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Unkl_Chng82/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 07:49 AM
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You need to renew your mind about relationship stuff. If a woman marries the short pot bellied guy , that woman is the winner. She and that man found a solid relationship and they're happy .
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 03:46 AM
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Thank you for this comment! I get annoyed when people treat "settling" as if it's a boobie prize. This is an excellent point that I couldn't put into words.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 03:14 AM
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I mentioned that it had nothing to do with the RP dating. Regardless of if it featured people whom you see as fowl, it still has a universal point.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 02:46 AM
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Didn't know about that stuff. I assumed that she knew of the negative side of MRA before she started.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 09:21 PM
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Thanks for watching it! I said in my initial post it wasn't about dating but it still has a good message.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 03:19 AM
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She wasn't brainwashed into anything. It was her choice to take on this subject. She had preconceived notions about an a group and decided to sit down ,hear them, and find understanding about them. Which lead to her changing her viewpoint. As a ExRedPill group that's what is expected of the men who consumed its content? Stop and reevaluate your views for something that is healthy.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 02:01 AM
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Actually no you should watch it. It's not about rp dating.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 08:56 PM
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Well how about this? I think the information in the red pill cab be helpful to men if it was communicated without the "misogyny " .
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 07:18 AM
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You most likely will be physically attracted to your future partner. Just don't make a relationship all about their looks and remember to be in love with who they are.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 06:11 PM
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Op does have a point. Ive seen the 80/20 used in church. It may not be exact in regards to dating but we do see it in life. I don't see why some are getting so hostile about it.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 04:34 PM
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Exactly my point! The big thing is that the negative creators are getting more traction on the algorithm. Making it hard to see those positive channels. The therapists I brought up earlier would require some self reflection and change, which is scarier and makes the content harder to consume. True but, that takes time for the viewer to get to that point to want to change. That's why I said it could be viewed a phase. Yes, in an insecure place this content is appealing because the viewer is in a …
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 02:55 PM
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Sure you can find those things in books and such but, it's the digital age and we consume more visual media. I get you don't like rp but the op is correct in moderation it's ok. I'll add this it's all in the lens of how you view that content. If you take it in manageable doses and have a support system to guide you through it you'll ok. However if you're viewing rp content from a place of hurt, angry, or jaded about negative traits in relationships the red pill becomes something toxic because yo…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 03:32 AM
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My big thing is if folks find these red pill videos so bad then why isn't anyone presenting an alternative for these men. At the end of day they're trying to understand how to have success with relationships.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 02:21 AM
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Here's some : Taking care of yourself, guarding your heart, don't worry about relationships, find joy in your passions, just because you faced alot of rejection doesn't mean you can't grow into a better person.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 02:19 AM
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It means women like men, have choice in who they form long term relationships with . We have options all around us.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 08:51 PM
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Longing for love
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 08:47 PM
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Look, don't overthink this. The Red Pill is basically that attraction/ relationships between male and females a isn't simple. Men and women can treat each other badly and as a male you have you strengthen yourself to deal with rejection, being dumped , or cheated on. If your overlooked by women as young man you still have hope as you grow in life and walk in confidence in yourself. For all the criticism RP gets that's basically what t means. With that no your not doomed to an existence alone bec…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 06:16 PM
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No one's broken beyond repair! You can change! Forgive yourself and others and change your mindset about life/dating. Let go of the bad experiences with women and embrace the truth that your still worthy of love and friendship. Go out and socialize without expectations . Give yourself time to heal and get free and soon you'll be in a better place. You're only 22, you still have alot of time before you. Also talk with some older Men that could bring some wisdom to your life.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/23 06:00 PM
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The HVM/LVM/Alpha/Beta rhetoric you have to take with a grain of salt. In real life the Policeman married to the Nurse is totally fine and no one is better than the other. Not everyone is going to be in the 1% financially but, you can do well in life if you work hard, choose a good career. , chase after your life goals, etc. The real answer is if you live life a life of integrity, character, and do your best to do the right things with others you'll be attractive to others. Yes also it can be se…
/r/ExRedPill27/10/23 04:32 PM
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Basically, first off forgive yourself for getting caught up. The other part is easy. Just say to yourself regardless of the statistics and other rp points you heard , forget about it and go on with your life. You have something to offer the world and to women. Be who you are and continue working on yourself.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 01:56 AM
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I don't think RP targets Autistic men. It's accessible to them because it's provides a simple way to view dating and dealing with relationships. You have to understand that the RP agents or Pick up artists show that they have had success with women. So if your having challenges relating to women you would start listening to them.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 05:04 PM
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Excellent post! Thank you for this!
/r/ExRedPill07/09/23 03:42 AM
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You hit the nail on the head. The Red Pill/MGTOW/Manosphere were born for other reasons but a big one was the growth of radical feminism. There's been an onslaught of articles and trends during the 2010s that bashed men. Men have been shamed, called toxic without a concrete definition , called unattractive for having average salaries, and called bad for being a " Nice guy" in some examples. At some point I knew the pendulum had(figuratively)swung as far to the "Left" and something was going to g…
/r/ExRedPill05/09/23 12:25 PM
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Have you sat down to talk with him about the rp stuff? I know you see good in him but, you should really talk with him about all of this. Also it's fair for you to analyze things in your relationship and if you see stuff going south then you need to make the tough decision to leave. Before you come to that conclusion though do your best to talk with him about the rp stuff, see where his head is, then if needed also try to seek a third party for counseling like a Pastor or someone else who could …
/r/ExRedPill28/08/23 11:48 PM
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No , just do your due diligence and seek legal counsel to make sure the terms are fair for the prenup for the both of you. You give your input because it's your prenuptial agreement too.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/23 11:42 PM
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I'll be the positive one and just say befriend him. You don't have to date him but, be a friend to him and talk him through the wrong thoughts. Yeah everyone else says just dump him, tell him to get help, etc. but, there's power in showing kindness. Even with his insecurities you can still bring truth. Eventually he'll be thinking more about the truth than the lies.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/23 01:41 AM
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The thing is if you want to have a healthy relationship your going to have to learn to trust women again. They're not all promiscuous and you want to find a lady who reflects your core values. If you see red flags don't deal with them.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 09:17 PM
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This a very good question. Honestly I was pondering the same thing. I don't think the TRP really harms women so much as it makes them nervous that men will look at them as an enemy or an object as in previous times. Or another fear is that TRP could lead young men into believing that they need to become an Alpha Jerk just to have relationships which isn't true. Also the consumption of RP/MGTOW content could lead Men straying away from long term relationships for just hookups. Someone brought up …
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 09:07 PM
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"The red pill didn’t make them abusive, the fact that they are abusive is what attracted them to the red pill" I disagree with this statement. Not all of the people who follow RP content are abusers. Some maybe but, many of them are just Men trying to rebuild themselves.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 08:14 PM
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Sir , just because you live with Aspergers doesn't mean you can't have a rich life with friends, family, and a spouse. I know a lady who is married to a man with Aspergers and they have 3 children. While it may be or seem challenging you just need to change your approach. Be open to making friendships with people who enjoy being around you. Try visiting group engagements or finding a supportive church that you can meet and make friends. Also stop saying your too ugly because your not. You can lo…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 11:42 PM
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Yes can and you most likely are.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 09:40 PM
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Thus is absolutely true! This isn't just for rp, incels , etc. . Women need to understand this too. Men and Women have many of the same heart desires but, they approach it differently.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 11:01 AM
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Who said they are aren't? Also then I have to ask where is your faith then?
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 01:08 AM
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I wouldn't give up trying in your own country just yet. You're still very young and you could still meet someone. However I heard women from foreign countries tend to be more traditional and tend to look at different qualities in men than women in the west. If any woman rejects you over your height they're obviously too shallow or immature to date anyone.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 01:05 AM
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Excuse me? What are you talking about?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 09:39 PM
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I wasn't into red pill stuff either but I got into it later during the popularity of Kevin Samuel's. The point where I got sick of it was when Fresh and Fit got outed as using their platform to pick up women as well as Rollo Tomassi's stupid twitter post about high value men getting their tubes tied and him not explaining what he meant by the post. Also, my Christian beliefs conflicted with the theories of the red pill. I never agreed with cheating or promiscuity. Even the idea of the Alpha male…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 03:00 PM
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I was shocked by the news! ABA was right! Unfortunately F&F brought it on themselves making those racist jokes about Aba and Preach. They thought they were unstoppable but, karma was coming.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 01:26 PM
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They feel attacked because they're making a broad assumption about a whole sex of people based off what Some guys did. The majority of men have not done those toxic behaviors.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/23 06:06 PM
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👏👏👏👏
/r/ExRedPill17/08/23 05:59 PM
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Why do you feel like men are going to kill or rape you?
/r/ExRedPill17/08/23 05:57 PM
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Your absolutely correct. This is one of my points I bring up that fresh and fit are wrong about. Much of what they're saying maybe true in Miami but not in small town America. People act differently including women. I grew up in a small town in Northern California and met diverse couples that were happy.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/23 12:18 PM
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How did I derail or marginalize your answer? Your answer was fine but I'm just saying that the same goes for women. I apologize if I offended you and it wasn't my intention .
/r/ExRedPill16/08/23 12:07 PM
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Sure but, people need to clap back on misandrist posts because they are not helping anyone especially the women. As much as Red Pillers need to detox and heal, Radical Feminist women need to also see the light , come to terms with their anger/hatred of men, and heal. Hating on one sex isn't going solve issues in society.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/23 02:15 AM
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What you wrote goes the same for women.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/23 02:10 AM
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It's not too late to build that confidence. You can do within reason in the corporate world.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/23 02:07 AM
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Yes, your right thats why the creators use the term to describe bum dudes.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 09:51 PM
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Pokie and Ray Ray's are a term from the black community. It wasn't a red pill thing until black creators referred to it in the rp sphere.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 09:37 PM
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This is right here is the real rp cure.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 07:04 PM
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Actually that was from the P.O.A community.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 07:03 PM
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Loving oneself means knowing in your heart that you have value and are valued by others. It's not narcissistic but, it an inner confidence that doesn't allow itself to my broken by external forces. Because you love yourself you won't put up with others garbage.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 07:00 PM
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Yes..yes they do it happens all the time in the black community.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 06:53 PM
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I get that you want to refute rp points but I gotta keep it 100. There's truth to that old saying. They have another term called "Silver Foxes" for good looking older men. First off older men can pull young women because of their resources , stability, and experience. Look at celebrities like George Clooney, Edris Alba, Leonardo Dicaprio, heck even old rockstars like Mick Jagger dated younger women. This has been going on for a long time and it's not creepy at all. Also thus isn't exclusively a …
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 06:34 PM
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Your absolutely right. However to be fair that's not not just a red pill point. People have been saying the same in normal dating circles. Being shallow isn't exclusive to the red pill as it's a short coming of humans.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 12:58 PM
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No but RP has become an ideology thanks to the internet. Most of the points aren't new. People have been saying the same stuff for years.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 09:19 AM
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The red pill is a an analogy about the realities men face in the journey of dating. While we've seen the negatives of over consumption of red pill content/ideas there are some redeeming points . The red pill may have its issues but, it does teach men to value themselves, protect their hearts, encourages to better themselves, have or seek purpose, and to also have standards for yourself. I from what I've seen from this subreddit, there's alot of focus on the misogyny and negatives from men who ha…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 06:16 PM
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Again we could take what you just said and apply that with black women.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 07:58 PM
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Being unbiased , the responsibility is on both sides. Women need to hold accountability for their life choices and actions . There's plenty of men that are/want to be good partners/fathers but, they get over looked.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 07:55 PM
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We can make the same argument for black women as well.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 07:40 PM
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They end up like Pookie and Ray Ray because that's their point of reference on being a "man". Pokie and Ray Ray get lots of tail and have a bunch of babies out of wedlock. If you if you use low vibrations as your reference that's what you'll become.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 06:50 PM
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I would approach it this way, there's truth to some of the rp principles but, they're not the Bible when it comes to life experiences. Every human being ( male and female)is different as well as how they got into their long term relationships. You don't have to be an alpha male ,just be who you are and have values/principles that will attract what your looking for.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 06:41 PM
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