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7 partners are rookie numbers 👀 But then what really matters is if you find someone that you really vibe with. And the effort put in to make things work for you both. What happens in the past should stay in the past.
/r/seduction23/06/22 01:13 AM
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Communication is key. But at the end of the day - you Are right. Just enjoy when you have it.
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:00 AM
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The best I had is someone who takes care of me first before they finish themselves. That is use fingers, tongue, teasing, foreplay before the actual penetrative sex. Maybe you should learn that?
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:11 AM
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Whattttt.... Twice only in her life..?
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:08 AM
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Definitely your D keeping her
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:08 PM
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I get you. You got hurt before. But so does everyone else. But it is unfair to punish a new relationship with the pasts. If you don't think you are ready for a relationship, tell her that. Let her make her own choices. Let her make decisions base on the facts. Take it slow, take time to know each other. When 2 persons really love each other, you will talk about things and grow with each other. Talk about your expectations with her. Let her talk about her expectations with you too. What are you b…
/r/seduction08/01/22 07:47 PM
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If you have doubts, don't do it. Simple. That's your brain telling you to protect yourself. And also open communication helps if you are seeing some sort of future with this girl. Or else, just tell her your real intentions. What are you really looking for? Relationship or occasional cuddles / attention? Be honest - So there are no high expectations and noone gets seriously hurt. Be honest is the only way to go.
/r/seduction08/01/22 07:43 PM
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Yes. This dude understands it. Thank you.
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:00 PM
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Well, that's the game. May the odds be in your favour.
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:59 PM
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It's up to you to accept it or not. It's important not to think about who came before you. But do get you both's sexual health checked. I was in that casual phase too, but mine lasted about 8 years. (I always always had safe sex during my casual phase, well except for the blowjobs that I have given.) Only then I started to feel casual flings were meh. A good relationship is so much more deep and meaningful. If what you both have is deep and meaningful, it would be a shame to throw it over what h…
/r/seduction25/12/21 11:05 PM
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I have to agree with this. Female here. It would not be wise to contact a girl who wants that space she has asked. Tell you what, when my boyfriend said we could be exclusive to each other - I was so happy. This should be the only response for someone who wants something bigger with you. When my boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend, I said yes to him, and I don't think about other guys who might be a match or a potential suitor to me. I give this guy my love and respect that he deserves. No 2…
/r/seduction02/11/21 11:12 AM
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Send a f-ing voice message. Those shows you are a real human, not a bot (in the case of texting). Send a funny / flirty voice note. That's always fun to have.
/r/seduction05/01/21 07:06 AM
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Definitely yes, let her reschedule by herself. And then you can answer as you please (revenge / sincerely accept / sincerely reject - that is really up to how you feel. Nobody can tell you what to do when the time comes for you to respond to her reschedule). Sincerity and respect works both ways. Giving you this scenario: A - You always initiate, and she always cancels. Don't think too much of the conversations you had because actions matter. Actions take effort. Whereas saying / chatting /whats…
/r/seduction28/12/20 05:55 AM
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Let me help you there. Female here. Find someone else. 2 cancelled dates are too much. 3 cancelled dates - it is time to let her be. Girls (I don't say women here for a reason.) do not know how to reject people when being asked to do something. However, they will come up with last minute cancellations or some bs excuses last minute to cancel the date - so that eventually, you will take a hint. This just hints she is not interested. Move on, buddy... (Also please re-read my edit comment before th…
/r/seduction28/12/20 02:13 AM
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Female here, I agree to this comment. Upvoted. Literally yesterday my bf just asked me to not leave him with his puppy eyes over a small disagreement on how much he vapes lately. He promised to cut down before we got together. And I said ok - I will be with him and we face it together. I said, "I am trying to get away from you because of the smoke." (as in not be in the same space for a little bit because I can't stand the smoke. And his house is very small. So once the smoke comes, I just want …
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:48 AM
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Best that you set up a date. Shows that you are sincere with her. BUT If she cancels again without any immediate future plans / replacement date (FROM HER, NOT YOU) - best advice is move on. Just be a friend to her, don't hope for too much.
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:21 AM
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Do what you are comfortable with. I read through some of the comments and you said she cancelled 2 times? Seems bleak, but I think it is best to ask her what's up? Why keep cancelling? If she comes up with some bs excuses, best just get out before you go deeper.
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:19 AM
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You know. I think OP is trying to game but got gamed instead. Feel like those women that he "dated" also having sides and other slices of cakes on the side. Just my thought. Girls do it too.
/r/seduction27/12/20 12:13 AM
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Now park sounds good or a cup of coffee sounds good. Bars not so. There is too much happening in a bar. For you, might be a good chill place to talk. For me, it's a pressure cooker for sex. Don't ask me why but this is what I would probably have in my mind. Constantly thinking, "do I want it with this guy? Whose first date's choice is at the bar." If a guy takes me on a date to coffee or food or park - I would mostly like see where things go. If you are just looking for sex - if you just want to…
/r/seduction26/12/20 11:53 PM
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Ok seems good. Back to the original post from you. Another question: Why first dates at bars?
/r/seduction26/12/20 07:43 PM
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Never chase after flakes. Especially when it's from a girl. It just probably means the timing is no good and makes you seem less than desirable. Work on yourself first. Never stop improving yourself. Don't chase after people, only chase after your own better self. Learn that the hard way. Had to leave a 10 yr relationship to know that.
/r/seduction26/12/20 01:33 PM
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Female here. Not sure if it's just me but this is how I see it. If a man takes me on a date, to a bar, then back home. And fool around. That just screams player to me. Questions to OP: Q1. Do you actually get to know these people when you are on a date? Q2. Do you talk about yourself during the date or just constantly flirting from start to finish? Q3. Are the girls you are bringing on the date - looking for sex or relationship? Q4. What are you looking for? Sex or relationship?
/r/seduction26/12/20 08:28 AM
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Yes. Share your opinion and then ask what do they think about it. For FWB, make sure you have rules in place. In which both must agree or you don't do it at all. If there is any changes mid-way, stop everything and talk about the rules and boundaries (whether you want it to be re-enforced or changed.) Communication is key. Just like any relationship, communication is key.
/r/seduction20/12/20 02:33 AM
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Ask
/r/seduction18/12/20 08:11 AM
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She sounds like someone who is interested but probably do not want to sound clingy. 29F here. \PROBABLY\** But I don't really know for sure. It could be also she has been hurt from the past, and don't want to be too forward this time round? Really hard to say. Could mean anything. But really, the best thing you can do is ask her - what's up? What's going on really? What are we? Or if you are interested in her, why not confess to her? I would die to have a man confess to me instead of me confessi…
/r/seduction10/12/20 07:37 AM
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I just learnt today about this relationship fact: - She is more interested in a guy who makes her keeps guessing how much he likes her. When I read that, I was like "Oh........ no wonder I am always attracted to guys who always seems mysterious."
/r/seduction25/11/20 05:08 AM
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