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| 42 | How can I know if someone is truly nice to me?If they end up ghosting you or don't have time for you then they are not your friend. They don't care about you and don't want or care to make time for you. If they want to, they would make time for you. Whether it is taking the time out to make room for you that day or scheduling some time for you later that can be time for you guys since you both have a busy schedules. Being busy or not having time is never a real excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 03:34 PM |
| 46 | Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me.He didn't even tell her immediately. He was just fine keeping this from her. Mind-blowingly awful. Thats an extreme level of not giving any shits about her. Regardless, he has already shown he does not care about her or have her best interests at heart. Also, he is not to be trusted due to cheating on her in the first place. If you don't have trust, you don't have anything. Everything in the relationship is now worthless and you can't move on together past this. You just need to move on from him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 09:44 AM |
| 48 | I ended my relationship - A cautionary tale to ALWAYS VET and ALWAYS FOLLOW FDS STANDARDSYeah, lingerie is never a gift for you. Unless you specifically ask for it and really wanted it, it's a gift he got for himself. Since it's a "gift" he is using that as manipulation for you to wear what he wants. It's a dark manipulative gift for himself. Also, it may make you feel pressured into sexual things with him due to the "gift". Which is just awful and terrible in itself and the fact that it took the place of a real actual gift is a triple slap in the face. It's appalling that it would … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 08:27 AM |
| 72 | Have you ever wondered why women sports fans follow men’s sports teams without ever questioning why we don’t follow women’s sports on mainstream media and sports venues?If some sports require women to wear booty shorts, men should too. Also, the difference in women's gymnastics uniforms and men's gymnastics uniforms is just appallingly drastic. Same with cheer uniforms. It's a double standard. They should put them in the same uniforms. Like with rhythmic gymnastics, men get long pants that cover their entire legs and women are always having their butts visible. They should put women and men in the same uniform styles as the norm. Men get ready to have your butt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 07:53 AM |
| 519 | Run run run far away girl 😱As for the ring part, that is basically what an engagement/wedding ring is for. Mate guarding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 07:31 AM |
| 13 | Dealing with being purposefully celibateWomanizer W500. Also heard Hismith is helpful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | What characteristics are you looking for in a partner?How do you test sexual compatibility and what is your take on sex/sexual things before marriage? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 03:11 PM |
| 10 | “If Beyoncé can get cheated on, then there’s no hope for us” is a cope, not the standard.Ariana Grande – Positions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 03:09 PM |
| 10 | Have you ever experienced this?If your gut is telling you that you should be afraid to be potentially punched or dragged off to some other place, then you should not be dating him. Something is off and your gut is telling you that. Listen to your gut. Trust your intuition. Don't second guess your intuition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/22 08:05 PM |
| 10 | Men with social media harems.Yes. Same goes for professional soccer players. Even though soccer is very prestigious in Europe, don't let the fame blind you. Or any professional athlete for that matter. Same extends to anyone famous. Don't let that be an excuse or give them more leeway of your boundaries/expectations. Also checking out their private Facebook account can be very helpful as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.Thanks! What is a "j go"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/22 04:38 PM |
| 3 | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.How do you request to remove listings? Which sites allow you to do this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Let’s translate “he’s bad at texting”He doesn’t give two shits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 08:41 PM |
| 14 | Women have it way harder then men in almost everything.Get a new friend. You are not compatible. Don't waste your time with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 05:31 AM |
| 7 | At the hospital overnight for a small procedure. This is where the bar is:The lack of hand washing probably plays a factor in how women can get yeast infections from fingering 🤢🤮 Make sure a guy is thoroughly clean before he ever touches you. Whether it’s fingering, sex, or anything you want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 10:02 AM |
| 28 | Yes, you are. 💋Yes. No woman NEEDS to shave. And should not feel guilted, embarrassed, pressured or compelled to shave/wax any part of themselves. Doesn’t matter where on the body that hair is located. Hair on a woman is not unattractive. It’s normal. And beautiful. There is nothing wrong with it. And if a guy has an issue with it then that’s his problem and you don’t want to be around him anyways. Easy way to know to filter him out of your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:28 AM |
| 15 | S*xual assault, Patriarchal Religion, and the LawThank you for this post. I’m glad someone said it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:00 AM |
| 9 | Tips on how to protect yourself in every day life?How long is pepper spray good for? And when should it be replaced? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭It is a cult. And the pledge process is trauma bonding. Fraternities/sororities are cults of trauma bonded people. That’s why they feel so close and bonded to each other. That, and the sunk cost fallacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 11:45 PM |
| 4 | REPOST: Marriage is a scam for women in the USWhat culture is that? That seems much more reasonable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 01:28 AM |
| 14 | Leave the FIRST time someone shows you low effortI understand that you asked him to specifically buy you these items but he should buy you the sex toys/etc. anyways because you are his girlfriend and you wanted it. That doesn’t have to count as your special occasion (in this case birthday) gift. He should be excited and happy to buy you those things anyways especially since you expressed interest in it. He should feel lucky that he even gets the chance to buy you those things and for you to even accept it from him. For it to replace an actual … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 20 | Leave the FIRST time someone shows you low effortThat’s fine. As long as you don’t feel forced to have sex or do sexual things with him just because it’s his birthday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:23 PM |
| 15 | Leave the FIRST time someone shows you low effortHe treated you bad. It’s ok, you can say it. You deserve so much better. So if someone is wasting your time and/or treating you less than you deserve, yes that’s bad. Also, if part of you felt like this was all you deserved then there was probably a good bit of gaslighting from him as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:04 PM |
| 46 | Seen this wayyy too many times!🙄 Women are held solely responsible for breaking relationships by other women because of internalised misogyny. The poor cheating bf is a "good guy otherwise".She basically done you a favor. The man has to want to cheat to cheat. It doesn't work if it's one sided. She basically helped you out him and now you don't have to waste the rest of your life on a guy who is willing to and wanted to cheat on you. She freed you from wasting your precious valuable time and future on him. And if she wants him, then fine she can have him. You definitely don't want him anymore. You are now freed from his mind games and fake facade. And you can look for better people… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 08:11 PM |
| 8 | If a guy says he is "sexually dominant" he is probably a massive loser IRL. Literally every "dom" I've ever met were unambitious and unintelligent, often working minimum wage or entry level jobs well into their 30s, 40s, and older.You don't need to be friends with this guy. Just drop the whole guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:45 PM |
| 5 | If a guy says he is "sexually dominant" he is probably a massive loser IRL. Literally every "dom" I've ever met were unambitious and unintelligent, often working minimum wage or entry level jobs well into their 30s, 40s, and older.🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:00 PM |
| 17 | My husband of 3 weeks now, said he wished he married his x instead of me.Don't second guess yourself. You know what to do. What an asshole/abuser. Glad you came to this realization early and didn't waste the rest of your life with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 08:23 AM |
| 4 | "johns" = Lowest life formI know you are getting a lot of requests but can you please DM me too? Thank you! This is a very important resource to have and thank you for sharing this information with all of us 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 04:27 AM |
| 15 | I thought this was perfect for us 😉Do you have a link to this study? That's very interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 03:27 AM |
| 35 | The pickmeisha in the comment sec being like "OR you could both love each other and it doesn't have to be a one sided street" Nah sis that's how you get played. Learnt my lesson the hard way , a man should always ALWAYS love you more than YOU love HIM.Because women are conditioned from childhood with things like Beauty and the Beast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:41 AM |
| 6 | More reasons why casual sex sucks (particularly for darkskinned black women). Be careful out there ladies.Because most guys are shit and patriarchal norms, societies, communities, and cultures are against us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 06:08 PM |
| 13 | Ladies, let’s talk about money! Whether you're single, dating, or married, all women need to be financially literate. Here are my tips to help protect yourself and to increase your financial security at all stages of your life.This is extremely common in Asian families. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:28 AM |
| 1 | This is why we don’t take a man back, even once. He WILL do it again and you WILL find it increasingly harder to leave. I feel bad her daughter will grow up and see and accept this treatment by men.He’s one of those guys who thinks he’s above testing. 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 05:33 AM |
| 6 | This is why we don’t take a man back, even once. He WILL do it again and you WILL find it increasingly harder to leave. I feel bad her daughter will grow up and see and accept this treatment by men.The fact that “regular wife” means a woman that is below him is just upsetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 05:20 AM |
| 4 | Would you tell a pickmeisha her bf is cheating/trying to cheat on her?I would want someone to tell me. Nobody wants to waste their time on a piece of shit guy. My time is valuable. The sooner one knows to drop a guy the better. Can never be soon enough, the sooner you know the more time in your life you save. If you’re nervous, tell her/send her everything in one go. If she gives you a hard time then just block her and don’t feel too bad about it. She is showing you she wouldn’t be a good friend/person to have in your life anyways. Cut her and her boyfriend off. B… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 02:43 AM |
| 42 | Another trash Tinder profileExactly. Guys who don’t like cats tend to be controlling and like things to immediately obey their every demand. They tend to dislike independent thinking especially when it doesn’t align with what they want in that moment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Which one of you ladies did this? 😂Good for you for leaving him. If those people are giving you a hard time for it or agreeing with him after he disrespected you and gaslit you then they aren’t truly your friends. It’s time to cut them out and upgrade to better real friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:02 AM |
| 16 | He proposes with a 20$ costume jewellery necklace and then gets butthurt when she asks for a ring. The guy needs a shovel so he can still dig his way below the bar.The whole point of a ring is to show off to other men how well they can provide for you. Nothing makes a random guy leave you alone faster then wearing a giant ass ring. It’s like mate guarding even when they aren’t there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Love is not enoughI love cats. Don’t worry about guys. Live your life for you and focus on yourself. You deserve your full attention 😃. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:50 AM |
| 2 | I mean, what do you even respond to this? LolYes I think he is a racial fetishist. I know you were just joking. But as a society can we please let the “yellow fever” term, for liking Asian people, just die already. It’s so demeaning. “Yellow fever” is literally the name of a disease. Which equates the liking of Asian people to a disease. It just makes a me feel like there must be something wrong with me or with someone liking me if them liking me is equated to a disease. Like we don’t go around saying a person has “white polio” if you see … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:16 AM |
| 1 | I’m a bi woman, and a pickme just violated meThat’s so scary. It kind of sounds like they were planning to rape you if you went to their apartment. I’m so glad you met in a public place first. The fact that they let the date go on for two hours is insane. The whole thing is just crazy. Not only is it disrespectful, rude and a waste of your time. But it’s also so dangerous, horrible and devious of them. I am so so glad you didn’t go to their apartment behind closed doors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How do I politely avoid a kiss on the second date if he tries to make a move?Just say “No” and that you “don’t feel comfortable with that”. It shouldn’t be awkward at all. He should respect your boundaries and your feelings. If he gives you a hard time/makes you feel awkward then drop him. He obviously doesn’t respect you enough to respect your boundaries. Also with Covid-19 and social distancing you don’t want to just kiss anyone. This is a second in-person date. At this point he’s basically a stranger and you don’t really know him. Don’t expose yourself to Covid-19, ST… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:19 PM |
| 8 | Anyone else getting the "Coronavirus excuse" for cheap first dates?Men are dirty and more likely to have COVID-19. Yes Guys are also more likely to be reckless and not think about the consequences of their actions which makes them having COVID-19 all the more likely 😷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | The importance of condoms in long-term relationshipsIf you plan to have children, it's important for your health during pregnancy that your immune system is accustomed to him in that way. I think it's the risk of gestational diabetes in particular that skyrockets if you conceive with a man you've only had unprotected sex with once, but I can't remember precisely. Might be pre-eclampsia. Obviously, that's not such a concern if you don't intend to have children with him, but for women who do, it's important. I’m curious what you might suggest for p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 05:04 PM |
| 2 | It’s not worth it in the long runI understand. Yeah I’m just trying to think of ways to help. I don’t know what your degrees or field is but if it’s in biology, chemistry, engineering, healthcare or research they have a bunch of new positions that opened up and/or were created due to covid-19. But honestly I’m kind of afraid cause it says on those job listings that the employees should be safe when working there due to procedures and supplies to prevent the likelihood of coming in contact with disease/specimens/samples/etc. but… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:01 PM |
| 3 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.True | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:41 AM |
| 2 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.Could be the physical manifestion of the Tinder app Omg yes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:39 AM |
| 17 | It’s not worth it in the long runHave you tried filing for unemployment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:11 AM |
| 20 | It’s not worth it in the long runOmg no 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:10 AM |
| 5 | Guy I gave my number to dropped some of these: 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩🤢🤮 Block him. I agree, if you must, give out your google number next time. Safety first ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:45 PM |
| 12 | How do I trust men againI second this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:36 PM |
| 11 | How do I trust men againExactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:34 PM |
| 3 | How much you want to bet SHE will have to pay to get a new one and he won’t help?Exactly. OMG 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Who else thinks that men’s haircut and beard trims are so cheap in order incentivise them to groom?Pink tax 😠 Gender pay gap and the products/services geared toward us cost more 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | I left a LVM today! After 4 years!Congratulations! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:08 PM |
| 3 | LVM really tried to send me a twitter post from a pickmeisha because I felt that he should make me a priority, DUSTY ALERT!Guys can always make time, if they truly want to, no matter how busy they are. Leave him, he isn’t worth your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 02:06 AM |
| 2 | I Found My People!Glad you are here ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Talk me off the ledgeIf he’s not the same as who he was at first, then who he was at first was not real. It was just an act and he couldn’t keep it up. The person he was at the end was the real him. Think of him as a stranger and who he was at first doesn’t count because that wasn’t the real him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Is he a LVM or am I being too unreasonableGlad you blocked him, he’s not worth your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 10:56 PM |
| 1 | "... go for a walk..."No problem 😊. Good for you, he’s not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Romantic Deception/ should I notify the police? ** story for context included **Contact the police! Go give them all your information that you have on him. Like the photo of his license plate, etc. If there was any kind of assault or even in general before you talk to the police make sure to ask the police for an advocate while you are in the police station. So the advocates are there with you while you give your statement and information to the police. The advocates are there for you and will help prevent police from strong arming you into something or mishandling your cas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 12:24 AM |
| 3 | I sent a booty pic and he took a screenshot without my consent. What the hell?Don’t send pictures to guys that you wouldn’t want your family, friends, classmates or coworkers to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Advice pleaseIf he has “lvm problems,” leave him. He’s not worth your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:52 PM |
| 3 | "... go for a walk..."Tell him “No” or you can just block him if you want. A walk is so low effort and he isn’t even paying anything so there is no real effort on his side to prove he really values your time. Not only that a walk doesn’t even sound that fun especially since you have to find a way to socially distance yourself due to Covid-19. Don’t but yourself at risk of a disease for a guy you just met. Or any guy for that matter. This also applies for any STIs/STDs or any other viral/bacterial infections. You and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Guy seemed interested at first but now feels like he’s slow fading me. Is he still into me?If he’s into you he will make it known and you will have no question as to whether he is into you. If you have to question whether he is into you then he isn’t truly into you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 01:56 AM |
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