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I think female as a descriptive term is fine, e.g. "a female staff member". But hearing someone referred to as "a female" is usually quite grating to me.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 03:08 AM
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OP it really sounds like you've just had one bad experience here, that understandably hurt. But I think you need to look at it that way, as just one person who didn't treat you well, rather than extrapolating it to any possible relationship you might have in the future. If you put it in perspective it's just one crappy dating experience. Most of us have at least one or more of those before we find the right person, unfortunately dating isn't always fun. The trick is to feel what you feel when th…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 02:22 PM
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Your response was good and might help someone else reading this sub!
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 03:04 PM
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You're only 16, you have so much time. You can still pursue your dream, and any other dream you have, so don't give up. You also have so much time to meet all sorts of different people, including people who you will feel comfortable around. You have lots of time to find yourself and work out who you are. 16 can be a difficult age because a lot of people are still trying to work out who they are and how they fit into society at that age. It honestly is a really weird time. One very important ques…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 02:49 PM
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By 'early on' I mean ask on the first or second date (or even before meeting in person if you've met them through an app), and don't take it any further if they're not in the mindset of wanting to meet someone for a long term relationship.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/19 12:00 PM
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OP, just ask them. Ask them what type of relationship they're looking for, and what they want for their future. If they say they're looking for something long term, then great. If they don't know or "just want to see what happens", then move on. If they get scared off by the question then that's also great, because you won't waste time on them. If this means you're rejecting a lot of potential guys that's completely fine, because you only need to find one right person for you.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/19 03:20 AM
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I want to second this, OP should ask them really early on what type of relationship they are looking for and what their goals are. That doesn't mean they have to commit to marry her, it can just be posed as a general question.. but she needs to know that they're looking for a long term relationship, should things develop between them. And if asking that question scares them off because it's "too intense", great! They weren't looking for the same thing anyway, and OP will save a lot of time.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/19 03:14 AM
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😂
/r/ExRedPill18/12/19 01:01 PM
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For context I'm female. I read some of his blog posts years ago and thought they were awful, and basically stayed away from him after that. So I was surprised last Christmas when everyone was reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, and that it had such wide popularity. My dad had a copy so I read it, and although I didn't find it ground breaking it certainly contained some solid advice. Then I heard him speaking on a podcast, and my opinion of him went way up. He had a lot of really sensibl…
/r/ExRedPill01/12/19 02:29 AM
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Hi OP, I just want to jump in here to wish you all the best, and also point out that from your post it's clear that you have a lot of positive qualities. You express yourself really well, you're obviously intelligent, and you're willing to take responsibility for your actions and the direction of your life. Those are all really good things. Thanks for sharing your story.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/19 12:26 PM
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Women have done lots of things for which they were denied credit, or only credited with much later. One example that comes to mind is Rosalind Franklin and her contributions to the discovery of the structure of DNA. Indeed there are many "missing" women scientists who have achieved significant things but are not written about on platforms like Wikipedia (and I believe there are people working to fix this). Frequently throughout history women were denied the opportunity to even participate in aca…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/19 06:58 PM
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In that case then, although it hurts it's probably for the best, it doesn't sound like the sort of person you want to be around. The best relationships are the ones in which both people are up front about their feelings and what they want, and don't play games. It's definitely possible to find that, but it can take time. All the best.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/19 08:56 AM
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If you're interested in someone and it's not reciprocated, keeping your distance from them for a while is a pretty normal and healthy thing to do. It gives you a chance to get over things, prevents you having to force yourself into an awkward social situation, and chances are they appreciate the space too. When everyone's over it all, you can work on developing the friendship again, but sometimes that takes quite a while. If this girl intentionally led you on then that's not the sort of person y…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/19 03:32 AM
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It could be compatibility, but it could also just be figuring out the right pace for the person you're with. Generally affection builds up over time, especially in the early stages. Some people take a while to get to that affectionate level you're after, and it might take a bit of trial and error to learn how to read the situation. Best of luck :)
/r/ExRedPill27/03/19 05:54 AM
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That sounds like a good course of action. All the best with everything :)
/r/ExRedPill04/03/19 04:00 AM
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Ok, glad to hear you're thinking about what you want and need as well, that's good. Maybe we're getting to the real issue here though. There's absolutely nothing to say that people with autism can't date and form relationships (and friendships for that matter), they can and do successfully. But chances are it's going to be a bit more difficult. Have you been formally diagnosed with autism? If so, are you getting any support for it? If not, this might be the place to start. And do you let your da…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/19 03:43 AM
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Saying "they're in it for the attention" is pretty unrealistic, like sure a few might be, but it's next to impossible that all 100 are. If you go in with this expectation it's probably not going to end well. People can pick up on this sort of negativity, and it's a huge turn off. It also suggests that you might be seeing women as being quite different to you, and not just seeing them as people looking for the same things you are. Do you have any female friends? If you don't have any (or many) fe…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/19 02:04 AM
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Make friends with some girls, but just be friends with them. Get to know what they love, hate, are scared of, what inspires them.. just really get to know them as people and appreciate that they're simply just humans.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/17 07:20 AM
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it's insane to debate with a person who doesn't think you're an individual human being because of your gender This statement is so true!
/r/ExRedPill25/03/16 12:03 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/16 11:54 AM
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