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A man who stands for tbe poor and protects tbe innocent A man who stands up for the rights of the oppressed and the downtrodden and poor mistreated beasts and birdies and squirmy wormy things A hero to the innocent Like Jesus
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/26 08:44 PM
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Go ahead :) nobody is stopping you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:30 AM
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can generally be summed up into words Bad personality
/r/ExRedPill17/06/26 01:14 AM
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Somebody can be in a relationship and feel so lonely. Especially because that guy is definitely using her body for sex or her labor to make his own life easier
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:07 AM
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Choosing somebody who doesn’t have a huge positive impact is objectively settling. 99% of babies are the result of women who settled. And those babies will become people who settle or are settled for. Can we focus on quality over quantity for once? Can we finally get some actual standards? can we wake up and realize we don’t need to do it again, this round? More dissatisfied children with mental and emotional issues, born into a world that prioritize the profit of companies, while children acros…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:09 PM
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I’m not the one trying to get anything from a man, sex, family, reproduction. All of my needs are taken care of. There’s no empty hole inside of me which needs filling, which is why I am able to commit myself daily to the very ideals which i espouse. all I want for men is to largely be left alone by them. Because it seems like 99% of their thoughts are about what they are entitled to, and not even one percent is about what they can do for others. this conversation is a good example. Constant com…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:01 PM
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Decent, or whatever definition of decent you have, just doesn’t cut it anymore. I don’t think we should have even one more baby until we clean up the rest of our problems. A lot of decent men, think they are good guys just because they don’t actively hurt anybody. (which they still do, through their consumption patterns, but they ignore it because they suffer from cognitive dissonance and value their comfort over basic reasoning.) It’s not unfair for men to be excluded. It’s unfair for men to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:55 PM
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Yes, I agree. And that’s a part of the reason why women should raise their standards exponentially. Exponential standards means taking fewer chances. Only women have the ability to gatekeep this, and they are failing miserably, giving substandard men chance after chance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:48 PM
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When I see the fruits, then maybe. But in my opinion, if a man is not completely stellar, stellar in every sense of the word, then he should not be able to reproduce at this point 🥱 we have too many ecological crisises and starving children to justify taking people’s word for it and rolling the dice on a man who may not be all that altruistic long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:45 PM
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Men are productive to make money, they are not usually productive in a sense that they are looking generations into the future. They are not productive in a sense that alleviates community poverty, but in a way that ensures private comfort which he can use as leverage to find a mate Like the CEOs you care about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:35 PM
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I really want to know why I should give a man a chance. What has he done to alleviate poverty in his community? What has he done that ensures the well-being of future generations? Specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:34 PM
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I think a man should prove himself without needing a woman to watch over him? Why doesn’t a man go out on his own and come back having complete a big big project, like planting a garden that can feed generations, and intending to care for it. He doesn’t need a woman to give him a chance in order to do that at all. And they will flock to his competence. No supervision needed. No “chances” or whatever needed. That’s what it really means to be a provider. Instead, it’s all about men and their desir…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:27 PM
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Define what you mean by unhealthy standards and interests of society? Nutritional and cognitive outcomes for children by the way, is perhaps the most important interest a society has. Across cultures, and across the globe, the empowerment of women in the financial, educational, and legal sphere has led to improved quality of life for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:22 PM
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Yes, you are right we have all kinds of trash conditioning. Much of it from living in a world that prioritizes profit over people, and treat sentient being as disposable commodities. In order to have a healthy future, caring about humanity should indeed be a decisive factor when it comes to reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:19 PM
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OK, and even the most progressive and least harmful company isn’t a person. Even the most progressive and least harmful company shouldn’t be prioritized over the well-being of future generations. We don’t need companies to create positive nutritional and cognitive outcomes for children. We need humanity to lock in and assemble proactively to prioritize these precise outcomes even within their very own communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:14 PM
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A lot of men don’t care for humanity, and women don’t care to subsidize those men with their attention and resources. Or to pass on the lineage of selfishness. If a man isn’t thinking or acting multiple generations in the future then actually he really shouldn’t be passing on his genes in the first place. He is borrowing from the future. Basically a debtor
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:11 PM
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It’s very predictable that you would be prioritizing the money of shareholders rather than the nutritional and cognitive outcomes of children, and overall poverty. this is why we are asking men to please step aside from leadership positions. Your priorities are actually hostile and obtuse toward the benefit of humanity and future generations. respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:03 PM
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Well, companies aren’t people fortunately, so we don’t have to worry about that. Obviously long-term benefit for humanity (lower poverty and infant mortality rates, better nutrition and cognitive outcomes for children) overrides short-term benefit for something abstract like a company. I don’t think you are really seeing it from a macro lens 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:04 PM
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Sure, but, the overall trend is very clear (in response to the question, how is woman’s rights and freedom in men’s self interests) Across countries, higher levels of female education, access to healthcare, economic, participation, legal rights, and protect protection from violence, consistently correlate with lower child, mortality, lower poverty rates, better child nutrition and cognitive outcomes, more stable population growth, higher GDP per capita over time. Just looking at the bigger pictu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:46 PM
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The idea that men are more evolutionarily expendable, as well as more self focused and less community oriented (like women) has been supported by a mountain of research.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:13 PM
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Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:24 PM
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Men are evolutionarily expendable liabilities, their good qualities are not pleasant bonuses but necessary compensation for their innate parasitism of benefiting from uncompensated labor and good faith communal thinking of women more generally. The DNA picture illustrates the host-parasite dynamic or why a woman would be more accepting of a female (complete, self sacrificing, genetic footprint) rather than a needy dependent who craves the attention or care of women to feel complete
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:22 PM
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see for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:10 PM
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The data is consistent enough across different cultures that it’s hard to chalk up purely to coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:07 PM
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Research consistently shows that closing the gender employment gap could boost global GDP by around 20%. Plus, data indicates that companies with more women in leadership roles tend to have better risk management and higher profitability. For families, there is a mountain of evidence showing that when women have control over household finances, that money is far more likely to go directly into things like better nutrition, healthcare, and education for the kids. It is an investment that pays off…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:20 PM
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sidelines. If you look at the actual data, it’s not really a zero-sum game where one side wins and the other loses. When women are educated, employed, and empowered, the "multiplier effect" is real. It basically lifts up the entire community, which obviously benefits men too. Here’s the breakdown of why it’s a net positive for everyone: The Economy: Closing the gender gap isn't just "fair," it’s good business. Estimates show that closing the employment gap could boost global GDP by around 20%. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:17 PM
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Many Women who are unhappy can and do cheat, but it’s never something I would advise
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:59 PM
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Life isn’t abt figuring out women , gender, sex That can be like gaming a system if its done for the purpose of self interest It’s about finding the authentic self, living virtuously, living in harmony w all creation, establishing longevity in thought word and deed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:34 PM
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I would rather share an attractive man than settle for an ugly one But my definition of attractive is not just about appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:53 PM
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Work w your hands, men who work w their hands (pottery / sculpting / painting / gardening) are far more attractive than men who do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:39 PM
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Lots of misogynists have wives or girlfriends, you're right. Women, like men, can be complicit in unhealthy dynamics and sometimes enable dysfunction Basically, Unhealed people find each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:44 AM
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Yes, women will have to accept the fact that men do not want to cooperate. For all the talk they do of protecting women and children, a man in the home is the most likely threat to his wife's life. We need to wake up and realize that we are not meant to cohabitate like this in nuclear units We are naturally meant to live in extended, interconnected family groups rather than isolated nuclear units. The more women come together engaging in frequent group interaction the longer their lifespans and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:33 PM
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Put all of this energy that you direct into gaming women, talking about gaming women, telling other men how to talk about gaming women, and do something productive like plant a bunch of trees or something. Build something. Create something. What use are you? Rejection should be humiliating. Why circulate all of this energy into getting your dating theorizing planning when you're not adding anything substantial to society?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:17 PM
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Self improvement can be as simple as getting toned/fit, learning a skill, etc You are operating on some weird dichotomy that you read about on the internet. Be careful with the content that u consume
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:43 PM
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i don't think it's a misogynistic question at all. But rather a good question Hollywood makes it feel completely necessary. I have found that romantic relationships have a net negative impact on my life, but friendships, teacher relationship, and different kinds of partnerships of purpose have a positive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:44 PM
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Yeah you can try, only if you accept that he's not going to change unless he wants to from the core of his being. I don't see men as horses to train, but autonomous equal human beings with wants and needs of their own. If those wants don't align, no problem. We're not going the same place anyway (No training and also no shooting! Lol)
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 09:15 PM
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Extending grace is wonderful and important, not only to our partners but all of our relationship. I can totally agree with you there I feel there is a bit of missing thr forest for the trees, the issue mainly comes down to depending on men so much, to be constantly present, and isolated nuclear units because this is a relatively new invention from post world war II. We have forgotten multi-generational homes and extended communities, where the problem solvers would be many, with varied skillsets…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/25 01:33 AM
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Simple If you don't mind the stress and potential for premature aging, find joy in your marriage, but never expect him to change. If you do mind the stress, avoid marriage and find different forms of fulfillment
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 08:11 PM
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Yes, it is putting pressure on women, you are assessing this accurately. Married women live shorter lives than single ones because of the cumulative stress of depending on faulty men
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 05:38 PM
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False! We don't dislike being approached by a man with clear romantic interest if he is overwhelmingly attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:51 PM
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Bc I'm not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:49 PM
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It's about being compared to previous partners. It breeds suspicion that the woman is not sufficiently loyal (dependent) on a man if she has previous partners with whom she either fostered a deeper emotional connection or had a better physical experience
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:59 PM
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Innate masculinity=\= low empathy. Empathy expresses differently in masculinity than it does femininity. but empathy is for all humans. It's actually a crucial component of justice and leadership.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:32 PM
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No sense of true curiosity, purpose or moral gravity, or when he prefers to remain willfully ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:29 AM
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There are so many wonderful attributes about men I focus on what I like about certain people One person might have great muscles and definition, but not so much personality One person might be tall, but they have a weird footstance or bad personality/not funny or premature aging One person might be shorter, but are much smarter and more confident or even just honest and that's a plus too One person may have lighter features where I prefer darker, but everything else about them is wonderful Basic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:40 AM
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What's a hippie
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:17 PM
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Sexual energy must be transmitted and purified to be used by the upper energy centers If there is confusion, lust, greed, or flesh-oriented living then it hinders this progress and you will always be stuck banging your head against the wall, a slave to delusion and sense attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:39 PM
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Because what's attractive about men is how they act in the world show interest and make things happen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:09 PM
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So he's a burden/ net drain.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/25 12:34 AM
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yes, it's like an inner dominance that is super all-attractive
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/25 08:53 PM
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When he sees the relationship as a choice rather than a necessity. Basically self-sufficiency on every level, even spiritually and emotionally, is dominance
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/25 08:47 PM
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I don't see a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:33 PM
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Beauty comes from God and resides in the heart, that is the source from which it springs eternally. The rest is passing illusion
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/25 08:55 PM
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Yeah that's pretty much destroys the weird idea that men know how to love while women do not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:28 PM
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It's a big put-on. Like a costume. People can tell when you are putting something on, being a larper, and we can smell it from a mile away. What's really attractive is integrity. Like real honest integrity
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:17 PM
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I don't necessarily identify as a feminist but what makes your post extremely boring and hard to engage with is that it's entirely framed entirely around self-interest and personal gain, you are not even offering a genuine critique of feminism or analysis of feminist principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:38 PM
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as a woman I don't explicitly identify as a feminist however what I notice about your response is that it's all about what will benefit oneself, very few people are altruistic or think about the benefit of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:32 PM
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I don't ghost unless ive already stopped thinking about him. if I am thinking about the person in my head, and then ghosting them, it would feel dishonest I have an all cards on the table personality, and besides I love to write, I find beauty in relationships of all sorts, and I think the best way to protect oneself is by telling the truth in all circumstances so I will fall in my sword and always continue to text as long as what I'm saying is a fair, honest and relatively beautiful, even if un…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:30 PM
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I am not advocating for any policies that would not benefit men and women in equal measure. men versus woman is a distraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 03:28 PM
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maybe the way that you talked about single moms was disrespectful, in tone. or she had known single mothers growing up and respect them a lot as individuals, not just a demographic. I don't know any who believe that single childless men are obligated to date them. not one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:11 AM
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I agree with it in theory but everything people do should be from a pure heart and a clean conscience. you should have the free will to make all of these decisions, and the free will to treat people with care and respect too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:58 AM
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healing daddy issues is about embracing the belief that you are going to receive love just the Way you are,. never to come to anxiety about that. you should also cultivate a feeling of self-sufficiency, and dont seek validation from other people. also don't seek the approval of others, including men and especially the masses, they are confused. your sense of well-being is not contingent their opinions in any way. seek the approval of God through prayer and move from that
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/25 02:52 AM
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makes sense 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:42 PM
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I'm an American
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:35 PM
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it depends on the specific political beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:56 PM
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it's not a paradox , you are misusing that word. a paradox describes two contradictory truths that cannot coexist women can afford to be pickier because a partner isn't a necessity. it's just that simple just give your talents to the world, be generous and charitable to those in need, because life is about giving and creating first , rather than focusing on receiving and consuming. find a way to be happy through giving that's all you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:56 AM
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libraries are free, this is the least attractive thing ever. we have an obligation to critically engage in the world around us
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:53 PM
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I think maybe volunteering, or finding some sort of wholesome organization like sport/fitness, mentorship organization, skill classes ie woodworking, cooking, learning a new language, artistic communities study group, or faith-based organization / meditation/yoga or just some positively charged hobby/ group would be best. you don't need permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:08 AM
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Sorry I guess I edited it before you could respond! No, the truth is, all people have the capacity to find fulfillment with other human beings. Even combat vets with missing limbs I wouldn't want to degrade our veterans by telling them that masturbating into a robot is their only solution, or that one relationship failing means they are doomed to dying alone. And again, nobody is stopping you from choosing the robot. That's the main point. You have a choice! You have a choice of how you spend yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:16 PM
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Nobody's stopping you from choosing the robot, we just know that what we have is better. Just because you can't hack it doesn't mean others can't. Improve yourself. You might not be able to if you spend all your time masturbating into a robot. If you are a defeatist, then die alone with your robot. Nobody can stop you from doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:52 PM
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that was never written anywhere, there's no "supposed to be." women are just human beings. they can betray just like you but they have an option to honor trust in the relationship. the choice is much more precious than a guarantee
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:18 AM
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I think mainly there's no seduction with a robot. the idea of a robot is sex without conditions and a soul would contradict that, because a soul is a vehicle of agency. and that's where so much delicious tension lies as well, is the breaking down of resistance that comes not automatically, but through the gradual dissolution of boundaries and a true merging with a like being
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:58 AM
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Where a sex robot can replace me I will happily be replaced. Because I'm not a masturbatory aid. I have a soul. Sex happens to feel good and incredible between two souls. Especially, exclusively, between two souls that are in love with each other Anyone who thinks that the former can replace the latter hasn't tasted that deliciousness. Beyond mechanical actions of the flesh, but really about something that you will remember on your deathbed and smile about that crazy, intimate, overwhelming, fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:31 AM
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it feels like a punch in the gut tbh
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 07:47 PM
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I would agree and say cynically "survival and safety not guaranteed"because I do believe it takes a hero and a heroic mindset to attain true love Since becoming Christpilled that hero has become to me Christ Matthew 6:33: "But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you." Philippians 4:13: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Matthew 6:19-20: "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:43 PM
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Nara Smith I think
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/24 04:46 PM
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a lot of women don't know what they want, and it is not their fault, we live in a dark yuga
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:30 PM
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at our core every human wants to feel loved, cherished, valued. never used. it's too easy to be "used" for sex as a woman in this world. anyway whether women gain physical pleasure from sex or not, really depends on a variety of factors
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:36 PM
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bad aim, being sloppy, fumbling around without paying attention to the details, not tuned in, basically being unskilled, lacking rhythm and flow it's all about being in sync also it's better if they last longer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:18 AM
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nothing that's why it's universal. every woman is multifaceted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:19 PM
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chat Gpt was here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:50 PM
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I think it's good to enjoy periods of celibacy but intentions matter, and if one is intending to bash or withhold something from someone then their period of celibacy is not going to bear good fruits as one will probably turn to substances, too much TV, overeating, masturbation, and numerous other things that are not conducive to human flourishing but by all means women should take time to self reflect and preserve themselves
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 02:46 PM
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if I were you, I would decide not to worry whether he does or doesn't, because if he has his mind set to sleep with someone else he certainly will. especially now that you've put him in a bit of a nebulis that opens up your relationship. but you can still be a based beautiful RPW if you want. his actions won't change that.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/24 11:41 PM
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if you have to ask, then maybe 🙏 but maybe not when I ask someone to go find another woman, it's because I have grown tired of them and need them to bother someone else. so, if I were you I would just genuinely not worry whether he does or not. because if he wants to and has his mind set to do so, he will find a way. but if I were you I wouldn't tolerate it in my domicile for instance. I also would not tolerate it being used as a weapon.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/24 11:30 PM
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Why should we bother to read something that you didn't bother to write?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:41 PM
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chat GPT huh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:14 PM
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Women have different ways of expressing and dealing with sexual desire than seeking intercourse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:56 AM
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men deserve compassion and admiration for their achievements
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:18 AM
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I don't think 18 year olds should be able to do that, but I don't know how to stop it 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:53 PM
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agreed Proverbs 21:19: "It is better to dwell in the wilderness than with a contentious and angry woman."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:51 PM
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I can be chill and right at the same time 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:51 AM
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You're not practicing writing, you just wanted to deal a slight because you've taken off the veneer of social etiquette that you've exhausted This is exactly what I'm saying, the difference between carrying sincere values where we you go, and polishing a turd with etiquette when it's convenient and beneficial for you My work here is done
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:45 AM
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Be the same person wherever you are. that's sincerity. Pro tip
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:33 AM
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Unintentional? 😹 Right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:33 AM
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what's with the hostility?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:28 AM
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Well when I think of developing social skills, it's just far and away more "surface level" than developing actual compassion. But I see where we can meet in the middle here 💞
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:15 AM
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my definition of Compassionate sincerity and active skill that needs development, not a synonym for unfiltered blurting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:02 AM
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Just because someone is autistic doesn't make them sincere , life isnt Rain Man and i would argue a vast majority of autistic people are not as sincere as they would like to believe themselves to be, or as others would like to believe them to be People have been brainwashed by media into assuming that just because people are socially inept they are somehow also a sincere underdog, when in fact they are neither. They are kind of just frigid people who aren't aware of themselves yet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:48 AM
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couldnt disagree more Source: I'm unpolished but attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:29 AM
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Yeah it's a nice polish, but it's like polishing a piece of coal vs polishing a diamond the difference is so negligible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:22 PM
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It's not about developing social skills or charm it's about developing sincerity when someone uses social skills to seem charming, it feels hollow and manipulative and I can't develop any sort of trust toward that person So I would bypass the social skills development and go straight to the secret ingredient (compassion) Makes women (everyone) feel more trusting and vulnerable bc it's real 💪💗
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:19 PM
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Ive known people to go weeks without food become more radiant not less, sometimes fasting works when done for the right reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:47 PM
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Easy, don't settle Its like if a man is hungry and doesn't have any money, if he eats out of the trash, he still looks disgusting. Nobody wants a man like that If he puts off his impulses and earns some more money and gets a decent meal, that's an attractive man That's the whole difference
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:42 PM
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I don't have any advice to give him, I think destiny gives us what we deserve, he's sure to find someone beautiful if that's his karma
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:37 PM
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I feel sorry for them that they can't be fully themselves and need to live with these elaborate safeguards and restrictions
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/24 02:51 PM
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No I'm just virtue signalling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:34 AM
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You don't have to lie and say younger But I agree its best not to focus on attributes of the flesh especially as a slight That betrays a lot about a person and what they are focused on -- that which is only skin deep Someone should hear "39" and immediately wonder what kind of life experience a person has had in those years that they could bring to the conversation Not just outer appearance. It sounds cliche but it's really a matter of what is within! So it might be rude behavior, if it's meant …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:25 AM
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Not only that but their curiosity, intelligence, interest, integrity, commitment, resilience... Shallowness is a scourge
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:39 PM
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None of these cut particularly deep for men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:21 PM
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There is nothing more grating than a man who lacks independence. Women are programmed to nurture and guide infants to become self-sufficient members of society. Seeing a man navigate the world with confidence is one of the most attractive qualities and is crucial for developing mutual respect in a relationship. When a man displays overly submissive behavior, it can resemble an infant who hasn’t yet weaned—someone we have no biological connection to and no inherent reason to invest in. This appea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:19 PM
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When I am with my man it's about him, I'm not going to bother him about other men, because I wouldn't want him to bother me about other women. he can handle his business
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/24 11:36 AM
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My dad is wondering this now that his ex wife, my stepmom, found a new partner I just want to tell him "well... Duh! You've divorced her, and she's sick to death because of it, but you've been stringing her along because you know she'd do anything to retain a sense of normalcy and because she has had a history of loving you so long" Somehow he thinks she'll just be at his beck and call forever and take all manner of neglect until she earns his heart again, even if he doesn't say that out loud. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:58 PM
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Women will be very sensitive about how their sexual expression is perceived by their community ie other women Trust me when I say it gets thorny and exhausting very quickly to criticize any woman for her sexual choice, it's best to stay out of that mess and show the example you want to see
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:40 PM
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I wouldn't want to and I will tell an anecdote why I was staying in a mans backyard, an ex marine, because I was suffering in he throes of a psychotic break. Rather than allowing me to be homeless due to lack of monetary resources he gave me a tent and even shared his storage container which was like military storage and barracks. I took his phone consensually to call someone... and saw in the browser just dozens of tabs of pornography with all women and girls who looked a lot like me. It was ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:54 AM
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I once took a man's phone, who was "helping" me through a psychotic break and saw in the browser just dozens of tabs of pornography with some people who looked vaguely like me. It was extraordinarily confusing and overwhelming I had no inkling that any human being would do that It may have taken me weeks to truly process what I saw. It was a terrible misstep. No wonder I felt so alone and suicidal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:49 AM
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Farmers love to shame and beat their livestock, btw. Some farmhands even rape the livestock that you eat .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:37 PM
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He's clearly projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:36 PM
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The term is "long-suffering wife"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:48 PM
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Yeah, that's the geometry of the situation We are not just a gender though. Please don't forget the soul the resides within. We (men and women) all should come to understanding the things we have in common rather than what separates us... And when we do come together in love, let's treat each other with fairness and dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:15 PM
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Women have more power over men as a collective but to the men that women are attracted to specifically, they are powerless. because those men have freedom of choice time and options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:51 PM
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Some of these women have speech paralysis becos they They don't know what they want They don't have any game / are a wallflower They are afraid of men They are afraid of seeming like a lesbian They are pretentious They are suffering from depression/birth control/pharmaceutical dependency/toxoplasmosis/addicted to Netflix Disclaimer.. Many of the woman who don't approach men are genuinely just not interested When women are pursuers they can be super manipulative and hypergamous effortlessly. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:10 PM
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My problem is I'm too Christ pilled to be misogynistically red pilled, I believe God wants us to offer a soft and contrite heart, not a hard and suspicious one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:50 PM
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The thing I don't like about the red pill is how hard it makes the heart. And ugly thoughts creep in on the fringes of the movement that are decidedly destructive and also, misogynistic in the actual sense of the word. Not in the sense that feminists generally use. Like some people are proud RPers with terrible degrading fetishes. To me, that's not okay. Even if I don't identify as a lib or a feminist, I don't want someone who gravitates toward weird or abusive tendencies. Sometimes self improve…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:39 PM
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Great point well said
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:35 PM
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They are each one eye looking out of the same face
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 04:46 AM
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Uhhhh Ya
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:03 PM
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No doubt age gap sexual attraction is weird and fringe. But there's a lot that can be born of a teacher-student relationship or an expert-prodige or a boss-employer or even reverting to a parent child thing. It's best not to sexualize it. It's.natural to want, but probably not best to sexualize.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 12:42 PM
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We have to step out of the box where weird is an insult. Show me the normal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:51 PM
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You're not thinking long term, like meeting people whose company you would continue to enjoy in futur or how to maintain a relationship without fu--ing up your reputation... These are subtle arts, you are thinking more short term like a predator animal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:09 PM
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I could not have done better There isn't even a centimeter of doubt If there were a centimeter doubt, I would know I'm settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:28 PM
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Try padmasana while u scroll your phone... Generally waking up earlier...or Taking on a passion project or siill
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 08:17 PM
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They call it better half for a reason hhaa
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/24 02:57 PM
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That's so bizarre, that wouldn't occur to me within 100,000 years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:54 PM
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Well that does success mean specifically here by both metrics
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:01 PM
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He doesn't need to chase anyone. I think in many ways the man is the prize. If he's a good man, yes. Not just the man but the affection he gives. How could affection not be a prize. I would rather be rolling smothered to death in affection than go shopping for shoes and clothes .Maybe that's what is meant by, "I am the table."
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 02:56 AM
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Yes I would say people below the mid-20s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:08 PM
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Would you please explain why it's supposed to be culturally unacceptable for a man to be single?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:02 PM
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Somebody put this first paragraph in the Smithsonian
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:41 PM
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There is science to support the idea that a developed prefrontal cortex is very important
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:43 PM
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Not if they don't allow themselves to be. Not if they don't see it as a defining feature or placing them in a certain category. Anyone who treats someone differently based on an immuntable characteristic is acting out of prejudice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:36 PM
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strict isn't a bad thing. Dehumanization is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:31 PM
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It's not strict. I know strict. It's a false way of seeing the world
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:25 PM
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. We are meant to see beings holistically not as a collection of individual parts... So long as we are asking them to cater to us with their body and mind and Spirit - whole life force - hey why not at least extend the mercy of seeing them as a human with a soul
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:50 PM
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This is psychotic. No one thinks this way... These are human beings with a soul. This is very dehumanizing to strip people down to their body parts and income. Habits are understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:35 PM
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It's not, you feel the energy move through the centers of your body and become subtler and finer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:14 PM
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I don't understand your comment. If I were a man and I would try not to squander my sexual energy, I would meditate in full padmasana with my gaze locked on a single point and raise the energy from my sacral chakra gradually upward until the tension eases from my genitals
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:45 PM
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Can you succumb to it without squandering it or wasting your time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:09 PM
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Well when you succumb to it you also squander it and this is represented metaphysically w the ejaculate material...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:08 PM
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That was entertaining. Too many ideas. I think we should strive to be appropriate, channel lust into our higher energy centers so it burns as pure energy for creative means. Succumbing to the pleasures of the flesh is a classic fumble
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:52 PM
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Use chat gpt
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/24 08:38 PM
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Brotherly love is a good thing. Men love and support other men in ways woman cannot and should not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:57 PM
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I didn't say I was anti-religion or anti-patriarchy.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/24 04:15 PM
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Men expect women to be perfectly pure vessels who are devoted to them forever and anything below that is an inexcusable moral failing. This is why religion and patriarchy exist
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/24 03:44 PM
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Low self esteem women get taken advantage of by unattractive men all the time... They've built entire economies around this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:16 PM
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I am too religious to tell you to accept some sort of nihilistic fate. I believe God has plans for us to help us prosper and not to harm us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:12 PM
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Men have it in them. That is what makes them attractive. Do you know why the male peacock has vibrant shimmering colors but the peahen is plain and brown? Because man is supposed to be a warm and generous light second only to that of the sun. And meanwhile females conserve their energy for gestation and reproduction. They/we are just residing in their nature because it's enjoyable. There are exceptions like the Artemis archetype, Satyabhama, and yet, these exceptions make the rule... It's "not l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:07 PM
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In a way yes but also in a way, then do tend to seriously exploit vulnerable women and girls in arenas where we are weak ...for instance in the financial realm... An unmarried woman or girl who relies on the people around her may find herself abandoned living in squalor or even trafficked or prostituted for financial convenience, this happens even in developed countries because people are uneducated. Men in position of power are not stupid they have the capacity to either lean into the exploitat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:53 PM
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No we are never entitled sex from another person. But Humans are social animals and desire to be tenderly loved and cared for, groomed, stimulated/ challenged, teased, praised... These are the playful things about our animal nature The problem is translating that entitlement through the genitals and toward one specific person because that is a little bit psychopathic if you think about it The pleasure and sense of connection that we derive from sex is plentifully available to us through differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:48 PM
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"Go with the flow" "no boundaries" no because as the hippie adjacent person in your second category this still just means poor energetic hygiene to me. I think promiscuity is very flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:42 PM
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Every one of these things is laced with the self-defeated attitude ...it's the poisonous spore. It's not about the outward manifestation but about the unwillingness to do what is necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:35 PM
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. Much of dating or relationships is business. Just as one can run a clean business just as you can run a clean relationship. about interest and returns and investing and good leadership, it's not a bad thing just because money in the material realm is dirty. Friendship in my view is very pure, it's not about leverage or expectations it's about sacrifice and doing the right thing. It's very universal. It should never be a strategy for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:31 PM
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It's a pretty recognizable attitude that comes with it a set of heavy rhetorical preconditions and a pretty scathing attitude toward woman in general But yeah I agree men shouldn't be brown beaten or taken advantage of. Men have intrinsic worth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:23 PM
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They are settling
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/24 04:14 AM
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It's not insulting, it's some seedy business I wouldn't want to be involved with. My understanding is that sex is about love and commitment and I wouldn't interact with someone who saw it in a transactional way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:52 AM
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He had a generous aura and an inner stability
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/24 12:06 AM
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There's beauty in everyone. What matters is the quality of the relationship . Did everyone treat the other with respect and dignity and honesty?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:03 PM
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I fell in love with him when we first met. I told him deeply, that I never wanted our love to end, and it would mean the world if I could be his forever. I am still his and he is still mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:01 PM
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Nobody feels comfortable in tight revealing clothing, they feel presentable even though they are not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:40 PM
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Being either overweight/unattractive or promoscuous or both
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:37 PM
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