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Happy that you’re enjoying yourself. But in my experience yes it eventually does become a negative influence in your life. After say 10 yrs or more just chasing the high, and deliberately not trying to form meaningful long term relationships
/r/seduction25/10/23 08:31 AM
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You’ve already done more than most guys are willing to do then so be proud of yourself. DM me if you want some resources that may help you improve
/r/seduction04/11/22 12:49 AM
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It boggles my mind that anyone would bother to get protective over a girl who just cheated on them. I’d be more mad and disappointed in her than angry with the guy. He’s just being a guy
/r/seduction01/11/22 11:34 PM
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I never wait for an ioi to be honest. Some girls who like you are shy or just haven’t noticed you. And in one case I was working in the same building as this girl (different department) and would see her often. It seemed like she intentionally wouldn’t look at me. I just assumed she had absolutely no interest lol. So I never approached. But then one night I saw her out clubbing and approached and she was all over me. I asked her about it later, how I thought she had no interest and she said it w…
/r/seduction31/10/22 07:39 AM
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Stop jerking off. When you’ve abstained for a few days you’ll naturally act more dominant and eye contact is then easy to maintain
/r/seduction30/10/22 06:52 PM
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I’d go for ones that aren’t alive. Act like the lead of a 1950s, 60s or 70s movie and you’ll get a lot further
/r/seduction30/10/22 06:50 PM
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It’s because a lot of us who are more experienced have dealt with many many different scenarios to varying degrees of success and it is hard to narrow down specific advice that would work for every individual. We need more info about your situation, what you have achieved already, what game resources you have read already, and what you’re trying to achieve. Have you read any of the classic game books yet? Have you tried anything in them? What worked and what didn’t? I’m happy to try give advice …
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:52 AM
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Oh that’s not it, I’m happy to post some recommendations here. It’s just Ive read from a number of different resources over the years that suit different styles of game and was going to try give this guy something specific. Are you just starting out with game? I can make some recommendations based on what you’re looking for, but there are some classics for people just starting out
/r/seduction27/10/22 07:06 PM
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How old are you man? DM me if you like, I may be able to point you in the direction of material that could help
/r/seduction27/10/22 07:37 AM
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I dunno bro but the title made me lol
/r/seduction27/10/22 03:33 AM
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Yeah I get what you’re saying. It’s a tough one for me to advise on because I’m guilty of recommending beginners push it as much as they can, simply because they’re not as experienced at reading the situation to know how attracted she is. But I wouldn’t recommend doing something that you’re really against. But getting a kiss is a good marker man, I’d go for at least that. And as you say, keep going if the vibe is good and you’re comfortable. And yes I definitely think the sex is better with a bi…
/r/seduction27/10/22 03:13 AM
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It’s totally ok man. I was the same but forced myself to do that and eventually became “that guy” who tried to get sex right away every time. And often it worked. And I would end up disliking myself, and them, after the encounter. I realize that’s a fucked up view, but it is what it is. This is after years though, keep in mind. For the first few years I just felt like the man. So it may be like that for you. So I often go a bit slower now. I escalate to the point where there is attraction but it…
/r/seduction27/10/22 03:01 AM
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Yeah it got better in the sense that he started getting laid again but I think at that point in his life what he really wanted was to settle down with one nice girl. But unfortunately some guys do just get treated like sex objects when they don’t look like the type to introduce to the folks haha. He moved to another city and we lost contact but I hope he ended up finding what he was looking for
/r/seduction27/10/22 02:54 AM
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This is a good point. I used to know a Hungarian guy who came to the west and struggled to get a date despite being very good looking. He was ten years older than me but was asking me for advice because I knew the way things worked better in my country. He was slightly above average height, extremely ripped and muscular and tattooed. Looked kind of like a Mexican gangster so kinda scary haha But he would match with these girls on apps and then ask if they wanted to go for a walk in the park. I w…
/r/seduction27/10/22 02:39 AM
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It works because you get in the zone, you build up a sort of social momentum. The odds go up the more you do it. And I don’t just mean because it’s a numbers game. I mean each subsequent approach becomes more likely to be successful because you’ve greased the wheels with the previous approach. Positive feedback loop. I haven’t cold approached for a few months now but did it religiously for years prior
/r/seduction27/10/22 02:32 AM
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While I doubt you’re doing that, you have to admit it happens a whole lot on reddit. For those people I guess it’s a dopamine rush
/r/seduction27/10/22 12:51 AM
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Lol imagine how much more it would hurt the other guy to find out there is a side guy
/r/seduction27/10/22 12:46 AM
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Physical escalation works for me, if done slowly. It all depends on the context of course. If you’re both in a bar sitting next to each other having a drink, putting your arm around her waist, or on her knee etc, should not be taken as an unwelcome move. You’re already there together, the subtext is that you’re attracted to one another even if no one says anything sexual. She wouldn’t have come on the date at all if she wasn’t into you. In fact I never do say anything sexual, but through increas…
/r/seduction26/10/22 09:14 PM
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That’s a good point about guys not talking. When I talk with guys who I suspect aren’t very experienced I make sure to tell stories about the times it went awful for me. Well actually I do that with most guys because my stories of failure are much funnier and more interesting than me bragging about the good times haha
/r/seduction26/10/22 07:08 PM
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You did the right thing by not saying you’re a virgin, because it really makes no difference and is only your business. It makes me laugh (but also feel sad) on the r/virgin sub where the guys are all feeling like their virginity is a crime they have to confess. I get that they think if they don’t say something, the girl is going to wonder why he wasn’t a super stud in bed… but guys who’ve had lots of sex still have shitty performances and especially with a new girl. And most girls know that, so…
/r/seduction26/10/22 03:37 AM
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I think this is a good thing to keep in mind when you have a bit of experience under your belt. But I wouldn’t give this advice to an absolute beginner. They don’t really know what a sexual vibe is exactly without some measurable targets. A kiss is a good one. If they get the kiss then they were definitely doing something right, so I think beginners should always aim for at least that. Once you’ve been in the game for a while though you can ratchet things up and down as much as you like and just…
/r/seduction26/10/22 03:33 AM
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I’m starting to feel there may be an opposite problem. I’m at a stage in life where I would like something serious but I practiced escalating fast for so many years that I think I give off a player vibe without trying. It gets me laid, but I feel like girls don’t trust me much after. Hard to explain
/r/seduction26/10/22 03:11 AM
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If you’re succeeding otherwise I wouldn’t worry about it. It suits some guys to be cracking jokes all the time and others should be sort of cool calm and collected. Just find what works
/r/seduction26/10/22 02:44 AM
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I don’t think he was recommending the guy call a girl brosky so you finding it cringe is kind of irrelevant
/r/seduction26/10/22 02:42 AM
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Bro, we’ve all just powered through those problems. Anyone who’s approached in those areas knows them. There is no solution but persistence
/r/seduction26/10/22 12:04 AM
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Exactly
/r/seduction26/10/22 12:04 AM
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I think it does in the short term if you’ve never had any success with women before. Being a late bloomer has a negative effect on your self worth and a few quick wins can reset that. But diminishing returns set in fast
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:41 PM
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Totally agree, slept with lots of women and nearly cheated on two girlfriends over a hoe phase lasting multiple years. I escaped with no STD’s, a slew of regrets and a realisation I was a fucking dickhead. I’m a better person now but I think I needed to go on my main character journey to get where I am now. Others may be the same way, but real confidence is the ability to not need to sleep with women for validation. I needed to get the fake confidence and validation to get to the real stuff.
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:40 PM
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Unfortunately the only surefire way is experience. I’ve gone from hero to zero and back again so many times that it all feels the same now haha. In the realms of seduction, whenever I get with my buddies we only talk about the times we fucked up, because it’s so much funnier. Over time you realise that learning game really is a game
/r/seduction24/10/22 09:31 PM
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I suspect it would work, I think anyone gets intrigued when the person they’re talking to alludes to something without giving the full story. You feel the need to ask more
/r/seduction24/10/22 05:24 AM
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Do you mean Asian women who were born in their home country? Or western women who have Asian parents? The approach will be different. Asian immigrants are more reserved than Asian girls born in the West. So I guess don’t be too over the top or make too many rude jokes (they likely won’t get a lot of your jokes anyway). Being nice and friendly and using largely physical escalation is the way to go when their is a language barrier. With Asian girls born in the West there should be no difference in…
/r/seduction24/10/22 01:30 AM
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Lucky guess slugger
/r/seduction23/10/22 08:36 PM
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Think of a bunch of interesting things about yourself and reframe them to be said in a way that is vague so she has to ask you what you mean. For example you do boxing so you follow up a comment she makes with “… well that’s better than a punch in the face, which I know from experience”. She may or may not “take the bait”, but if she does, she’ll likely ask “what do you mean” of if you’ve been in a fight. If she doesn’t, you drop more pieces of conversational bait until she does here something s…
/r/seduction23/10/22 08:33 PM
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I’m gonna repost a comment I made somewhere else because it seems relevant to your “can’t get out of interview mode” part: Watch Seinfeld. It may or may not be that funny to you, but the off the wall observations they make in the show in their conversations tend to be funny to most girls when you make the same observations in conversations. Your observations about societal trends, your pet peeves about people. Like “ it really annoys me how…” Done wrong it can feel and come across as negative an…
/r/seduction23/10/22 08:20 PM
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The fact that you “got with a fair few hot/ripped guys” proves ops point exactly
/r/seduction23/10/22 05:06 AM
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Which part of his comment objectifies women? Be specific
/r/seduction22/10/22 11:02 PM
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This is an insane cope. Do you know what sub you’re in? It’s to give seduction advice. Not to come in with useless insults
/r/seduction22/10/22 10:43 PM
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I don’t think “the relationship lasts longer when the guy is obsessed” is a popular opinion outside of early 2000s romcoms. This is a water is wet take
/r/seduction22/10/22 08:48 PM
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I don’t know if you meant to separate the “judge” and “mental” but it works well haha
/r/seduction22/10/22 04:00 AM
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This made me lol hard. I don’t actually have anything against Indian guys, they’re usually funny as hell with massive confidence, just zero game. I’m also 1/8 Indian (sorta makes me look Italian) so I feel I’m allowed to rip on my distant cousins a bit
/r/seduction21/10/22 09:15 PM
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Yeah I get this a lot too haha. I do have long eyelashes, maybe it’s that
/r/seduction21/10/22 09:13 PM
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Well done!
/r/seduction21/10/22 07:44 AM
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Yeah, I guess we’re pretty much in agreement. Though because I’m a prick who likes splitting hairs, I’ll make another comment/ask a question. If you believe that direct game saves time (in that it allows you find out right away whether she is physically attracted to you) why do you bother with indirect yourself? It seems that you believe there are only “Yes” and “No” girls and no “Maybe” girls. Is that correct? Do you think a girl can be on the fence about you (physically attracted but unsure fo…
/r/seduction20/10/22 08:33 PM
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My problem with direct game is that the guys who promote it think it’s faster than the indirect approach that “beat around the bush” and isn’t clear with your intentions. But it’s not. Telling her you think shes hot serves no purpose. She knows you do, because why else would you be talking to her. It’s a game, hence why it’s called “game”. The subtlety is what makes it fun. Once you tell her you think shes hot, you still have to have a conversation and make her see you as worth a date (even if y…
/r/seduction20/10/22 11:30 AM
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It is often the line. Girls have enough options that they’ll turn down a handsome guy because he acts like a spaz or an Indian in her dms
/r/seduction20/10/22 10:42 AM
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This is true, I know because it was (and still is to an extent) me. I’m working on it. For beginners, just know that while improving your seduction skills is absolutely worthwhile, it does change you. Spending 5-10 yrs continuously trying to get more girls changed me in more ways than I could have guessed, many of them not good. Balance is the key
/r/seduction20/10/22 01:14 AM
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You have to do it a number of times before they "take the bait" and start to respond to your observations
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:52 PM
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Yes fucking some random bimbo isn’t an accomplishment. And you can’t even do that. Kys
/r/seduction19/10/22 08:09 AM
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I have this same issue. If I find a solution I'll let you know lol
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:57 AM
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Ah. Dissing Mystery is all anyone needs to know bro. The game has advanced way beyond him, that's true, but you don't diss the OGs. Enjoy your games bro. But don't play too much, or you'll still be in school at 40!
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:54 AM
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Go watch some comedians or something man, this is like anticomedy
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:43 AM
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Ok, not scared, but they keep telling you they have bfs, as per your post. Keep coping Why would I show you anything? There is nothing to prove because getting laid isn't impressive. This is literally the seduction sub. The one you keep saying you're too good for, remember? Noone here is impressed by someone getting laid Why am I wasting my time? It's amusing. And you're here too bro, so what does that say? I come to read interesting field reports and give advice when people want it. Are you jus…
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:38 AM
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Degrees aren't hard to get when you're not a brainlet, so yeah, you can fit some conversations in between hitting the books This is r/seduction, not r/powerlifting bro. Noone cares about your personal bests. My assumptions are based on 5 replies revealing you as a low grade troll. Provide evidence to contrary and people will change their minds, just fucking lol "Butt ugly girls, I'm 95% sure". As a post 30 yr old still in college, I'm not sure you're 95% sure of anything. You think you're sure b…
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:16 AM
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Ok old man. Sorry 20 yr olds don’t like you. Good luck with your studies. But don’t hang out here talking shit about “true seduction” when you don’t have your shit sorted. We’ve all had bangs in a day and bangs in 2 weeks. What the actual fuck are you even talking about. Go cope over your misspent youth somewhere else. “wahhh I wasn’t the jock! And now the girls still don’t like me! But I’m gonna hold out for a good girl who waits weeks to put out!” The question remains... if you were getting la…
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:49 AM
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I just told you I’m almost thirty. You must be fucking ancient if that’s young. And if you’re still in college at that age then you’re a brainlet. Two weeks is too long to impress anyone, you must know that bro
/r/seduction19/10/22 05:55 AM
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While I’m my short time here after a years long hiatus I have found RedditsOlderBrah’s comments extremely cringe and bad advice, I think in this instance he just means don’t expect results quickly. Still go after them, but don’t expect to be Chad overnight
/r/seduction19/10/22 05:09 AM
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Mr super slayer needs two weeks to find a girl who doesn’t pretend to have a bf
/r/seduction19/10/22 02:39 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction19/10/22 02:38 AM
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Ah ok you’re trolling. Funny. In any case, if coffee shops are easy mode then go there. What do you want anyone to say? You came for advice from “amateurs”. What? No one knows what you’re talking about because you keep contradicting yourself. You’re a super player but you need advice from “amateurs”. You want new places to hit on girls but can’t pry your eyes from the books for a few hours to do it, and apparently neither can they. If you wanted you’d have a gf, so you don’t want it but “please …
/r/seduction19/10/22 02:27 AM
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It is exactly this simple… when you’ve done it a lot. Fear makes people awkward. So this “advice” is like saying “don’t be nervous, just go up and be chill and normal” when someone is afraid of giving a speech. It’s not that helpful
/r/seduction19/10/22 12:49 AM
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Having spent the first decade of my pickup life not on apps, then trying apps more recently, I can make a bit of a comparison. Cold approach pickup is more labor intensive (obviously), walking the streets, finding girls you like, getting the energy and balls up to approach, maintaining interesting verbal conversation and going for the number. It’s taxing, way more than apps lol. But the leads are very strong. If she chats to you for a few minutes and you get her number, the likelihood of sex and…
/r/seduction18/10/22 11:14 PM
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Ah ok I didn’t see all this “I’m better than everyone here” crap haha. If you can’t even get girls on a college campus it’s over. Literally the easiest time you’ll ever have. I’m nearly 30 and I wander into campuses and talk to girls. It’s like fish in a barrel bro. There are plenty who are just there to fuck around, it’s not like they’re all straight A students studying day in and day out and are too “focused on their studies” to talk to you. They’re watching YouTube and doing fuck all most of …
/r/seduction18/10/22 10:13 PM
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I would suggest going back to the bookstores and also art galleries, parks, supermarkets, malls etc. As you’ll already know these are labor intensive places to approach, but I always found the numbers I did get were much stronger and more likely to lead to dates, sex, relationships. Maybe because they were more impressed than if I’d approached them through the conventional methods of the bar, or my social circle, or on an app
/r/seduction18/10/22 08:53 PM
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Where are you meeting these girls? The attractive ones
/r/seduction18/10/22 08:46 PM
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No. I’m riffing off the guy before me who pointed out it’s usually the least attractive women who constantly claim they are getting all kinds of unwanted sexual attention
/r/seduction17/10/22 08:27 PM
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Exactly. They’re the same nutcases saying guys are doing driveby catcalls on them. Just fucking lol. Don’t flatter yourself
/r/seduction17/10/22 08:00 PM
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It’s funny to say not to use “seduction rules” and then proceed to give advice like everyone else in the seduction sub. Not trying to be a douche but what is actually wrong with having seduction rules of thumb in a sub that is for exactly that? Your advice to not be “super overbearing or anything like sending a ton of messages” is good advice and would make a great seduction rule
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:30 AM
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Sometimes but not much. Really kills the anticipation. Think of when you haven’t seen someone for a while and you get to catch up, if you hadn’t spoken for a while there is so much to talk about. Same for a first meetup. You don’t want to discuss everything over text when it’s so much better in person I see a lot of people saying you shouldn’t leave it too long without txting something. This is solved by not planning a date way in advance. Don’t leave someone hanging for like a week or two with …
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:06 AM
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It’s not useless. Real indirect game comes across as the cool guy with great social skills who just “made it happen” and got them into bed. Not the spazzy guy running up in the street telling her how he “just had to tell her she’s pretty and I’d like to get to know you” like in a YouTube prank vid
/r/seduction15/10/22 04:38 AM
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Cool bro. I had to learn, now it’s second nature, but I had to learn. As do many, that’s why they come to a subreddit called Seduction. To discuss how to do it better. Perhaps you got lost on your way to another sub?
/r/seduction15/10/22 04:35 AM
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This is key. It means you’ll always be able to slip into this chatty mode and it won’t feel like an act you put on only when you talk to pretty girls
/r/seduction14/10/22 11:28 AM
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This is literally the sub for seduction. “Just be yourself” is the kind of advice that you could get from your mother. If that was working he wouldn’t need to ask the question. Don’t get me wrong though, I don’t mean he should try to change his whole persona, but people need to acknowledge being more socially calibrated is a learnable skill. You wouldn’t say to anyone trying to learn any other skill like playing an instrument or flying a plane “just be yourself”. There are actual steps and techn…
/r/seduction14/10/22 02:39 AM
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That’s a good point yeah. I wasn’t really thinking about it in terms of her being put off because of the environment of the art gallery itself. I did have success with a girl in an art gallery who became my gf for a while so I guess I’m biased towards it working haha. As long as you’re not too loud I guess it would be fine
/r/seduction14/10/22 01:33 AM
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While I agree that there are superior methods than asking her questions (like making observations she can respond to) I think a girl who is so defensive that she’s put off by you asking a simple question probably is never going to convert to a number/date/bang anyway
/r/seduction14/10/22 12:13 AM
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Galleries are a fucking goldmine for conversation. Just ask what she thinks this or that painting means. Talk about why all modern artists seem to do abstract (is it just because they don’t have the talent to paint in a classic style?)
/r/seduction14/10/22 12:11 AM
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All the things you described about feeling approach and escalation anxiety are common for nearly all men. There have been entire books and many more blog posts written on those topics alone. It gets less and less with time. One of the ones men fear the most is when you think things are going well and then you go for a kiss mid date and she turns away. So humiliating for most men that videos of it happening are often in cringe compilations. When I see those now I just laugh, because I’ve been in …
/r/seduction14/10/22 12:03 AM
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It’s a classic for a reason. I think we can all agree a lot of the routines are a little outdated now but the core principles are sound. And it’s just a great fucking read. I started learning pickup in like 2012 and those guys were already legends then
/r/seduction13/10/22 11:38 PM
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Watch Seinfeld. It may or may not be that funny to you, but the off the wall observations they make in the show in their conversations tend to be funny to most girls when you make the same observations in conversations. Your observations about societal trends, your pet peeves about people. Like “ it really annoys me how…” Done wrong it can feel and come across as negative and complaining, but if you keep to trivial topics it’s usually funny. For example I was talking to a girl the other day how …
/r/seduction13/10/22 11:21 PM
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This should be so obvious. Do the people commenting in this thread know what sub they're in?
/r/seduction13/10/22 07:05 AM
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Hell yeah some vintage seduction material
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:52 AM
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That could be true. However if I am it does kind of prove that someone who is attractive won’t necessarily be getting obvious visual indicators of attraction from every girl, therefore it doesn’t make sense to pass up a chance to talk to a girl who isn’t giving you attention
/r/seduction13/10/22 12:09 AM
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Not true at all. Many times I (and I imagine many others here) have had success with girls who made no show of interest. And if you’re afraid of embarrassment the seduction game probably isn’t right for you
/r/seduction12/10/22 11:39 PM
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I used to frequent this sub many years ago (only ever as a lurker) and it was quite different. Everyone knew what you were talking about immediately without strange accusations lol
/r/seduction12/10/22 11:14 PM
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I’m amazed that in a sub specifically about seduction asking such a basic logistical question is being treated like a threat of rape and murder. Just fucking lol
/r/seduction12/10/22 10:48 PM
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