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Do you think that the same cannot be said, inversely about women and the kind of partners that they are likely to find?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:37 PM
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Why do you think you were attracted to maladjusted women? And what helped you overcome that? Just age, or was it anything in particular?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:25 PM
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Social media also presents falsehoods as reality. And there is no requirement to create a distinction for the observer or viewer. This is why social media is not used as anything other than anecdotal evidence AT BEST. And even then it’s not your firsthand experience and you have no way to quantify whether or not what the person is telling you, is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:55 PM
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How do you not learn over time with one partner? That doesn’t make sense to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:52 PM
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Why would the gap persist in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:48 PM
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Communicate on which end? I think both duh. But whose end are you speaking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:43 PM
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But imma lil confused. The orgasm gap is specific to casual dating? And how do men with no sexual partners, factor into a gap? Aren’t they not part of the data set?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:43 PM
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Nah, we women were just slaves instead. Being used as a means of production with no rights at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:20 AM
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Why does there need to be financial compensation? Compensation is different than a penalty. Is their some sort of incentive beside having to pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:00 PM
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And how does “freely made agreement” align with this comment/sentiment you just stated, on this very post? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:22 PM
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Birth rate crisis? We have enough people on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:19 PM
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Why would they lose their share? How does this work within household where the man isn’t the sole provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:18 PM
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And are you saying lesbians are less likely to have the issues you listed? Less likely to be non communicative Less likely to be self conscious More able to manage anxiety, distractions and mood? Ect?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:11 PM
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And how does one take responsibility for not having an orgasm during oral sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:16 PM
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Why is the “liking” content in parentheses? Do you mean something other than liking photos or thumbs up videos?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:28 PM
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Are you intentionally being obtuse or what? Bc I don’t want to waste my time explaining something to someone who is feigning confusion for the sake of being bad faith. Are you really trying to make the assertion that economics and finances do not greatly determine child outcome? One of the most defining and determining aspects?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:20 PM
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“I don’t know why so many women act like we can’t be in total control of the act” And where in this sentence is the promotion for being active? What in OPs post lead you to make this comment? I don’t see it as necessary unless there is also an undercurrent of personal responsibility, and therefore blame. Perhaps you can elaborate on that sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:13 PM
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“Everything women claim is experienced by very little percentage of women” Why did men get a long list of things that might contribute and you only put one or two things for women? Let’s look at conditions that can cause uncomfortable sex for women. Let’s see how little the percentages are. Baby blues affects between 50 to 80% of women Diagnosis of postpartum depression is 15 to 20%. Lifetime risk is 20% 25-40% of women have an anxiety disorder Women are 1.5 to 2 times more likely to experience …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:00 PM
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“Women can get on top” “ I don’t know why so many women act like we can’t be in total control of the act” Not language that leads me to believe you aren’t placing blame. Things don’t have to be explicitly said
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:49 PM
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Were you not aware of the fact that she was referencing the United States? Are most users of this sub, not from the United States? Women have also existed for longer than the United States has. Forced female labor for the benefit of a nation they weren’t even eligible for citizenship in, has existed for longer than the United States too. I am a descendant of those people Women have always had civic obligations Women’s conscription into national service is not a novel idea, it’s history. These th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:47 PM
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You’re assuming the only difference between single fathers and single mothers is the father’s presence. That’s false. Single fathers are substantially wealthier, less likely to be poor, and over twice as likely to be living with a partner. Until you control for those differences, you haven’t shown fathers are causing the outcome. You’ve only shown that children do better when a household has more money, more support, and greater stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:23 PM
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Single fathers are typically much financially advantaged than their single mother counterparts, last I checked by an average of 10k. (But it’s been a minute since I’ve looked). Single fathers also, often have women in the home. I believe somewhere around 40%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:07 PM
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Their claim was that men’s voting rights were never contingent on being drafted. You’re discussing something else. It’s only in the last 300 years and I’m being very generous, that this ideal has been challenged or dismantled. The United States is 249 years old… We’re talking about the US, not Ancient Rome so…. Funny, The last 300 years we’ve spent challenging and dismantling that “ideal”, serve the statement made by the other commenter. It’s a testament to it actually. I don’t really see how ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:01 PM
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Some. Some men too, but that one gets talked about a lot less
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:58 PM
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Many women have uncomfortable sec, and no, it’s not their fault. Vaginismus is not something “getting on top” would fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:56 PM
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Is the article written in a gendered way?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:28 PM
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Why on earth would the reason behind it be irrelevant? I don’t even understand how one could possibly assert that. If people start hanging out in groups that cause massive social issue, that’s obviously different to a chess club that’s restrictive with who joins. And obviously the reason behind banning one should/would be frowned upon. As it would be different than banning, say, an extremists group that get together to Molotov cocktail places and people they don’t like. Like… obviously the reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:11 PM
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Kind of wild how many people are confused about the plainly stated “or be ALONE” part in the title. Along with the sentence “or just be alone and have no relationship at all?” It’s actually kind of shocking/confusing how many people need a clarification that alone, no relationship at all means, no, you do not have a successful dating life. Did you add/edit those parts in after your initial posting, or were those tidbits there from the start??? Why are people so confused?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:56 PM
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Can you love someone/something and be repulsed by it? I sort of assumed/believe, no, right? I can’t think of what that situation would be or how that would be possible…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:49 PM
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Also. No mention of the other comments you’ve made. Just the first quote… Nothing about your mention of women’s “sway” towards assholes and the constant mentioning that women aren’t capable of knowing what it is that they actually like and or are attracted to. How they need to be taught, politicized, and moralized in their dating behavior (ironically whilst you also advocate for removing stigma and moralization away from how men interact with and date women.) Many of the times that you make ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:56 AM
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The context doesn’t change the sentiment. Which is that asshole good looking men, outcompete non asshole “good” men. This is a common thought. One you also have partook in. Are you saying that good looking asshole men do not outcompete non asshole men? Or are you saying that’s not what you or others have claimed in what I quoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:05 PM
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I see both quite frequently. Which one gets said depends on things like which social media platform I’m on, which subreddit, the prevailing ideology in those spaces, etc. The biggest determining factors seem to be relationship status and gender. This is what I’ve noticed across the internet, which is obviously biased on both of our parts because of algorithms. But it’s not really an anomaly, at least not for my feeds. “Nice guys finish last” is basically an earlier iteration of the same sentimen…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:19 PM
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What does your last paragraph mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:29 PM
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The only thing that is applicable to men as well was disease… and they are less likely to contract certain std than men. Namely the big ones like HIV. Males don’t get pregnant and have much higher rates of orgasm. Are you just talking about STDs or is there something else Missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:59 PM
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What a non-sequitur…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:56 PM
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So interesting! I see on this sub. Man in relationship = soon to be cheater if not already, asshole, bad guy, no positive traits beyond good looks. And single man = virtuous, kind, would never cheat bc he doesn’t have the opportunity to do so, but also could not possibly be an asshole, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:03 PM
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Where ever we start. It’s a long long ways away from kinky sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:39 PM
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Isn’t that what many already do as NEETs?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:17 PM
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Is this sympathy supposed to manifest in the dating market? Sympathy only does so much without action. Thoughts and prayers for plight men face, caused predominantly by other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:41 AM
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Not true at all. Everyone matters is the basic for things like human rights. No one should come up and stab you, because you inherently matter. That law being applicable to everyone else around you, doesn’t then nullify anything about you or anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:39 AM
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Their point is, we need to start aiming towards more than just sex. Men, women, society at large, we place alot of undo importance on sex, that great toll is burdensome and not helpful. We need to put our energy towards finding other ways to reach contentment, be that collectively or individually. We are highly adaptable, apex predators, with very creative and ridiculously powered minds. There are things we could be doing that help us all. But many of us are in some way or another, just on the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:56 PM
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Their claim is that all men matter and have worth, simply because they are human and all humans matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:51 PM
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Why does one need to shoot for anyone they don’t want? If they are content to be single, why can’t they shoot for it all, and if doesn’t happen, go back to a life in which they’d be content with? Why must they go for specific metrics set by those who are not them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:48 PM
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Okay but you said Yes yes, god forbid we actually try and discuss the issue instead of making hyperbolic martyrdom claims to dismiss everything we don't want to hear. As if you didn’t bring up nobility. They are responding in the same manner in which you commented. Commented first btw. When you do it, it’s a clear analogy to a privileged class. When someone else continues on, making their claims within the same frame work as you. Now, suddenly, it’s “hyperbolic martyrdom” used to dismiss what th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:46 PM
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Can you provide examples of what women are unwilling to provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:40 PM
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Can you give examples of utmost courtesy women demand, and the courtesy women claim men aren’t entitled to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:38 PM
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And what does this prove? I do not see the relation here. The claim is that women are not making demands. You said nor are the nobility, you don’t have to pay taxes. Someone said the nobility will enact violence against you if you do not pay, jail you, if you do not pay. Suicide is not the act of a woman killing a man, soooo??? Male homicide rates are high, because of male violence, they are the most likely perpetrators. Homelessness is not caused nor solved by women dating and or having sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:16 PM
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You brought up nobility and whatnot. Come on now… that one is on you dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 07:03 PM
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Is acknowledgment enough, or do you expect some sort of solution, in order for it to count as “not being ignored”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:59 PM
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So that would be internalized anti semitism. Considering internalized homophobia, internalized racism, internalized misogyny is a thing. I’d stand to argue internalized anti semitism is likely a phenomenon too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:44 PM
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Well, I don’t know about you, but before I was a nanny, I was a high risk birth, and postpartum Doula. I was partnered with a hospital and nonprofit who provide provided support to higher risk, often marginalized, pregnant people. We worked with women who had endured FGM at some point in their lives. These women often had to have specialized maternal care, postpartum care, and often had to have C-sections if there was no other option. This is due to the fact that giving birth after having had FG…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:29 PM
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Yes, I heard about this as I grew up around a large migrant Sudanese population, amongst others. My information on this is from someone who underwent FGM before immigration, so it’s only anecdotal. But isn’t that preference new and feminist adjacent in Sudan? With those men not being considered “traditional” men? Sudan also is one of the places that does the more extreme type of FGM and the men were/are generally displeased with how it effects their sex life, in regard to the women being resewn …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:32 PM
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What is the correlation to the west and Southeast Asia? Don’t we not even partake in FGM that much in the west? And never really have? The west is/was Christian, and Christian’s almost never partook in FGM, particularly in the west. And western societies have a really bad habit of seeing anything outside of their cultural and religious norms as barbaric. I assume, if FGM was religiously indicated in Christianity, then we would be mutilating female children too. But since it’s a hallmark of natio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:54 PM
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Who preforms the surgery doesn’t paint a picture as to why they are doing it and who the motivators are behind it. FGM is preformed most often by women, but you’d have to look at why it’s preformed, and why woman are the ones who do it. That like saying doctors care more about kids than their parents do, because doctors are the ones who preform and provide life saving care to critically injured children. Or like saying men don’t care about their wives and children because globally midwives deliv…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:20 PM
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Are you saying the Jewish and Muslims have internalized anti-Semitic behaviors? Or are you saying something else I’m missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:12 PM
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Can you post the stats for male circumcision deaths and FGM rates, because everything that I’ve looked up says that FGM is significantly more deadly than male circumcision. But I want to be sure and read the stats you’ve given. Because they don’t seem to have stats for FGM rates in the the us, just male circumcision, and then go global data, it just suggest FGM is far deadlier, With it being a leading cause of death in countries where the practice is common. I just wanna know how you deduced the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:09 PM
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You don’t think they are referencing the medical conditions and complications that arise being more commons and physically devastating with FGM? You think they are talking about morally which one is worse to do to which gender? Not the outcomes of the procedures themselves, being much worse for one than the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:32 PM
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The post says 99% women deciding. The refutation was to that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:28 PM
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In fact you proved their argument. Them: why do yall keep complaining about something most of yall don’t even do? Women pay too, yall aren’t sole providers Them: I know right, even the teens complain about sole providing, it’s something they can’t therefore don’t do, yet they are complaining. It doesn’t even apply to them. They’re just bitching. Complaining for complaining sake, because they aren’t the sole providers for even themselves or a singular evening date. You: why can’t the girl pay or …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:00 PM
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She said I know right. In response to someone saying providing is rare now a days. Already implying women pay for and or split much more than just the first date. And she saying yeah, and kids don’t even have the ability to provide yet they are the loudest ones. Their comments boil down to. Why are men, even teen boys, so concerned with providing, when it’s not even common anymore. And somehow you took them saying, that men paying for things by their lonesome, is not as common, and boys couldn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:49 AM
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How would after 1 coffee date, would I know he always agreed with me in the beginning? Beginning of what? Our very first in person conversation? How long are these coffee dates. Mine have been like an hour and a half, 2 hours, MAX and most of the time were just talking about our respective lives as seeing if they mesh with each others. I’m not laying down strong opinion, I’m asking things like “what are your favorite things to do,” do you like to try new foods ect. Not much for them to show dark…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:45 AM
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That still doesn’t address or explain how or why, you assumed the other person specifically is saying or implying that the girl can’t buy dinner or split the cost…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:13 PM
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Many many people, particularly in online dating, want to meet up for a low cost and effort interaction immediately. Particularly men, as they find that they get caught in endlessly talking and never actually going out. Many times I have been asked out on a date at first interaction. More often than not, when someone has romantic interests. The date is where people make their assessments. Outside of that it’s just texting online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 08:12 PM
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Why would someone saying teens who are far from being in a position to even have these sorts of things be applicable to them, yet they are the ones complaining. Lead you to assume that then means the girl can’t buy or split dinner costs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:15 PM
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How does one encounter these traits BEFORE a first date? It’s a FIRST date. And you literally said “completely agrees with you” (at first). Sooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:05 PM
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Yes, but that’s not a crime, nor is being an idiot a crime, you didn’t harm and or deprive anyone of anything that was rightfully there’s. Robbing people’s houses, even if their door unlocked is a crime and does harm and or deprive someone of what was rightfully there’s. But I think you already knew this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:59 PM
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Mal in se and mens rea, are at the cornerstone of how we make distinctions in deciding degree and subsequently charging, degrees of criminality. It’s literally the one of the FIRST things learned in criminal justice. It absolutely is fundamentally different. Yes psychosis is real, It’s been documented throughout history, without a violent pretense. What you think/feel matters none. Mala in se and mens rea as concept and practice, have been around for centuries/millennia
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:50 PM
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That wasn’t their point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:41 PM
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It’s not an invasion if you consent and if consent is required, then your interest, no, is not enough. Their consent is just as, if not more important
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:02 PM
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What is the other side doing wrong? What behaviors?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:54 PM
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Wdym by “natural”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:49 PM
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Why does it needed to be examined? Most People are monogamous and won’t be with most of the people they swipe on anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:27 PM
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How does this apply to dating and only to women but not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 06:15 PM
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Why do so many always say 20%, and not, 15% or 25% or 30%. Is there data? Why is it always 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:15 PM
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Stats on these non rare kidney thefts? And rates of false accusation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:59 PM
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I was refusing that they thought they were creepy because they were unattractive so as long as you’re aware of that, we’re good 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 07:59 PM
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If you’re aware of that, why would you say it’s they think they are creepy bc they are unattractive? If you know, many of these women’s experiences, and conclusions based on said experiences, weren’t looks based?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:44 PM
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Yes, I agree with this, and I think there’s an added layer to it that people don’t really talk about. Gen Z women may even see themselves as younger than women in previous generations did at the same age. You see it in the language and culture. “I’m just a girl,” nostalgia-core, the whole idea of “adulting” as if being an adult is something you’re acting out rather than something you just are. Like it’s almost framed as LARPing instead of a natural life stage. Although it’s not gender dependent.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:40 PM
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Many Gen Z women’s first experiences with older men were online. When they didn’t even really know what the older man looked like. Physical attractiveness is not as much of a factor as you think it is here. Rampant exploitation online of younger women by older men was/is a hallmark of the younger generations. Making them EXTREMELY apprehensive. You could be hot as hell, and if you are talking with younger women, significantly younger women, many people are gonna find you creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 06:21 PM
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Lazy and flaky, is different than being shallow. And you’re never supposed to treat anyone with flakiness, regardless of how they look regardless of whether your male or female. It is not women’s fault that men are lenient on shitty behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:44 PM
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I have never heard this sentiment espoused women. And either way, why would the woman be ripped off? You didn’t explain anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:51 PM
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I still don’t understand how you’ve been ripped off? You have to have to be entitled to something first, before one can be ripped off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:15 PM
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That doesn’t make them any less lazy as people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:49 PM
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Yes, of course they would, if they are lazy and flaky that’s just who they are. You could ask a jobless unemployed hack to be somewhere the next day, bright and early for $20 million. The people who would rush out to come and get the money aren’t any less lazy than they were before. If anything, at best, they are less lazy then the men who would show up late, even with an offer of $20 million on the line. But those men are still lazy even if they go out and get the money. Because they themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:47 PM
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I do not understand your first sentence? What is the correlation between people being lazy and how cute lemon gecko is? I don’t get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:33 PM
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Interesting take. I always assumed most of the men on this sub were single and neurodivergent and have never had partners before, but I could be wrong. Maybe we should do a survey of the demo of the sub. Has there been one before for me to reference? That last one was not just a question for you. It was for anyone traipsing through the comment section who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:31 PM
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Ripped off? How are the men ripped off?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:13 PM
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First sentence alone is crazy. In a time of no Birth control. The conscious choice to have kids was null and void.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:08 AM
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Happy to provide sources for my claims. I wouldn’t want to add gobbledygook to a conversation!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:59 AM
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I’m back with some male and female sterilization stats. Sorry for the delay. I work long hours. Men and women over 30 report about the same regret rates. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35115436/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9476225/#:~:text=Typically%2C%20most%20males%20who%20have,extraction%20for%20in%20vitro%20fertilization. There are more in-depth studies going into what I was talking about at greater length but this is just a start
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:30 PM
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Women have been saying what about men before ai? I’m Confused. My statement was that men talk about ai sex robots to replace male sexlessness. You said women have been saying that about men long before ai. Women aren’t in a sexless epidemic. So I’m not sure what it is you are claiming. I did not apply a double standard. You said “imagine, if the roles were reversed” I said we don’t have to imagine. It seemed cut and dry to me. Guess not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:48 PM
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I mean, we don’t have to imagine a man saying that, it’s on this subreddit in volume. Just look up AI girlfriend in this sub. It’s a whole lot of “once full service ai sex robots with wombs are available, we will have no need for women anymore”. I’m sure I can dig up posts and comments. We don’t need to imagine a reverse. It’s quite ubiquitous here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:32 PM
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All the AI gf posts. Imply and or say this exact same thing. They don’t get banned, not usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:17 PM
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All the AI girlfriend posts are exactly what you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:15 PM
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Men CAN mask
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:22 PM
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Yes, it’s very very weird and gives me a Birds Eye view to a lot of the talking points in these discussions. My work, which has historically been women’s work, is very visible. But simply ignored. However, let’s say I assume my newborn care specialist role. Then I make 15-24k a month getting up at night with an infant. I am in a unique position, to see and know the cost of outsourced women’s work. I’m the person you hire when the women at home, can’t/wont/can afford to, not do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:22 AM
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What kinds of men? Men who cheat and or have personal issues? What parts of people being different behind closed doors, only judging off of photos, texts and curated highlights, having personal issues ect, does not apply to men as well, and how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 10:20 PM
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How would the awkward mannerisms reveal that he’s a cheater or takes psych meds? are women exempt from being awkward?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 10:10 PM
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The first was quite literally a question, not an opinion… 🫩. I am a nanny, I make 1350 a week, if I take off for a week, did I lose money? It’s really that simple of a question, I understand you’re trying to skirt the obvious, which is yes. If a man takes off work unpaid, and stays home, he in fact lost out on money. If I take off I lose out on 1350. Unless my allowance was minimum, $1351 a week, I’d be losing money, I didn’t make 2x money… math quite literally doesn’t work that way. If you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 05:10 PM
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Are you trolling with some of the nonsense you are saying? If you take unpaid pto at your job, instead of working that week, did you miss out on income or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:41 PM
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I don’t necessarily disagree at the offset. Work at home is very easy to ignore? But could you elaborate more on the ideology? Like where do you think it stems from? I think because it’s “woman’s work”, that alone makes it ideologically invisible. But is that all there is to it? How is it ideologically easier to ignore, than say, a chef at a restaurant, whom doesn’t come out to greet the guests? Do you think they compare? Is it all works of service? Like does this apply to healthcare? I’m a nann…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:33 PM
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At work but i will def dig up some research on my free time. Vasectomies arent actually reversible most of the time, despite public sentiment consistently suggesting otherwise. And post vasectomy pain syndrome isn’t all that uncommon. Sex education is really poor, damn near worldwide, leading doctors to be apprehensive to do elective permanent procedures of all kinds. For a myriad of valid and very invalid reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:01 PM
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Oh yes, I know many that can’t get hysterectomies. I was asking about these apparent scores of women who regret their procedures. Any that I know that have “regret”, regret not being informed about the various kinds of sterilization and the risks associated with them. Not the sterilization in and of itself. If that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:44 AM
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I have never seen evidence that suggests this. Is there any? I am typically averse to suggesting thinks like full hysterectomies to women, because some do regret the choice to do a full hysterectomy. But I have always heard that it’s because they immediately go into menopause, and that takes a hard toll on the body. Partial hysterectomies and tubal ligations. Have been evidenced to have lower rates of adverse outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:08 PM
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In your opinion/experience, how do they differ? I ask because in many ways, I agree with you. I am just unable to quantify what those differences are, and I wonder if they are the same for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:05 PM
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Accept they can go in and edit the rules, so Reddit has decided they are able to change the rules whenever they liked. Just as no one forced them to create the sub “before they thought it all through” (you don’t even know if the mods/admin that started the sub are still the ones actively running it, MANY subs go through mod and admin changes), you cannot force them to keep the same rules. Very simply, they have the ability to change the rules. End of. You just don’t like that. You don’t decide t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:20 AM
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What is it that they will sow? As Reddit mods?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:05 AM
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How do you know you don’t want to read it, before reading it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:02 AM
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There’s no “issue”. It’s just not the place to go for general dog content anymore, it’s all about breeding and purchasing puppies. The subs content changed. That’s all. Sure it’s still dog related. But no one would use it for anything other than breeding purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 11:58 PM
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Maybe it’s too bad for the people endlessly wanting to vent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 11:56 PM
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Can you give an example of false hope? And that sucks for drink, drinks at my local club are $4-6. And I live on the east coast. What kind of drinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 11:53 PM
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No, no one in this comment thread said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 05:35 PM
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You are allowed to leave. You are not nor do I see why,one had to stick it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 05:01 PM
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No one said it makes them better. It was a direct rebuttal to a claim made by a commenter. Kinda weird
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 04:54 PM
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That is seen as weakness? I’m still confused. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:53 PM
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Wait, do men have sexual principles beyond dopamine and wet dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:06 PM
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Sorry I’m a bit lost on the weak part? Where is the perceived weakness stemming from? External (other, society, peers, ect) or internal (inside thoughts). And where do you think that comes from? Meaning, what is the driving force leading men to see weakness in this regard?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:52 PM
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Are you implying that what the person said above (unstablehotspot), isn’t true?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:57 PM
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Huh? Why’d you take that route?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:03 PM
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I agree, that’s why I’m asking the context in which people are saying this. That looks don’t matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:02 PM
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What do you mean, what am I taking about, I’m asking where you got the idea that women above average penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:27 PM
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Where does this large penis thing come from. I have never met or even seen a size queen outside of porn? Average sized penises are okay for the overwhelming majority of women. No? You think otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:49 PM
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This is confusing to me. Bc doesn’t everyone want an attractive partner? That’s the whole point of attraction, people are drawn to you, gravitate towards you. Does it need to be said? And or, are people saying they DONT want attractive partners, just good and kind? That looks don’t matter at all? Or are they claiming it doesn’t matter as much as others are saying it does? That would make sense to me, and would make sense for debate. But anyone suggesting looks don’t matter at all, are blind, imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:48 PM
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Kinda weird they’d wanna procreate with women of not great quality. Intentionally procreate or it just so happens to result in a child? And even so, I have a hard time believing anyone would want to procreate so badly, they no longer care about the quality of the person they are making children with. That goes for either gender. On purpose? Kind shitty no? For the kids? And honestly all parties involved? Maybe im confused, do you mean sex, or specifically procreation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:33 PM
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Wait, I’m kind of being funny, but I’m mainly being deadly serious. How do any of you know which are the side chicks, which is the gf, and which are the situationships? Particularly if one of them comes in AFTER he’s already with the others? Like how does one acquire the side chick, before the main girlfriend? Was someone demoted? Someone promoted from situation ship to girlfriend? What the difference between the 3 (side, main and situation)? Im just confused how you have a side chick first and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:29 PM
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This isn’t exactly related, but in my mind it is. I remember being in high school when a guy turned to me and asked, “Do things fall on the floor just outside your reach?” I’d never spoken to him before, but I said, “Yeah, that happens to me. Why?” And he goes, “Weird, me too. My arms are way longer than yours. Is there a conspiracy against us?” It was funny. A little dumb. But also… it genuinely blew my mind. Because it made me realize something simple and unsettling. Things fall just out of re…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:06 PM
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The study just doesn’t say what they are saying it does. Do you want me to lie? And what makes you think I can’t read the entire thread and don’t have context??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:17 PM
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I didn’t ask for a source. One was already provided… but either way, ain’t this you, in this sub, asking for a source? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:04 PM
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People come with all kinds of baggage. I don’t see how that’s any different from someone who has other large baggage like illness or something
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:17 PM
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Okay so no data. Just extrapolation. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:15 PM
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How so? If they are choosing to be single?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:37 PM
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But the data doesn’t conclude anything about pickiness.. That’s just extrapolation on your end.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:14 PM
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Aren’t all people dating and sleeping with the people available for them to choose from? I’m confused? What makes single moms a special case? Everyone is only dating from the pool of people available to them. Their options, and whatnot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:12 PM
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Aren’t all people dating and sleeping with the best of what they can get? I’m confused? What makes single moms a special case? Everyone is only dating from the pool of people available to them. Their options, and whatnot? Like most people would choose the very best, perfect person, if they could? Men and women alike?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:07 PM
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Why the emphasis on typical? What does that even mean? Around the same age as her? Or the age she typically gravitates towards?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:06 PM
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So known for destroying that? Sources? I would like evidence that parents putting their children first destroys things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:04 PM
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Well children should be parents first priority? As the children cannot fend for or rear themselves. You can absolutely prioritize your child(ren). That doesn’t mean forsaking all else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:07 PM
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It is really unfortunate. I also feel like people who say things like this are selling themselves short. They portray themselves as if they are wild, undomesticated animals who cannot overcome basic impulses and urges. Human beings are supposed to be the mightiest creatures to have ever walked the earth. Not because of unmatched strength or speed like other animals, but because of the sheer power of our minds and our will. We send people to the moon and fly through the sky. We can live, breathe,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:03 PM
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You don’t think women keep the world working?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:36 PM
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Vasectomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 04:40 PM
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The same argument applies to taxes. Which also effect everyone. Women can be on child support and be beholden to the same rules… I’m not seeing the removal of bodily autonomy. Just don’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 04:38 PM
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This study doesn’t adjust for pickiness or anything like that. It just looks at long term cohabitation trends in Spain
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:39 PM
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What do you feel if the likelihood of meeting an average guy, who still doesn’t want to commit? Do you feel like it’s still a gamble or does it feel highly probable to work in op/or any other woman’s, favor?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:36 PM
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How does one vett a man lying about being serious on the first date? What am I supposed to do other than hold out for a long time sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:54 PM
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That’s such a sad reality. I thought everyone knew. The bean is the center of all things orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:45 PM
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Literally none of my sex toys are phallocentric… a good chunk of sex toys are for the clitoris, and no penetration or thoughts of penis are involved. Where are you getting this penis thing, and how did you assume they want bigger penis, as opposed to literally anything else? And where the heck did the act of comparing partners to previous men come from? How the heck do sex toys mean these things. Like seriously. Where are you getting this??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:56 PM
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No. It devalues the graph
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:20 PM
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There is a wage gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:12 PM
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In dating and relationships. Women do have an increased risk of death. Period. This is factually true. Lesbians are still women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:12 PM
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Increased risk of death Pregnancy Being used for sex Increased risk of violence Increased risk of std contraction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:30 PM
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Yall just put many different captions on the same graph. Kinda does devalue the graph.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:28 PM
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Exactly this. “I heard on tiktok that all women listen to tiktok and how dare they. Stupid wamen”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:26 PM
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But to act like it’s confusing that you calling the person delusional, whilst still presenting evidence that affirms their ultimate point, is going to make you unpalatable. That’s delusional in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:21 PM
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Oh you’d for sure be blocked and wouldn’t get another date. Bc my reply would be “oh so there’s still a wage gap?”. Who “well actually 🤓👆” just to still affirm there is evidence that concludes a pay gap? Gives red pill manosphere man who listens to Jordan Peterson. And all those men get the boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:18 PM
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What about in long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:14 PM
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And all men are only here bc of the literal hard labor and mercy of a woman. You are welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 07:07 PM
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<image> Cognitive dissonance in action. What the heck is that last sentence I highlighted, if not bashing? Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:09 PM
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And status is not vague?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:30 PM
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But what’s ruined when sexual gaze happens. And what of the doc is enjoying it too. And you don’t know. What has been ruined? No one has clarified.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 03:50 PM
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I’m lost. What about being seen, ruins her? Just the mere glance from the eye of a man can tarnish and ruin a woman? Or is it something else? I feel like my parents would be upset if I was porn star sleeping with many men. But they wouldn’t be nearly as bothered by me doing solo content, or even content with other women. So I don’t have the same experience/context as you. If a girl sends a video of herself, and herself alone, and no one has ever touched her. What’s ruined? She could still be a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:47 PM
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And what is ruining her in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:14 AM
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Is the woman ruined if she only films solo content?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:25 PM
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What do you mean “correctly regulating” ? Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:41 PM
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“Strange minorities”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:25 AM
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When you say surface level. Do you mean, simply existing in a society? Ir do you mean anything beyond “hi and bye”, “thank you and you’re welcome”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:53 PM
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Isn’t the average man pretty devoid of human interaction. Empirically speaking 18-30yo men? I don’t remember the stats
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:44 PM
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Men are beasts?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:10 PM
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So nothing to back up your claims? Or are your examples, sources, and citations just flimsy and tenuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:04 PM
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What cash and prizes are you speaking of? Example and Sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:31 PM
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No women by and large are not gold diggers at every income level. How does one pretend to be a good spouse? Either they are or they aren’t. And how does one quantify this pretending, since it’s so quantifiable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:27 PM
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I think perhaps you’re getting a little lost in the fervor of your point. Very few people, if anyone, is BEFRIENDING someone to get into their bank account. And where the few exceptions exist, they certainly are not going for anyone who makes anywhere near an average salary. If you are referring to “gold diggers”, they are not trying to befriend people, they are trying to legally enmesh themselves with copious amounts of other people’s wealth, typically via marriage. A man making 80k a year, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:17 PM
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People in this sub always randomly assert that others have conceded when they have not. And then label themselves the winner of a debate someone chose to not partake in. Very autistic behavior, black and white thinking. They disengaged bc of your unsportsmanlike behavior, as I would have too. No one conceded. You haven’t won anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:37 PM
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Yeah I stopped reading after that first sentence too. Who tf do they think they are lmaooo. The arrogance was wild and from left field. They need to pipe down
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:40 PM
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What are the stats on homicides? Who is a woman most likely to be murdered by? What percentage of rapists are male?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:29 PM
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How large were these events? How many people avoided you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:59 PM
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Any evidence that this is true. Empirical evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:31 PM
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How are random women, the “starters” for interpersonal conflict?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 07:30 PM
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Your comment sort of sounds like you don’t have a lot of experience in diverse communities. How on earth would you poison an entire community of women? Example I frequent my local bookstore. I have met countless people through the free community activities they regularly host. There’s no way, I could work my way through and poison the entire indie bookstore community. Over the course of a months hundreds of people if not more, frequent this space, of ever gender and sexual orientation. I couldn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:08 PM
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Also saying their opinion isn’t worthy of respect. Doesn’t answer the question asked of you. How is it that they are suffering almost exclusively from competition anxiety. Whilst also having zero desire to compete for these older people?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:54 PM
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As a Gen z woman none of what you said applies to me. I am not broke, do not live at home and am not an outright socialist. I am not a fan of large age gap relationships. Now what is your retort to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:52 PM
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Men shouldn’t be lying either. But here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:53 PM
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This only reinforces that woman should make the uggos wait. I make every man wait 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:44 PM
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I’m trying to understand your use of the word consent here, because consent requires two people. You’re describing men “consenting” to sex or relationships with women who are not present, not interested, and not participating. There is nothing mutual to consent to. If a woman has not chosen a man, then there is no scenario, sexual or relational, for him to “consent” to in the first place. It reads like you’re treating a man’s internal desire as equivalent to a mutual agreement, and then framing …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:00 PM
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You mentioned a bunch of things that don’t pertain to hair length as an indicator that hair length means something. You can have thin/thinning hair, breakage, dry/frizzy at any length. And if they are white with brown eyes. Like millions of people are. Then what does that indicate? This just seems like gobbledygook
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:31 PM
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Why is it sad that someone may not love someone who beats them? There is no reciprocity to be had once someone beats you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:28 PM
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You didn’t say reproduction you said sex and relationships. How does telling a man not to anticipate sex and or relationships, accommodate a woman’s desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:48 PM
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This just isn’t the indicator you think it is. Is long hair the good hair in this equation or a pixie cut/ precision bob the good hair? Brown eyes means what about a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:35 PM
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How do you know it’s to “accommodate women’s desires”? What’s the basis? I was following you up until that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:37 PM
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No it was definitely about having children. Op said Survive and replicate. Op called it a genetic dead end. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:29 PM
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97 is gen z? I thought 2000 started the generation. I am a gen z too!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:25 PM
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How does hair length and eye color reveal your socioeconomic class?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:04 PM
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Why are you sad to say you’re not surprised? Why are you sad about the fact that this woman wouldnt love someone who intentionally hits her? This is a bit of lunacy here. “You won’t continue to love a man who beats you? I have yet to meet a woman able to unconditionally love a man. Sad”. Like huh?!!! No, you beat someone and they may no longer be in love with you or like you. What a travesty!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:49 PM
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Stay at home wives and mothers work…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:15 PM
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Well all rely on men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:57 PM
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Where can you “safe surrender until age 18”??? Some states only allow 72 hours, and on the far end of the spectrum we see 1yr. Never have I seen or heard of 18yrs. Where did you get this info on safe surrendering? Which state?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:27 PM
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Sorry but no I am a professional nanny. I don’t do domestic work for free I make 6 figures doing this. Lol Yall want live in servants that yall don’t pay for. Aka a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:06 PM
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Romance ≠ Erotica 50 shades is Erotica Jane Austen is Romance A cable network tv drama may have sex scenes, several over a season, may even have multiple in one episode. Doesn’t then mean that when you put hbo’s “girls” onto the television, you are now watching pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:26 PM
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Using the unvarying truth, definition rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:11 PM
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The justification of forced marriage and marital rape is so sad to witness. That’s a moral statement. Because how does one have a conversation about rape without taking into account how a person feels about the whole thing? Whether or not a person feels up to having sex, is a feeling no? One that should be accounted for, right?! How does one engage in consensual sex without knowing how the other parties feel about whether or not they want to have sex? Either way… can’t we just conclude it’s fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:08 PM
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“If you believe you should be compensated for your labor, you hate your family. Yes it takes 2 people to make kids but it’s the woman who spawned the child into existence and therefore she needs to slave away with a grin. I’d never work a job that didn’t pay me. But women shouldnt want compensation or recompense for their labor and if they do they hate their family. If you don’t want to be a slave, should’ve kept your legs closed”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:56 AM
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You just made a whole bunch of shit up in this comment. How do you know any of this? Were you there or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:19 AM
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When you say mid. Do you just mean mid in terms of conventional physical attractiveness or do you mean other things too. Like money and or perceived popularity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:17 PM
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Why would you get into a relationship with a broken person?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:31 PM
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Why does it seem you think the women hired by DEI initiatives weren’t the ones most qualified for the job and that the ones qualified and looked over were men? Any data on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:30 PM
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So you agree a lot of these men in these industries vote against workers rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:26 PM
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We aren’t talking about women though we are talking about the men who voted for him, against their own interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:22 PM
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They are clearly talking about PPE and other things that are clearly made with men in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 09:20 PM
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Large age gaps are weird particularly to gen z
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:05 PM
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You know posts are still available from this time right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 03:53 AM
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Examples were here <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 03:48 AM
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Social skills and intentionally socially engineering ways for you to get sex and intimacy are absolutely different things. What is the difference between coercion and manipulation, and engineering “rules” to follow that make women want to have sex with you? You say in one paragraph that it is like the workplace. But then in the other paragraph say friendship is like school and the workplace, and not nearly as deep as sex and intimacy? As for your comment on the fact it doesn’t happen naturally a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:24 PM
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When I said “to you”, I didn’t mean affect you specifically. I mean “to you” as in… If “to you”, women do not behave selfishly in relationships. Then what does it matter if they are being told to act this way? Also I’m not seeing how it’s “dangerous”, even if we were/are teaching women to behave this way. Which is also NOT what you first said. Hence why I keep asking about the implications. Because first it was that they are being told to behave this way. Now we are teaching them to do so. You a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:05 PM
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You said I was “trying to corner you” that was an assumption of my behavior. And since I wasn’t aiming to corner you, there is no logical or factual basis for what you said. You just felt cornered. I was just asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:57 PM
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It's honestly impressive how layered your manipulation is in this thread. My hats off to you, because it's fun to debate people who are this insidious. What’s insidious/manipulative? I’ll ask again since you didn’t answer before. How am I cornering you? This statement “are correct to be” implies to me they are in fact acting selfishly. Which is semantic nitpicking used to force an implication that isn’t logically necessary. What does that phrasing mean then? Why did you say this? I stated this, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:53 PM
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Is there a particular reason you refuse to give examples and or explain what selfishness you are speaking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:35 PM
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I’ve copied and pasted my previous response as it answers your question(s). Each person is an individual, there are shared social norms, sure, but also deeply personal criteria. It’s not one or the other. It’s both. We can’t give you a rulebook on how to get into the pants of some random person. We don’t know them, and there are too many variables between individual people. What works for one might absolutely not work for another. And that’s allowed. We are free to reject anyone, for any reason.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:33 PM
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You cannot script your way into vagina. Hence why it’s not working for any myriad of people swearing you can
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:16 PM
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This analogy falls flat for me because why on earth would a fish tell you how to catch them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:39 PM
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Each person is an individual, there are shared social norms, sure, but also deeply personal criteria. It’s not one or the other. It’s both. We can’t give you a rulebook on how to get into the pants of some random person. We don’t know them, and there are too many variables between individual people. What works for one might absolutely not work for another. And that’s allowed. We are free to reject anyone, for any reason. When people talk about “cheat codes,” “which buttons to press,” or baseline…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:39 PM
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Also, if people aren’t racist, no one would be telling them to be racist. These things don’t come from whispers in the trees, they come from people. You unintentionally highlighted the paradoxical nature of what you said. And to be honest, I didn’t even realize how paradoxical it was until you made that glaring analogy. Who is telling women to be selfish if not, other selfish women and or men who want women to behave selfishly or believe that it is in their best interest for them to behave in su…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:50 PM
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Why would you feel cornered? I am asking you to elaborate on what you said, and what the implications are, in regard to what you’ve said. To which you seemingly are refusing to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:47 PM
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they are correct to be selfish in relationships This statement “are correct to be” implies to me they are in fact acting selfishly. If women are not behaving this way to you, then why does it matter what they are being told? If they aren’t doing it… I feel there’s an implication they are being influenced to do as told. Are you saying they are not? I am confused a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:39 PM
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I feel this comment boils down to. “What buttons do I press and in what sequence? What is the cheat code I need in order to get a woman?”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:31 PM
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Under this premise. What would you say the costs are for a woman? Are they primarily biological costs that can’t be avoided. Or do you think it’s possible for us to lower the cost of sex with men, so that men perhaps, don’t need to be as attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:19 PM
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How are women not selfless in relationships? But men are? Can you list some examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:16 PM
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Who are you to decide whether or not legal definitions placed into research are valid or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:34 PM
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What do you mean remain silent. They are not researchers with the ability to nullify research.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:05 PM
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No I’m saying, 100 videos does not make proof. I could, in that same time, find 100 videos of women saying that they like short men. I can also find tons of people saying all kinds of things. I’m saying the only “experience” yall often have is often social media based, which is incredibly algorithmic and skewed. That’s mediated perception, confirmation bias, and secondhand socialization, all of which are often not wholly accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:31 PM
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How so? No single researcher can research everything all at once… All researchers must research everything all at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:24 PM
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She’s a researcher not a lexicographer though. She didn’t create the definition. She took a word and definition that had been around for centuries, and did research on it… she also did not include women who experience marital rape. Because at that time, it was impossible to rape anyone who you were married to. I do not blame her for that. It just wasn’t a thing at the time, and therefore not included in her research. I was assaulted by the medical system in a way that has still not been legally …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:15 PM
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So sorry this happened to you. It is still happening to you on some small scale, as it has and will always shape major parts of your life.I was a victim of child medical sexual assault (instrumental penetration, without my or my parents consent). Simply too much to explain and incredibly convoluted. However I mentioned that because, I too do not get included in statistics/have little support/research/aid and essentially no place to convene with people who have experienced the same. I am alone in…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:07 PM
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Do you see Koss and feminism as one and the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:46 PM
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But she didn’t make the definition… and we know this. Others have already had to concede to this fact. This is very confusing. how are yall blaming her for a definition she didn’t make?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:41 PM
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Due to this one particular thing or a myriad of things?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:29 PM
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I can’t argue against or agree with anything if I don’t know what you mean. Do you mean inherent value? What kind of value are you speaking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:27 PM
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I’m asking if this difference biological or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:26 PM
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If you can’t prove a negative. Why are you staking that claim? And moreover, what is the basis if you have no proof
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:25 PM
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Yes, this is what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:24 PM
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My point is. If yall aren’t actually talking to men and women and yall are communicatively challenged, how do yall know what women say and do? Is the basis just social media and online content?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:23 PM
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Dang… I am so sorry. People (men and women) have a HARD time navigating and respecting boundaries. As a nanny I often theorize this is because of the early dynamic between child and caretaker. Babies have low autonomy and also, regularly hour by hour, minute by minute, violate your boundaries. Experiencing violation can be very exhausting physically and mentally, and at times makes you feel like an object to be used as opposed to an autonomous human with wants, needs, and desires we deeply seek …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:56 AM
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its your family and governments job to support you if you become poor What are you saying?? Your spouse is literally your family… Lmaooo. not another member who you are supposed to be equal to. Family members are unequal? And if so what is the hierarchy. I believe all people are inherently equal so what are you saying here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:42 AM
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Yes, but the civil rights activists, feminists, ect. Weren’t typically the perpetrators of violence. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:10 AM
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Inherent value? Or presupposed conventional value? Dating market value? What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:32 PM
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Do you have evidence that it’s not patriarchy? Is the implication that women are not as inclined or interested? And if the answer is yes, is that are you supposing it’s biological?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:13 PM
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But many of these red pill men are communicatively challenged, many autistic. And statistically most haven’t actually engaged with many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:14 PM
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Yeah but the stats they mentioned don’t just address marriage. Hence why I asked if he had data on moving in bc I was curious if there was more data on that. I am not taking about marriage. The off-handed data I have seen actually does say the average couple dates for 6 months-1 year before living together. Contrary to what it seems you and others may believe, I wasn’t just saying any ole thing, I was going off of anecdotal and empirical data (albeit not a ton). I was asking if they had any to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:09 PM
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But you said your wife was submissive and worshipped you? So I’m confused
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:33 PM
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There’s no such thing as “spouses money” in marriage unless stipulated otherwise, via something like a prenup. Egalitarianism doesn’t mean spending all of the households money. So I don’t understand the correlation there. And isn’t it your preference to not go 50/50, and instead have a wife at home that’s subordinate to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:09 PM
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What does this have to do with married people being joint owners of all the money made by either party?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:37 PM
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Also there’s a big gap between expecting them to be happy and “do nothing about it” and damaging society. I am a WOC, whose grandparents participated in non violent civil rights protests. It’s gonna be kind of hard for me to see any benefit, or alleviation of anyone’s suffering, to damage and harm society. My people made life less oppressive without doing this. Why wouldn’t others? Also while it may be “unfair” to the individual, is it not fair for the whole?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:27 PM
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why do they care what happens in that unfair society? If it’s all unfair then why is it unfair to destroy it? You also literally say why expect people rejected from normal parts of society to care about whether or not they DAMAGE society. This is what I am referencing, just because we don’t live in a a utopia, doesn’t mean that we damage other people and worsen our society. By my saying make it worse, and discent into suffering, I very simply mean whatever it is that you imply in these Statement…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:05 PM
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why do they care what happens in that unfair society if it’s all unfair then why is it unfair to destroy it? You also literally said “damage society” This is what I am replying to and asking. Bc things could get worse, and just because we live in a utopia doesn’t mean we allow things to evolve or get worse. We work towards things getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:58 PM
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Then how was it your money? It was both of your money?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:34 PM
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And no, a lack of refutation is NOT what determines who wins a point. You are once again, not getting it, a person asking you a question does not then mean that they are somehow losing the debate. This is the same mistake you made with the previous person. And I’m not even debating you anyways. Or at least I wasn’t. Here are the general guidelines for winning and losing. What Makes Someone Win or Lose a Debate Win: 1. Control the framework – whoever defines what the debate is really about wins. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:33 PM
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Okay. That’s on the grounds I was debating you. I was and am not. That’s just a faulty assumption on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:28 PM
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Saying “From now on give me some sort of argument that isn’t an interview.” Is not standard practice of how to conduct a debate. And the fact you think it is is laughable. No, debates do not include telling others what to do. It seems you have a poor functional understanding as to the fact that the words you say, have meaning beyond whatever it is that you imagine them to mean. You are not the arbiter. Start acting like you are, I will tell you, you are not. And now that that is out of the way… …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:18 PM
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In a home where things are shared, how do you determine whose is whose? If we buy groceries, that’s a shared bill and the household consumes the food as a unit. Unless you buy separate groceries, and make separate meals and label everything and no one touches the other persons. Housing is also typically a shared necessity, unless yall live separately. What about electricity, trash, ect?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:07 PM
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What made it men’s? This doesn’t work with me. I am a WOC we always worked and contributed. Whether or not we got paid and could benefit is another thing. If you’d say it’s a men’s economy, would you also say it’s a white mans economy. Not just men’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:01 PM
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I’m not advocating for anyone or anything to change, nor am I denying anyone’s suffering. You said, “why would people care about things being unfair if life is unfair for them,” and I responded that it’s because things could get much worse, and we know that because we see worse conditions globally. Why would we allow a descent into deeper suffering just because some people are already suffering? Should we just throw up our hands? Also, in a time and place where women are finally allowed to choos…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:56 PM
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You do not tell me what to do in any manner. You control yourself and elect not to respond, you do not dictate my behavior in anyway. Your last reply literally proves that a man can indeed financially abuse the woman by not providing childcare for her to provide a job. He ought too yet he could not. That would be abusive. Yes, he has to provide childcare, in order for her to find a job that would be his responsibility. Then she can start also paying for childcare. Being equal members of society …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:43 PM
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So because it’s not a utopia we should let it devolve? Or people should be in favor of it getting worse? These sexist lonely men have it rough, but I really imagine the men being buried alive in the Congo right now are not worried about getting their dick wet. So I’m inclined to then think, because there are worst situations to have, that yes, things could be worse. So no, I don’t understand why we would make things worse for more, just bc it sucks for some people. Could you explain that to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:24 PM
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But isn’t it a more apt analogy to say you live in a society that doesn’t provide prosthetics to those without limbs? Actively taking away limbs is not the same as not being given sex. But the other seems like a wayyyy more apt comparison? No? Positive and negative rights and all?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:20 PM
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Okay and if she’s a stay at home mom. She’d first have to have him agree to pay childcare, so she can find a job, which he could refuse. If she’s in a rural/non-walkable area shed need transportation that would need to come from him, which he could refuse. How do you put your child in daycare, go on interviews, and get a vehicle, without any money? You can’t find a job and then put the child in daycare, bc who’s watching them in the meantime? And would the man be paying for half of childcare? Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:05 PM
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Yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:01 PM
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That’s not companionship though… which is what you said above.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:00 PM
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And here as well. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:43 PM
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That is simply not true… can you define what it means to address something? Because follow-up questions aren’t precluded from the definition. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:43 PM
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Your own bills? What does this mean in a married household hold? Whose bills are who’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:39 PM
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How does this work with childcare and daily home maintenance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:38 PM
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Wait. So because you can leave, you literally cannot be abused? I would think that the person would first be financially abused, and then leave. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:37 PM
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That was an addressing of the answer… what do you think it means to address something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:35 PM
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Yes I make between 5 and 6 k a month as a professional nanny. Watching men undervalue what is essentially my job is hilarious. Particularly when a majority of them couldn’t afford me or any woman for that matter, should they need to pay for the labor they mooch for free
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:33 PM
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Were you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:30 PM
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You said they typically date the guy for years before reaching married or living with a partner. Engaged wasn’t mentioned. So I’m assuming this was just extrapolation on your part then? I dated my partner for abt 5 months before living together. Same range with my peers. So I was looking for data.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:12 AM
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Do you not think physically attractive men who are good listeners, sociable, not sexists and not autistic. Does better than the physically attractive man who is autistic, a bad listener, never leaves his home, and is sexist?? Very attractive women will choose the former over the latter given the chance no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:09 AM
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You’re assuming the hypothetical women they are with… don’t know they are sexist. Those men aren’t hiding it better. They have traits to compensate. However, ugly, sexist, reclusive, and autistic? What are we supposed to be into?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:00 AM
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Poor listener and can’t hold a conversation are unattractive traits
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:57 AM
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Your second sentence… where did you get that information?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 01:56 AM
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You shouldn’t find it to be anything.. as according to you no one ever mentioned it and it was a nonsense derailing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:05 PM
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And how do you know this? Can you provide data? And how is this an example of a Lack of empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:04 PM
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The porn and video games often (not always) feature hyper-sexualized women, for men viewing pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:46 PM
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Yes type an and type b are falling out of the public lexicon. Type A is hard to be around if you’re not type A as well. However they are very suited to climb ranks in systems, so they are usually the men with the big bucks. They are rigid. And the best comparison I can think of off the top of me head is Dwight Shrute (type a) vs Jim Halpbert (type b). Both do well at their jobs. Jim always sells paper. But he’s also fucking around in the office a lot. Dwight never does such a thing. He scoffs at…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:33 PM
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Idk, I have a similar list to her minus the bi part. Except I am bi, so my partner would HAVE to be understanding of that. I would be cautious of a proclaimed libertarian, bc so many think that means anarchical capitalism. And I just can’t do that. Also I unfortunately want a man not heavily on social media, including Reddit. My partner has a Reddit but just uses it for info about his hobby/work. He’s never commented. And he has no other social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:29 PM
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The need to find the sexual reason behind her logic, When it’s clearly about walks, is sooo funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:25 PM
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Oh so you are claiming right here that women have it easier than men. Which is a comparison? Is it not? I thought that wasnt empathetic to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:23 PM
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Please get glasses. People are talking about admiration in the comment right above mine. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:15 PM
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I think they do it because they desire easy access to women. They are attempting to catch bees with honey as opposed to vinegar
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:43 AM
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All you do is compare how women have it easier than men. That’s comparing difficulty. I saw you doing this in a comment just 2 or 3 days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:41 AM
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No. Lack of admiration is not oppression. Pls get real
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:39 AM
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Definitely get blame for the collective actions of men today… but is there immense blame for the past actions of long dead men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:38 AM
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I also want to add. It’s not just you wanting to leave. It could also very easily be you getting left. This is what’s happening to a 55yo woman I know, who was a homemaker and sahm to 6 kids. Now the husband wants to divorce, move across the country and sell their house at a loss as he refinanced their mortgage a few years ago. When they met he was Amish. Now he’s an atheist who apparently never wanted kids. She has no work experience and will be facing homelessness if she doesn’t receive financ…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:42 PM
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Me under 25 thinking the exact same thing. My parents still pay for a good chunk of my shit. And I make good money 🥴. Why would I want an old man??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:05 PM
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Like my heartbreak in finding out you CAN masturbate so much with a toy that you can indeed lose sensitivity to your bean 😭. Never happened to me any other way I orgasm tho 😑. Damn that fucking rose toy 🌹
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:01 PM
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So anecdotal and not based in fact. Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:14 PM
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This isn’t my experience. I am a woman. Soo. How did you figure this? Anecdotes? Or research?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:57 PM
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What evidence do you have to support this claim? I for one… don’t tolerate anything. Sooo idk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:29 AM
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What do you define as independent?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:28 AM
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Realistically I’d reject every cold approach at this time. Others feel and do differently, this is purely what I suggest as my realistic advice. Warm approaching minimizes likelihood of rejection, and also works better in line with what women want more unilaterally. Do what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:27 AM
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This whole write up is unfounded. I too am neurodivergent. The kind that looks for facts. My experience, speaking to a lot of women in different contexts is different to yours. You are not the arbiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:49 PM
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Drag themselves through the mud? What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:25 PM
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Their libido for “them in particular” perhaps, yes, shut that off until deemed appropriate. Weirdos come with their libido in full swing too. How are we supposed to discern whose libido is the one that will lead them to rape vs this is my future husband? They are strangers at this point after all. Hence why I said I never recommend cold approaches, warm approaches are what I suggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:23 PM
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Are you against/don’t recommend cold approaches, or cold approaches on the street. I for one do not recommend most if not all cold approaches. Warm approaches, even if lukewarm, are what I recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:21 PM
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Sure all of life won’t be frictionless. But that doesn’t negate that in one scenario, a person has a choice and in the other scenario they do not. The two aren’t comparable, which is what you implied with your previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:09 PM
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Anything could happen. But how often are those born into wealth losing said wealth? Are we going to pretend that there are not factors that keep the rich, rich, not based off of merit? Or that people don’t lose money due to things out of their control…saying we all have a starting point, Doesn’t then point to the fact we are in a meritocracy. Again there are too many glaring examples for this to be possibly considered objective truth in any way. To me at least. I don’t think overcoming adversity…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:02 PM
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50% of women aren’t even on online dating apps and websites. Studies are from as low as 13% to 30% and that often including those who have EVER made or used a profile, not just active users. So in terms of active users, It’s less than that. Soooo how’d you figure these random made up numbers of yours? Also… what is a right to complain? What are your metrics for determine who has this right? And is it a positive or negative right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:51 PM
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Yes, but you’d have to ask that particular person if they were a feminist, and if so, what kind of feminist they are. It seems like this sub has a limited understanding of feminism. That there are different types, different ideologies, some diametrically opposed from one another. Feminism has been around for more than a single generation at this point. Simply stating “women here are feminists” and then not discerning in any way which kinds of feminists they are, then complaining about seemingly …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:43 PM
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Yeah and if you really like the guy, enough that the rejection may really hurt, and you ask and say waittt let’s take it slow. Men in this sub will say that if you don’t sleep with him right away, but have in the past you mustn’t really like him. Or are trying to beta bucks him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:21 PM
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What percent of women are having sex first or second day of knowing a man from online dating? And why does this preclude them from being able to complain about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:18 PM
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What are the types of men that do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:14 PM
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But there’s no way that’s actually true. You can’t be given things because of your wealth, social status, or class, and still live in a meritocratic society. Many things in life happen due to things not involving merit at all… how do you figure all of like is a meritocracy? There’s just too many glaring examples in favor of a lack of meritocracy. No way you think all of life? Nepotisms existence alone, bars us from qualifying as a meritocracy. There must be some qualifiers that you add to this, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 02:55 PM
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All of life is a meritocracy? Or do you mean dating life?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:09 AM
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Women will also offer niceties and kindness to men as a form of self-protection, a way to preempt or deter potential retaliation for perceived rudeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:31 PM
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The kind of man who will pay for the ability to use a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:06 PM
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So he’s lying bc he’s selfish? And wants sex he doesn’t have to pay for?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:04 PM
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This doesn’t make sense as a reply… are you just saying anything??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:51 PM
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Did either of them articulate this to the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:46 PM
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So why on earth would a woman want to be with you? You only care about yourself, and quite literally have a social handicap. If you’re even remotely unattractive then that’s even less helpful to you. You don’t sound like someone I would ever date, In any capacity. How are you planning to compensate for being selfish, unattractive and autistic? What are you offering to the companion you seek?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:45 PM
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Now show the screenshots about how likely autistic women are to be abused in their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:29 PM
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I don’t believe men “face immensely greater pressure than women to be good looking”. Do you have any empirical evidence of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:19 PM
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None of what you said answers what’s strange about wanting friendship first. Something benefiting women, isn’t strange… or at least it shouldn’t be??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:18 PM
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When you say “a lot of men can’t even do that”. Are you meaning they cannot speak to women specifically, or do you mean people as a whole?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:16 PM
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They are indeed concerned for the wellbeing and mental health of trans people. This is why they “embolden trans people to continue being mentally ill” as you say. We care they don’t kill themselves. So we provide them the ability to transition. Idk what solutions you have that empirically reduce trans suicide rates, lower than transitioning does. Care to share?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:00 PM
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So some degree of wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:12 PM
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And what is the most you are willing to pay for a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:59 PM
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So this was just something you made up?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:51 AM
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Condoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:50 AM
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I would NOT knowingly date a man who sees or has in the past seen sex workers for the thrill of it. Absolutely not. I would however, be willing to understand why a man who assumed he would never have sex in his life, would visit a sex worker or 2. There would have to be a lot of conversations about it. Obvious honesty, and ultimately the deal breaker would then hinge on how I felt you viewed women at large. I am pro sex worker and that’s actually why I am so critical of men who’ve seen sex worke…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:00 AM
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Honest question. You seemingly are having a rough go, unhappy and feel socially stigmatized for your plight as a virgin man. If this is correct. How much money would you pay to alleviate this burden, be a chad, what sum would you pay for this life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:43 AM
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And in this context how do you know it’s a price she herself fixed? Are you willing to see someone way above market rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:38 AM
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Do Starbucks baristas have a propensity towards drug addiction? How would we know this is the case for our baristas? Why would we assume this if not told otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:37 AM
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How would you or they know it’s a “safe place”? What do you mean by this wording?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:35 AM
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Men don’t get pregnant. Nor is the average American man the one doing the brunt of the child rearing. How on earth is that 100% responsibility? The woman does all the literal labor to end or bring a pregnancy to fruition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:35 PM
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I think part of this is bc we as a society view money as something we’d give up before our bodies. Hence why we pay fines for lower tier convictions and incarceration for serious crimes. Money moves in circulation and passes through more hands, than a persons body ever would. The threshold of entitlement to one’s money is usually lower, in most aspects, than entitlement to their body. I can take you to court and sue you to win your money. I can’t sue you for rights to take ur body.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:22 PM
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Goal posting in action
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:44 PM
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I don’t sweep insecurities under the rug. I just don’t expect anyone to conform to my insecurities. As for the body positivity movement. I don’t see fat men ridiculed nearly as much as fat women. The body positivity movement may be for a sect demographic of people but it’s certainly not about accepting all bodies. Fat bodies perhaps, but not flat chested women, non feminine women, women men don’t perceive as attractive. And whilst the body positivity movement has received media coverage. I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:09 AM
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Do you view insecurities as things to be protected, soothed, or nurtured? Because I don’t. Not when it comes to my interactions with people who don’t know me. Not even for women. I’m not a very insecure person in general, so crippling insecurity feels foreign to me. Maybe it’s my upbringing or genetics, none of my immediate family members are this way either. I’ve been told I don’t always know when to be scared, so maybe I’m the maladaptive one? Idk Appealing to my insecurities feels like appeal…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:38 PM
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So do YOU think that the list you gave are insecurities? Or are you saying that the things you listed are what blue pullers label as insecurities, that they don’t “allow” men to have? Or both?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:15 PM
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Why are 7/9 of the male “insecurities” you listed, about what you don’t want in a woman? How is that insecurity? Are these not just dating preferences? Or are you agreeing with the blue pill when they say that men who want these things are just insecure and therefore woman aren’t interested in giving up their autonomy for male security?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:59 PM
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So was the divorce a lie then or are you lying now? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:48 PM
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Didn’t you say in other comments that you have been a stay at home husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:18 PM
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“I cleaned the kitchen. Now give me the fucky fuck”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:31 PM
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So you admit your mom also had a job and paid bills
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:25 PM
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And let’s be clear. “Nobody said that” is incorrect. In fact there are men in this thread who confirmed they shouldn’t be cleaning up after themselves bc it’s the woman’s job. You conveniently traipsed past those comments and daisy proclaimed no one is saying that. They are <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:19 PM
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What domestic work would you preclude the man from if not dishes, laundry and childcare. Why wouldn’t he do his laundry and wash dishes? Where is my heavy burden to provide? I don’t think any amount of money one makes, precludes them from cleaning up after themselves. Unless he hovers around the home, he too should mop the floor he dirties, any mess you make you should be willing to clean. Regardless of how much money you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:15 PM
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Why wouldn’t he put his own dirty underwear into the washing machine?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 02:47 PM
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Its the woman’s job to clean up a man’s dirty underwear?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:29 PM
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Well when you say people are invading. But they were actually welcomed in with open arms. On international day of the girl no less… well then ppl are gonna be confused/side eye. No different than if you claim your home was burglarized, but then there’s documented evidence of you willingly giving ways the items you claim were stolen. People are gonna tell you “know one stole from you, you gave it to them”. I’m not the Boy Scouts so I can’t answer ur other question. I can only anecdotally say we t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:23 AM
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Men are not doing just fine with friends. Literally yall report having less and less friends with each passing decade. That’s why it’s a “Loneliness epidemic” and not a “sexless epidemic”. The epidemic regularly referenced includes drastic decreases in men’s social circles as a whole. Including close friends. Yall are so convinced that it’s women’s fault for the loneliness epidemic. But literally a so much of the research on this loneliness epidemic also includes yall literally having no friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:47 PM
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I wonder what else you would consider an “invasion” then? When insurance companies have open enrollment, are new members “invading”, or being welcomed and asked to join? When looking at the definition of the word invasion/invade. There seems to be a necessary component of not being asked and welcomed into said Space/group, ect. It appears Boy Scouts wanted girls to join to increase membership and avoid the same edit church youth leaders have. I can tell you as a person who started as a junior an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:36 PM
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You say women are so annoying and unlovable. Then why are they not having as hard of a time as men. And why are the men in a loneliness epidemic, but the inverse isn’t the case for women? And moreso, does it matter if men whom they reject ultimately find them unlovable? Example: id never ever sleep with you, and scores and scores of other men. Ive found/find the relationships I want. Why would I ever care what you or the other men think? Even the men I’ve paired up with have had harder times tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:06 PM
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I’m not even sure what this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:05 PM
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Who decided if it’s unreasonable or too high?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:04 PM
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In a two person relationship who decides? If it’s never the person making the complaint well then what’s going on? What’s the point of a complaint in a two person relationship? Seems like then the answer is shut up and take it, which I’d then expect to be left if that’s how I act about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:06 PM
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Being reliant on you and being a modern woman are not mutually exclusive. By traditional you mean, doesn’t make her own money and can’t shelter or feed herself without you. The inverse to this is that when society allows for women to have autonomy over their healthcare, make their own money, and voice their opinions. You think that makes them horrible. Which is not surprising. The average woman does in fact know that a lot of men feel this way. So what those women do is never fuck, touch or date…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:03 PM
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Because you don’t have sex with hot Women in your youth? So why would you say that? You did however, say a woman, wanting a high income earner in a marriage is pathetic, but you want high income partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:51 PM
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Who decides if a complaint is valid?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:46 PM
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Maybe sex robot is more accurate. Bc dolls don’t do domestic work. But he literally said he wants someone who is quiet, focuses on family, has little power, status, money. Just provides housework, sex and affection. Be quieter, don’t be emotional, be pleasant. Their focus should be on adding no negatives to a man’s life only positives Is completely reliant on the man. Also thinks these women are uglier, stupid and lazy. Despite thinking housework is work because “he doesn’t want a second job at …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:45 PM
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Why would the man not take care of his kids, wash his underwear, or clean dirty bowls hes used, because he makes more money than the woman he lives with? How does that make sense? So bc the man makes more money he doesnt tuck in his kids, and kiss boo boos, and leaves his dirty laundry all around? I’m confused?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:38 PM
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“Women are best when they are completely reliant and subservient to you, shut the fuck up, fuck on command, and do what you say. And when they are not doing these things specifically, they are abusing men.” Lmaoooooo Sooo, the consequence for men ignoring their negative traits for decades. Is increasing loneliness, lack of relationships and increasing suicide rates. Agree or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:21 PM
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Now why can you want to marry a woman with higher income because it would be better for the family. But when the woman says this it’s pathetic?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:12 PM
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Then why’d you bring up “pittance from part time hobbies”? Do you have research to conclude that money from hobbies is anything more than a few percent as well??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:10 PM
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You think personality matters none to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:43 AM
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Is the answer for women to just suck it up and start pity fucking men so they aren’t sad and lonely anymore? I don’t understand what yall want besides this? This always seems to be what yall are getting at, but yall know that’s an unreasonable ask or near impossible to enforce. So yall obfuscate when asked for the “solution”, and I guess just hope women take the hint and start doing so without being directly forced or asked to do so? Is this not what’s going on? Care to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:21 PM
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“Limit the women’s options on the amount of men they can see, swipe on and match with, to the point it’s less swipes and matches then we allow the men to have. This way they will have to choose men they otherwise wouldn’t have selected.” Is still a means of forcing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:13 PM
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By empathetic do you mean fucking men that they don’t want to be with in any way? What do you mean by addressed? What do you want to be done?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:06 PM
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I’m a Gen Z woman and there is a TikTok trend featuring a song where the woman says that “we are in a sassy man apocalypse.” The girls are not happy that the men wanna be the passenger princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:32 PM
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Crazy level of obfuscation. What do you think is the appropriate amount of empathy to show towards men who hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:51 PM
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Wait, how do you know she’s sleeping with men who view her as a sex toy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:38 PM
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I got this information from studies. It says it were highlighted. May need to click the full image <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:49 PM
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Could you share some of these studies. I do see that across the board. Dark triad traits result in more sexual partners over a lifetime. But this isn’t overwhelmingly gendered. It’s seems more like people who have “dark traits”, are more likely to engage in negative social behaviors that result in more partners. Like cheating and partner poaching. Men are more likely to be narcissists, Machiavellian and psychopathic. Thus more of them have this experience than women. So can you share what you’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 11:25 PM
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This is not evidence. This is a quote from a man featuring zero evidence. I have been searching and cannot substantiate his claims with peer reviewed studies. Can I have studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:46 PM
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This is not evidence…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:08 PM
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Can you share these stats. I have always seen information that concludes violent porn is consumed most by males.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:08 PM
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What is ur basis for this being widespread and gendered?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:03 PM
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But how are you coming to the conclusion that this is more common in women than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:27 PM
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What are you basing this off of? Where are you getting this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:52 PM
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Why would you hate women because you can’t get one to sleep with you? I can say rn if a man says he hates women because he can’t sleep with them. Im going to say “so your tolerance towards women is directly contingent upon the amount of free access towards their bodies you can have?” Then I’d Label him a misogynist, and relegate him to sexlessness into perpetuity, at least on my end. He would never get to have sex with me on that basis alone. I can’t speak for what other women would do. But I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:29 PM
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I think in this scenario, the ones who feel the need to come up with new terms, for already existing concepts, are the pendantic ones. It seems like everyone else is simply confused as to why there was a need to change an already existing, and wildly understood concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:50 PM
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That’s awful. Do you think women behave this way as well? Are all people opportunists?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:46 PM
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I am not quite sure what you mean by this. I myself am very turned on by men of a certain character. Enough so I will find them incredibly sexually appealing, when I did not previous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:45 PM
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Then why repackage it with this bizarre connotation attached?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:43 PM
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Yeah “nice guys” as an archetype aren’t usually appealing regardless of looks. But if we are speaking about kind, comforting, caring men… they can absolutely be attractive and often are. Attractiveness is about what draws you to a person. Looks are a facet of that. But many many things factor into the draw. You are asserting the best men are assholes who look aesthetically pleasing. And I actually do not see that sentiment being expressed by women, I see that sentiment expressed by conventionall…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:41 PM
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Okay but good is part of being the best choice no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:44 PM
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None of this makes them good men tho? This is all about looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:15 PM
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What’s the difference between what you are describing above. And “the one that got away”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:52 PM
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What metrics make the best guys if they are cheaters?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:51 PM
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Why must we name absolutely everything a person (woman in this instance) does? And why must the names be like this? Alpha omega beta chad widow instead of single lady? It’s like monster energy and a cohort of very young boys are on the naming committee for the red and black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:50 PM
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There need not be an impetus to change, in order for something to be derogatory? That has never been the case…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:48 PM
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In the scenario. No you still wouldn’t be privy to “girl talk”. You would have hearsay. You as a man cannot be privy to “girl talk”. That’s inherent to the nature of the talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:41 PM
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This wouldn’t be girl talk. This would be. Speaking with a man and speaking to social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:30 PM
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Who or what made you think jack Doherty is attractive? Like moreso than average. I’m a young woman under 25. He’s not very attractive. Maybe average. But like. Idk where you got that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:01 PM
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How do you know what happens during “girl talk”. How are you privy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:22 PM
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Right. So you see why I’m asking then, what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:46 PM
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Feminism will change with the times that’s why we have waves of it and again I’m very confused. Do you think the only way ideology spreads is by bearing children and forcing that ideology upon them? Why do you not believe that feminism will continue with converts? feminism started off as a fringe ideology,. Women weren’t raised to believe that they could have bank accounts and jobs they went ahead and pushed for that to be done. Same with the civil rights movement. People didn’t think that Black…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:57 PM
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Crazy how they could identify you as an anxious person. Without you having said so prior. Yet they don’t know anything about anxiety lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:33 PM
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How do you know this is rare. I only know married people who didn’t have weddings? What data are you using. Clearly anecdotal evidence isn’t sufficient
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:32 PM
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I’m sorry. Are you saying in this comment that feminist don’t want children? And that’s why it will die out. Or that feminism won’t reign supreme forever? Or that we can’t convert people who were born to traditional families into feminists? What are you saying? Bc you are mentioning jobs and empires. Yet feminism is neither. Are you trying to say polygamy is the only solution to birth rates decreasing? Do you even have issue with the birth rate? What empire crumbles in your scenario. None of thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:27 PM
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Romans still exist. As do people from Greece. Viking was a profession/job so idk why you are mentioning that one…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:54 PM
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Thinking and predicting are 2 different things
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:52 PM
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All dems are child free? What point is not clicking for you when you hear that you don’t need kids to spread an ideology??? How do you think people end up in new age cults if they weren’t born into it? Republicans make their members. As do dems. Both sides also convert people. Why are you hinging all of the progression of an ideology, on those born into it? You don’t need to have kids to share a movement. All you have to do is interact with people. The whole red pill/black pill movement and ideo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:47 PM
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Damn near every tyler Perry movie is about a successful woman marrying a lower class man. Probably has one where the powerful woman marries a mechanic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:22 AM
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Well it seems they’ve never attacked HER. So the point is kinda moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:37 PM
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Outside of taxes. How are people paying for one’s children? And you say paying for someone else’s kids. Instead of investment into a future you will use. These “kids” yall don’t want to pay for through taxes… will be supporting the entire economy and elder care on their back. As if these kids don’t grow to be first responders you’ll call, the home health aids who will wipe your butts, the construction workers who will maintain infrastructure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:42 PM
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Force isn’t romance… I’d say replace romance with a different passion. That varies from person to person. For me, I’d probably lean into artistic expression. Creating art is what I do when I have no other outlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:11 PM
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Why would force be more realistic than no force and instead change of purpose? Harming seems more realistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:40 PM
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Are we pretending he doesn’t receive benefits from society? I hope he doesn’t plan on going to a care home. Bc by the time he’s an old man. All the carers will be kids he couldnt care less about. Hope he doesn’t expect social security either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:36 PM
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I thought the loneliness epidemic included men not having friends either
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:32 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:03 AM
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You think it’s a lie that women take public transportation? The American Public Transportation Association says women take public transit more <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:03 AM
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Why did you change your word usage? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:57 AM
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What is high status in this context? Do you mean WASPY?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:28 AM
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Would this not be settling, for her to go for anything less than what she initially wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 02:22 AM
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I live in a major metropolitan area. There are tons of women on the train. Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:41 PM
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Yes I blame the men for raping the women. Huh?? “Life is hard” is not an excuse for raping women and children to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:39 PM
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What do you mean “you think men decided that lifestyle”? Of course they did. If a man kidnaps and rapes a woman. Yes that’s was his decision for his lifestyle. How daft do we need to pretend to be? Or are you deadass?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:38 PM
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They rape and kill women. Rape them to death. To pretend otherwise, is to willfully deny evidence. And even if they weren’t killing the women and children in war “being a sex slave” is not being “sparred”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:11 PM
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“No one willingly give them a ride, so their only choice is walking”. Not being able to use family car is a family issue not a gendered one. Perhaps gendered in your family. But many familes share cars, gender being irrelevant when they do so. Many women and men take public transport and walk. It’s not only when who receive car rides and only men who walk…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:07 PM
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Being kidnapped and subsequently raped from there out into perpetuity, is not “a chance to a better life with someone else”. Please sir. Be forreal… Some big burly man comes up into your home… a known enemy. With eyes on your asshole to make his from then on out. You think that’s your shot at a better life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:00 PM
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No one is giving hitchhikers a ride anymore. At best you’d get a stop from a man who wants to fuck you. But no one’s giving lifts at night to strangers for safety. They may let you use their uber app (but not their card of course). But random rides being offered is a thing of days past for all parties. And you’re saying women had more privileges in the past? How far back in the past are you mentioning? I don’t think once can reasonably believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:55 PM
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Did you mean winning or whining?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:54 PM
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Are women acting like a luxury, or do men who place women on a pedestal (many many men), treat access to sex from a woman, like a luxury? You did say supply and demand. Idk how women would act like a luxury in a supply and demand market, without someone treating them as if they are a luxury good. Maybe the better thing to say. Is “we need to stop treating the dating market, like a supply and demand market, men in particular. We should not be viewing women as goods of any kind to be fought over, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:47 PM
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Not at birth. All men are born as weaklings subject to the mercy of women… and boy are women merciful. A whole earth populated by the literal labor and hard work of merciful women. You are all so very welcome. It’s a shame yall can’t be grateful and repay nicely. But nope. Even after being weaned off the tit, living in a woman 9 months, ripping her body apart to come out. That’s not nearly enough. yall still wanna use womens bodies whenever, however yall see fit. And threaten force to do so. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:43 PM
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CRAZY you phrase it as remarrying. And not sex POW. But even then. The rape of nanjing wasn’t a mass remarrying. Men and women were massacred. Except men were slain and or shot right away in executions. While the women, and girl children, were horrifically raped to death and burned alive. Same goes for literally Partition of India, Bangladesh Liberation War, Yugoslav Wars/Bosnia, World War II “Comfort Women” system, Rwandan Genocide, Khmer Rouge/Cambodian Genocide, Armenian Genocide, Herero and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:29 PM
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This is so dumb. That’s like saying. I should be asking straight men how to better suppress my gag reflex during blowjobs bc they have penises and they know what feels good. What does that have to do with gag reflex suppression? Nothing right. This is what I mean when I say yall be saying anything. What does how it feel. Have anything to do with skills required to preform?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:53 AM
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I don’t see it being ignored. Where do you see it ignored?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:47 AM
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My experience is very similar. I am not into fantasy per se. But I can find enjoyment in most genres. I too prefer character driven reads. Men seem to not feel the same. And i wonder, if a guy picked up reading lit fic, would he be more appealing to women. To me… the answer would be yes. I wonder if other women would feel the same. I suppose men are looking for escapes more overtly when reading and or the prose found in most lit fics… is too emotional laborious. Perhaps social and emotional inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:54 PM
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Aww you’re glitching out. Glad to know I broke you. Will add you to the list! Thanks!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:09 PM
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I am fully assuming here. But most guys I know don’t read. And when they do it’s sci-fi/fantasy and that’s IT. why no lit fic for the men?? 😢 We have male lit fic authors. My partner reads regularly… but only sci-fi/fantasy. Dune, hobbit, Eragon. But nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:07 PM
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Hmmm so won’t drop the mask. Gotcha. Umm def not a date. Never a date. Not with you at least lmaoooo. See I can banter too. Maybe it’s a “social media interview” Do you decline to answer? Just so you know, the laws of Reddit state “interviewees how don’t answer the interviewers question, concede that the interviewers assumptions are then correct” And I don’t make the laws dude. Just follow em.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:04 PM
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Unfortunately for you dude. I got the screenshot. I know how yall move. To those wondering what I’m replying to. Here it is. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:55 PM
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This really does something for you huh? I cannot imagine how you must feel in your day to day life. That these are your thrills. I always wonder what drives a person to weird incoherent madness like this. Just throwing any and every incendiary comment you can think of, out there til one sticks. Serious question if you’re willing to drop the mask. Are you looking to argue with others. Or do you just like being able to say uncouth things? Do you feel like you have a lot of personal power in your l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:53 PM
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menwritingwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:49 PM
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It’s on my TBR. thanks for covering the spoiler. Heard it was a ride of a read. Do men in here read lit fic?? Or read at all?? I wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:48 PM
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Since you admit to doing this. What is the purpose? Some communities you need karma to post in. But you could generate that organically or without farming… what’s it for? Attention? Or does it serve some functionality purpose on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:40 PM
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I mean I keep asking it every which way and it concludes that being able to do one doesn’t mean you’ll be good at the other. Nor does it suggest I twerk to gain the ability to ride outside of rhythm which I already said. Quite clear actually. I have now asked the model like 5 different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:12 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:11 PM
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<image> Hmmm well what do you know…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:09 PM
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So rhythm and stamina like I said…. Yet uses different muscles. I’m not seeing how this picture isn’t proving what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:06 PM
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Different muscles are used
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:04 PM
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How often are you riding on penis during sex?? Just a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:04 PM
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And she literally would be in a different position. Utilizing her knees to stabilize herself is she was twerking. Here she is using her hips. These are not the same muscles being used. Yall are taking me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:23 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:21 AM
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No… they do not cross over. You use different muscles. Like I’ve said 5 times. Now. Since you rather believe AI here you go. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:20 AM
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It literally says what I said. Which is stamina. They want to add confidence sure. But they Still they don’t cross over.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:17 AM
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>”But she's often not going up and down, but keeping you inside.” So NOT the same as twerking. Which was the dance move that started this convo btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:49 AM
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What does women are wonderful Have to do with power differential?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:46 PM
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Multiple kinds, this is very broad. I was raised learning ballet, lyrical, tap, jazz, and some contemporary. As I’ve gotten older I do hip-hop, modern, contemporary and African. I am a formally trained dancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:48 PM
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Yeah, neither of those is about the spine. This is exactly how I know you don’t know what the hell you talking about because your back is the least of the problems when Twerking. You use completely different muscles for Twerking then you do grinding and riding. Id know, I do both riding and twerking, several times a week
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:44 PM
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Neither of this use the same mechanism as twerking. Pls just leave this alone. Reverse cowgirl is even LESS like twerking than standard cowgirl. Oy vey. Maybe if yall had foot and half long penises then there would me more cross over. They are not the same. And as a woman I was actually shocked to learn they don’t cross over and I had to develop muscles and stamina for it, entirely separate from twerking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:27 PM
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As a woman who dances. Very little dancing skill crosses over to riding men. Perhaps she’d have better pacing and stamina. But twerking doesn’t translate. Completely different muscles are used. And the motion of twerking would inevitably result in coming back down wrong or at a weird angle. I know many women who can twerk but don’t cross that over into riding. But I keep encountering men who think it’s the same. Including my own partner. And I have to tell him. It’s not the same. And doesn’t cro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:23 PM
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So a majority of men in this society don’t care about a woman’s body count and how many partners she’s had?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:40 PM
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What do you conclude as “short”? Any relationship outside of life long monogamy is “short”, but 3 fifteen year long relationships, over the course of a lifetime, aren’t really “short term relationships” now are they? Some people may get 15 years out of a marriage and the partner croak. I surely Wouldn’t say that was a short term relationship for them. Or 2 marriages in a lifetime, wouldn’t consider those 2 relationships inherently short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:38 PM
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How do you conclude that them being more equally yoked physically, makes it more tragic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:33 PM
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Yes, I believe when we look at statistics on fatalities and grave injuries. Men are more likely to enact this kind of violence against women. I think women are 4x more likely to die in dv situations. Intimate partner violence really gets broken down into the smallest of elements. Is it intimate terrorism or situational partner violence? Did they use open fist or closed? That’s different. You could be charged differently. Were you injured to the point to it leaving marks, you needing to go to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:32 PM
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That’s not why I choose the bear tho… I am not personally aware of any violent men in my day to day life. I think for sure people would assume men are more likely to be violent than women. And I believe more men hurt others than bears do each year. But I don’t think most would assume that MOST men hit women. I just really don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:55 PM
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No, they said men are reinforcing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:23 PM
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And this is why women feel like men are clueless about how women work regardless of whether or not they’re being explicitly told so. Finding a woman attractive. Does not at all indicate sexual attraction… are you one of those guys that claims they can’t tell if a guy is “hot” or not because they’re not gay, and doing so would make them such? Or can you recognize attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:33 AM
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Surprisingly there’s a lot of vitriol to my inbox when users here find out I am taken. Despite my partner too being in their shoes before meeting me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:54 PM
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The nuclear family unit as you/we know it is a modern advent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:50 PM
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I think one should feel deep shame. I just think the correction itself may bring about shame in and of itself and wonder if additional shaming is necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:31 PM
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It seems like you’ve really thought about it. And that’s the first step in social change. Thanks for the exchange. I have wondered myself if shame is necessary. I wonder if being called out for an off color joke… you know is off color. Is likely to incur a bunch of shame for the speaker of said joke, regardless of whether or not additional shaming occurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:32 AM
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You have soooo many comments talking about women and accountability. And here you are docking and dodging sooo hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:21 AM
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I don’t think it was ever meant to benefit YOU. Just as most comments said to others.. Aren’t usually for the person saying them. But for the person they are saying it to. It benefits your friend and the world to not say weird things around you. And in a way that does benefit you in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:09 AM
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Do you think shame is a necessary component or is it added for emphasis
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:06 AM
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The way yall go about “being liked” is SOOOO the antithesis of being liked. It’s wild to witness men “wanting to be liked by the average woman”. Meanwhilst it’s a profile filled with slights against the people you want to like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:29 PM
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Also I genuinely don’t know what adjust attitude means in this context. When you flesh it out. Sure a lack of endless judgment is ideal and should be advocated for. But then you also mention antagonizing. And that means to provoke hostility. And I’m not sure what that looks like to you. Or what you’re referencing as antagonistic? Is the antagonizing the judgment in this context? And if so what does that mean in terms of actions being done or words being said to these men. What harmful hateful no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:50 AM
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When we say unwanted men. Do we mean the average man who is finding it harder to find dates. Or do we mean the community that cannot be named on this sub? Bc I def feel there is judgment towards the latter. Not sure about how widespread I’ve seen endless judgment of men who are introverted and can’t get dates IRL. There is a ton of it online. And perhaps in the media. Perpetuated by both men who seek to gain from these men. And women who want to profit off of the women. But idk if I’m seeing the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:45 AM
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Huh, what attitude? Where are you deriving that from? 🙃. Or am I confused by what you’re saying. All sentiments carry some sort of connotation. But attitude usually implies a negative one. And I was and still am coming from a place of utter confusion. So unless confusion is deemed a negative… that now means I’m giving “attitude”. Then Im not sure what “attitude” you’re speaking of. This just seems hostile to me as a reply, despite my lack of hostility towards you. I don’t wanna make assumptions …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:05 PM
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Tbh Idk. I come from a racial demo that mainly votes progressively regardless of nation of origin. Therefore most immigrants I personally know, vote progressively. We do have a stereotype about Cubans always voting for the most conservative person ever tho. So idk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:03 PM
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Wait maybe en masse was too broad. What percent of men do you think this is happening to? And cable I see the evidence for most women without a doubt settling and not loving the person? And those are 2 different things. So I’m supposing multiple citations?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:01 PM
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What do you mean by is necessary for women to meet men where they are? You mean women begin dating ppl they don’t want to be with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:31 PM
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Do you believe this to be happening en masse to most men? Have you been victim of false lies and character assignation? And most women cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:30 PM
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I am not a broodmare so I am okay to be outbred.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:26 PM
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How does this equal it being women’s fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:22 PM
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But how do you akin active subjugation and oppression, To lack of being selected as a reproductive mate? One is actively doing harm. The other is random people not dating you? Is the implication that a woman choosing not to date a man she doesn’t want to. Is similar to being brutalized?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:09 PM
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Are most immigrant conservatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:05 PM
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Why would I answer you when you can’t give me a clear yes or no answer as to whether or not that response makes logical sense. You can wonder who came first all you want. But most people didn’t make the market. They just entered into it. And if you advocate men lie. Wouldn’t the logical response be to wait out the liars and be as ruthless as possible? Saying play the game or break the cycle doesn’t answer the question. Does that woman’s response to men saying they advocate that most men lie. To …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:20 PM
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Or somehow always being privy to the supposedly private conversations these people are having. I don’t understand. I know they say they are invisible. But I don’t think they can stealth in 1 on 1 conversations without detection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:17 PM
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I’m asking you if that response makes logical sense if men are and continue to advocate for lying to get into a woman’s pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:11 PM
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You can maybe try to dissuade people from hypergamy on a macro level. But in the micro… that’s just telling people (women the majority of the time) to date people they aren’t interested in and to stop trying to get with the best possible person they can. And to utilize no social or personal leverage while doing it. And in the micro that just makes no sense. Almost no woman is going to do that. And we have to be fair and admit that men wouldn’t want to either. And they don’t. They utilize every b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:06 PM
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Yeah I have NEVER heard these sentiments. And also haven’t seen anyone but op even mention them. I’m inclined to believe this is a scenario he’s created in his mind. But why do these people always happen to have “overheard” every weird comment a woman has ever made? Whenever you say “I’m not sure about that one buddy”. It’s “oh but I overheard my sisters, best friend, who’s an only fans model, say X Y Z”. Everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:57 PM
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Gotta admit this is really funny bc if I was bullying my friends into hypergamy this WOULD be my thoughts. But also as a young women in her 20s. I have NEVER heard or even read the sentiments OP has espoused. Like ever. Not never.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:52 PM
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Okay so do you have evidence? Orrr just anecdotes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:43 PM
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So if a guy is very hot and clearly a gentleman, Vs very hot and a rude asshole. The woman is gonna choose the rude asshole? That’s what you’re saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:42 PM
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Then why do you get on here and complain about what women do? If you advocate for lying by men? If men are advocating other men lie to be laid. Then I would immediately begin LOUDLY advocating that women only risk having sex with the men they are the MOST interested in. If they may be being lied to in the end. Don’t do it for ANY MAN you deem may be mediocre. And if you’re not sure and still interested. WAIT HIM THE FUCK OUT. Be as vicious and ruthless as possible and weed out as many of the men…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:41 PM
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Is the implication that most women here prefer hot assholes? Why do we never talk about women wanting kind, stable, sweet hot guys? Why is the assertion always hot… but an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:15 PM
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Are you advocating that men continue to lie to get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:13 PM
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Okay but my experience has only been the opposite. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:12 PM
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Have sex… and then get to know each other. Is simply not an option a lot of people wish to partake in. Many choose to know the person first and then sleep with them if they so choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:12 PM
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Lmao. This doesn’t do anything if the woman never agrees. Nor ever sleeps with the man. You don’t mean mate selection you mean rape and violence. Just admit it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:04 PM
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There is zero sexual obligation ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:51 PM
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No compliments on your outfit unless she wants to fuck you? This is why you e only gotten 6 compliments
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:53 AM
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And because I don’t want random sexual comments towards myself. Yet recognize they may be attempting to be gentlemanly. However I still don’t like cold approaches, especially in a sexual nature. I’d say thanks quietly with my head down and immediately scurry away. No man regardless of attraction would get a different response.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:51 AM
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Nowhere did this person imply it wasn’t a need. In fact the implication here was that, sex, being a known male need is what’s used to pressure women, thus making that coercive. You replied saying it is a need. Almost as if that excuses the pressure. This is after you say that you partner does have an obligation to “try” meaning they do have an obligation to have sex with you. You also say “there will be pressure on the partner but it is what it is. You can’t have it all”. So you did actually say…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:37 PM
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I’d say they are quite constrained and you know that. Soooo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:03 PM
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How are they not constrained?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:57 PM
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I think these things are appealing to the men tho no? They want to see cleavage and think women in men’s boxers is hot? That’s what I assumed but then again I don’t dress this way and I’m not a man so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:48 PM
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Why do the women need to fuck them? I don’t fuck MOST people. Including those I compliment. Does that mean I didn’t genuinely mean the compliment? Also I will notice a man’s outfit and general style before I notice their features/asses my attraction level to them. I will notice the man and his style as that’s what immediately attracts me. I’m only ever attracted in public to well styled men. Unfortunately for yall… I swear to god I don’t even see yall. For real invisible. But I definitely do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:45 PM
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Sure. If you’re butt ugly. Nothing you do is going to help your bone structure. However most men aren’t butt ugly. They are average. And in that case, being an above average dresser would REALLY HELP. I know SO MANY WOMEN that love a fashionable guy. Yet SO FEW MEN will really “go for it” with their looks. It’s actually fucking annoying. Women invest ALOT into their external appearance. So much so there was and still is an era of men who felt “catfished” by the level to which women were doing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:37 PM
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I say this all the time. There needs to be more of an investment into “peacocking” with the outfits 😭. Literally the men I notice out and about and think “damn he’s really go it going on for himself” are the guys who are really stylized in some way. I’ll find even a man in his 20s to a man in his 50s hot asf he he’s into the fashions. Oh and I don’t mean the guy who then randomly think that means suits and pocket squares all the time. I dont mean dress fancy. I mean styled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:30 PM
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Why does it seem like yall never just chalk up woman’s behavior to “biology” and keep it pushing. Why is there pushback towards women but not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:19 PM
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But no one is required to do a single thing in order for that need to be met. Soooo. If you don’t have sex that sucks for you. But no one is under any obligation to do anything about it if they don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:21 PM
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Personally it’s not a turn off for me. So perhaps you were just speaking for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:30 PM
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No. I don’t want them from ANYONE. Do not make random sexual comments to me. Idc if you were a 6’5 billionaire who moonlights as an Asgardian soldier. I don’t know you. Don’t make sexual comments towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:26 PM
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This is bad practice. You should be getting consent regardless of what is implied… and also I don’t think that can actually be possible. You mean to say you get all the way to the sex stage without ever seeking consent for anything along the way? Even during sex, consent is often a big part of the process. How else do you work up to doing butt stuff without first having consent? How do you yall do toy play without first asking?! Maybe yall are vanilla too? But even then I don’t understand this. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:27 PM
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I definitely agree any random man calling me sexy and I’d start sharing my location with my group chat. “This random man came up to me and said I’m sexy out of NOWHERE…. wtf is going on???”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:25 PM
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And you dated her. In OP scenario, the man is “invisible”. Not an ex. But a CRUSH. Your story is different
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:16 AM
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So if my partner has expressed having different standards for casual/ons vs long term. Are they likely lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:12 AM
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And do you determine trustworthiness via various “test”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:00 AM
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Specialization? Wdym by that? You don’t read studies or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:55 PM
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It’s not a calculated risk if you’re testing her tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:30 PM
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Yeah… I think about this with mandatory testing posts we see. child support is going to go through the roof if we institute mandatory testing. And we will all be in CODIS getting absolutely railed by the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:29 PM
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Just a quick question. Does the guy ask for a paternity test after every child? I can see women not wanting this happening multiple times. The first 2 were yours and ur still checking/not sure? At what point are they allowed to be insulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:26 PM
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Incentives don’t have to be rational to be incentives lol. Like what was the point of adding in rational? This was just interesting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:24 PM
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Thought we were sharing information? Do you not want analytical breakdowns of the studies you site? I just assumed. Guess I should’ve asked first
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:19 PM
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All three of these studies are addressed here. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/326582505_Mate_Choice_Copying_in_Humans_a_Systematic_Review_and_Meta-Analysis/link/5b580fcbaca272a2d6670bac/download
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:07 PM
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Yes please do link some!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:28 AM
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It’s not a majority of women. That’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:52 PM
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She left you… and you treated her well? Is this post caused by a fresh wound or something? Ur going thru a breakup and that trigger this post and these comments? Idk if I believe the experiment you claim to have done? How long ago did this experiment take place? How recent were these 10 relationships and how long did they last? Bc were they all long term or short?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:24 AM
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Nor have I… idk where you got that from. I also said I have a long refractory period. It doesn’t last minutes. That would be crazy fast. My statement was and will continue to be that sexual motivation and sexual attraction are two different things. Sure they can be linked but they are not inexplicably connected
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:35 PM
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That doesn’t mean they don’t think those things of those women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:47 PM
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Not in my experience. During the refractory period, my sexual motivation decreases but my sexual attraction remains the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:46 PM
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Sexual motivation and sexual attraction are two different things… are they not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:29 PM
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Right! I’m an infant night nurse/newborn care specialist and my rate for getting up with your baby in the night starts at $14,000 a month. Monday through Friday 7 pm to 7 am. I love when ppl insinuate that these things aren’t real jobs or don’t cost a whole lot of money when I make thousands upon thousands of dollars a month doing the job they swear isnt a “real” or costly one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:02 PM
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Get a surrogate. Totally an option
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:04 PM
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You’re just describing a surrogate and if you go for the “average” 2.5 kids… you’re looking in the ballpark of 300k in total fees for a one time lump sum payment to the woman. You are free to do this! But I can’t imagine the men who would pay this… would be the same men complaining about child support. I think it’s cheaper to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:00 PM
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If the woman doesn’t swat away other men like flies… is that bad for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:32 PM
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The law is what sets all expectations? What are you implying with this statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:23 PM
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Okay and some men don’t allow women to be anything other than hoes, or whales or hot or ugly. If ppl don’t see you as hot then you’re just not hot. That’s applicable to both men and women. If a person could choose to be attractive or ugly. They’d be fine. But that’s not the world we live in for ANYONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:16 PM
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And please direct me towards the studies that conclude gender pay gap is largely (I’m interpreting this to mean majority?) due to effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:48 AM
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I got all of my numbers from the census. None of these numbers here seem to have large discrepancies. 5.1 out of every 10 custodial moms get child support 4.1 out of every 10 custodial dads get child support This doesn’t seem like a very wide difference here. Not one wide enough to stake the claim that men are receiving significantly less support than their women counterparts. 3.8 out of 10 fathers never received payment. We can round to 4 out of 10 if you wish 2.9 out of 10 mothers never receiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:17 AM
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Okay but this doesn’t answer what I asked. Nor substantiated your initial claim that it’s not about money? Now you are talking about the intricacies of why they may make more or less. That’s not your initial point NOR what I asked. WHERE DID YOU DERIVE THE IDEA THAT MONEY ISNT WHATS EFFECTING THE OUTCOME?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:07 PM
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46% of custodial mothers and 43% of custodial fathers receive the full amount they’re owed in child support. Most parents, regardless of gender, don’t get what’s due. The difference is men tend to pay inconsistently with partial payments here and there, while women, are more likely to either pay everything in full or nothing at all. So the narrative that single dads are overwhelmingly “on their own” because moms never pay just doesn’t hold up both sides get shortchanged, but women are paying the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:04 PM
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Okay… this response in the first paragraph is kinda weird… none of what you said here changes that the single fathers make on average nearly 20k more a year. And none of this paragraph addresses how you determined that money has no baring on why outcomes for single fathers are different? Especially when we can see that across the board… single fathers are making more money than their single mother counterparts. I asked you how do you know money has no bearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:58 PM
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Wait, how did you derive this? Most single fathers make more money than single mothers. I always thought that the data indicated that these fathers do better because 41% of them are actually cohabitating as opposed to 16% of single mothers. and they also on average make more money. So there’s a good chance that a child living with a single father is actually living with a dad and step parent of some kind and has a dad that also has a job that makes more than their mother. Making almost $20,000 m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:27 PM
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So what is this? This is what I mean when I say you are wishy wash and switch up what you say. Sometimes even hours apart. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:40 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:37 AM
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Yes… there are many couples partnered with men at this height. My partner is 5’8, my best friends husband is 5’5. Plus I live near large Hispanic population. Plenty of dudes walking around that height with their hello kitty Latina girlfriends. And the men have all kinds of non billionaire esque jobs.. Sooo. Also preference as a definition remains the same regardless of whether or not you use it in the dating world. But you seem to be obsessed with the idea of women settling and seem to flip flop…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:38 PM
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Also. Just dropping in to say. Saying you ONLY like something isn’t a preference. A preference means given the option, you go for one over the other because of a greater interest in it or you like it better. But ultimately both options need to be contenders for it to meet the criteria for preference. ONLY liking and wanting one particular thing. That’s not a preference, it’s a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:13 PM
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It’s not a good faith argument to pretend like men aren’t the default. Literally most of health is tailored to men, politics and law are most written and dictated by men, every president of the United States has been male. Quite literally the list could go on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 07:52 PM
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Do you treat your partners differently based on how attractive they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:12 PM
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That seems like a delusional thing to hope for. How does one even go about making sure that every guy they date is hotter than the last? And the woman must then reject partners who she likes, but thinks the previous ex of hers may have been better conventionally looking, even if they weren’t equally yoked partners or a good pair she has to ignore the qualities that she likes in the person simply because one man she went on a date with five years ago, may have been an eight and this current guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:35 AM
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But ur girlfriend couldn’t possibly be the most attractive woman to you. That’s just delusional cope. No different than the ppl who think that their partners shouldn’t find anyone physically appealing at all, no matter what, during the duration of their relationship. Also why would you assume that she’s less turned on and settling? Attraction is NOT just about looks. She could be VERY attracted to other qualities. It seems like, the prevailing thought amongst ppl who feel and think like you do, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:13 PM
-5

Rape, homicide, and intimate partner violence are all more common than poisoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:06 PM
0

The woman you’re with needs to think or feel that you are the most attractive men she’s ever dated? Is that what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:04 PM
1

You are free to renounce your citizenship and leave the country. You will no longer be subject to taxes. Your continual remaining here is a conditional acceptance to pay your taxes. You can also elect to have no job You are very free to leave. You have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:45 PM
1

Just like the rich see the people as a means of production. Many men simply see women solely as a Means of human production. She’s not producing humans and making me feel good. No food for you. Starve bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:43 PM
1

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/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:34 PM
3

Okay… I’m suggesting warm approaches. Never suggested you ARE cold approaching. But your misinterpretation of my plainly stated texts, Is making me wonder how you’re communicating with others, and the influence that it’s having on your dating experiences.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/25 08:05 PM
1

Can you share some sources on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:23 PM
12

Do you know the difference between a cold and warm approach? cold approaches, I don't really recommend for 99.9% of people. But warm approaches, I recommend for most people, including "loners".
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 11:15 PM
4

But stable and dependable has nothing to do with looks… she can think ur attractive AND stable and dependable. Also on another note. Not entirely related. feeling like you may have went for conventionally attractive ppl when you were young. But now prioritize stability. That doesn’t mean you dont seriously value looks in ur current relationship. It just means where before you weren’t putting much or any effort into worrying about long term qualities. And just prioritized looks. Now you worry abo…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/25 03:18 PM
3

Why is that off putting?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/25 03:01 PM
0

Proof of this general rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:50 PM
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Where did I imply that it’s not? They asked is this happening and they said it “can be”. Okay??? But IS IT? Anyone “can be” anything. But are they ACTUALLY that thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:05 PM
-3

Well anything “can be” possible. It’s about whether or not that’s actually happening, and at what scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:30 PM
2

It’s a social movement and I see that you’re not denying that either. You know good and goddamn well that the ideology behind a lone Wolf is not just that it’s physically by itself. It’s that they aren’t very social and don’t tend towards group dynamics. Hence the lone part. They’re not called alone wolves, or lonely wolves. Lone wolves would never be red pill men they’re lone wolves. It’s a social commentary not a physical one. <image> The Lonewolf isn’t alone forever. They move about through d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:17 PM
3

You can’t be a lone wolf and be a part of a social movement. That’s antithetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:54 PM
1

Bro said “I know you’re not a virgin bc you have scars and smell funky” lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:17 PM
3

What is going to give?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:15 PM
1

Let’s be serious. If women disappeared globally, society wouldn’t collapse in days or weeks it would begin to fall apart in hours. You forget that women are the sole leaders of one of our most important industries. Human reproduction and nourishment. There are approximately 100 million pregnant women on Earth at any given time, carrying the next generation of humanity, half of them likely to be male. There are also over 1 billion children under age 7 worldwide, the biological window during which…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:38 PM
2

But I can pull of thousands of men doing it enthusiastically for (apparently) people who offer some form of wealth or increased status for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 01:54 PM
5

Yeah. Those useless teachers, teaching children how to read. And those darn nurses. Useless jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:53 PM
4

I can also fine thousands of videos of men taking it up the ass. Can a woman expect you to bend over?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:52 PM
10

Dude said “you wanna know my requirements? Why, nothing too crazy, just a thin tall aryan virgin gamer girl”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:25 PM
6

Women’s dating struggles are “idk if he has any genuine interest in me as a person and wants to be with me for me? Or if he just wants easier and continued access to a somewhat attractive female body for sex in the long term, where you could sub in ANY woman who was even remotely attractive and not grating or annoying to him, and he would be with them too?” “Am I a person or a warm body/sex toy” “Am I a person or a chef” “Am I a person or an in home slave” “Am I a person or housekeeper” “Am I pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:59 PM
0

Competency and IQ are not the same nor are they treated as such in the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:42 PM
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This really circles back to the point made above that men don’t build social support systems the way women do. Most men don’t have many friends, and the ones they do have are usually circumstantial. They’re rooted in work, hobbies, or proximity not emotional intimacy. There’s this unspoken assumption that men aren’t looking for friendship, nor do they prioritize constructing support systems outside of romantic or sexual relationships. Even now, look at posts about male loneliness on Reddit. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:34 PM
1

He is 5’10 I am 5’1. He is a pilot. I have never tested his physical strength so I have no clue. He is a runner who runs 3-5 miles 5-7 days a week. He is not extremely conventionally attractive but not ugly either truly a 5. Very average. He however looks very attractive to me due to being my partner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:23 AM
1

Idk what metrics are you using? How are you defining masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:44 AM
1

None of this confirms they like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:42 AM
4

Whether or not you agree is wholly irrelevant to the truth, which is that there is no world in which every woman likes that. It’s quite literally that simple. Your anecdotes have fuck all to do with facts. 🤦🏾‍♀️ All women don’t like that. Weird you have sex with girls. Idk anything about that. I only sleep with women. And all women do not like that. Some yes, all no. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:49 PM
4

We’re literally poly and have threesomes all the time, no one‘s being degraded
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:54 PM
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Who is every man? That’s crazy. My partner is a man. He would not agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:54 PM
4

If I decided to live in a van rn my current partner wouldn’t partake and it could easily lead the ending of our relationship. So if women can’t even necessarily get their partners they already have, to live in a van. What makes you think women won’t have issues finding men to live in this van with them? Is this just your way of saying you would live in a van with a rando lady if it gave you access to punani?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:12 PM
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Who are you sleeping with that they ask to be called filthy slut? And how did you come to the conclusion that this desire to be called this is reflected by most women? Bc ur wrong on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:09 PM
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If that’s the case then how does this align with women not wanting virgins. They want people with experience that seems antithetical to wanting “naturals”. Do you have any examples to pull from?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:23 PM
1

If a 35yo man loves a 7yo boy. Is it just a matter of the heart and only about feelings??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:15 PM
1

I do not agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:14 PM
1

Something about you saying “you women” really screams butthurt to me. Idk. Weird how language works. But that sounds like the syntax of someone in their feels
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:13 PM
1

So if I say I’m on birth control and I’m not. And I lied to the man. It’s his fault for falling for it. So child support and maintenance should be no problem then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:05 PM
1

Why do we sell that most or even a lot of women are going for “gangsters, hells angels and mma fighters?” These are anomalies when held against the general populace. Or are we positing that awful men are quite ubiquitous?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:04 PM
1

You don’t have to do this back and forth. Just imply the same about when and if women manipulate and this crumbles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:02 PM
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Women more than anyone? That’s a curious takeaway considering we’re living through a moment in history where women’s bodies are literally being legislated forced into service to sustain life that cannot exist independently. Not because women asked for guarantees, but because their autonomy is so undervalued that it’s seen as negotiable, even disposable. And as for your idea that women are out here crying and complaining without doing the work statistically and historically, that’s off the mark. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:34 PM
5

Lmao. It needs to spelled out huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:17 PM
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What would she have told him? I don’t look over at my friends and profess my lack of will or want to date them… so I’m confused as to what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:15 PM
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So weird how duality doesn’t exist for most people. One can be in the wrong and not deceptive at the same time. She was wrong to shame him. But she deceived no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:09 PM
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People wanna fight this. But there is an over under 25yo swing. My partner and I have this issue with couple friends. The 2 or 3, 22-23 year old couples we hang out don’t have “real” jobs yet and ask us to hangout at 2pm on a Wednesday. We are like “we have real jobs we work 50 hours a week” our older friends 25+ dont have this issue. They too have “real” jobs and don’t ask us silly things like that. It’s not even close to a universal experience. But her being 23 and “having no ambition” is diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:54 PM
1

You can go on the .is website. So I’m confused?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:14 PM
5

Red pill logic always gets weird when people start moralizing attraction. You’re saying that being “discriminatory” in dating and sex is immoral. But how exactly did you determine that? What moral framework are you working from where not wanting to date or sleep with someone is unethical? And if being selective is “bad,” can you inversely prove that being non-discriminatory in dating and sex is inherently good? Because… good for whom? A person forcing themselves to date someone they don’t want? …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:04 PM
2

So if I’m in a dead bedroom With my partner I can go to the ministry and have them financially penalize him for not having sex with me. How do we determine the rejections are valid or not. Like he says he had a cold for 2 weeks and war really phlegmy but I swear he seemed fine enough to fuck me. So I saw we can’t agree I wanna breakup. Now his income is restricted for a year? Or until he finds a new relationship? So we can breakup with men and financially devastate them without needing marriage …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:48 PM
3

What’s the alternative then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:44 PM
0

The shift has only been recently. Do you think a few months of thinking differently is going to produce noticeable changes that outweigh the 10 years of actionable behavior that is antithetical to the desired change wanted within the last few months?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:41 PM
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They were gonna write “life liberty and property”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:33 PM
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Women certainly get degrees thinking about future husbands tho. Mrs degree and all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:48 AM
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As you said we are talking about the group of people who will choose no marriage. The demo choosing to be single. They rate the happiest. That’s the demo we’re talking about. As you said yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:31 PM
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Considering the women who never marry rate the happiest. I don’t see an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:03 PM
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This is just drivel and once again, I find myself having to tell men in this group that women’s whole rearing is centered around how they will one day serve men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:48 PM
1

Another man misinterpreting information. It makes sense that women are leading in degree acquisition when you see just how many people cannot interpret data. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:36 PM
5

But you’re intentionally adding delusion and atypical exaggeration. You admit this. Therefore changing the dynamic of what was said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:01 PM
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Except this is still a shitty gotcha. Because I left a relationship for mismatched libidos. In favor of being single. I.e no sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:57 PM
5

At least you admit to goalposting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:12 PM
5

When you’re asking for something that is not statistically, the most likely outcome you are asking for something that is not standard. You’re asking for something above standard that would be considered higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:11 PM
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No. The standards op mentioned are littered all over this sub. No offense but the men here aren’t really “attractive” at least I’m not inclined to believe so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:46 PM
1

You can simply detransition afterward with little to no lasting effects. Additionally, 87% of women supplement with formula, so in order to be on par with the average woman, there’s no need to exclusively chestfeed. I can share studies showing that detransitioning is not typically harmful in the long term. I also can’t imagine that someone who’s gone so far as to use hormones to induce lactation would have an issue stopping them if they chose to detransition. The act of lactating and desiring to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:39 PM
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You’re not healed from childbirth and pregnancy for a full year and word weaning age is 7. Women are using their bodies for a lot longer than 2/3rds a year….
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:14 PM
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• https://internationalbreastfeedingjournal.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s13006-024-00624-1 • https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6981677/ • https://internationalbreastfeedingjournal.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s13006-020-00308-6 • https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5779241/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:12 PM
2

He is also insured in the event he wouldn’t be able to work although he mainly sits for his job so even if he was wheelchair bound he could work. So if he disappears, dies, gets hit by a bus. I receive millions. I don’t see how that doesn’t make sense? I didn’t set out to find a man who is a high earner. He approached me, and initially worked at a warehouse. Buttttt why wouldn’t I ensure I am provided for by my provider even in the event of death, illness or injury?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:30 PM
2

I have my own money for a life to provide for myself. However, due to the nature of my partners job he went from making less than me (I was making 80-100k a year) to making triple what I make essentially overnight. For this job we also have to move very far away rather suddenly and live in a major city. Essentially our general cost of living rose overnight in a way that I now needed his income to maintain the life WE built together. I could afford to live on my own but I couldn’t afford to try a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:25 PM
3

Where are you getting 2/3rds of a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:14 PM
2

I immediately insured my partner the very minute he got his “real” job where if he suddenly disappeared I’d be fucked. The very minute we were no longer financial equals he was insured for a rather large sum of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:13 PM
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Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:10 PM
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I am an internationally board certified lactation consultant. The usage of hormones to promote breastfeeding are in fact not unsafe for mother or child. Many WOMEN also take these hormones so they can make milk for their children. Are you positing that it’s unsafe?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:10 PM
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So so many places <image> If you’d like links let me know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:38 PM
1

Has nothing to do with being ripped. Everything to do with agen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:36 PM
1

All those men already had sound reason to question paternity. Y’all really suck wits statistics over here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:34 AM
1

You still have old man chest. You can never hide that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:26 AM
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They’re like you. Yuck -signed a 24 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:24 AM
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Yes, same for some nonsense he linked to me. I think he banks on those who don’t actually read what’s posted. When I asked him for the correct info he gave something akin to, but not at all what he was talking about. Very bizarre, but this is the internet sooo… 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:16 PM
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This dude is always posting the wrong links to stuff. He makes claims and then lists articles that have nothing to do with what he’s talking about. Did it to me too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:11 PM
1

We are high school to college aged…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:44 AM
1

Yes. Why would you not pick up your shit off the floor because you make more money? Or why would you not wash the dish you just ate off of? Or why would you not put your child to bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:41 AM
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I’d say a good sect of right winged women are believing of that. And the people from “a few generations ago” are who raised today’s generations. My parents born in the 60’s definitely raised their daughters to be able to serve a man, and they aren’t even religious or right leaning. I see many women being raised and reared this way as evidenced in the disparity between the labor men and women do both inside and outside the home. With women cooking more meals than men, cleaning more than men, rear…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:39 AM
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Why are you assuming promiscuous women are being “used”? As opposed to mutually engaging in casual sex with other people? Also you don’t even know that she’s sleeping with men. She could be a raging lesbian… promiscuous woman is actually an indicator that she’s not being used for sex, but that instead she’s seeking out sex potentially, maybe, even using the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:33 AM
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Compatibility matters beyond attractiveness and vibing. My best male friend is attractive and we vibe about our common interests. And we see each other every so often to dabble in those common interests. But we don’t live the same way AT ALL and are fundamentally into different things. We may like the same movie but for VERY different reasons. And that’s totally great for a friend with a different perspective. But in day to day life how we live (I’m much cleaner than him and he thinks I’m a neat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:32 AM
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Has this been your personal experience and that’s why you’re saying this? Bc this is just NOT unilaterally true….
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:24 AM
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Many women are reared solely to serve men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:23 AM
1

How do you know it’s useless??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:23 PM
3

Yes. In that regard you are correct. Most of us do stick to men our age. Most people date and marry people close in age to them. But you already know that… As for the complaining. I will absolutely keep complaining about the fact old ass men (way too old for us) keep hitting on me and my niece. Or men way to fucking old trying to cold approach, warm approach, talk to me at all. Nope. Ew. Go away. As if. Pervert. The whole 9. I will keep complaining until my peers and I are left tf alone. ESPECIA…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:47 PM
2

So you don’t want male birth control?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:22 PM
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Huh?? He was jailed for poisoning and tampering with his gfs stuff. Not murder. Where did you get this info? They have mislead you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:07 PM
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What do you mean jealous. Are you saying if someone asked my dad (60yo) how he feels about a 40yo dating me his daughter in her early 20’s he’d say jealous??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:04 PM
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No you are incorrect plenty of younger women such as myself still think it’s gross and how would we be jealous of women in our age demographic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:02 PM
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Would they accuse a young girl of being jealous of the other young girls. Say I said everything you said. And I’m 24…. Wonder if then it would be okay for us to look at men who go after us very weirdly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:01 PM
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Which article has info about them beating up 18yo for talking to 16yo. Neither of the bottom 2 articles said that from what I saw. But I could’ve easily overlooked or clicked the wrong links.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:59 PM
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Gen z does have an obsession with age gap. I am gen z and see it all the time. However it’s not because people aren’t telling them to chill out. It’s because we grew up with KIK and Snapchat and Omegle. And every nearly every girl I know at some point talked to a 35 year old man on one of those platforms. We were inundated with child predators. And they didn’t look like or act like what they tell you they do in the school assembly. So now they are overly cautious as a result of being rampantly g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:57 PM
3

Yes this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:11 PM
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I like how your first response was yes, we lie, but it’s your fucking fault lol. Not even gonna bother to read the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:49 AM
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I mean, there is a difference between being the person wearing the condom and being the person who is not wearing the condom. I have never been able to effectively check the efficacy of a condom because it’s always been on my partners penis, idk what’s happening with it other than what he tells me. I have to defer to his trust. Like he doesn’t with my birth control pill. But my partner is always able to check the efficacy of his condom in a way that I am not able to. Check for leaks as he pulls …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:47 AM
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What are you talking about? It is a crime and often considered rape in the us…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:44 AM
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Right right. It’s all a video game. If you can’t objectively prove anything about anyone how are you speaking on objective truth🤔. Okay I’m done with this lmaoooo I can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:35 PM
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That’s oxymoronic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:00 PM
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It’s not odd. Many children raised by men still have another parent in the household via a legal or cohabitating step-mother. 50% compared to 16% of mothers. And most are above the poverty line when living with a male 89% (very very high!) complained to 69% of mothers. These factor in to why children do better in single father households!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:58 AM
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And then when she does pursue. “You’re only pursuing people you’re attracted too” not me!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:42 PM
4

Are you a provider and have been for some time?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:40 PM
1

Idk why they are pushing back. Bc is what you’re saying not the crux of red pill ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:40 PM
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Right my partner is a provider. But we have always paid for each other back and forth. Him and then I. I make about 85-90k a year and he makes about 250-300k (albeit a newer salary for us) a year. He definitely is the provider although you may catch us on a date where I pay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:38 PM
2

Do you have any evidence of this? Any citations or sources
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:33 PM
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This is so bizarre because your post lists traits that women find attractive, but when it comes to men, you just say, “It’s gotten to the point where men are demonized for expressing that they want sex at all.” My question is, how does simply stating that you want sex relate to a conversation about the traits and characteristics people look for in a partner? Those seem like two separate topics. My second question is, why are men expressing that they want sex? Like, to whom? For what reason? In w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:35 PM
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English your native language? I see your username says Sweden. There’s a lot of grammatical errors. I am not quite sure what this comment means?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:22 PM
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I want more from you. I see you and a few others. And every reply is a bit disappointing. Who or what coined the term pair bonding and where does the terminology come from? I’m gonna guess that you’re going to come up with 1000 reasons to not answer that question. I’ll ask here again. Who or what coined the term pair bonding. And where does the terminology come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:20 PM
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I want more from you. I see you and a few others. And every reply is a bit disappointing. Who or what coined the term pair bonding and where does the terminology come from? I’m gonna guess that you’re going to come up with 1000 reasons to not answer that question. I’ll ask here again. Who or what coined the term pair bonding. And where does the terminology come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:19 PM
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That study means nothing sir. Good lordt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:16 PM
3

So if I don’t say hello to everyone on the street then that means I think everyone on the street is a bad person?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:03 PM
3

So not talking to someone means they are a bad person?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:04 PM
5

Where is the commenter’s assertion that the men were/are bad people?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:35 PM
0

Examples? What are The women supposed to be working harder towards?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:22 PM
3

Your reply only affirmed what she said. You literally said. When you’re used to people acting like you doesn’t exist, someone saying something nice to you seems like a possible sign of interest. That’s literally what the commenter said. The only people guys aren’t thinking are trying to show interest are old ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:19 PM
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So is this you confirming you are a bad person or? Do you beat women and put out cigarettes on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:03 PM
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Okay. In that regard I asked for percentages. Meaning data, not anecdotes from Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:07 PM
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Why are you guys so excited and hopeful we will get cheated on? Lmao. This is why no one wants to date you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:03 PM
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So how are men under 6 foot getting married and partnered?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:02 PM
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That’s how the people who “settled” feel. It’s just that they get a poor label bc they are the ones who are honest about the fact that other things they would’ve liked in a partner they didn’t get. Being honest about the boxes your partner doesn’t fill, doesn’t then mean those people can’t/wont/don’t feel exactly as you described
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:29 AM
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You literally said in your other comment “of course you might not be checking all the boxes” meaning. Someone has to settle for less than all the boxes they want checked… this isn’t a new concept. Not even to you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:45 PM
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What does this have to do with Madonna Whore and dead bedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:24 PM
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So reveal the percentages for af/bb since it’s asserted as incredibly common majority behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:39 PM
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Madonna whore also manifests for men once the women they are with have children and become mothers. Some cannot code a mother as being sexy. Even if they are the ones who impregnated her. Thus ending their sexual relationship. Check out the dead bedroom subs. The mom subs. The high libido women sub. Happens quite often unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:01 PM
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“Rightfully so” lmao. If you think you have the “right” to be disrespectful and rude. Then you got a lot of inward reflection to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:42 PM
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If you’ve ever seen the show. That’s not at all how it’s played and he was absolutely disrespectful. You’re supposed to go down the line and ask each person a question. Then pop the ballon. Not walk out and so dramatically pop the ballon. Y’all can feign confusion that it wasn’t over the top and a bit rude. It’s not surprising since often times y’all lack emotional depth and intelligence alongside accountability. Instead of just keeping it a buck you will pretend that he wasn’t being overtly dra…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:36 PM
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He definitely was doing the absolute most popping that balloon come on now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:28 PM
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Equivalence does not need to mean the same. It means equivalent. Corresponding is also a means of equivalency. Please don’t be daft. The CIA and the MI6 are equivalent despite not being the same. Holy fuck these are child like concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:30 PM
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All humans share equivalent value I.e. all humans are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:13 PM
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No they just need to be equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:12 PM
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Also that is not a necessary requirement for hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:10 PM
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All humans are equal dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:04 PM
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lol y’all are really funny over here. The overt hypocrisy seems counterintuitive to growing your movement
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:16 PM
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Well 1. Once someone tells you it’s no longer a thought now is it? And 2. That’s not a relevant question to me as my partner and I are ENM. “Cheating” isn’t really a thing in my relationship as my partner already sleeps with other women. (I however do not, this is what I want and was MY choice for our relationship, I always have to preface that) But do my partner and I have all kinds of conversations about what it would take for us to do x thing? Yea! We’ve talked about the conditions in which h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:08 PM
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Proof for claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:51 PM
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Thought crimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:49 PM
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Why would you spend a decade at a place that teaches you victim ideology? Are you who this post is about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:41 PM
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That’s like saying I’ve never met a person who didn’t have cancer… start chemo. Hahahah why would they be doing chemo if they don’t have cancer. It’s like ur really missing the point. This sub is seriously hilarious sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:40 PM
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ASPD still exists… and people get that diagnosis now all the time. Sooo idk what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:38 PM
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Hope this helps. If not. You may want to get your Iq checked. You seem confused around these parts quite often. Are you by any chance on the spectrum? Do you think you’re displaying golden retriever energy right now? Bc by YOUR definition you are. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 09:15 PM
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Your refusal to get the point is actually just making you look mentally delayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 09:14 PM
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Idk how 3 friends are a grape vine. But 1 friend, 1 family member and 1 therapist isn’t . Sir both include only 3 people. So if that’s a grapevine. What you said is a grape vine too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:48 PM
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Right. We are said close friends. There a group of 4 total and some share more than others but yeah, we’re all best friends and have known each other since we were about five years old so it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:22 PM
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Among women, I have found that simply being chosen, especially becoming a wife, is what earns social status. The quality of the man or the marriage itself often does not matter. As long as he put a ring on it, that is enough. I see this dynamic play out frequently in women-led spaces, particularly the more catty ones. In contrast, within my friend group, we are all in relationships, and our conversations focus on the qualities we appreciate and dislike in men. We often discuss whether our partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:07 PM
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Idk why men don’t get if a woman wants to baby trap you. It’s likely very hard to circumvent that. Especially if you’re in an LTR. A woman could poke holes, go off birth control, or good ole fashion pull that ish out of the trash can and turkey baste. My partner trusts me. But also I could trap him easy and there would be little he could to stop it, if he didn’t see it coming. And he checks out condoms when we use them. And this is likely the case for most men and women in relationships. This is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:43 PM
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Mine came and held my hand while they shoved that bitch up there. Tears in my eyes and all. He knows I got that thing put in… the cramps and first period after were evidence enough. We woke up in a pool 🩸 ☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:37 PM
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Do we have data to support that 60-70% of all men are single? All the evidence I’ve seen suggest that men and women are unpartnered at 39 and 36 percent respectively. And partnered stats rest at about 60% for men and 65% for women. So actually most men are in relationships. So what are you speaking about? Can you share what you have? Here is my source. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2021/10/05/rising-share-of-u-s-adults-are-living-without-a-spouse-or-partner/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:31 PM
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Most men being willing to fuck anything doesn’t necessarily affect who they are willing to settle down with. Especially when they have enough options to be able to exercise choice. Many people will sleep with people they’d never date and would certainly never marry. This is not a new concept
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:24 PM
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That last paragraph was wild. I have no desire for my friends to be jealous of my partner… most of my friends are partnered themselves. We’re not all sitting around hoping each of us lusts after the others partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:19 PM
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This answers OPs question… none.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:05 PM
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This is funny bc there’s a tiktok going around absolutely polarizing women. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT2pKvY4F/ You are totally correct about the “social safety blanket” it’s evidenced in the comments. There are women who will absolutely leave with a man at a club and then women who absolutely would never. Nor would ever allow their friends to. Those girls are completely unavailable to most men due to said security blanket
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:18 PM
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The numbers don’t lie? Can you share what numbers you’re speaking of?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:11 PM
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Idk a good haircut will make a man attractive to many women. I may be able to find some examples if you’re interested. Of men looking drastically different with a different haircut. And as a result now women like them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:13 PM
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You just choose an alternative birth setting like home birth or birth center or unassisted My previous partner was born at home because his mother was in active addiction and didn’t want him taken away
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:21 PM
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Yes, and I think reserving outward emotional expression only for death is poor management of emotions. And there are studies that align with this. Stoicism in men leads to higher suicide rates. So a man who comes out the gate saying this and citing women having issues with it when we also have studies that indicate otherwise and the women themselves are saying otherwise, yet the man is also choosing to lean into anecdotes more. Seems emotionally immature imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:13 AM
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Idk man as you described what you would talk about with your partner. I literally started to get the ick and became very turned off, found myself making a disgusted face. If my partner only shared vulnerable things in that manner I’d leave him as that wreaks of emotional immaturity to me. My partner has cried with me several times and I think of those times as defining points in our relationship where we experienced extreme levels of bonding. And it does incredibly well for our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 08:17 AM
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I’d be deathly afraid that karma was gonna come for me. Would I take the money? Maybe? I was also raised to never say never. But I’d be looking over my shoulder and waiting for the other shoe to drop for the rest of my days. Bc who would give a million bucks for a bj. If it’s too good to be true it probably is. If a man offered me 1k for a bj I’d swear he had gential herpes or aids or something and just my luck I’d get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:22 PM
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You say you’re not saying anyone is lying. But what’s the inverse of honesty? What are you getting at if not lies? I’m confused
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:03 PM
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I don’t know. If a man is really hideous—and for me, that would also mean an old, wrinkly man—I don’t think I could bring myself to let him penetrate me, even for the money. I wish I could, though. I won’t lie about that. I really wish I had it in me to suck it up and be a sugar baby. Strike while the iron is hot, right? I’m 24, in great shape, and already make good money for myself, so I could just have fun with extra money or something. But I just can’t do it. My friends and I have talked abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:58 PM
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Yes! The sound a voice is definitely a thing for me too. I almost never judge men on looks first. Usually it’s voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:32 PM
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Yes, if you want to marry and have children. Yes he would be wasting your time and no you wouldn’t be wholly enjoying it bc totally enjoyment would include someone who was willing to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:24 PM
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Just women lying about their slutty past, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 03:35 PM
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But you wouldn’t know when you’re not noticing the covertly promiscuous people tho… this doesn’t seem like you’ve deeply thought it out. Gotta be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:49 PM
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The porn to sexting parallel you drew is a weird one and I’m confused how it’s even a question. Bc pornstars are actresses and flirting with a person on line is flirting. Watching porn can be a single person act. You can be alone. Flirting requires willing, excited and somewhat eager parties. That’s not a necessity to porn. She can fake a squirt, shake on camera, go by a totally different name than her actual one. Grab her money and go home. The same dynamics are not applied to flirting with rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:48 PM
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I’m a nanny in my day to day life and the amount I have heard parents try to have me enforce gender roles onto literal babies is insane. Telling me he’s crying too much for a boy and he needs to grow up. And he’s 22 months old. It really is not just yesteryear and I don’t believe that you earnestly believe it’s all deconstructed. You’d have to logically know that it would take many many lifetimes to remove remnants of patriarchy and not just from the 60’s - present day. Literally the perpetrator…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:59 PM
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This sounds like you poorly interpreting data. We have the stats for both fails and successes. Therefore your point is literally irrelevant we can simply compare that data
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:23 PM
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Thanks so much. Unfortunately the full study appears to be behind a paywall. Do you by any chance have access or are we just going off of the abstract
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:52 PM
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Dude 21 is not old enough to pull that “in my 21 years of life” you are quite literally still school aged. And can barely drink. Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:50 PM
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Is there a legitimate study beyond the YouTube video. Or is that all? I just don’t wanna waste my time and watch a video if there’s instead something to read. And all that comes up is YouTube videos
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:36 PM
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Where did you get the idea I see this as a force of nature or that I don’t see this as an issue? I used similar language for the modality of attempt for women as well. So I think ur just making that one up. We should not see unsuccessfully attempts as cries for help. That is actually you treating women like they aren’t actually looking to die because a person is more likely to survive knife wounds then gunshot wounds. This is why women are trying to off themselves at nearly a 2-1 rate to men, as…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:56 AM
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So all of this is readily available to look up. But by and large women’s attempts lead with pills, intentional drownings, and exsanguination (cutting/slitting wrists). While men are likely to use and have access to fire arms, followed by hangings and jumping. Men usually choose messier methods for their attempt and usually have access to more lethal weapons. Modality of attempt is the greatest determining factor in whether or not someone is successful. It’s not about “how badly” either gender/pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:57 PM
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Literally women attempt suicide more than men. Nearly 2 fold. Women’s mental health is actually also a big deal <image> However do to methods of attempt, success rates are higher for men. But make no mistake women are the ones in larger numbers trying to kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 04:55 PM
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Everyone does this so who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:19 PM
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There’s a whole lot of correlation but not a whole lot of causation in your wall of text over there. Like a lot. And most links are going back to dating and marriage and childcare. So betrayed bc you’re not being picked and staying chosen. Also. The note where men do 1/3rd of house work is comical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:18 PM
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Well isolation would be the improper way to be “alone” In this context. Isolation and being by oneself can be worlds apart
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:09 PM
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I see you provided a study for one of your points, but you made several claims. Before we fully engage, can you provide reputable sources for your statements? You say things like you find a certain idea more plausible, but I’m sure you’re already aware of the counterarguments. I’m more inclined to engage with evidence than personal opinions. If you’re familiar with the refutations and have a retort, I’d love to hear them. If not, I’d be happy to share. But going back and forth on what we “think”…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:35 AM
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If you have a hard time perceiving social change. How on earth can you speak towards society beginning to change and breed an unhealthy distrust in men? Please tell me you see how this makes no sense. Care to elaborate? Maybe a better question is where were/are you seeing unhealthy distrust in men- in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:03 PM
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The question asked of you was how is it hypocritical to want a partner who makes the same. Your response was was that a person who makes 6 figures, and wants someone who also makes six figures, isn’t looking for financial stability. Bc they themselves earn money, instead they are greedy and shallow for wanting a partner who earns the same. And I said well, you Don’t work and make 6 figures while pregnant and on maternity leave. You think that somehow means you need 6 figures while on mat leave. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:33 PM
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Is housing bad there? It’s awful here currently. But markets can change fast
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:11 PM
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Well you don’t make six figures on maternity leave or child rearing, that would require the non-gestational partner to be the one making money. Is this not obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:22 PM
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The same can be said about a number of practices. Is a propensity towards enslaving people an inherently biological condition?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:54 PM
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Can you prove this is inherently biological”? Because I see no indicators that point towards this being objective truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:36 PM
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What does that have to do with literally anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:04 PM
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You are free to to do further research.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:13 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:14 PM
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That’s silly bc in marriage a man gets his money and his partners money (most women work) and he gets her for free labor. Women have less free time. Men also live longer, generally earn more and report being happier. What yall mean to say is that there’s no benefit to men in divorce and that I’d agree with. There’s no benefit to anyone in it. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:13 PM
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This is bizarre. Do you not believe childcare, cooking and cleaning to be provisions? Alongside the monetary earnings of women, considering a majority work? Provision aren’t just monetary, they also include services and amenities. Which the above clearly are. Women provide financially and or through directly providing goods and services. Examples include ones mentioned above, as well as including things such as breastfeeding, and gestating (providing one’s body) or household managing (providing …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:34 PM
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Women are still doing a majority of the housework and childcare. The study’s and research say as much. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:38 AM
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Again what’s acquired during marriage isn’t “the man’s” it belongs to both parties in the couple and when they split the money is split evenly. This applicable to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:35 AM
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It seems to me like marriage is fine for men. It’s divorce That’s the problem for them. Be better husbands and maybe the wives will stop divorcing yall
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:32 AM
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How are they pressuring men? In what ways, and what is the presumed problem with pressure? Bc I’m not sure I’m following you. These seem like complaints not truths. So maybe you can elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:06 PM
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What’s the “truth”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:04 PM
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Socialization and friends aren’t the same. A child who never socializes with other humans doesn’t develop language. Ever. An encounter at the grocery store or with a stranger is socialization. Friends are a form but far from the definition and while deeply wanted. Also not a core need
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:05 PM
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Bc that wasn’t his claim and pregnancy is the statistical unlikely outcome of intercourse. Something like only a 20% chance of getting pregnant. Google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:14 PM
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Do you think there a no risks to a woman settling with the wrong person?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:17 AM
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Are you a complete package yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:13 PM
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Wait. Why are you looking for a “complete package”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:41 PM
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As a black woman this is funny. Women have ALWAYS worked. Especially WOC
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:07 PM
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I already addressed how factually it’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:53 PM
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Wow…. This is… a daft statement. Do you hear yourself? “The success rate of men who don’t contest”. What does this even mean? What would they have potential success in if there’s no contesting? Non-consorted means agreed upon by both parties without court interference. They didn’t contest because they as a family unit already decided the outcome and were content with it. Hence the lack of contesting. This is really silly. Very much grasping at straws
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:16 PM
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It’s almost like you didn’t read what I said at all. Just read the thread… other people are making the same silly claims you are and I’m not repeating myself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:13 PM
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Studies say otherwise and I’d definitely believe those over you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:04 PM
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And we have studies that say separating is better for children then remaining in marriages In which you are unhappy. As well as showing that women are happier out of these relationships. So really what it seems like ur getting at when you say “don’t benefit anyone” you mean doesn’t benefit men. Divorce usually involves financial drawbacks for both parties. Not to mention what qualifies as a dumb reason to end a relationship? That seems quite arbitrary, so I’m not even going to give much credence…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:50 PM
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Okay so you’ve lost the plot, because you don’t have an argument. Clearly you didn’t realize that women also have lawyers and court fees lmaoooo. And instead of admitting you didn’t think that one through, or deleting the comment or idk saying nothing. You fall back on “wah women are dumb”. What does that have to do with you implying only men acquire court fees, and that somehow, even if they win their child, they’re still the loser over the woman, who lost the child AND the money??? Because yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:35 PM
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The mom would have lawyers as well if they’re in court battling for custody. So this isn’t even male dependent. The stakes are literally higher for women. They make less money proportionally and still have to have a lawyer as well, except when custody is contested THEY are more likely to lose. Both the money, time spent and the child. What’s not clicking?? Are you able to follow logic, deductive reasoning and common sense? Surely you understand the man isn’t the only one who has a lawyer or cour…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:20 PM
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Except I very clearly said when men contest they WIN more often then not. And there are literal sources in the comment section. So men can in fact “win”. Quite literally in this scenario… I really can’t with yall over here sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:10 PM
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That is so not how that works, losing sole custody doesn’t make you ineligible for shared or 50/50 custody. And men who contest stand solid chances at victory
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:09 PM
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Hopefully she says yes and everything goes to plan! Good luck and an early congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:40 PM
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You can say it’s a bad idea, but it’s a philosophy I’ve lived on and has thus far served me well. Current partner and I didn’t sleep together for weeks/months, even when spending the night in the same bed. We literally fuck 3-5 times a week with us both masturbating in between those days
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:27 PM
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The lesser evil was too keep his money and allow the child to be abused?? I’d live in a shelter with my child before I chose too keep my money and allow them to be abused. Are you okay up there???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:18 PM
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This comment doesn’t change any of what I said. It just affirms it. Your friend allows his child to be abused to protect his wallet. I’d say he’s a shit parent too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:15 PM
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Wait til you find out as a man you too can get a breast pump through insurance and or qualify for WIC lmaooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:44 PM
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Uhhh 90% of child custody cases are uncontested. Meaning the mom and dad agreed and they never went to court to decide. And overwhelmingly the choice was for the mother to be the custodial parent. The dads simply didn’t want to be custodial parents. When men contest they win more often then not… these things are available on google??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:41 PM
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This is a funny comment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:48 PM
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The fact you refuse to see how they aren’t in line, Let’s me know you are in fact working with mashed potatoes for brains. If women started making 6’5 thor-esque sex robots with 10 inch penises and exquisite physiques, yall would literally be jumping off of bridges in droves. Get real. They in fact aren’t the same. And it’s bizzare that you’re trying to imply they are the same. Like the skill required to produce this in and of itself lets you know they are worlds apart. The company is literally …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:48 PM
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Yes my bf. Granted this was before we got together and he doesn’t have a need for it now. But if I’ve been out of town or away for several nights have at it. But yes I know someone personally who uses it and he’s certainly not an incel nor do people think he’s one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:26 PM
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Okay well this reply is simply a non sequitur. The point is that a pocket pussy and vibrator are WAYYYY more in line and similar than a vibrator and a whole sex robot complete with balayage hair, grown out roots, damn near dressing in lulu lemon, with 2005 sexy bombshell eye makeup on… not to mention the title is literally less robot more human. So it’s very obvious this is meant to entertain more than just basic sexual stimulation. Women by and large aren’t buying male sex robots and you know t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:17 AM
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But pocket p*ssy already exists. This is to simulate more than a vibrator and either you’re being disingenuous or you’re seriously daft. There’s no need to make anything beyond the genitalia. The sex robot is clearly trying to do more than simulate a vagina. It literally has fake grown in roots. As if the robot isn’t a natural blonde but instead dyes it, but hasn’t gone in for a touch up yet lmaoo. I don’t think I give a shit about the sex robots, as I haven’t thought much about it. However, we …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:17 AM
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A vibrator and pocket p*ssy are more in line than a rose toy and a full on sex robot. Come on now. Let’s be for real. There’s already a 1-1 comparison for male and female masturbatory aids. And sex robot isn’t included in that 1-1.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:09 AM
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We’re both gen z. Maybe cusp babies. We’re 24 and 26… sooo no, you’re wrong lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:32 PM
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Wait till people find out many dna testing facilities require the signature of both parents as consent for taking the baby’s dna. Oop. I worked near a fertility clinic that also did testing. I’ve seen some Shit lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:14 PM
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It’s none of those things. It’s money. Which isn’t natural. Stop goalposting. If you mean resources then say resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:01 PM
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How is one high status and broke. That oxymoronic. Once again get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:18 AM
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Money isn’t natural. Therefore women cannot be naturally turned on by money. Get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:27 PM
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So you really believe no man at 5’9 has a woman. Because my bf is 5’9 and makes less than 50k a year
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:26 PM
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If that emasculates you. You were likely never much of a man to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:53 PM
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I don’t have to act on the desire in a sexual manner for most men to know I’m interested. Unless they’re retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:52 PM
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You don’t have to act on the attraction tho. Thats sexual self discipline. Dont confuse that with lack of attraction. Some people prefer to wait to make sure you’re a reputable person whom they wouldn’t be easily embarrassed to admit they allowed inside of them. A man can become an embarrassment quite quickly and having slept with an embarrassing man can do a damage to ones reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:37 AM
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Also if you can’t glean interest beyond the physical and sexually explicit. I’d start to wonder if you were autistic or slow or something. Bc one would assume wanting more dates and desiring to see you more. Means she is in fact enthusiastic about you and interested. I have NEVER been on multiple dates with someone I had zero interest in. So if you’re asking me if I’m interested in you on our FOURTH date, and you’re wondering this simply because I haven’t slept with you… I’m going to tell you, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:28 AM
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Well this just isn’t true. I very explicitly told my current partner I would not be sleeping with him til I felt ready. Sexual tension and chemistry were there from the very very beginning. However, I made it clear I wasn’t going to be giving into that as I felt It may cloud my overall judgment of his worthiness as a long term partner, as I date for marriage only. We talked on the phone for hours. Stared at each other. Took long walks and car rides to nowhere. And I wanted more dates with him. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:26 AM
1

Is wanting a second date not sufficient. She has to French you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:57 AM
2

Me and my bf giggle about him being a chad too lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:53 AM
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Would I use a man like A human dildo? The answer is Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:19 PM
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The woman nor the partner know they are asexual beforehand. It happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:16 PM
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Yes, this is true of myself as well. I wear makeup. A full face, fragrance and clothes. Just for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:47 PM
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Can they keep it up long enough to get Into a relationship with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:38 PM
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So are we just attaching Chad to any likable traits and characteristics? Bc than anyone can be a Chad… depressed but funny Chad. Autistic Chad… fat Chad. I thought the whole point of Chad was that he wasn’t funny or wholesome. Chad is just attractive and maybe athletic but that’s it… now it seems like Chad is any guy who gets the girl you can’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:37 PM
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Most American men and most married men don’t have six packs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:27 PM
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Men don’t use that either
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:01 PM
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Men are not calling other men a manwhores. Please be fr
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:22 PM
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How do you know those desires are natural and not societally enforced without innate origins?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:24 PM
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That’s like saying a slave can run away. Or that men who cheat on their wives should just leave. Sunken cost is real and if you have zero money how are you leaving? Where are you staying? What’s happening with the kids? Will he notice if you move money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:24 PM
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I don’t think this addresses the question as to why men are expected to be the leaders. Having a desire for some thing doesn’t mean that it’s expected of us, not generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:20 PM
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Do you think that historically women didn’t make permanent body modifications?? Because they did… and war paint isn’t permanent art so it clearly can’t be the “permanent artwork” that makes it important if you follow that up with ”notice non permanent body art like war paint and football”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:47 PM
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My reply was to the initial commenter, did you not look at the dialogue initially
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:18 PM
1

I didn’t know what he looked like when we first started talking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:55 PM
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Yes then we FaceTimed … I was in the hospital. It was 3 months before I knew anything other than what his face looks like. Never saw his profile, didn’t know his height or his job
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:23 PM
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It was 3 months not 1 week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:59 PM
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He’s 5’9 but yes athletic build. No pronounced jawline, very round face
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:57 AM
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I didn’t see what he looked like for the first several weeks of dating. I put my number into bumble and rando guys would text me, he was one of those people. I had 0 clue what he looked like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:56 AM
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I said I find him cuter now, and that’s because of his personality, although we wonder if he’s autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:55 AM
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I didn’t see what he looked like for the first several weeks of correspondence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:54 AM
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No, I actually don’t even know what he looked like when we initially started dating. I put my number into bumble and let guys blindly text me. We corresponded for week before I knew what he looked like and at the time he worked at a hardware store. You’re incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:54 AM
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Yes overtime, I’ve found him more attractive. Not because of his personality. Again where is it implied I was initially very attracted to him and that’s why I gave him a shot… because you’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:52 AM
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No. Idk where you’re getting the idea personality came later and enhanced attraction. I literally said my friends and I think he’s autistic. But he actually suppressed that in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:40 PM
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Why do men do this. I also date a man who hadn’t had a relationship until his early to mid twenties. For literally the same reason. The funny part is. He’s not even ridiculously attractive. He’s cute don’t get me wrong. But I find him SIGNIFICANTLY more attractive now then when we met. And It actually IS because of his personality. But everyone will swear it’s his looks. I hate having to be like “it’s not”. But it’s really not… and they wanna fight me on that. My bf has a personality that litera…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:28 PM
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Maybe for you. Trust alone is insufficient. But for millions of men. Trust is enough for this level of commitment… like what are we saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:04 AM
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By and large they aren’t right 30% of the time. Thats what I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:00 PM
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You’re misrepresenting the data. Thats 25% of people who’ve taken the test. Meaning they already had doubts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:54 PM
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A majority of men know paternity. More than 90% do. So why should those 90% be forced to hand their dna over to the government. When they have zero qualms about paternity??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:37 PM
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Link to 40% of the general population being victims of paternity fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:20 PM
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Why on earth would we give the government everyone’s DNA At birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:19 PM
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Get over yourself. Are you a virgin?
/r/ExRedPill24/09/24 12:10 AM
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Are these cold Approaches?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:05 PM
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Why do you think that a woman who wants to stay home cooking and clean needs a husband or a man? She could just as easily be a lesbian. There are lesbian homemakers. Also choice feminism only requires that there be enough men for enough women and currently right now we don’t have that problem. It’s men who don’t have all of they need/want out of the dating market. I regularly see men advertising that they are willing to offer traditionalism. They’re having a harder time finding women who want th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:05 PM
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Seeing a pretty girl and receiving dopamine is not even attraction dependent, as i, a straight woman can see another beautiful woman and receive a dopamine hit. That is not at all the same, you said most mad are obsessed with vaginas and men refuted that. You keep asserting, to other men mind you, that having sex is somehow the one thing in which they are obsessed with biologically, and wired via DNA to do, and they keep telling you speak for yourself they don’t feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:24 PM
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If they removed all of technology anarchy would ensue and civilization would devolve rather quickly. The word not civilization revolves around sex. Pls with the delusions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:21 PM
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No, they’re refuting you on the basis that men can’t control their sexual impulses or that they are rudimentarily attracted to vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:08 PM
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I’d posit humans would die off first from lack of shelter globally then no new babies born. Pls get real on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:07 PM
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What you think those women “should do or call themselves” doesn’t matter, it’s what they choose to do that matters, that’s choice feminism. If those church girls want to believe in choice feminism and call themselves choice feminists, and believe that a woman should choose whichever lifestyle works for themselves then thats their prerogative. What you think or how you feel about it literally matters none of. What that means for men is not the choice feminists problems. Prove empirically with dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:58 PM
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So we can make the babies and leave them outside no shelter right??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:56 PM
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Yes, and if they don’t have adequate shelter, they die by freezing to death or it being too hot outside, this happens all the time so yes, humans need shelter. Your homeless point only proved this, not disproved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:55 PM
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This is so strange because you say all of this in multiple threads, as if there aren’t men in those comments arguing with you that they don’t feel the same. Why are you speaking for all men or most men when men are refuting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:54 PM
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Except this comment her was talking about a type of choice, feminism in which the women do make a choice i.e. church girls and stay at home moms who called themselves feminists. This seems like a redundant comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:48 AM
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I just wouldn’t date a guy who complains about caring for their children
/r/ExRedPill15/09/24 02:35 PM
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It’s not hard to me. I have friends with credit scores in the 400s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:49 PM
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Bringing up the percentage of people who work a job doesn’t serve as proof that makes someone top 20 percent. Does this need to be continually reiterated or no? Bc each time you pivot this way my desire to converse decreases bc ain’t no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:26 PM
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You do realize🤓 My partner is a pilot. CFI CFII MEI, who just got accepted into his cadet program. He got lucky with his CFI hourly being way above average as he came out the gate swinging with his CFII and MEI, there’s only 1 other MEI. You pulling the amount of people whom are pilots still doesn’t prove that makes him a top 20% let alone top 10. Maybe one day but not today
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:18 PM
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I said people say it, not as a statement of morality but as a form of resentment for the fact that they believe women have all the options but didn’t exercise them right. And you agreed. So I rest my case, that’s why y’all say it. Thank you, because that was my point as to why women will wait at the finish line, bc if she gets fucked over by a mate people will say it’s her fault. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:14 PM
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And what percent of the total workforce works at Burger King? I’m willing to bet it’s not a groundbreaking percentage. Oh look it’s 0.021%. So any woman dating a man who works at Burger King is dating even less than the top 1%? Is that your argument here or did the fact that each individual industry is only a mere fraction of the total workforce fry ur brain???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:57 PM
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What’s the negative attribute in question here? Waiting at the finish line?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:27 PM
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How does one claim to not know who “WE” is and then somehow follow up with a clarification of what “we” means when they say BETTER, but you don’t know who ”WE” is? Seems to me like you do know who we is. And know them and their argument quite well. So idk why you feign confusion?? “Pick better” often serves as the go to response for the aggregate women’s complaints of men. I’ve seen it as a reply to nonsensical things such as women speaking, not about their partners, but their own fathers. Peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:26 PM
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None of this proves your initial point, which was that all of these things somehow prove that women don’t have a problem with this, when you later said they obviously do/did have problems. They just couldn’t voice them bc the alternative is death. If I hold a gun to your head and make another man fuck you in the ass or else I’d pull the trigger, and then said when it was all over that it serves as proof you like being fucked in the ass. Would that make sense? No, agreeing to something under thre…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:15 PM
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Why does wait at the finish line mean top 10-20%? I exclusively date guys who have thus far put a lot of investment into their careers. That doesn’t mean a corporate executive or even someone far into their job. Just someone with vested interest and proven payout from their career, that’s different. (College educated is an example although usually like more of an investment than just having a degree, I need to see moves and a plan towards your ultimate goal. And you can’t be at step one, sorry) …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:10 PM
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You’ve already admitted that women were not all on board with that and that the alternatives were worse. So what are you here continuing to argue? In societies where women have choice they by and large don’t choose to have men with multiple partners. Please fucking give it up. You’re being delusional. You have to go all the way back to kings and consorts for your point to hold literally any substance and even then it was applicable to next to no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:06 PM
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You’re totally right about what confident economically stable men accept. The amount of men who are deeply concerned about my credit. Is proof enough. The excitement when they find it’s not poor, that’s the confirmation I need lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:03 PM
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Yeah. We don’t help the women waiting at the finish line. Bc we constantly perpetuate the “pick better” narrative for women. So what decent woman, the kind a man really wants, is gonna be waiting anywhere but the finish line??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:01 PM
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You say this, as if you believe that, every woman on a plane is there because a man paid for her to be there, there’s no way you believe that…right??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:12 AM
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Vast majority of men work extremely difficult and dangerous dead end jobs? Do you have a citation for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:40 PM
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Right!! because this is how convictions are overturned. Usually there’s not enough evidence for conviction
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:36 AM
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Masturbation and sex are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:15 AM
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Or rape… don’t forget there’s always this lurking looming threat of rape they taunt us with too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:09 PM
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I’ve dated a man at 5’1. Im also 5’1ish. He didn’t want to purse the relationship any further but I would’ve. He was very insecure about his height though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:07 PM
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The sample data was too small to make that sweeping generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:55 PM
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The black pilled man, who can’t warm approach women bc he doesn’t have female friends. Is a menace to society
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:32 PM
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Meaning you’ve never heard of people being spiked by non depressant drugs? Bc there’s no way you’d stake that overarching claim
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:13 PM
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Are you making up this stat or is it legitimate and therefore you can use proper citations??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:09 PM
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Isn’t this a thread where you begrudge MOST women for your past experiences? You at the very least believe you earned you the right to prejudge a decent majority of an entire demographic of people. Billions upon billions of people you broadly, and willingly prescribed negative harmful attributes to them. So you are the thing you’re talking against sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:17 PM
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I also very clearly said, when I am with my partner I make myself totally responsible for his orgasms and pleasure. If you think that starts and stops at ball squeezing then I can’t help you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:28 PM
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Your reading comprehension is dismal. I think squeezing balls during a blow job, which is what I said I do. Is actually quite similar to eating me out and rubbing my clit. But go off I guess?? Fun fact, I actually give him more blow jobs than I receive head. Thats for sure. Not to mention he’s often getting those blowjobs and glass squeezes from two girls at the same time. My friend and I both suck his dick at the same time. That’s more than pleasing enough for my partner. So yes after he has a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:27 PM
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I guess allowing him to fuck me and my best friend on the regular isn’t something I do for him in the bedroom huh??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:26 PM
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If you think that’s it. Thats on you. I was simply replying to your false statement about me. You said “this entire post you haven’t said a single thing I do for him.” That was categorically false. And instead of accepting the fact that you foolishly made a false statement, despite the fact that the claim you’re making is easily disproved by the very second sentence, You goal post and say “that’s it” as if my entire sex life was condensed down into a singular Reddit comment. Not to mention I onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:17 PM
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Definitely definitely makes it less likely for a person to claim rape if you say during the middle of sex “hey are you still comfortable with this” and only continue if they say yes. That and it doesn’t hurt to check in anyways. Me and any partner I’ve ever had sex with discussed whether or not sex was on the table before hand as well. I’m a texter, this is usually documented. I doubt that a person is going to try to pass off a fake rape accusation on a notoriously consent oriented individual. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:09 PM
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The very second sentence was about how I squeeze his balls. Did you not make it past the first sentence or??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:02 PM
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How much clearer could I be? I very obviously said only 5% of women don’t like or want clitoral stimulation during sex. I can’t reduce this sentence down to anything simpler.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 01:01 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:42 AM
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Only 5% of women don’t like or want clitoral stimulation during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:42 AM
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Why won’t you rub the clit while you fuck? It seems like a weird hill to die on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:37 PM
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I did address your point. How does any of that matter when the goal is to please eachother. What matter does passivity have during clitoral stimulation during penetration?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:34 PM
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Okay but if I have to touch my own clit why are you here??? This is what I’m saying. My partner doesnt need to squeeze his own balls. I do that for him during a bj. And guess what… if in the moment I’m not… he tells me and I do it. Whether we are in missionary, doggie, side lying, fuck even when we’re having threesomes and he’s actively fucking my best friend. Both of his hands will be on our clits LONG before his hand were free and idle and we weren’t cumming. He goes out of his way each time t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:29 PM
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Can we not just be fucking for real. The person said the girls in long term relationships aren’t cumming bc of level of comfort but casual sex partners have less issues. That certainly begs the question why en masse are these women uncomfortable and why aren’t en masse the men making sure their partners are comfortable. Why is there partnered sex where you’re explicit goal isn’t the comfort of the person. These are not insane questions. Be fucking for real
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:22 PM
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I don’t understand. Isn’t the point of partnered sex to give each other orgasms. What’s happening in the bedroom if you as the other person, don’t make yourself responsible for the other persons orgasms. Yes, when my partner and I have sex. I am totally responsible for making them orgasm and vice versa. If I suggested we just focus on ourselves and we’re responsible for our own orgasms. They’d look at me and say “so you just wanna masturbate”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:06 PM
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So just don’t check in with your partner when they look uncomfortable and risk being accused of rape later then. No one is gonna stop you. The rest of us will check in intermittently and no one will be able to later claim rape. Youre just making your own bed of accusations to have to pay in one day. Like is it hard to be like “are you any? Do you wanna continue?”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:02 PM
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Do you think most woman are married to attractive billionaires? Like average women are building rapport with average men. But at the end of the day you can still be stuck with a selfish lover deadbedroom is filled with that on both genders and high libido women sub it filled with women who live sex, want it, but their partners don’t put in the work. Despite the fact they got with them, without thinking or involving height, and income. I won’t include your tidbit about attentiveness. Why would yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:59 PM
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This is so weird. I’m only ever alone with my bf. Thats it. It’s not hard not to be around men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:37 AM
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90 day fiance has a view ship of about 14 million. So way less than the 169 million women living in the U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:34 PM
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My favorite thing is when people say shit like this. With things that are easily refutable “are there any women that don’t watch 90’day fiance?” Like dude I bet TLC fucking WISHES 4 billion people were watching there shit. “Every woman has only fans”. Like only fans wishes. Get a grip. We can google the amount of viewers and it’s far from all women lmao🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:31 PM
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What woman wants a man changing jobs all the time, moving locations constantly and chatting up a bunch of women. These things turn on quite literally 0 of the hundreds of women I’ve known in my lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:26 PM
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Idk man I’ve had incels “face reveal” to me and they weren’t ugly. So idkkk I really doubt the looks thing sometimes. Most incels are facially anonymous, and the few I’ve seen I was confused as to how they were so sure it was their looks holding them back. There have been times when I looked at an incels face reveal and was like “ur not ugly, like id def go on a date with this face” but I really really can’t get past the woe is me shit. Like seriously it’s not always looks. At least not in my ex…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 07:59 PM
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But I do believe a man who loves you isn’t going to finiaclly abuse you. I do believe that I could be duped into believing they loved me, giving me a false sense of security. But ultimately I’d believe they didn’t truly love me. My partner loves me and doesn’t financially abuse me. And currently not even worried. Inversely, my partner isn’t worried about me firing up an app. Despite the fact he knows I could have another man in a week. We’ve spoken about the dynamic and whilst he may not live th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:28 PM
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The first sentence certainly doesn’t imply that an exciting sex life is only to be had after settling down. It’s saying being young and sleeping around doesn’t mean you’ll be that way when you get older. This one is quite clear. As for the second. She says she rather a man had a sexually adventurous youth and settle down as opposed to yearning for something. Where is the implication excitement ends. Just that they did adventures wild shit in their youth? Multiple sex partners is generally seen a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:17 AM
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Ideology and values can change.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:59 AM
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Gonna be honest that sounds like a him problem. If he’s mad he turned a hoe into a house wife and is ashamed whose fault is that? Men control access to marriage and he chose to take her seriously. If he made this choice to avoid loneliness then truly who is he to complain. He’s a beta who settled. Certainly not a man with fortitude. He’ll shack up with any whore who gives him the chance. If that’s your vibe then lay in the bed you made and ya better not complain it was all your choice.if you’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:56 AM
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Can you highlight the part where the person makes that implication? I’m reading the thread and don’t see what you’re seeing. Which comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:49 AM
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I can’t help but feel at though you’re announcing you have a hard time getting some. I do know plenty of people engaged in hookup culture who find people to fuck same day. That’s not my vibe but they do it, men and women. Who are these proposed hoes sleeping with other women? Clearly men are getting action if there are women sleeping with men. Just not men like you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:46 AM
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Bc there can very easily be circumstances in which you’re not having sex. The notion you can’t have a relationship without sex is just objectively not true as there are many in relationships without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:26 PM
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So you can’t love your sister without trying to fuck her? There’s no non sexual love?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:36 PM
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Huh? Nope. My current partner is a captain in a major airline bringing home about 300k a year. I make about 80k. We’re both happy and fulfilled. Neither of us are “low value”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:42 PM
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Right. This is the comment I was looking for. I’ve never heard of a girl mom tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:58 PM
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But I remember my first “attractions” being a child before the boys were “men” and before there was a physique to speak of. I remember being a little girl thinking, I DONT think boys have cooties. I liked them and there was nothing masculine or manly about them at that time. We were like 7
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:43 PM
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Idk I’m 24 rn. (Woman) and have no problems pulling if I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:36 PM
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Are you implying it can’t be both? Like fashion can be a hobby and make you feel more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:26 PM
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I personally sit at home and play around in make up and clothes for fun. I’d def have the most iconic desert hair and nails. 💅🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:08 PM
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No, you’d get a pass on those particular people, perhaps even the area.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:36 AM
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Because it seems easier to change behavior than bone structure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:07 PM
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What age are you speaking of in regards to boys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:31 PM
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In order for it to be prejudice it has to not be based in reason or actual lived experiences. Therefore, in my case nullifying it from being considered prejudice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:27 PM
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This might be valid. Many women I know date back to back. I know many girls who’ve never not had a bf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:19 PM
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Omg yes. To the young guy with a low income… WHOS INTO PILL STUFF. I’m 23yo, my gfs are all the same age range. And we chat about this shit all the time. A friend JUST the other day was smitten with a guy until he started with the pill nonsense. And then we were like “dude, what a fucking way to ruin it for yourself. You had a one way ticket to pound town and a good gf, but for some reason you snatched victory away from yourself.” “You can’t be broke AND black/red-pilled.” Like holy fucking mack…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:17 PM
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That’s a western perspective. Where my grandparents grew up, literally the women had to pay the dowry to the husband in order to get married. Literally the husbands were prizes a woman had to earn and then her family had to pay up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:10 PM
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Tell a woman you will build her a house and I doubt she will run for the hills. Women will build futures with men who have the means to build a future with. They don’t want you to come pre programmed with a house and kids. They want to be the person to pick the house and have the kids. Thus literally building a new life. What you meant to say is that women don’t want to take the risk of waiting for a man without the means to buy a house or provide for a family. If you have the means and promise …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:08 PM
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How’d you figure a lot RP men are married?? I’d have guessed the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:58 PM
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I only know 20somethings that want to get married 22-28 is the average age of the women in my friend groups and they want marriage for sure. And they’re on dating apps. Mainly bumble and hinge. Also you can just select to filter for girls that want marriage. The problem is you just wouldn’t match with any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:36 AM
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Ugh. Y’all never get that the whole point is that these women think “I can change him” “I’ll implement positive things in his life that will make him know he needs me” “he will see I’m wonderful enough to change”. These women think they can change the man or that he will love them enough to change. Thats it. That’s the reason nearly EVERY time. Either they don’t know he’s a fuckboy or they do know and hope he will change for them. Because we’re always selling this idea that a man is just running…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:35 AM
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I agree that it’s super fucking disappointing and sad. But the victim blaming that abused people face is enough for me to say that I’m okay being discriminatory towards men when it comes to personal safety. 🤷🏽‍♀️. If I have a bad husband who beats me “I should’ve chose better”. “Should’ve seen the signs” “I allowed myself to be treated that way”. If I am raped “what were you wearing? I know you feared for your life and felt like you couldn’t say no…. But you didn’t say no so????” “Why did you pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:01 AM
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I don’t have strong opinions as to why. I’m inclined to believe that ALOT of it has to do with socialization because I work in high end childcare and see violence disparity start before puberty. Usually it’s around standard child socialization periods that we start to see boys becoming more violent than their female counterparts. This is of course anecdotal but I see how people raise their children and there are gender disparities present in how many people. Especially moms, rear there children.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:48 AM
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They are talking about propensity towards violence not being stifled when younger. They’re not trying to explain away why they choose their targets. At least not in their second comment, which was a reply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:25 PM
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Is this reply for me? Bc nothing in my comment was a gaslight. I am here saying exactly what you’re saying we should do. Which is telling this man that the threshold to make a friend is different the the threshold for an intimate relationship with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:53 PM
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I give all men regardless of race the same grace. Which is next to none until I know you better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:51 PM
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Yeah I figured. The threshold for me to be friends with someone is much much lower than my threshold hold to have a man stick his penis into my vagina on the regular. And I wonder if we asked those men who make these male friends….if they’d let those same friends fuck them in the ass once a week (the average amount a couple has sex)…. Then I think they’d see how being friends with someone is so very different than engaging in an intimate relationship with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:50 PM
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Why are you adding the word “more”? Youre just adding that to attempt to save your point. I am speaking about a singular woman. If you had simply asked “how is it racist to make sure a white man feels comfortable” I’d say, huh? Thats not racist at all!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:47 PM
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Ohh child abuse. I thought you meant child sex crimes. Thanks for the stats!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:46 PM
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Why are you acting like the skills needed to make male friends are the same skills needed to convince a woman to get into a relationship with you???? Are you one of these perpetually single people, refusing to see the issue is infact how you’re broaching the subject?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:29 PM
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Yeah I’m interested too. I hope we actually get a reputable link. Or a link at all for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:20 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:18 PM
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I’d rather sit in jail for 31 days then be raped or murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:15 PM
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How is it sexist to make sure a woman feels comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:13 PM
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When we live in a culture that HEAVILY blames victims for being victimized. Especially in regards to sex crimes, I’d say it’s not surprising to see people taking extreme cautions. My mom didn’t care what pajamas I wore to a friends house if no men were there. If the dad or uncle or any men were there then my pajamas needed to be long pants and a loose fitting shirt. If the parents let their kids go to some randoms man house, even if he has a daughter, and something bad happens… the parents will …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:12 PM
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It would only affect you IF it became irl. Which removes it from the online condition you gave. They’d have to find you OFFline not ONline, in order to effect your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:45 PM
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Idk man. I love having a penis inside of me. The physical act of sex is entirely different than the emotional act of sex and I can differentiate between the two. I can orgasm from penetrative sex, and I do so everytime. And I love it. Maybe you need more enthusiastic sexually liberated partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:42 PM
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So a human dildo? Devoid of any emotional effort. Thats just a sex toy sir. And I happen to love mine. Just for different reasons to why I love my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:38 PM
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Made up people lmaoo??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:43 AM
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Okay but you’re missing the fact that we don’t even have access to the same foods, same skincare or communal exercise culture. There are no giant parks with elders and young people doing tai chi to participate in, even if I wanted to. And yes, genetics do matter, Asians don’t just age “better” they’re aging slower and this is evidence by the fact no matter where they live in the world they live longer than any other race. So it’s lifestyle AND genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:50 PM
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You literally listed plenty of factors that you acknowledge can affect aging quite greatly that are completely out of the control of the people it happens to. There’s really no need to further the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:26 PM
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It would be doable with record numbers in plastic surgery, eating disorders and body dysmorphia. All of which Asians are crushing rn. So it’s like we want woman to maintain looks but at what societal cost?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:52 PM
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But the Chinese are different genetically and lifestyle wise. They are more likely to walk as they have more walkable, traversable communities. Their food is different to ours and arguably better, their sleep habits and way they approach health is different. Also I’m just gonna let you know now Asia has some of the Strictest body standards on the globe, we’re talking about a culture that bound little girls feet to keep them tiny and cute. The highest rates of plastic surgery, record rising in re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:47 PM
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ChatGPT just told me Being overweight or obese can contribute to the development of wrinkles, as excess weight can lead to sagging skin and a loss of elasticity when weight is lost. Additionally, a high body mass index (BMI) is associated with inflammation and oxidative stress, which can accelerate the aging process and contribute to the formation of wrinkles. However, it is important to note that genetics, sun exposure, smoking, and other factors also play a significant role in the development …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:30 PM
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Why do you think defying aging is a process that requires minimal effort? Like exercise is physical labor and not easy otherwise it’s not exercise. And that just for the body to not be fat. Let alone hair removal, as women increase in bodily/facial hair as they age. They need to maintain hair, nails and skin. As well as managing to keep up external appearances such as clothes. Where are you getting the idea that it’s minimal effort?? Literally half the things you listed aren’t even in the contro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:22 PM
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Weight only increases chances of wrinkles once you lose the weight. Being fat is actually a way to prevent wrinkles. Hence why we call the cosmetic procedure “filler” we literally simulate fat in the body to reduce the look of aging 🤦🏽‍♀️ oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:18 PM
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No… but op did say even a 4-wife max is more fair to men than complete sexual liberation. And I’m saying you’re smoking crack if you believe that’s better or somehow more fair. Yes, let’s give more women to even less men, because that makes sense. Somehow decreasing bio genetic diversity is more fair. Whether we like it or not, that was OPs statement. That 4 women to 1 man is fairer than how we pair up currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:57 PM
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Can you say if hedy disappeared it would be invented?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:10 PM
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Okay so hedy was part of it no? Does that not make her a talented woman? Or are you saying WiFi is a talentless invention
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:34 PM
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Are you claiming hedy isn’t talented? Or that she had nothing to do with creation of WiFi?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:20 PM
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I think it’s a little disingenuous when homo sapians always get lumped in with other human species. Like they are totally different species to us. WE as homo sapient humans have not been around for millions of years evolving into monogamous beings. We have only existed for approximately 300,000 years. So the sex lives and coupling habits of early humans just doesn’t speak to me. We’re a different species.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:10 PM
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Wifi
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:05 PM
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This entire last paragraph underscore my entire point that men do in fact have choices and just aren’t happy with the ones they have. Example, I keep hearing about lack of ability to reproduce, have children and eventually die alone. Im here to tell you, you don’t need to have kids or marry to not die alone. Do men not have friends or family? Also it feels to me that you don’t know that you do not need sex to have children. Men are very free to hire surrogates/egg donors. Gay men do it all the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:30 AM
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How is that not the same? Men have options. They just aren’t satisfied with the options they have. That most certainly is a you problem. Let me help you, here are the choices. Make peace and be satisfied with my life as is or be unhappy and sulk that I don’t have a girlfriend. Many and up choosing to sulk. If a majority of women aren’t sexually satisfied then that would be a problem at large. An orgasm gap isn’t individual it’s indicative of something happening systemically… hence the gap. So ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:56 AM
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How is the answer to male loneliness… giving several woman to one man? So now we’re gonna have a 4-1 dating ratio….to improve male loneliness???? I swear yall must still have the crack pipe in y’all’s hands when yall type this kind of shit up. Homie really was like “I know! Let’s give more woman to less men, that will surely even things out”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:42 AM
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How is having sex a you problem but NOT having sex isn’t. Huh????
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:33 AM
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Huh? What do you even mean? Dating someone at their lowest is not the only way to prove loyalty. Plus the lowest could mean crack addict. So unless you date the girl while she’s a crack addict you can’t ever be loyal? The lowest for some may be homelessness. So unless we love them while they are homeless how would they ever know we are loyal? This just doesn’t seem well thought out I’ve gotta be honest. You can also accept a persons past and prove loyalty by spending your life with them. There a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:30 PM
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Ownership means the right to possess. You do not have that right afforded to you. Do you just choose to say words without having an intricate understanding of their various connotations and meanings or does that happen by mistake?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:22 PM
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Ownership is backed by law. If the law doesn’t recognize the ownership then technically no, you dont own anything, you’re just deluding yourself that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:20 PM
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Asset is something u own of value You can’t own human beings. Wrong century sir
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:11 PM
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So in this scenario you are implying children are a great asset and people should have them… so that they can complete domestic labor as soon as you can work them? Instead of making enough money to pay domestic workers… have children and make them work for you, against their will, for free, for your benefit. Sounds selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:07 PM
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What is the value in a child? Children are people aged 0-18.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:13 PM
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How is a child an asset?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:14 PM
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You don’t feel like protecting women you aren’t attracted to? So your mom, grandma, aunts, sisters? Is this the reveal that you have an incestuous relationship with your family? Or actually don’t value the women in your life unless they are attractive to you sexually??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:58 AM
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