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Guys in relationships are probably told they are "nice" by their gf. For example "thanks you are so nice". see? context is key
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:16 PM
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Yes, women communicate better with the average man and woman. Bluepillers. Not TRP guys. TRP guys are the only ones having trouble with these words.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:23 PM
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The problem is TRP in general has a problem with understanding language, social cues and nuances. "Nice guy" has 2 meanings. One is actually being nice and the other is being a pushover. It was always clear to me that the meaning depends on the context. It's not that women don't know what they want. It's TRP guys who can't understand what women are saying. It's the same reason they ended up following TRP in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:11 PM
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The example of the advertising agency still applies. The agency is not asking how to sell the product, the agency is asking if the product and campaign is appeling to them. So the consumer's opinion is important. You can't ask the fish what they like because fish can't talk. You can also tell you've never had a conversation with a fisherman because if they could ask the fish what they like they absolutely would ask. see the difference? Your example about decorating the house also doesn't work. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:43 PM
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women talk though A more fitting example would be When an advertising agency wants to test a campaign that is appealing to a certain public they test it in a focus group of said public. Men saying women are fish is just misogyny since fish can't talk but women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:38 PM
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If fish could talk believe me every single fishermen would be asking them what's their favorite bait
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:21 PM
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Seinfeld is not boomer humor that's absolutely insane The guy might be a boomer but that's not what we are talking about. There's not a single episode where he talks bad about how nagging his wife is. He didn't even have a wife. None of them did. It was centered on dating, not "my wife is a nag" which is 50% of boomer humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:24 PM
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It was aired for the first time on those years you mention but then all channels repeated it throughout all of millennial childhood. Remember it was cable times, people rarely watched sitcoms when they aired, you were likely to see the reruns and the marathons. They showed it along with Friends and Two and a Half Men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:21 PM
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I took the time to repeat our conversation because you said I moved the goal post when actually I repeated myself, how is that not arguing in good faith? and then I added another example that proves my point if you are going to take things so personal maybe this isn't the place for you 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:34 PM
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I didn't move anything you (or someone) was saying "seinfeld is boomer humor" then you said oh buy jerry Seinfeld is a boomer I said it doesn't matter, what matters is who watched Seinfeld. then you said "but the show is old" so I repeated the same as before "YoU MoVed The GoAl PosT" 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Now, tell me, are Kids show made by kids? Or is it adults who produce and entertain kids? Does that make a kids show actually "genx show" because the producers and actors are genX? or we call it a kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:04 PM
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again, it's more important who watched it than when was it created or how old was Jerry Seinfeld Younger generations watch Seinfeld (still do btw). Married with children stopped being popular around 1998/2000
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:58 PM
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Ah! yes I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:37 PM
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you mean "my wife sucks, woe is me" is gen x millennial humor? absolutely not I even ran into a meme about it on IG <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:25 PM
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Seinfeld and Robin williams didn't make jokes about "my wife sucks, woe is me"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:12 PM
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Doesn't matter what age Jerry seinfeld was What's important is who consumed that humor. If the show was popular while millennials were growing up then it's "millennial humor" not "boomer humor"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:11 PM
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Seinfeld is not boomer though Millennials watched Seinfeld and Robin Williams Perfect example of boomer humor is Married with children that's a bit older
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 03:37 PM
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If men were more realistic about their league I'm sure 50% of their loneliness problems would be solved Every guy here that struggles thinks he's better than what he's actually getting oh no, right, it's women's fault, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:25 PM
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It's always so funny there's a million posts about men struggling but then I point out this thing about leagues and EVERY SINGLE GUY says the same "oh, actually, I'm Ryan Gosling, me and my 9 inch dick date uglies but only because it's easier but I could totally have a 9 gf" So what is it? Are men really struggling? Is every guy here is special? My personal theory is that men really struggle because they overestimate their own value. The standards are too high and they project that to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:08 PM
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It's true though you didn't get catcalled from the age of 12. That was scary and it sets a permanent fear of men on the street. It's very common that men scare women just for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:52 PM
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They are children lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:34 PM
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No, the people you date are your league lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:33 PM
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females Yes, I'm sure you bang a lot lol 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:05 PM
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you have the definition wrong source Taking the easy way out, choosing to ignore the harsh reality and live in blissful ignorance. A general name given to anyone not yet unplugged from the matrix. TRP took normal rom com advice and rebranded it with cringe terminology so that it's more appealing to incels. That's why you think TRP is everywhere. It is everywhere but not for the reasons you think. It will always be a Reddit thing until the day incels decide to go outside and touch grass. I hope t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:50 PM
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no, the blue pill is average normal people. Some are simps sure, the rest is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:39 PM
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exactly you care about yourself, you want women to change so that it's easier for you to get sex. "Everyone else should change except me" lol good luck with that entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:37 PM
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ah so you care so much about the well being of women right haha of course said woman will be able to figure it out I'm sure, either by lowering her standards or by choosing to stay alone. She doesn't need you to worry about them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:27 PM
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exactly my point. A 5 shouldn't have a problem asking other 5 to have sex. She will have a problem aiming for an 8 because that's out of her league
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:26 PM
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that doesn't answer the question though what's the incentive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:24 PM
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No, if you are an 8 you chose 8 to have sex with or relationships, it's the same, because it's no extra effort. Again if you find it harder to pick up 8 that's because you are below 8
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:10 PM
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Nah actually red pillers get the most girls that's crazy bluepillers get the most girls redpillers are guys who struggle and resort to TRP for help. Bluepillers are the default average people who date without effort
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:08 PM
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😂😂 technically truth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:06 PM
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why though? what's the incentive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:06 PM
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like a swiss army knife but with different dick sizes imagine the possibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:01 AM
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Depends what you are looking for. If it's just a hookup who cares if you can keep them. And you need to "get" someone to be able to "keep" them. That's why "get" is a better word.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:09 AM
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he grew it to 8% lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:08 AM
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the original comment was men with lot of options date down so it's not about options. If you supposedly have a lot of options but then choose to date 6s, then I'm sorry to say this but you are probably a 6. If you have options but don't date those options, then you really never had all the options in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:08 AM
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Your league is what you can get though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:03 AM
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If you match then it shouldn't be an effort, things just flow
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:01 AM
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right google "beauty standards" you might learn something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:51 PM
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and? read the rest of the comment 🙏🙏🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:42 PM
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why are you here then if it's not to seek validation from others? if you really didn't care what others think you'd keep your opinions to yourself no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:40 PM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:38 PM
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but she's not my personal preference" I don't know how much more clear I can write something I literally used the word "personal preference" BuT WhAt AbOut PerSonAl PreFerNces? 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:36 PM
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because it makes you look like you have super high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:34 PM
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Of course, and it varies from culture to culture and from different moments in time but there's a general consensus. You might not personally prefer big boobs but we can all agree you are more likely to have people like you if you have big boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:10 PM
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They do this all the time here and I'm suspecting it's some form of autism thing or immaturity. There is no other logical reason why they feel the need to put down others without anyone asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:07 PM
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you are right, objective isn't the correct word, the correct word is arbitrary. Part of your personal taste is just beauty standards and the other part is personal subjective preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:04 PM
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you are part of a culture that values certain attributes above others, you might think you are so unique but you are not. We call them beauty standards. There's a % of your "unique likings" that are just cultural beauty standards. This is just how society works
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:01 PM
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There's objective beauty (= someone checks all the beauty standards boxes) and then there's personal taste. but she's not my personal preference" I literally just said this 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:21 PM
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i literally just said you can say "I admit scarlet is beautiful, (objective truth) but she's not my personal preference" (subjective truth) no, she's not mid, check your high standards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:18 PM
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you can say "I admit scarlet is beautiful, but she's not my personal preference" instead of just saying "she is mid", because she's not mid It's very hard to take ppd men's opinions on how hypergamous women are when they say "scarlett is mid"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:00 PM
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all their "women are hypergamous" is them projecting their own high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:53 PM
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I have to be real honest with you for a significant proportion of my life I also thought transilvania didn't exist either but I'd never question anyone who lives near there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:51 PM
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haha yeah I totally agree, you are being too rational for nonsense posts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:50 PM
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Men would actually appreciate it if they didn't have to put in a great amount of effort to get a girl that isn't all that great, but that's not how you ladies operate. what does this even mean? women need to be slutier so that men (who don't even like them) find it easier to smash? maybe men who think are dating down are actually dating their looksmatch and they just need some therapy sessions to lower that ego
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:44 PM
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will you let me go?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:40 PM
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that doesn't make sense why would anyone date down when they can match?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:38 PM
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He looked like my friend's father 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:33 PM
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couldn't you just google it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:32 PM
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yeah pheromones are a thing. This happened to me several times. Sometimes I love their smell, sometimes they smell like horrible sweat even after a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:32 PM
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Some people operate normally with half a brain even I once saw a case about a kid "with no brain". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPZ9Yc7U0Pc He has only 2% of his brain but the little guy somehow defeated all odds and he looks very normal. So as we can see size doesn't matter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:36 PM
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Childfree people look for childfree people, that's it. There's even a filter in some dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:15 PM
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of course, Chad, I'm glad you are here telling us your story even though nobody asked and it has nothing to do with the post 😘 And I'm not going to reply anymore because I'm feeling uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:01 AM
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guys here are so fragile you can only imagine that fuck me eyes are a cause of divorce 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:42 AM
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but we are not talking about you or men in general 😂😂 you just felt the need to communicate that you are a Chad 😂😂 (if that's even true obviously, I really doubt it)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:40 AM
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It's different for women Women get that attention by default from the age of 12, no matter the clothes, no matter the type of body. There might be some minority of women who enjoy other men's staring but the overwhelming majority will find it creepy. So if you are going to be a creep at least spare me the second hand embarrassment and do it when you are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:25 AM
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no, that's rude you can stare until you go blind when I'm not around You don't see how you are embarrassing yourself? I don't want that second hand embarrassment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:20 AM
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Fantasizing occurs in one's mind, there's no way you can know when it's happening and what is happening, you can't police what's going on in people's brains Staring at people, in general, is rude. I don't care if you masturbate to your childhood teacher or your aunt's boobs, just don't be rude when we are in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:51 AM
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lol yeah, he wanted to form a family with me how sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:27 PM
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No, you get to know them and then you see if maybe they like you enough to ask her out. You don't ask them out first, that's creepy but anyway, anything is better than OLD. Not only the ratio sucks (75% men) but also the algorithm is against you if you are not a chad. Average people are having sex and relationships, this is a fact "but none of that works!" There's no other options. You are not that special. If you still think life is meaningless and there's no solution then maybe you can start t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:24 PM
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I don't understand what's the point of this shitty people are everywhere and we all know what a red flag is what's the point in me saying "oh btw you shouldn't be with a guy who removes the condom without letting you know"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:34 PM
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On the contrary, the general assumption is lack of social skills that would explain their dating grievances
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:47 PM
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nah she's probably joking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:30 PM
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the title says "besides looks"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:25 PM
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It's easy. If redpillers are dying to go to Korea to be a passport bro, then Korea is not a feminist country lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:21 PM
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I don't think guys who wear makeup are right leaning though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:18 PM
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the guy that does great on Tinder won't probably download the app though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:35 PM
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They do if they install the Tinder Wrapped app
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:15 PM
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courses, classes, travelling and friends of friends
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:14 PM
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The problem is guys here don't know if someone does or doesn't have rules. They just assume everyone does, which is weird. Instead of doing the normal thing which is breaking up if you don't feel loved
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:45 PM
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Second swipe it's always a match. You want another match? Restart the app until you run out of matches
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:25 PM
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That alone explains why it's harder for men Added to the fact that OLD favors better ranked profiles and ignores the rest I don't know why you keep insisting on using OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:23 PM
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Why bother asking users when you already have the data?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:21 PM
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not everyone is like that I've actually set up my 2 friends with each other and I couldn't be happier 🥰 also "16 years ago" I assume they were very young, that's a factor too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:35 PM
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"forcing" her to dump her increasingly neurotic friends. well, yeah, that's what neurotic people do, act crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:26 PM
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No, most people here are young, on the spectrum and virgins. I'm not joking. The women are maybe older but not a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:14 PM
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This is true How come bear attack statistics are ok but paternity fraud statistics are not ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:17 PM
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I'm against paternity tests because they are expensive (imagine making them mandatory) and that money has other better uses
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:10 PM
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Maybe she was trying to be friendly, people do that sometimes But anyway, I don't think this is the place for this. It's a personal situation. If you want people to talk about this you should phrase it as a generalization and then using your personal experience as example
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:09 PM
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You are right, you and OP repeated the incel narrative This post doesn't make sense, it's a whole bunch of low self esteem projection
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:26 PM
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what does that mean in the real world? not the internet world, I mean the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:11 PM
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women will tell you to your face they they are feminists because it works as a test. If you don't like it then we are not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:59 PM
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That's the incel narrative, not what OP said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:46 PM
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This just shows that it's not that you don't want women to judge your choices. You want women to care about your judgement and "stop sleeping with chad when they are in their 20... only to settle with beta blablabla"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:07 PM
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It's a woman saying she's not going to do the things she used to do for past boyfriends no. op said "switch from dating bad boy's, to nice/kind guy's" OP never mentioned what these women do to their boyfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:34 PM
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that's what "stop being nice" means If he wanted to say "stopped being a pathetic loser" (which is what "nice guys" actually are) then that'd be another thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:32 PM
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appreciate being settled for Then grow a pair and don't date women who are settling for you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:29 PM
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No, you are talking about someone with baggage. People with baggage are not celebrated and nobody is forced to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:27 PM
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The person you are describing didn't grow as a person and has nothing to do with what OP is talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:01 PM
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Now you are talking about different things one thing is being mean because of a bad relationship like you said here: and men avoid women who are now mean because of previous brushes with bad men In that case you are everyone is advised to run away. Nobody should be with someone who is mean. and a very different thing is you assuming she's mean because she had a bad relationship but never actually experiencing her being mean. You are implying this here: when men filter out women who had bad brush…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:59 PM
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what? who is forcing you to be with a mean girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:42 PM
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low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:40 PM
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see? men don't like it when women change, I don't know what OP is talking about men don't even want women to move from the 18 y/o virgin status lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:36 PM
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Men here don't like it when women change, they challenge that idea all the time It's women the ones celebrating other women maybe men should celebrate other men more often
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:35 PM
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Spread to who? Nobody is perfect in sex so if anyone dares to laugh they should think maybe they are doing something wrong and nobody is telling them It's more likely that telling my friend will give me another POV to fix the situation and help the guy (or help me) be better at sex When I was very young I mentioned something to my friends (we were always open and respectful about sex. I went through some sex issues and my friends were very supportive) and that's how one of my friends knew he had…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:00 PM
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because why not? maybe my friend can share some advice like "you should tell him you need more foreplay" or "maybe you should ask him non verbally what you want" or "maybe try this position"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:23 PM
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I have shred sex details to my best friend, positive and negative. I don't think there's anything wrong with that if you do it with respect. I think we should all talk more about sex. I never made fun of someone's physical appearance obviously. And no, I wouldn't mind that a guy shares sexual details with me to his friends. In fact I'd want him to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:03 PM
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You guys love too bring up rape hypotheticals
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:04 PM
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"financially raped" fucking lol "What do you mean I have to pay taxes for roads, police, government, health, schools, all sorts of benefits that I enjoy every day, but I don't get to have mandatory sex?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:59 PM
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"I'm just AsKiNg QuEsTiNs"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:55 PM
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Try removing video games, discord, tok tok, reddit, any social media that's preventing people from socializing outside
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:54 PM
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You mean the 9 billion people on this planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:48 PM
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You don't think having kids is a contribution? Also women earn less in general
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:44 PM
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It's her word against his And the question is who we believe if it's a random stranger who is being accused or someone I know, and my answer is Unless we are talking about a brother or a very close friend who truly never showed any signs of aggression (of all the people I know that might be only one person) then I'd probably believe her simply because it's a very common scenario. Guys tend to be pushy when drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:14 PM
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and felt threatened by his stance as he was pushy OP says he was being pushy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:54 PM
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What you can get is far more important than what you think you are I never understood why everyone here is so obsessed with coming up with a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:31 PM
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Actually if you can fix the problem with surgery or whatever then what I was saying doesn't apply to you. I was talking to guys who can't fix it. So in that case, where you can't do anything about it for whatever reason, then you have to choose between a) or b) If you can fix it then obviously that's the way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:19 PM
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Then you don't call it give up, call it "choosing the no sex lifestyle" but you don't get to feel sorry for yourself or be sad or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:34 PM
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Having a small penis or something like being physically or mentally disabled you mean having a smaller than average dick is like being physically or mentally disabled lol dramatic much? Even disabled people have partners so this is not an excuse. even if you have a micropenis (0.6% chances) and you can't surgically fix it, then what else is there to do other than do the best you can with what you got? surely you can give up and never have sex again. You do you. Ask yourself if it's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:33 PM
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so you chose a) congratulations on not giving up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:26 PM
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I agree but if a guy has been watching porn since forever and he's been listening to people make dick jokes then I could see how he might feel self conscious. Even if it's not a real problem in real life. It's like weight. You see super models with 20 BMI and it kind of gets to you. That self esteem issue isn't solved by your partner telling you you are beautiful the way you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:20 PM
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Actually no, I don't need more info Unless we are talking about a brother or a very close friend who truly never showed any signs of aggression (of all the people I know that might be only one person) then I'd probably believe her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:14 PM
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The solution might be become a cuck, marry a pornstar, try and find a woman who cannot/ has no desire for sex, marry a woman who wants to adopt this goes under the "do what you can with what you got" as opposed to "give up"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:29 AM
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In practical terms what are the alternatives? a) suck it up and do the best you can b) give up and never date again it's your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:27 AM
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Because you won't be happy otherwise we wouldn't call it "give up"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:26 AM
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I don't have enough info I think How did I find out? is she my friend? Did she go to the police and it's on the news? What am I supposed to do about it? many things could've happened. 1) she is lying 2) the guy was pushy and made her uncomfortable and he doesn't remember 3) the guy was pushy and he's lying Even if she is lying I would never accuse her of lying without proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:21 PM
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By understanding that society has beauty standards but since he can't do anything about his penis he should continue trying to meet people. Average people don't fit the beauty standard 100%. We all have to do with what we got. The alternativo would be give up and that's just ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:13 PM
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Men are hornier and that's why they are the ones approaching then the RP is wrong to suggest that men should make women chase them? they can suggest all they want I doubt it's going to happen. good luck though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:44 PM
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I don't think any of this is manipulation also manipulation to get commitment by compliments screams low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:28 PM
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“weight class” Reminder that a thin guy isn't in the same "league" as a thin woman. Society values weight more in women than in men. Society values height and muscle in men. This is why a thin short man dating a chubby woman are looksmatched. So the problem is men reacting too negatively to women's rejection? and you automatically assume it's women's fault for rejectig them. So obviously the solution is what? women have to say yes? they have to be with guys or else guys will react too negatively…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:04 PM
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is this incel math?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:36 AM
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Lying to women isn’t a mainstream advice btw it is known that men do this to sleep with women since forever literally every sitcom has a Don Juan who plays that type of character Every rom com has a scene where the main character goes through a glow up once they are over their previous lover, only for the lover (or a new lover) to appear again in their lives. This is literally the plot of most rom coms
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:21 AM
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lol no imagine thinking trp invented self improvement, gold diggers, going to the gym, lying to women and looksmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:58 AM
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Friendly reminder that boys turn into men. You are saying "99% of men don't give a fuck about sexual assault". If that sexual assault happened when they were boys (If you are a man who was assaulted statistically it most likely happened when you were the most vulnerable, when you were a kid) Are you sure men don't care about their abuse? are you sure? Because I've seen plenty of victims talk about how deeply traumatized they were by their SA, so I find it very hard to believe that "99% of men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:34 AM
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That one rich friend sleeps with all 11 women from a same group? lol no that's just bs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:18 PM
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It's amazing that, based on your (numerous) posts, your friend group(s) include every single pill-based stereotype and cliche what an amazing coincidence! I just wrote a similar comment btw
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:35 PM
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This guy uses his group of friends to demonstrate every single redpill teaching Throughout my entire life, I have observed most of my female friends and cousins chasing after guys who were rated 7 or above. che out their post history it's wild to say the least
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:33 PM
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red pill - misogyny = mainstream dating advice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:25 PM
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Again, 99% of men don't give a fuck about sexual assault. You think SA is less traimatic for a man than for a woman? You mean a 8 year old boy who was molested is less traumatized than a 8 year old girl? Boy you have some learning to do lol ?? You used the pronoun "we". I used "men" and "women". More projection. we all know what you tried to do don't be sneaky
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:21 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:22 PM
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What? You mean men who started acting like women are not able to love women? Are men becoming gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:22 PM
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So your source is "I've read it somewhere here?" 👍👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:20 PM
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Sure sure, then they grab a gun and shoot people on the streets Or write long dissertations online hating on whatever group they decided to project their unresolved trauma Also don't make things personal, it's against PPD rules 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:17 PM
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Someone in the comments pointed out that the amount of restraining orders and stalking behavior from men actually proves that men are more anxious than women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:29 PM
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Men and stalking name a more iconic duo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:25 PM
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Men here: Women hate it when men show vulnerability Also men here: if a woman tells me she's been sexually assaulted I leave her immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:25 AM
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That's what we call unresolved trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:12 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:11 AM
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If she didn't like you she would never be turned on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:52 AM
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No I don't think there's a relationship between the 2
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:22 PM
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No, the OP's post is about women who make different men jump through different hoops for a relationship. I wouldn't make a guy who I wouldn't have sex in the first place, jump through any hoop. That's why your boundaries don't apply to OP's post. Under normal circumstances I'll move as fast or as slow as I please
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:50 PM
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How is feminism related to neurodivergency? what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:37 PM
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I think you are steering off topic. Op's post is about what are the rules to predict the amount of time the guy has to wait before sex happens, all else being normal You are talking about boundaries in general. Of course I won't have sex with a guy who is blackout drunk or I won't have sex with my friend's father. Not now or ever. It's not like if my friend's father is a Chad I would consider breaking the rules, no, it will never happen. Not having sex with my friend's father is unrelated to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:13 PM
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Why would I avoid having sex with a guy I like when I want to do it? I don't understand why should anyone set a boundary there. Why make him wait if I don't want to wait or why rush things if I don't feel like having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:37 PM
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It's a case by case decision On the contrary, kids growing up need all sorts of strict rules to deal with the world. Once you get older you understand why those rules exist and you are mature enough to break them or not. Having strict rules and then trying to accommodate every new circumstance and people to your pre-established rules is weird. If you do that it makes me think that the randomness of the world makes you anxious and you use the rules to control that randomness. (not talking to you …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:04 PM
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I do analize my own behavior, I'm a big fan of noticing patterns and I pay A LOT of attention to people still every case is different and I can't make a general assumption like "if he has muscles I sleep with him -30% faster" Every circumstance has it's own complexities. How I feel, how he feels, where did we meet, where do I know him from, etc etc etc If you are not able to comprehend reality with it's complexities then you are obviously going to find rules everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:55 PM
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I'm saying you don't know if you have rules oh jesus I know what rules are, I know that I don't have them how many times do you need me to say it You think there's subconscious rules that I'm not aware of, there are not, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:27 PM
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that's great
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:20 PM
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It's great that you don't feel less masculine with a woman who is a provider for you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:57 PM
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I said I have no rules. It's not wrong to sleep with someone as soon as you meet them. It's not wrong to wait to be intimate. You might be overthinking this. There's no secret conspiracy or subconscious mechanism that men could crack to sleep fast with women. Things happen when they happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:50 PM
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wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:31 PM
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Physical attraction is only one factor but there are many others like where did you meet? at a party? a wedding? a restaurant? How is the man feeling how is she feeling? Are you in a "fuck it" moment or you don't feel like rushing things? etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:21 PM
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And then you'll have 50 weirdos cheering the crazy idea
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:23 PM
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The problem is thinking there are rules. Things happen when they happen. "Breaking the rules" would imply forcing yourself to do something you don't want and I don't see casual sex like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:18 PM
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It exists and we all do it not just women. Everyone tries to get the best they can. In fact men are more likely to shoot above their league. The fact that men are hornier makes them less picky. That's it. Now if you say that "hypergamy is only about money" I don't agree but whatever And the answer yes, women and men care how much money the guy has. Society has ideas associated with masculinity and femininity. If a man has to be the provider, because he's a man, he won't want to be with a woman t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:57 AM
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I'm not entirely sure it is a safe space for anyone honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:45 AM
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Yes you can. People eat proteins to work out. The whole "eat sugary cereal for breakfast for good energy" was always wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:55 PM
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so you don't think men and women have different hormone composition? huh funny how T levels is a good argument for some things but not others
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:30 PM
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congratulations but we are not talking about you we are not even talking about men men have faster metabolism that's why they suffer less obesity. Remember when guys here justify anything with Testosterone and hormones? well this is another example where the difference in hormones translates into body shape differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:29 PM
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you are outdated. Fat is not bad. Carbohydrates are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:18 PM
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Hormone imbalances and insulin resistance is pretty common though and we are surrounded by fatty food and huge portions. Obesity is a systemic issue, not a personal choices issue. Also it's known that restrictive diets only work for 5 or 6 years, then 98% of people not only go back to their original weight and some get even more fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:17 PM
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that's a bit of a balancing of the scales I see what you did there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:12 PM
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so edgy and provocative 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:50 PM
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because it's creepy I don't care about legality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:38 PM
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as much as I don't like age gap relationships this is different OP is attacking a group of people just for existing. In age gap the problem is the age gap, not the guy. If the same guy dated a woman his age it'd be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:34 PM
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it only makes sense if you think you can buy people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:25 AM
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if a 30 year old has problems she would've had those same problems at 18, same with guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:04 PM
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Are you saying men are hypergamous? meaning they want someone better than them? because if you are 30 going for women who look better than you is just that, hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:50 PM
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because farm fresh eggs are less likely to be miscarried or have autism 😂😂😂😂 yes, that's the main reason why people prefer farm fresh eggs because they don't have autism why did the chicken cross the road? because the chicken is not autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:40 PM
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you're not, however, describing the general reality most of the world experiences. yes I am. I'm not from the USA and it's such a coincidence to find out that women around the world went through the same experiences with catcalling and men. Even Tina Fey has a whole chapter about this in her book. Why is it so hard to understand. lol Women don't like catcalling You can flirt but not in a form of catcalling unless you convince men to stop doing that to literal children because it won't work when …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:33 PM
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I don't know you tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:47 PM
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30 year old women have been having healthy kids since forever 🤷‍♀️ try another argument that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:42 PM
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you are saying that youth=health if a 30 year old is healthy and can produce healthy babies but still men chose a 18 year old to have babies with then the argument doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:32 PM
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It's not a big deal. you can have a lot of babies at 35 At 30 is 100% fine, I'd even say it's the ideal age for having a kid, yet men here can't stop talking about the wall. There's somethning more attractive about an 18 year old that they don't find in 25-30 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:54 PM
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this is just not true a 30 y/o woman can have perfect healthy babies Also that wouldn't explain why they prefer 18 year olds over 25 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:52 PM
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are you saying that catcalling is when adults hit on 12 year olds? no, I'm saying catcalling begins when women are 12 or maybe younger,. That's when older men start catcalling. This is to explain why women hate it. It's never considered as flattening because it starts when you are 12. People don't think "oh, now that I'm 25 I'm going to take this construction worker's "I want to fuck you gorgeous" as a compliment. This concept is often lost in men because they have no idea what it feels like to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:50 PM
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plenty of older women have good skin though so that's not it TRP even has a term Neotenous features, they are proud of liking younger women. But as soon as you ask why they get all offended lol you can't get any more cringe than that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:53 PM
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I still don't see where fire guy posted his answer you are not answering either question I have no idea how 80 year olds are related try again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:50 PM
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you went to an extreme a 25 y/o or a 30 y/o can still give you plenty of babies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:48 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:47 PM
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where? I don't see it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:46 PM
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(in cavemen times) by restricting her options he'd have like 10 kids with the same women. We don't even know if cavemen people were monogamous though. Paternity certainty? That's not true, nothing can guarantee she doesn't cheat or nothing guarantees you that she doesn't get raped by other men. That's not related to age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:19 PM
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no, you talked about yourself and nobody cares about your personal experience we are talking in general so no, you didn't give an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:15 PM
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so you are saying it's health reasons? That just doesn't make sense. There's plenty of healthy and non healthy people of all ages. In fact a safer bet would be to be with a healthy 30 year old, that you know won't let herself go because she already has that lifestyle. An 18 year old can still have a change in metabolism and go fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:14 PM
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and we know the reason why women prefer tall men,like I explained before why do men prefer childlike features in women? It's so funny how you guys keep going around the question. Makes me think they do know the answer but are afraid to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:11 PM
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Why? Because young girls aren't as picky and traumatized as older girls are. depends. If you grew up in a shitty household you are probably traumatized so that's not the differential Older women wanna successful guys this is not true. Maybe competent men, sure. So you are saying that young women make worst decisions regarding their future that's why you have a chance with them? 😂 they're naive 🤢🤢🤢 and want to stay with you no matter how bad is everything you've never met 18 year olds At least yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:10 PM
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no, you need to use your words what does a 18 have that a 25-30 old doesn't have aging wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:02 PM
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but we are not talking about your personal experience we are talking in general so, what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:01 PM
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and what are those theories? what does a 18 have that a 25-30 y/o doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:00 PM
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you guys keep repeating "men like this" but that just doesn't explain anything What are those signs of fertility that 25 y/o women don't have and 18 y/o do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:00 PM
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Yes we are, there's plenty of disciplines (philosophy, psychology, etc) dedicated to ask this questions. Desires are biological but they are also cultural. if you don't know the answer or don't dare say it that's a different issue we know why women like tall men, women like to feel protected. It's very simple. If you can explain why women like something I'm sure you can come up with a good explanation for men's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:57 PM
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Women often claim they prefer tall men because they make them feel protected, have good genes, have less "insecurity"(not true but commonly believed), and will look good with them in heels. sure this is why women like tall men now you should come up with the same answer explaining why men like childlike features
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:54 PM
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you just repeated the same as befor with more words you are saying "it's just the way it is" you need to go deeper
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:53 PM
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you can (and should) start building your family at 30 when both of you finished studies and have jobs to support babies. At 18 you probably won't have all of that. It makes more rational sense so, again, that's not the reason
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:52 PM
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Of course. I bet they too know the answer but they obviously won't say it. "why do men find childlike features hot?" "that's just the way it is" 😂😂 They are angry anyway just by reading the question
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:49 PM
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but why? "that's just how it is" is not enough, there's reasons why this happens specifically to men and not to women. "men and women are different" I know. I what aspects are they different so that men like childlike features and women don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:47 PM
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however having an attitude is not something particular to 18 year olds. There's plenty of women of all ages with an attitude. In fact I'd say it's more likely to find a shy 18 year old because she has less experience. You keep repeating "men care about.. men don't care about" yes, we all know that beauty standards exist. What OP is asking is why? we need to go a little bit further
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:45 PM
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I know we are not the same, that doesn't mean we can't still analize why things happen The fact that we are not the same makes it even more interesting. What's with men that find childlike features hotter, and the same doesn't apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:37 PM
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yes, beauty standards, we all know this, the question is why why did they chose childlike features instead of any other feature
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:34 PM
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that doesn't answer the question though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:32 PM
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that reason is beauty standards, so in that sense it's the same but the question is why? why young and not go after (for example) tall women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:31 PM
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They are considered hotter yes, but why why do guys go after women with childlike faces
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:29 PM
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women are fertile until 35-40 years old ven some at 45 so it's not about fertility
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:28 PM
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I personally find it incredibly sus when a man likes young women regardless his age. They'll say it's fertility even though women are fertile until 35/40 even 45 They'll say it's baggage but if you grew up in a shitty household you are going to have baggage at 18 It's not about being hot because there's plenty of hot women of all ages They like the idea of being in power and not be challenged 🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:27 PM
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That's called being hung on his ex. We know this happens to some people. there's no need to come up with new cringe terms
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:04 PM
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This is because you don't really understand the situation. by this you mean I don't understand my own category system? Let's put it in boats terms. boyfriend material is that expensive boat that will last a lifetime and is able to sail in tough weather fuckboy boat is a shiny expensive looking boat but all it's components are cheap and will sink in bad weather. It's a great boat to spend the afternoon in nice weather. is it clear now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:21 AM
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I don't know, OP seems like he wants to go around touching people or like one other user said, OP wants to go around smelling everyone's hair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:55 AM
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ugh no, you have the definition wrong stop ranting about stuff that's unrelated to the definition
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:54 AM
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highest category for me is boyfriend material so if you want to call that BB sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:36 AM
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exactly! reminds me of a Friends episode where everyone wanted a slap in the butt
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:15 PM
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because toxic femininity is forcing toxic feminine traits on women toxic masculinity is forcing toxic masculine behaviors on men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:15 PM
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right, you're in the emmitt till got what he deserved crowd for daring to flirt at that lady. he deserved to be beaten to death, after all, her feelings were hurt and she didn't like it. I'm saying nothing's stopping you from initiating a conversation with a stranger but as soon as they send signs that they don't want to flirt then you go away. There's no such thing as un consensual flirting, we call that harassment. Learn to read body language and you'll have no problem with consent. right, aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:45 PM
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flirting with someone this is weird. You definitely need a yes for flirting. Flirting is mutual. If they are giving you clear signs that they don't want to engage then we call that harassment. saying words or using touch to entice them you mean you want to touch people to entice them sexually? again VERY WEIRD. You need to escalate this to the point where you are sure the sexy touch will be well received. Escalating is basically asking for consent and this is not new. giving someone a hug, basic…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:22 PM
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Most women don't like being catcalled, this is a fact. Most women talk about catcalling experiences as "So I was 12 and this older guy said he wanted to have sex with me" Even if some like it, the fact that you don't care about making someone upset is weird. but such misses the point of the OP, which appears to be typical of this crowd your writing style is confusing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:11 PM
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because the situation has to happen in order to tell people what's the right thing to do you need rallies, you need protests, that's how the world works sadly you need guys saying "being a man doesn't mean stoic, I want to be vulnerable, deal with it"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:07 PM
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When you are cat calling someone, I think? I'll never understand what's the point in catcalling if men know women don't like it OP is upset it's considered improper to not walk up and hump a stranger I think. He considers this society shaming male sexuality. Also OP learn a bdsm phrase today, and he wanted to try using it in sentences! lmaoooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:55 PM
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I don't understand in what circumstances you don't need a "yes"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:45 PM
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Plenty of gay men and women died so that others could have rights. They chose to live a lifestyle that makes other people angry. lgbtq+ people are still victims of hate crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:11 PM
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because sex and love are separate if she's asexual she'll still experience love and will be able to give love. now if you want to have sex, then she's not the woman for you, that's your choice, not hers. saying that you'd fall in love with someone just because you had sex with them is a hyperbole just to show how sex and love are different
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:59 PM
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I don't know I'm not asexual if this was a real case scenario you'd have the possibility to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:50 PM
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like in any other social change, the first men who rebel against the system will probably have a hard time but it'll make it easier for others to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:48 PM
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sure sure, keep believing a massive conspiracy if it makes you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:45 PM
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random men in a club or whatever? yes men that I know? no because I don't flirt we never get to a point where think they have a real chance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:35 PM
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yes it is it's women enforcing toxic masculinity (aka how a man is supposed to be even if that hurts him) google it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:30 PM
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that doesn't mean you are going to force yourself to have sex with someone just because that'd make them happy if you love her back you wouldn't want her to do that either there's a lot of ways to make someone happy within your own possibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:03 PM
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And comments were written
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:58 PM
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you can't separate love from sex? does this mean you fall in love with everyone you have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:58 PM
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The point of progressive words is to separate masculinity from genitals. Non progressive people still think, because they have a dick/vagina they are masculinity/femininity. However, masculinity and femininity are a cultural practice that takes different shapes depending where you are. If you don't separate both concepts you are obviously going to feel personally attacked. But that's a conversation the world is not ready to have. maladaptive masculinity is the same btw, you'll offend the same pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:53 PM
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100% Women absolutely enforce toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:43 PM
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I've never been tempted either and I've been in relationships as a feminist I can't even bring myself to be with more than one fwb This is why cheating is something I can't forgive, it's so easy not to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:41 PM
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This is so frustrating because we already have terms like toxic masculinity to change exactly this thing in society. But men interpret "toxic masculinity" as a personal attack to masculinity and not an attack to the shaming that men go through if they are vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:04 PM
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fuckboys are dumb and shallow why would I want to marry a guy who is dumb and shallow? the highest category for me is boyfriend material
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:42 PM
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yes and I don't know where the "insulted or attacked" came from since your original comment was meaning it is meant as a more statement coming from pessimism rather than an intentional put down
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:02 PM
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We all experience attraction in different ways too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:01 PM
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You also have to consider that people experience attraction in different ways Personality plays a role. Like I said personality can take you to fuckboy / boyufriend / no zone too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:00 PM
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you insult yourselves. It's confirmation bias, It's a sadness circlejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:58 PM
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I think that being kind of insecure is normal but then finding a whole community that feeds on themselves about how worthless you all are, makes it all worst. it's a constant confirmation bias. It can't be healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:57 PM
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that's what toxic pill spaces do to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:35 PM
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it's very different to go to a place like online spaces to be insulted than imagining what other people think about you it has an effect on your self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:29 PM
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you can't possibly see body hair there how do you think unshaved women look like? gorilas? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:02 PM
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sex can be good but outside the guy can be boring. I've been with one guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:58 PM
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you have no idea how many guys don't need to shit test and play games. It's called being mature and having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:56 PM
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a fuckboy a guy who is hot but has a shitty personality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:55 PM
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you don't? I do Which doesn't mean I'd have sex right away, still could have a shitty personality and that canlcels the initial attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:54 PM
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Do you mean that you can tell within seconds if a guy is sexually attractive yes, this is what I mean, attractive enough to have sex with. From then to actually have sex I'd have to get to know him, feel comfortable, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:53 PM
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No they are not, they are happy thinking that people in relationships are actually miserable even if they don't show any signs of being miserable is such a cope
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:52 PM
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look at average people, not just 25 year olds 25 is kind of still too young to be in a relationship nowadays, people settle later in life but the average 25 year old is dating and having sex like it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:51 PM
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are you kidding you can't see body hair in low quality 1930 films
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:47 PM
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I literally don't know anyone who's mainly attracted to a man's career. I think the career only ads to the character but it's not the main thing. Maybe if he's studying to be a doctor then you'd know that means he's probably going to do long hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:52 AM
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I agree you know within seconds if you'd have sex with someone but there's no way to know that betabuxx/chad separation without knowing their personality I also don't think betabuxx exists I'd segregate them into: just sex / boyfriend material / No Also you can totally grow attraction, this is why so many people have sex with their coworkers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:43 AM
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I would even say outside online discussion about dating spaces a normie will never tell you you are worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:51 PM
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It seems like with how cut throat things are in so many areas of life where men are constantly reminded that unless youre exceptional(6-6-6, industrious worker) men online spaces repeat this though You are not useless to capitalism if you are not 6-6-6. That'd mean you are not eligible for a job if you are not 6-6-6 and that's just crazy. So if you frequent a place online that's constantly repeating that you are worthless, then surely you are going to become bitter. I'd say stay away from this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:30 PM
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It's a blackpilled generation. I'd say it's an unsocialized generation or a generation socialized online. That's why even though you think you know what average is, you were probably influenced by social media too. People are not dating because they are not meeting irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:23 PM
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No social media presence will make you less attractive. why go to an extreme though? 10k followers is a lot NO social media is weird maybe social media like a normal person? 200 followers, some holiday pics, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:56 PM
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Same here I honestly didn't know exactly what status means and none of the things listed there is relevant to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:54 PM
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Isn't that just having money?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:52 PM
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Was the comment I replied to sarcastic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:25 PM
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Don't you have average friends in relationships? I do, most of them are in relationships Take the common sense pill: The average person has relationships and kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:09 PM
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Why is it that the concept of chemistry and love are so foreign here? I feel that guys here are terminally single and never experienced feelings with women This post is very blackpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:12 PM
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That's not true the men who struggle here could go to significantly uglier women to have sex and they chose not to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:57 PM
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you didn't write anything 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:33 PM
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It's certainly not something you can blame it on women or feminism. I have no idea about judaism but I'm pretty sure the Catholic church or Muslims don't care about what women say. you sheltered little clown. Now Be Civil
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:06 PM
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And don't get me started on how humans are naturally sociable. PPD users being perpetually online refusing to join ant social activities, hobbies or friends are going against BiOlOgY. We are not ready for that conversation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:04 PM
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I don't think I ever seen one except one guy who had to have a circumcision as an adult for medical reasons. Poor guy he told me he had a hard time (pun intended) keeping it up because the scar had numbed his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:01 PM
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oh well but that's not something women as a movement are responsible for take it to Muslim, Jewish and Catholic leaders all of them are men btw
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:08 PM
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That's not what "holding accountable" is though you want women to shut up about the Patriarchy because you don't like it I feel that a man shutting down women is exactly what the patriarchy is about no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:04 PM
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The hypotheticals are like hypothesis. If those hypotheticals don't translate to real life then they are not real and shouldn't be considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:54 PM
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Then maye you should be chasing your equal. If you are a 40 year old virgin your equal is a 40 year old virgin, not a decently attractive young woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:52 PM
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If love existed why would they be chasing alphas and settling for betas? this is something you came up with. Average normal people fall in love with average normal people all the time. You came up with a scenario to prove that your scenario is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:50 PM
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1/3rd of all males alive are genitally-mutilated. source?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:48 PM
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I've also seen many men being supported by their partner. I have a friend who lives with her parents and her boyfriend moved in with them. The guy didn't have a job and spent all day playing video games. It's even portrayed in Baby Reindeer. The guy lives in his ex's mom's house.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:47 PM
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😂😂😂😂 still no argument? if you come up with something useful I'll be here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:45 PM
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then have fun being sorry for yourself I don't know what else to say I can't convince depressed people not to be depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:42 PM
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Nobody in the history of PPD was able to give a concise answer to "what does hold women accountable actually mean?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:36 PM
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-Ban mothers and fathers from mutilating their sons’ genitals just as it is banned for them to mutilate their daughters’ genitals. this is very specific to the USA and some religions. I'm not sure why is this always directed to women when it's a family decision. The other 2 I agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:34 PM
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If a man loses his job he gets another one or starves. I've seen plenty of men go back to their parents house to live off them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:32 PM
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Being equal means sometimes not getting your way, it means getting treated poorly, it means competing with others and losing, etc. And all of this things happen to women A lot of women want society to accommodate their wants and needs Everybody wants to win. You want women to shut up about it? Women shouldn't expect men and society to bail them out you mean you don't want the government to pay the child support the bio father is not paying? The government does this for the kid, not for the mom. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:30 PM
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oh my god how difficult is if you feel unloved you break up That's not going to undo all the time you invested or the kids you might have had with someone who tolerated you, when this could have been done with someone who actually desired you had you known how that person truly felt from the start. that's just life. Nothing can guarantee you that the person next to you will love you unconditionally forever. You have a choice either risk it and when you feel unloved you leave like a normal person…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:19 PM
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Then stay single Unless you think the only alternative is being unhappy with a woman just because you assume she will never love you because you are not a Chad, in that case stop being a victim because you are choosing not to go to therapy to treat that lack of self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:10 PM
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could lead to deadbedroom or other issues in the relationship then you break up because of those real issues. I've already said it a million times. If you feel unloved you should break up. Breaking up because the relationship is fine but in another timeline you imagine she would've rejected you, that's just low self esteem. what are the chances she's actually going to be content for the rest of her life married to the guy that's just life. There's no guarantee she or you'll be happy forever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:14 PM
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Maybe those are your standards I have no problem being with a gamer guy while I'm outside being with other people or walking by myself. This is a pretty normal dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:10 PM
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I hate to burst your bubble but people in third world countries see dollars and green card in virgin 40 year old guys looking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:36 PM
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If I feel unloved I would break up but if I feel uncomfortable from a hypothetical I would personally stay and instead go to therapy to treat my low self esteem. But ultimately that's a personal decision. Like when people stay with a cheater just for the kids. Or like when women chose to be with a guy who doesn't want to get married and they do. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:29 PM
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I agree they are somewhat similar in theory but not in real life A guy won't commit. So she will likely break up because she wants to take the relationship to the next level but he doesn't want to. There's a tangible thing they are not agreeing on. If she decides to stay then that's on her but IMO she should just leave. A guy who thinks his wife doesn't actually love him and is only using him for his resources will never find out. It's all in his imagination "if we had med 10 years ago you would…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:24 PM
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If they don't believe in real love between average people maybe they should stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:06 PM
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That's what people in relationships answer you are not going to get your beloved af/bb answer: "I like you for your money and stability" so if af/bb doesn't exist in real life, is it even real? or is something that's real only in internet spaces as hypotheticals?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:00 PM
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I think a difficulty with one person going out while the other stays home is that it makes the dynamic very asymmetric why? why staying at home watching TV is any different from going to pottery class or going to a bar with a friend? I'm not saying the person staying at home does all the house chores. I'm talking about people who enjoy just laying in bed watching tiktoks or playing video games. you are both still not sharing time together
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:58 PM
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if you don't explain yourself I'm just going to assume I'm right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:55 PM
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Again, this only works in hypothetical internet narratives. How would it go in real life? "honey do you love me?" "yes of course" "why do you love me?" "because you are good looking, good person, feel comfortable, etc blabla" "but WHY do you love me?" "??" "would you have dated me 10 years ago?" "yes" "would you love me if I was a worm?" "yes" then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:19 PM
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passport bro? If she likes you for your money then you are putting yourself as a af/bb
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:15 PM
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Average people fall in love with other average people 👏all 👏the👏time👏 There is no way of denying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:13 PM
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Why would a 20 y/o virgin want to be with a 40 y/o awkward virgin? be realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:11 PM
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I see, this says more about your personal high standards than what average people do If you are unable to love someone who is average idk, that's a you problem. Average people date average people. Generally looksmatched and within their age and socioeconomic bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:09 PM
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Unlucky in sex means 40 year old virgin a 20 year old virgin is pretty normal. She has plenty of choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:02 PM
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My plan is to hire a PI so I don't need.to ask a lot. how is the PI supposed to find out how she felt? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:00 PM
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Only inexperienced people think like this, sorry. If you've ever been 10 seconds in a relationship you'd know that it's very easy to love someone who is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:58 PM
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I bet if she said "I'm so happy with you I want to spend the rest of my life with you" you'd think she's lying This just shows low self esteem because there's no reason to believe that your partner doesn't really like you. And if there is, then be a grown adult and leave them for someone who does. What you are saying makes sense in a hypothetical internet narrative. In real life, you date someone, you like them, you tell them how much you love them, they say it back and that's it If you start wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:56 PM
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So your plan is sit her down and ask a lot of detailed information about her past? That's ridiculous and also very toxic. Just ask yourself if you are happy, you don't need more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:53 PM
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"would you have dated me 10 years ago" gives me "would you date me if I was a worm" vibes You are asking a weird hypothetical just to pick a fight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:51 PM
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What I don't understand is the victim mentality of af/bb Men here act like they are forced to be with women that don't like them. Why don't they just leave? Or remain single until they find someone with low n count who has been as unlucky in sex as they have been Irl people don't do such mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:48 PM
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And how on the spectrum are they
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:37 PM
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lmao yes, peak ppd on a sunday moment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:15 AM
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So then I'm glad we all agree we live in patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:15 AM
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but you are saying that dating is the microcosm of society yet in dating men need women but men don't need women outside the dating scene men are hornier, that's all it means men being hornier doesn't translate to politics or business
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:14 AM
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Making the first move doesn't always show leadership like when you need to negotiate, the one making the first offer is not the one in the position of power
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:11 AM
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pick up artists (= charlie sheen, joey, sometimes george constanza) are very redpilled barney stinson had a whole book on how to trick women into having sex with him men have been lying to get sex since forever and the media has been talking about that since forever what else you need examples? men going to the gym? you can't seriously believe that TRP invented going to the gym self improvement is not a TRP invention either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:01 AM
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TRP is basically dating advice that's been present in the media for decades. Tropes like the seductive playboy or fuckboy that's not emotionally available. A guy that lies to women to get sex (see joey tribbiani, Chalie Sheen, Joey from Friends, Seinfeld, Sex and the city, etc). Every romcom has a "make over" moment. Everyone knew going to the gym makes you look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:23 PM
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But if they are going to enjoy the activity separately one of them can go to the gym and the other stay at home
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:58 PM
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you are saying this because you assume doing exercise will keep them both slim? sounds more like a controlling attitude than genuinely enjoying each other's company
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:57 PM
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(or reading lame romance books if you're a woman) lol nobody does this Things like having common goals and values, being able to communicate without fighting etc. are more important than whatever hobbies you share. nobody is saying otherwise having shared interests makes it easier to enjoy stuff together that's all there is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:52 PM
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And that's how you know age is more important than money or looks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:05 PM
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Op is hoping you'd think she's more desperate for money, to make man2 look better
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:03 PM
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"I want the age to be the only factor that's different between the 2" *Makes one of them significantly better by changing a whole bunch of other factors * And still I would choose the guy my age
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:01 PM
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There are some tax benefits and you can extend your medical ensurance to your partner. If you have kids the kids and the couple divorced, they are more protected by the law for child support and such. It's also q rite. Humans have been doing rites since forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:44 PM
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That's just not how it works I already explained to you that you can't change your status to sperm donor
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:37 PM
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This is BS
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:35 PM
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You do realize a sperm donor is anonymous and doesn't have sex with the woman, right? You can't change your status from boyfriend/hookup to anonymous and unsex the woman What kind of logic is this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:08 PM
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There's a lot of legal aspects to a civil union. Marriage is signing a contract. Getting married is sealing a bond and I'm not entirely sure why you think religion needs to be involved. Some people like the party. They like to share that bond with their friends and family
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:47 PM
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? What
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:43 PM
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The baby shouldn't suffer your poor decisions 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:37 PM
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This is Biology, you can't change this It's funny how all the male biology conversation (testosterone, primal urges, natural disgust for ncounts) works but when you point out that "women have babies and only they get to decide what happens because it's their body" then all of the sudden "biology" isn't a good argument
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:18 PM
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👍👍 great, then don't commit nobody is forcing you to be with women you don't like
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:20 PM
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So she hides that she's had casual sex in the past because men are judgemental and still won't have sex with you? again, you are free to leave if you don't like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:18 PM
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I don't know if you are new here but we don't do anecdotal and that's not being difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:15 PM
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If a woman had casual sex before but chooses not to have sex with you, and that makes you uncomfortable , you are free to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:48 AM
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Which seems a perfectly reasonable thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:46 AM
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No, I was talking about men in general Why would anyone care about you specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:05 AM
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Nobody is talking about you though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:51 AM
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I guess that happens when you are too judgemental with sexual past. Maybe the ex doesn't care about her ncounts If you want women to have casual sex you don't shame women who have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:49 AM
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You are not making sense If you want women to have more casual sex but then go on and on and on about how disgusting women who have a lot of casual sex are... I mean... What
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:46 AM
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I don't see your interpretando Op is mad women are not making men wait for sex to get a commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:37 AM
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Then sit down pay for dates and wait patiently to be chosen by a woman to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:35 AM
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Then be ready to wait for sex 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:33 AM
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"Less likely to say" means fewer men are saying it. my point is that that doesn't mean don't want to, sounds like they are giving up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:44 PM
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You are talking about relationships, I'm talking about libido, being horny, wanting to get their dick wet And btw "Less likely to say" is very different from "don't want to" You guys love talking about biology until it's not convenient to win an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:02 PM
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You are talking about relationships, I'm talking about libido, being horny, wanting to get their dick wet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:02 PM
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A whole bunch of horny lying men aren't going to take down the feminist movement though Even if you make the app for women who look like women, men would is put a fake profile, like they do here on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:56 AM
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That's still a "he". A man attracted to a women is hetero.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:53 AM
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You do realize the men trying to pass as women to have threesome's are not trans, right? They are just liars And since there's no such thing as genial check to participate in the app, these guys will still be there lying, trying to pass as women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:51 AM
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That's just crazy I believe when guys say they don't even get matches on old
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:34 AM
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Culture but also men's desperation and higher libido. That's mainly what makes them make the first move
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:05 AM
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Culture but also men's desperation and higher libido. That's mainly what makes them make the first move
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:04 AM
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But the 50/50 is changing and what way the other gender expectation? Make the first move? Some women make the first move. The problem is men are hornier and desperate, that's why men make the first move, not only because of gender expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:02 AM
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no, they are normal guys, average looking with a normal dating history they are not perpetually online incels who don't have options
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:25 PM
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But its true though. Have you ever been on any dating app? Just by being there men will message you and have tons of matches men are desperate and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:22 PM
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Pink gets married and his relationship fails how is that being alienated by women Just no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:20 PM
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lol this is so ignorant, the wall is not an incel anthem wtf The wall is about post war England, you know "The Wall" references the Berlin wall and also about how people deal with trauma by building a metaphorical wall Sure there are some hints the guy has mommy issues but nowhere in the movie the guy is alienated by women. You sure like to twist reality to your incel agenda fucking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:05 PM
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but you missed the funniest part about the new world filled with muscles everywhere or parasites I didn't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:51 PM
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I wouldn't take it as an attack to women empowerment I think the dating app experience for women is so overwhelming that there is no reason for a woman to need an app to send the first message, she can already do that on any of the other apps. It's more likely a money issue. Men are more likely to spend money there so by allowing them to send the first message you keep them hooked spending money so that their profile is more visible and stuff (I don't know how bumble works but every dating app n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:29 PM
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Because it's not enough to be a Chad on paper Maybe he's socially awkward maybe he's too shy, is not well socialized, who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:22 PM
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Here is a novel idea: Those men were probably lying to you. you said this I'm saying it's more likely that my friends are normal people and not lying maniacs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:19 PM
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nice that's good to know actually fun doesn't stop at 50 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:35 PM
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I know many of my friend's parents that are still together and take care of each other. They go on vacation together and seem to get along fine. About the sex maybe you should redefine your expectations. I don't think 50-60 year olds still have sex. Even if they just met. But I don't know, I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:08 PM
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if that was true the response from men would've been "if I was alone in the woods I would also choose the bear" but that just doesn't make any sense does it? just say you were hurt, it's fine, that was the whole point of the analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:56 PM
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lol right What's more likely, that a guy would first hookup with a woman just because he's horny and then want to be in a relationship like all normal people do? Or believe a massive conspiracy where all men are liars? hmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:37 PM
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lol no women hooking up at 35, 40, even 50 is the norm not the exception you are probably too young or don't talk to +30 women If you are on Tinder it's actually pretty easy to find someone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:32 PM
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ah so now it's "double standards" sure no, men were hurt because they were told they are rapists with the bear analogy the point of that discussion was to tell men they tend to be rapey
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:30 PM
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It does because I've had guys tell me that was their experience. They enter a LTR without feeling it 100% and end up being fully attracted. I think the biology is an excuse to not even try and keep complaining about it online I'm not saying go out with someone you find unattractive, I'm saying give not perfect people a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:24 PM
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But it's not the truth women hookup, get married, have sex, have partners throughout their lives. Remember, men are hornier, so there's always going to be some dude willing to hookup or have a relationship with women of any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:19 PM
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that's not true plenty of women marry or re-marry and hookup post 30 Saying that men don't like post wall women is just internet cope narrative In fact I'd say women have more choices of men all through their lives compared to men. Remember: men are hornier
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:17 PM
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Tell a man that his relationship woes are because of toxic women and he'll admit it's his fault he's addicted to toxic women. are these self aware men in the room with us? I think you are making this up I've never seen it And if you tell a guy that his lack of success in dating is because his beauty standards are too high from lack of socialization and you'll never hear the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:43 PM
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No, it's because men's generalization are an insult to women. They want to say "you will be useless by 30 and nobody will like you"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:38 PM
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sure you can make all the mental gymnastics to turn it around into misogyny that doesn't erase all the posts from butthurt men that for some reason keep asking for validation from women to go live abroad, date a young woman, etc and the bear I don't know, they were hurt about it for a month or so
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:35 PM
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bear: men are dangerous and rapey passport bros: men are predatory and will look for poor women to take advantage of them age gap: men are predatory and will look for someone more immature than them to take advantage of them Men don't like to be told this and proof of that is all the continuous posts about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:21 PM
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I know this is an excuse because you are not explaining any further on why. (before you start "women are more this and that" is not a good explanation) Also it is known that women too decide if they want to sleep with the guy in the first few seconds of meeting him. And women also struggle with high beauty preferences. I'd say if your beauty preference isn't working for you, then you might want to give it a try with people that you don't find perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:18 PM
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I think all humans base their "standards" on what they can get. And if you never socialize then your opinion might be very skewed. This is why most couples are "looksmatched". We tend to pick partners on our level. Out of the world standards are thus just one symptom of living a solitary lifestyle. ABSOLUTELY THIS I couldn't agree more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:11 PM
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B) You're talking more about emotional attraction. nono I'm talking about looking at someone naked and think "wow he's so fucking hot, how did I not notice before that his *body part* looks so good". That's not emotional at all. He has to stop masturbating to porn. Masturbate much less. Exercise. Socialize. etc. not sure about porn. Can't you separate porn from reality? You'd have to quit following insta models too. I don't know... If your beauty preferences are too high maybe that's hiding a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:56 PM
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OP have you not been here for the bear vs man debate? passport bros? age gap? All I see is men not liking how they are portrayed by women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:46 PM
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Negative generalization like the ones I stated above are passed with no issue by men. That's because men like those generalizations and even promote them themselves. They want women to know they value them just for looks and that she'll be useless when she hits the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:42 PM
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We have very little control of it. I'm not so sure about this. You obviously won't become homosexual or heterosexual just because you feel like it BUT I think you can slowly convince yourself to give someone who is not perfect a chance. I've been in many situations where I started dating a guy who I didn't find super attractive at first but then I Started developing physical attraction. I think good sex makes the other person look more attractive with time. If you are too picky it's not so bad t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:37 PM
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Men perpetuate the idea that they will never say no and that they are always ready for sex. Meanwhile real life female experience is different. Men don't always say yes to sex, they have attachment issues, the dick doesn't always work, etc Men don't know how other men act. Either because they don't talk to each other or because they convince themselves that that's how a man should act. Other advice that's not sexual is good. I would never take advice from men online though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:45 AM
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Like parrots, exactly my point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:37 AM
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Dude, the whole trp is about picking up women with lies 😂😂😂 I mean, if you are defending a liar that says a lot about the quality of person you are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:28 AM
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If it was hypergamy they'd be looking for an even richer man, but instead they are stuck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:22 AM
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It's easier to ignore some advice that's not useful than write so much about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:15 AM
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You should post about ncounts and AI gf. I don't believe in nounts but I definitely wouldn't date a guy with an AI past. Hypocritical? Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:20 AM
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What the fuck is this sci Fi shit, ai are not sentient. If we teach a parrot to repeat "I'm human" that doesn't make him human because we all know that a parrot just learned the words but doesn't know what they mean
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:13 AM
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I watch porn too so....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:11 AM
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They will still talk online like passport bros
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:10 AM
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congratulations, you are an average adult still doesn't mean cleaning makes women happy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:35 PM
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So you don't share the same cleaning standards, so what? that's very different from "vacuuming makes her happy"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:17 PM
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Maybe your ex for whatever reason (also I'd like to hear her side of the story, maybe the dishwasher did a shitty job cleaning the dishes I don't know) but you can't possibly make a generalization based of one individual. You can't be fr "no, women actually prefer to wash the dishes instead of being happy" "women prefer to do house chores instead of having fun" right, of course how ridiculous is that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:13 PM
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many women are way too obsessed with chores to ever actually enjoy life or the relationship with their partner or their children. You are seeing it backwards. It's not that she's obsessed with chores and would gladly chose them over beign happy. Someone needs to do the chores and that takes away her time and energy. If she had help around the house maybe she'd be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:54 PM
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Depends Some guys were not raised doing house chores around the house. Their mom did stuff for them so they assume their gf will continue that role. So it takes an extra effort to teach them to do stuff and that's a huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:40 PM
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* red pill man yells at cloud *
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:38 AM
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Someone could be enthusiastic while drunk and not sober. that's what I've been saying 5 comments ago she won't be enthusiastic if she's blackout drunk though. You know perfectly well where the limit is and arguing about this smells rapey. I have no idea what the last paragraph is about you are just randomly ranting "Oh but I want to have sex with a woman who is very drunk and probably regret it" fine, do it enjoy the rape allegations 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:17 AM
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There's a famous ok cupid study where the pills conversation came from. This is it. But men forgot to read this part No matter how attractive a woman appears, we see similar messaging behavior. For men, those who are most attractive send the most messages, with the top 40% reaching out the most. Perhaps they enjoy basking in the glory of being one of the elitely attractive. The truth about messaging When we looked specifically at sending the first message, we found one striking habit: everyone’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:59 AM
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It's not that hard to understand If you want to escape rape allegations don't have sex with someone who is not enthusiastically trying to have sex with you, that's how you know they are still conscious to consent If you are so pathetic to try to have sex with someone who is blackout drunk then you deserve some rape allegations for being an asshole. I don't care what the law says.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:23 AM
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Not everyone gets wasted to the point where they can't consent and you can still have enthusiastic consent while drunk (low enough alcohol levels to consent, high enough level to be a little inhibited. 95% of people are in this state in a party). You are intentionally misinterpreting. Nobody is saying that any sexual activity that happens afer drinking 1 beer is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:18 AM
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yeah I think it's the uniform and nothing more, like a sexy roleplay It's like thinking men want to date nurses because they find the sexy nurse outfit hot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:06 PM
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even the famous OK cupid study says that men shoot their shot above their league and women not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:50 PM
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Guys have a hard time accepting that if they are too skinny, below average weight, their looksmatch is not below average weight women, it's probably chubby women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:48 PM
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Mine did that as well and my sister bought a huge couch for this reason too I think it's genius
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:43 PM
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maybe guys who can't get laid no matter what have deeper issues that no pill can fix I can totally see TRP making things worst for a guy who is already frustrated with women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:41 PM
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I don't know I'd have to weight pros and cons. Also maybe separate rooms could be a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:30 PM
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Sounds like daddy issues or gold digging
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:23 PM
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Depends on the person. Some people don't date for the sake of dating and only meet people they already like. I've had 2 or 3 failed dates and the rest have turned into short term or long term something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:22 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:17 PM
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Snoring loudly could be a deal breaker for me. Chewing with the mouth open could be too. Really bad breath that's not fixed with brushing his teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:16 PM
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some guys don't get to have the luxury of enthusiastic consent, that's why they have to settle for drunk consent. And that's why they feel the need to constantly argue that a half conscious woman can consent. Honestly pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:39 PM
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make up is not a lie though you can clearly see it with your own eyes lol oh wait, you though eyelids were naturally smoky?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:36 PM
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No they don't people usually break up after a guy cheats. Women file for divorce more, remember? Oh course not everyone breaks up after cheating since women cheat too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:52 PM
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Your are right I should've said Michael Jackson or smth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:35 AM
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Why projection? Women always have choices and yet women cheat less
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:35 AM
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I still don't understand Women aren't hooked to softwares, chads are still real people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:33 AM
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I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:09 AM
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If that ever happens it will only damage men who consume AI supermodels imagine raising your standards to such unreal levels that you'll never find a match in the real world The guys who will want to have kids but are also addicted to this AI gf are not going to be able to procreate oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:05 AM
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that's not the definition of HVM though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:58 AM
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The 40 yr woman in the 20 yr body, how many ncounts does she have? Her 40yr bodycount experience or the 20yr physical body experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:51 AM
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I said what I said!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:48 AM
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of course, men only care about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:45 AM
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If she’s a true feminist she might be okay. sadly 40 year old guys don't have very progressive ideas. She will probably think he's an old fashioned asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:43 AM
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yeah men only care about looks if Obama was placed in a 20 year old female body they will want to fuck him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:42 AM
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I know she needs better female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:38 AM
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This is just a coping fantasy. They are bitter they don't have choices but would cheat if given the possibility. Nobody here is HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:37 AM
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I'd say cheaters aren't high value to women, they are just fuckboys maybe to men, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:35 AM
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OP needs better female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:16 AM
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the "cool girl" I believe the cool girl act is a lifestyle, not an act done intentionally for one particular person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:08 PM
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Ironic you say this in a post claiming that male perspective is the objective truth while women's perspective is emotional and fictional
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:00 PM
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Women believe in physics too you know...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:58 PM
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You don't mind someone being with you thinking you are "meh"? maybe you should raise those standards, that screams low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:04 PM
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She checks all the boxes except one If you were chosen with that mindset you'd scream af/bb
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:35 PM
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You literally said it You don't like it when I repeat it back to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:25 AM
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💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:14 AM
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Absolutely not I'd rather him not check the other boxes but chemistry is key
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:54 AM
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The closest thing I can think of is someone who I recognize is "objectively" good looking, but isn't my type. Or someone who is "cool" but I don't really like their personality, and they're not really someone I want to spend that much time with. this is chemistry. Literally this. They are objectively good on paper but they are not your type. There's something missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:50 AM
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If you are fine being with someone who thinks you are good on paper but overall meh I think it shows low self esteem and should definitely raise those standards. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:48 AM
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I remember being a teenager and the whole "can women masturbate?" was incredibly taboo. Nobody was entirely sure, nobody explained how, guys described what they saw in porn, etc. Imagine how confusing it was when I was able to do it. My first thought was "I guess this answers the question" Why this happens? I think there's something about women's sexuality that society isn't really comfortable with. I guess it has religious implications since masturbation is pure sexual hedonistic pleasure witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:25 AM
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so if you have choices it does matter but if you don't it doesn't matter? that's sad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:12 AM
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so you have no problem in being chosen as betabuxx?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:38 AM
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it's so telling that some of you don't understand the concept of chemistry it's like if they can't put it in concrete words and do a scientific study it doesn't exist. Chemistry is something you feel in a relationship, either you feel it or not. And everyone who has felt it knows exactly what it means without further explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:30 AM
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like an af/bb relationship where the guy checks all the boxes except the passion one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:24 AM
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a really boring person will also cooperate and not be argumentative. It's like a af/bb relationship where the beta is good on paper but nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:23 AM
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smells like pick me behavior In the past I convinced myself that being manhandled like in a porn movie was so hot and enjoyable until one guy made me cum easily and then I was never able to go back Now I think it's about both of our orgasms. One day maybe we do a porno and I don't cum (I cum but after from oral), the next it's about me. I think that's fair for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:05 AM
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I find the women who want to be manhandled are way more fun to have sex with well yeah obviously, because it's all about you and not her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:01 AM
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It wasn't feminists who organized the parade, it was a father, a mother and the male friends (mostly) of a victim. this is a lie. Ni una menos was always a feminist movement: link En medio de esta situación de horror generalizado, la periodista Marcela Ojeda lanzó un desafío a través de las redes sociales: "Actrices, políticas, artistas, empresarias, referentes sociales... mujeres, todas, bah... ¿no vamos a levantar la voz? NOS ESTÁN MATANDO". Decenas de mujeres respondieron a este tuit y, en po…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:45 AM
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Yeah same in south America. More precisely around 2015. And "ni una menos" is against femicides. That "no sex" thing I've never heard of
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:59 PM
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ok! I'll copy and paste it there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:40 PM
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As I told some people on the megathread I have a speech impediment and I recently found a support group for my people Even though ND has nothing to do with speech impediments, 50% of the group is ND since a speech impediment is socially crippling. They get together once a month and then they go for beers. ND people surely have groups to meet up and talk about their struggles. Places where you can make connections that can lead to who knows maybe dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:40 PM
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This isn't victim olympics lol also there are different degrees of speech impediments. Mine is mild, other's struggle more than with mild autism. I met a guy who is in constant spasms when he talks and you can clearly see his vocabulary is limited because some words are more difficult than others. He's extroverted so who knows..... Like I said before 50% of the people I met also are ND. Either because of speech impediments or by coincidence. None of us are normal, that's for sure, we laugh about…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:34 PM
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OP is saying keep going despite of being ND I have a speech impediment. Does that make it harder for me to date? yes Does it make it impossible? No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:16 PM
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after the Chad Chad what happened? I love Chad Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:22 AM
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solid 3
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:01 AM
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nooo no, men who have zero experience are way more unhinged than men who have sex. Sure they are both misogynistic but guys who have sex are more grounded and are less bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:57 AM
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lmaooo this hmmmm I wonder why women don't like you hmmmmm what a mistery
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:52 AM
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you are supposed to listen to the person you are with not eavesdrop on your neighbor
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:50 AM
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Amazing at emotional connecting how would I be emotionally connected to someone who doesn't believe in women's rights.. how
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:54 PM
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real men don't cry when told how fragile or insecure they are real men understand that fragility and insecurity are a part of life and don't invalidate their perception of masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:36 PM
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The only substitute to that is arranged marriages where all creepy approaches are eliminated Imagine how awkward it must be too make sexual advances on your new arranged wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:32 PM
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I meant how did you know the spark wasn’t there. this guy was my first boyfriend. We broke up. I dated another guy for 3 years (with whom I also had sex issues but thanks to therapy and patience I was kind of able to start solving the vaginismus). Then I randomly met my first bf on the street so we got together. This was like 5 years after breaking up. We met, we had normal sex but we didn't get back together because I remembered why we had broken up in the first place. So I wouldn't say the spa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:34 PM
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what do you mean how do I know? I was there 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:21 PM
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vaginismus is like a wall like how am I able to menstruate when there's clearly a wall there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:30 PM
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You have no idea what vaginismus is, it’s not caused by unattractive men. It’s caused by a physiological and psychological response of fear of penetration. Many virgins have it. totally I've been there. Ironically the guy with who I wasn't able to have sex, was the one I loved and was attracted the most. Life isn't fair. Once I got over the vaginismus we met again (like 5 years later), we were able to have normal sex but the spark just wasn't there anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:29 PM
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The only way to refute or confirm it if we had an actual study with a very good methodology studying this topic. "Do normal people have relationships? A study" I think what is more interesting is with what kind of partner. This is the core argument of this sub. What kind of partner. My POV is that painting the picture like humanity is going to end because some people don't like the type of partner they attract it's kind of dramatic. Like who tf do you think you are. You can't throw a tantrum bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:48 PM
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but there's no way of refuting, how would you refute it? it's literally gaslighting no, sorry, there's no way or refuting or confirming
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:24 PM
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what january is saying is that the premise for the post is flawed because it's not even my word against yours bc OP says women's word is not valid. It's more than "I don't agree because my experience is this"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:18 PM
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I wouldn't But I'd gladly accept a cookie and would talk to you if you offer me one on the hallway
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:07 AM
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lmao I just commented the exact same thing OP's argument is "no, you are wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:40 AM
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so there's no way of winning no? because beauty is subjective you just think you win an argument by saying "no, you are wrong, I know what beauty is, I don't know who you are talking about but I know better than you" The majority of people are average so everyone has more chances of knowing average people than above or below average. YET all the people we all know are somehow not average? mathematically doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:38 AM
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yeah same. I have average friends with families. I get invited to their family reunions where people are average too. My father wasn't a Chad and my mother wasn't a Stacy. My BIL and his family are nowhere near being chads in fact all of them are overweight. 5 of 6 (6 brothers/sisters) are paired up, some have kids. Nobody is taller than 5'7". I could go on and on about all the people I know but I have the feeling it's pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:34 AM
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telling them that behavior is unacceptable the male version is going batshit crazy for sports they too have parasocial delulu relationships with their team of choice to the point of even kill other men from the opposite team a team they are not even a part of. "we won" they say, No, dude, you watched other people play and you picked a side. I have never seen a Tailor Swift fan kill a Harry styles fan, just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:32 AM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:23 PM
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Nobody is policing conversations, you can talk to anyone about anything. If you talk to a friend you are supposed to be respectful and the friend is supposed to keep it to themselves also if you are bothered by your gf talking about you, you can totally say something and break up if it's too much
/r/MensRights29/08/23 02:58 PM
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The person which fucked them and now needs some child support $$$ but how what do you do if you had to find someone? look in facebook and send them a dm? literally how? hire a private investigator? that costs money If they don't show up on court, you lock them down. but you still don't know if he is really the father, so you'd have to spend a lot of resources from the government to lock down someone under suspicion of being a father. What if he's not? why would anyone give their DNA without soli…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:57 PM
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ppd rn is 40% ND posts 10% ncount 50% "women prefer assholes and I'm a nice guy" like this 2 consecutive posts Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce. ​ Women who wait at the finish line for men get less love/respect from those same men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:22 AM
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they wish!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:57 AM
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that's not possible who has the time and money to hunt someone down? the state can't arrest someone under suspicion of being a father he also can totally refuse to have his dna tested if you don't lock them up why would they show up in court? it just doesn't seem possible to do all that, that's why it's the state who has to take care of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:54 AM
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don't we all 🤘
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:49 AM
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well obviously the state doesn't want to spend money on the people they call that communism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:43 PM
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I see how that is not fair but the law is there to protect the kids in this case the state should have some kind of economical help for the mother, so that those kids don't end up on the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:39 PM
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🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 why are they even alive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:36 PM
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Yesterday I ate salmon with potatoes but I made the "mistake" of cooking too much potatoes so I just bought another piece of salmon to go with the rest of the potatoes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:34 PM
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because of the coworker effect spending a lot of time with someone makes you start looking at them differently they don't want to talk or go near you not with that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:32 PM
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it's the double standard physical violence from a boy: oh well boys will be boys she does something mundane which she perceives slightly stupid: gets a lecture about how she cried too much as a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:28 PM
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oh you were here for the actual advice? yeah probably not the place for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:25 PM
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I think it's easier for women to get a date for a meaningful relationships it's probably equally difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:23 PM
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waaaaaaaaay more men watch porn than women porn is catered to men's tastes and fantasies and it's creepy this is so dumb it's like "No!ThE SkY IsNT BlUE" dude let it go, admit men are creepier than women and that's reflected in porn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:57 PM
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you know the difference between non creepy porn and creepy porn? having a stuffed panda bear with a strap on, for example or a barely legal woman with a onesie grabbing a stuffed bear while she's being fucked in the ass. Her face doesn't show pleasure. there's no need for that unless you want to see something creepy non creepy porn is people fucking, the classic pizza delivery guy, massage session, pool party, there's ton of those too but noooo they are so desensitized that normal people fucking…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:18 PM
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amateur doesn't look as fake at least what I saw I didn't like they were bad actors, everything was too beautiful, too "performed", too perfect. I know all porn is fake but this was too much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:33 PM
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step bro, step sis, daddy, incest is pretty mainstream there are even memes about it Either you are very naive or you are making up stuff just to make men look good "men don't like creepy porn" is hilarious honestly and don't get me started with hentai how do you explain hentai lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:29 PM
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I think it's a whole category where there is a very well produced, very well lit, love scene where 2 beautiful models kiss each other like a romantic movie More like soft porn it also looks fake af, like a scene from a movie
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:25 PM
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but the posts says romantic porn you can be respectful and not romantic like any amateur video
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:57 PM
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they are having sex and watching porn, pretty sure they are not that sad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:52 PM
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Men are not usually into creepy stuff. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 riiiiiiiiiiiiight then explain the amount of weird porn out there FUCKING LOL you think I don't know what I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:51 PM
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you watch romantic porn? lmaoooo I'd rather you admit that you watch weird stepmom washing machine porn than that it frightens me 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:49 PM
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from twox A couple days ago, I suggested watching some porn in bed with my husband (of five years) ya know, as you do and I asked him to pick a video. It took him fifteen minutes to find the perfect one, and I found it hilarious that when he watches it, it’s got to have a story line a plot, realistic characters and it’s got to be romantic for him to enjoy it. fucking lol am I the only one who thinks this guy thought of a video that she might like? my sweet summer child that guy watches creepy sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:17 AM
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but then I'd have to take care of the kids nono, I don't want that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:40 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:24 AM
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why do you keep bringing up sandwiches 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this sub is something else sleeping with a dog is not a cultural practice you are blowing everything out of proportion with that essay -🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:40 AM
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70% lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:07 AM
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People who have dogs for protection make them sleep outside because it makes more sense. Also anyone who has lived in a middle class neighborhood where people have guardian dogs know that barking 98% means there are feral cats fighting nearby My issue is you making it sound like a such a big deal, like by making them sleep on the floor instead of your bed is some kind of break of human-dog instinctual bond
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:04 AM
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and see her a cougar snatching a young boy another thing people think is that the guy has mommy issues and the older woman is basically treating him like a son It's creepy but it's none is in any danger
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:40 PM
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yeah, it's not like the mother is going to give them to me so that I can act like a mom
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:23 PM
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does the majority of men prefer submissive women enough to generalize with a margin of error? also no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:21 PM
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For me being a stepmom wouldn't be a problem since I don't want to have kids of my own It's not the ideal scenario obviously but if everything else checks, it's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:20 PM
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wouldn't be comfortable all the most successful couples I know are looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:13 PM
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that's crazy it's not necessary to sleep on the same bed as your pet also if the dog is sleeping on the same bed as you it's less likely to listen to any weird noise from outside also people usually have dogs as companions; locks, fences and alarms for safety
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:11 PM
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the spirits under the bed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:07 PM
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my mind went to a totally different direction
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:07 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:04 PM
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oh that's why I put those requirements in my Tinder bio ❌ ass eaters sluts abstain!! ❌
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:04 PM
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depends are yawns contagious, yes do all men like submissive women, not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:02 PM
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beards = make up I wouldn't say either are deception though, it's just the best version of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:00 PM
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If he doesn't kill it with his bicep, is he really a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:58 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:57 PM
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are you sure the person filming didn't film tshirt guys because they aren't as attractive as muscle guys? also are you sure it's that clear that tshirt guys are at the edge of the party because women don't want to dance with them? because it can totally be that tshirt guys aren't dancing because they don't want to dance (lack of confidence or maybe simply don't like dancing) and that's the reason they are at the edge of the party. Tshirt guys also don't dance with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:46 PM
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a virgin was sacrificed (probably a ppd user)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:27 AM
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It's impossible to maintain long term
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:25 AM
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to gossip 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:23 AM
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Today I went to a group meeting for people with speech impediment. This is the first time meeting people of my kind and it went super well. Then we went for beers There were like 20 people, 10 of them on the spectrum or with mild to severe social anxiety. This is not surprising since having a speech impediment is socially crippling. However, many of them interacted despite being outside the comfort zone. I can totally see how some of them probably struggle with dating, but I also saw a community…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:22 AM
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As someone dealing with parents old age I think socializing and keep working until you are old is key my mom got alzheimer's as soon as she retired and she had no friends my father works to this day and he has a lot of friends, he's mentally fine they are both 80
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:12 PM
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What's going on here? Why no link?
/r/MensRights21/08/23 03:31 PM
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but that's more like a memory. Like when you listen to a song and you are teleported to another time and space. but this is different, right now I feel that I can still smell it even though it's impossible since I'm not at the shop anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:57 AM
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I was so uncomfortable with the smell and smoke and the people working there didn't seem to mind they are going to be dead in 10 years you too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:07 AM
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´Today I went to a shop where they laser cut wood. The smell was terrible, like burned caramel but toxic I feel that I can still smell it even after a few hours am I crazy or do some chemical scents can linger on your nose for a long time?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:52 AM
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Note from the moderators: Being red-pilled is not allowed. this made me moist
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:38 AM
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vulva maybe but astronaut I don't believe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:36 AM
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yess bothhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:35 AM
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oh sorry! I thought it was the other person that recommended it! it was you! thankssss!!! They offered me to take leave for the whole week but I'm so lame I took only one day FACEPALM I need to learn from gen z, they know
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:10 AM
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My job is my hobby. When I'm in a cool project I work 24/7, that's why I get all mixed up This project sucks though but I do have a passion project I could work on I also have some diy things I can do to decorate my house Rn I'm in bed though because of the surgery So maybe tomorrow Watching that Instagramer someone recommended made me feel less guilty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:49 PM
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No no, not Asian, just grew up with strict parents
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:38 PM
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Exactly Now I feel guilty for feeling guilty Fuck multi million corporations and their guilt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:37 PM
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I needed this thanks Even though I really enjoy my work it's nice to be reminded that I'm not defined by my bosses approval (One of them organizes people like shit and the other one literally went OOO)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:36 PM
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Idk, I'm always afraid of getting fired or making people mad. I grew up with parents "why did you get an A and not an A+?👎" I think that fucked me up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:02 PM
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Yeah this is a thing and there's massages and exercises of your pelvic floor for that However pee doesn't come out from the vagina but I get what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:59 PM
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https://imgur.com/gallery/wcQ7dCd 😂😂😂 There's a lot of misinformation out there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:55 PM
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I hate feeling guilty for not working even though I just had minor surgery and the surgeon told me to chill. The truth is I could work and we are on a deadline. But I also worked a lot while being sick (the flu) and it's not like anybody gave a shit. I finished my part so I didn't even leave extra work for the team Also my boss took a vacation day in the middle of this deadline hell and he's clearly not feeling guilty Why do I still feel guilty? Is this how capitalism brainwashing works?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:49 PM
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That's kind of a weird mindset though. I think small talk to random people is an excellent practice for approaching. I'm a sociable person (W) with strangers and I also pay attention to my surroundings a lot. So sometimes I make small comments like for example at the grocery store line or the elevator. I fish for small talk. So if someone answers with monosyllables I don't go any further. But usually there's always someone who likes to chat. They'll give me clear signs that they are enjoying the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:44 PM
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the problem isn't approaching the problem is not being able to read the room to know when you are welcomed and when you are making someone uncomfortable It's not like harassment is going to change her mind
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:21 AM
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no, you get too angry, I'm not comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:54 PM
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Rejecting a woman because she's obese is prejudiced but rejecting a man because he's short isn't? Right. I specifically said that fatphobia isn't sexist I won't date a guy who's sucked a dick, ew. that one is homophobic and sexist that's the only one that's sexist, the rest aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:44 PM
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I have no problem admiting when I'm wrong but like I said before, you need to come up with better arguments or at least read the definitions of the things you are arguing otherwise it's impossible to have a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:34 PM
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I'm sick of men here announcing to the world all the hate they have and then playing victims when people don't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:11 PM
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confident man 100% alpha behavior (no sarcasm)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:10 PM
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right of course WOMEN, LISTEN! DON'T TATTOO YOURSEF BECAUSE RANDOM REDDIT USER DOESN'T LIKE IT!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:58 PM
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you don't need to scream everything you don't like about people when it literally doesn't affect you in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:55 PM
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"small man syndrome" you just made that up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:44 PM
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getting angry at a company for profiting from them might actually change something but noooo they rather blame it on women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:20 PM
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you are wrong because you keep understanding wrong the definition of sexism do some research and we'll talk this has been discussed a million times already I'm not going to waste my time in people who don't even bother to read about stuff they argue about 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:18 PM
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is that Destiny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:07 PM
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you need to read what sexism is, that's objective prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, on the basis of sex example: ncounts prejudice ✅ (the prejudice is assuming that because a woman had a lot of sex she's going to behave a certain way) stereotyping ✅(same as above) discrimination ✅ literally shaming women for having more sex than men allow ​ ​ example2: women preferring tall men prejudice: ???? there's no prejudice against short men, they have jobs, wives, kids, people respect them as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:59 PM
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it's a saying you are not supposed to interpret "put in jail and throw away the key" literally
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:47 PM
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they can make the first move without looking like a "whore" maybe that's changing now but a decade ago you were supposed to wait for the guy to call or text
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:38 PM
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men's preferences listed on that post are sexist and women's aren't. Except the fatphobic one, that's just fatphobic. I'm not going to go one by one because it'd sort of pointless. Not every preference is ok and many of them are rooted in sexism, like ncounts. But anyway if you don't like what random people think on the internet don't post it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:35 PM
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tattoos always look good anyone can look automatically prettier with some nice tattoos not everyone has to like them though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:22 PM
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we've been through this a million times it's how men phrase their preference that's problematic men: I don't like landwhales women: hey! that's problematic men: what's wrong with having preferences!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:19 PM
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lmaooo exactly "your honor! evidence shows she had a one night stand in 2013 and she swallowed once in 2015 (guy didn't let her know). This means I'm entitled to such treatment ASAP"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:15 PM
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they want to see the file where you kept all that info guy #2 : missionary doggy + made him wait 5 months guy #3 : oral + made him wait 3 dates wdym you don't have a file?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:12 PM
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and your comment is another version of "I won the mental gymnastics Olympics"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:09 PM
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I'd put that person in jail and throw the key idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:06 PM
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maybe it doesn't happen that often I've seen men in mensrights get all angry at women because one woman in Florida did some stupid shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:05 PM
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courses, classes, sports, travelling everyone posting about passport bros should be trying their luck in hostels talking to fellow travellers pretty much any mixed social activity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:59 PM
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Maybe you are a bad writer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:37 PM
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it sounds like you are defending men who cheat like so many people do here that's all I'm saying ✌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:19 PM
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they don't have to lie, they are simply narcissistic assholes stop defending cheaters
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:12 PM
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Plus the women that think they are in a relationship with a guy is pretty high too you mean men who are cheaters? people here usually make it sound like the women are delusional, when actually the one who is being a POS is the man but nooo, blaming men for shitty behavior? here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:59 PM
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"alpha male" is so cringe, what you described is a well adjusted member of society
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:30 PM
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A poll isn't scientific evidence though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:06 PM
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I have! but for some reason I didn't get hooked like I got with My 600 lb life you could have lost tirdy pounds dis munt
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:58 AM
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yeah I'm the one being absurd 😂😂😂 obviously so imagine PPD if the dating pool of men was so so so narrow. But also you are giving an advantage to single moms so I guess that's good for the kids. As long as she doesn't excede the kid to partner ratio she can collect kids from different fathers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:29 AM
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holy shit that is seriously a lot and so crippling for kids so young, they should be running everywhere is this in the UK? so it's really a problem I see I think I've met only one guy who weighted 330 lb but he was also very tall
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:26 AM
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what? are you serious? Most scale's maximum is 330 - 400 lbs there are kids that weight more than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:14 AM
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so you think it's going to be easy for men to seek virgins at 35? 😂 also what if the men don't want to have kids? they'd be ruining forever a woman's reputation? she's went from being a pure virgin to a street whore
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:06 AM
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fat vs skinny (a uk show) really has no chill (overweight woman) "so the doctor said they needed to use vet equipment because of my size" (overly groomed average weight man) "that must be humiliating" *sobs*
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:02 AM
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because it's cringe to be 35 and only be able to date virgins I mean, sure, go for it, don't complain if it's hard af
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:57 AM
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but then if a man doesn't want to date someone who already has kids he'd have to date only virgins your plan isn't very practical
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:54 AM
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so women who don't want to have kids..... stay virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:44 AM
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beauty standards aren't subconscious though, they are right there, we have tutorials about them men being horny isn't a subconscious process either
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:38 AM
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my woman cave would be a balcony or some fancy patio with a nice view with a table where I can use my computer. Like a semi outdoor office. There's glass and plants but it's also cozy for when it rains. There's also a small fridge with drinks and snacks that's the opposite of a cave Ik but I don't like collectible objects or dark rooms and I hate with all my life and soul rgb led lights
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:33 AM
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I use the word autistic when I need to say that something is ignoring social cues and nuances of communication
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:54 PM
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they are checking if he's gay Gender Affirming Care Clinic clearly have an agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:51 PM
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AND FYI 2500 WERE ABOUT NCOUNTS! -maffioze
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:49 PM
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You always do this, you go on a tangent 😂 we were talking about validation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:47 PM
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that's great!! Yes, there is a list, but it still won't guarantee you success, but it certainly places the odds in your favor!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:45 PM
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Our grandmas tell us to be gentlemen and be a good provider because that's all they needed 60+ years ago. I think you are romanticizing the past. People went on dates, people were picky and unlucky men also existed. The unlucky men of that time died without children, you are only getting Chad's version. 1950's Chad thought he only had to be a gentleman and a provider but there were also all other stuff going on too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:42 PM
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Also, plenty of guys cant figure out what they find attractive either. Those guys clearly chase after the hottest around but want to pretend they want an “average chick”. because women don't go with a list "hey Man, you told me you liked boobs, I have boobs, why don't you like me"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:38 PM
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the point is that some stuff can't be clearly communicated like "chemistry" doesn't matter how eloquent you are it's also perfectly fine to keep asking. I only have a problem with men who say that women are stupid or unarticulated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:37 PM
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Why is there so many positive reactions to the post you say is bs? " Having an attractive partner has become more of a status symbol for men than having money. " what this? no, this is not BS. Status is literally external validation. men have very little social interest you mean interest in socialization? that's very BS, what are you even doing here if nor interacting with others? men are as social as women. Sports? Business? Any daily normal activity is a social activity. TRP is social activity…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:30 PM
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Data is beautiful, but OP might not be lmaoooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:23 PM
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...the number of the beastttt sacrifice is going on tonightt 🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:16 PM
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literally any famous person is data smh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:15 PM
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Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men This title is so interesting because it's like some men are waiting for an autistic list of stuff they can do to check and suddenly become successful with women but that's not how reality works, there's extra non verbal stuff that cannot be explained with words. How do you explain chemistry? Chemistry is just something that happens and you can't control it. It's either there or it isn't. I can totally understand the desperati…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:00 PM
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"status" is exactly that so......
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:54 PM
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I bet he used Chat GPT "make andrew tate sound like he's not braindead"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:53 PM
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testerical 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:49 PM
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that's BS men love validation as well there wouldn't be men on social media if that was true, even something as lame as reddit karma is cocaine for some. a few comments below there's someone saying Having an attractive partner has become more of a status symbol for men than having money. status symbols is literally external validation also like I commented below, this comment in particular show how shallow some men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:47 PM
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this was fun lmaooo I was expecting her to leave or sth but no, she just stood there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:43 PM
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GrassToucher29 is such a genius, they blocked me before I was able to read the last message😂😂😂 also for absolutely no reason, I wasn't even fighting oh well u/MrsDrgree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:36 PM
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How are you applying though? are you making the HR lady uncomfortable? are you sending dick pics with your curriculum? Why would you be accused of harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:33 PM
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if you use your gf as a status symbol because she's pretty you are shallow af
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:31 PM
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I'm not even from the USA that's why I'm saying it's just one organization in one country why don't you take a wider look outside the USA? I know what sub I'm in though, here they usually take the most unhinged Karen and take it as representative of women lol confirmation bias it's called
/r/MensRights15/08/23 12:41 PM
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he's probably 7 feet tall 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:37 PM
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what were you doing TOUCHING GRASS? we don't like that here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:00 PM
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of course competitive foreskin cutting is totally a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:56 PM
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😂😂😂 men are allowed to be hypocrites glad we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:54 PM
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sure, don't come posting then complaining that women are the evil end of humanity because of their high standards when you are doing exactly the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:43 PM
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classic men with high standards smh smh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:32 PM
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unless you date in your own nerd group or you are too good for nerd girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:26 PM
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I swear white clothes last so little I can totally see how being able to wear white is a symbol of wealth Maybe 4 or 5 washing cycles and then that just get forever dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:51 PM
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Sure but the USA is by no means the standard in feminism. The world is big and the organization you mention is just one of many. Feminism as a global concept fight for what you mentioned before
/r/MensRights13/08/23 03:20 PM
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Oh I know, I was answering to OP that said it that’s not a good thing bc it means everyone else is also having an easy time with her I'd introduce you to my friend. She's awesome, pretty, good person, family oriented but she's also so unlucky with men and I think the reason is bc she seems normal until she starts with the horoscope shit and not even the superficial "oh you are Sagittarius" no, she talks about the moon sign, the sun sign, the ascendant, all the stuff She gives advice based on tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:28 PM
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But that would require equal parenting rights, paid paternity leave and all the rest feminism globally fights for exactly this. If there's a particular organization that's against this they are the exception
/r/MensRights13/08/23 01:24 PM
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yes, this seems fair. Make it all unisex except for quick urinals room I was just answering to someone saying that women don't need longer time than men, which is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 01:22 PM
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I wasn't talking about fairness I was answering to this They tend to take more time, not need more time women need more time because of all above mentioned
/r/MensRights13/08/23 01:20 PM
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Make 'em all equally unisex, first come first served oh I agree with this the other day I went to the hospital and I noticed it had unisex bathrooms. It was like 8 stalls and a common area to wash your hands it worked fine I don't know why people make such a big deal
/r/MensRights13/08/23 01:17 PM
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only on this sub people deny that women require longer time to pee. That's the reason women's bathrooms are slower 😂 it's like, what do you people here think a woman does in the bathroom? play cards? also forgot to mention that women on their periods need more time to avoid making a bloody mess
/r/MensRights13/08/23 03:07 AM
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most men don't but regardless you don't put your pants down and squat. Women's clothes are more complicated than men's, they have more layers and require more adjustments. Also women carry purses, and finding a place to put it also takes time. There's a reason men's bathrooms are faster than women's.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 03:01 AM
5

exactly! women chose to be nurses while men chose to be CIOs
/r/MensRights13/08/23 02:42 AM
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putting your pants down cleaning yourself with paper and putting them up again takes more time than just taking your dick out from the zipper. Men don't even need to wipe.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 02:39 AM
0

as much as I hate astrology it doesn't mean they are whores lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:25 PM
1

Lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:06 PM
1

misogyny here is like bread and butter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:59 AM
1

butter manisphere your typos are killing me LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:58 AM
5

the internet is big, nobody is forcing you to be here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:57 AM
1

you still came back 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:46 PM
2

one kind or supportive thing you did for a man in your life this week I work in a team with a man and a woman. I told both of them that the work they are doing looks great
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:45 PM
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"men's loneliness is rampant, women can afford to be alone because they have a support group, unlike men" also men: The fact is that a lot of men are not looking for female friends, they don't need or want friends interesting also: men simply are choosing loneliness over doing free labor for women this is an extremely weird way to see friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:42 PM
3

if it was done at appropriate times and places. this is exactly the issue the men who pay or consume PUAs content usually don't know how to read the room to make cold approaches the guy who can cold aproach successfully doesn't need PUAs. and PUAs don't teach you how to read the room, they just blame feminism when it fails. which is ridiculous. that's why women's advice take for granted that you are able to read the room
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:36 PM
2

how to attract women’s attention that's because attraction can be build from people you already know like friends or coworkers, that's the sort of scenarios women are thinking about when giving advice no women in the history of women will advice cold approach because it's annoying PUAs will tell you "women are liars! they love to be cold approached" then incels try it, fail, and for some reason end up blaming it on women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:24 PM
1

it's a bunch of cells, it's not a human. Thinking that glorified period clot is a human is entirely personal belief. to come face to face with the full weight of what has just transpired what full weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:12 PM
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we are already like 8 billion people producing trash the fact that so many people don't want to have kids is probably a biological self regulatory population system but conservatives for some strange reason still think we need to be MORE MORE HUMANS MORE!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:26 PM
1

obviously, but I mean doctors the same kind of questions you get when you ask about sterilization
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:20 PM
1

we definitely should legalize dolphin abortion if that's what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:16 PM
1

but still, it'd be great if those same questions were asked it seems like people don't care about that 19 y/o as long as she's bringing new humans
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:25 PM
1

many people thinks it's a bunch of cells, that's why it's legal in many places, pretty straightforward
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:23 PM
1

I try not to think like I'm an alien but I get what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:20 PM
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If a 19 y/o decides not to have kids and wants to be sterilized she's going to be asked a million questions, what does your partner think? what does your family think? what if you regret it? etc etc fine, being careful is ok but how come if a 19 y/o gets pregnant nobody asks her "are you sure you are ready for this? what does your family think? what does your partner think? what if you regret it? are you sure you don't want an abortion?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:11 PM
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yes! if they don't want kids they should have a vasectomy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:06 PM
4

Women give advice assuming that the sexual attraction is already there that's prob bc those women also assume men have some level of "reading the room" abilities. nobody will say "if she's not attracted to you don't keep trying" because it's implied that we all already know this. By reading this sub now I know it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:04 PM
4

I suspect giving presents gives him some satisfaction like a kink
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:29 AM
1

nah they are all physical aspects and fatshaming is absolutely unnecessary you can keep the hate to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:13 PM
1

the tupe of calling me sexist on this sub of all subs 😂😂😂 but anyway that wasn't sexist
/r/MensRights10/08/23 01:59 AM
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pick mes aren't new
/r/MensRights10/08/23 12:41 AM
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you keep repeating how men had more power that's why they were able to win it first but they fought it for themselves not for everyone idk what else to say
/r/MensRights09/08/23 10:08 PM
2

insult me harder daddy! personal attacks only make me feel that I am right 😎
/r/MensRights09/08/23 10:05 PM
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Everyone throughout history was denied power by those who had it voting is having power that's only because men fought for the right first so you are saying that men were able to fight it first? you are saying that in fact there was a part of the population with the ability to win stuff before others? this is exactly my point so they won the right of vote but they only did it for themselves leaving out a part of the population and you are still saying there's not power imbalance thanks for provi…
/r/MensRights09/08/23 09:21 PM
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if the price of being able to vote is conscription (which is wrong but whatever) but you won't let a part of the population take that deal doesn't that mean that a part of the population has in fact less power?
/r/MensRights09/08/23 09:11 PM
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easy way out of a convo lol "you don't understand, byeeee"
/r/MensRights09/08/23 08:56 PM
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how is that related to what's being said? you think because men had to go to war it's only logical that they are rewarded with the privilege of voting? that doesn't make sense given that voting is a right. Unless you also ask women if they want to participate too in exchange of being able to vote. But nobody asked or included women in wars, because clearly women had less power back then. sure, I don't think anyone should be forced to go to war either If I was president of the world I'd ban all w…
/r/MensRights09/08/23 08:56 PM
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you are not making any sense the main point OP was making is that "50 years is not that long to think that there's a part of the population that has more privileges' than other" and I'm saying if women and men were always equal why didn't they let everyone vote simultaneously and then you brought up the military service??? if you are drafted you can't vote?? if you deny the draft then you can't vote?? is that what you are saying? something very specific of each country's laws? I'm not following
/r/MensRights09/08/23 08:30 PM
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wtf, this is from united nations The right to vote and be elected in genuine, periodic elections is intrinsically linked to a number of other human rights, the enjoyment of which is crucial to a meaningful electoral process. These prerequisite rights include: the right to freedom from discrimination; the right to freedom of opinion and expression; the right to freedom of association and of peaceful assembly; and the right to freedom of movement. ​ The fact that people thought voting was a privil…
/r/MensRights09/08/23 08:18 PM
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Because nobody give a damn about Feminist on r/MensRights, you got that right, that's what makes it fun PPD at least has some sane people even though it's still pretty hostile
/r/MensRights09/08/23 07:19 PM
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Because when men got it, it was seen as a privilege granted in exchange for the responsibility to submit to military service if demanded by the government but voting isn't a privilege it's a right were women asked to if they could choose to go to the military in exchange of being able to vote? because if not it still sounds like the people in power were making decisions for women were disabled people also not allowed to vote?
/r/MensRights09/08/23 07:16 PM
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Because most people in power at the time did not want to give the vote to people unless they thought those people would vote in favor of their interests. so wouldn't that in fact confirm that women were denied of power?
/r/MensRights09/08/23 07:13 PM
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agree It's not almost at the same time it's 50 years I asked why didn't they do it at the same time and nobody is answering. which I find hilarious
/r/MensRights09/08/23 06:06 PM
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nobody is answering interesting 😏
/r/MensRights09/08/23 06:04 PM
2

you mean they've been lying, then they decided to stop lying and now they are starting to lie again bc they are sexless? idk my social media theory seems more plausible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:45 PM
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Maybe the reason men are more sexless is because they are more moral than they used to be? how did you go from men have to lie to men are more moral? Even though I'm kind of skeptical of the idea that the past is always better I'd say that men are more sexless because the internet has made people give the illusion of social interactions/connections. I know we are real people chatting here but it's only with real life interactions that love relationships grow from. The other day I was walking and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:36 PM
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the rise in sexlessness for men leads to men lying to women to sleep with them lol men have been lying to women to sleep with them since forever, there are even tv characters about it (Joey, Barney, chalie sheen, etc) This is one of the reasons women are so weary of men, bc many of them lie
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:05 PM
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So why didn't they let both genders vote at the same time?
/r/MensRights09/08/23 04:48 PM
1

isn't ppd filled with extremely empathetic social butterflies????
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:32 PM
1

😸😸😸😸
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:31 PM
1

you are married at least I have plants, that's all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:31 PM
1

I got some strange results too lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:29 PM
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we are doing a quiz today? Your Attachment Style Is: Securely Attached You naturally feel at ease in relationships but sometimes have trouble relating with others yeah that's BS lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:26 PM
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Your attachment style is: fearful avoidant basically a cat
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:59 PM
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I don't need to consult an internet lawyer I have all the answers Alec Murdaugh is innocent!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:57 PM
1

ew no then it's all sticky and nutella looks like poop on the sheets
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:44 PM
1

yeah I can see that being annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:54 PM
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yeah that's what I'm talking about stuff like "more to the right" "don't stop" etc ah you mean you wouldn't like stuff such as "can we do this position"? what does instruction means?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:42 PM
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I'm going to be a pick me for a sec here My partner told me that I don’t taste good when he goes down on me. What should I do? why isn't top comment "there's a nice ph vag friendly that doesn't itch and helps keep that part clean"? Idk why people have such a big issue asking for the other person to clean themselves before sex if you already tried this then sure, you can tell your bf he's gay or sth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:34 PM
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"more to the right!!!" "nah I'm gonna go left, women don't know what they want"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:29 PM
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if you are not willing to learn about what I like we are not compatible (and bad at sex as far as I know)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:11 PM
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TBF nobody here is challenging OP's view this post is a big circlejerk
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:07 PM
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some men are bad at following instructions they think if they follow instructions they are less or some stupid shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:03 PM
2

totally you can always tell who learned from porn and who learned from real life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:02 PM
1

those aren't concrete actions buy anyway what if all of that is there? you have no idea what horny men are capable of doing to get their dick wet
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:57 PM
1

so what actions you are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:35 PM
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how are you so sure about what guys do and what the say to each other when you're a woman? serious question. I know this by the things men say about each other paired with the countless posts (some on mens rights) about how different male friendships are, how hard it is for them to express themselves and such yeah, i am not gonna believe you because you're not an ugly guy but I have slept with ugly guys if that's not proof idk what is you'll never be satisfied bc my experience hurts your feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:33 PM
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if you've been seeing each other for a couple of weeks there's no more "actions" than meeting at restaurants or cafes. no sane person expects to meet the parents when you've met weeks ago what kind of actions are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:30 PM
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It's just not exactly "promising commitment" that's the maximum promise available at that stage of dating. People don't have the "what are we" conversation what do you need? a signed contract? "I can see myself getting old with you" is pretty promising
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:18 PM
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let's say it's early in the relationship, people don't usually ask "what are we" on the first weeks. And the guy says this stuff. How would you differentiate it from someone who is being honest?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:35 AM
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I know but those are very dramatic I want a petty trial "Evidence will show beyond reasonable doubt that the defendant always leaves the milk out of the fridge"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:13 AM
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They are more shallow than men. Most men don’t care if I mean that men do care about appearances, they are very shallow. At least here fatshaming is rampant. In fact it's men here who constantly say that any woman past her 30 is useless because she lost her beauty. Shallow is valuing someone only by her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:10 AM
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idk, fat shaming is rampant here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:41 AM
0

cool you can stream the trial I'd definitely watch that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:38 AM
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this doesn't go as a "what are we" conversation, more like unprompted phrases like: "I can see my life with you by my side" "I can't wait to meet your family" "we should go on a trip together!" "imagine when we are old and....."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:26 AM
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Yes. you are kidding me what if they never admit to it (and you don't have physical proof)? or what if you plant some evidence or set one of your friends as bait?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:21 AM
0

telling them that Evolutionary psychology is as science as any other psychology like Freud
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:19 AM
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His girlfriend is 9 excuse me? (I’ve also heard 11) WHAT? years older than him oh Jesus thank god but on a serious note around 10 years and it started when he was 21 it's not so bad. If genders were reversed and he'd become her assistant that'd balance out the power dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:16 AM
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and reason for divorce do you get more money if your partner cheats on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:14 AM
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I think you’re 12 and not fully formed. wow triggered much? 😂😂😂😂 Be civil don't make me report you to the mods 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:17 PM
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I'm not arguing with you again like yesterday I end up screaming in caps because you keep repeating the same stuff over and over without reading what I say
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:12 PM
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try to understand this. try to understand that your definition is more correct than mine? why? why would I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:57 PM
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It does not affect the sexual returns negatively women are mean when they talk about fuckboys, word spreads. You can totally have casual sex without people talking about you if you don't care because "at least I had sex" that's pretty pathetic in order to obtain and maintian sexual access... I don't think PPD will get you anywhere near sex lol I'd suggest go outside and touch grass make friends etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:56 PM
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no, it means you are an asshole not every man that has casual sex is a fuckboy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:46 PM
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I'm teaching you about what happens in women's chats and what happens to dick pics you send. Some of you need to have female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:44 PM
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you can have casual sex without having a women's chat group laughing at your dick Why does any of your throught is required to agree with others? what are you doing here then? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:43 PM
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very strange priorities in life which are dictated by that low self esteem they could just have casual sex, not every guy that has casual sex is a fuckboy. Their low self esteem makes them think that being a fuckboy is the only way to have casual sex. they are very confused if you ask me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:41 PM
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that's because they aren't in chat groups with women who talk about them they only believe what the fuckboys says
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:39 PM
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I doubt they actually have good sex though I feel like a fuckboy leaves the club with the lowest most broken person ever just to brag to their homies again, if that's what people want idk, it's kind of sad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:37 PM
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fuckboy is a guy who brags and everyone knows he's lying he also begs for sex that's why women laugh at him behind his back if he shared a dick pic be sure that her group of friends have seen it and laughed at it ​ the bar is very low if you want that for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:35 PM
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nono, it has a very low meaning among women it's the guy who dms everyone so women share screenshots and laugh at him behind his back. if you want that sure, be my guest but I'd also suggest therapy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:33 PM
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people don't change personalities depending who they are with what kid of psycho friends do you have lol have you ever heard people talk about other people? they usually agree. If someone is an asshole, he's likely to be an asshole to their family, to their coworkers, to their friends etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:28 PM
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ew no std dick
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:25 PM
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imagine having your self esteem so low that "fuckboy" is a compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:22 PM
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"fuckboy" is that you want to fuck them, it doesn't mean that it means that they think they fuck but probably don't or if they do is kind of lame, like he brags to his friends but he's secretly begging for sex to low value women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:20 PM
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fuckboys are fucked in the head though, they have self sabotage traits fuckboys usually aren't able to have a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:49 PM
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The problem clearly is that guys evidently don't talk to each other about this stuff So in this sense women know better It's all pointless anyway because you are not going to believe me because I'm a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:54 AM
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Yeah he was ugly believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:50 AM
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You've seen me post before, I'm not red pill at all. ups sorry sometimes the random generated reddit usernames confuse me An ugly friend of mine would tell me how sometimes he'd fuck someone just because, but he knew the girl was crazy or married It's like he had some resentment to life that made him make low self esteem decisions like cheating on his gf with random low value women from work
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:18 AM
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How does that even make sense in your head? real life doesn't have to make sense. your rp theories don't check outside the internet some ugly guys have low self esteem and they'll treat you like they treat themselves. Sometimes is self sabotage, sometimes shitty life didn't teach them how to regulate emotions. idk how this doesn't make sense to you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:42 AM
1

ugly guys have sex too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:32 AM
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they do have sex contrary to PPD beliefs I know
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:32 AM
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this is not true so many ugly guys pump and dump the theory doesn't apply IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:21 AM
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For me raising my standards was actually necessary, Exactly, is when you raise your standards that fuckboys disappear Idk why people assume an ugly guy would be a good person. If he has low self esteem he'll probably act like an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:20 AM
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why are you here then lmaoooo this is what this sub is about, talking a vague mass of peple
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:17 PM
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then tell men here to stop saying misogynistic shit lol the day they stop saying that sure, I'll think different
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:46 PM
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as much as a woman is dissatisfied because her bf isn't rich
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:51 PM
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Do you have any stats to support that claim? they proudly say that all the time here women are valued for being able to have kids and their youth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:50 PM
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BUT I don't think most men's main goal is to date exceptionally good looking women. because they can't so they settle for what they can get but given the choice there's no doubt in my mind men would chose to date beautiful women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:49 PM
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polygamous polyamporous means having multiple partners has nothing to do with what OP is saying OP is saying that men try to date women as hot as possible, doesn't matter if it's 1 or 20 women. Same as women try to date as rich as possible, be that 1 or 20 men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:47 PM
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This is not the first post I see with the title Female women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:52 AM
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and you only believe them? or you believe only men who share your POV? Besides I saw what OP is saying in a documentary and it showed newspaper articles, so the source is pretty solid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:09 AM
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Without reading anything I already know redpillers are against women having tattoos because women having choices is baaaad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:56 AM
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nah men say stuff like this to provoke such response bc that's the only interaction they get with the opposite sex no women is in fear of running out of simps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:50 AM
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men prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos maybe that's the reason so many are single
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:48 AM
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remember guys it's only a credible source if it's a man who writes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:43 AM
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Nah sometimes you think you have nice breath but you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:42 PM
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drunk guys with whisky dicks are insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:10 AM
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so why does he says it then? this is so weird no offense lol "remember to flush the toilet honey!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:18 AM
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"You have bad breath please wash your teeth" doesn't seem so bad before sexy time. Or if you just ate something smelly But every night seems pretty weird lol what is he a toddler? wouldn't he wash his teeth on his own?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:16 AM
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Do you not brush your teeth unless he reminds you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:14 AM
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I got cross and called everyone demented. very normal ppd behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:12 AM
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Oh absolutely. I think the first year it has to be the mother for breasts reasons but then it can totally be the father the one leaving their work. I don't think feminism is against that. Going back to my family, my father had health issues, so my mother became the main breadwinner
/r/MensRights05/08/23 12:24 PM
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that escalated too!
/r/MensRights05/08/23 03:37 AM
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that escalated FAST from "I find this actor hot" to "SHUT UP FLESHLIGHT, I'd replace you for a better looking woman"
/r/MensRights05/08/23 02:40 AM
1

thank you I still feel awkward about it I hope it will fade away
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:07 AM
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you can't complain that women don't want to have babies anymore and in the same breath complain that women don't work Even my very feminist mother had to leave her job for a few years to raise me and my sisters
/r/MensRights05/08/23 02:04 AM
2

what no lillith? no meteorness? willow girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:59 AM
1

Today I went to second theater class for people with speech impediments So while improvising a scene I grabbed one guy's hand to say that we were having an affair once the scene ended he kept staring at me and that made me feel bad 💔 because I don't have romantic feelings or anything, it was just improvisation I made things weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:56 AM
2

because I don't have anyone paying my phone bills lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:39 AM
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What you call "hard wired instincts" I call "culture" and that is in constant change so that's why we need this movements, to change people's minds a few decades ago people saw gay men as flawed, perverted and deranged. I'm sure there were many people saying "a man being with a woman is hard wired instinct". Now we've moved past that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:19 PM
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I've been breaking up wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:06 PM
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Women are highly valued for two things : Youth and motherhood. this is why we still need feminism smh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:02 PM
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we do live in patriarchy as a system than benefits men that's enforced by society there are some flat earthers of patriarchy out there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:53 AM
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yeah I don't believe any of that RP bs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:41 AM
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op is confusing confidence with leadership it's boring to date someone who doesn't initiate, who never challenges you, who is a pushover in fact confidence equalizes power imbalances, sets boundaries, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:41 AM
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On the internet, everyone is a middle aged hairy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:37 AM
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suddenly it’s not important at all and any idiot could run a fortune 500 company nobody says this I remember going to a Microsoft conference and was surprised with the CIO's ability to be charismatic on stage idk if he's a good CIO but he surely gives that impression and that's not an easy thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:17 PM
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>There are people willing to date you right now you mean there are single women in my area dying to meet me??????
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:58 PM
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you need to love yourself before you can love others yeah it's BS I saw another therapist on YT saying that people build self confidence by acceptance of others. Having positive social interactions feeds into your confidence and your confidence helps you have better interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:41 PM
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It's a social/cultural way of how we view women and men. why "leadership" is masculine? that's literally patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:44 PM
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objectively that is what women like in men no it's not, maybe in conservative spaces but there's nothing more off putting that a dude who plays leader there's not "feminine" or "masculine" roles. That'd implies that a woman belongs to the kitchen basically lol Rather than, "Hey, what's up. What do you want to eat?" yes, this is normal people dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:24 PM
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like equal partners if you teach a somewhat insecure guy (let's be real, insecure guys your clients) you are making them think that if they don't act like leaders, women won't feel attraction There's nothing cringier than an insecure guy who is pretending to be someone he's not, it'll probably backfire on them. I think the overwhelming majority of women are looking for a partner, not a boss, not a leader. So insecurity + trying to be someone they are not + trying to act superior (like a leader) …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:11 PM
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As our culture stands for majority of heterosexual women they are gravitated toward men who lead. That's what clueless men like to believe but it's not true. Maybe it was true 50 years ago, but now women have jobs, make decisions, cheat, divorce and have hookups Anyway why incentive a system that (thankfully) is ceasing to exist? maybe it made sense when women were SAHM but now? where both have to work and both have to do chores? doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:07 PM
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what does that even mean lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:03 PM
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ADORATION leadership why use the cringiest words possible my god I didn't know you were allowed to advertise here why not teach these men to have partners instead of teaching them to be leaders of women. You say this doesn't imply domination (it does) but it absolutely implies power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:53 PM
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WoMen BaD 👶👶👶👶👶👶
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:08 AM
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I'm a woman but I can totally relate to this guy's experience in house parties Usually, I'd walk away eventually. If she's interested in me, she'd leave the conversation and find a chance to talk to me later. I think what he's saying is right. There's no point in fighting with another guy for other the woman's attention. It's frustrating I know but in the end it's her choice. I too leave a conversation if something similar happens to me. OP would do better in OLD (if he manages to take nice pics…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:42 AM
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I almost started working!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:02 PM
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If someone asks you on a second date if you are LTR oriented that doesn't mean "LTR oriented WITH YOU" how can they be offering you a LTR if they don't even know you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:17 PM
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We've just sat down and you're trying to determine our relationship off the bat. nono, I was answering to this that the question what do you want from life, it's not about the 2 of you, it's about what do you want from life regardless who you are with like asking about a career choice this is all before know each other, so there's no judgement in character Another example: If you are a virgin and want to wait until marriage that's a personal decision regardless who you are with. Why date someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:08 PM
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Nor everybody does. people normally have dreams and aspirations and do stuff to achieve them. anyway that's a good filter. If someone is for a LTR they probably are looking into the future and wouldn't be compatible with someone who just goes with the flow. Both are fine don't get me wrong. If the right person came along they would have a LTR. nono, some people for example just broke up and aren't looking for anything serious. For example I have a friend that avoids relationships and she's also …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:51 PM
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you're trying to determine our relationship off the bat nono, it's not "our" relationship is what you are looking for in life for example people know beforehand if they want to have kids, this is the same. It's asking what you are looking for in people. Some people are not looking for a LTR, that's perfectly fine, let's just don't waste each other's time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:24 PM
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you binge watch the dumbest reality show that you can find
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:11 AM
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no, OP is saying it started with religion by threatening people who have sex with hell
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:07 AM
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yeah I can see that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:51 AM
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I miss those days. you mean primary school?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:49 AM
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It's cheaper to raise him in a country where people are shorter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:02 AM
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guys be like "Women are so confusing!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:59 AM
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as in the knees will hurt or.....?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:49 AM
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basically Kebabs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:19 AM
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I think maaaaybe you are exaggerating maybe a little
/r/MensRights01/08/23 10:15 PM
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ikr I guess we are all doomed to be Chad's spinning plates
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:54 PM
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If your suggestion to find normal people is "go to youtube" we are doomed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:44 PM
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The sexual tension between PPDers and ThE ToP 20% is palpable get a room
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:43 PM
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but there are a lot of every day things that men do that piss off feminists like catcalling, abuse, mansplaining etc etc at that level I don't think they hate specifically white men but all men
/r/MensRights01/08/23 08:42 PM
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I don't think it's about trying to get support feminism is against men in power and men in power happen to be white
/r/MensRights01/08/23 08:30 PM
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they shouldn't staring is wrong social rules come above all you are not supposed to act like an animal, civilization is build in us not behaving like animals
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:51 PM
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TBF the guy is also being an asshole there is no need to just say they are not compatible because she can't get off he should've asked what to to do get her off, trying to solve the problem or ask her if she likes the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:42 PM
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because men like boobs and ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:40 PM
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I know 😂 (actually I didn't know I just hoped it wasn't this one)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:29 PM
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I had a guy tell me that too my sweet summer child I didn't crash his self esteem though but in retrospective I should have
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:58 AM
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no, the function is to conform to beauty standards (aka looking nice) not to be stared at, you still have to respect basic social boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:50 AM
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they were answering to I feel like 13-17 yos are dressing and wearing full faces of make up in ways that make them look like full grown adults,
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:48 AM
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might as well believe in the horoscope polyamorous chad was def a Sagittarius ♓
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:18 AM
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and you are both wrong 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:32 AM
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The limited dating choices that men have significantly affect their living standards. the reason why women have the upper hand is because they have the option of being single. Even with less money like you said, women rather be single and poor than being with someone "below" them. also your comment sounds very dramatical
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:04 AM
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Did you guys talk to any woman while trying to not be the absolute disappointment you have been your whole life ? some days ppd has no chill
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:52 AM
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Anyone that can do math knows polygamy doesn’t work out well for the vast majority of men. it doesn't work..... for men lol but it'd surely work for the species as a whole Women don’t seem interested in having harems of men are you sure about this? because posting hot pics and having men being thirsty at them feels like a harem. Some women like the attention of multiple men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:50 AM
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It makes sense. If we were *really* monogamous we would mate for life. Hookups, porn and cheating wouldn't exist. So, once again, culture overwrote our natural instincts. So, what is it evo psych fans? are you entitled of a harem or are you entitled to own a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:47 AM
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He's not an evolutionary biologist. you mean evolutionary psychologist? from google Evolutionary biology is the process of passing down biological traits. It's the fox with long legs that escapes its predators. Evolutionary psychology is the natural selection of beneficial cognitive traits passed down through the generations. evolutionary psychology, the study of behaviour, thought, and feeling as viewed through the lens of evolutionary biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:38 AM
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If you mean a right of passage there used to be a big fuss over having your first period I assume people celebrated that you could get pregnant now (CRINGES) there's also quinceañera (when you turn 15) so you become a woman (DOUBLE CRINGE)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:25 AM
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"one boob at the time"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:22 AM
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You tell him what he’s doing wrong and fix it some men think they are doing things perfectly and don't take instructions very well. Once I told a guy how to do it and he told me "usually all women have orgasms with me, you are the only one who can't" LOL DUDE SURE all women have the clitoris in their leg I'm the only one deformed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:45 PM
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your mom enjoys a nice fat cock 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:49 PM
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I can tell from miles away that you don't have a vagina lol but go on believing what you want 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:29 PM
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Every woman remembers the biggest dick she has seen. which is not always the best dick they ever had just the biggest it's so funny no matter how many times women say what they like, it's men saying "no, you like this" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:03 PM
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lol no a bad sex technique can ruin everything imagine a guy licking in the wrong places or causing pain or being too selfish lol nono you can have an orgasm just from attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:00 PM
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I will let you cum in my keyboard it surely would make me uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:12 AM
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hot men suck in bed exactly they think being pretty is all they need an ugly guy will try to impress you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:10 AM
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* Attenborough's voice* so the male prepares the nest to impress the female
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:09 AM
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On eyes yeah baby cataracts simulator so horny
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:06 AM
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women’s nectar did you just say nectar lmao and also when you say women aged 18-29 are cock blocking by cock blocking you mean they don't want to date men they aren't attracted to? that's a weird word choice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:04 AM
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nah women don't keep a list of pros and cons comparing the guys they were ever with if the sex is good it doesn't matter if they also had good sex in the past also if someone had good sex before, it's more likely that she'll be able to have good sex again, than someone who has never had good sex. now if your fantasy is living a porno where your magical dick is the *only* one that can make someone have magical orgasms never previously felt idk I don't want to crash your dreams but.....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:58 AM
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Did you know that gravity is just a theory as well? gravity belongs to hard sciences, for a correct comparison you'd have to compare to another soft sciences theory like I said before Freud's Unconscious It's so funny how ppd men are so triggered when you remind them that evo psych is not real hard science lol all is nice and cool but it's theories maybe it's always been social conditioning since there's no modern human without culture, language shapes the brain and culture is transmitted throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:52 AM
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We are currently still in nature. no we are not, you are behind a screen, using an app with an algorithm designed to make other people rich with your money and you compare it to gather around a fire in the middle of the savanah 20,000 years ago lol we are not the same as hunter gatherers, we are sedentary, we work, we have wifi and dating apps. Things have changed. It's only logical humans changed too. Simply large amounts of daily physical activity, will make a man more dominant, let alone the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:46 AM
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well things have changed a lot in 20,000 years. Do you think men today have the same brain capacity, problem solving abilities and the ability to not be feral than the same men that killed mastodons? People were much more savage back then, more masculine like you said. Now there's no mastodons and people behave with each other Thankfully this are the last generations that are finally leaving that "dominance" behind since it's not needed anymore. Things change in 20,000 in fact it's kind of insul…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:40 AM
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Just have in mind that that's just a theory, Evolutionary psychology is a soft science, there's no hard scientific evidence of what you are saying. It's just a theory like Freud's Unconscious. So there's not 1 right answer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:59 PM
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some ways we behave like animals some other ways we don't most of them can't even recognize themselves in the mirror so I'd say we are a tiny bit different
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:34 AM
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in nature Humans die in nature I think we are way past that stage of evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:31 AM
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the problem I have with the captain of the ship role is how RP women ask how to tell him to stop gambling away without undermining his authority For me that's not even a question. I'd do an intervention, ask for profesional help and if that makes him feel less of a man well, tough luck see? RP women ask for permission to help, other people take control of the situation without asking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:27 PM
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by google: complying or willing to comply with an order or request; submissive to another's authority. choosing to comply is the same as choosing to be obedient but in practice is basically be obedient, don't argue too much, let the man lead. I've seen enough RP women post "my husband is wasting away our money gambling, how do I tell him to stop without undermining his position as the captain of the ship" so because she's obedient she lets her husband waste their money without saying anything I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:13 PM
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many men are attracted to dominant women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:54 PM
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which is different words for obedient you want to make a decision and not be questioned or be lightly questioned
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:47 PM
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you want a woman who will consider you the captain of the ship, meaning if there's a decision to make, the captain ultimately decides what to do you are talking about having the last say in an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:45 PM
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Men are naturally dominant, you mean conditioned to be dominant and shaming them if they aren't? did you know that evolutionary psychology is a pseudo science with as much scientific foundation as psychology, sociology and philosophy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:43 PM
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thanks for the words 🥰🥰 I'm not so scared of meeting new people, weirdly that's my comfort zone I'm scared of talking about my speech impediment and see other people like me now everyone in the whatsapp group is saying they are not going maybe it's going to be just the teacher and me this is going to kill me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:37 PM
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WE DON'T KNOW THIS WE REALLY DON'T
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:29 PM
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it seems counter intuitive to go to a theater class when you are afraid of speaking normally it's like scape room for claustrophobics
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:17 PM
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I have a speech impediment and today I'm starting theater classes for people like me I'm fucking scared I can speak normally 90% of the time but the remaining 10% is me making a weird face unable to produce any sound, like Tourette's most people with speech impediments repeat syllables or words what if I don't fit in? stress is killing me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:14 PM
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and abs don't forget abs 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:41 PM
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I'm not sure I understood so they were born in the USA but they say they are Irish because of their ancestry?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:40 PM
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as mid as margot robbie they are looksmatched clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:58 PM
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it's like when they are so proud to proclaim that they value women only for their looks it's not the flex they think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:56 PM
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still, imagine margo knocking at your door and you go "nah, you are mid" 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:50 PM
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that's not the same as saying "he is mid" show me where someone says he's mid or any other super hot celebrity is mid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:41 PM
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I don't see women here saying ryan gosling is mid do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:35 PM
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Americans don't travel abroad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:24 PM
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men have high standards even though they say they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:20 PM
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divorce laws aren't the kindest to men shoud've thought of that before cheating 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:17 PM
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I know 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:09 PM
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Partially that, and partially due to the dating market being an absolute shitshow for men. so maybe don't cheat? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:08 PM
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if you are uncomfortable in a relationship (let's say she's neglecting you) why don't you file for divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:07 PM
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so why don't they file for divorce before cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:51 PM
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that's not how it works, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:41 PM
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obviously his cheating is her fault yes, very smart
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:38 PM
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exactly imagine a guy cheating and she files for divorce the manosphere still sees as her fault they are so dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:37 PM
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ok so the use of the word triggering, triggers you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:35 PM
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But thats across the board, for anyone dealing with any sort of anxiety. so other people's anxiety triggers you huh maybe you are not in tune with your own anxiety that's why you see other people's disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:17 PM
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while married women cheat 15% it's actually 13% which makes men cheat almost twice as women here's the graph anyway the cheating was just an example. If the guy is abusive (men win that one too by far, men also win the murder competition lol) it's the same, the woman leaves with the kid and files for divorce the difference is that the man never leaves with the kid, he always leaves them to her like it's none of his business, to start a new life somewhere else Even if couples break up because the…
/r/MensRights28/07/23 02:23 PM
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"I'm forced to experience something a certain way because of what gender I was born as, and I'm much less likely to experience it in ways the other gender can, if they want to" no, this is not. The correct definition is: the role or behaviour considered to be appropriate to a particular gender as determined by prevailing cultural norms. I'm kind of tired of PPD arguing made up definitions of words
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:28 PM
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you've been outside too much your ideas don't belong here 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:18 PM
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Women file for divorce 80% of the time this doesn't mean women induce divorces, it just means they do the paperwork. For example if a man cheats and she files for divorce it's still his fault. There's still plenty of men who just simply leave the mother with the kid, you can't say it's the same amount of mothers leaving their kid with the father. I'm not saying women are better than men all I'm saying is "Men are better at rising kids" is factually wrong considering, like I said before, 80% of s…
/r/MensRights27/07/23 06:41 PM
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you have to grow a thick skin so that a job doesn't affect you, this is how people have been doing it since forever what's the alternative? not work?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:17 PM
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who is inmune to this though? we are all at the risk of getting burn out or frustrated or whatever the key is putting yourself before the job and find another job if things get too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:07 PM
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by this logic jobs are predatory because the hold all the power for me to live in my house. is your job manipulating you by not paying you or taking you abroad or paying you the bare minimum so that you can't leave? then that's abusive and illegal. Sweat shops do this all the time. Otherwise it's a normal job like a normal relationship your logic is shitty because you are not even trying to learn what predatory is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:53 PM
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I had a friend who was more interested in music than anything else so he got himself a basic sales job in one of these places where they sell house appliances. From there he started climbing positions (on big companies they usually promote you if you are doing an ok job) now he supports the family with an administrative job while playing music on the weekends so maybe find a basic job that can support you while still searching what's out there? I think it's easier to decide what to do you from i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:47 PM
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you can write as a hobby (that you could potentially monetize) and have a regular boring job to survive liking your job is overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:33 PM
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maybe the women he's kissing put out on a first or second date how do you know? they all look like party people try filming this at daylight with random women on the streets lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:06 PM
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what are you even arguing? I already said the "protector" thing is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:48 PM
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patriarchy is a system where men and women participate not men saying that they want to protect small women men say they want to be providers and protectors in RP circles all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:35 PM
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I know, the whole patriarcal obsession with protecting the woman is dumb as hell no arguments here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:20 PM
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She can walk whenever. that's not how predatory relationships work though. In a predatory relationship the one with less power can't leave by definition. It doesn't have to be a physical restrain, it could be manipulation and cohersion. you need to read what predatory means
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:19 PM
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When women say they prefer tall/taller men because it makes them feel feminine they don't say feminine they say "protected"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:04 PM
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that's your source of info? your own google search? lol what's next? quora? you don't even know if that was searched by men or women and since manosphere men are obsessed with body count, that's why that appears to you as a popular search
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:33 PM
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men here want to believe women care about body count but I don't think they do even if you are worried you can always lie so it's not even a real problem anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:20 PM
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Let's not pretend sex isn't important to men, this sub and the pills wouldn't exist if it was "just sex" Also it's predatory when there's a power imbalance. Usually the person with the money has more power this post is ridiculous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:02 PM
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from wiki Based on the 2018 U.S. Census Bureau:[29] out of 11 million single parent households, 80% of them are fatherless,[30] breaking down to 1 in every 4 children born; totaling to a percentage of 81.5%. 80% is pretty high idk if I'd say men are better parents with that statistic
/r/MensRights27/07/23 01:46 PM
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to each their ick 🤷‍♀️ edit *to ick their own hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:40 AM
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(slightly unrelated) but a guy that puts a lot of effort on first dates, probably does it for everyone wouldn't you rather feel special because he spend a lot of money on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:01 AM
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But is that statistic taking into account the amount of men who leave their kid? sure, when the father is around he's a good dad but statistically men are more likely to leave their family than women
/r/MensRights26/07/23 11:47 PM
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I know they aren't serious I don't think the money spent on a date means they are serious or not. That'd be like valuing yourself by what the guy spends. So if he spends a lot of money it means he values a lot. I don't think that's true. I think the value is in how you get along. I've also seen men spend a lot of money on hookup dates so....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:34 PM
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one thing is sexual pleasure and another thing is romantic interest it could go one or the other or both
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:30 PM
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Desiring what you can't have is pretty normal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:28 PM
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this applies to men too if your favorite artist is Bon Jovi... 🚫🚫🚫🚫
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:17 PM
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modern dating pretty sure in the past men were forced to pay for everything always not just a first date and women waited longer to have sex and nothing guaranteed you that things were going to work out, couples broke up anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:13 PM
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you are valued for who you are, not by the money a person spends on you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:09 PM
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that's not true also link unrelated?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:08 PM
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show me on the barbie where the woman hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:05 PM
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People usually discuss those arrangements before having kids If a woman doesn't like you as a SAHD you are not compatible. Same if she didn't want to leave her job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:04 PM
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why don't you leave your job to take care of your kid then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:01 PM
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chances are most of the people you know including yourself are average
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:59 PM
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WoMen Baaaadd 👶👶👎👎❌❌🚫🚫🚫
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:58 PM
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you can be an independent thinker as long as you don't have a problem that requires other people, sure that's the reason for feminism or nationalism. You find a common denominator against something because you need people to fight for rights, territory, or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:51 PM
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it's not wildly different, that's my point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:48 PM
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is she leading the call? then let her lead and don't try to "help" her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:46 PM
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that's the first problem most people have here IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:44 PM
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But for men there are extra skills required leading conversations, planning exciting dates, understanding when and how to escalate romantic/sexual tension, text message rizz/game. which are social skills by your own words, if women are in the passive role they just have to look pretty and do the bare minimum socially if the man has to lead then being pretty is not enough, he also has to approach, lead conversations etc etc etc being able to do all that is part of having social skills. It doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:43 PM
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are you the owner of the truth? how do you know these women are lying? maybe you have a terrible self perception
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:04 PM
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niiiiiice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:03 PM
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I've been saying it since I joined ppd but none listens 😤😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:49 PM
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yeah yeah the numbers always refer to physical beauty, not awkwardness
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:46 PM
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someone once sent me a video of someone measuring their nose and jaw it was weird
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:42 PM
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........not with that attitude 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:54 PM
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nono, I'm pretty sure I got it right maturing is a thing that happens you can ask anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:49 PM
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no they don't because priorities change you no longer want to be with the hot guy that's a but of a psychopath
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:35 PM
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IRL normal people pair up with people in their age range +- 5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:18 PM
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nah, women always have choices it's just that priorities change when you mature
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:17 PM
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they do that too, reply to stories it's not either or
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:47 AM
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my friends post them strategically at certain day/hour to attract males we call it the nat geo moment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:32 PM
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idk a lot of my female friends post thirst traps and I can say they are good people but I have the same feeling as you with men who post thirst traps For me personally it's more of a difference in interests, I don't even have social media
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:21 PM
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the way God intended amen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:18 PM
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Girls playing with barbies aren't thinking about "the patriarchy" but the kind of toys you give children definitely shapes what they like growing up. Kids learn though toys. I'd stop gendering toys so that girls and boys don't grow up thinking that have limited choices in life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:15 PM
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Barbie has been feminist for like 50 years. on the contrary, it was the symbol of oppression. Remember that episode from the Simpsons where lisa designs an intelligent barbie and it fails? but I do agree it has always been a symbol of femininity and how it's perceived a huge symbol so it's not that random that they chose it to make a movie
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:10 PM
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wow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:06 PM
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oh no!! don't get me wrong, crazy cat lady is not an insult it's just a way of life 💜
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:05 PM
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🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱+😽😽 how foolish of me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:48 PM
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about the Barbie movie mensrights: "this is an abomination, it's misandry, literally the holocaust" askmen: haha ryan gosling funny ​ I definitely need to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:29 PM
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that's the first step to become a crazy cat lady
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:01 PM
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I don't think this is true forcing people to be good with each other is basically how society is built. We are forced, for example, to not rape, steal or kill each other so it'd be continuing with what we've already built
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:32 PM
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I read Anne Frank thinking it was a fictional novel. I thought the book had the last pages missing where the happy ending was supposed to be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:22 PM
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it's quite different forcing people to love each other is ok promoting misogynistic hateful ideologies is bad I would force people into understanding why pill ideologies are hateful in the most wholesome dictatorship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:17 PM
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but the guy was in a wheelchair the reason they got separated was because he was in a wheelchair, not because he was a man wtf is this even about?
/r/MensRights24/07/23 08:14 PM
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ooohhh I see I didn't get the tone I agree then 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:07 PM
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I used to think like that until I got cheated on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:02 PM
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imagine feeling appressed for being forced to accept trans rights and being against racism 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:00 PM
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How? nothing that I said was false so..... you'd have to come up with better arguments than that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:36 PM
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only the first comment said "women don't understand" that's why I'm comparing I'm explaining how women do understand bc historically it's been worst for them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:35 PM
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? how is that related
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:30 PM
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the first comment said that "women don't understand" So you have society telling this group of people that they have no value in society unless they get married while also bombarding them with romantic novels and the "prince charming" idea. so yeah, women do understand this has been going on for decades and men are just realizing it now karma? maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:30 PM
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the day you can't buy a house bc you are not married we can talk about having a hard time as a single person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:23 PM
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we are talking about the societal pressure of getting married a woman with no husband wasn't even able to buy a house or invent something and put her name on it so the difficulties men are facing now are very mild in comparison to what women had to go through historically
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:17 PM
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for centuries women were valued for the man they marry if you made it until 40 years old without a husband and kids people thought there was something wrong with you until a few years ago the only reason movies had to put a woman on screen is to have her have some romantic scene with a man ​ so men have just discovered this feels like shit what a surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:53 PM
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yeah this seems fake and she also got the definition of pick me wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:07 PM
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the only people interested in dating Andrew Tate are his followers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:52 PM
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shrunken labia, a clitoris which isn’t swollen and excited I don't think you can notice this unless you have a before/after pic but I do agree that positions and movements are done for the camera and not for pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:50 PM
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I'm 100% confident I'm a pos makes sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:45 PM
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cicadas can burn in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:58 PM
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I thought comments on CMV posts were supposed to challenge OP or they get deleted
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:56 PM
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Because they can get what incels can't, which is sex. Also thinking that none of that sex leads to relationships is a huge c**e
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:27 AM
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ppd: she's a 4
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:27 PM
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lol what wait you are saying the indian janitor is actually raping mentally challenged women? wot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:26 PM
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Mentally challenged women if that's your league that's not ethically reprehensible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:05 PM
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"mom, my pronouns are he/him" and that's bad because......?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:03 PM
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I was told here that's a lie 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ ppd will argue anything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:01 PM
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23 is fat whale ​ /sssss
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:01 PM
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that guy prob scores in his league that's the secret
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:57 PM
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yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:56 PM
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but what do you want to happen? that people don't be afraid of you at night? that won't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:32 PM
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fat women still have more choices than men I'm so sorry you are jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:17 PM
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I love men just not when I'm walking alone at night sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:14 PM
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so, no arguments? I won I'm right give me my ppd award
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:13 PM
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so you are agreeing with me then men are in fact more dangerous than women and it's perfectly fine to be scared of them walking alone at night
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:08 PM
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that could be because women don't risk themselves as much as men because women are more vulnerable and none of that proves that men are less of a threat if you had to chose between walking alone at night with strange men or strange woman, everyone would chose the woman bc she's less likely to rob or rape you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:05 PM
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and women is less.... so? what's your point? I was robbed and almost robbed a few times. All by men. So if I'm alone at night I'm not going to risk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:59 PM
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the part where the robber feels bad for robbing women is the most hilarious and so far away from reality classic mensrights post they use the "men mostly target men" as if that meant anything if you are walking alone at night there's infinite more chances to be robbed/raped by another man than another woman it's so privileged to think you can rationalize it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:35 PM
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you never had a spicy chat? you are missing on so much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:28 PM
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you are? ew they are gross to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:19 PM
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Ah I didn't know how hinge works, you are right ​ weigh more than I do and I’m 200+. I guess you are tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:08 PM
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Today you learned
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:04 PM
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that's not true women aren't aesthetically attracted to penis
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:40 PM
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are you aware that normal men usually send pics and they are well received even though they are not ripped or anything, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:38 PM
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why don't you take a look at the partners of the people you already know instead of a fantasy book covers that aren't even popular for the general women population
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:35 PM
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no, unsolicited ripped guys are also cringe the only way you can get away with it is when you already know the person and you are in a spicy conversation and I wouldn't even call it "get away with it" that makes it sound weird when it's consensual
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:29 PM
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are you sure? I don't have hinge but Happn and Tinder work like that I'd dare to say any app that makes you magically match with someone out of a list works like that if the app doesn't show you the people that are interested in you, you'd never match with anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:17 PM
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Oh no poor men they can't insult whores in peace the world is so unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:13 PM
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"just be thin and have good genes and have connections bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:11 PM
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those are the ones who liked you first that's why you see them first
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:10 PM
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my friends got married before trying to have kids they thought it would be better for them in case they break up he's a lawyer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:19 PM
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because people aren't objects? edit: ups sorry the definition says assets is also people but still it feels very unhuman I don't share the transactional view of relationships that's so popular in the manosphere
/r/MensRights20/07/23 05:01 PM
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I’ve never met a woman that doesn’t want a relationship either they are lying or you live in a conservative zone where people judge women who do hookups or maybe you live in 1950 but def not the norm I’ve never seen a woman meet a guy she feels is a “catch/husband material” ​ If she doesn't want a relationship she's not going to see that obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:57 PM
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why use the word asset though?
/r/MensRights20/07/23 01:45 PM
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A good women is an amazing asset to have. ok andrew tate 🤣
/r/MensRights20/07/23 02:17 AM
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because she constantly asks me about if I want to get married again but I was asking the exact opposite of this scenario which is what happens when you don't want to have a relationship (either you or a the woman, it's the same) sexual attraction and romantic interest are 2 different things like hookups or fwb nobody wants to introduce the hookup to the family but you can't say there's no sexual attraction in fact the only thing that keeps a fwb relationship is exactly that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:49 AM
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this is the real chad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:32 PM
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niiiiiice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:31 PM
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Introducing to your family after a month is kind of soon. It could be done obviously but I don't think most people would be ready. It doesn't mean she's not attracted to you, it means it's either too soon or they are not looking for a relationship. Don't take it personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:30 PM
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seems like you dodged a bullet (after the insults) I'd say send them a "you are unfuckable" meme, a smiley face and block them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:22 PM
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that's weird, who shows around a chick they just met before discussing the relationship? I'd even say many many women would be freaked out by that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:14 PM
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but that's in a relationship kind of scenario what about FWB or hookup scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:12 PM
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it's not about your birthday though it's about her's it's about thinking outside yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:18 PM
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I'm not mad I'm pointing out that men are default men take that personally and I can totally understand. It's only when you are not default that you start noticing how the world isn't made for you and it's you who has to adapt to the world. Men don't have to adapt to anything. And unisex clothes is a perfect example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:15 PM
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you are not thinking far enough you think people just like things like it's a biology thing, as if culture didn't exist you need to take some philosophy classes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:01 PM
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you have to see it from outside people in power create trends and determine what's good and what's not. In a world where masculine is default it's not good to show emotion. It's also not good in women either, let's be honest. A woman can't show emotion in a work setting because people in charge (aka men) have built a work environment where masculine traits are praised and feminine traits are looked down. People don't just like things in a vacuum. Someone had to set what's good and bad beforehand…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:58 PM
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Because nobody likes it when men wear skirts because masculine is default you are proving my point if women's clothes were the default people would like to see men on skirts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:45 PM
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Ripped jeans aren't uncomfortable just cool looking. you are spending resources in breaking a perfectly good fabric only to make it less warm = less functional. Also they break way more easily than normal jeans. as they show too much emotion. exactly my point. Emotion is feminine. Feminine bad! Men can't be feminine but women can be masculine If you don't see the bias idk what to tell you that's the only thing they can both wear? if men could wear feminine clothes we wouldn't be saying masculine…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:43 PM
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First nobody cares about functionality in fashion, that's not a thing, people have been using uncomfortable things since forever. For example ripped jeans. also a low V neck can be perfectly functional, skirts too, the color pink and glitter don't affect functionality either ​ If you can't differentiate unisex clothes from men's clothes, that means there's a bias in favor of men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:31 PM
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totally the other day I went to a clothes store and asked "do you have women's clothes" and the girl said "this is all gender neutral clothes" I swear there was no difference from men's clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:25 PM
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that's the point why would they like it if masculine is default?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:21 PM
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she's awesome I love her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:12 PM
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and like to convince themselves that there was no alternative there's plenty alternatives like normal guys nice guys aren't really nice. HVM are nice guys but in a more genuine kind of way. A real nice guy wouldn't be asking why douchebag Steve is getting girls, he'd say "oh poor women, they have issues that makes them make bad choices" (like any normal person that makes bad choices)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:10 PM
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It's no surprise that only older women know how much harassment young women go though. Thankfully moms will still give that advice no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:53 PM
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kinda hot tbh unless he did it while we were dating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:51 PM
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funny, I never had that response to me and I've been here for a loooong time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:33 PM
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Can you link some source? Your word isn't enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:21 PM
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He's a single 45 year old man with left ideologies. So my theory is that he picked up some of the dating advice from RP but that didn't affect his general left view of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:20 PM
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It's manipulation and control by way of fear. How is manipulation, what do I gain from warning other people with personal experience? Like you said these are adults. They are perfectly able to take or disregard my advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:03 PM
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until he takes off the glasses. I feel like he's constantly catfishing people by always wearing glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:48 PM
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27C = 80F The article keeps mentioning this as if it was deadly temperature lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:38 PM
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Yeah I hate RP but I hate them less than MensRights. At least they are sending men to the gym and encouraging them to better themselves, raising their confidence. They offer solutions and group support, even if I don't agree with much of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:26 PM
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That's not how social anxiety works at all. Social anxiety is feeling anxious when interacting with other people. It doesn't matter how people treat you, it's an internal problem. Your brain manages to convince you that people hate you. You are not able to see reality. For some people even going outside and hearing people laughing in the distance can be a trigger. If you don't believe me I suggest the many anxiety subs on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:21 PM
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It should have focused on men reprogramming themselves to stop chasing after male symbols of validation and standards of masculinity. Men supporting each other while making choices that went against the current social expectations (dating, careers, family, etc). That’s it. Men supporting men in ways that society at large/women generally won’t. I wish the same. Those are some legit proposals I would 100% support (from outside) When I said proposals I was thinking more about Mens Rights that const…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:13 PM
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eeerrrrr, emmm, yes, obviously 🙄 If HR asks, that's my answer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:08 PM
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GOOD
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:07 PM
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Let's not pretend we come to PPD to be productive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:00 PM
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social anxiety is genderless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:59 PM
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The day their posts focus on actual things that people can do for them I'll start respecting them as a legit movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:54 PM
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Maybe you had a good experience with a nice guy/lady. That doesn't mean predators don't exist. The younger you are the more vulnerable (also more appealing) you are to predators. It doesn't hurt to warn young men/women if they engage with a person 10+ older than them. Turning 18 doesn't automatically give you life experience. The reason why older women are so loud about this is because only when you are older you realize how some things that you consider as "normal" are really not. Street harass…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:38 PM
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SHUT UP I can't eat the emojis, don't do this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:02 PM
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I know that they are legally allowed to do stuff. It's the moral part that's icky. It's like fucking a step brother. Sure it's legal but people will look at you weird. If you are +-30 and you don't see a HUGE maturity gap between you and a 18 y/o then that speaks more about you than anything else. Society takes advantage from that immaturity. Do you think they send 18 year olds to war because they are mature and competent? of course not, they send them at that age because they are more maleable.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:00 PM
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you'd hear a POP from time to time though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:53 PM
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your mom is 🤢🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:51 PM
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while the miscarriage is good, making her mom look like a crazy person is a nice petty revenge. It all depends on the relationship between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:50 PM
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asking for someone else to pay is rude regardless gender
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:46 PM
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so women don't answer don't answer what you want to hear so they are clearly useless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:45 PM
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sometimes you want to do cliche things and that's ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:38 PM
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yeah same reason they understand human interactions with statistics. It's like they need a formula to proceed safely in the human world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:36 PM
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he's hot 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:34 PM
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