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Question For WomenUnjustlyBannedTime10/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:17 AM
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I'm honestly sometimes disturbed by the influence this sub has on me. IRL, I'm a very amicable, humorous and socially liberal guy, but here I turn into spiteful, resentful and tradcon Manospherian. It's kinda scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:48 PM
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Could you just affirm to me that women are the ones who set the rules of sexual engagement and let us be done with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:41 PM
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I’m not sure why you think it’s on women to work against their own hormones when men could instead work with their hormones so everyone’s having a good time I am not saying women should be pressured into having sex when they do not want to, but why do women get to have sex whenever they want to, while men have to adapt to their moods? You claim mutualism, but I only see one-sided rulemaking which the other side has to obey.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:17 PM
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I mean, from you post, it sounds like spontaneous action is pretty nonexistent and he has to carefully adapt to your hormonal moods. He can't really have sex when he wants, but has to orient himself when you want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:51 PM
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I get it. Sounds quite unfair to your spouse, but I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:11 PM
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I feel like most men don’t understand this… but if they did, and worked with women’s cycles, they’d have a lot more satisfying sex lives. So men should wait and only have sex with women when they are ovulating?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:05 AM
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Ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:36 PM
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Also it would be like if in a couple a woman was sure she didn’t want children so She could just demand her partner get a vasectomy If he refused and got her pregnant in this case, he ought to have the sole custody of the child, while mother runs free.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:51 PM
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Except that mother can choose to keep the child and subject the father to two decades of child support, or even child-rearing. Why can't men demand that women undergo abortion if they do not want a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:40 PM
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You are correct. Men who refuse to adapt to women's standards will die alone and without offsprings, while men who do will have children to pass their ideals to. The unfit men will eventually get bred out of the genepool and fit men will become dominant ones. Pure natural selection, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:36 PM
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As can she, but she chose otherwise and got pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:11 PM
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This is not going to happen, or at least not any time soon. The Patriarchy's roots are deep and men are socialised to absolutely despise anything that isn't pure power and testosterone as "womanly" and thus "shameful" and "inferior". Just look at all the entire Manosphere; nothing but extremist backlash against feminism and liberation under excuse that it's "ruining masculinity and making men weaklings".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:10 PM
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Mutually nerding out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:04 PM
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I did not, mainly because I had too much work struggling with depression, loneliness and sometimes even suicidal thoughts to worry about chasing girls. Once I put some thought into it and informed myself a bit more, I think I've always known that women like Chad, i.e. handsome and masculine man, over a pudgy, awkward and acne-ridden kid such as myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:02 PM
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Cruel and cold, but ultimately truthful. The weak will be bred out of the genepool, which is a good thing for the strength of our bloodlines. We may as well have a population of the Chad majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:07 PM
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Women have lesser interest in sex than men on average, so you have nothing to worry. However, do not go into a relationship if you do not really want it, or else it will turn disastrous. If you feel fine being single, stay that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:03 AM
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Whatever you say, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:43 PM
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I just do not see that investment returning profits. Why would I break my back for a woman if I do not have at least a reasonable estimate she will do the same for me? Why should I wine and dine her, go out of my way to make her comfortable and happy and just put my effort and money into her if I am either going to get rejected or finish inside a betabux relationship? Why should I treat a woman like a queen if I won't be treated like a king in return? Why is she owed my everything while I'm owed…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:12 PM
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Look at the guys in this sub. If they would just give themselves a little more credit than “I’m subhuman trash” they would do a lot better. I mean, they do give themselves a lot more credit, to the point women find them utterly unreasonable. What you are talking about are incels. People who act like they belong in a space get treated like they belong in the space. People who behave like a viable dating prospect get treated like a viable dating prospect. I get what you mean and there is truth in …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:55 PM
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Even if you suck as a potential partner, if you carry yourself like you’re awesome—and expect awesomeness from others—then hey, maybe you’ll get lucky and outkick your coverage I'm afraid this is something that works only if you are a woman, as does the rest of your post. No matter how arrogant a subpar man is, he will never get a high-value woman drooling over him as will a self-assured subpar woman, because men's value depends on myriads of things. He needs a lot more than pure egotism in orde…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:06 PM
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We don’t need men, but we want men. Desperately. This is a lie. Men are optional to women and women can live just as fine without them, often happier and more well-adjusted than when married or in a relationship. Only desperate women are those far below average as to appear inhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:53 PM
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so when the power cuts out and won’t turn on, heating stops working, food supply ends, manufacturing, emergency services, transportation and general social infrastructure stop working… women would be completely fine? I have no idea why you seem intent on believing women wouldn't be able to fix any of these things? Just like dating, women do not pursue because they do not want to , not because they cannot. Why would any woman want to do dirty work when she has a legion of simps to do it for her? …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:50 PM
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Honestly. If all men were to die, most women wouldn't give a flying fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:05 AM
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I know being seen as the active role can get exhausting but if I choose every girl I ask out, even if 99 of them say no, the 1 who says yes will be one I know I like. I really fail to see how do you view this as a good deal. You spend energy and money to woo (or at least ask out) 100 women and only one responds to it, and you have absolutely no guarantee it will actually blossom into anything, so you can quite easily be put back on the square one. All that money and energy, wasted on nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:23 AM
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So, if you date a piece of shit because you feel this is the best you can do then don't complain about it or make it everyone's problem because you were that desperate to get with someone that you'd fuck/date/marry a piece of shit. Have more self-respect for yourself. It's easy to have self-respect when you know you're desired and wanted, something average men aren't. They take what they can get, which usually is nothing to brag about. I have a very high sex drive and typically have to get mysel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:31 PM
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My father? Likely not much. My mother? I'm now interested only into Chadettes who are bigger than me, assertive and will keep me safe and cuddled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:35 PM
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I have two of them and none is getting laid (granted, one is a devout Muslim, so he can't). I know a handful of other guys and only two of them have girlfriends and get laid regularly. The rest does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:41 PM
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Dude, this isn't happening, in what reality are you living in? An average guy can't get easily laid, he needs to put in some heavy work regarding everything, from his look to his personality and behavior. No, men aren't just making a Tinder profile and getting laid within a day, it doesn't work like that and it never has. Most men on Tinder aren't getting any matches at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:32 PM
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It's hard not to turn sex down when you want it, but get it only once in a blue moon. Men cannot afford to be picky or they'll never have sex in the first place. They have to make do with what they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:22 PM
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Massively true and not something Manospherians want to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:43 PM
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Women absolutely are the gatekeepers of both sex and the relationship because 1) they have all the power of sexual selection and are free to put forth whatever standards they want and pick and choose men in accordance to them, while men have to adapt to them and put active effort into being selected and 2) modern women do not need sex and relationship as much as men, as both their libidoes and happiness are lower in a relationship than men's. They are do not remarry as much as men and can derive…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:01 PM
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Men do have options though. They just may not like them, be physically attracted to them, or otherwise want those options so they don't see them. But they're out there Sure they do, they just have to break their backs pining for them and then break their backs trying to keep them, because if their 1:1000 chance for a relationship leave them, there likely won't be a second chance. Women, on the other hand, just have to pick and choose the best, as there will always be someone better. The populati…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:41 AM
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Yes, there are options (just as there are for literally every man regardless of what men say) but many of those options are simply worse than staying single. Finding a relationship is not the same thing as finding a fulfilling relationship. Again, the onus is on women here. You are single because you don't like the options. Men are single because they do not have the options. many of my female friends struggle to find guys that can carry a conversation much less engage in a meaningful relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:29 AM
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Women want relationships. Men are selective about who they want relationships with, and so women won't get them. Women just have to deal with it. No, they don't. Women can find a fulfilling relationship ten times easier than men can, they just need to select and vet from the pool of the willing men, while men have to put in effort to be selected. This isn't a comparable situation at all, because all the power and option rests upon women. They don't date only because they don't want to. If they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:16 AM
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What are you actually talking about? All I've said is that men get pissy when women who were sexual in past relationships don't want to be as sexual with them. Why are you latching on the word "kink"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:37 PM
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Uhh... What makes it worse is that some women will have that phase where they would have those hookups with guys like that, where there is no filtering and he really doesn't need to act kind at all as long. But the moment that the women grow tired of guys like that, they'll decide to put up a barrier when they start dating, letting genuine respectful guys know that "I don't do hookups, so don't expect anything until I get to know you better".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:09 PM
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Because instincts are unconscious and simple, while the Patriarchy is subconscious (can be influenced by conscious will) and complex. It arises from the observation and inductive reasoning, not out of innate biological inclinations. Fearing spiders is instinctual, constructing a complex society in which the spiders are systematically opressed and controlled is not instinctual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:58 PM
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You are either getting a lot of sex from a lot of hot women. Or you are reduced to either being forced to marry a woman they are not attracted to OR one that’s just using them and cheating on them. This is exactly it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:52 PM
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How so? Don't men here moan about women not wanting to do kinky stuff with them like anal and deepthroating, even though they have done it multiple times in the past, with her argument being that "she is more mature now and wishes for something more meaningful and romantic"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:42 PM
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Ok, so just for the sake of argument, what’s keeping “rich simps” from not paring off with “non carosel riding women” during the time they are all busy doing that? Because they believe every woman rides the Cock Carousel. If they don't, then they logically have to be abysmally ugly. women” during the time they are all busy doing that? Like what’s stopping them from saying “no thank you. I am dating a wonderful girl who likes doing puzzles with me!” Because they don't care about the wonderful gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:41 PM
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I think OP wants to say is that men get extremely resentful and envious when the women who had very kinky past refuse to include them into it. They have problem with "sluts" only when those sluts refuse to be sluts for them. They feel emasculated and insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:36 PM
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I wonder where that instinct comes from It's not an instinct, it's the Patriarchy. Men admire men who sleep with lots of women and hate women who sleep with lots of men, therefore they use their power in the society to promote this vision as the correct one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:32 PM
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According to the Manospherians, women go through a period called the "Cock Carousel", where they fuck Chads to their hearts content during their best years, but once they start getting older, they start hunting for socially awkward rich simps (which they subconsciously consider themselves as) that will be their sugardaddies. They will then exploit these poor souls for money and status so they can continue fucking Chads while having rich and doting spouses at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:27 PM
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I do not think Manospherians believe that women can sexually use a man in the same way a man can sexually use a woman. Any kind of heterosexual sex is always a massive win for a man and a massive loss for a woman. Also, I do think they believe every woman is in love with every man she hooks up with, because they do not believe women can separate sex from love as men can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:22 PM
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No, Blackpill is lookism, my pill is Darwinism. A Chad that doesn't behave in the way that is considered attractive will fall behind a normie that does, because the normie adapted to the standards, while the Chad didn't. It isn't about the immutability of the genetics, but the inability of men to have any say in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:49 PM
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If you cannot adapt, you will die alone and there is nothing you can do about it. That is called natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:44 PM
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If you don't like it, you will remain alone forever. It is cruel and unfair, but so is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:39 PM
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In a way, but not biodeterministic like incels use it. The point is that men have only two options; adapt to women's standards or die alone. The standards need not be "GigaChad only" and can be "normie geek", but regardless of it, men have zero say in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:28 PM
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I see men left and right here complaining about women's standards, how they will "go their own way" because of them being unrealistic and how they hope to change the dating market through their displeasure. My good fellas, allow me to feed you a particular kind of pill; your opinions, standards and "activism" are absolutely irrelevant, because you are not the ones who have any kind of power in dating. You are not the ones other compete for and you are not the ones who are doing the selection. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:15 PM
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The moment you start putting effort for a woman in order to get into a relationship / go on a romantic date or simply have sex with her is the moment where the relationship becomes transactional. You have to put effort into anything if you want it to flourish, be it a relationship or a hustle. Besides, at its reductive and oversimplified core, all relationships between humans are transactional in some way. The problem with transactional effort is that you can't negotiate female love or attractio…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:19 PM
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but I'm not about to gun for someone who I'm going to have to exert myself to keep. It doesn't have to be that way, so why would I? There's plenty of great and attractive men who have few or no one going after them! Unfortunately, this is an example just how differently men and women experience dating. There are no great and attractive women that aren't drowning in men and if men do not exert themselves to keep them, they will be replaced like a tissue paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:31 PM
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