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Fair enough, I appreciate the time taken either way. I'm happy you and your husband have (hopefully) been able to find peace. But I do think it ends up hyperbolic and misogynistic and goes waaay too far into “woman bad, man victim” mentality when both genders have people who struggle with dating, But becoming angry and hateful helps no one. Least of all yourself. Not to once again point to algorithms, but yeah, with the way online environments are often set up to breed hatred, constructive conve…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:01 PM
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This will probably be my final reply, because, no offense but, you really don't seem to get it. It's like you're just parroting things from a self-help book without actually understanding what any of it entails. That’s why you have to separate living a joyful life from the romantic success. You should want to live a joyful life for yourself. It's not the simple change of mindset you're making it out to be. And I keep telling you, not everyone is like this. This is peak thanksimcured-material. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:15 PM
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I saw the other person say I'm being gaslit and I felt the need to clarify some things: For starters, I don't think you're gaslighting me. I feel like saying that is just an easy way to "validate" my frustrations. Naw, I just don't think people get it. It's all solid advice, but that's just what it is. It's not a solution and I personally disagree with the notion that, if you're not attracting the person you want, there's something you need to "fix" about yourself. I understand that it comes fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:57 PM
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I've done enough introspection for a lifetime. It's late and I'm going to bed, but I could go more in-depth about some things when I wake up. Too tired rn for a proper response Then you go to therapy and work through it. A romantic partner isn't a need in the same way being social is. Read my edit; I did. Therapy doesn't always fix your issues. I have issues that cannot be fixed. Only managed. A romantic partner only isn't a need in the same way to you. Happy people attract happy people Not nece…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:30 AM
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What if you can't find joy on your own? What if you're already as fulfilled as you can be, but that it doesn't feel like enough? I never get why it's hard to grasp that some people just yearn for a romantic connection more than others. We as humans are social animals. If a person who didn't have any friends were miserable, we wouldn't question for a second why. I have the best friends I could ask for, fun hobbies and goals to strive for, but ever since I can remember, I've only wanted someone to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:08 AM
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Not really. I did at first, but that's different now. If anything, I find that women kind of suck at communicating in the sense that they seem reluctant about being straightforward with people - that's been my personal experience at least. Who knows, maybe I just suck at communicating with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:24 PM
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Lmao yeah. This is like 'Being short doesn't affect how hot you are at all. Just take a look at all these A-list actors who are slightly below average height', but for women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:06 PM
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That's why I specified that the boat hadn't been lifted for people outside that category. If 'average white kid, except they played video games and studied more' is the first thing you imagine when you think of someone who doesn't fit social expectations, then, no offense but, you have no idea how complex people and their relationships are. I grew up as an ethnic minority in the kind of neighbourhood that most middle class people I've met can't even fathom exists - I sometimes tell stories to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:34 PM
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The thing is, there were guidelines and expectations. Terrible as they were (and still are), they provided a clear-cut path to success. While the pressure to conform to heteronormative standards has thankfully cooled off immensely, the guidelines and expectations we now have for each other have become extremely obfuscated as a result, and success is way less of a guarantee. With the stranglehold of social guidelines having loosened a bit, people are now mostly free to carve out their own path in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:07 PM
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