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Open them with something like, "You'll have to forgive me. I'm still working on learning English, but as soon as I saw you I knew I had to come over to let you know how beautiful you are."
/r/seduction13/11/25 06:46 PM
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The last time I asked a girl if I could kiss her was in HS. You're giving terrible advice. Kisses should happen naturally with the man making the move, but he should never ask.
/r/seduction11/11/25 09:05 PM
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Oh, true. Living with parents would def hurt. If that were the case I'd screen to make sure the girl has good logistics at her place. Otherwise it's car or motel/hotel lol.
/r/seduction10/11/25 10:54 PM
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Fair enough. Just wanted to let everybody know that having roommates doesn't hurt logistics. In fact, for someone who isn't making bank and has to decide between having roommates living in a cool area (i.e. walkable with cool bars) or living farther out to be able to afford their own place, imo cool area + roommates is way better for logistics. I've lived in several houses with roommates. Not once has a girl been turned off by the setup enough to back out of hooking up, and that includes my fair…
/r/seduction10/11/25 10:48 PM
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All good advice, but having roommates has never handicapped me. The women understand that it makes sense to go to my room after grabbing a drink in the kitchen. Couch in my bedroom + TV. The only caveat as the dude is you have to own the fact that you have roommates. I'm not insecure about it one bit and it's never been an issue for my dates.
/r/seduction10/11/25 10:40 PM
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Totally fine to have roommates. It can actually be a logistical advantage. I used to have a small couch in my bedroom with a TV hanging on the wall. We would watch a movie there instead of the living room cuz it could be awkward to have roommate(s) passing through if we watched in the living room. Without the bedroom couch it could be weird though, cuz you'd have to go straight into the bed to watch the movie; might be a bit too much too quick for her.
/r/seduction10/11/25 10:29 PM
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Generally a good idea, but don't have to be. The more important thing is the geographic location of the second spot (and that it's a decent spot to flirt). If she's in the mood for a second drink then spot #2 is a bar or possibly your place. You don't have to drink alcohol at spot #2 if you don't want to. It helps to know roughly where she lives. You have to think this one out a bit. Ideally the second spot is right by your place. Another thing that can work is if your place is midway between sp…
/r/seduction10/11/25 10:08 PM
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Sure, but for the short-term, say the next 2-4 weeks, OP needs to figure out a new hobby or passion that he will commit to and take meaningful action on that. Then he can interact with women, just without any expectations.
/r/seduction10/11/25 06:14 PM
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Way back when I had a barrier with not knowing how to initiate the first kiss. Then once or twice it happened, slightly awkwardly, but it was successful nonetheless. At some point I realized, if I can first just put my arm around her shoulders, such as when watching a movie, either in a theater or at home on the couch, or even sometimes at a bar or club, that will set the tone for more physical intimacy. Don't make the goal sex. Don't make the goal kissing her. Make the goal putting your arm aro…
/r/seduction10/11/25 04:21 PM
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Everyone's mileage may vary, but I found the tips on how to use FaceApp alone are worth the read.
/r/seduction10/11/25 03:55 PM
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playingwithfire ... plenty of free stuff, especially towards the bottom. Thank me later.
/r/seduction10/11/25 03:38 PM
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Put women on the back burner for a bit. Instead, pursue a passion. Once you get good at that passion, pursue a second one. When women find out you are really into a couple things that you care about, you will instantly become boyfriend material in their eyes. For me I spent a good 2-3 years learning to dance salsa. I got quite good at it and I really enjoy it. Next I taught myself woodworking. I've built some amazing things, and when I engulf myself in a project I absolutely love it. My options …
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:48 PM
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Here's a simple formula: 1.5-2 hours at a loud bar where you have to sit or stand very close to her so that you can hear each other. Gradually introduce light touches. If she's into you she'll give subtle indications. Assuming you both drove to the bar, after the 2 hours, tell her there's another cool spot you want to check out for one more drink ... ***see if she's open to carpooling*** ... you drive. When you return her to Bar #1, it's now late and you have some privacy parked in your car and …
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:31 PM
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Cool, thanks.
/r/seduction10/11/25 06:13 AM
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"Dodge" is a very vague word, admittedly. All I'm saying is I know lots of guys with decent lay counts who would never tell other women outright what their number is. He could say something as simple as, "well, my mother always told me to never kiss and tell," with a smirk on his face. That's a good dodge of the question.
/r/seduction10/11/25 02:43 AM
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Or just dodge the question. Women like a guy who is mysterious and doesn't brag. They'll just assume he has no trouble getting women.
/r/seduction10/11/25 02:25 AM
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I have a friend who "didn't know how to talk to girls," so he rarely had success when out at the bars, etc. And he was good looking. However, he KILLED on dating apps. Practically had pussy falling out of his pockets (Eddie Murphy Delirious reference lol). GET ON THE APPS MY GUY! And make sure you have the best pics possible. From there, ask them out for a drink within like 5-10 messages. Have one or two go-to bars, have an excuse to invite them back to yours, and the rest is smooth sailing. A c…
/r/seduction10/11/25 02:22 AM
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Can you share a little more about testosterone replacement therapy? Just asking since you know several guys on it. Are there any downsides? Is it basically just a safer alternative to steroids? What age range are those that you know who are on it? Any thoughts appreciated.
/r/seduction10/11/25 02:05 AM
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As someone with a hairy neck and back, I started shaving the back of my neck every three days or so using a plastic neck strap designed to give a straight line. One girl that I ended up dating was amazed when I told her I cut my own hair. She said, "it looks so clean!"
/r/seduction13/10/25 12:11 AM
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Rock-climbing gyms.
/r/seduction12/10/25 11:12 PM
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