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| 0 | Incels: a new study.Well your follow up makes much more sense. And I like the not so subtle way you try to tie them to criminals. You're reading way too much into it. I'm not that deep and I'm not subtle about stuff. If I thought all incels were criminals, I'd say it. Other people assumed I said that too, so obviously I worded things wrong. But in that former career, I dealt with people who had anger issues. And many of the criminals that I dealt with, who had the anger issues, were also incels. So there was an ove… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Incels: a new study.No one is arguing that. That's the world we live in. You gotta pick your battles, and that is not a hill ya really wanna die on. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Incels: a new study.Sure, but just so you know, when someone is using the term incel as an insult, they are thinking of the "Elliot Rodger" type incels. That's why it's an insult, because he was crazy. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 01:52 AM |
| 4 | Incels: a new study.I was referring to some of the people in this thread. Who seem to have been members of the old r/incels sub that was banned. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Incels: a new study.And there are also men in this thread that mentioned they are angry and want society to collapse. Those are the types of incels that OP's study about. And plenty of those types of incels are speaking up in this thread. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 01:20 AM |
| -3 | Incels: a new study.Well, a very vocal minority of that group behaved in such a way, that the word took on a different connotation. And now it's an insult. It is what it is. The actual word was created by some college girl in the late 90's, contemplating how lonely she was. I read someone who caught up with her and she's horrified at what the word and the meaning have become. Such is the evolution of words though. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 01:18 AM |
| -4 | Incels: a new study.Love how the only thing missing from the majority of reddit "incel" discussions are actual incels. Plenty showed up in this thread though. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 12:40 AM |
| -5 | Incels: a new study.Joining an incel forum is like saying you're a terrorist. That's because a lot of people in those forums act like terrorists. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Incels: a new study.Being eternally single can make you feel like you're being left behind socially, so indeed it is big deal to have a relationship. Are you being for real right now? Have you ever heard the concept of bachelorhood? You know lots of people choose not to be in relationships because of the hassle. It's been something that's been going on for generations. Do you think incels are the first group of people who aren't in relationships? Look up the term "Old Maid" and "Spinster" which is what women who st… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 12:30 AM |
| -1 | Incels: a new study.So because I posted in a thread about incels, I'm "obsessed" with incels?! I'm not obsessed, or seething, or even angry. I mean, yeah, I laugh at you. But I'm not mad at you. I promise I think about you and your fellow incels WAY less than you think about normies or chads. Lmao Is it tiring to be constantly mad because you can't get laid? But this thread is about incels, and OP posted an incel study, and it's being discussed. I joined in. Do you know where you are? | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 12:17 AM |
| 0 | Incels: a new study.What the fuck are you going on about?! lololol You honestly think that 63% of men are single? Cuz that's just not true. And if you are talking about 20-year olds..who the fuck cares? You really really want the incels to be the heroes in your fantasy, don't you? Well, they're not. lol | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 11:02 PM |
| -4 | Incels: a new study.You stand by a general consensus. Which is correct in this instance. I hope you have the same outlook for feminists who want men to be ridden off the gene pool and extinct to some degree to allow women to flourish in the world. I do. They annoy the shit out of me too. The fact that Reddit banned the incels sub, and not theirs sucks. You are seeing the bad and not understanding the wide margin of people who follow these groups are indeed in need of help. The majority of them are bad tho. Also, if… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 10:33 PM |
| -9 | Incels: a new study.I'm not sure I understand what you are saying here. Are you defending the incels and their downvotes or no? | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 10:26 PM |
| -5 | Incels: a new study.Incels is kinda a term purposely designed to sound like an insult so I'd exercise caution against it. But it's a term that incels themselves have weaponized. They like that it scares people. They want you to be uncomfortable. They love the word and call themselves that. And the like making up varations for themselves, like braincel, blackcel, shortcel, baldcel, etc. You are worried about using a word that they love using. lol | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 10:24 PM |
| -1 | Incels: a new study.People definitely think lower of men who are not actively having sex and make jokes about it all the time. What?! See this is a prime example of you incels not reading social cues. I have never gone around talking about having sex or making jokes about it all the time with other guys. And for context, I'm ugly as shit and I can get laid. And I've been married. It's not shit guys really talk about that much. Maybe every once in a while a comment like, "That chick was crazy. Great in bed, but craz… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 10:19 PM |
| -4 | Incels: a new study.You miss the old incel subs where you used to hang out, don't you? | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 10:10 PM |
| -3 | Incels: a new study.In their incel dreams. lol | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 10:08 PM |
| -10 | Incels: a new study.One possibility is that the number of incels will hit a critical mass and then they'll rise up and destroy society. Do you secretly kind of want this to happen? Be honest. Your whole attitude in this thread has been almost an admiration for incels. So, are you an incel yourself? Or why do you defend them so much? And for the record, there will never be an incel uprising. Incels have been wishing for that to happen since before reddit banned their sub. lmao | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 10:05 PM |
| 14 | Incels: a new study.I don’t think they’re even aware that it’s an abbreviation of “involuntary celibate”. Reddit is the same way. I get called a "boomer" daily. The actual word is from "Baby Boomer" but now reddit just thinks the word means "old." And I'm not a baby boomer anyway. My point is that words change meaning. The original definition of incel isn't how the word is used now. That's just the natural evolution of words. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 09:56 PM |
| -15 | Incels: a new study.The fact that you are getting downvoted makes me worry for this sub. Obviously there were a lot of incels in this sub that no one knew about. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 09:53 PM |
| -13 | Incels: a new study.Judging by our downvotes, the incels definitely didn't like what you or I had to say! lmao | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 09:49 PM |
| -7 | Incels: a new study.Oy, this thread brought out a lot of incels. Have you all been hiding here this whole time and just not wanting anyone to know or what?! Serious question. lol | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 09:47 PM |
| -9 | Incels: a new study.You're not speaking for the majority of incels, and most of them aren't borne criminals. I never said they were born criminals. I said, like criminals, some are just the way they are and won't change. You can love on the incels all you want. See how far that gets you. I stand by what I said. The majority of incels don't want to change and won't change. All the incels here can downvote me all you want. But you guys have the tools to change and you still don't. So no, I don't have sympathy for you… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 09:41 PM |
| -1 | Incels: a new study.What part do you disagree with? | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 09:38 PM |
| 3 | I got a woman pregnant while traveling in the United StatesExplain how the "condom broke" to me. I'm an older guy. I have had sex a lot. I have literally been fucking girls since your grandma was hot. And never once did a condom break. Ever. Not even close. And I don't even have a small dick. So I wanna know. How did this condom "break"? Brah, come on now. Did you have sex without a condom? Fess up. Now to your point: DNA test before any conversations. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Intolerance of men is widely acceptable on most subsI'm an older white guy. According to Reddit, I should be rich and I also cause most of the problems in the real world. Well, I'm not rich. I grew up shit fuck poor and I'm still shit fuck poor. And guess what? Ageism is one of the few "-sims" that is totally acceptable on Reddit. I get called "boomer" daily on here. Even tho I'm no a baby boomer, most who call me that don't even know the meaning of the term, it just means "old" to them. Calling someone "old" on Reddit is not frowned on at all. E… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 07:41 PM |
| -10 | Incels: a new study.Ironically and as respectfully as possible, this is just about as clueless as it gets lol. Sure the situation may be different for you, but i was talking in general terms, statistics wise. Which is why I say "most" and "many." You wanting to kill yourself is a different thing though. Maybe people who aren't incels also want to kill themselves. That's something you need to work on before you stay overly concerned about being called an incel. Please make your mental health a priority outside of te… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 07:35 PM |
| -1 | Let us now praise awkward menReally tho, it's just survival of the fittest in the world. Ok, the real meaning of that phrase is "survival of the most adaptable," but anyway... Sure, lots awkward people are nice. Ok, so? You still have to overcome that to compete. Not just in dating, but in the professional world too. And even tho this sub will deny it, awkward women have a lot of the same disadvantages. Not necessarly when it comes to getting laid, but in everything else. Not every woman is drop-dead beautiful, and if she's… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 07:29 PM |
| -3 | Incels: a new study.I don’t have the energy to debunk the “I see avg people in relationships all the time, so incels must be hallucinating” argument right now. Of course you don't. Because the law of averages wins here. Dude, I don't know why you are so butthurt that autism may be a big decider in inceldom. The fact that so many have it, and the symptoms match up. Why does that offend you so much? Obviously it struck a nerve with your own dating situation, but do you feel you are autistic? Serious question. Because… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Divorce and child support are at the center of issues like falling birth rates and poor parentingSo I'm one of the guys who had a rough go as this statistic. I was married. After divorce I had to pay child support. The real fun part: I eventually got custody and I STILL had to pay child support, even tho my kid lived with me and not his mother. Fun times. It all worked out tho, and my kid is grown and lives on his own nearby, and we are very close and talk every day. He's not that close to his mom. I wish he were close to both of us, but he just doesn't feel close to her because he lived wi… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 07:16 PM |
| -2 | Incels: a new study.So no its not autism. Its not behaviors or social skills. Its looks. Period. I disagree. Unless someone is SEVERELY deformed, looks don't play into mating that much after a certain age. You do realize that the vast majority of people in relationships are not beautiful, right?! Do you not see all the fat people and ugly people out there in relationships?! THAT'S why incels are mad. Sure, they hate the chads and normies, but when they see some fat guy or ugly guy in a relationship, that's when the… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 07:09 PM |
| -7 | Incels: a new study.My issue with it is that the definition keeps shifting And that's fine. But don't pretend that you don't know what the word means in the context of an insult. You do know what it means. I agree that as time goes on it's becoming more and more just a generic insult, but the reason it's an insult is because of the weird mean angry guys who called women "mudflaps" and hated chads and normies. It didn't start out that way, but like many words, it evolved. But you know what it means, and you know why… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 07:01 PM |
| -5 | Incels: a new study.lol exactly! | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Incels: a new study.To be honest, I was suprised how many incels jumped up and yelled out in this thread too. I mean, I guessed that there would be a lot of incels in this sub, and that they downplayed that because of reddits distaste for incels, but yeah, I was surprised how many comments in this thread play up to the very stereotype that the study is talking about. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 06:55 PM |
| -2 | Incels: a new study.But one of autism's big symptoms is not being able to understand/notice social cues as well as other groups of people. Right? Most, if not all, of the dating dance between two strangers is reading and reacting to social cues, and facial expressions, learning one's feelings from just observation, adapting, adjusting, and learning body language quickly. And since in many cases, autism dulls many of those abilities, doesn't that make it very very very very likely that autism may be at fault? | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Incels: a new study.Because most people on Reddit downvote anything they don't agree with, even if it's logical. You'll get very few replies from anyone telling you why they downvoted you. They disagreed, hit the down arrow, felt a quick dopamine hit because they know that you'd see that they disagreed with you, and they move on to other posts. They LIKE that you are confused. They want you to know that you are wrong, but they want you to be upset about it too. It's their little sense of power that they have in the… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 06:44 PM |
| -8 | Incels: a new study.After 7 years of hearing about "incels", I still have no idea who or what they are I don't believe you. I think you know full well what types of people are considered "incels," but you're angry that groups of people get labeled, and you think it's an oversimplification of a larger issue. But you know what people mean when someone is called an "incel." | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 06:39 PM |
| -7 | Incels: a new study.Edit: the downvotes are bizarre. There actually seem to be a lot of incels in this thread. lol | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 06:36 PM |
| 13 | Incels: a new study.So is acknowledging someone as autistic is "stigmatizing" now? I mean, they are the ones who self-identified as autistic. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Incels: a new study.Why did you censor the word "incel"? | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 06:34 PM |
| -2 | Incels: a new study.But do you agree that a huge percentage of incels are autistic? | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 06:33 PM |
| -40 | Incels: a new study.I think most incels are sad people who need sympathy rather than the hostility feminists give them. Big of you to say, but if you had long-term discussions with them, you'd find out that vast majority make fun of people like you. For all of their anger and spouting, they actually wear their inceldom as a point of pride. Just like most criminals actually LIKE doing bad things and being criminals, I think most incels like being the outsider. There have always been incels, even before the term. Som… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 06:23 PM |
| -35 | Incels: a new study.I get what you're saying, but also words change meaning over time. And "incel" isn't the first word that's changed meanings. Also from what I saw when I looked into the incel forums out of curiosity (back before they were banned), the angry awful incels actually are the ones that adopted the word. So yeah, the word changed, but the very people we call that word now are the ones who made the change. And happily. I loved calling themselves incels and playing on the words, like blackcels, braincels… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Incels: a new study.I'm glad to see that someone finally autism has a lot to do with it. I'd also love to see a breakdown of ages. Here on reddit the incels seem to be in early 20's and autistic for sure. But the seem to be almost proud of being autistic. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 06:15 PM |
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