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| 1 | No response after first dateNone of what you think are “red flags“ caused your result here other than possibly having three beers when she wasn’t drinking anything. And, even that likely wouldn’t have been a dealbreaker to her without something else going on. That something else is your general mindset is wrong. It’s understandable that you were excited as hell for your first real date, and also the fact that you found her so incredibly attractive. But overeagerness in men quite often comes across as needy…and neediness is… | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 04:42 PM |
| 2 | When I want them they don't want me, when they want me I don't want themThis is true, and the vast majority of average men have tremendous difficulty managing or overcoming their neediness/desire to be with someone. And, they also don’t understand the direct relationship between even a hint of neediness and how it affects attraction. | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 10:35 PM |
| 1 | How to stand out on a first dateExactly. I was just on a first date with someone I was very interested in, and there seem to be very strong rapport developed during the date/conversation and an unusually large number of commonalities. I got rejected for a second date. Something else was obviously missing. | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 05:53 PM |
| 8 | When I want them they don't want me, when they want me I don't want themWas about to post my own question, but this thread is too similar so tagging on here to discuss because I think it’s the same issue. I’m in a higher age range than OP (late 40s) so there’s differences, but I’m noticing the same exact phenomenon…the ones I’m most interested in aren’t interested in me/friend zone me, yet the ones I’m not interested in are very into me. Get lots of first dates, but because of the above I’m not getting second dates with the ones I am interested in, and I’m not inter… | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 02:22 PM |
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