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Man, it's difficult. I don't know I just have a need to feel validated in my love for someone. I'm set up in my career, have some cool hobbies that I like to do. But it just won't make me whole.
/r/MensRights02/08/26 01:33 PM
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My career is heavily results oriented. The business either comes in or it doesn't. All the women sit in other departments where things are discussed to death in endless internal meetings that never lead anywhere. There are very few women in my line of work and the ones who are are the few that can think like men.
/r/MensRights30/07/26 11:40 PM
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I think that talking to my female friends that experience this, if I try to start arguing that they are somehow subject to their own biology will have me screeched at and "friendship over".
/r/MensRights29/07/26 10:58 PM
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You know. Now that I think about it. With these women. The dudes were always well regarded in whichever social microcosm the particular woman spent her time in.
/r/MensRights29/07/26 10:57 PM
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Sensical biological explanation.
/r/MensRights29/07/26 10:49 PM
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Don't let the door hit you in the bum!
/r/MensRights28/07/26 01:18 AM
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[...] there very much is a large population of men who are more attracted to women with children. You must mean single fathers. Otherwise I call BS.
/r/MensRights28/07/26 01:01 AM
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[...] what if its a widow? The fact she didn't leave her guy certainly speaks in her favor. Also, taking over an honorable man's legacy (maybe he died in service, fighting a fire or something) is much better than being reminded that some loser was her first choice. Bonus points if she wanted to make more kids with me.
/r/MensRights28/07/26 12:52 AM
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But jeez man. Some chocolate ice cream. At this point she's actively making you the bitch. No way this isn't a power play.
/r/MensRights28/07/26 12:43 AM
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There really isn't a point in being offensive to them either, though.
/r/MensRights28/07/26 12:41 AM
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It should be noted that I'm not criticizing women who behave this way [...] Denying a man some chocolate ice cream is pretty diabolical.
/r/MensRights28/07/26 12:24 AM
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[...] everything they think is the total opposite of what we think. That sums up my life experience with women.
/r/MensRights28/07/26 12:17 AM
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[...] but how do you raise a child when they rank above you? Well. I think that you don't.
/r/MensRights27/07/26 11:50 PM
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Emotions are very complex, and so is love. You know. This is what I've heard all my life. Women, their emotions and "I don't understand these complex creatures". But the end result is always really simple. The woman blows it up and men or social services (tax payers) or both foot the bill.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 08:00 PM
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There really is too much going on in your reply. But let me use marriage and divorce as an example. During the past decades in the west, it's been the case that women could divorce their husbands for no reason at all, and often walk away with hefty chunks of the wealth and also entitlements to future alimony payments and retirement installments. Many men feel it is unfair that they essentially are held hostage by their wife's whims, who can nuke everything and get rewarded for it by the state at…
/r/MensRights22/07/26 07:10 PM
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You obviously don't understand or care for men's side of things, so explain to me why I should entertain your comment.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 07:01 PM
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This is just all so depressing. I would love to do the traditional thing, have an appreciative wife and raise our kids together. I have been seriously considering converting to Islam and seeking traditionalism there. They're gonna take this mess over, sooner or later, anyhow. May as well get ahead of the curve and live my life while I still can.
/r/MensRights22/07/26 06:33 PM
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Look man. How I feel about certain things doesn't need to make sense to you. And I'm not going to explain myself. If you have some kind of problem with what I wrote, then you're obviously not the kind of person who's input I value on this. So, I'm not going to be wasting any more time with this exchange. Hope you can understand!
/r/MensRights15/06/26 05:35 PM
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I think you're being a bit naive here. There can be no double standard for two things which are different in many, fundamental ways. Society treats men and women differently. Men and women's physiology is pretty much the opposite especially when it comes to mating and making a family. Also, women think and behave differently than men. They simply play two different roles which in an ideal world would complement one another. If you can't understand that, then I don't know what you're doing in a m…
/r/MensRights15/06/26 04:38 PM
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If you don't understand me, then perhaps you're not the type of person who I'd turn to for my question. I think I'm more interested to read from other men who feel similar and on how they handle this for themselves.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 02:05 PM
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It's just simply how I feel about it.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 02:03 PM
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I've had flings in the past that were genuinely good to be around. They were pushing for commitment. Overall I liked them, but my heart just couldn't get over the history. In a way it is a shame when that happens. Feels to me a bit like wasted potential of something that could have been "if only".
/r/MensRights15/06/26 03:31 AM
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buffet feminists Ha! I'll remember that one. I imagine you'd find the "buffet feminist" alongside the "champagne socialist" at the same dinner gathering.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 03:28 AM
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Ha! Yes! That's true.
/r/MensRights13/06/26 01:28 PM
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See that's part of my problem. I used to be too cute when I was around 20. I got comfortable to women giving me extremely clear signs when they were in to me. Several long term relationships, university and 10 years of career later, I think I'm not so cute anymore and may need to react to subtler signs.
/r/MensRights13/06/26 02:34 AM
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Very small town and very small gym. I feel that if I make a go at one and it fails then everyone will know or notice. It may be strategically more clever to just let a few things heat up and simmer until something starts boiling more on it's own.
/r/MensRights13/06/26 02:24 AM
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There's one that has been making eye contact and smiling. She looks like a Latina Marilyn Monroe. I think I need to just go for it at the next opportunity!
/r/MensRights13/06/26 02:08 AM
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Hey man, I already replied to you under the other reply of yours.
/r/MensRights13/06/26 12:31 AM
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Look man. You asked me and I explained it the best way I could. I'm not going to say that the way I worded it is holistically and comprehensively how I view women or relationships with them. But you asked me why this certain point was important to me, and I tried to elaborate specifically within the context.
/r/MensRights13/06/26 12:30 AM
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So, first of all, she loses her ability to make me feel special. I was not her first choice, or likely even second or third. She opted for other guys first, it didn't work out, and now she's with me. Second. all the men that have been with her before know this. If you ever run into one of these guys, they now know that you're building your life with something that they could also have. But didn't want. They may be the biggest losers, you never know. But they got your woman's validation before sh…
/r/MensRights13/06/26 12:13 AM
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Good and I wish the two of you all the best. Though I am not talking about forgiving the woman or being unable to forgive. It is more like a hard mental blocker that keeps me from pair bonding after I find out she's got a number, especially if there were any one night stands in there. I can hang out and enjoy time with her, just my heart will stay outside of the door.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 11:19 PM
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Thank you sincerely for your kind words. I have actually not given up hope. While I am set up in my career, I am making plans to move somewhere that has more cultural centers and spots. Partially to be able to partake and meet more interesting people in general, including women.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 10:46 PM
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No. A university educated man wrote this. Himself. No AI.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 09:49 PM
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This is exactly the issue. Even if you get to smash here and there, you then can't pair bond because of her history. It sucks either way!
/r/MensRights12/06/26 09:48 PM
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I had started to explore that option, and didnt like it, as it would end up destorying the potental relationship. So your advice is to get over myself and don't think about it?
/r/MensRights12/06/26 08:33 PM
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Troll collateral I guess!
/r/MensRights12/06/26 08:30 PM
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What irritates me is that this is often framed especially by the female side as somehow problematic. I reject women for having kids, a high body count or just for being slobs. Now I'm supposed to go to therapy, which was - already - thrown at me right in this thread within just some minutes of posting. Who am I going to therapy for? So that women can get with me that I'm currently rejecting, in part because they trigger my insecurities? No, thanks!
/r/MensRights12/06/26 08:29 PM
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No. You don't get it. I have been rejecting women for most of my life because the body count issue I just explained above keeps me from being able to emotionally connect. I am using this forum to ask other men, some of who may have the same issue, how they handle this for themselves.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 08:20 PM
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I think it's an insecurity issue on the male side. I just also think that we need to stop framing any insecurities as a bad thing. Having insecurities is a very human thing, and we have them to protect us from emotional toll. Everybody has insecurities, even very mentally stable and spiritually healthy people.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 08:17 PM
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Okay. First, let me say that I'm happy to read that you're happy with and feel secure in your relationship. Let's do a thought experiment. A magic troll approaches you and tells you that, tomorrow you wake up in a new reality. Everything remains exactly the same, only your wife's total body count changes. But you get to choose between two options. One option is that you wife's body count is now magically half of what it was before. Other option is that it will be doubled from whatever it is curr…
/r/MensRights12/06/26 08:13 PM
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I agree. This whole mess is propped up by general society. There are entirely too many corporate boot-lickers in the work world, and too many beta men who can't or won't see the mess for what it is in the dating world. The amount of overt attention and affirmation any somewhat attractive woman gets from thirsty dudes anywhere she shows up without having to give anything back is crazy. As a society we all get what we are willing to put up with!
/r/MensRights12/06/26 06:32 PM
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[...] with more and more people dating through real life connections again. That's a good thing! If I have to be honest, all promising career prospects I have right now are through my network. It's been years since I've sent an application and gotten heard with a hiring person. Dating has been similar for me. While overall slow, anything that has happened has been through in person interactions.
/r/MensRights12/06/26 06:13 PM
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