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| 3 | Men dating downGo ahead :) nobody is stopping you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 01:30 AM |
| 1 | What's it like to have a red piller in real life?can generally be summed up into words Bad personality | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/26 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness isSomebody can be in a relationship and feel so lonely. Especially because that guy is definitely using her body for sex or her labor to make his own life easier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?The idea that men are more evolutionarily expendable, as well as more self focused and less community oriented (like women) has been supported by a mountain of research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?Cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?Men are evolutionarily expendable liabilities, their good qualities are not pleasant bonuses but necessary compensation for their innate parasitism of benefiting from uncompensated labor and good faith communal thinking of women more generally. The DNA picture illustrates the host-parasite dynamic or why a woman would be more accepting of a female (complete, self sacrificing, genetic footprint) rather than a needy dependent who craves the attention or care of women to feel complete | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?see for yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:10 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?The data is consistent enough across different cultures that it’s hard to chalk up purely to coincidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:07 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?Research consistently shows that closing the gender employment gap could boost global GDP by around 20%. Plus, data indicates that companies with more women in leadership roles tend to have better risk management and higher profitability. For families, there is a mountain of evidence showing that when women have control over household finances, that money is far more likely to go directly into things like better nutrition, healthcare, and education for the kids. It is an investment that pays off… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Genuine question for all womenMany Women who are unhappy can and do cheat, but it’s never something I would advise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Why aren't more women happy that men are analyzing human attraction and trying to figure out women?Life isn’t abt figuring out women , gender, sex That can be like gaming a system if its done for the purpose of self interest It’s about finding the authentic self, living virtuously, living in harmony w all creation, establishing longevity in thought word and deed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:34 PM |
| – | Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrificeI would rather share an attractive man than settle for an ugly one But my definition of attractive is not just about appearance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 10:53 PM |
| -2 | Women make it very stressful for men to stay singleWork w your hands, men who work w their hands (pottery / sculpting / painting / gardening) are far more attractive than men who do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 04:39 PM |
| 12 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personLots of misogynists have wives or girlfriends, you're right. Women, like men, can be complicit in unhealthy dynamics and sometimes enable dysfunction Basically, Unhealed people find each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 12:44 AM |
| 1 | The end result in society is women practically being amazoniansYes, women will have to accept the fact that men do not want to cooperate. For all the talk they do of protecting women and children, a man in the home is the most likely threat to his wife's life. We need to wake up and realize that we are not meant to cohabitate like this in nuclear units We are naturally meant to live in extended, interconnected family groups rather than isolated nuclear units. The more women come together engaging in frequent group interaction the longer their lifespans and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Rejection is Humiliating to Men.Put all of this energy that you direct into gaming women, talking about gaming women, telling other men how to talk about gaming women, and do something productive like plant a bunch of trees or something. Build something. Create something. What use are you? Rejection should be humiliating. Why circulate all of this energy into getting your dating theorizing planning when you're not adding anything substantial to society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement will NOT improve your attractiveness to womenSelf improvement can be as simple as getting toned/fit, learning a skill, etc You are operating on some weird dichotomy that you read about on the internet. Be careful with the content that u consume | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Not trying to be misogynistic or incelly but why do women get into relationships if at all?i don't think it's a misogynistic question at all. But rather a good question Hollywood makes it feel completely necessary. I have found that romantic relationships have a net negative impact on my life, but friendships, teacher relationship, and different kinds of partnerships of purpose have a positive one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:44 PM |
| 1 | I feel like a lot of messages about red pill women end up being “women suffer so men don’t get their feelings hurt”Yeah you can try, only if you accept that he's not going to change unless he wants to from the core of his being. I don't see men as horses to train, but autonomous equal human beings with wants and needs of their own. If those wants don't align, no problem. We're not going the same place anyway (No training and also no shooting! Lol) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/25 09:15 PM |
| 5 | I feel like a lot of messages about red pill women end up being “women suffer so men don’t get their feelings hurt”Extending grace is wonderful and important, not only to our partners but all of our relationship. I can totally agree with you there I feel there is a bit of missing thr forest for the trees, the issue mainly comes down to depending on men so much, to be constantly present, and isolated nuclear units because this is a relatively new invention from post world war II. We have forgotten multi-generational homes and extended communities, where the problem solvers would be many, with varied skillsets… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/25 01:33 AM |
| 6 | I feel like a lot of messages about red pill women end up being “women suffer so men don’t get their feelings hurt”Simple If you don't mind the stress and potential for premature aging, find joy in your marriage, but never expect him to change. If you do mind the stress, avoid marriage and find different forms of fulfillment | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/25 08:11 PM |
| 2 | I feel like a lot of messages about red pill women end up being “women suffer so men don’t get their feelings hurt”Yes, it is putting pressure on women, you are assessing this accurately. Married women live shorter lives than single ones because of the cumulative stress of depending on faulty men | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/25 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?Bc I'm not interested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 11:49 PM |
| 1 | What makes a guy boring?No sense of true curiosity, purpose or moral gravity, or when he prefers to remain willfully ignorant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 02:29 AM |
| 4 | Western women preferencesThere are so many wonderful attributes about men I focus on what I like about certain people One person might have great muscles and definition, but not so much personality One person might be tall, but they have a weird footstance or bad personality/not funny or premature aging One person might be shorter, but are much smarter and more confident or even just honest and that's a plus too One person may have lighter features where I prefer darker, but everything else about them is wonderful Basic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 01:40 AM |
| 1 | How Men Could Become Lustless and Emotionally Free from Women, Without Losing Their DriveWhat's a hippie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 09:17 PM |
| 4 | How Men Could Become Lustless and Emotionally Free from Women, Without Losing Their DriveSexual energy must be transmitted and purified to be used by the upper energy centers If there is confusion, lust, greed, or flesh-oriented living then it hinders this progress and you will always be stuck banging your head against the wall, a slave to delusion and sense attachment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 07:39 PM |
| -2 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?Because what's attractive about men is how they act in the world show interest and make things happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Men’s inherent value in a relationship?So he's a burden/ net drain. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/25 12:34 AM |
| 8 | What makes a man dominant to you?yes, it's like an inner dominance that is super all-attractive | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/25 08:53 PM |
| 13 | What makes a man dominant to you?When he sees the relationship as a choice rather than a necessity. Basically self-sufficiency on every level, even spiritually and emotionally, is dominance | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/25 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipI don't see a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 08:33 PM |
| 6 | navigating beauty as currency when you’re just okayBeauty comes from God and resides in the heart, that is the source from which it springs eternally. The rest is passing illusion | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/25 08:55 PM |
| 0 | New study confirms women don’t get “unconditional love” as defined by the redpillYeah that's pretty much destroys the weird idea that men know how to love while women do not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Why is acting macho unattractive ?It's a big put-on. Like a costume. People can tell when you are putting something on, being a larper, and we can smell it from a mile away. What's really attractive is integrity. Like real honest integrity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 04:17 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025I don't necessarily identify as a feminist but what makes your post extremely boring and hard to engage with is that it's entirely framed entirely around self-interest and personal gain, you are not even offering a genuine critique of feminism or analysis of feminist principles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting?I don't ghost unless ive already stopped thinking about him. if I am thinking about the person in my head, and then ghosting them, it would feel dishonest I have an all cards on the table personality, and besides I love to write, I find beauty in relationships of all sorts, and I think the best way to protect oneself is by telling the truth in all circumstances so I will fall in my sword and always continue to text as long as what I'm saying is a fair, honest and relatively beautiful, even if un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 08:30 PM |
| 9 | Q4W who identify with feminism. Are there any priveleges that mostly benefit women you’re advocating to give up in the name of equality.I am not advocating for any policies that would not benefit men and women in equal measure. men versus woman is a distraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 03:28 PM |
| 6 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???maybe the way that you talked about single moms was disrespectful, in tone. or she had known single mothers growing up and respect them a lot as individuals, not just a demographic. I don't know any who believe that single childless men are obligated to date them. not one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 02:11 AM |
| 11 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:I agree with it in theory but everything people do should be from a pure heart and a clean conscience. you should have the free will to make all of these decisions, and the free will to treat people with care and respect too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Do daddy issues affect relationships?healing daddy issues is about embracing the belief that you are going to receive love just the Way you are,. never to come to anxiety about that. you should also cultivate a feeling of self-sufficiency, and dont seek validation from other people. also don't seek the approval of others, including men and especially the masses, they are confused. your sense of well-being is not contingent their opinions in any way. seek the approval of God through prayer and move from that | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/25 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs?makes sense 👍🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs?I'm an American | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Women , would you hook up with/date someone who doesn't share your political beliefs?it depends on the specific political beliefs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern Societyit's not a paradox , you are misusing that word. a paradox describes two contradictory truths that cannot coexist women can afford to be pickier because a partner isn't a necessity. it's just that simple just give your talents to the world, be generous and charitable to those in need, because life is about giving and creating first , rather than focusing on receiving and consuming. find a way to be happy through giving that's all you can do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Can the illiterate be sexy?libraries are free, this is the least attractive thing ever. we have an obligation to critically engage in the world around us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 06:53 PM |
| 8 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.I think maybe volunteering, or finding some sort of wholesome organization like sport/fitness, mentorship organization, skill classes ie woodworking, cooking, learning a new language, artistic communities study group, or faith-based organization / meditation/yoga or just some positively charged hobby/ group would be best. you don't need permission. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 05:08 AM |
| 0 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.Nobody's stopping you from choosing the robot, we just know that what we have is better. Just because you can't hack it doesn't mean others can't. Improve yourself. You might not be able to if you spend all your time masturbating into a robot. If you are a defeatist, then die alone with your robot. Nobody can stop you from doing that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 04:52 PM |
| 27 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.Where a sex robot can replace me I will happily be replaced. Because I'm not a masturbatory aid. I have a soul. Sex happens to feel good and incredible between two souls. Especially, exclusively, between two souls that are in love with each other Anyone who thinks that the former can replace the latter hasn't tasted that deliciousness. Beyond mechanical actions of the flesh, but really about something that you will remember on your deathbed and smile about that crazy, intimate, overwhelming, fun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:31 AM |
| 3 | Do woman really get the ick easily?it feels like a punch in the gut tbh | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/25 07:47 PM |
| – | Do you agree with redpillers saying that the average man is doomed when it comes to dating/finding love?I would agree and say cynically "survival and safety not guaranteed"because I do believe it takes a hero and a heroic mindset to attain true love Since becoming Christpilled that hero has become to me Christ Matthew 6:33: "But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you." Philippians 4:13: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Matthew 6:19-20: "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 10:43 PM |
| 6 | Are there any celebs/influencers who are known RPW?Nara Smith I think | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/24 04:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men Should Stop Taking Social Advice from Women, Especially on Social Mediaa lot of women don't know what they want, and it is not their fault, we live in a dark yuga | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that women give sex to have love? That the end goal for women is emotional bonding, not any sort of physical fulfillment?at our core every human wants to feel loved, cherished, valued. never used. it's too easy to be "used" for sex as a woman in this world. anyway whether women gain physical pleasure from sex or not, really depends on a variety of factors | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 02:36 PM |
| 1 | What do ladies mean when they say men are bad at sex?bad aim, being sloppy, fumbling around without paying attention to the details, not tuned in, basically being unskilled, lacking rhythm and flow it's all about being in sync also it's better if they last longer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 01:18 AM |
| 8 | Men want a woman that can be both a mother and a wh..., and whats wrong with that?nothing that's why it's universal. every woman is multifaceted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Whats everyones opinion on the 4B movement?I think it's good to enjoy periods of celibacy but intentions matter, and if one is intending to bash or withhold something from someone then their period of celibacy is not going to bear good fruits as one will probably turn to substances, too much TV, overeating, masturbation, and numerous other things that are not conducive to human flourishing but by all means women should take time to self reflect and preserve themselves | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 02:46 PM |
| 1 | does this make me less valuableif I were you, I would decide not to worry whether he does or doesn't, because if he has his mind set to sleep with someone else he certainly will. especially now that you've put him in a bit of a nebulis that opens up your relationship. but you can still be a based beautiful RPW if you want. his actions won't change that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/24 11:41 PM |
| -1 | Men dont love harderWhy should we bother to read something that you didn't bother to write? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Men dont love harderchat GPT huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 04:14 PM |
| 5 | If women were truly as horny as men, it wouldn’t only be for some small subset of men. They would fuck men who were on their level or below like men do, and most men wouldn’t struggle to get laidWomen have different ways of expressing and dealing with sexual desire than seeking intercourse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | What do you agree with the "other side" on?men deserve compassion and admiration for their achievements | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Men should have a go bag or escape fund for emotional abuseagreed Proverbs 21:19: "It is better to dwell in the wilderness than with a contentious and angry woman." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Women: How many of you want men to improve their social skills?my definition of Compassionate sincerity and active skill that needs development, not a synonym for unfiltered blurting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Women: How many of you want men to improve their social skills?Just because someone is autistic doesn't make them sincere , life isnt Rain Man and i would argue a vast majority of autistic people are not as sincere as they would like to believe themselves to be, or as others would like to believe them to be People have been brainwashed by media into assuming that just because people are socially inept they are somehow also a sincere underdog, when in fact they are neither. They are kind of just frigid people who aren't aware of themselves yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Women: How many of you want men to improve their social skills?couldnt disagree more Source: I'm unpolished but attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Women: How many of you want men to improve their social skills?Yeah it's a nice polish, but it's like polishing a piece of coal vs polishing a diamond the difference is so negligible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 11:22 PM |
| 8 | Women: How many of you want men to improve their social skills?It's not about developing social skills or charm it's about developing sincerity when someone uses social skills to seem charming, it feels hollow and manipulative and I can't develop any sort of trust toward that person So I would bypass the social skills development and go straight to the secret ingredient (compassion) Makes women (everyone) feel more trusting and vulnerable bc it's real 💪💗 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 10:19 PM |
| 1 | What advice would you give a man who claims he has "tried everything"I don't have any advice to give him, I think destiny gives us what we deserve, he's sure to find someone beautiful if that's his karma | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 04:37 PM |
| -1 | Thoughts on men who won’t let you look at their phone?I feel sorry for them that they can't be fully themselves and need to live with these elaborate safeguards and restrictions | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/24 02:51 PM |
| – | CMV: it's rude to tell a woman she looks her ageNo I'm just virtue signalling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 05:34 AM |
| – | CMV: it's rude to tell a woman she looks her ageYou don't have to lie and say younger But I agree its best not to focus on attributes of the flesh especially as a slight That betrays a lot about a person and what they are focused on -- that which is only skin deep Someone should hear "39" and immediately wonder what kind of life experience a person has had in those years that they could bring to the conversation Not just outer appearance. It sounds cliche but it's really a matter of what is within! So it might be rude behavior, if it's meant … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 05:25 AM |
| 4 | A person's bearing and demeanor is at least as important as their appearance for attraction.Not only that but their curiosity, intelligence, interest, integrity, commitment, resilience... Shallowness is a scourge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | It's more socially acceptable to slut-shame men than womenNone of these cut particularly deep for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women respect submissive men?There is nothing more grating than a man who lacks independence. Women are programmed to nurture and guide infants to become self-sufficient members of society. Seeing a man navigate the world with confidence is one of the most attractive qualities and is crucial for developing mutual respect in a relationship. When a man displays overly submissive behavior, it can resemble an infant who hasn’t yet weaned—someone we have no biological connection to and no inherent reason to invest in. This appea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on telling a man about other men approaching you?When I am with my man it's about him, I'm not going to bother him about other men, because I wouldn't want him to bother me about other women. he can handle his business | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/24 11:36 AM |
| 10 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?My dad is wondering this now that his ex wife, my stepmom, found a new partner I just want to tell him "well... Duh! You've divorced her, and she's sick to death because of it, but you've been stringing her along because you know she'd do anything to retain a sense of normalcy and because she has had a history of loving you so long" Somehow he thinks she'll just be at his beck and call forever and take all manner of neglect until she earns his heart again, even if he doesn't say that out loud. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | If women hate being objectified, why don't women stop other women from objectifying themselves?Women will be very sensitive about how their sexual expression is perceived by their community ie other women Trust me when I say it gets thorny and exhausting very quickly to criticize any woman for her sexual choice, it's best to stay out of that mess and show the example you want to see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 05:40 PM |
| – | Would you knowingly get into a serious long term relationship with someone who has a fetish for your type?I wouldn't want to and I will tell an anecdote why I was staying in a mans backyard, an ex marine, because I was suffering in he throes of a psychotic break. Rather than allowing me to be homeless due to lack of monetary resources he gave me a tent and even shared his storage container which was like military storage and barracks. I took his phone consensually to call someone... and saw in the browser just dozens of tabs of pornography with all women and girls who looked a lot like me. It was ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 02:54 AM |
| – | Andrew Tate is literally a pimp, why is he slutshaming women?Farmers love to shame and beat their livestock, btw. Some farmhands even rape the livestock that you eat . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 10:37 PM |
| – | Andrew Tate is literally a pimp, why is he slutshaming women?He's clearly projecting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 10:36 PM |
| 4 | Why don't we ever hear about "henpecked wives"? It's always the henpecked husbandThe term is "long-suffering wife" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Men and women are just sex objects to one anotherYeah, that's the geometry of the situation We are not just a gender though. Please don't forget the soul the resides within. We (men and women) all should come to understanding the things we have in common rather than what separates us... And when we do come together in love, let's treat each other with fairness and dignity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Women's refusal to actively approach men is sexistSome of these women have speech paralysis becos they They don't know what they want They don't have any game / are a wallflower They are afraid of men They are afraid of seeming like a lesbian They are pretentious They are suffering from depression/birth control/pharmaceutical dependency/toxoplasmosis/addicted to Netflix Disclaimer.. Many of the woman who don't approach men are genuinely just not interested When women are pursuers they can be super manipulative and hypergamous effortlessly. They… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Doesn't it seem counter-intuitive that women are generally against "red pilled" mentalities?My problem is I'm too Christ pilled to be misogynistically red pilled, I believe God wants us to offer a soft and contrite heart, not a hard and suspicious one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 01:50 PM |
| 15 | Doesn't it seem counter-intuitive that women are generally against "red pilled" mentalities?The thing I don't like about the red pill is how hard it makes the heart. And ugly thoughts creep in on the fringes of the movement that are decidedly destructive and also, misogynistic in the actual sense of the word. Not in the sense that feminists generally use. Like some people are proud RPers with terrible degrading fetishes. To me, that's not okay. Even if I don't identify as a lib or a feminist, I don't want someone who gravitates toward weird or abusive tendencies. Sometimes self improve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 12:39 PM |
| 4 | Doesn't it seem counter-intuitive that women are generally against "red pilled" mentalities?Great point well said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Are men the employer or employee of relationships?They are each one eye looking out of the same face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 04:46 AM |
| 0 | The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually availableNo doubt age gap sexual attraction is weird and fringe. But there's a lot that can be born of a teacher-student relationship or an expert-prodige or a boss-employer or even reverting to a parent child thing. It's best not to sexualize it. It's.natural to want, but probably not best to sexualize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 12:42 PM |
| 0 | Calling men who you disagree with "Weird" is A Toxic FemininityWe have to step out of the box where weird is an insult. Show me the normal man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 10:51 PM |
| 3 | “Just build a social circle bruh” isn’t a viable solution for average looking non neurotypical introverted menYou're not thinking long term, like meeting people whose company you would continue to enjoy in futur or how to maintain a relationship without fu--ing up your reputation... These are subtle arts, you are thinking more short term like a predator animal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Settling is not what you think it isI could not have done better There isn't even a centimeter of doubt If there were a centimeter doubt, I would know I'm settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | How to be the “goddess of fun and light” when it’s not your personality?Try padmasana while u scroll your phone... Generally waking up earlier...or Taking on a passion project or siill | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/24 08:17 PM |
| 5 | dating a man who is doing 'better' than meThey call it better half for a reason hhaa | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/24 02:57 PM |
| – | Say the same thing to every dateThat's so bizarre, that wouldn't occur to me within 100,000 years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Men's romantic success depends on their ability to succeed at patriarchy and capitalismWell that does success mean specifically here by both metrics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 06:01 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on 'Be the Prize'?He doesn't need to chase anyone. I think in many ways the man is the prize. If he's a good man, yes. Not just the man but the affection he gives. How could affection not be a prize. I would rather be rolling smothered to death in affection than go shopping for shoes and clothes .Maybe that's what is meant by, "I am the table." | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/24 02:56 AM |
| – | What is the actual issue towards guys dating younger women?Yes I would say people below the mid-20s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 09:08 PM |
| – | Why aren't women collectively promoting singleness as acceptable for men?Would you please explain why it's supposed to be culturally unacceptable for a man to be single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 06:02 PM |
| -1 | What is the actual issue towards guys dating younger women?There is science to support the idea that a developed prefrontal cortex is very important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 04:43 PM |
| – | Who are you picking?Not if they don't allow themselves to be. Not if they don't see it as a defining feature or placing them in a certain category. Anyone who treats someone differently based on an immuntable characteristic is acting out of prejudice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Who are you picking?strict isn't a bad thing. Dehumanization is a bad thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Who are you picking?It's not strict. I know strict. It's a false way of seeing the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 01:25 PM |
| 0 | Who are you picking?. We are meant to see beings holistically not as a collection of individual parts... So long as we are asking them to cater to us with their body and mind and Spirit - whole life force - hey why not at least extend the mercy of seeing them as a human with a soul | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Who are you picking?This is psychotic. No one thinks this way... These are human beings with a soul. This is very dehumanizing to strip people down to their body parts and income. Habits are understandable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 12:35 PM |
| – | Sexual normalcy is such a contradictory clusterfuck.It's not, you feel the energy move through the centers of your body and become subtler and finer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 10:14 PM |
| – | Sexual normalcy is such a contradictory clusterfuck.I don't understand your comment. If I were a man and I would try not to squander my sexual energy, I would meditate in full padmasana with my gaze locked on a single point and raise the energy from my sacral chakra gradually upward until the tension eases from my genitals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 09:45 PM |
| – | Sexual normalcy is such a contradictory clusterfuck.Can you succumb to it without squandering it or wasting your time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 09:09 PM |
| – | Sexual normalcy is such a contradictory clusterfuck.That was entertaining. Too many ideas. I think we should strive to be appropriate, channel lust into our higher energy centers so it burns as pure energy for creative means. Succumbing to the pleasures of the flesh is a classic fumble | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 08:52 PM |
| 10 | I’m a red pill gf who doesn’t know how to cookUse chat gpt | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/24 08:38 PM |
| – | Gay men love men more than women doBrotherly love is a good thing. Men love and support other men in ways woman cannot and should not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 09:57 PM |
| 7 | Why don't women with low-esteem ever go for unattractive men?Low self esteem women get taken advantage of by unattractive men all the time... They've built entire economies around this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 03:16 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about "men like woman more than the other way around"?Men have it in them. That is what makes them attractive. Do you know why the male peacock has vibrant shimmering colors but the peahen is plain and brown? Because man is supposed to be a warm and generous light second only to that of the sun. And meanwhile females conserve their energy for gestation and reproduction. They/we are just residing in their nature because it's enjoyable. There are exceptions like the Artemis archetype, Satyabhama, and yet, these exceptions make the rule... It's "not l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel like women can kind of have it all in a way men just can't ?In a way yes but also in a way, then do tend to seriously exploit vulnerable women and girls in arenas where we are weak ...for instance in the financial realm... An unmarried woman or girl who relies on the people around her may find herself abandoned living in squalor or even trafficked or prostituted for financial convenience, this happens even in developed countries because people are uneducated. Men in position of power are not stupid they have the capacity to either lean into the exploitat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 02:53 PM |
| 4 | Not all women who are promiscuous are built the same"Go with the flow" "no boundaries" no because as the hippie adjacent person in your second category this still just means poor energetic hygiene to me. I think promiscuity is very flawed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 02:42 PM |
| 4 | From a womans perspective, do you have a hierarchy of negative aspects to men?Every one of these things is laced with the self-defeated attitude ...it's the poisonous spore. It's not about the outward manifestation but about the unwillingness to do what is necessary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 02:35 PM |
| 2 | The ‘Friends First’ approach to dating is a huge waste of time. Much of dating or relationships is business. Just as one can run a clean business just as you can run a clean relationship. about interest and returns and investing and good leadership, it's not a bad thing just because money in the material realm is dirty. Friendship in my view is very pure, it's not about leverage or expectations it's about sacrifice and doing the right thing. It's very universal. It should never be a strategy for anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usIt's a pretty recognizable attitude that comes with it a set of heavy rhetorical preconditions and a pretty scathing attitude toward woman in general But yeah I agree men shouldn't be brown beaten or taken advantage of. Men have intrinsic worth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 02:23 PM |
| -4 | How can fat people find love and I can’t?They are settling | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/24 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many women insulted by the idea of guys making compromises to get sex?It's not insulting, it's some seedy business I wouldn't want to be involved with. My understanding is that sex is about love and commitment and I wouldn't interact with someone who saw it in a transactional way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 02:52 AM |
| 3 | How did you know your husband was a provider?He had a generous aura and an inner stability | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/24 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Question; do you judge people based on the people they have previously dated and does that give you an idea of who they are?There's beauty in everyone. What matters is the quality of the relationship . Did everyone treat the other with respect and dignity and honesty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD. If you are in a happy LTR, did your "fall in love at first sight" or did you fall in love over time? If so, what made that happen? Also, did any of you initially dislike / hate your husband / BF only to fall enough with him later? If so, how did it happen?I fell in love with him when we first met. I told him deeply, that I never wanted our love to end, and it would mean the world if I could be his forever. I am still his and he is still mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Women who wear revealing clothing for "comfort" or because it "makes them feel good", is that the truth?Nobody feels comfortable in tight revealing clothing, they feel presentable even though they are not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 03:40 PM |
| 2 | What makes a woman pathetic?Being either overweight/unattractive or promoscuous or both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 10:37 PM |
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