UnhappyGeneral Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	"I slept with a kid but it's totally my ex's fault, don't send me to jail" When I was 23 y.o. I was dating/had a sexual relationship with a 15 y.o. (it's legal where it was taking place), and we're good friends to this day. Yeah, I had to be extra careful to not hurt her. But I honestly don't think that an average 16 y.o. would do any better job, more like the opposite.	/r/PussyPass	20/06/21 09:33 PM
1	"I slept with a kid but it's totally my ex's fault, don't send me to jail" What country are you from? In Argentina it's 13. In the rest of South America it's 14. In many European countries it's 14 (and it's 15 in many others where it's not 14). Just chill	/r/PussyPass	20/06/21 07:39 PM
2	Feminist card also failed > is it sexual or not? I don't know. But society will have to come to a conclusion on that. I mean, you don't need society to explain to you what is sexual and what is not, but there is a mnemonic foot massage rule from Pulp Fiction.	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/03/21 11:44 AM
18	Feminist card also failed Americans are so prude by European standards	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/03/21 11:31 AM
2	When you kick someone I miss Brazil	/r/PussyPassDenied	08/11/20 12:10 PM
-5	Don't talk about fight club. Learning how to fight is not the same thing as to choose who to fight against. I don't care who you are. Assume I'm an Eastern European too. People have factually incorrect stereotypes about their societies all the time, or associate incorrect labels (like traditionalism) with what they actually see. And no wonder why some eastern europeans may be confused a bit more than others about who they are, after all these years of socialistic (and then religious) propaganda. Look at sociology and how pe…	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/20 03:47 PM
5	Don't talk about fight club. > your life should be all about being the patriarch for a great family Rule 2: No moralizing. You're just diluting TRP to the state of a contradictory spiritual teaching. TRP is not about teaching others what their life should be about. It's about proposing your observations and arguments and not about preaching. And you don't have to say "we". Your argument isn't becoming weaker if you refer to yourself in singular. Ultimately, if it's an argument and not an appeal to authority you don't have t…	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/20 03:22 PM
-5	Don't talk about fight club. Since when the Red Pill has a "position" on women? The Red Pill is about men's strategy, not about moralizing how women are supposed to behave. Not mentioning the fact that the Eastern European society is not as traditional as you may think (see divorce rates, abortion rates, female labor force participation rates etc).	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/20 02:51 PM
2	Don't talk about fight club. Rule 8: Do not address the community with imperatives. The issue is that to her, TRP does not look like a fight club. It looks like a club of anonymous guys looking for a parental figure, and self-proclaimed alphas teaching those desperate folks how to throat-fuck a girl. So no wonder why admitting visiting such a place wouldn't give you extra points. Reading TRP subs does not automatically make you TRP aware. And a beta that knows he is a beta may look better than a beta that publicly claims he…	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/20 10:15 AM
5	Being the Archetypal Alpha Male TL;DR: The girls will like you if you are fit and have resources. If you're not fit or if you don't have resources, the girls will like you less. Speaking of the rest, first of all, we don't know much about the tribal structures in hunter-gatherer era, all we have is bones to look at. Maybe there were nuclear families, maybe it was all polyamory and nobody knew which of the children were his. Also not sure where you draw the line, but I'd argue the female instincts had been being confused long b…	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/20 12:01 PM
1	Synthetic Masculinity The expression may have more specific meaning, but I understand this in the following way. If you want to become a real buddha (alpha), you shouldn't ultimately rely on authorities. If somebody tells you "I'm a buddha/alpha, and we alphas do that, follow me", he is just trying to distract you from your own path, never listen to them.	/r/TheRedPill	04/08/20 09:39 AM
0	Synthetic Masculinity if you ask those guys how they do it, they'll sincerely tell you that they're shit at so many things, because pretty much in any activity they do there are people better than them. If you meet the Buddha on the road, kill him.	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/20 09:33 PM
1	Synthetic Masculinity You (and everybody) have an ego, which is a story that you're constantly telling yourself about who you are. When two people interact, they check each others' psychological borders, attacking and defending, like the countries do: all the borders are a result of some war. So the borders are your frame. You can have a hugely inflated ego, sure. You can believe 100% into shit you're imagining, but if it's not real, one day you'll understand that and you'll suffer because of that. "Keeping frame" is…	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/20 09:14 PM
-2	Synthetic Masculinity Don't think about "what's an alpha", cause there are no alphas. Everybody is good at one thing and sucks at another. And yes, there are losers who suck at pretty much everything. And there are also generally happy people that nobody would call an alpha on this sub. A frame is not a take or an opinion on something. It's just a shortcut word for healthy psychological borders. "I'm an alpha now" is never a frame, it's always a comfortable illusion, like "I'm Napoleon". "You're just a poor fuck" is …	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/20 06:52 PM
18	Synthetic Masculinity I love how you started your post and how you felt better when being on nature. I don't quite like your attempt to conceptualize that. Did you feel great? Happy for you. Why do you need to put labels of "masculinity" or "alpha" to that? Let me tell you how your story seems from the outside perspective: an average western guy saved some money, went to a poor country where he finally could be considered rich, got some booze, smoked a cigarette, and felt that he is finally an alpha enough now.	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/20 01:04 PM
0	this is 2020 If there is only one way to meaningfully interpret what I said, what are you trying to clarify then? It's not like "A woman without her man is nothing" which meaning depends on punctuation.	/r/PussyPass	10/06/20 08:24 AM
-1	this is 2020 The whole /s culture is just ridiculous. It's like laughing at one's own jokes. Does /s turn a bad joke into a good joke? Or would /s make my little online personality look like a better person?	/r/PussyPass	10/06/20 07:54 AM
-9	this is 2020 oh that's actually not that bad. At least the black community is trying to solve the problems within themselves without blaming anybody outside.	/r/PussyPass	09/06/20 08:17 PM
1	the hypocrisy of women Ok I'd like to know a bit more about the free dinners part. What type of restaurants are we talking about? I mean, there are not that many restaurants out there that can tempt me with their free dinners. I don't need their pizza or burgers. So do guys go to expensive restaurants on the first date in order not to look cheap? Or is it more like girls are bored as fuck, so why not go with a guy who tries to look nice and is going to pay anyway?	/r/PussyPassDenied	16/05/20 12:43 PM
2	the hypocrisy of women It's not like I have a particular type of a situation or a problem. What I described were the first dates with different girls in Eastern Europe, yes. Last few years I live in Western Europe and I _never_ met a girl here that wouldn't insist on paying her part on the first dates. The general stereotype about Northern America in Europe I'd say is that it's super feminist, so I'm quite surprised to see that many american girls have the same mentality as Ukrainian ones. I like your cup-of-coffee st…	/r/PussyPassDenied	16/05/20 12:24 PM
1	the hypocrisy of women If you're in Ukraine and you're trying your chances on Tinder, then I'd say be ready for the scenario I described. This scenario is also not necessarily bad though, just something to be ready to deal with. She may also think that her part of the deal is to give you passionate blowjobs and cook you delicious borscht (which I tell you you want to try). Speaking of immigrants, there are many factors to keep in mind though. People mimic the behaviour of people that surround them, and immigrants mimi…	/r/PussyPassDenied	16/05/20 12:15 PM
74	the hypocrisy of women I'm not an American so please enlighten me on this. The waiter brings you a bill. What's happening next? In Ukraine I'll tell you what's happening. The waiter isn't asking if you want to split or not. She is putting the bill right in front of you. The girl is not making any movement to the bag/the wallet/whatever, just looks somewhere to the void. You're not even supposed to insist to pay for the whole thing. It's just what's expected. So you just do it. I didn't experiment in going off the scri…	/r/PussyPassDenied	15/05/20 10:55 PM
0	How Stripping Sparked my Conversion From BluePill to Redpill What makes an argument moralistic is not a preachy language of my grandma, but whether you can verify it or not. If I’m telling you to do (or not do) something or some irreversible damage will occur otherwise, I’m not offering you a toolbox. I’m offering you my system of values, my moral stand. The same with long-term happiness: you can’t really check in a reasonable amount of time if my tool works for you. At any moment I can tell you that you have to wait a bit more. I’m absolutely fine to tal…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/04/20 05:44 PM
35	How Stripping Sparked my Conversion From BluePill to Redpill > RPW is tactical in nature, not moral. > We take no position here on whether stripping is "bad". > We just tell you that it is usually bad for your long-term happiness. I find this the biggest contradiction in TRP (or RPW) ideology. You're still trying to reinvent morals, just making it sound a bit more scientific. When you say "if you want to find a good boyfriend, don't work in a strip club", it's tactical advice. No moral values are imposed on a listener. When you bringing long-term happines…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/04/20 09:17 AM
0	Equal rent? I think it gets complicated when you plan something bigger. Like, you're offered a good job in another city, so you decide to move there. So there is obviously some cost of relocation for both of you. Plus, she is probably going to be unemployed for some time. Are you going to act like it's all 100% on her cause it's her decision to move with you? Or is she going to act like it's 100% your responsibility to make her relocation smooth as she is doing it for you?	/r/PussyPassDenied	31/03/20 04:33 PM
40	Equal rent? I'd be happy too if my girlfriend satisfied the expectations of somebody from the Internet.	/r/PussyPassDenied	31/03/20 11:33 AM
2	Here's Why Many PUA's End Up Miserable Some of them teach that Nightclubs Are Satanic Temples nowadays.	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/20 07:58 PM
4	Here's Why Many PUA's End Up Miserable Mindsets "she was hot but I had other shit to do" and "her pussy isn't that impressive" are a bit different, choose the former. Don't devaluate pussy unless you want to lower your libido.	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/20 07:56 PM
2	Here's Why Many PUA's End Up Miserable All you wrote can be applied to TRP.	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/20 07:36 PM
1	[FR] or mid-journey stock-take. Not sure which You're right. If you don't know what you want, you can't have a strategy by definition. I assume OP wanted to spice up his sex life with his wife, having some sort of validation from other women, but without breaking (his own) ethical rules. > You don’t go dancing and have a couple of drinks with a chick just to tell her sorry and go home when she wants a kiss. I think it depends on how you shape it. If things get too hot you can act innocent but friendly, and still stay flirtatious. You may pla…	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/12/19 04:08 AM
14	US Has Top Rate Of Single Mothers In The World I'm surprised by Russia, whats going on here? I thought they hated faminism or are there other factors? The biggest factor here is that the Soviet Union was a pretty feminist state. The Soviet Union was the first country to legalize abortions, to put women to the workplace, to give women the right to vote. They even wanted to get rid of the institution of marriage in 1920s at all. International Women's Day is still official holiday in pretty much all former soviet countries. So even though they …	/r/TheRedPill	15/12/19 04:12 PM
2	People don't respect you if you are unnecessarily nice to them. Applicable to both genders; an example. > had I observed that that's just how he is, I wouldn't have minded it at all. > It was his complete opposite behavior with others that made me realize that it's time to draw some boundaries! I see a problem here. His behavior with others has nothing to do with _your_ personal boundaries.	/r/TheRedPill	17/10/19 02:52 PM
25	People don't respect you if you are unnecessarily nice to them. Applicable to both genders; an example. "Don't be unnecessarily nice" is pretty vague advice. If you're nice and friendly you may potentially more interesting people that are (sometimes unexpectedly) nice and friendly to you in return. If you're dry and straightforward you're probably going to avoid more assholes though. It's "approach motivation" vs "avoidance motivation" and it has nothing to do with (self-)respect. I think there are different kinds of respect. One kind of respect is the one from pupil to master. Unless you're reall…	/r/TheRedPill	17/10/19 02:00 PM
3	I created a post on a subreddit and I got banned for "being red pill" In its core, The Red Pill is basically evolutionary psychology applied to gender dynamics. It's acknowledging that there are evolutionary reasons why men and women are different and why their sexual strategies are different too. A big part of this community gets quite emotional about this knowledge though, and, rather than seeking truth and deciding what to do with that themselves, tends to seek moral authority and guide to living from self-proclaimed alphas. This makes The Red Pill look like id…	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/19 04:31 PM