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Yes. Unless he is disrespectful, she should be the one handling the situation.
/r/seduction21/12/21 05:18 PM
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Why do you think they are manipulative and why you aren't?
/r/seduction18/12/21 10:10 AM
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But how much the difference was?
/r/seduction18/12/21 10:08 AM
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This! They can smell the money 🤑
/r/seduction18/12/21 09:59 AM
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I mean when a 50 years old guy is with a 30 years old, people say when the guy gets to 80 woman will be 60. So what? They will live those 30 years. We all live very short lives, do what you want. Enjoy life. You can't make a relationship last long, you shouldn't because it is stupid, it is not like founding a company, if it ends it ends. If you are satisfied with your bf only great if you want to try with other people it is also okay. If it cause problems then let it do cause problems. There are…
/r/seduction07/11/21 11:48 PM
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Which part?
/r/seduction07/11/21 11:28 PM
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You don't understand me or doing that in purpose?
/r/seduction07/11/21 11:27 PM
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But it is not wasting time. When you want to do something you like is it wasting time? They desire it why don't you understand? Some people like exhibitionist sex for example others like vanilla, some like to be dominated etc. They will live it and see, maybe one of them won't like it or maybe they will. Why not try? It is like when people judge relationships with age gap, they say after 20 years older one will be too old etc. but why do you care? They will enjoy the time together. Why it has to…
/r/seduction07/11/21 11:08 PM
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Why it should last long? Why they have to have an aim? They will just experience it. And even if thing go bad they and broke up they are young and it will be good. Maybe they are bored after all those years, they unconsciously want to try this rather than broke up. Whatever it is, it will be an experience.
/r/seduction07/11/21 06:17 PM
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Not anymore. I am sorry 21 is not kid. You can notice aging signs at 25. It will be too fast to get to 30. You couldn't get my mentality. Life is short, you can't call 21 kids anymore. Also today's people get too much experience at younger ages, it is all about experience not age.There are 18 years olds more mature than 30 years olds. I can't call anyone over 20 a kid anymore, sorry. Most people here ( and in general ) are robots who don't know how to discuss but just downvotes the thoughts that…
/r/seduction07/11/21 05:02 PM
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Why this got so much upvotes? It is none if your business if they are in open relationship. Maybe they want to explore different things in this short life. They are together since they are kids and do you expect it to last lifelong? Also why getting attention and living it actually is a bad thing? Why for example you want to explore different countries but not different bodies and personalities? Will you be fulfilled when you become 80 and only had a relationship with a single person? I think yo…
/r/seduction07/11/21 10:27 AM
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Would you sleep with a friend of 4 years? Shouldn't the chemistry be there or not? Can a girl get attracted to a close friend? I never seen it before
/r/seduction01/11/21 11:09 PM
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Is she hot? Do you find yourself attractive? That kind of a thing never happened to me and I think I am attractive. If she is hot then you must be model grade handsome
/r/seduction01/11/21 11:07 PM
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If you were too attractive she probably would.
/r/seduction31/08/21 08:08 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:57 PM
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No, I had asked for other STDs how reliable is the test :)
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:51 PM
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For the others?
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:44 PM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:54 PM
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If she doesn't show your face either she is very shy or she doesn't find herself beautiful. Most of the time, the latter one.a
/r/seduction29/08/21 03:15 PM
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Do you think you are more good looking than those boyfriends?
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:20 AM
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What do you mean too green?
/r/seduction28/08/21 10:40 PM
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What about getting the person tested? If you get a partner have a full panel then can we say it is safe? I know there may be mistakes in the test but what are the chances? You all talk like we should be having sex in long term relationships only but there are many people I know and there are many single celebrities who probably have casual sex and they have no issues.
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:27 PM
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I think different than everyone because I feel like if the girl was in love with a single guy only for example then that is worse because she loved someone for years, I would be jealous like that would make my love less meaningful. You know there was a single guy but a powerful love so it all feels meaningless because she kissed another guy and felt same before. On the other hand, if she had flings with multiple guys when she was young because of attraction then that's better because there wasn'…
/r/seduction25/06/21 12:18 PM
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Also they may be jealous that you are getting attention from other girls and having fun while they are stuck with a single woman with problems
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:36 PM
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Does your apartment make you look rich or upper class?
/r/seduction10/05/21 05:37 PM
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Why do you think she thinks she is out of your league? She doesn't find herself beautiful? But you called her sexy. Also, what is your job, do you earn significantly more than her?
/r/askTRP29/04/21 12:32 AM
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Your attitude is weird in my opinion. You are not looking for a date, you are looking for a husband right from the start. And why do you think that you would hit that jackpot and get a prince you described, he also would have many girls around why he would be with you and commit you for years? Especially while you are with him clearly for his status money looks. You are like buying apples from a market, looking for the shiniest one then want commitment. Why? Why I would commit if I am an apple c…
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:29 PM
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Interesting. Was he always like that? So he was looking 25 at 40 for example?
/r/askTRP14/04/21 01:07 PM
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So do you look better now? And do you have a good salary?
/r/askTRP13/04/21 11:17 PM
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Wtf that's impossible he might look 58 at best but not 48 this is ridiculous
/r/askTRP13/04/21 10:57 PM
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I don't understand you said you want to be 1 of many girls the man hits on but then you have a fiance. You were 1 of many girls for him?
/r/seduction13/04/21 01:28 AM
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But then you don't know how to kiss? There is no way she can't tell you were kissless I guess
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:29 PM
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So did you have a gf before or were kissless or something, how experienced you were?
/r/seduction06/04/21 12:28 AM
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Haha How experienced she was?
/r/seduction05/04/21 10:59 PM
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So she knew you are a virgin? Didn't you have any anxiety that you would do it first time?
/r/seduction04/04/21 01:20 AM
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How unique we can be? What makes you unique?
/r/seduction26/03/21 07:05 AM
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Showing off, if fake, would cause her to lose interest. Showing off when you are the real deal will make her lose confidence, that's why she will lose interest.
/r/seduction11/03/21 01:02 AM
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I am trying to understand the behaviour that's all. I am not trying to be you. I already get girls, or even if I don't it's not important. And now I realized you may be exaggerating everything a bit, like all the other people on net. Yeah, that behaviour would get girls on bed if you are good looking enough what was interesting about your situation was they cling to you even if you don't provide much that made me think you must be good looking or good in bed. So, your height is okay if your body…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 08:57 PM
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It must be being good looking and good in bed but how good looking you think you are? tall, muscular? face? did the girls ever talked about it? And for being good in bed also did the girls talked about it or wanted sex often, looked satidfied in bed?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:58 PM
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So, why do you think they wanted you?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:18 PM
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They needed something you gave them imo. Let's find what it was. She may be financially independent but how do you know they were strong? Money doesn't bring strength when there are many aspects in life Most women are emotionally weak you either provide that to them or you are really handsome and good in bed How old they were?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:50 PM
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Maybe they had mental problems and feeling weak?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:14 PM
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What if the girl is weak inside, have problems, feel lonely etc. and need a boyfriend? She may be earning good, look good but have mental problems? I don't believe her life was good before this guy. And when she feel good, strong again we will see. How long they have been together and what is her age?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 02:50 PM
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But what counts as slut? When should she be down to have sex? You expect a relationship with her to have sex?
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:02 PM
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Because they are stupid and emotionally unstable.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 10:25 PM
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Well, I can love unconditionally. But that usually hurt me when I look back so I don't anymore. Even if there is no filling of needs, woman want a man like a little child wants a toy. Something about him appealing and she wants to have it, obsessively. For example, I have a girl chasing me for a year in school, I find her hot but I can't be sure why she wants me. Two years ago I happened to eye her in the dining hall in college but then I forgot it. Once we had the same class a year after that a…
/r/askTRP09/08/20 04:34 PM
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What if she was needing you? She was weak deep down? Woman can't handle life as easy as a guy since they are emotionally weak, and doesn't know what she wants most of the time. You always give something to woman even if it's not apparent, they don't love unconditionally. Man is capable of loving unconditionally but woman not. There is always a silent deal. Maybe she didn't have a better guy interested in her all those years? Maybe she wants relationship rather than hook ups. But, what if a guy i…
/r/askTRP09/08/20 03:37 PM
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I wear fancy clothes but it's not the reason I guess, the guys I met last semester doesn't even talk to me anymore because their crushes having crush on me haha They are trying to act like me etc. But it doesn't work. There was a girl last semester, she is really tall and hot, and has a really tall handsome bf, both volleyball players, I am 5f10 girl is 6f and her bf is 6f4 but she had a crush on me, it was fucking weird. Now, at the start of this semester she was all eye fucking me, and she rea…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 08:45 PM
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I am 30 years old went back to college and girls know that, I look above average but nothing fancy, I have an average body. Obviously I am still a student and don't have any status. I am not social, I barely talk to anyone in classes. I don't have much friends and when girls see me at campus I am mostly alone. I definitely have nothing to show off and when I am outside school I carry my bag so woman know I am a student and an old one. I don't look really old though but obviously I am not 18-20 e…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:55 PM
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Yes I badly need to interact with strangers and I will. But I have a quiet voice, do you have any remedies for that? But civilization won't be breaking down soon. I believe there is such thing as Sigma in modern world because, you can go your own way in modern world, you don't need a group to earn money in some situations, besides mystery is also attractive and sigmas are quiet and mysterious. But most shy guys might think they are sigma just to feel good, in reality Sigma's must be so rare. If …
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:03 PM
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In my case most people around me are social, they lead the conversation, laugh, and I am the one who joins the conversations rarely, but smile be sympathetic. I was feeling weird before but now I am comfortable. May I be Sigma? Because I feel like girls get attracted to me, not to the ones who talk a lot and laugh. I feel like I can attract a girl even if she has a bf.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:48 PM
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I didn't get what I should do in scenerio 1? What do you mean I am in charge?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:24 PM
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Okay but if I make the conversation friendly from the start then it will stay that way. First impression is important.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:03 PM
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Okay but how? Now I am in a shopping mall for example, lots of girls checking me out from cashiers to rich girls. I have courage to talk to them but then what?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 04:14 PM
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What do you mean? I focus on my studies but girls doesn't let me haha. I am a bit older then them and it attracts them I think. I don't know what I want, girls are literally chasing me and I want them all. Should I get into a relationship with one?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 11:34 AM
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But the girls I talk about is my classmate, I don't want to end up in trouble. Doesn't most your hook-ups end up the girl trying to make it a relationship?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 11:16 AM
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But it's school setting, we are classmates. I don't want to get reported. And this is slightly conservative EU country. I struggle to isolate, yeah we talk on class, they flirt but if I want her number or invite her somewhere it will go into a relationship because I know the girls also tell their friends like they mark me as theirs not to lose to their friend, and even to their guy friends. Its like they are pursuing a possible relationship and I am bored of this.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:38 AM
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No they aren't down for a threesome, they are jealous of each other
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:27 AM
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What do you mean interested in you? They are interested in getting into bed directly or want to hang out, spend time and expect possible relationship? I can't get it, I have lots of girls interested in me in the same friend circle, they probably know each others interest in me and that makes them want me even more. But what am I gonna do? I can't fuck two friends at the same time right? They aren't close but they know each other, that's an example, I have tons of girls interested.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:48 AM
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I don't get it, are you trying to get a single girl? What if there are always multiple girls interested in you at the same time, what would you do? There are always more than one girl should I flirt with both at the same time, in the same place?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:35 AM
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But if you told the reason why and elaborate a bit, then it would help on my self examination journey.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 04:01 PM
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I will read the book but there is not much you can do for balding, you have to accept it, I may have a transplant but can't do it now
/r/askTRP26/11/19 10:38 PM
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So we agree it would bring problems, right? I actually really like the idea them compete for me. There is another fact those girls are 20 and I'm 29 haha I was thinking that would be negative when I got back to uni but turns out girls like me being significantly older, so its a positive. What kind of problems it could make? I don't really know why girls want me that much while all we talk was a few sentences. Is it weird that I make them my slave just by staring? I'm not that handsome, above ave…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 07:53 PM
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Yes it is... I was thinking the same, I did it at work and it didn't end up well but as I said at my post I don't feel confident nowadays and those few girl's attention feels good, I was thinking about getting into relationship with one of them until I graduate but don't make it too serious. It's a bad idea to flirt with them all while we are in the same class right? They are so ready now, they are dying to talk to me, making sad faces when I stare them, they are literally chasing me after class…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 07:32 PM
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So, were you ever in a relationship?
/r/askTRP23/10/19 11:16 PM
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Interesting... You don't feel emotions at all? Or you don't cling to them much? Have you ever cried?
/r/askTRP23/10/19 10:18 PM
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Why do you want to have lots of kids? What kind of fulfilment it gives to you. I wouldn't want to have kids, I have no interest, I'm thinking the total opposite. What is the difference between us?
/r/askTRP23/10/19 10:03 PM
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Please do baby
/r/askTRP23/10/19 09:22 PM
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I don't get nothing from those short answers. What do you mean with that?
/r/askTRP23/10/19 09:09 PM
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Can I sleep with all the girls interested in me? Even if they know each other? The thing is she is not going away, I am not talking to her for whole 3 months, yeah I stare sometimes thats all. She is dying to get me talk to her, doing lots of things to get my attention. Think about it like I am in a class, there are two girls, I was just staring at them since they are cute but how the hell I can know they would be that interested? They are trying to get my attention every single class, I think l…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:51 PM
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The thing is I look okay but nothing great or maybe I am who knows. What I don't get it those girls are 18-19-20 why they don't want adventure, excitement? Why she wants me to be hers? In my ideal world, she should be even liking the fact that I am flirting with other girls too
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:22 PM
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Can you elaborate a bit? I want to flirt and get close, I am also okay they are flirting with others. I don't get it, she is fucking 19, why she doesn't like the fact that other girls also wants me, that I am a tease. She doesn't seem conservative too, she is smoking has a tattoo, wearing revealing clothes but she wants a relationship from the start since she told about me to his male friends too, this is just weird, if she wasn't young I would think she is getting old and trying to cage me but …
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:19 PM
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I could do it but I'm a bit tired. My body is like that https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn%3AANd9GcTsJvPyBKapInvMU2J3MXfELVOy1Za0UnOz-5LnRHTewXeveIVw But I have bigger fatter legs narrower shoulder, some belly and fatty chest I have no muscle mass also I am hairier
/r/askTRP22/10/19 10:41 PM
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I m asking wheather my insecurity has a legit ground? Or am I overthinking. Imagine a pear shaped body large hips, fatty legs narrow shoulders no muscle, and man boobs
/r/askTRP22/10/19 07:16 PM
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I have man boobs and fatty legs
/r/askTRP22/10/19 07:13 PM
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But the thing is I don't feel confident, think it like I have man boobs ( not gynecomastia just fat stored there ) and I have fatty legs it looks weird
/r/askTRP22/10/19 07:10 PM
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I think I can shape my body within 8 months or something but now I have girls around I can fuck but I can't, how can I wait 8 months, they won't wait.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:46 PM
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I will but I can't wait a year to have sex. I am close to 30 and only had relationships ( just a single partner and it was a late thing after 25 ) I don't want those college chicks I get now, I can't make the move
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:45 PM
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It looks okay but I am asking about clothes off having sex
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:42 PM
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Of course the one who doesn't give a shot but all the girls I hit on have sort of good bodies :P I am talking about her disappointment, it can even kill the vibe. I look good clothes on, you can never guess what is inside.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:41 PM
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Wtf does that mean, playing with your hair standing behind you talking? I can't imagine that
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:14 PM
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No I am asking about the consequences? I don't want to be fake reported or have a bad fame across school. I can fuck them but if I flirt with the other in front of the other one I fucked?
/r/askTRP21/10/19 04:09 PM
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Two questions... Do you ever miss the Turkish girl? And I don't want to be the dealbreaker but what about std's? If those girls are down to have sex for money this fast then they are fucking others too, I don't see no difference between those girls and a prostitude, probably they are a bit more picky and yes, this lowers the chances of std's but you talk like you do all the crazy shit with them, do you use condoms?
/r/askTRP20/10/19 05:36 PM
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This wasn't a humblebrag... I talk to them already but like isn't it dangerous? They know what am I doing, I'm flirting with each of them in front of the other, I don't know, they become like raging bulls, I wouldn't want a bad fame at school.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 07:23 AM
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You can get angry with a person from any gender but you would only fall in love with a girl ( assuming you are straight ) If you only fall in love with someone you are attracted to then love is attraction. It's being caused by external factors doesn't change its own nature. When you are angry with someone who piss you off this is a reaction assuming you reacted it towards the other person. As you said the thing that person did which pisses you off awakens anger inside of you. And you react. Then…
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:45 PM
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I didn't the the last paragraph can you explain?
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:19 PM
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I am saying love doesn't exist if not trp. When you say love absolutely exist, it doesn't make it exist. It's just your way of thinking. Would a hot, young, tall girl fall in love with an ugly short guy? Or the opposite, would you love an ugly short woman? Be honest please. Then love doesn't exist because you are actually choosing it. Would a tall girl be with a significantly shorter guy? Yeah she may be but the chances are so slim, she would want him at least to be the same height. So she just …
/r/askTRP22/08/19 10:58 PM
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Do you think even if this woman is 43 and they have 3 kids If Chris lost his fame and money, would she still be with him? Let's say maybe, since he is hot but what if he loses his looks? What if he get stuck into a wheelchair? When everything is good everyone is good. Yeah, harsh but true. Even our parents can't stand us sometimes get mad easily on a trivial matter. Woman would go so fast. But you know what, man sometimes truly loves. Even if she lose her looks, and apparently she is losing her …
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:35 PM
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Of course natural redpillers aren't much but even if they don't admit people know what they are doing. Especially woman, they know what they are doing. I don't believe a woman can unconditionally love. I would say it's almost impossible for man but for woman it's just impossible.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:22 PM
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I would agree. Those celebrities really acts on TV shows and interviews too
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:09 PM
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Majority? I'm not sure about that... He may be that naive? She was loving other guys too. She is a lovely thing haha. I may believe Chris being naive and loves her but it's really hard to believe her love.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:04 PM
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How did you managed bro fuck her while she has a bf? I'm 28... So were you having sex at your car every time?
/r/askTRP03/08/19 10:33 PM
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I will but in the mean time I want sex. Not having a flat pulling me back from making a move everytime a girl is interested
/r/askTRP03/08/19 07:41 AM
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But when you escalate then ask her to go to her flat. Doesn't that kill the mood? I don't have a car
/r/askTRP02/08/19 07:40 PM
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I think this may kill the mood?
/r/askTRP02/08/19 05:00 PM
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What do you mean after that you didn't care?
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:42 PM
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How am I going to cut ties, I talk some of them on a daily basis.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 04:54 AM
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Good job... So, you don't see them anymore?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 10:31 PM
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You think do I have a right to my words. Did you experienced the same thing?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 09:33 PM
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Why not cool? Since I'm not doing something I don't really want to just for waving with them?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 07:20 AM
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Anything you can advice?
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:19 PM
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Do you think it's weird it I go to a bar and refuse to dance? Girls reaction wasn't negative or positive to me
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:18 PM
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But how?
/r/askTRP22/07/19 11:00 AM
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I d generally prefer just dancing with a girl moving slowly. I don't think I can dance alone
/r/askTRP22/07/19 11:00 AM
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Yes, we are products of our experiences, they shape us, change us, if you encounter with your child version probably you wouldn't know who he is... there is no right or wrong but being selfish is the best thing you can do, only give for the ones who gives for you, not for the ones you thing worths. Think about it like, you and your friend wants the same thing so bad, your friend gets it but you can't, how would you feel? What would you think? For a while you may think like yeah good for him and …
/r/askTRP20/07/19 09:45 PM
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Maybe I'm not that kind of a person this is why? Probably I became a selfish person after the things I experienced, close friends are jealous about you, you get the hot girl but he doesn't he will be jealous inside even if he acts good. You get better salary he will not like it. You become the prize for him, that's why he acts like he cares be close but inside he will be jealous. Do you read history? Humans aren't that genuine and they can change so fast. That was what I experienced with every c…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 07:13 PM
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And can you compare to regular friends? Do you exchange phone numbers? I mean I don't want to be in a relationship with any guy like that, no upkeep to maintain is good but there should always be a line between. If a guy tells me about his failure with a girl ask for advice and almost cry telling those, then are we getting deep? I realized I don't like mentoring so I will cut it Yeah I shouldn't do nothing I don't want to do. Exactly those dudes has a completely different life, hangs places I ne…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 06:24 PM
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What do you mean when you say deep? What separates them from regular friends by the things you talk about? But doesn't mentoring eat your time, I don't want to write WhatsApp messages To whom I will ask to be mentored? Like those guys asks me? But I don't want advice on girls much I just want to hang out with them, go to the places they go, get into their circle, rich successful people and hot girls If I ask their mentorship they won't Nobody gonna take a bullet for you This is stupid, even fami…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 05:56 PM
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I don't think there are much genuine friendships. I just think like we can meet outside with the guys I don't want a guy sleepover at my place. I just think like it's my personal space and I only want girls there or be alone. Yeah, it's fine to share ideas and help but they are too inexperienced and broke I'm broke too but I am feeling like a real ladies man lately. I don't want to spend my time listening to their failure with girls. I'm 28 still studying and the guys are 19-20 and too inexperie…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 04:02 PM
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Because I don't really like it and there is no need to, we already see each other and meet outside. At home I just want to be with girls and if not be left alone, this is my personal time I don't want any guys there. I don't want a guy friend who sleeps at my flat. Is this weird?
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:54 PM
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I don't say she is perfect... Don't know how you guessed it but she has lots of emotional baggage imo too. She has issues I can see it. I can't get her ons because I don't have my own flat I am wondering even if a girl has a successful career, earns good, she might be depressed and not be feeling well? Coz, my ex building a good career and I don't wish her to feel good and enjoy her life ( that ex reported me at work lying I harassed her and two of her friends after her friend lied about me hitt…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 07:52 AM
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Girls will make me happy because I live woman, some people are like that I love being desired by woman and just being around them simply makes me feel good. You love football? I love woman, like that. And not being able to get that also was detrimental for me. Really, early 40's for college girls? Are you sure? I checked numerous forums asked woman's advices. They live older man but not that older. Not more 10 years older mostly. They restrict ages like 18-20 restricts it to 30 not all but quite…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:48 PM
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I wouldn't care if I had a flat This is my main issue actually
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:39 PM
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Okay then I should act like I have better things to do hitting on a girl?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 12:22 PM
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Yes I can give emotional rollercoaster, my game is really good and this is why girls want me probably? I look above average nothing fancy, average body, broke. I do woman priority because I never could live my youth and those are the last chances to get college girls. I don't want to fuck 30 years olds even 25's are bad
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:08 AM
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But they aren't nerds. Like they are really young and naughty as well... Weird? Like there is a girl, she wears shortest skirts, doesn't care if her panties show, like I saw her panties a few times already?? She has a great body 9/10 face 7.5/10. She has lots of tattoos and piercings, metalhead weirdo but when it comes to the exams she is the last one to leave writing extra long answers, she is trying to graduate in 3.5 years if possible and takes classes at summer. I don't get it
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:26 AM
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When I say I live with my parents they lose interest. If I lie about having a flat then they want to come. Most of those girls are 19-20 and don't have their own place. They are really hot though, having the chance but not being able to live, fuck them is killing me, I had no youth, now I still can not live because of past mistakes, I am never desperate about attractive they want me, my problem is not having the money hence flat. Im naturally alpha but when you are broke it kills the vibe, life …
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:20 AM
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Because obviously at some point I will have sex with them?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:13 AM
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I just told since you asked me, said you are wondering. If I don't have my own flat is this the dead end?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:08 AM
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Like she is hot Im above average, as I said she is richer, will have a better future. I don't have a car or a flat can I still fuck her in her flat just using my game? I'm asking for a girl I recently met, talked only a few minutes after we met, she was showing interest, I will keep escalating but I don't have a flat or a car is this the dead end? Also I don't really know why she is interested coz she has better guys around her.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:06 AM
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Yes I wasted time in anxiety and depression with anxiety for last couple years when I realized lost years I had. I was literally never young, never had a gf rather than a few short swings. Never partied, didn't have much friends, no travel nothing. Now Im having friends and girls hitting on me actually, literally but I can't find the reason why, I feel insecure... I can't work because my studies are already hard and it get even harder after all those years with suffered it gives damage both phys…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 10:00 AM
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My question is obvious I feel insecure hitting on girls who has better career and money. Do I have a right to feel that way or its irrelevant!
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:57 AM
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Can I compensate with other things like if my game is good? How much money is important should I be earning more to fuck her?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 09:55 AM
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It does but woman are lazy
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:04 AM
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Thanks I will
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:58 PM
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But how she will come back then?
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:56 PM
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So she wants emotional roller coaster or steady? If it's steady then this is a regular relationship isn't it?
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:55 PM
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You are totally right thanks...
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:38 PM
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How should I feel in such a situation?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 08:47 PM
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When I move on should I keep contact, act like a friend?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 08:45 PM
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I know woman are shallow but she act like she isn't and whatever I try she don't give up and let go
/r/askTRP17/07/19 08:44 PM
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The question is I can't be versatile, think about it like you are in a bar everyone is dancing but you can't because you are too classy
/r/askTRP17/07/19 08:43 PM
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Are girls who smokes sluttier?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:39 PM
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Is this really true if she smokes she pokes?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:39 PM
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I won't but it feels weird when we go out and she smokes with other guys I don't
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:38 PM
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It lowers the smw? But most hot girls I meet smokes, seriously... Like 80 percent. I met with probably 30 girls last couple of months, all of them were smoking, almost all...
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:21 AM
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We are always 1v1 making the project, I sit pretty close, and obviously give sexy vibes, I know I do but she breaks it everytime. She thanks to the waitress, to the cleaning woman etc. She acts good, I don't really know I feel like she might be fucking someone already and doesn't need me that way only Im valuable as a relationship material.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 08:53 AM
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Like she is smiling talking to me, trying to talk to me get to know me. When I saw her studying with another guy opening the door she moved away a bit like I catched her. She felt bad when she talked about things like money or other guys with her friends while I was around, this was when we first met. Became distant from her guy friends. She especially wanted to get my number although she could just mail me about a classwork since this is the regular way. Texts me. Changes herself the way I woul…
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:23 AM
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I mean, saying she has beautiful lips for a kiss but I was indicating Im not into relationships beforehand and she was not liking it.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 08:04 PM
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Why? Some looks really natural
/r/askTRP27/06/19 06:04 PM
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I was thinking to get a transplant what do you think? I can't believe how medicine couldn't cure baldness yet
/r/askTRP27/06/19 05:19 PM
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How? I tried it I just don't
/r/askTRP27/06/19 09:40 AM
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Yeah asking to study together is a good idea but sadly I'm not good at the classes, I barely pass. But all my blank mind comes from my insecurities. I'm balding and it's noticeable, normally girls check me out but they can't see my receding hair when I talk sitting near her she will see it and I don't look good bald believe me. What is making me even more insecure is she has really hot guy friends I'm trying not to compare but hey all her friends are literally chads. All hot girls mostly have ho…
/r/askTRP27/06/19 06:38 AM
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I don't rock it sadly
/r/askTRP27/06/19 06:30 AM
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For example I talked with a girl at class but it was awkward because like it's obvious why I'm talking to her. I told her how we are having the same classes and failing and taking again and she laughed then what? What am I gonna ask? About if the class is hard? But if I talk about school stuff all the time then I will stay as a classmate? This won't make us close. I want to get close.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:05 PM
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I think my insecurities also gives me anxiety, like I look good but I'm balding, the fact that I will be bald in a year is devastating. I don't look good bald. If I'm 7.5-8 now I will be a 6. And anxiety is clouding my mind, that may be why I can't create fluent convo. I'm anxious 24/7
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:03 PM
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I'm balding and it's giving me anxiety. I think no solution for that. I look good but balding probably be bald in a year if it goes that fast. Shaving doesn't look good
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:00 PM
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Not really
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:56 PM
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But I can't get it to a level that I can grab her arm. The conversation always stays distant. She doesn't let her guards down, none of them does, whatever I do. Lately I talked to a girl, we talked like half an hour, she was into it we had a good chemistry and got close very fast but then I sent her a text, like just a funny text hinting the things we had talked back then she didn't replied back.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 08:23 PM
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If I'm a high value man needs to be impressed why I'm the one approaching? I always feel like if I'm approaching then I want something from her. Actually that's true on some level
/r/askTRP26/06/19 08:19 PM
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Of course I would do it gladly but they are too short like it ends within a few sentences this is why. I probably lack some of those but I had convos girls were interested I just couldn't carry on the convo
/r/askTRP26/06/19 08:17 PM
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Yes I totally agree, so where the ball should be rolling to? I can't keep it rolling because she generally doesn't response like she is too scared to make a mistake generally not to lose me maybe? I was talking with a girl lately I tried everything talking relaxed, serious, sweet, hot. She doesn't respond but she keeps answering though. I think I am too intimidating, like she feels worthless.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 07:38 PM
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So, what separates me from a friend then? Just I'm brave enough to tell her that I want her? And when I ask about what she likes it usually ends up she does nothing? Just go out eat regular stuff. All they tell, they meet with her friends go to school etc.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 07:35 PM
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Yeah, after then?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 07:30 PM
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What do you mean? Curious about her? But it gets awkward like why do you ask that she says if I ask personal things
/r/askTRP26/06/19 07:30 PM
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They get attracted to me but I always run out of words. What the hell should I talk about or what about I make her talk? I know nothing about her? She is always chatty with her friends but they stay friends How can I be close but not friendly?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 05:06 PM
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I can definitely attract woman and all the things you said are true I'm sure there are lots of married woman there crashing on other guys but just don't admit. That happened to me too, there were married girls attracted to me but even after the first attractive I run out of words. I don't know what to say. I know nothing about her, should I talk about her looks? About stuff going around? What?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 05:03 PM
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Men if you are running out of words after a few sentences nothing works believe me
/r/askTRP26/06/19 05:00 PM
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But they don't talk, how can I make them talk. Like I was at class yesterday talked to the girl I take 3 classes together and said "Oh, we always get the same classes it seems and fail haha She laughed" I knew she was checking me out from time to time. But the conversation died there I didn't know what to say since I know nothing about her. Also she must be rich, has a good car and always wearing good clothes. It was just too much anxiety already for me to approach, she didn't carried the convo …
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:56 PM
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How is this even true? I'm mostly calm and don't talk much the conversation ends. Even if the girl is genuinely interested. I dress well and girls check me out but I always run out of words. And how can I be the one approaching but don't talk?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:52 PM
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But none of the girls around me interested in big things happening in the world etc. They all talk about series, gossip and girly stuff nothing else... And those girls are students in a fairly good college. I literally never met with a girl I can have a convo on something, it's all about trivial stuff.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:50 PM
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I lack that, for example I was talking to that girl at class. I told her " we are always taking the same classes it seems, you are always around" she said yes. Then I said "but failing and taking again mostly, she smiled. So, I have nothing to say on my mind after that and the conversation ends even if she seemed interested she didn't keep talking. I seriously know nothing about her what can I say?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:47 PM
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Isn't that awkward when you invite her then be silent mostly?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 03:24 PM
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I never come across such girls all are too quiet around me
/r/askTRP26/06/19 03:23 PM
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I seriously can't do it even if I tried for years. There must be something wrong. I'm loving in another country though maybe cultural difference?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:40 PM
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Why you are calling me idiot? What is the reason?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:38 PM
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Okay but maybe even if I tried so hard I can't be successful. It just doesn't happen maybe? What should I do then? I look fine but still can't get laid, also I believe woman like the way I talk but just doesn't like what I talk about at some point.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:32 PM
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I do but they don't like it, most girls are simple. They just want to have fun, and are there for what you give to them, you just need to fill their needs. I will ask a question here, if I show care, like if she says she is tired and I act like I care, does that make it I to bed or more into a relationship or friendship kind of thing?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:16 AM
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All I can get from that post is I should be narrow minded and be so sure about myself, never change my mind. I guess that is what makes you all get laid. Hah maybe that is the part of the thing you call frame, yeah that's definitely manly. I unfortunately have an artistic mind that's generally open for bending and shaping.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:05 AM
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You could just try giving an example and we see? But hey, if you told rape jokes to a girl on a first date and gotten laid then you must be right.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:30 AM
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Why the hell you don't get it! Of course I am not asking to use the same phrases you use. I just like to know what worked. It worked! That is how its, most woman are the same! I'm asking about the way you approached, like for example if you go to a girl and directly say that you want to fuck them, that wouldn't work, whoever you are, whatever way you said that, 99 times out of 100 it won't work. This is an outcome. Now there are outcomes on the other end of the lined, that's what worked! You alr…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:28 AM
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Great, can you write your outcomes as well? Or you would keep it to yourself :) But maybe you can just write about a successful dialogue that worked, your first success maybe from meeting first time to bed?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:10 AM
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You are right but you could just write a dialogue and we could see if it would be helpful. Of course it's not only about what you talk about, and for sure every girl would be different but woman are same on some level. If you could give examples it would be helpful, believe me. Some conversations drives the girl away in a second and some hooks her. Maybe you don't have much success is this why you can't give an example? ( I'm not attacking you ) Also, thanks for the advices.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:08 AM
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Thanks, I couldn't explain it well since I wrote that very fast. What is main subreddit?
/r/askTRP25/06/19 01:14 PM
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Haha, I didn't say those to her, I just typed in a wrong way, it's just my thoughts. She was so shy but I gave up I won't text her, she is not my cup of tea, I can't wait for a month for a kiss, some girls have this barrier I think, she must be conservative. I just didn't like being around her. My biggest problem is I don't have my own flat, and I'm 28 and a virgin, If I had my own flat I would get laid easily. I don't have a job too, I'm still a student. And being virgin with a high libido at 2…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 11:28 PM
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I don't want a relationship already and if it will be a relationship I don't want it to be strict, I want a relaxed relationship, this girl is a bit weird I don't know. She may be conservative, she seems so. If she told her guy friend about her interest in me, what would you think? I think like she wants a committed relationship since she wouldn't tell the guy otherwise? I didn't like her telling this to the guy, it's just weird. I asked her out today, she was too nervous tried to go away, but t…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 07:43 PM
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I asked her out at the end of the class, she was extremely nervous, said she will sleep then we walked some to her dorm. She never stared at me in the eye, not even a single second. We talked about school stuff. I told her I like her hair. When I told her I'm 28, I was thinking she knows, she was surprised and acted a bit weird. Are 19 years olds like that? I really didn't enjoy the talk, she was nowhere near close to me, she is probably too conversative for me. She is probably looking for the l…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 12:38 PM
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Just tell me... my thought about getting her into an empty class and telling her I don't want a serious relationship, teasing her saying that I noticed her interest in me and I'm also interested. Is it too weird? I'm really curious what you all think on that.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:44 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/askTRP09/05/19 09:58 PM
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She is totally into me which is weird since she knows almost nothing about me but she definitely is into me. I am sure if I leave without asking her out tomorrow she will be very bitter literally. What is escalating, is it something sexual? I don't have time to understand it now can you explain with examples? I will ask her out after the class, what we can do? Weather is too hot for a coffee. Maybe ice cream? And what we are gonna talk about I can keep the conversation flow and talk about anythi…
/r/askTRP09/05/19 08:59 PM
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But try what? Try having a relationship? It would be easy. I just don't know what's on her mind. I am anxious about what to do. Can you please tell me what is that move? As I said tomorrow I will ask her out. Where we can go? Coffee is not a good idea since it will be 13pm and weather is hot. And I know I can get the conversation flow but what am I gonna do? How I can make it not like a relationship but also not too sexual? Should I complement her hair or eyes, she has big green eyes they are be…
/r/askTRP09/05/19 08:52 PM
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But then wouldn't it end up being a relationship? If I do that all it would end up her falling in love with me or something. If I get her in an empty class and tell her I realized her interest in me, would it be weird? I know I shouldn't do that but why? Again, I'm in a slight more conservative country. I don't care if I fuck her, I can just hang out kiss or something. But I don't want a relationship, how can I show that? If I go out for a coffe, get to know her etc. I always feel like its going…
/r/askTRP09/05/19 07:27 PM
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You don't get it, it's not that I never red it. I don't have time now, I will see her at Friday. Of course sidebar helps but you don't see I can't handle such situations, I told you how I feel and everything. Thinking and telling your thoughts about such individual, specialized situations would greatly help trp community, I never saw that here. You can tell your opinions based on your past experiences. What would you say about this situation? You have no thoughts? I'm making everything a big dea…
/r/askTRP09/05/19 07:21 PM
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Yeah, I agree but I'm scared of the consequences of I fuck her once then leave... I will try to get sexual on WhatsApp or something in case the situation turns against me.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 10:48 PM
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This is a key class, and you know I'm 28 will be graduating at 30 don't want to make it any longer... I will try to pass it just by slightly flirting with her, lets see. She gave me a chance for entering the exam again, my grade was so low. I fucked it up again second time, now she will help me again she said, I don't know how?
/r/askTRP17/04/19 09:13 PM
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I don't want her, just if she is gonna pass me we can have sex, I mean I don't want to but I can... I have to pass this class.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 08:14 PM
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No man, at first I was thinking that way but she is like a little kid around me, changed her style to a leather jacket, jeans etc. I never saw her like that. Also, kind of hitting on me but not obvious... She really wants me in bed I can feel it. She already did lots of things she wouldn't do for a normal student.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 07:25 PM
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No, I don't want to fuck her at all. But I feel like she knows I won't be able to pass, and I have to pass this class. Some things happened, and I'm sure what is in her mind...
/r/askTRP17/04/19 07:22 PM
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I have to pass this class, it's really important, that's why...
/r/askTRP17/04/19 07:20 PM
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I'm not anxious but her... I just want to know what's in her head. I was never alone with her always this guy there and they are chatting and laughing, when she talks to me she is like she is gonna have a heart attack. I never saw such a thing before. I want to isolate her but don't know how. Should I ask out for a coffee? It seems like she was out of a bad ltd, thats just my observation
/r/askTRP17/04/19 06:48 PM
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So, women lie mystery? For example there is this girl who is attracted to me, I can feel it but I always think like she wants a relationship, am I just assuming? We are in a project group, her, me and her guy friend. She is like she is gonna have a heart attack when she is around me. Last week, I dunno if it was set up, I think probably it was but this guy friend left early, we were only us two at the end of the class, she was so excited that the professor asked her if something is wrong? I thin…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 01:49 PM
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Thanks, great answer... How can I show I will keep my mouth shot? I'm not in a restrictive society but a bit conservative yet liberal. I just don't know how to escalate physically, will I suddenly kiss? We should be alone at home or outside is also okay? But when I act like ,I don't want sex, what we are gonna talk? How can I make it like I still tease but not fall in a friend zone? They are extremely nervous around me is that good? I see that as a sign of attraction but also they should be comf…
/r/askTRP17/04/19 01:31 PM
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I won't tell because people had insulated me when I did before...
/r/askTRP16/04/19 08:53 PM
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Okay... Thanks for the answers.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:01 PM
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No I mean, can we apply it to any culture in any country?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:29 PM
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I think Yes. But I don't live in USA wouldn't it apply to another country?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:06 PM
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Man, I'm trying for a year and still didn't get laid. But yeah, nothing much to say. Still some more comments would be helpful.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:37 PM
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Do you think things should get sexual soon or it will turn into a friendship? I talk with girl for months, I like fuckbuddies rather than sex and dump actually, is there any way woman want that it they think like it will either will be sex or friendship? They for sure doesn't see me as sole friend for sure, even if I try to make it friendly just to try they also doesn't want that! Should I look around bars of something? Or maybe they don't want to fuck without being in a relationship, so they wa…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:23 PM
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I was attempting, I even tell them I'm not looking for relationship but still they won't leave me alone yet they won't be fucking me, not even kissing me, weird? The girls telling me I'm a psycho just because I wanted to sleep with them not relationship also doesn't leave me alone! It is just so weird. They don't see me as friend, that's obvious but they won't be sleeping with me too. A few weeks to a month before sex is okay for me actually, and I like it better slow. But it just doesn't happen…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:51 PM
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Like I lightly try first with small touches or words then try to kiss them, even told them directly. Yes, I'm escalating but they are like hey! If we won't get into relationship you can't kiss me or touch me. This 18 years old girl is really cute like a 8 or more with good body, her insta is full of guys hitting on her and maybe she is fed up with? I don't really know. But she really wants me I can see it, she just doesn't give in, even months after, I even told her there are other girls in my l…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:46 PM
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No... I really need your thoughts on that, They were just my opinions.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 09:02 AM
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I can't make them plates, think about it like I have handful of girls I met in different situations they are like so nervous around me, obviously they are attracted to me and we are talking but I feel like they all want relationships, how can I get them in bed? Being direct is a bit weird like what am I gonna say, lets fuck? If I tell them openly that I'm tired of relationships and I just want to hang out and there are other girls as well would it work? In my opinion, if I tell them there are ot…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 09:11 PM
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Can I still make her a plate if she only has relationship on her mind? I mean since she probably told her friend about the situation she doesn't want to fuck, since she might be judged by the guy
/r/askTRP12/04/19 09:06 PM
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Why?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:28 PM
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This is not there is this one girl question?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:28 PM
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Yeah I agree but were there anything I could do to hold my frame? To me my career doesn't define me but I see for most people it does and people rate you that way. Or how much you make. I can get a more open minded girl an artist maybe in my current situation but she was so career oriented...
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:37 PM
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Yeah bir I'm just wondering how I could hold my frame in that situation?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:08 PM
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She was interested I know... But I don't have the balls so I didn't talk to her. When I'm anxious my voice is so weak, this is the reason it's all about my voice I have a good voice but it becomes so weak when I'm anxious or tired, I'm both anxious and tired most of the time, it's killing me but I can't stop it. If I didn't have any anxiety nothing could stop me.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 10:41 PM
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Maybe I m more attractive than I see myself? If this 8.5 girl was interested in me, then am I attractive? I would like to know how others see me...
/r/askTRP08/04/19 07:53 PM
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I was in metro today and just wanted to try if I can get a girl just to have confidence for the other girl. Anyways, there was this really hot girl, she was also tall and really pretty not other girl's level but she was a solid 8 maybe 8.5. I stared at her she stared back a few times then purposefully come to the door I will get into metro. Stared at me again playing with her hair, but the idiot me was so anxious couldn't talk, and now I feel weird, like I lost another chance. Probably she thoug…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:16 PM
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If only I could find a seat near her, bus if full and we just travel standing up
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:14 AM
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But she may scream, probably she would
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:13 AM
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Nothing really happens we get into bus and go out. She doesn't do anything. I want to talk when we get out of the bus but then she starts walking...
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:12 AM
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Hahaha. That was really funny. You must be getting the girls in the blink of an eye, I'm so jealous of your wit
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:01 PM
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I have options but none is her level hot. But yeah I won't think too much just talk to her. The thing is I creeped a girl out recently so. I don't want to do again.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:59 PM
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I will ;)
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:55 PM
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What can I say?
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:54 PM
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I agree... The thing is I can't decide how to approach like it seems easy when you think but when it happens it's weird like, I don't really know what I can say or where I can approach.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 03:17 PM
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My anxiety is probably caused by not having confidence since I don't have a job and living with my family, I'm anxious generally. If I had a good job, have a better body and my own flat, have better skin etc. I would feel really confident and my looks wouldn't be that important, I could easily get her, my game is not that bad. Also this girl is living nearby so if she reject me it will be awkward, especially I can't take the rejection inside that bus with neighbors. She may also be my mother's f…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 03:15 PM
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Yeah thanks... We happen to get off in the same stop already. She seems alone. It happens like we catch the bus at the last second she goes in, I go in. Should I talk inside the bus? I mean, it would be weird because people woul stare definitely and I know some of those people but when we get out she walks to her job? Probably with fast steps So I don't know... I can keep the conversation but don't know how to start it on that case. If I saw her around sitting I could just talk but I only see he…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:28 PM
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Yeah there are hot chicks but I never even had a friend that hot. If we ask 100 people rate us probably they would rate her a 9 at least and me a 6.5 this is reality but for sure I can appear more attractive than my sole looks.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:24 PM
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For sure there are other girls as well haha
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:21 PM
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Thanks I will give it a try, complimenting about her dress wouldn't sound creepy I hope...
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:21 PM
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I don't have a romantic interest yet, I just find her hot and reachable, I mean I know what makes a face beautiful and she could do modelling easily in my opinion. I would like to be chased but already this is what I m not confident about myself I don't look as hot although not bad So how can I look it act like a challenge?
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:19 PM
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I mean probably I talked like that because she is reachable? Like she is living nearby? I don't know her bad qualities but for sure there are I just think she is hot of course there are other hot girls. I don't have a job and and yes it makes it difficult for me, simply I don't have my own flat and this sucks. I'm thinking about getting a job soon but I'm also studying, maybe I can have a part time job which can pay the rent at least
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:17 PM
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Why do you think this is oneitis?
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:51 PM
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Yeah it may sound creepy but come on woman doesn't want you to be obsessed with her but also want you to be obsessed with her. I'm never obsessed with a girl though she is really cute, I never been with such a beautiful girl ( I know I should change that outlook ) I didn't get much girls already. Anyways, should I talk to her inside the bus or when we get out? Is staring at her and try to catch her eyes beforehand a good idea? I don't think talking inside a bus is a good idea since there are peo…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:50 PM
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Why do you think it's oneitis? Yeah, I will give it a try but should I talk on the bus or when we get out? I don't want to look creepy
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:45 PM
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Thanks for the detailed answer... Let me elaborate a bit. Yes, I'm new to trp. I definitely don't have much confidence and let girls select me. The story is like, I grew up without any confidence and still living with my toxic family. I feel literally sick and this is stopping me, I feel so tired and weak most of the time. I m still a virgin but for the past year I realized I can actually attract pretty girls, I suddenly got very confident but was still living with my family as I said, I hate th…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:18 PM
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What we gonna talk about then?
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:56 PM
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Yeah but how long should it take before I fuck her?
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:03 PM
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But while I approach I do it like I want a girlfriend, I mean this is the general consensus unless I make it sexual from the start...
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:02 PM
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I certainly didn't handle the situation well, got too emotional etc... But that was my first professional job. Good advices, would pictures together be enough against a false report? Being public does nothing because nobody cares to help you...
/r/askTRP31/03/19 10:05 AM
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I was told I'm above average when I asked in Reddit... I don't think I m ugly but obviously I m not chad.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:10 PM
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I actually went once and he listened to me without saying much... In the end he said I m in a phase where I will decide what I want to do, and said that I can't decide it that I'm torn between...
/r/askTRP25/03/19 04:44 PM
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Yeah I was completely giving and being thoughtful and unnecessarily nice until last year's but still I couldn't get my head back together, you are right I lack testosterone probably skinny fat and constantly stressed... Yeah, I won't think that much why I would need to promise a girl about anything
/r/askTRP25/03/19 04:16 PM
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Definitely my hormones are out of whack, Im constantly stressed and tired, probably I have lack of testosterone
/r/askTRP25/03/19 04:13 PM
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I mean when I meet with a girl they 99 percent want commitment right away, and I feel like I will hurt them if I get into their pants then leave but maybe this is a game they play, like they want commitment but will sleep with the guy anyways if commitment happens it happens... Sometimes I feel like woman never really fall in love they just want something and try to get it, whether it be support, protection, money whatever. This is why they can turn evil suddenly.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 01:37 PM
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I will read
/r/askTRP25/03/19 12:26 PM
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Yeah, people definitely used me when I was nice
/r/askTRP25/03/19 12:23 PM
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Yes, this is a cry for help you are right but I can't pay a therapist at the moment. When I say hurting, like most girls have issues and just want someone to take care of them, to decide instead of them, most woman are little children inside I want strong woman but they are hard to find. So, when I hang with a girl they so fast fall in love, don't want me to be with other girls, those plate thing seems impossible to me, it just doesn't happen. I literally have a bunch of girls interested in me a…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 10:49 AM
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No I m not drunk sometimes suddenly I feel this way but yesterday I was feeling other, was thinking about meeting this other chick I met a few months ago, just want to have fun and live. I for sure have some problems but can't put my finger on.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 10:44 AM
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Can you explain it a bit? Because I can't do it that's the problem already
/r/askTRP25/03/19 10:37 AM
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This is my biggest fear, new to trp, never had sex until recently, and I m so scared of being 30 I'm 29 now and basically I never lived my young years. Everyone is the same or just the op?
/r/askTRP23/03/19 06:55 PM
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I'm so scared of a false accusation, woman can really become monsters suddenly, even if a one night stand or fwb can report you? Anyone have any thoughts? Like I m hanging with a girl now, she is a bit crazy and bold what if she do that to me when I leave her, and I for sure will at some point
/r/askTRP23/03/19 06:40 PM
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I guess most people here didn't get you... You just want something and can't take it but the problem is this situation keeps going on... You want to be this guy who has hot girls around all the time? I also feel the same, I m okay but some guys are really born superior in terms of looks, you can hardly change that, I know how woman think, they talk about this hot guy when they are alone, they get crazy jealous etc. There are other things to attractiveness but if you are super hot with an above a…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 12:38 PM
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Yeah but do I let the main one know? Probably she would broke up... What do you think about other guys not flirting, for example I met with a really hot girl, she has a close guy friend but doesn't he want her, he is single as well, they are like friends and I know he doesn't have a girlfriend and probably he is a virgin, I m flirting with her and she is flirting back but with other guy she is like really comfortable but that's all...
/r/askTRP23/03/19 05:55 AM
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But there must be something, why this hot girl is with this guy? Maybe she doesn't have much choices? Maybe she has issues and he is caring? Maybe both want kids? I mean, I don't know them for sure but does this hot girl really want this guy, like desire sexually?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 05:24 PM
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Not ugly but average or a bit above average
/r/askTRP10/02/19 05:22 PM
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I always run into girls close to my height or do I perceive them like that? I think they are taller but maybe they aren't?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 05:21 PM
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Yeah, I agree and those hippies never seem to be interested in getting laid? I don't get when people say they get laid with hot girls at hostels make it seem so easy. I never experienced such a thing
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:18 PM
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Does being funny really help to get laid? Those guys who talk a lot, laugh, make jokes around me are like having problems getting girls and I always thought that's because they act like a girl? I mean being funny gets you laid? Girls doesn't make it a problem when they are same height?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:16 PM
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Agree hair is really important, I'm balding and thats really be bad if it gets more aggressive
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:12 PM
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Yeah lots of girls are 5.7 or taller these days and I talked with lots of girls recently, even the short ones prefer taller. Height is an advantage not a big advantage though. And if the guy is really short than that's a big disadvantage
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:10 PM
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Is it really that easy to get laid in such places? What are those hot girls doing at hostels?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:46 PM
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I never had a decent chick, none over a 7, most are 7... I'm wondering who fucks those model looking girls, I feel too intimidated around such girls end up screwing all up. I mean obviously I'm a 6 or 7 at most and she is 9 or 10 then I have no chance?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:43 PM
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How do I do that, like what kind of a talk it should be? I shouldn't get to know her and get straight into the business?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:38 PM
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Don't know, it's said my height is average but when I go out I see lots of guys taller than me. Also seriously there are lots of guys with almost model like facial features or am I just a freak?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:37 PM
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Sadly my hairline is also receding badly. At least you are tall. But I know I should stop complaining, still can't stop feeling insecure though. Like I'm confident but when a problem happens like a tall girl interested in me gets distant suddenly then automatically think like she was already having problems with my height since she can't even wear high heels around me, then that fucked it all up.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:36 PM
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And what about almost same height? These days girls seems getting taller and taller.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:33 PM
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I agree complaining about it would change nothing but still. Last girl who had a crush on me was almost as tall as me and she seemed like she didn't make it a problem but I was still getting insecure around her tall buff friends.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:32 PM
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Where do you meet those girls? Is there any way I can show I won't be only her's from the start? When I approach a girl, take her number then get to know her... It becomes like a relationship, how can I avoid this? But every single girl is like that, they start showing care, get emotional, am I making the mistake the way I talk to them? Maybe I shouldn't get to know them but then what we are gonna talk about?
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:25 AM
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So you guys have a main one and plates? I mean all girls wants to be exclusive from the start and the ones wouldn't want that is so so rare. How do you find all those girls who accepts being a plate? I just can't find it... What kind of girls are those, where do you meet with them? How can I show I won't be exclusive from the start?
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:21 AM
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I don't but then I have no girl
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:18 AM
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Maybe it's about the girls around me? I make it natural, joke around but no way around, they get jealous... Most girls would be okay if I act natural or most wouldn't so basically I just let the ones who doesn't accept go their own way
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:17 AM
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Yeah I shouldn't but if I don't try to make them approve the situation then I have no girl?
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:15 AM
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I agree, dressing nice always make me stand out, it's like day and night. Yeah, I'm planning to go to gym... How their threshold is, like if a girl is 9 how low her threshold would be in your opinion?
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:14 AM
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Is this why they want to be exclusive from the start? So, if I'm high smv but not her's what she gets from being with me? The possibility of being exclusive is what drives her to me?
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:11 AM
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What the hell man just live your life. I can't get you, life is about living it and it's short just enjoy without abusing yourself. Do what makes you feel good. Be a human, man, lover, father, seducer whatever you want it's your journey and there is no mission at all in my opinion. I'm also in the same age but my problem is I don't have money, struggling to finish my engineering degree, living with my problematic family. You have nothing of those. I have lots of regrets...
/r/askTRP08/02/19 02:26 PM
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But I have problems with how to approach... I started lifting a few weeks ago, dress better but can't approach. Now this girl is staring at me from another table in a cafe... This is the college's cafe So we are both students, what can I go and say like I don't know. Any advice?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 11:57 AM
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Okay, I will read but I'm a kissless virgin at 27 and it's eating me, I want to flirt with all the girls when I have a chance. I don't know I have no confidence and I feel powerless
/r/askTRP25/11/18 11:07 PM
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Yes, I have no options and it's so hard to get options... Actually, I'm a kissless virgin at 27 and it's killing me How can I handle this? I'm going to work and those girls are like so cute 21-23 age I feel old but I mean I get attention for the first time in my life, I want to be there all the time, I want all three girls at work. I mean I'm still a virgin. So I should date, I mean dating is the way to sex I saw this but so late. And another thing killing me is, I hided for years now when I see…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 09:29 PM
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Like I posted in a wrong way?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 04:19 PM
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But this work is not like others There are shifts I see her a few times in a month at work. And I won't be working here so long. I assume she is attracted to them but seeing me as a marriage material.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 03:16 PM
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Okay... but can you please explain
/r/askTRP25/11/18 03:14 PM
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You mean no gf from work is more logical? I hear that a lot but why?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:52 PM
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