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They already do. Notice their behaviour around the men they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:23 PM
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We know. It is not complicated. We already know who they want. We are just frustrated about the default social facade and replies like "its yiur personality." If your unattractive your being settled for period. Its better to die alone and unattractive than to be settled for. That what my brethren needs to realise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:14 PM
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Again those women make it easy but end up getting taking advantage for it all the time Maybe. But thats what they choose. Alot of times they want the same thing. Something casual. Ive also noticed they would rather have casual flings with attractive men than settle for average to below average. Which is fine. Even men have casual sex with women they dont really want. Below average to average guys are getting no action at all whatsoever, which is nature. That is normal. This comment is about thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:38 AM
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If you see how easy women make it for guys they truly desire, you will never chase a woman ever again. Couldn't have said it any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:24 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:11 AM
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Competition doesn't mean stepping over others. It means outperforming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:30 AM
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If being attractive means stepping over others, dealing them undue damage, as opposed to making yourself more competent, thank goodness i am ugly. Physically and otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:31 AM
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I've stopped caring about it too for the most part. Sometimes i do yearn but it goes away quickly. I too used to get frustrated about seeing better men having that attention from women.. and honestly why wouldn't they? Why would those men not have attention and i would? I never really had anything to offer/provide/give anyway. As the time passes by i become more and more fine with it. However unlike you, I have had friendships with people of all walks of life.. I have friends who get laid like c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:08 PM
3

Yes. Sleep around to my hearts content. Only then think of something stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:48 PM
0

Social skills are pretty much useless without looks, status and wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:34 AM
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I think the problem lies in the nature. Those specific traits that would make someone more alluring. And women being mere humans just fall prey to those traits. I dont think it's an active decision they make. Just like how men too find a few specific traits attractive but the only difference is that men don't shy away from dropping their standards down a few notches to get laid whereas women seek out the top tier men. Is it detrimental to everyone? Yes. Can anything be done about it? Short of be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:40 AM
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There's no success in relationship without looks, status or wealth. Social skills are pretty much worthless without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:12 AM
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I am not seeking relationships or anything actually since Women are never interested in me romantically/sexually. But if I was, seeking relationships and women were welcoming of my advances, yes I'd tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:04 AM
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I'll stray if I get the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:01 AM
3

No. Three major reasons- 1. if the child looks anything like me, it's going to be very rough on him/her. 2. It's extremely competitive out there, bound to get worse, not everyone us going to do well. Why would anyone in their right minds subject a poor soul to such torture 3. I personally don't think I am fit to father a child. Infact I don't think I am going to be a good husband either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:27 PM
7

This man gets it. This man is living his dating life to the fullest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:48 AM
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The guys near the floor aren’t counted in the dating pool. So the “bar” is really “can Chad wash himself regularly, keep a job, and clean his place before I come over?” Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:14 AM
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Yep. And tbh, people want what other people want. He might even spark some curiosity in woman A as to how is this man A seeing a woman.. there must be something about him. Alot of times just the curiosity is enough for a "spark"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:40 PM
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My motto- why waste time on 7-10s when you're already getting rejected by 1-6s ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:45 AM
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Plenty of fit but ugly guys out there. Plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:04 AM
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I just got flashbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:02 AM
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Nope. There is a pretty big population of LDS men at my gym and they are fit and objectively attractive, Attractive also means being tall and having a good face. Ugly guys can be fit. Doesn't make a difference. find men who show attraction towards me in the absence of reciprocation particularly repellent, and they are bad for that. Very pushy. As would anyone. But mostly it's the ugly unattractive guy. There is no zone. There are orbiters who think they can manipulate a relationship out of a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:13 PM
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Soiling someone’s loins? I am trying to be fancy with words. Maybe men should focus on getting unstuck? The only way men get unstuck here is to walk away from the friendship. I fully endorse men walking away from friendships where the guy develops feelings he knows won't be returned. If he was attractive perhaps he'd have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:04 PM
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While that may be true with time... there is a certain level of initial physical attraction that is reserved for the genetically blessed. That is where the majority of men lose out. seen plenty of examples where the guy was attractive with the women banging the same drum of "not attractive to me" and then ended up banging the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:02 PM
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If someone was a perfect package.. he wouldn't be in the friendzone.. he'd be soiling someone else's loins instead. You know why men in the friendzone complaint about being in the friendzone ? Because most of the time the woman is dating/seeing/being with someone else while the man's life is stuck. Because even if he wanted to...he knows it will be the same story of rejection with someone else all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:54 PM
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He really was attractive, there would be sexual attraction. Initially atleast. Yes I agree with time it can fade. But the guys in the friendzone never get to the "with time" scenario. They don't even get to the "with"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:51 PM
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Lol. I wish people just stop putting this false facade of their "friends being objectively attractive but not attractive to me" resolution. I mean is it so wrong to acknowledge that attractive people are attractive ? I mean dear God. Being PC is one thing but going overboard with it by sugarcoating bs is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:50 PM
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Because the guy being friendzoned isn't attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:49 PM
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Usually because of the lack of options. If a woman wants to move on she knows she can get an attractive guy to sleep with within the hour if she wanted to. But its not the same for most men. The scarcity mindset is too real. Often times men continue being friends even when the friendship become unbearable because of their feelings. But scarcity/scarcity mindset makes them remain friends because of hope that one day she will change her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:06 AM
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That is by being a toxic f boy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:29 AM
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I agree. I need to turn into a genuine toxic f-boy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:13 PM
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Because of no luck with women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:11 PM
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So.. try an be a real player of a f-boy. This way we won't be fake. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:40 PM
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I dont get this.. if being a player makes women like you.. then why shouldn't men try to be/fake any of these personas? What's the worse that could happen? The facade would break and the man in question would have to end up yanking it like a monkey on a mango tree? Because if a guy has decided to step up and make these changes.. he's already been yanking it like a monkey on a mango tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:27 AM
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I'd think she's had her fun in life and wants stability now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:51 AM
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Finally a woman admitting about it. Fellas we have reached an understanding!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:32 AM
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Yes there is.. but people like us don't have much of a choice but to embrace it positively.. as opposed to sulking away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:58 PM
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money, looks, and status are things that women look for in choosing a mate, but they are not the only things they look for. Not the only thing they look for but essential nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:08 AM
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I've been looking into AI partners as well.... it could be the solution to my bouts of loneliness that I get sometimes. I really hope they work more in this field. Could help me get on with my life way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 01:23 AM
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You can avoid desperation.. you get used to it so any actions pertaining to that desperation are much better controlled and even suppressed. Despair however is just something you learn to live with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:46 AM
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I have chad traits.. never had a relationship or hookups because I just don't have chad face. Or chad height.. or chad anything. Chad at heart and soul. Unfortunately not in the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:34 PM
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So yes it does happen and no I doubt they’re very forthcoming about it. Oh they are very forthcoming with it. As a man, I can tell you they're more likely to be forthcoming with it. Or yes, it could be that he couldn’t find anyone who wanted a relationship with him. I do feel bad for anyone in this situation, but you don’t date someone because you feel bad for them. And as a man who represents and is a not so proud member of the "couldn't find anyone who wanted a relationship eith him" brethren,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:28 PM
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why* haven’t you by 30? Player? Social problems? Commitment issues? I think players would be forthcoming with their pasts and players usually are attractive enough to turn a few red flags green. And players usually have a few relationships. Players and commitment issues are synonymous. The majority of men who didn't by 30.. are the men who couldn't because women in general weren't interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:29 AM
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PREACH!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:12 AM
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Try fail, try, fail, try, fail and fail again. Hoping things to change which they probably won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:50 AM
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No other choice.. need to make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:23 PM
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Little easy on the life worth living.. but yeah.. mutual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:35 AM
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I've noticed that unless the man is attractive to a woman physically, the man in question never has a chance. If there is attraction but no interpersonal chemistry women would still try to test the waters as they should or keep things casual. This doesn't happen to most men. Men in general have no problem being the casual hookup. But majority of men don't get that chance either. There are plenty of examples out there where women tried to make something work because of physical attraction... and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:34 AM
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If you don't get your foot in the door.. you're not sealing the deal anyway. Most men don't have a fighting chance either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:27 AM
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I'd be super pissed if I was labeled relationship material/marriage material since I know being hookup material means you're exceptionally attractive to women. Unfortunately I am neither but still I'd be very pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:31 AM
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none of them would even think about being romantic with you because the end all be all with initiating any romance is looks. Finally someone said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:14 AM
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I have no romantic/dating prospects. Never had them, but I force myself to create a pseudo abundance mindset. Like "oh she rejected me.. no matter.. Plenty of other women to be rejected by in life lol." Gives a comical twist and gets easier to laugh at myself. Although, my interaction with women has plummeted to the ground over the last decade since there's only so much rejection a human being can endure so why have the possibility of being rejected if you never ask someone out anyway? Why possi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:05 AM
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Good plan. Doesn't always work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:57 AM
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friendship if they would so easily throw it away. No one's "easily" throwing the friendship away. No one's feeling very good about it. I assure you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:54 AM
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I share the same sentiment. No one should settle for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:49 AM
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I feel the same way... it is depressing to know that you're not even on the team.. its depressing to know you're not even qualified to be in the team
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:26 AM
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Friendly conversations are also usually at a minimum. Most of the interaction is strictly professional. And that is my long term social goal. To keep my interaction strictly professiona to avoid any possible crushes i may have. Stopped trying to meet new people... Even the women friends I did have, I severed ties with. Even a fair few male friends for that matter as alot of times meeting people through them can become unavoidable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:59 AM
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I sort of do.. as I don't consider myself to be a one woman man... but I do think I'll enjoy the time and company of different women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:56 PM
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how playing the field is a tougher task than commitment, Simple.. look at the number of men in exclusive relationships.. look at the number of men who are playing the field... you'll find how the former outnumber the latter.. players are a different league.. premium league if you will.... the desire of most women... LTR men are usually settled for because they have other stability markers.. the standards aren't exactly higher.. they're just arranged around and not to a very high extent... instea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:50 PM
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They tend to be that way.. yes... as they have options. I don't have options.. even I want to play the field as much as I can. I know it's impossible for someone who looks like me but I just cannot settle for anything less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:32 PM
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I steer clear of them. I know ain't no way in hell they're going to go for me when they're getting hit on by men who are far more superior, me approaching them ir trying to talk to them would make them uncomfortable and irksome. There's a place for everyone in the social order.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:24 PM
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Well to be fair, just because a man is a good man doesn't mean women would be interested in him.. a man needs to be alot more. And often women know what they're getting into and they are enjoying it... so they aren't being used up. But yes... complain about not being able to find a decent guy is as real as day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:01 AM
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Truth is women love confident man Provided the man has the looks and other attributes to be confident about otherwise the man is just a snob. so women love promiscuous men and will not even look at shy men who are loyal and will give them everything. It's mostly just about attraction. They won't think twice about boning a guy who's shy and reserved but looks like Ryan gosling had sex with channing Tatum. But can we blame them? The men who have the option to sleep around with different women woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 06:45 AM
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Lol. Is it though? Men pride themselves in HOW MANH women they lay... women pride themselves in WHO is the man they lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:37 AM
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Oh they are very much attracted to promiscuous men. Infact from what I've learned alot if women would pride themselves in "locking" a promiscuous man down. You're right, these men have something that enables them to be promiscuous. These men are attractive. They just don't like the fact that the promiscuous man they want doesn't want much to do with them outside the bedroom in majority of the cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:20 AM
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It isn't frowned upon in some cases.... I think women find it flattering if an attractive man is approaching them as opposed to man who's not attractive. Regardless of the woman being interested or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:08 AM
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if you're single by then you suck at relationships. Sucking at relationships would imply you were in relationships... a better term would be "lost the genetic lottery and didn't even get a consolation prize."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:49 AM
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False, men's dating struggles are because most men aren't 6 ft and good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:08 AM
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even the men who can't get laid are happy with a high sex drive As a man who can't get laid but has a high sex drive, we are not happy. Would we rather get laid than reducing our sex drive ? Yes. But someone who's asking/talking about high/low libido has accepted the fact that fate had not blessed him with worthy genetics. would be hell because these women would not be attracted to them We are already in hell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:47 AM
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Most unattractive men (which are most men) don't mind reducing their libido. Infact, alot of them.. including me wouldn't mind killing it all together. What you are referring to, are the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:27 AM
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My dating life never began.. but I am curious to know what experiences did others have
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:29 PM
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No it isn't. Sure couples where the guy is the ugly one may exist.. the girl has had her fair share of past experiences where the guy is just happy to be involved with someone finally.... a recipe for disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:40 AM
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Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:38 AM
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As a guy, if you're not tall and good looking, don't even bother trying to date or getting some action. You will be rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:30 PM
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either be an 8/10 kind of guy as a bare minimum or you're done... Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:29 PM
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Only busted chicks are hooking up with ugly dudes lol As a member of the ugly dudes community, I would take this opportunity to call nonsense to this statement as it has been statistically observed that the member of the top 10 percent chad communities are frequently approaching the member of the not so appealing women community for casual sex and the ladies have the option here to sleep with chads as well. Ain't no woman sleeping with the ugly dudes. Respectfully, ugly dudes representative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:17 AM
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No they aren't. They only know the woman's perspective of selection.. not a man's perspective of competition. Doesn't matter what you do, when a tall good looking guy shows up in her life, she'll go for him. And I know it for a fact that most men here have also noticed how alot of women say they want a certain kind of man but they end up going for someone completely different. There is no set of guidelines for attraction... womanizer,cheaters, manipulators are physically and/or otherwise attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:48 AM
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Yes. I tried putting myself out there. No woman has ever found me attractive. So I've just stopped trying. I always knew I am on the ugly end of the attractiveness scale, that coupled with being dark skinned (where I am from a lighter skin is considered beautiful) and being short to average height, I dont have anything that would make me attractive to women. With time I get better at dealing with it, have my lows now and then but it's fine, it's just the cards I am dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:57 AM
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they’re shit outta luck That we are. they’ve hit a dead end That we have. will just have to find other purposes in life That we eventually realise and try to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:24 PM
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make themselves desirable? That is not possible. The average man is not born with good looks or a height above 6 feet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:10 PM
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Personally, for me, I've put myself out there plenty, but I've been rejected everytime. And I never even went for a 10/10 Margot robbie... my tastes have statistically been between Amy Schumer and Sarah Silverman range if attractiveness even though I've shot for lower most of the times. Maybe once in my life I have tried for an objectively cure girl.... perfectly out of my league... we werent even playing the same sport.... once... cant blame me for trying. But I know how that was going to go so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:24 AM
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Ergo.. the top 5-20 percent men are wanted by all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:20 PM
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With age, men learn to live with it. I used to be bitter about it too.. still am.. but I know it's not women's fault. Nature is a fickle bitch. So are genetics. With time everyone comes to term with the lack of good genes in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:08 PM
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A potential guy friend Miss me with that pathetic shit. Been a guy friend enough times.. completely platonic... no other motives.. not going to do that again.. if you're friends with a few women people start seeing you in a platonic light and consider your the "safe (boring/non sexual) option" to hell with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:24 AM
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If it’s just sexual tension, you’re a fuck boy. You might sometimes get laid, but you’ll never get a relationship And the downside is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:17 AM
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Wouldn't want anyone settling for me. Ready to go it all alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:44 AM
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To each their own.. if a woman wants to be promiscuous.. she can be promiscuous.. doesn't mean she's a red flag in a relationship.. atleats not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:20 AM
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I've met really good women who have hooked up and do that every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:32 AM
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Don't know. Don't care. As long as a man gets into a woman's pants. If it is going to be something casual, why care about who is a green flag or red?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:06 AM
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Men don't care about green flags and boring women when all we want is to get in a woman's pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:54 AM
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I doubt it's in reach for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:43 AM
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3-4/10. Don't have a good looking face, short height (175cm). Yeah that's pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:42 AM
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Most men don't need dating apps to know they are not sexually attractive. I didn't need it. My life experiences have been such even before the dating apps. Not sure about younger generation but people in their mid 20s and up knew it from their school days. And no, most men do not think they are more physically attractive than they are.. if that was the case this sub wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:29 AM
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Ofcourse they are picking who to sleep with, but sometimes they do pick the women who are not as good looking just because they are available. I havnt had the privilege to be in a position where I turn my nose up to a woman as usually they are the ones turning their nose up to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:40 AM
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Yeah. As someone from the wrong end of the attractiveness scale, I can vouch for the fact that it's sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:17 PM
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People can always find someone to hook up with but friendships are rare. I think it's usually the other way around.. people can find friendships easily.. hookups are rare.. atleast in the case of men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:15 PM
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As someone who's struggled and failed at dating/casual sex world miserably (no one's ever wanted me) this platform has given me a view of the masses.. about what other people think, do, speak.. their thought process when they're trying to navigate these waters..whereas my ship sunk at the harbor. I've realised that attraction isn't voluntary.. cannot be forced... attractive guys obviously get most women.. the 80/20 rule is alive and thriving no matter where you are... the "I don't date guys belo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:33 PM
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Do you mean it's hard to be close to someone you like but they see you as friend? Is it better if they are out of sight so you can get over it easier? Yes it is hard.. not always hard but sometimes you just like someone too damn much to fake being fine with whatever you have with them. Yes it is easier if they are out of sight. It's not particularly any easier since you miss them so much but yes.. its better if they are out of sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:24 AM
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Regardless of a guy wanting just sex or relationship, I don't think friendship is the best route for a guy if he's interested in a girl. I do agree with the points you make. I am just trying to state that, most men don't want to be the shoulder a woman cries on.. most men want to be the crotch that women cry over. But yes I do agree with you, you have to show someone you're more than a friend. But most men would still get rejected. And that's why I said it's better to be rejected than being frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:47 AM
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You know how, casual sex is for women? You know you can get it very easily as long as you put yourself out there but meaningful friendships and relationships are very difficult for a woman to get? Friendships are the same way for men. No guy out there put themselves on the forefront of the dating scene thinking "damn I really need a female friend." If a man wants friendship he knows he just have to socialise and be decent.. and bam.. friendzone. Casual sex and relationships are very hard to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:33 AM
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I second this. Fellas, to avoid being reduced to a friend or a brother, you must take necessary steps. This is the lowest, the most pathetic place a man can find himself in. Make your intentions very clear from the beginning so either she's interested or she isn't. If she isn't, leave her be. Don't be her friend. She maybe an amazing individual but don't be reduced to a friend when you Long for something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:26 AM
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Perhaps, but there are attractive men who don't want to be "taken" by anyone.. they are always on the lookout for new sexual encounters and to keep the old ones running every now and then.. there are men who are physically unattractive as well who don't want to be "taken" by anyone and are looking for casual sex... I know I am one of them, but men who look like me won't get casual sex or alot of times fail in daring as well because when there are good looking attractive men out there to sleep wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:16 AM
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sex itself isn't out of reach for the majority of men. But it is, there guys all over the attractiveness scale trying to sleep with women who are available. Almost everytime women choose the most attractive option available because they can
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:07 AM
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She should be alive and breathing, should be a biological woman (human female)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:07 AM
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Well.. yes... but if the high n woman puts herself out here enough... perhaps the chad that she really wants to be with would commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:10 PM
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I am a solid 3/10 in looks and height,etc. Don't have any experience. But even I won't commit to a woman because it is impossible for me to remain faithful to someone. Just because a guy is a ugly doesn't mean he is the safe option. Ugly guys want casual sex as well. I sure do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:49 AM
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They should technically go for whoever they want to go for. But it has been noticed most of the times when attractive men just want to scratch the old itch.. the standards drop to whoever is somewhat decent and is willing to sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:03 AM
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Not unless the men have experiences of their own. High body count women should go for high body count men, this will keep the balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:37 AM
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I am ugly too. But being below 6 feet doesn't really help my case either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:01 AM
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It is a well known fact that even average women are hit on by all sorts of men. Alot of these men are top tier as well who are looking for a casual sex arrangement as well. It is natural for women to select the best they can find. Average women may onky find an average guy to be in a relationship with that is IF she's willing to make that compromise... but she is not sleeping with an average man casually for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:53 PM
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Probably. I'll start with limb lenghtening and then work my way from there on out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:44 PM
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Average looking guys get laid every single day. I know you did not just say that. And if you did you don't really believe it. Average guts are not getting laid regularly or rarely or even at all. When women have top tier men hitting them up.. they won't choose an average guy to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:43 PM
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I dont know. Maybe by altering my physical appearance to fit the conventional attractiveness criteria.. that would be a start
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:25 AM
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Different people are into different things... I for instance, can not see myself being with one woman for the rest of my life so I prefer casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:59 AM
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I dont think an average looking guy could be very successful in getting casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:13 AM
1

Well... they beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:11 AM
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Because women do tend to settle for men less than what they deserve most of the times. Not everyone's going to end up with a 6 feet tall chad. Sooner or later viable options go down. That's is when sub standard men usually get paired up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:02 AM
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Yes. I wish I was asexual.. I wish I couldn't be sexually aroused or just inhibit the hormones that make me crave sex/physical intmacy. Perhaps in the future there could be some effective over the counter medication that could help me do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:49 PM
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As a 28 year old guy single guy (never been in a relationship) who last saw action 5 years ago and that was the first and only action I ever saw.. I do confirm there is alot of truth to it...but not how you think... there are times when women just don't want you or dont find you sexually attractive. Atleast in my case, I've put myself out there plenty, even had my female friends set me up with their friends, even with a good conversation they just didn't find me sexually attractive... which I un…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:42 AM
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Or.. not try at all? Save yourself and the woman alot of grief. Keep it casual of she's fine with it, no commitments. If she's unhappy with this then she can find another guy whenever she wants to and her past experiences won't bother you because you're not exclusive anyway. The guy doesn't have any resentment and finally ups his body count by one and the woman doesn't have to deal with a resentful partner. It's a win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:29 AM
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I dont think it could work like that.. the resentment would always be there. I would suggest more such men to not commit at all unless they really want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:47 PM
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I agree with this. It's not jealousy as much as it's resentment. Resentment of having missed out. If both parties involved have alot of experience then it never is an issue. I am someone who isn't experienced.. ive only been with one girl half a decade ago, but she had a lot of experience... I always felt jealous of it.. but I realised it's not jealousy as much as it's resentment of missing out. But I didn't have a choice. I want more experience but I cannot get it. To mitigate this men either n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:23 PM
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if you are short and ugly as you mention, you No you don't... no chance. But I would also ask my short and ugly brotherhood to somehow find a way to stop feeling the need to fraternize with women. I know it's difficult might be damn near impossible but we have to do what we have to do because we cannot keeping going through life in misery. Do I wish I could have casual sex/ be in and out of relationships just like a man that all women want? YES. Can I be that guy? Unfortunately not. So curse God…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:43 AM
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It is most men. Yes some who are unsuccessful don't know what to do and who to blame so they just blame women. But they don't realise that this is the natural order of things. Most men out there face rejections.. some more than others.. and alot of them everytime. Porn is probably the only release left.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:12 AM
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I'd say going out laughing or with a smile on your face is a life well spent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:37 PM
7

5'9 but that's besides the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:35 PM
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No amount of game offsets the short and ugly I have on me. Tried everything. Good plan but doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:34 PM
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Dozens..with an s. Plural. Multiple. And if you were unfortnate enough to be short and ugly, you'd be saying something completely different. Rejection? Everyone is rejected... one.. two.. three. A couple of times.. a few times.. but every freakin' time? No that's a sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:56 PM
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Most men have put themselves out there.. tried and tried again... dozens of times only to get rejected everytime. If it happens one too many times then you know this game isn't for you to play. Whatever women like, you just don't have it. It is only after this realization that men stop trying all together. I do speak for myself and other men like me because I've stopped too.. put myself out there plenty... but I always knew my looks and height held me back. I've been told I look funny and weird …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:01 AM
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We won't be able to dial them back down. There's an element social stigma that comes with dialing the standards back down among peers... everyone wants their new guy/fling/hookup/boyfriend to be better to be than the guy their friends are with.. if not equally as attractive or atleast meeting those conventional attractiveness criteria. And everyone knows how tough it can be for an avarage or below avergae man to navigate the world... they would want their kids to be above average as well.. above…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:36 AM
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women will only WANT a very small percentage Newsflash, they ALREADY ONLY WANT a very small percentage of men. But because of monogamy, women tend to settle for less than what is attractive. And since these Which is just disastrous. I would say they are doing every other sexless/hopeless guys a favor. A huge favor by already being vocal about what they want. Monogamy is not natural however it is good for us. But, if she doesn't have that raw carnal, primal desire for you, you're better off not b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:59 AM
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I agree.. it is what it is. And it's natural for them to be attracted to what they're attracted to. Most men do realise it but start rolling their eyes when women insist that attraction is based on their "personality" however it just so happens the guy is 6'3 and looks like a twin brother that's a love child of Chris hemsworth and channing Tatum. Sooner or later Most men do realise that they don't meet the attractiveness standards of whatever women find attractive and grow resentful. Some men re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:23 AM
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I did whatever I was supposed to do to go out and meet people, connect,etc. But then I am not blessed with good genes so it doesn't work. You get one too many rejections all the time everytime and you realise whatever it is that women want, you don't have it so it's pointless trying to put yourself out there constantly doesn't matter if you just want to look for some action or connection, you resort to the cheetos and video game. I wish I didn't buy into any of that "go out and meet someone" bul…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:21 AM
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If you reflect on the women that I've previously been interested in to have a good time with, the bar couldn't go any lower. I ain't no Adonis so I knew I cannot afford to have standards. But the women who are easy also regularly sleep with chads. Since they can have chads to have casual sex with, they won't choose me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:21 AM
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I actually do feel guilty. I know women are creeper out if an ugly man is attracted to them, when I was younger the "ewww..no" was not an uncommon phrase I would hear so I always made it a point to stay away. Last year I found myself hopelessly attracted to someone.. she was a good friend and a good woman... I could see her visibly creeped our and a little disgusted but bless her heart she didn't vocalise anything. I put some distance between me and her since. I always try to never catch feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:00 AM
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It's not easy for men to get sex. An average man is not getting sex easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:34 PM
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Never lied about my height. Not unless I get limb lengthening done.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:55 PM
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I see. I dont consider myself who would be curious to know about his roots but thank you. There are a few questions I always had about my people perhaps that would be a place to find those answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:13 AM
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Yeah but I don't know how to speak/read/understand Punjabi. Never stuck to my roots and growing up had a very cosmopolitan outlook in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:07 AM
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I think in their last moments most of his victims felt not fear or pain... they felt peace... except Peter Parker.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:13 AM
2

And not to mention, less people chosing to have children or even get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:08 AM
1

Thanos didn't kill anyone, they just vanished.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:07 AM
2

I live in delhi.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:52 AM
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I dont think my family believed in the entire caste fiasco since both of my parents came from very different origins.. religiously or otherwise. I dont know the caste stuff but I am Sikh (without the turban though). Everyone has a reliable internet connection these days thanks to cheap internet. And almost all the households have tall generation X.. the generation z is even taller. And at 5'9, I am actually shorter than the average height in my family since none of my cousins.. Including my brot…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:50 AM
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The thing is, thanos was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:13 PM
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We are in the majority among males. Together we shall dominate man kind eats a dorito, scratches neckbeard and sips mountain dew
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:56 PM
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I wish my people (indians) did the same.. too many of us around. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:53 PM
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How is that possible? Women never want me anyway. I don't meet their standards. Porn is the only outlet I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:40 AM
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Guy being short is unattractive. It's like they aren't attracted to you but they don't want you to be sad either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:19 AM
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who needs to "know you for some time " to even be able to tell if she's "attracted". All of this to finally hear "you are an amazing guy but... insert some pathetic excuse here but I really do think our friendship can be beautiful." No thank you mam, you don't owe me a hook up/relationship and I don't owe you a friendship either. To be reduced to a pathetic friend is so demeaning.. knowing you'll never amount to anything more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:23 PM
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I think they'll be more turned off if the guy in question never got any action whatsoever. The guy that no one ever wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:56 AM
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Most men will struggle to find someone as most women want chads. The top tier men are in demand are wanted for obvious reasons, most women do find someone to be with unlike men, but they're usually settling for less than what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:23 AM
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A man who's actually successful in being promiscuous is usually a man who is wanted by lots of women. Since 90 percent of men don't even have the options, nay, opportunity to be promiscuous, a guy like that is very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:56 PM
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I agree... I would do it too. I am already at 5'9.. I heard you can get like 7 inches taller than your current height.. I'd be happy being just 4 or 5 inches taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:00 AM
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Like I mentioned earlier, people define their own morals... a high body count for someone can be as equally disgusting as them paying for sex. As other may be indifferent to wither one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:01 PM
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If a woman expects her man to be fine with having a high body count she should be fine with her man's past of screwing around with prostitutes. Women know how hard it is for an average man to get sex, so men do resort to paying for it because we do have need. If we chose to have them met one way or the other in the past, well, the past shouldn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:31 AM
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It's not a right, but if two people are engaging in sex with consent, how is it ruling over others rights? Morally, sure some people would have a negative sentiment, but people define what is moral or amoral isn't exactly one size fits all.. religious people would consider casual hookups or one night stands amoral.. but people who engage in it or even alot of people who don't, do not consider it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:32 AM
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Lol. I have only had one that was 4 years ago. Average man has been sexless for a while. But then again I am below average so maybe you are right. However, I still don't consider prostitution a moral wrong. If it weren't for them, most men would remain sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:34 AM
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No it doesn't. But some people would consider it morally wrong but others will be indifferent to it. Personally I don't consider it a moral wrong. Some people will argue that it actually is. Most men can't get sex organically so they have no other choice to have their needs met.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:40 AM
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They just like men who are physically attractiveness. Guys who are not attractive cannot afford to act like douchebags.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:22 AM
4

Limb lenghtening here i come!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:17 AM
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I whole heartedly agree with this. There just is no option A
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:04 AM
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Yes. Although, I started liking one of them. But yes I have a few platonic friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:50 AM
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For the gage chunk of my life.. sexually desires by many people. But then for a minority remainder.. i will be more than happy for being sexually desire by one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:35 AM
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Could be anything. Even though girls thirst after Zac Efron, he's just 5'8. So perhaps that is a problem for his prospective partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:37 AM
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On behalf of the ugly guys, we don't socialise or meet women as much as your generic good looking guy because of our past experiences being negative. We try to avoid meeting new people... we try to avoid meeting new women the most because we don't want to put ourselves through the cycle of possible liking someone and getting rejected again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:10 AM
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And we stand by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:15 AM
1

To be fair, women settle alot more than men. But it's still sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:58 PM
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Height isn't the only reason. But it's among the top 3. Tbh, the girls I liked were all shorter than me.. no one crossing the 5'4" mark.. a 5'3 girl told me that she's almost as tall as me so she can't date me. I don't know how a 6 inch difference is almost as tall but then again who am I to question someone's perception..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:58 PM
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My 5'9 @ss can't get ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:08 PM
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The world needs more women like you. Don't drop your crown, empress. 👸
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:06 PM
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Lady... you're all that and a bag of chips with barbecue sprinkles... bless your heart times 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:40 PM
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Bless your heart lady. You've made my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:29 PM
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Well as someone who doesn't meet the dating standard/preference that persist these days... its a coping mechanism. It helps the feeling of crippling hopelessness. Sincerely- 5'9 manlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:16 PM
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I agree with this. I don't want anyone "settling" for me. No mam. You may go about look for your 6'2" handsome prince. Please leave my ugly 5'9 @ss alone. Settling is unfair for all the parties involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:58 PM
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I am depressed because I "can't get ass" Why am I laughing at this so much. I can't get ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:56 PM
1

How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:51 PM
2

Yes. I've noticed most women regardless of what they look like are extroverted. But yes more often than not attractive women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:44 AM
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I think most men would be fine with the girl having a similar body count. The people who call women out on having a high body count are the one's who are insecure about their own. Can't deal with women enjoying their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:08 AM
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Conservative? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:25 PM
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People who are casual about sex and guys who are attractive and casual about sex get laid more often. I am casual about sex.. but I am below average. So ain't no sunshine here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:42 PM
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It's not like they're treated harshly, thankfully being PC is the in thing to be these days.. so there's very little apparent discrimination. But an ugly guy just can't make a move on someone with he Intent to date/lay. Then he will be ridiculed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:38 AM
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I've tried.. but they don't want me either. No I wasn't attracted to them at all but I figured maybe if I get to know them i will be... a couple of them ghosted me.... and I actually found myself slightly attracted to one... she told me I am almost her height so I am too short for her ( she was 5'3") and I am 5'9". She had hooked up with very good looking guys in the past.. I actually happened to know one such guy.. and all of her exes (24 from what i remembered) were tall... I dont know what sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:27 AM
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