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| 26 | OLD is a place holder for when you’re feeling lonelyAs in go to (public) restaurants, sit there and talk and eat. Like a date but with as many or little guys I want. No sex, hookups, etc. just a date. The causally part comes in to play because I’m not actively searching for a mate/husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 10:48 PM |
| 88 | OLD is a place holder for when you’re feeling lonelyOLD only works if you’re doing it casually. I don’t recommend looking for a husband on OLD because that stresses you out and can be disheartening. I use OLD to pass the time and date casually. If you’re dependent on OLD for meeting men (especially HVM) then you’ll burn yourself out. I understand why some women choose to stay off OLD. OLD doesn’t cure loneliness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 04:44 PM |
| 6 | 22F dating a 34M finds out he co-owns a house in the suburbs with a woman sharing his last name - If he’s making excuses for you not to see HIS house even though he’s seen yours, there’s a reason.I’m happy she blocked his number but… he knows where you live. I’ll pray for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 01:57 PM |
| 114 | did Kevin Samuels appropriate talking points and rhetoric from FDS ?No he got his talking points from black men dating sectors from old YouTube. Unfortunately, you go mainstream if you disrespect black women. That’s been the formula forever. No he didn’t get this from FDS. HVM/HVW isn’t exclusive to FDS. However, our standards and rules makes us different. Kevin would disagree with us actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 01:53 PM |
| 53 | did Kevin Samuels appropriate talking points and rhetoric from FDS ?Lmao, no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 01:44 PM |
| 53 | The Tinder SwindlerI definitely agree. The Russian girl truly got out unscathed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:45 PM |
| 29 | The Tinder SwindlerSmh if I believed in 50-50 I wouldn’t gone on his private jet, looked for expensive houses, etc. i understand they felt in debt to them but why go that far if you don’t wanna be seen as a gold digger? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:22 PM |
| 48 | The Tinder SwindlerIt is hard to feel bad for them. Common sense should’ve kicked into place after the first loan… especially by the 5th. These were women in their 30s cmon now. I understand he was a con man but he didn’t even look like ANY of the Lev’s either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:19 PM |
| 25 | The Tinder SwindlerI thought that was weird too! I would give my passport info to a stranger. I thought that was really trusting. Trust based on photos on tinder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:01 PM |
| 46 | Remembering Amanda Todd, one of the first viral cases of a child victim to revenge porn.I remember this. Scared me to my core when it happened. I was in middle school surfing nasty chat sites talking to old men. Could’ve been me easily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 01:39 PM |
| 42 | Remembering Amanda Todd, one of the first viral cases of a child victim to revenge porn.Good bless her mother ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 01:38 PM |
| 179 | The Tinder SwindlerI had the same thoughts. I wasn’t trying to victim blame but this could’ve been avoided easily. They really lost me when sis was taking out LOANS for a BILLIONAIRE SON. And this was all within a year or so of meeting him. And these women were grown! I’ll expect that thinking from 18-20 year olds. Just wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrateI just wanna compliment your name and profile pic sis. Perfection | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 05:48 AM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Honestly face wise I think they are on the same lvl but I agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 05:34 AM |
| 15 | I sure as hell enjoyed every minute roasting this scrote. Based on his response, he 100% deserved having his ass left 🤣I Couldn’t had roasted this scrote better sis 👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 05:25 AM |
| 34 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsCheckmate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 02:45 AM |
| 47 | How long is too long for a guy to reply to a text?After 8hrs (a work shift), I move on. Grown men play mind games too unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 01:24 AM |
| 71 | Don’t travel for a man. Especially on your own dime. If he was interested he would travel to you or at very minimum pay for your flight and accommodations.Definitely sounds like she didn’t vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 03:58 PM |
| 8 | TRUTH! My music tastes have really changed and I can't listen to a lot of rap music now.Ikr! I used to be pickme with thinking “oh I like CC and I’m not offended on how they literally degrade women in their lyrics 😇” my thinking was disgusting. I can’t believe I bragged about being their fan in high school 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 04:44 PM |
| 23 | TRUTH! My music tastes have really changed and I can't listen to a lot of rap music now.Yeah I agree. Same with Guns and roses, journey (omg the keyboard player is a huge NVM), etc. rap is just really popular right now so it gains the most attention and criticism. But even in the 50-60s with bubble gum rock, women were still objects. My favorite song, “little red corvette” by Prince still objectifies women and compares us to a car. I love discussing this topic. Im a radio host of a classic rock radio show and this is literally what think about 24/7. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 04:02 PM |
| 52 | TRUTH! My music tastes have really changed and I can't listen to a lot of rap music now.Not to generalize but this is in all aspects of music. The deeper you go into metal, rock, etc you’ll see the flaws. Rap is just a big money maker right now. But treating women like objects, we been grooving to that for centuries no matter the choral foundations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.Damn, sis is the money even worth it at this point? Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Bikini waxing?I just use nair, cheaper and on my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 12:51 PM |
| 107 | The IckOnce in class a scrote compared the ick to post nut clarity. I lost a brain cell every time he spoke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 12:49 PM |
| 124 | Observations from my first post-pandemic partyGlad to see I didn’t miss anything partying last weekend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 08:08 PM |
| 48 | Huma Abedin on overcoming Anthony Weiner's betrayals — a high-profile LVM. So sad how Huma takes on a lot of responsibility for his actions.I agree. I actively didn’t want to know the woman’s name because I felt bad that she would be defined by this. Like Monica and Bill. Anita Hill and Clarence Thomas. The list goes on. I hope she keep pushing forward. It was shocking to me because growing up, nudes were “a high school” thing. But seeing that on the news by a “civil servant” made me lose hope in men before high school ended. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 01:57 PM |
| 55 | Huma Abedin on overcoming Anthony Weiner's betrayals — a high-profile LVM. So sad how Huma takes on a lot of responsibility for his actions.Wow I haven’t heard Anthony wiener name in such a long time. I was in high school (I think freshman yr) when the story broke and it open my eyes that men can be disgusting even past high school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 01:46 PM |
| 95 | This is what men think of women they hook up with. It is not in our best interests as women to sleep with men casually.Truly disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 10:18 PM |
| 12 | I just saw the movie Mother! I hated every second.It looked like it tried too hard and looked super boring. I watched/listened to the analysis of it and it made it seem like a waste of time. It’s not groundbreaking concept. The imagery, plot, sub means, missed the mark. Also, the roles of mother and God literally added nothing or change how we view those roles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 02:03 PM |
| 16 | Man cheats on wife online with a model who turns out to be a romance scammer. Says he married his wife “out of convenience” & doesn’t want to make the marriage workOmg not my hometown | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 12:56 AM |
| 88 | I am SO pissed right now, I can't even see straightSomething that you use to pass the time shouldn’t have this effect on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 03:11 PM |
| 22 | 🙄🙄 let’s idolize a couple that’s clearly miserable!!!Jada and Will is not goals lmfao. I guess TI and tiny are also non monogamous relationship goals 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:35 PM |
| 4 | Update: I posted here a few days ago about a longtime male (now ex) friend in his 30’s randomly sexualizing my 13 yo daughter (check my post history for more details). Many of you prophecized that he would say “it was just a joke”. And well, received this from a mutual friend tonight.You’re a good mother. Stay strong and protect her. Please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 07:41 AM |
| 21 | John Lennon was a horrible man.I have a YouTube channel and my first video is why John is a horrible person on more. You havent mention his narcissistic personality, comparing himself to Jesus. Or his “activism”. He’s a horrible dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | He called me a princessIf you ever wanna talk about why HVM shouldn’t act like high school girls, let me know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | He called me a princessGreat! I’m assuming you’re talking about your maturity level irl. Not your Reddit comments right? Anyways, would you want to discuss HVM and how they shouldn’t act like high school girls? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | He called me a princessCongratulations 🎉! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | He called me a princessWomen? 1) I said high school GIRLS. I’m pointing out maturity levels. Also, texting long messages, name calling isnt something to promote. Why would a “HVM” have that in common with teenagers? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | He called me a princessA HVM wouldn’t be phased by that. Texting a long message name calling is something literal high school girls do. Also, trust your gut. If it sounded off, then there’s a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:08 PM |
| 21 | "I'm gonna make your dreams come true, as long as they don't interfere with mine" 💃I could be wrong, but didn’t the girl on the left made other songs/skits? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 06:49 PM |
| 113 | Men get married WHEN they want, regardless of who’s next to them. They are looking for a caretaker when they are done dating or unattractive Mathew Perry- “I decided to get Engaged. luckily I was dating the greatest woman on the face of the planet at this time”Didnt he get expose by a 19 year girl on tik tok? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:51 PM |
| 17 | That’s a lot of words for “on call booty”“Had us in the first half ngl” When I saw ‘personal’ support system, clearly he’s not looking for a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 05:39 PM |
| 35 | That’s a lot of words for “on call booty”Hinge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:51 PM |
| 5 | Yet another reason to avoid gamer guys.I had a white guy justify the n word and why it’s not racist. Stay away from guys like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 12:09 PM |
| 2 | STRATEGY POST: Long Distance Relationships! (LDRs) 💞🌎💍✈️Thank you so much! I’m in a LDR and this helps!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Who has a HV boyfriend/husband right now?Thank you. He’s recovering but it’s hard ofc. But I’m holding in because he showed me how I should be treated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:20 AM |
| 5 | Who has a HV boyfriend/husband right now?I do. I really like him. He’s very respectful. Times are hard right now because he has cancer :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 01:07 AM |
| 7 | BINGO!!I go to uni in the mountains and the mountains part hit too close to home 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:12 PM |
| 50 | So sad :( the future is not brightWhen I was a teen I thought I was special because I liked video games. 😂 Dont ask teen girls. At least we get exposure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:21 AM |
| 69 | Don’t go on “boat dates” with guys you don’t know well or you could be put into a situation you don’t want to be in. 😬Lmao he’s trying to use the DENNIS system next | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 10:25 PM |
| 5 | Stop thinking that they have the same empathy we do. And if they ever do start to feel bad, it will always be twisted back to being your fault. You can only win by not playing.Once I see a guy use a future meme, I treat him as such. They hate that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 01:07 PM |
| 152 | Boys be like...This. This right here. 🎯 Yesterday I had the craziest thing happen an hour before a date. I tried to reschedule but he insisted. He said we can talk about it on the date and I can vent. When the date happened, I talked for literally 5mins. He cut me off. Rambled on forever. I told him that I wanted to vent and he LITERALLY said, i thought youll be over it by now. I got the fuck up and left. The only reason I didn’t block right away is because I cried myself asleep (not because of him) and when I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:54 PM |
| 5 | FDS will be increasing the amount of low quality memes/videos we remove at our discretion🎯 Some of the OLD screenshots are good, shows me different men’s “openers”. But that’s like 2 every 10 bad OLD posts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:39 PM |
| 30 | When they show their true colors first time, block y’all. Don’t be like her. It’s not fine.Live and learn, girl. I use to be that way but then I realize I hold the power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 09:12 PM |
| 17 | Be wary of men with racial fetishes/comments towards ANY raceLove how black women have to deal with being “hoes” and low class when it comes to sexuality. When I say love, I mean I wish I can shoot it with a bazooka in close range. The white woman will always be seen has the “forbidden fruit” for all men. What bothers me is that all men, white, black, Asian, Natives American, Hispanic, etc will always view white women as acceptable partners (if they want partners). I had men tell me that I’m good for a night because of the stereotypes of black women. I ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:00 PM |
| 24 | I HAVE NO WORDS.They be awarding ANYTHING on this site 🤦🏾♀️ Edit: lmao dont award me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 10:22 PM |
| 23 | The AUDACITY of men🤢🤢 it’s the audacity for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 10:19 PM |
| 38 | The top comment says “This is why y’all are miserable and single.” How about stop shaming women for having standards, proper spelling and grammar being one.I don’t slide into any DMs in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 07:04 PM |
| 48 | He proposes with a 20$ costume jewellery necklace and then gets butthurt when she asks for a ring. The guy needs a shovel so he can still dig his way below the bar.Damn. 6 years... for a video game token. Wow. I’m a hard core gamer and I’ll still feel insulted. God bless that woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Just another day of women being treated like garbage in r/relationships...Ooh that’s cringe. Sis, if he don’t love you now, move tf on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 12:40 AM |
| 7 | Several magazines have actually hired this person to write articles about sex.Thanks. I’m in uni studying broadcasting and journalism. Whenever I tell guys this they think I want to be a some kind of journalist like this woman or they rant to me about how much they hate/can’t trust the media. Hearing that you have your dream job in this field makes me smile :) keep on keeping on sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 12:28 AM |
| 5 | No a laundromat is NOT A DATE !!I’m happy she had a great time. But that’s not a potential boyfriend sis. That’s not a date. That’s an outing with a friend. I keep my friend company when they do errands. Not a boyfriend or “date”. She’s giving these LVM hope. Tagging along on an errand and getting cOfFEe is not a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Just... WHY IS THIS PIC ON YOUR TINDER PROFILE?!?!I just swiped left on a guy who had his “member” peeking out while takin a pic with his dog... Men are creatures | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Is having a Snapchat a red flag?🚩It’s not a red flag for me. In fact I give out my snap instead of my number. I use my snap as a barrier anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:13 PM |
| 235 | COVID is not an excuse to accept low-effort dates. If sitting and having a meal with someone is too risky, stay home.You came at the right time. A guy hit me up for a “eat food and cuddle” date at his apartment since everything closed. Boy bye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 04:24 PM |
| 106 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???Pickmes are obsessed with gamers. Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:28 PM |
| 9 | Twitter is the epicenter of the Pick me pandemicFacebook is where all the pickmes at. The standards are so low. I’m in groups that make fun of pickmes but I think it goes over ppl heads | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:07 PM |
| 6 | NoThis is dangerous speech. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Pickmeisha's First Small VictoryYou really said you had incredible sex to him and see this as a victory? Why boost his ego? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:06 PM |
| 2 | When the Universe talks to you....you better listen! I found a Susan B Anthony coin today while ordering my morning coffee. Thank you Susan for your work you did for us.Wow, she really did Pull an all lives matter. Also, so it’s okay for Susan to have that view point? She really said read a history book but using surface level thinking/research skills herself ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 6 | When the Universe talks to you....you better listen! I found a Susan B Anthony coin today while ordering my morning coffee. Thank you Susan for your work you did for us.I understand you don’t want to shit on her. But we had women fighting for all women also during and before her time who didn’t deemed WOC as lesser. The issue is, WOC are years behind white feminism. Feminism STILL identifies with her point of view. We have white feminism. Many people aren’t educated with the under laying racism that is sweep under the rug to protect white feminism. I will shit on her. I’m more than what Susan saw me as. Instead I focus on women who ACTUALLY made a difference to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:19 AM |
| 6 | When the Universe talks to you....you better listen! I found a Susan B Anthony coin today while ordering my morning coffee. Thank you Susan for your work you did for us.You have the pleasure to ignore that part of her. “Being progressive enough” lmao yeah, for demanding that I am a woman. I am more than my dark skin? She saw a division. I would not be included. I’m not gonna praise her for “successfully” helping white women when WOC are still struggling today like they have back then. Sojourner truth fought for me. She wanted to be seen as a woman. She knew her skin did not deemed her less. That’s a queen. Also, since we’re not speaking of things, let’s talk ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:08 PM |
| 3 | 😒 Damn, I hope you get pickedI understand that. I was debating it for awhile but I usually by things off the PS store. I have like 3 disks so I’ll just bite the bullet lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:50 AM |
| 32 | 😒 Damn, I hope you get pickedLmao $650 for a ps5? If a man ask for that AND it’s not a special edition, ew. You being played I’m buying the digital ($400) ps5 for myself thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:01 AM |
| 4 | Queen actions. Saw this on Facebook FDS material.I was working very late at my 24/7 gas station and I had the nastiest customer. I was literally balling while checking people out. One girl told me that it’s gonna get better. She didn’t know that it was about but she felt me. I hope she don’t good. That’s sisterhood, sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 12 | When the Universe talks to you....you better listen! I found a Susan B Anthony coin today while ordering my morning coffee. Thank you Susan for your work you did for us.Susan didn’t fight for me. She fought for white women. I only happened to get some rights after white women have their share. I use to like her because I was surrounded by white feminists but once I used critical thinking skills, I would be a negro in Susan eyes. Not a woman. Pleaseee look “at aint I a woman” by S. Truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:45 PM |
| 20 | Do you notice a higher concentration of HMV/LMV in certain cities/places?I found a lot of HVM in Knoxville. I was shocked actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:54 AM |
| 15 | Do you notice a higher concentration of HMV/LMV in certain cities/places?NC has a lot of LV men. For example: just this week, there’s been posts on this sub about men from my hometown. (The tinder profile guy defending myself, Fayetteville and Chris Watts, who is from Aberdeen/spring lake). And that’s only the examples y’all share. I experienced it during my pickme days | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:53 AM |
| 37 | Couples on YouTube/ in the media who are actually good couples?Lmao Pam and Jim from the office. True office fans know that both are LV and toxic to each other. Whenever I see a guy looking for his Pam I hide | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:41 PM |
| 59 | Us women have horrible options on OLDYou dodged a bullet. What shine aint always gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Incels new chart about women.Thanks for the laugh. I’m having a long work shift today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 01:10 PM |
| 3 | How to not attract creepsI work at a gas station while going to college. To say a lot of mid age men REALLY THINK I’m interested is crazy. So, I learned to be a robot essentially. I still get creeps or pushy guys but it helps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:55 PM |
| 20 | MOD UPDATE: No more LVM ex-boyfriend collages. They are all pretty much the same and we don't want LVM stank all over our subreddit. Effective immediately, any collages about substandard men will be removed.Ugh thanks. I thought this sub was changing for the worst. We get it already no more please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:52 PM |
| 6 | Round 2 of Great Value Post MaloneThat’s a lot of words for “I’m a piece of shit” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Op accused of tattoo/body shaming in the comments for saying this dude looks susOmg I matched with him when I first got tinder and fresh out of high school. I hate the men in my state smh. I only remembered him because he had a fetish and of course, his beautiful smile :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:30 PM |
| 24 | Chris Watts wasn't the man he appeared to be. 🚨Cautionary Reminder 🚨Both of them are originally from my hometown.... see the type of men I deal with? 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:37 PM |
| 25 | The longer I stay away from dating, the harder it is to imagine wanting to go back..I totally relate. Once I realized how fun life is without a guy to worry about, dating didn’t seem very appealing. I’m still OLD but I use it more as a way to interact with random people than intensely looking for THE mate. I like the independence of being single. sometimes I miss having a guy but that’s only when I’m doing something in public like going to a concert or movies. Since Covid, I forget guys exist sometimes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:36 PM |
| 5 | Herpes + poly = 🤮Guys like him irk me. I have it set to looking for relationships for a reason. I don’t wanna see guys like him. Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 06:46 PM |
| 8 | Found on FB......what the actual fuckAwww you hurt his feelings 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:22 PM |
| 11 | When you break up with a LVMBlack bear held a concert at my uni and everyone kept chanting, “play no re mi” and he was annoyed 😂 erm, what you expect from a group of drunk uni students | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Summer Walker shames Future’s baby mama for wanting $53k a month in child supportLol I watch lovelyti | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 14 | Whenever I think of 'HVM' this couple comes to my mind. Cameron was hands down the best man from the entire show ("Love is blind - Netflix").We love to see it. Stan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 3 | "FDS wOmEn aRe pRosTitUteS"He was so dead set that we are tricking HVM into thinking we are worthy when we fucked over guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:21 PM |
| 20 | "FDS wOmEn aRe pRosTitUteS"Some guy PM on here saying FDS teaches women to lie to men. We fuck any guy but trick HVM. 1) I’m not defined by my sexual experiences. I’m a human 2) lmao LVM lurk and STILL don’t learn anything 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:43 PM |
| 28 | It really doesn't matter what you wear or how much or little you cover up yourself. Men's depravity is never your faultDOGS 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:46 PM |
| 36 | Is it possible to find a porn-free man, who I fancy and who will take me on dates?No. It’s not impossible to find a porn free man. But it’s hella hard to find one to meet your standards. Don’t take it as your standards are too hard. I’m just saying that imo men check off one standard but don’t meet my other standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Nerd culture and adults who refuse to grow upPersonally I don’t see it as something bad. I identify as some of those things and it’s more of a sense of community. However, people will bring up gamers and complain meanwhile anime is held to this golden standard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 02:13 AM |
| 23 | Lvm lol....He writes like a crackhead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:11 PM |
| 23 | New ‘extreme’ dating site only matches users with 20-year age gapAny girl who’s in that lifestyle knows you can’t find a man with money that way. It’s for lowlife old men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:59 PM |
| 3 | I don't fw grown men who quote Monty Python anywayNo not in my opinion. But it depends how deep you go. C++ is easy but not all coders think that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:03 PM |
| 21 | And to think, I used to consider merely having a bookshelf a green flag 🤦♀️If anyone says they love Lolita , I’m calling the cops. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:32 PM |
| 11 | I don't fw grown men who quote Monty Python anywayI’m in a coding class at my uni and they worship Monty The coding language python was named after that movie. It’s cringe tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:29 PM |
| 23 | Oh my god, pressured into sex at 14?! Fuuuuuck I hate this world.I’m blessed guys didn’t look at the band nerd 14yr old me. My heart breaks for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:26 AM |
| 31 | Glee rant🥴🥴 I cant watch glee now. When I was younger I thought it was cool. I never liked the main characters really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:48 PM |
| 23 | I hate “sex positivity” with all of my heart and soulIt’s the mimicking of slave-like shit for me 🥴🥴🥴🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 37 | How do you muster up the courage?Personally, I have dealbreakers. It’s not like “oh he likes sweet tea so I’m gonna walk out”. No like “he’s justifying racism”. Once I hear a BIG dealbreaker, I lose all emotion. It ain’t it sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 10:37 PM |
| 42 | “He simply cannot be who we need him to be.”It izzz what it izzz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 09:51 PM |
| 5 | Wow, they are truly disgusting. We haven’t spoke in 3 years. Old me would’ve thought “Aw I was on his mind”. Nope, she’s dead now.Yeah lol I don’t add any male to my phone. They are either random numbers or my phone does it for me. They don’t even deserve to be saved unless Siri does it for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:39 PM |
| 12 | My boyfriend’s friendship with my worst enemy - is this a red flag forest or am I just jealous and overly sensitive?If they of the same feather, they flock together | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:24 PM |
| 36 | I don’t find this as funny as the other 8.2 kGirl, just leave him. Doing wayyyyy too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:58 PM |
| 11 | "Am crazy don't pay attention to me" Okay dude, next! Imagine letting the world know how little you're going to try to be a HVM.At least he’s honest. I bet some pickmes will still go for it tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:37 PM |
| 82 | More Pickmeishas normalising abuse and male depravity to appeal to boys on TikTok. What self respecting woman thinks like this?Ew. Why does sex have to be abusive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 02:37 PM |
| 9 | Of all the images he could have used, this Youtuber used a sexualized image of a teenage girl in his thumbnailThe only ask reddit channel I watch is radio tts. He has taste. At least better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:36 PM |
| 64 | What’s something that you did with good intention, too early for a man, and now look back in it with so much regret?Take my ex to an Guns n Roses concert. I paid a lot of money for. (Well, a lot of money at the time) I don’t regret the concert. I regret taking him. He didn’t deserve that. But at least I got to see Slash. Now I go to concerts with my mother (slowly making her a classic rock fan lol) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:32 PM |
| 3 | “I don’t have a child”I see what you mean. If I had kids, I won’t barred men who have kids. Kids aren’t baggage to the PARENTS but they are baggage to a single woman without kids. They know this therefore they lie about having kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:31 AM |
| 17 | “I don’t have a child”Love how men are so hard on single mothers but they literally lie about having kids. Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 02:49 PM |
| 9 | Can you imagine coming home to that? Why would you want a guy who seems pissed of 24/7Because I don’t want ANY pickmes to think this is okay. College girls ACTUALLY FALL FOR THIS. I took out his snapchat and didn’t show his pic but I know him. That’s what makes it shocking. He ACTUALLY HAD A GIRL. I dont know what happened, but clearly it was nothing good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 02:47 PM |
| 4 | “I hate small talk” = I hate putting in the effort required to have authentic emotional intimacy. So, rather than earning your trust, I intend on acting annoyed by your walls/boundaries and prying into your psyche because I feel entitled to your immediate trust.I hate this so much! Guys expect to see a resume of all your deepest secrets, fears, worries and trauma. Uhm, I’m not opening my box of worms for you to judge if I’m worth or not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:47 PM |
| 94 | Men are dumb and annoying. I feel like calling it quits. Which dating apps do y’all like best?😂 I only use tinder to remind myself why I should stay single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 06:39 PM |
| 6 | What common bio phrase you’re tired of seeing on OLD?Maybe because I’m in a college town( near Asheville, NC which is the most liberal city I ever been to in the southern USA) but it’s common to see kinks or guys would said “I’m pretty kinky”. I find it disgusting. Instant no and all women should. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 03:28 PM |
| 12 | What common bio phrase you’re tired of seeing on OLD?As a VERY avid office fan (since ‘05), I hate this so much or “just a Jim looking for his-“ 🤢 sorry I couldn’t even type out the rest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 03:24 PM |
| 22 | Beware of men who date ONLY outside of their own cultural/ethnic groupI totally get your reasoning. I don’t exactly avoid black guys but I ignore them. The rare time I gave one a chance, he fucked it up. Black guys treat black women like we are easy to get and less compared to other women. I only dated white guys. Mostly because they actually treated me like I was special (at least at first). Last week a black guy I go to uni with, he is confused on why I don’t find him attractive after he told me I’m not funny and I’m not attractive. Black men expects black women… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 01:54 PM |
| 5 | Because everything a woman does is for male attention 🙄Self hatred? Smh I bet he’s colorist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 01:02 PM |
| 86 | "Men age like fine wine" Sean Penn, 59, and Leila George, 28 just got married. There are no words.God, his skin.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:43 PM |
| 8 | I am a recovering alcoholic and I sometimes post to a forum for people like me for support when I’m feeling low. Today I received this in my DMs. I am disgusted beyond belief.Erm, no my trauma is not a shared experience for you to get off on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 10:07 PM |
| 4 | Reminder: He’s looking to conquer you. Be selective with who you invest your time, body, and emotions withDid he really have to edit that ? Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 10:05 PM |
| 63 | It’S biOloGiCaL male strikes againWow. Where’s the respect. Don’t answer. I know it’s nonexistent for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 10:03 PM |
| 24 | Thought this was a joke at first, but there are legitimately lvm in the comments complaining about having to propose? It's a privilege! I'm just at a loss for words.No | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:36 PM |
| 542 | ExactlyY’all really be excusing this?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:33 PM |
| 13 | Thoughts? 🤔Check out his other videos. I like him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 02:38 PM |
| 29 | FDS when seeing pickme nonsenseWhen they said that, I cringed. They so proud smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:28 PM |
| 7 | Yah duh, did men really expect otherwise?Same it’s so satisfying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 11:55 PM |
| 35 | Remember to not be that girl ever again!There’s a movie about that. Gosh I forgot the name. But it was a 2000s movie. Guys would go on a date with this girl and after the date is over, they will find their soulmate automatically | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 11:53 PM |
| 3 | What is too much eagerness?Yes thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:52 PM |
| 1 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴I’m not some weird bra size. I’m literally a D cup. That’s not massive lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:51 PM |
| 59 | Don't be like herBless her pickme heart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 05:36 PM |
| 7 | Entitled man negotiating sex with me after having gone on just ONE walk “date” and very sporadic communication in betweenEnjoy your frozen pizza bud | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 05:35 PM |
| 10 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴Update: he hasn’t replied back and my tits are not massive lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 12:02 AM |
| 27 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴Shit, I’ll be ready to do the same thing face to face. So no difference for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 09:26 PM |
| 31 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴I live in the south. If it ain’t a gun, it’s a fish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 09:25 PM |
| 89 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴If I ever say that, you’ll know I hit rock bottom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 08:16 PM |
| 42 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴True, I wouldn’t want that. But then again, you’re expecting LVM to think pass their dicks to adapt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 07:02 PM |
| 163 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴He replied saying “oh shit ok” and I ended with “I know she’s happier now. good luck bud” I hope he does self reflection but, we know, he’s a male so 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:23 PM |
| 119 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴I love breaking down men’s ego after they sexually objectified me. To each their own | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:21 PM |
| 57 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴Girl, i dont know what was going through his head | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:19 PM |
| 5 | i’m so glad this gave men another reason to generalize women and let them think they can do no wrongUhmmmm, have they not heard the multiple theories about Will? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird”😂 the 1990 nazi Germany got me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 61 | Ladies, I present exhibit A - the Friendswithbenefitsasaurus. Abundant in urban areas, he is a common sub-species of the Loserasaurus. Complete disengagement is the only way to stay safe from this species.He’s just holding out for a better option. Pass his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 11:29 PM |
| 26 | Is it just me or do older men (35+) on apps really make no effort.I feel you. But it’s the opposite with me. Younger guys are boring. Same “what’s up?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:10 AM |
| 6 | Remember how everyone was feeling all bad for Mark from ‘Love Is Blind’ because he got rejected by Jessica? Turns out he’s a cheating scrote!Damn!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 02:15 PM |
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