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That’s fine because I can keep going. I personally prefer for people not to suffer but definitely won’t tolerate men using women as a scapegoat to take their anger out on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:58 AM
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Struggling guys already know they’re struggling because they’re fat, ungroomed, awkward, and unsuccessful due to a lack of discipline in their personal lives. However, it’s easier for them to latch onto the advice that just being nice will solve all their dating problems. That’s what it really comes down to. I don’t believe this BS that they’re not getting the “get down and grind bro” advice from all the manosphere content floating around the internet these days. It’s just much harder to put in …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:55 AM
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Eating healthy, not doing drugs, and exercising is pushed in schools k-12. Kids already know there’s a heavy penalty for being unsocial and awkward, the grade school bullies will make sure of that. Maybe I was just a less stupid kid, but this was all obvious to me. What are the family and leaders saying that could make them think the opposite of being healthy and groomed and socially pleasant to be around is what would ACTUALLY get them women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:49 AM
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Are women out here telling men not to go to the gym, not to eat healthier, or to go ahead and be less awkward socially, and be more controlling and desperate? I would argue there’s PLENTY of women that complain about beer bellied out of shape men who just drink alcohol and eat junk food and are not emotionally intelligent and awkward and come off way too strong in the beginning. There’s already PLENTY of women vocal about this to the point that men complain that women are TOO shallow for caring …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:43 AM
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So tell me what your ideal outcome is? What advice do you want all women to converge on and then push out to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:33 AM
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Can’t answer my questions so you run away and then call me the dumbass lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:29 AM
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Goodbye coward!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:28 AM
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So do you believe women should instead tell men to be assholes, lie, and treat women inhumanly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:24 AM
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You are categorizing all the pieces of advice in OPs post as single type? It’s not clear to me what that “type” is. If it’s clear to you, go ahead and elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:19 AM
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What is the “type” OP describes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:17 AM
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I don’t understand our disagreement. I’m saying it’s ridiculous to expect no variations in advice for any topic. And you’re saying you agree? So what is our problem here, seems we are on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:15 AM
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I have no clue what you’re saying. Can you use concrete examples. You use “this” and “that” a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:12 AM
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Do you seriously think that for any other given problem outside of dating, there isn’t an equal amount of varying advice different people give based on their own lived experience? Do you not understand what discernment is? Because men on here LOVE to say women are all out here giving contradicting advice so what is the alternative? There needs to be ONE ambassador of women that speaks for ALL women and if what she recommends does not result in all men acquiring girlfriends then men are then just…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 08:08 AM
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Advice is meant to increase your odds of a certain outcome not guarantee it. Giving someone career or financial advice doesn’t mean they’ll end up with the perfect career or financial situation. Not to mention there’s a wide variety of advice people give in relation to careers or finance with contradicting view points. Same goes with dating advice. What kind of one dimensional childish take is it to expect that some magical woman ambassador that speaks for all women will give you the one piece o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:58 AM
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Unfortunately OP, you are going to cause your fiancé (and god forbid any children) a lot of pain in the future. Best to you all, goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:53 AM
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Tbh OP, I do feel like you cooked in that you managed to find a woman alive who is willingly agreeing to marry you lmao. So I never wanna hear the incels talking about the bar being too high ever again lolol. Based on your post history I’ve ruled out money, looks, and personality. So however you managed this, you need to give the incels a masterclass on how to do it. Truly, I’m in awe 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:31 AM
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He is debating. OP says he wants the woman he’s going to marry (god bless her soul) to accept a $20 ring. He is debating that instead, OP should find someone who is happy with a $20 ring vs convincing his finance to accept a $20 ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:18 AM
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Personally feel like accepting a ring pop gives more insight into her self worth vs how much she likes her man lol. Imagine going and telling your dad the man you want to spend the rest of your life with proposed with a ring pop haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:11 AM
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That’s actually what I’m saying too. I will not date a man I don’t find attractive, doesn’t matter how great his personality is. Glad I could clear that up for you. And if other women say they want to date ugly men with great personalities, they don’t speak for me. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:06 AM
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“Countin' up this money, we ain't never sleepin' (never sleepin') You got V12, I got 12 Vs (skrrt) Got bottles, got weed, got molly (molly, I'm all the way up) Shorty what you want? I got what you need (need) Shorty what you want? I got what you need (ha) Shorty what you want? I got what you need I'm all the way up (ha, I'm all the way up)” - Fat Joe and Remy Ma Hope that answers your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:19 AM
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Disclaimer: the only thing he’s cooking out there is burnt leftovers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:15 AM
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I get that you’re trying to be sarcastic but there’s a certain level of self awareness and intelligence required to use sarcasm as a tool to get your point across without sounding juvenile. So best not to use it if you can’t get that formula quite right imo. But if there was an actual question in there, lemme put it in words you might more easily understand: “When a real one hold you down, bae, you supposed to drown. You ain't never fuck with no boss bitch, I turned you out (turned you out)” -La…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:09 AM
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I get that you’re trying to be sarcastic but there’s a certain level of self awareness and intelligence required to use sarcasm as a tool to get your point across without sounding juvenile. So best not to use it if you can’t get that formula quite right imo. But if there was an actual question in there, lemme put it in in words you can more easily understand: “When a real one hold you down, bae, you supposed to drown You ain't never fuck with no boss bitch, I turned you out (turned you out)” -La…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:08 AM
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I mean women want nice wedding rings for the same reason men want nice cars and shoes. It’s a status thing and people will inevitably judge you and your girl if she has a noticeably smaller ring compared to all her other friends. Couldn’t be me, but I get how shaming women for wanting a nice ring would be beneficial for broke men so can’t be mad at the grift here. I am somewhat against diamond rings more so because of the exploitative nature of the diamond mining industry so mixed feelings on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:42 AM
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You’re the one who seems oh so distressed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:29 AM
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Purdue pharma would def agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:21 AM
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Give me their number, I’ll call and speak to their mother
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:31 PM
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Okay so sounds like we’re both on the same page. Women who say looks don’t matter don’t speak for all women. Men should improve their looks if they want a better chance at getting women. Glad we can agree on that pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 10:42 PM
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I’m a woman and I’m saying looks matter. In fact a LOT of women talk about how they don’t want bald or short men so how are they not vocal about this already? Why do you feel like because a few women told you only personality matters that applies to all women? Even more so when you can just clearly go observe real life and realize what those few women told you is not the complete story? Why is there such a big chip on your shoulder over what those few women said? Is the expectation that every wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 10:33 PM
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If all men unionized and decided to stop paying for women on dates then OP could probably achieve what he wanted. And as a woman, I’d be somewhat impressed if that happened and accept it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 10:22 PM
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Okay, well idk who these men are being toxic and abusive to because they’re single to began with right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 10:16 PM
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If some man told me he doesn’t care if I’m an ugly fat slob, as long as I cooked for him and was submissive he’d wife me up - I just wouldn’t believe him. Why? Because I’m an adult and I have more than 2 brain cells floating around in my head. I don’t need the ambassador of all men to tell me that looks matter in a relationship. I could figure that out it all on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 10:14 PM
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This is pretty much the advice women always get. Don’t let yourself go or your husband won’t be attracted to you anymore. Not sure why men feel like this wouldn’t apply to them either? Why are we infantilizing men in this thread. You’re grown adults. How do you not understand that looks are an important component of attraction? Why are the men in this thread acting like some woman once promised them icecream if they were nice and not an asshole but they never got their icecream so now they’re th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:33 PM
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Attractive definitions are: 1) (of a thing) having beneficial qualities or features that induce someone to accept what is being offered 2) (of a person) appealing to look at; sexually alluring. So yes the word seems to imply there’s sexual allure there. Vs beautiful with a definition of “pleasing the senses or mind aesthetically.” But also this is not the hill I want to die on, good day to you comrade
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:19 PM
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Yeah but hot and attractive are slightly different. Attractive means they have the quality of people being attracted to them (and this kinda implies including the person who called them attractive). You can say one of those vogue models with an interesting face is other-worldly beautiful but you’re not attracted to them. But if you say they’re attractive but you’re not attracted to them then idk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:13 PM
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Strong on the moron
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:08 PM
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There isn’t a demand for toxic abusive dudes, there’s a demand for highly attractive or high status dudes. However, if your only motivation to be a good person is contingent on receiving sex, maybe you’re not actually as decent of a person as you think you are. The fact that men are even tying the two concepts together is very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:02 PM
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There isn’t a demand for toxic abusive dudes, there’s a demand for highly attractive or high status dudes. However, if your only motivation to be a good person is contingent on receiving sex, maybe you’re not actually as good of a person as you think you are. The fact that men are evening tying the two concept together is very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:01 PM
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Justice for the raccoons catching strays in OP’s post
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:53 PM
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My theory is because they use their grandparent’s life as a reference point for what is normal. Back in the day ugly underperforming were still basically guaranteed a a woman because women didn’t really have a choice and had to depend on men. So now, everything is in the context of that. They’re so disgruntled that just by existing, a woman doesn’t magically just fall into their laps. They have to worth someone a woman would want to date and they really don’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:14 PM
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If that’s the case, then thank you then for doing the lord’s work. Idk who put the messaging out there that women should be the martyrs who date unattractive men and use sex to encourage them to be better human beings lmao but I’m onboard with putting an end to this thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:09 PM
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Okay, well I’m glad you’ve been educated in this thread. Men and women both care a lot about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:00 PM
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I’m a woman, and I’d rather be with a good looking kind man vs a good looking asshole. If you interpret that as me saying I will date anybody who is kind then maybe you should go back to grade school and work on your comprehension skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:49 PM
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Then what is the problem here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:40 PM
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There was this vice interview with an incel a few years back. It was a tall white good looking dude. He definitely could’ve gotten sex if not for his personality/mindset. I’m sure there are a portion of decent looking incels whose personality ruins their dating opportunities. But really how hard is it to understand. Would YOU date an ugly girl just because she is nice and funny? No? Then why exactly would you believe that a woman should do that? Can you not make the connection that they’re talki…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:38 PM
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Only applies if they’re attracted to you in the first place. Do you want to date a woman you’re not attracted to just because she’s nice and friendly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:27 PM
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Tell me word for word exactly what the women told you? They said they don’t care about being attracted to a man at all? They will date an older ogre as long as he is nice and funny? Is that what they said? Okay well I’m sorry, they lied. First women have to be attracted to you, but for things to work out long term you probably also need the integrity and good human being part. Same goes for men I imagine. Last I heard, men weren’t out here doing charity work for the bottom 20% of women with amaz…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:13 PM
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I’m not triggered, I think it’s a fair relationship that benefits them both. Spanish men are usually hot and Eastern European women are usually hot. He never mentioned if she got a UK citizenship so he very well could still be her lottery ticket into the EU which treats women better. You should stop projecting and making such big leaps lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:57 PM
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The funny thing is when I was less attractive and basically invisible to both ugly/hot men I wasn’t out there angry at men not wanting to date me lol. Curious where the incels get the audacity from.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:53 PM
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Yeah, even though these posts always deny it, there’s always the underlying implication here that being a good friend or human being should be rewarded with more sex and it’s unfair that they’re not getting any.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:45 PM
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Same, I had a major glow up losing my baby fat and growing into my face and upping my skin care game. The same men who wouldn’t have given me a second glance pre-glow era I find are the same ones I hear talking about how women “don’t want them for their real selves.” lol stfu, at least have consistency. Both men and women are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:38 PM
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Men are most attracted to women who are in their mid-20s, there’s studies proving this. This is something I take into consideration when dealing with men/dating. They seem to always operate in a “biology for me, but not for thee” mindset lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:07 PM
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Alright, well I also shared my thoughts back
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:35 PM
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Yeah I did, seems like you’re not as happy with your own solution to this made up problem and you want to make others unhappy too lmao. Gives salty energy. If other men want to court / romance the woman they want why do you care. No one is forcing you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:32 PM
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Then why did you make this post? You don’t compete for women and paying for a woman is a dealbreaker to you so seems you’ve already figured that out for yourself. Why do you care what other couples are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:28 PM
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Listen, my personal opinion is if you’re this hung up over paying for a meal which is like 10-30 bucks max, then maybe you need to get your financial situation together before considering dating. A lot of men don’t mind paying so you just won’t be able to compete against them for the prettier girls. You can just not date if it’s such a big issue for you or date uglier girls!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:07 PM
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Sounds good
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:01 PM
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I have no idea either, why are you suggesting that I am?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:57 PM
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Yeah? Why am I upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:48 PM
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You’re located in Spain, unless you were lying about that. But then maybe you’re lying about your hot wife from Eastern Europe too. But nice chat, goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:41 PM
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Even if you paid for a woman’s food, you’re still unlikely to find a relationship because of the 80/20 rule. Women just have lower sex drives than men and stronger platonic social support structures so they care less about relationships. One way to differentiate yourself here is to do nice things like pay for her. If you don’t want to, that’s fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:38 PM
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You can just link her linkedin next time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:34 PM
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If she’s Eastern European, then you being from Spain probably adds to your mate value. Like yeah she is probably pulling her weight and splitting 50/50 with you when you look at it on the surface level buuut you’re also her lottery ticket out of a poverty ridden, sanctioned to hell, war-torn country with little to no room for growth and a culture of men being alcoholics or having a higher affinity for domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:24 PM
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Well good luck with that. I’ve found that my very pretty attractive friends have become entitled/spoiled to these kinda gestures from men because that’s the treatment they’ve gotten their whole life. You may have to go lower in your looks standards to get what you’re looking for, but more power to you if there’s a plentiful amount of women like that in your area.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:14 PM
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While I am against gold diggers, wanna call out that if a gold digger is picking men who can’t even pay for a 20 dollar meal without a battle, then clearly they aren’t very good gold diggers now are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:06 PM
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More power to you then. Everyone should do what works best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:54 PM
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Even if you paid as a man, you still have significantly less dating options because of the 80/20 rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:52 PM
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Well both of their times are being wasted here but OP sounds stingy and OP’s fictional op sounds like someone who is asking for things out of her league (because if she was attractive enough, guys would just insist on paying), so they both probably deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:46 PM
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Who is forcing you to pay for dates exactly? Just don’t pay for them. What is the purpose of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:40 PM
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Yes, I think OP is correct in that if he expects 50/50 in a relationship then he needs to make that clear from day one. A lot of men will pay the first few times and then transition over to 50/50 which confuses and wastes the time of women who are looking for provider type men. And the reason these women can look for provider type men instead of 50/50 bros: they’re attractive and have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:13 PM
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Ah sorry, let me catch you up but akin to the wave-particle duality in quantum mechanics the intellectuals here on this sub have discovered that women simultaneously want both the provider type man and the dangerous broke/criminal type at the same time. It’s okay if it’s hard to follow along, it’s not for simpleton normies to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:08 PM
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Plenty of women actually not only prefer 50/50 but will insist on it or don’t mind being the breadwinner. However, if you chase the prettier/younger girls with more options, you will struggle against the competition that is able to provide. So broaden your horizons and be less shallow, the bottom 20% of women need love too fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:40 PM
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