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She’s blocked and yeah I learned my lesson. She never came back after this by the way. I don’t know if liking my pictures counts as anything but breadcrumbint but she never came back.
/r/askMRP26/12/23 06:35 PM
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Because they’re hypocrites. You shouldn’t look at it like a safe option you should look at it more like what’s good in my life. If you chase toxic and fun women it’s the equivalent of going on a rave 24 hours a day. That’s not good for you, but it’s fun but it will affect every area of your life, right? Same idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:25 PM
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Ok why do you think I’m at risk?
/r/askMRP17/11/23 05:43 AM

Very good point. Borderline tendnacies overlap with narcissism with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:09 PM
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You commented on 4 different things loser
/r/askMRP16/11/23 01:49 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/BPD/s/Cn2qe9NJDf Read this post from BPD subreddit. Proves my point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:59 AM
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I didn’t say that it was a device to abuse mentally ill women, I said that it was a device to successfully date, mentally ill women, and retain their attraction. Based on research she was BPD. https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/reading-between-the-headlines/201303/does-jodi-arias-have-borderline-personality-disorder?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:05 AM
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They are the worst ones too. And they’ll always be this way even in their fucking 30s and 40s. My ex was 31 I am 25 she’s exactly what you’ve described and she hasn’t changed at all in her 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:39 AM
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I was recently in a relationship with a borderline. It was exactly what Rolo Tomassi described. You start gaslighting yourself as the problem and you believe that her meltdowns are caused by something that you did but it was caused by her neurosis and you start thinking that you got a change yourself to make sure she doesn’t have another split or meltdown. You’ll start by not talking on the phone as much and I trigger her, cleaning up your social media, lots of things come to mind. You’ll start …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:19 AM
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Yeah none of it is real they’re fucked
/r/askMRP15/11/23 11:54 PM
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I did go fucking crazy. You can be the most emotionally in control guy of yourself but eventually you’re gonna lose your shit. Eventually you will and it won’t be a good thing. Once you’ve dated a few BPD women over others, they become a lot more predictable and easier to spot. One thing is, there’s nothing you can really do about it. If they’re bpd and not in therapy you can be the red pill guy have the strongest frame in the book and eventually where are you down and they’ll rationalize it as …
/r/askMRP15/11/23 08:15 PM
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The male version of it is narcissistic personality disorder. Autism is a developmental disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:01 PM
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I’m not a huge believer in therapy for BPD. I have a good friend of mine who is a psychiatrist and said that many therapists don’t want to treat BPD.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 07:37 PM
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Look, it was fine at first, and I say fine in a very sarcastic way because she was bat shit crazy from the start, but I knew how to imagine it until I couldn’t. We live together. Everything was good but the shit just kept getting crazier. She was diagnosed with it and she started DBT. However, this shit was just so toxic and exhausting. Constantly rewriting history gaslighting like fucking crazy. Shit was just fucking exhausting.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 07:29 PM
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I know I shouldn’t but I madly a lot of mistakes here. A lot of mistakes and I’m really not a victim even though there was craziness, I am not a victim because I said to myself “as much as she is a nut case I will “tolerate that and keep her.” I am not a victim here. I got weak in the end started worrying about “her perspective”, fucked up in a lot of ways. Big mistakes more than I can bring up.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 06:56 PM
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That’s what everyone told me. She came back to me and said she missed her period. That whole month was the most stressful situation in my life…. But, where is the accountability on me? I knew what I was doing - meaning i am not the victim. Like I’m not going to lie to you, I could’ve strung this all together on further because clearly the first few meltdowns weren’t enough for me to leave. I’m not a victim here at all and she’s still a bit of a oneitis for me — basically what I thought she was v…
/r/askMRP15/11/23 06:52 PM
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I dmed u a question.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 05:46 PM
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https://khironclinics.com/blog/understanding-the-dynamic-in-bpd-npd-relationships/#:~:text=When%20the%20person%20with%20NPD,to%20make%20a%20volatile%20mix. Yep read this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:25 PM
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https://khironclinics.com/blog/understanding-the-dynamic-in-bpd-npd-relationships/#:~:text=When%20the%20person%20with%20NPD,to%20make%20a%20volatile%20mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:22 PM
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Pretty much. Look at some of the characteristics of the red pill man and tell me that doesn’t sound like a narc man. A lot of these characteristics that they’re describing are narcissistic men trying to alter their behavior to keep a mentally unstable woman, staying loyal to them. And they’re learning overtime how to essentially date borderline women who are toxic. It’s really fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:16 PM
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You’re spot on with this, but I would deviate from BPD towards NPD men. Many of these men are diagnosed NPD or have strong, narcissistic traits. Narcissistic men are more likely to date BPD women. The only people who can have a successful relationship with BPD partners are codependent people and narcissists that’s it. Many of these red pill guys will start off as codependent men dating BPD women tolerating their emotional roller coaster until one day they get beat down completely and cheated on.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:13 PM
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< she told me she needed more love from me That’s manipulation to get you to start doing what you’re doing right now. And then when you start doing it she’ll start rationalizing everything as your fault when she hops onto the next person. You gotta understand that stopping right now is not to get her back because either way, it’s a fuck situation. Stopping is to protect yourself from this becoming more fucked up.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 04:58 PM
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The red pill teaching space seems to be with a group of men who have been victims of BPD abuse and have now internalize that all women behave in a way that BPD women behave. So they go down a path of adopting, narcissistic tendencies and seeking women with bpd tendencies. When these tendencies don’t work on women who aren’t cluster b, they “next” and look for their BPD woman. Overtime they just become more narcissistic and get better and better at dating BPD woman until they end up with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:56 PM
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Was this your first real relationship that lasted a year?
/r/askMRP15/11/23 04:39 PM
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Another thing is, even if she comes back it’s never gonna be the same. Once the glass breaks, the dynamic is never ever the same. I’m just saying this to you because even though you’ve stopped your emotions, haven’t stopped just your behaviour. How are you doing though regardless? Are you feeling OK?
/r/askMRP15/11/23 04:20 PM
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If you run after her and she comes back and you marry her, you’re fucked. You’re absolutely fucked let alone, just running after her for a relationship. You’re fucked. She will exploit your feelings for her and she’ll power trip you like a motherfucker. It will never be the same and you’ll go on a path of trying to please her all the time while forgetting about yourself yourself. it’s not a good place to be in then she’ll divorce your ass and run away because it didn’t feel the same anymore — ye…
/r/askMRP15/11/23 03:12 PM
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You’ve given us a lot of reasons as to why you’re behaving this way. I’m telling you right now that none of this matters… the way you’re going by calling her work and going crazy as shit that I’ve done and I’m telling you that once you start this way, there’s no going back. She’s going to reframe the situation entirely and she’s going to dump your ass like a beta you are. If you’re smart, you’ll stop everything I mean everything. Everything you’re doing right now is pushing her away further and …
/r/askMRP15/11/23 02:49 PM
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There we go…
/r/askMRP15/11/23 02:40 PM
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You talk about your self worth as a man based on your cars and your house and income. You’ve allowed money to make the man versus being the man to make the money. Few will understand, and this is why you settled for this girl. You’re empty inside fix that.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 02:40 AM
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This OP. been in a situation sorta like this. She wanted marriage she also had mental health issues that played in here for me to say no. I said no she broke it off. You gotta understand that this isn’t about frame or shit tests. If a woman is 31 goddamn years old, and you’re not looking to progress the relationship and she dumps you you gotta accept that. That’s fine. It happens. Also, if you have a house, and make good money, have cars etc, why are you depressed over her if you’re as special a…
/r/askMRP15/11/23 02:36 AM
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Read this kids post history. This is the path you’re going to be on if you don’t stop u/letsgetlost2n8
/r/askMRP15/11/23 02:27 AM
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It’s too late when she’s leaving you. Because at that point, you should’ve left her but chose to stay because you thought she would change by staying. Sometimes you have to leave because the other option is is her abusing the shit out of you for not leaving.
/r/askMRP06/11/23 12:46 PM
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I agree, same with break ups, too. I don’t know how much compatibility for a woman really matters as long as the guy has frame they’ll stick with a guy and try to make it work or even forge themselves into this guy‘s life as long as they feel like he is better than them and he can hold frame. We’ve all fucked up but when we look back even though we lost frame really though if your goal is marriage, there was nothing you could’ve done about it to keep that girl. Nature takes this thing you know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:44 AM

When I chose a day to toxic girl, who is not good for me it was my fault. It wasn’t my fault that she was unstable, emotions, always up and down, etc. But I do need to take some deep reflection as to why I chose to allow that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:42 AM

Yeah man I dated one with BPD so trust me I know how it feels. But after this relationship, if I just blame her and dwell and learn nothing what do I gain from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:40 AM

It’s surprising as a red pill guy you’re failing to understand this. Everything is your fault when you’re the guy in control. If a company fails who are shareholders going to blame first the CEO and leader or middle management?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:38 AM
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Then he didn’t do everything right clearly? It failed. It’s on you. I wouldn’t except her it’s done. It Has to be done. Cheating happens it’s over. But you need to take accountability here on what happened Why it happened and self reflect to pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:37 AM
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You’re not really understanding the real point of this. It is her fault but so what , what does does it change for you blaming her? That’s her issue not yours. What did you do to let this happen? If a woman cheats on me and I sit there and move on and say oh, she was the problem I got unlucky, blah blah blah, that’s a very dangerous way to look at things. I need to seriously self, reflect, and look at the red flags that I chose to ignore, or now aware of to avoid this from happening again. That’…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:29 AM
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Women are not responsible for divorces will always fall back on the guy to blame. Men and women are not equal and even if the guy didn’t want to work out and was checked out as well, his behavior, let her to leaving him even if he wanted it to end as well. So no, they’re not responsible and they’ll never be. Even if they cheat, they’ll just rationalize it for not getting their needs mad at the time or something going on their life. Women aren’t really good with accountability because they really…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:39 AM
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You’re blackpilled. Sad life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:18 PM
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It’s pseudoscience, bullshit. No, I met my ex when she was off and on of it no difference. Broke up for natural reasons. It’s all a bunch of incel bullshit marketed by other scam artists
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:05 PM
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If a woman splits the bill with you first date she is either protecting herself from owing a man sex or is not into him and she’s rejecting him. One or the other but you won’t know until afterwards. If I’m on a date with a woman I will always pay, even if it’s a shit date, it’s just the cost of doing business.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:27 AM

Get approached all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:33 AM
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It’s not about morals it’s about not being stupid and interpreting shit off the Internet Incorrectly which op admits
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 03:21 PM
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It didn’t seem like a compliance test or anything or a test at all for that matter. From the moment I started reading it it seemed like this was an 18-year-old whose new to red pill who started practising shit on a plate for fuck sakes 😂… You just don’t wanna get to the point where you’re not empathetic and you’re ignoring their needs and shit because then they’ll start shutting themselves off from you emotionally and then physically. You gotta be present and hear them.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 02:57 PM
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Because from what it seems like this is Out of the normal behaviour and he did this purposely to test out his new game he found. He even admitted it in the comments here he said, he interpreted as a shit test. That’s why I’m calling him out for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 02:50 PM
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Lmfao ikr
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 02:49 PM
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Yeah, give me a fucking cookie
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 02:43 PM
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Bro. Stop fucking with your marriage because u wanna be a pseudoscience fucking alpha male Chad. You had no issue before, right? Why create one now? Without divorce rates are going you really wanna fuck around with your marriage? Do you think Mark Manson knows everything about your fucking marriage? Or anyone else here? Stop being so trusting of others and trust your intuition next time.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 02:42 PM
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Let’s look nuance here. You’re not an idiot at least I hope. Read this post again and tell me you’re not interpreting it as OP purposely being a dick while misunderstanding the meaning of frame and now you’re deviating from the real issue here because I triggered you because I used the term “good partner”. Get smarter bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 02:41 PM
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u/praexology yeah you were saying about the shifts?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 02:38 PM
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And to make matters worse what is he gonna do now? Apologize? make an excuse? Ignore her? She’s just think wow what the fuck was that is get it if I was throwing a fit but he literally did this to be a jerk. He literally communicated that he’s a fucking asshole at times for no reason and she didn’t do anything wrong. People don’t unsee shit.This isn’t about frame here it’s about being a good partner. OP cut the shit that you’re reading and go back to whatever you were doing before. You seem to h…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 02:34 PM
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How do you not see that he’s the asshole here? This isn’t her having a mental woman fit he genuinely was a dick and he chose to be to test out the bullshit he read on the internet like a fucking 15 year old learning how to seduce women for the first time.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 02:32 PM
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It’s not because I see through ops bullshit unlike you. He would’ve been cool with the pictures he just had to be a dick to his wife because he doesn’t understand how frame works. He thought okay I gotta disagree with her let’s practice this shit in real life. She’s upset rightfully so because he probably didn’t care about the pictures in the past and now all of a sudden he has a problem with it. He used the pictures as an opportunity to test out his new “alpha behavior” out and now now he’s get…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 02:28 PM
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Because he’s a fucking idiot who needed to be the big man and now he’s surprised he found himself in a shit spot
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 02:20 PM
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Sounds like you purposely acted like a dick to her when everything was fine and self sabotaged a perfectly good situation because of the bullshit you read on the internet. Unless I’m wrong and I’m missing information but no where in this post did you say that you had problems with your wife. What the fuck were you thinking man? Were you just seeking a five minute rush of alphaness by being a dick to your wife for no reason? A relationship is a give and take. Was it that big of a deal to say no I…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 02:13 PM
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When you’re rich and good looking you don’t feel betrayed by the blue pill until your actions leader to breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:35 AM

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:02 AM
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This isn’t a thing. If he wants to have a relationship with the girl and he’s having sex with her that’s his choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:33 AM
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Yeah they do. They love socially broke inept men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:04 AM
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No I’m new. And at 25 it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:08 AM
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She mostly spends it on lingerie which I’m happy with. I need to give her a lot so she can also spend it on our girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:55 AM
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She’s not wife she’s my girl, and I met her when I was broke, I fucked her on the first date and we were fuck buddies for a year until we started dating. She’s richer than me, her parents own a major healthcare industrial company in Europe, believe me she doesn’t need my money, my money is peanuts compared to what her family gives her. Her family gifted me a Rolex for my college graduation. I have a good one. Cheers buddy, hope you like this one, I met a hot girl, who’s wealthy and met me when I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:34 AM
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You downvote everyone of my comments as soon as I do it it’s like you’re waiting for me to reply damn you’re a fkn loser 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:28 AM
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Man you’re such a basement dweller. I make 300k a year and you’re over here mad about why I choose to give my girl 2k a month for her beauty. You don’t have the ability to do so 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:27 AM
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How is it rare? You literally have to go outside and talk to women. This is absolutely the easiest generation ever in human existence to get sex, have threesomes, and rack up a body count of over 100. I’m 25 with a body count of 80 and I’m no chad. Ridiculous how on this forum people say “men don’t have the ability to do so”. Yes they do. Maybe you don’t but yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:25 AM
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“Skyrimpill” this guy def fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:23 AM
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All because I make good money doesn’t mean I’m a beta bux. I met my girl when I was broke, and had nothing, she met me and loved me for me, and now I’m giving her everything because she’s a real one fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:03 AM
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Keep coping
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:57 AM
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Typical of red pillers— any chad would never look down upon a woman for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:51 AM
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High value Men financially invest in their woman’s beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:50 AM
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Idk it’s interesting stuff to see how the other side of the world thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:42 AM
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🎻
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:32 AM
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Yeah she’s dickmatized
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:20 AM
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My gf hot and I split the bill with her, we share ubers when I’m coming to her condo and don’t pay rent. You don’t need looks to be respected
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:10 AM
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A, I like older girls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:38 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:38 PM
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Absolutely correct
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:38 PM
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They’re not changing you just expect more than you can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:37 PM
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It has nothing to do with looks, girls will fuck ugly troll looking men. Red pillers are such dorks thinking its looks material. It’s whatever they feel in that moment makes the guy one night stand material. Maybe they’re horny in the moment and think okay I want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:31 PM
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Their standards are already low, it’s just many men are losers and can’t even meet the minimum standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:28 PM
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You’re wrong, I’ve done both and have gotten laid each time. It’s just the men who tend to do this are insecure to begin with and are taking a safer route to avoid rejection with the “treat her as a person” route.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:26 PM
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