went ahead and messed around. That didn’t do anything for me but cause more problems but I was just so tired of his shit! Of course we broke up, after that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 05:56 AM |
| 4 | What Made you Decide to have Casual Sex and How did it make you Feel?I did that once after drinking at a club - I was tipsy. Then I meant a REALLY hot guy and we were having a lot of fun dancing, then we started making out on the dance floor. He was attracted to me too and it ended up at my apartment - I have never seen a guy that looked that hot before or since…every inch of him. Super muscular, great dancer, great kisser! I mean how could I resist? I still can’t believe it happened. But unfortunately it was just sexual and just one night but damn what a night! … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesIt’s all about knowing what you want and deciding what’s fair for both parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 07:24 AM |
| -1 | Young women are dating the same terrible menThey’ll get their karma sooner or later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 05:02 AM |
| 2 | why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral?Single parents who have love for their children (and sobriety) and resources from extended families do fine (except the stigma the mom feels from societal shame which can be brutal). The child has only known the situation so doesn’t suffer. In fact, the guilt the parent(s) feel causes them to overcompensate with singular attention on that child. The problem lies in the long term stresses which many people feel from work, mental health, and rocky relationships. Many extremely happy and highly suc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 08:26 PM |
| 2 | why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral?And especially if the man is married! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral?Men create sluts by pressuring young women into sex without wanting a long-term relationship, thus destroying her self-esteem and shaming her afterwards, so she feels so devalued she continues to act out in slutty ways due to trauma while sometimes getting involved in drugs and alcohol to numb the pain. If men could be more Christian, there would be way less sluts to hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 07:08 PM |
| 6 | Women are emotional geniuses—and most men are stuck pretending not to feelI was a single mom who wasn’t being very smart and had sex with a man who didn’t want to use a condom but didn’t want a baby either. Of course I got pregnant, I had my baby and we both cared very much and provided very well for him. I wanted the help but I did get the short end of the stick because we didn’t live together or get married, it was all crazy stressful. My son is kind, educated, and married. He became what I couldn’t due to previous traumas and some mental health issues. I am trying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Why don't men want to date single moms?I raised my son as a single mom but his dad would happily take him whenever I wanted a weekend away or a week away on vacation. People who are compassionate can work situations out. We all should ask for what we want & need, and to learn from mistakes as well. Most people are so selfish that they can’t see past their noses. Your values should determine if you’re compatible or not. People can change both for the good and the bad. I had more vacations when raising my son than I did before he was b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Madonna/Whore: the male dual mating strategy, and how women can protect themselves from male resentmentMy first sexual experience was at 15 when I found myself with a guy 3 yrs. older and I told him to stop but he did not. Then he said how he just loved taking a women’s “cherry”. I was a virgin. The experience traumatized me and unfortunately I eventually found myself acting out due to very low self-esteem and went down a destructive path. Some men have the power to screw up a woman’s head regardless of what she says or does. It’s honestly sad and disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 10:20 PM |
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