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UCMJ is a funny thing. Don't be afraid. They are arresting you to separate everyone and get you out if harms way. Once the truth comes out, expect JAG to go to bat for you. If you are still afraid, go hit up your chain of command. Your chain of command has seen this before. You aren't the first, you won't be the last. Source: 6 years active duty. I have seen this and similar before. UCMJ is your friend, even if it acts weird at first.
/r/MensRights17/04/13 12:34 AM
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Do I really need to explain this to another novelty account?
/r/MensRights24/03/13 12:17 AM
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Did you not notice I am standing up for something? As for being a wuss, your ad hoc attacks shout "I am a child." Furthermore I can quite easily refute any claims of cowardice. Can you say the same while you try and bully me?
/r/MensRights23/03/13 11:56 PM
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And I quote It is also my own personal opinion that your difficulty in grasping this very simple logic helps explain why you believe something as retarded as christianity. You're basically a massive pussy. Oh god - just fuck off then and don't come back :) End quote. Yup, no one attacked me. I would be as upset if people criticized homosexuals, ever heard the phrase "that's as wrong as two boys fucking on Christmas Eve?" Or a religion I don't practice. I called him on it and he exploded. What bo…
/r/MensRights23/03/13 11:54 PM
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I stood up to a bully. I don't feel bad about it. Pointless? Yes. Worth it? Maybe. I have a hard time putting up with bullies. Especially in communities I really like. I will report and move on in the future. I did not do so in this case because I can't find the button in alien blue :P Edit: I also think Christians on reddit kinda cower in fear most of the time. I can't admit to being a practicing Christian without someone coming after me. I assume it happens to more than just me, because I see …
/r/MensRights23/03/13 10:31 PM
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I never said my problem was people not accepting my beliefs as true. My problem comes with attacking them with no provocation. You had no reason to bring the bible into the comment save your own personal bigotry, just like the WBC has no reason to bring homosexuality into their rants and protest save their own personal bigotry. See the similarity? I didn't have a problem with your comment save your statement that a religious text that people still believe in is crazy. You followed this with more…
/r/MensRights23/03/13 10:28 PM
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Someone made a bigoted statement and I called him on it. He received pretty overwhelming support while I received very little. In fact, I was told its ok for him to make bigoted statements but I shouldn't stand up to him. We do not afford people the right to speak completely freely. We condemn misogyny and misandry. We condemn racism and anti-homosexual comments. A comment was made against a race, color, creed, gender, or sexual preference and I called them on it. Somehow I'm wrong.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 10:16 PM
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You still can't answer an A or B question with A or B? You realize that by telling me I am not welcome you are showing pretty open bigotry, and making yourself look like an ass right?
/r/MensRights23/03/13 10:11 PM
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So that's the clear answer? I am not welcome here?
/r/MensRights23/03/13 10:05 PM
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On the contrary, I stood up to the bully and stood alone. I will not be a part of a group like that.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 10:02 PM
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The choice is not mine. I have that choice to you, and you responded. The choice to separate myself from a group so hell bent on destroying my beliefs. Who claim to be champions of justice and equality, but seem to fall short when it comes to tolerance of anything but themselves. I gave that choice to you, and while you did beat around the bush trying to get what you think you got, the fact is you showed me I am not welcome as I am. You have made it quite clear that I am welcome here, so long as…
/r/MensRights23/03/13 10:01 PM
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No, the person in question specifically went after the bible. I would have the same problem with the Quran, the Talmud, or the Bhagavad Gita. I am not saying you can't go rip apart others beliefs in r/atheism, or really any other sub. What I am saying is that his bringing up religion for the purpose of hurting it is as wrong as bringing race, gender, or sexual preference up with the same goal. If my beliefs are so easily trashed as BS without a second thought or recompense I weep for your future…
/r/MensRights23/03/13 09:54 PM
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People who throw a fit whenever they're offended aren't welcome here. -neilmcc Though I do not feel I am throwing a fit whenever I am offended the comment is still aimed at me, and the statement quite clear. For the record, the only reason I am upset is because here, sexism isn't ok, racism isn't ok, but anti-theism is totally ok. You made an anti-theist comment and I called you on it. The sub came to your defense quite adequately and among people who have responded, overwhelmingly agree with yo…
/r/MensRights23/03/13 09:33 PM
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I would expect it to be trolling save for the complete agreement most people seem to fee towards him.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 09:14 PM
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But people who lash out at others based on religion are?
/r/MensRights23/03/13 09:12 PM
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I know. My problem is that no one seems to want to call him on it. When I do, people come after me. In fact, others have quite openly stated that I am not welcome here.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 09:09 PM
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Maybe. But so far, my comments are all downvoted while his stay in the positives. Plus, you are the only person who has bothered to chime in one way or the other. If anti-theism is so vanilla it doesn't warrant a glance, I can't be part of this group. I know most of r/mr are pretty awesome people, but I drew a line in the sand and he crossed it. Now I have to put up or shut up. Since no one will else will stand up to this guy, I have to assume he speaks for everyone. Just like a radfem going on …
/r/MensRights23/03/13 08:09 PM
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Ok, now you are saying Christianity, and therefore Christians, are mentally handicapped. An open insult, but you still won't answer the question directly. That's ok man. Don't worry, you won't hear from me again. /r/mensrights, it's been fun, but I no longer feel welcome here.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 07:41 PM
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While you did not answer my question, which was directed at you, and intended for your opinion, directly, you have all but stated I am not welcome here. I know it's hard for some people to understand, but my beliefs are as much a part of me as any organ. If they are unwelcome here, than so am I. While you are smart enough to not come right out and say it, your insulting attitude has leaked into what you have said. This is as much a way of saying I don't want you here as you can get, without maki…
/r/MensRights23/03/13 07:31 PM
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You failed to answer my question directly but managed to throw another insult in. This is about as good as saying I am not welcome here. I wasn't asking the opinion of the rest of the sub, I am asking your opinion. In your own opinion, am I welcome here? If so, I think you need to match your actions with your words and be welcoming.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 07:10 PM
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Did r/atheism leak again? Yes bible bashing is bad. Not sure this is hard to understand. But I will make a deal. I am a practicing Christian. If I am not welcome here, just say so openly and I will unsub without another word. If I am welcome here, I would appreciate it if we could not attack the beliefs of one another. I mean really, let's all r adults here.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 07:00 PM
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Bible bashing? Classy.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 05:04 PM
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I'm glad you are here for reality checks.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 05:03 PM
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Good call man. I'd be proud to call you a friend.
/r/MensRights23/03/13 05:28 AM
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A tad after the fact, my ex-wife saw this and she immediately sided with the girl citing that the story is sad because its like he changed after his dad died. Did we read the same story?
/r/MensRights19/03/13 06:23 PM
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No, they are not. But no true Scotsman can be a bitch.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 03:16 AM
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So far, reading the comments: nope, the very idea seems ludicrous. Maybe in some crazy group I don't interact with, but that's a maybe at best.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 07:51 PM
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Ouch
/r/MensRights18/03/13 07:50 PM
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He dodged the bullet. She would make a terrible wife. Granted, this is all based on this one post, but it's all I have to go off of. She is self centered, entitled, has no ability for empathy, obviously does not care about her former fiancées feelings or well being. Her choice of we're to post her rant only solidifies my point. She is posting for validation and ideas to get her way. If she had posted to say /r/offmychest, or /r/relationshipadvice I would see these posts in a very different light…
/r/MensRights18/03/13 07:17 PM
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Ah, might he have some additional motivation then?
/r/MensRights17/03/13 06:08 AM
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Another post around here added some to that particular point. No, I don't think it's wrong to have products aimed primarily at one gender or another. I also don't think it's bad to have products aimed at both. I also don't see a problem with separate bathrooms. My reasoning is from watching my own kids. I have one of each gender. They both prefer toys aimed at their particular gender, but have no problem playing with each others toys. So far today my kids have watched my little pony, played with…
/r/MensRights17/03/13 12:25 AM
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Expecting? No. Is it even worth pointing out the glaring flaws? Maybe. Does her glaring one sided sexism deserve some counterpoints? Certainly.
/r/MensRights17/03/13 12:16 AM
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I completely forgot about the classic JRPGs. Final fantasy had strong female playable characters. She neglected to mention any of that. It fits all the criteria that made sonic and the layer Zelda and Mario's worth mentioning. It seems her audience has just enough information to have a loud opinion. But not enough to really know what they are talking about.
/r/MensRights17/03/13 12:12 AM
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Wow. That statement makes way too much sense. Lest we forget that many have served. The oft reddit bashed John McCain being one of them.
/r/MensRights09/03/13 03:47 PM
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Yes she is. Though I am often embarrassed of my home state.
/r/MensRights09/03/13 03:46 PM
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Remember me saying I only have part of the information? You may have provided some of the missing pieces. Well done.
/r/MensRights09/03/13 05:20 AM
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I have heard of Anita sarkesian through this sub, and I have no idea about AA, so maybe I'm a tad more unbiassed than some of the others chiming in. It seems the fear is that sarkesian is going to go on radfem rants about women in videogames. AA has made a video saying her actual, and very delayed, output is pretty neutral. But he is pissed because comments and ratings are disabled. This seems to be pandering to his audience. AA didn't have anything negative to say about the content of the video…
/r/MensRights09/03/13 02:59 AM
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Anybody else completely ok with this? I came out of a woman, and so did everyone I know. I have female friends and neighbors who are great. They can have a pat on the back day. A men's day would be nice though.
/r/MensRights08/03/13 11:22 PM
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That's what I don't like about the statement in the pic. It would be easy for someone to assume that she means that all American lesbians are man haters who want to destroy men. I think she could have worded it better. Her opinion seems to be that the women who have taken the spotlight and seem to have the reigns in feminism want to see men destroyed. If their being homosexual is leading them to this, fine, but let's not lump everyone in with a couple crazies.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 05:28 PM
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Are we sinking to their level?
/r/MensRights08/02/13 10:07 PM
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I saw that. Yesterday. The comments were more aimed at yeah it's fucked up, oh well, it's the law. I will go looking for it again to see if someone has dared say they need to change the law.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 05:32 PM
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That's it exactly. Trying to bully people into abandoning feminism is as dumb as trying to bully Christians into the same. It is a dirty tactic and will not work.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 06:17 PM
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So all boy scouts are against homosexuals. All chik-fil-a employees are against homosexual marriage. Come on man, this logic falls apart here. I must hate homosexuals and must be for all sorts of awful things because I am a Christian, I must also hate science and education. In fact, I am a big fan of Islam, therefore I am a big fan of beheading of Americans in national television. I served in the army during Abu ghraib, therefore I support the events there, right? I am proudly an American citize…
/r/MensRights06/02/13 05:10 PM
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Exactly my point. The actions of a few individuals do not indicate the beliefs of the rest. I am not aware that there is a manifesto, that is the basis for feminism, that supports the words of the feminist in the original post. I could be wrong, but I see plenty of feminists here and IRL that are completely reasonable and agree wholeheartedly with MRM if made aware it exists.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 04:51 PM
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By that logic every Christian is responsible for the WBC, every Muslim is responsible for 9/11, every service member who ever served willingly is responsible for Abu ghraib, atomic bombs, drone strikes, etc. I could go on.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 04:14 PM
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Yeah, whatever happened to that whole innocent until proven guilty thing. This seems to fly in the face of that.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 07:37 PM
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Rantings of a 14 year old. I don't see this as newsworthy, unless the source can be proved to be about 14, then that indicates that girls are instilled this from a young age... But it still reeks of narcissism and teen spirit.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 07:35 PM
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Yeah, trying to shame him and throw a red herring all at once. I don't understand what his gender or sexual preference has to do with his stance.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 07:28 PM
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Is it at all possible that norton is blocking the site because of malware or adware? Like, at all possible? Is it possible norton was told that the blocked sites were using malware or adware and are simply responding as they would to a porn site that used the same?
/r/MensRights05/02/13 07:23 PM
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It has been my experience that kid time is the best time. It doesn't matter what my day has been like, how hard work was, how bad traffic was, how terrible life is treating me, it all goes away when I am on the floor with my kids. Be it playing chase, hide and seek, I'm thinking of an animal(it's a snake Jack, it's always a snake), little peoples, or just watching my little pony. My wonderful children are the most important part of my life.
/r/MensRights04/02/13 08:16 PM
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Well, r/atheism's footprint has been rather large on reddit. Bringing up that sub is going to being up lots of emotions in people who have had strong experiences with it. That being said, if this was titled differently I think it would have gone much better.
/r/MensRights28/01/13 01:02 AM
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Making it not sexist is something I am all for. To abolish it with the idea that there will never be another WWII is about as good an idea as abolishing free speech or the right to bear arms. After all, America hasn't had a despot in far longer.
/r/MensRights27/01/13 12:34 AM
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So, the government should not have issued a draft for WWII? What about the civil war? WWI? If you hadn't noticed, there hasn't been a draft in the United States for ~40 years.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 10:47 PM
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Ok, so you would rather be enslaved by a foreign power, forfeiting any and all rights you once had. Leave men, women, and children to be exterminated for a variety of reasons. Allow genocide on soil that once held freedom. Rather than be conscripted to fight an aggressor and attempt to prevent exactly that, while getting paid and receiving benefits? I don't think I understand your point.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 04:49 AM
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Not sure why you are being downvoted. The draft is an ugly thing, but extremely necessary.
/r/MensRights26/01/13 03:22 AM
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Do you actually think we should abolish the draft?
/r/MensRights26/01/13 02:21 AM
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Exactly. It appears that the whole thing takes place in a crappy area. Both parties looks and act like horrible people and the clerk acts like it isn't abnormal for a confrontation like that.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 09:02 PM
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They were both acting stupid, but only one of them went over the line.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 08:35 PM
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I must have missed the part where Jesus outlawed divorce. Also, not sure how MRM is like the nazi movement. Insert nazi joke here. They're a little too easy to be worth it.
/r/MensRights23/01/13 03:34 AM
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I'm not sure why you wouldn't think you would be welcomed here.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 06:57 PM
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Downvoting based on gender seems awfully sexist. I don't think this is a sub where that stuff flies.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 06:32 PM
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U mad bro? Or maybe I need to use the gender neutral; U mad person? I mean, let's not get out of line here.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 02:52 AM
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My point exactly
/r/MensRights13/01/13 05:08 PM
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In the olden days that would have made sense. Women were not capable of earning. Times have changed, laws have not.
/r/MensRights12/01/13 08:02 PM
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That whole thread is full of fuck
/r/MensRights11/01/13 05:02 AM
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Ah yes, in the script. The actress however... Probably still isn't as cool as Billie. Oh well. I'm a sucker for red heads. And have horrible taste in women.
/r/MensRights11/01/13 02:56 AM
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Ah well, I had a good run with this sub, if that's the direction we are going, I'm out. We are becoming exactly what srs accused us of being, and I want nothing to do with it.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 08:21 PM
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Statements like lashing out in anger. We are in the right, and we know it. There shouldn't be a need to stoop to their level. We aren't about women hating, an the statement feels pretty hateful. Though judging by the vote received it seems I am alone in thinking so. Criticism withdrawn.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 07:59 PM
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You may indeed be correct, but let's not let this become srsmens
/r/MensRights03/01/13 07:35 PM
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But it's hard to say no to a woman that sneaks into your house, crawls in your bed and tries to, you know, seduce you Breaking and entering with attempted rape is what this sounds like.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 06:32 PM
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I will hold out hope on this one, but I won't hold my breath
/r/MensRights03/01/13 06:19 PM
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Agreed. If she gets off for gender reasons I will be upset, this isn't an issue unless she somehow receives special treatment based on gender.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 05:35 PM
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Thank you for this post. I really don't want this sub to become the male srs.
/r/MensRights31/12/12 04:30 PM
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I know it's hard, but you can get through this. Your kids know who you are and love you. This isn't your last, nor their last Christmas together. Maybe I'm an asshole, but for whatever reason, it makes me feel better if I know someone has it as bad, or worse. If they can get through it, so can I. Just think of all the servicemen who aren't getting to see their kids wake up to Santa's leavings. Or people like me, who get to work through the holiday because I got short straw, while coworkers witho…
/r/MensRights23/12/12 10:44 PM
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Agreed. I think we need to get along here regardless of political differences.
/r/MensRights14/12/12 02:17 PM
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I recall a situation similar to this being posted here not too long ago, only the genders were reversed. The man was jailed, and rightly so as I understand it.
/r/MensRights10/11/12 07:28 PM
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That could very well be, though she didn't show it in any way I noticed
/r/MensRights09/11/12 06:48 AM
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While I appreciate it, the comment wasn't to get sympathy, I wanted to point out that OP wasn't the only one having counselor issues. Very likely beyond repair before we started though. I made every mistake in the book in marrying her
/r/MensRights08/11/12 10:25 PM
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We went through 7 counselors. If they didn't take her side my ex would change counselors. Up hill battle.
/r/MensRights08/11/12 09:12 PM
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Proud to have served. In her mind I was likely pretty criminally insane. At least she didn't spit on me or call me a baby killer. To my face at least. She did, privately, accuse me of cheating on my ex-wife, which I have never done.
/r/MensRights08/11/12 07:39 PM
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Hence all the ex in wife
/r/MensRights08/11/12 07:01 PM
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Sort of, she would ask if a behavior was expected of me in the army (my ex-wife was quite the deadbeat, sit on the couch all day and hoard etc), activities included cleaning up after oneself, contributing to the relationship at all, etc. She would try and find correlation between my ex and I fighting and PTSD. If I was upset with my ex, it had to be PTSD because I would never be upset otherwise. The counselor was actually pretty good, until she learned I was a combat vet. In that instant, it all…
/r/MensRights08/11/12 06:16 PM
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Went through the same. Counselor was a dyed in the wool hippie and I am a vet, therefore I am wrong.
/r/MensRights08/11/12 04:39 PM
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I think you have hypocrisy and using feminism to hide misandry confused. Just like people here wanting to use MRM as a cover for misogyny. I think feminism is great, so long as it is only a fight for equality. That means a fight for equality, not equal rights with differing responsibilities. When I hear feminists stating that they think women should have to sign up for selective service just like men, an that men should get the same maternity leave women should, it makes me want to take them ser…
/r/MensRights27/10/12 10:26 PM
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Thank you for posting this. I didn't think anyone would be so stupid as to make an arrest for speaking to someone. Battery on the other hand...
/r/MensRights27/10/12 01:18 AM
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So, wait, people have differing grooming standards based on gender? Say it ain't so.
/r/MensRights25/10/12 03:04 AM
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You can see it. Just, not so much with the naked eye.
/r/MensRights17/10/12 04:36 AM
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Not that it makes no sense. I am not against the feminism movement just feminists. I am not against civil rights, just civil rights activists. This feels like a sad attempt to cover pretty blatant misandry, like saying we are all for the rights we choose to give to men.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 04:05 PM
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Likely very many. None of them aimed at discriminating against white males. In the US it is legally impossible to discriminate against a white male.
/r/MensRights13/10/12 09:02 PM
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I prefer the term European American penis privileged.
/r/MensRights12/10/12 11:51 PM
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...dailymail...
/r/MensRights04/10/12 05:22 PM
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That's exactly what it is. She is an alcoholic who has found excuses to continue to be an alcoholic. It also bugs me that she is so cavalier about it. In danger if crushing your own kid in a drunken stupor? Well I didn't kthxbye. This doesn't seem to be any different than I drove drunk but managed to get home safe, no harm no foul, kthxbye. There is a reason endangering others in that fashion is a crime unto itself.
/r/MensRights04/10/12 05:11 PM
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I would like to add, there is a huge difference between having a drink and getting drunk. I do not get drunk in front of my kids. I do have drinks in front of them. I would not do so, but I think transparency is a good thing in this regard. My parents never consumed alcohol in front of me(dad is an alcoholic and mom is supportive of his sobriety), so when I turned 21 I had no idea what I was doing. How much is enough, how much is too much, why don't you start drinking when you wake up, etc. Dad …
/r/MensRights04/10/12 04:38 PM
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Jimmies rustled? Panties twisted? Fear not, story is from dailymail. On a related topic, batboy.
/r/MensRights24/09/12 04:04 PM
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That one hurts.
/r/MensRights16/09/12 06:01 PM
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Is dailymail. Take with grain of salt.
/r/MensRights16/09/12 05:11 PM
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She realized she screwed up right at the end and tried to salvage. She didn't get the chance, due to commercial break, in this clip. If it makes you feel better, Nancy Pelosi is from my state...
/r/MensRights07/09/12 02:23 PM
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That lady is out of touch with reality. I'm glad he got it on camera.
/r/MensRights03/09/12 03:12 PM
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As I recall police an paramedics are pretty close. I think they wouldn't want to put up with her BS.
/r/MensRights03/09/12 02:47 AM
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Romania... I visited there once as a part of a church missions trip. It's pretty harsh. After the fall of the USSR, no one wanted to help them. It is thought that may be because Romania was occupied by the nazis in WWII. A dictator seized power and did some pretty horrible stuff. New government swore they wanted to make things better, just seemed unable. At the time, it was common to send your children to an orphanage to avoid having to pay for them. Cheaper to let the state do that. Children ar…
/r/MensRights02/09/12 04:18 PM
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I think you are absolutely right. If ones argument is that porn is extra-immoral and falls outside of the bounds of freedom akin to suicide/maiming etc, fine. But I don't see many similarities. Furthermore, the attempt to ban porn has other connotations as female porn stars seem to earn farm more than their male counterparts.
/r/MensRights01/09/12 11:58 PM
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That was on my car. After separation I gave the car to her, she totaled it and wanted me to buy her a new one. She hasn't worked since 2002.
/r/MensRights01/09/12 03:32 AM
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It's really because changing the law would cost money and suggesting it be changed would be political suicide.
/r/MensRights31/08/12 11:30 AM
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Dailymail...
/r/MensRights29/08/12 03:57 AM
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A shallow comment? Yes. Any different than I would never fuck a fat chick? No. Someone with tattoos, a republican/democrat/libertarian, a midget/dwarf (whatever the PC term is this week), a Christian/atheist/whatever. This isn't such a big deal guys.
/r/MensRights27/08/12 08:39 PM
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The problem is that the court assumes child support is for the child.
/r/MensRights24/08/12 04:52 AM
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I know. Sorry, I don't watch much, mostly listen.
/r/MensRights24/08/12 03:11 AM
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The one I hear via XM?
/r/MensRights24/08/12 01:53 AM
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Perfecto
/r/MensRights23/08/12 09:41 PM
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Men's issues? Not as much. But he does talk about his openly abusive ex-wife and her crazy escapades. For instance, how she was the obvious abuser in the situation and he spent the night in jail. If the gender roles were reversed he would have been a battered spouse and pitchforks and torches would have been brought out for the abusing party. Because the abuser is female... She is untouchable, and the only way it can be talked about in public is in a comedic fashion. Plus, his comedy is largely …
/r/MensRights23/08/12 09:19 PM
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Rather than actually bring them up he cites a source that isn't readily readable (without purchase) and moves on. As most people aren't going to buy the book to check his source, it would have been nice if he had gone into some depth as to what his source is talking about. Not much of a complaint, but people reading this without background information are going to see his argument as very weak.
/r/MensRights23/08/12 09:15 PM
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Nice try Bill Burr's publicist! /s I like Burr's stand up. It is a pleasant way to deliver a good message. I also like Christopher Titus' bits in similar regard. He was a very abused spouse and talks about it openly.
/r/MensRights23/08/12 09:05 PM
4

but only if you refuse to adjust for hours per week worked, risks taken on the job, exposure to the elements, and many other factors. I don't like the way he worded this. It seems he is brushing something off. To be fair though, he does cite a source, which kinda allows him to do so. illegal, expensive military actions the U.S. Government took against innocent civilians in Iraq and Afghanistan? Illegal? What laws were broken exactly? Agains innocent civilians? Which ones were those? Collateral d…
/r/MensRights23/08/12 07:13 PM
-6

Two things strike me as this whole thing takes shape. 1) I do think creating wikileaks was bad. If the US cannot punish Assange I think he needs to be put where he can do no more harm. I mention my stance on the guy only because it shows a possible bias in my next point. 2) If all the governmental blustering about rape really is just an excuse to extradite him and put him in jail, it strikes me as a good example of what (I think) rape accusation has become. Guilty unless proven innocent, with th…
/r/MensRights23/08/12 06:04 PM
2

Win!
/r/MensRights18/08/12 03:15 PM
2

I would knit a beer cozy post haste.
/r/MensRights18/08/12 05:18 AM
4

Wow, you win. You are the kind of girl I would play halo with. Or warhammer for that matter. Point being, if I want to dive into a female dominated subculture, scrap booking for example, I will not piss and moan because the arts and crafts store does not also sell beer. An arts an crafts bar would likely draw me like a moth to a flame and get me into a place, at least once, just to try out the experience. But that isn't offered to me. Does that offend me? No, not really. I don't expect other peo…
/r/MensRights17/08/12 11:53 PM
1

I like that the things I like are expected of me. I like fast cars, being rather rugged, whisky, cigars, books. I like not being expected to be super social all the time. I like the quiet. I like feeling like a man, facial and body hair, farts, rough house play. I like being able to let my kids beat the ever loving crap out of me. I love being a dad. I love my bond with my children. I thoroughly enjoy play time and comfort time, even bed time because my kids look up to me. I love being a good ex…
/r/MensRights17/08/12 03:58 PM
1

Interesting thought. I think there are plenty of men who would cast off the feminism they have adopted if given half a chance, or any control over reproduction. I think young pregnancies will decrease, but I don't think much of a population decrease will be too big an issue. Maybe in wrong. My opinion is based on my observation of peers. Men who swore they would never have children seems to jump at the chance when the time is right. Again, small sample size of peers that have not been surprised …
/r/MensRights17/08/12 01:45 AM
1

Quick here, as I'm at work. I do not resent women for not serving in combat arms. I actually have quite a bit of personal respect for women in the military. Most of the ones I served with we're exemplary. A few actually stand out as examples men I served with could follow. My gripe is with selective service. In this country, a man must sign up for selective service, or lie, which is still wrong and something you have glossed over. When women were still considered little more than property, it ma…
/r/MensRights17/08/12 01:39 AM
2

Why do you say that?
/r/MensRights17/08/12 12:22 AM
1

The point is, you shouldn't have to lie to get out of a draft. It should be fair. Furthermore, you are uninformed. Being a conscientious objector keeps you from having jobs where killing is a likelihood. You can still be a field medic and be right there in the trenches. You are also playing up the role of women in the military as you have likely never served, nor done much real homework. Women are not allowed in combat arms; infantry, artillery, special forces, armor, cavalry, armored cavalry. T…
/r/MensRights16/08/12 10:07 PM
0

Some people will attempt to destroy the impact here by saying; 1) it is an honor and a privilege for men to be able to hold up women. 2) the other people killing the men in the pic are also men. If men were removed, the world would stand on its own. Any others you can think of, go for it.
/r/MensRights16/08/12 09:53 PM
3

Maybe the end as we know it. I would not change the children I have for anything in the world. I would have changed the timing of their arrival given half a chance. Being in control of my future would have been nice. Sadly, someone decided to hijack that chance, so now I am stuck with a career making far less than my former peers as I cannot afford to take the time to better myself to get to their current level. I could live with a western civilization where men had control over their own lives …
/r/MensRights16/08/12 09:46 PM
2

Facebook and Xbox live share many things. Don't let it bug you too much. We are trying to change a large part of ingrained culture. Obnoxious children will be the last to be reached. Plus, comments of gay or fag lead me to believe they don't like that rumbly tumbly feeling they get in the high school locker room.
/r/MensRights11/08/12 04:42 PM
4

To be fair, a woman with a bag is carrying a purse. The aurora shooting is still fresh in my memory. I am not saying it isn't sexist. I think I is very sexist. I am not saying it isn't wrong. I think it's very wrong. I am just trying to point out where the motivation for this comes from. Most behavior like this comes subconsciously. We are fighting an awful lot of ingrained culture here. The trick is going to be to point out the absurdity in the going culture and get people to think about double…
/r/MensRights09/08/12 03:01 AM
2

and stabbed*
/r/MensRights09/08/12 12:09 AM
3

No, you get to spend years in county. Likely to be raped because you didn't commit a rape.
/r/MensRights08/08/12 09:48 PM
2

At least we can talk about a double standard now.
/r/MensRights08/08/12 05:52 PM
0

Ha ha, I just took a ton of shit in a thread regarding women being more likely to be sexually assaulted in Afghanistan than die by enemy fire. Posted similar stories. Might as well have said I kill kittens.
/r/MensRights08/08/12 04:44 PM
20

Herd*
/r/MensRights08/08/12 04:37 PM
16

What happened to "beyond reasonable doubt" standard of evidence for criminal conviction? This bothers me too, and everybody here. I wonder if it has to do with the nature of the crimes, ie: the crimes are considered so heinous that the accused is considered guilty because the crime is too disgusting to think about, so one considers the accused guilty so one does not have to think about the crime anymore. To avoid this the military keeps their own courts and laws as the nature of war is often so …
/r/MensRights07/08/12 06:00 PM
1

Very cool
/r/MensRights06/08/12 09:57 PM
2

This is good content. Source?
/r/MensRights06/08/12 06:36 AM
2

Indeed. The sooner that happens the sooner we can work together.
/r/MensRights05/08/12 05:21 AM
27

Win-win
/r/MensRights04/08/12 08:59 PM
54

Your husband married a great woman.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 08:51 PM
14

I always felt like MRM would eventually get to a round table-like situation with feminism where shit can get hammered out and we can all just get along.
/r/MensRights04/08/12 08:50 PM
2

You are not alone in this. There are thousands like us. Your life is worth more to your family and loved ones, and your daughter than you realize. So long as it can't get any worse, it can only get better.
/r/MensRights29/07/12 05:29 AM
1

Idiotic in terms of gender equality. Praising the idea that it is right for a man to due for a woman is saying that the man's life is worth less.
/r/MensRights27/07/12 02:49 AM
6

Under traditionalism this makes complete sense. Under true gender equality it does not. Let's face it, chivalry is going to die hard. Maybe instead of being upset over an idiotic article we can laud people who were willing to take a bullet for another person.
/r/MensRights26/07/12 04:40 PM
1

Your comment was rational and mature. It seems to me like you might be ready for marriage or something similar. Relationships are about meeting your partners needs, not sucking as much out of them as you can.
/r/MensRights22/07/12 05:07 PM
4

I wish I would have known these at 25. I also wish I could follow them more easily now.
/r/seduction20/07/12 09:33 PM
14

To be fair, several self proclaimed feminists have come here, and been quite welcome, provided their statements are reasonable.
/r/MensRights19/07/12 11:09 PM
-4

Fair statement, however, if I had posted something about how dumbest women are, I would have a tirade of angry people of both genders pissed at me.
/r/MensRights18/07/12 08:06 PM
12

We don't? ...all these years...all those treatments...
/r/MensRights18/07/12 08:03 PM
3

Yup, some rational, fair, open discussion from Karen right now.
/r/MensRights18/07/12 02:30 PM
-2

Wait, so you want a say so in what happens to your son? That's crazy talk! /s I think we can all agree that both parents get a say... Both parents are responsible right?
/r/MensRights17/07/12 06:20 AM
3

Maybe I didn't imply that strongly enough with the whole times have changed thing...
/r/MensRights16/07/12 06:07 PM
6

Under traditionalism this is fine. A woman was not capable of raising a family alone, so there were built in programs to help single mothers. Times have changed, traditionalism is long gone.
/r/MensRights16/07/12 05:18 PM
2

Yeah, I think we should steer away from that one.
/r/MensRights16/07/12 05:17 PM
3

She is small potatoes. I'm not surprised she was never in the news. Plus, making a big deal about this is like painting a target on yourself and running around Baghdad.
/r/MensRights15/07/12 11:47 PM
4

Thank you for your kind words. You are, of course, welcome here as far as I'm concerned, though I only get one vote. It seems to me that absolute forgiveness for any past transgressions is well in order, IMO at least.
/r/MensRights14/07/12 08:35 PM
4

Egos get big when you wear a robe and swing a gavel. A wise man once said "if you really want to test a man, give him power." This is a great example of someone who failed the test
/r/MensRights13/07/12 02:13 AM
4

He didn't state so, only that he came out as a homosexual. Though that would explain a bit more of his frustration.
/r/MensRights12/07/12 06:24 PM
3

I think he wanted people to notice more, his examples were things like they wouldn't give me my own locker room, I still had to use the men's restroom, ye school still made me wear the boys uniform etc. The point of my original post was, these statements made him an expert on how the evil patriarchy was against women, gay rights, and ultimately responsible for all of his and everyone else's problems.
/r/MensRights12/07/12 06:21 PM
7

What he wanted was special treatment. I recall him stating they wouldn't treat him any differently than before he came out, and that is what he had a problem with. I am a big proponent of people all getting treated the same regardless of gender or sexual orientation.
/r/MensRights12/07/12 06:09 PM
5

This was so harsh I didn't like it initially. Hits the nail on the head a little too hard. There was a post in r/depthub recently regarding how patriarchy is really responsible for all the problems in the world, or so the title stated. It was really just a rant by a male homosexual from Texas who was mad that he was a male homosexual from Texas and that the locals weren't going to bend over backwards to treat him the way he wanted to be treated, and continued to treat him like any other male het…
/r/MensRights12/07/12 05:05 PM
5

That's a pretty fair statement
/r/MensRights11/07/12 07:41 PM
7

There are plenty of those on reddit.
/r/MensRights11/07/12 06:36 PM
5

Felt it was a necessary disclaimer
/r/MensRights11/07/12 04:50 PM
8

Charisma counts for a lot.
/r/MensRights11/07/12 04:39 PM
64

I am not an obamafan, so I am unreasonably biassed. It seems to me that the guy is stuck. There was a post here, not too long ago, where data showing that women have been a major deciding factor in democrats winning elections. With that in mind, Obama wants to be re-elected and does have to pander to his constituencies. While I think he is hurting our country with this, it is just another policy that hurts the country in a long line of policies. But again, I am biassed.
/r/MensRights11/07/12 03:13 PM
1

Agreed. I really think its a pretty sexist and horrible thing that isn't going to help anyway.
/r/MensRights05/07/12 05:01 PM
0

Absolutely agree. I do think we are becoming a little too much like PETA and looking for ways to be offended, hence my reminder that drunk driving is pretty bad.
/r/MensRights05/07/12 04:09 PM
-2

Ah, you think I'm trying to make excuses for them. Wasn't my goal
/r/MensRights05/07/12 12:21 AM
-7

If course not. I'm not saying threatening rape is appropriate based on gender, I'm just saying drunk driving is bad too.
/r/MensRights04/07/12 09:45 PM
-3

Relevant username. While I agree they shouldn't be advertising nor threatening with rape, they likely had good intentions. Just really really bad actions.
/r/MensRights04/07/12 07:35 PM
13

To be fair, drunk driving isn't cool.
/r/MensRights04/07/12 07:30 PM
14

Sexist and dripping with misandry? Absolutely. This is also a guide to being a bad girlfriend/how to lose your guy in 10 days. There is so much wrong here I'm not going to try. While legal issues, like custody, should be our primary focus, reading these helps me remember what we are up against.
/r/MensRights02/07/12 04:58 PM
6

I was going to ask if they were basing the teaching on the murder, the prostitution, the women being property, or the abstinence parts. But someone wanted to rip on Christianity, so I didn't. BTW, the former sections are largely historical in context and not to be used as canon for a modern marriage IMO. The latter was how to behave when not married. Go figure.
/r/MensRights01/07/12 05:54 AM
4

I figured there had to be some kind of post like this here.
/r/MensRights30/06/12 11:35 PM
2

Holy crap, could you fit any more sources in one post? Good job man!
/r/MensRights30/06/12 11:34 PM
2

By the same token I think we need to present a hard and unyielding front for all to see. It is the only way to gain acceptance and respect from the people we need to work with in this phase of a movement like MRM. So, for now we need to stand firm, look scary and hard. We also need to look like grown ups, not petty and immature, it gets hard at times. When we are seen for what we are, not a misogynistic hate group, we can start to show a soft side.
/r/MensRights25/06/12 04:17 PM
1

Part of the reason I jumped on the MRA wagon was because of this. I feel like MRM is about ending gender squabbles, rather than the radfem ideals of crushing one gender. Unless we get over our squabbles, we won't actually fix any real problems.
/r/MensRights24/06/12 06:19 PM
42

Men just lose their lives, limbs, and sanity, so their wives, mothers, and daughters don't have to. Also lose their girlfriends, fiancées, wives, and custody of their children while out losing lives, limbs, and sanity. It's men's fault really. Poor women...?
/r/MensRights23/06/12 11:24 PM
0

If I'm offended that someone wants to burn down a church because of an ignorant flyer, I think I'm in the right. If its wrong for feminists to want to burn down a mosque for a burqa then it's wrong for MRAs to want to hurt a church over a flyer. Seriously, it's pretty over the top.
/r/MensRights17/06/12 04:25 AM
6

You may have a point
/r/MensRights17/06/12 03:32 AM
-4

Wow, lots of pretty angry anti-Christian comments. Is that what this sub is full of?
/r/MensRights17/06/12 03:22 AM
1

Odd comment from nowhere. Hate Christians much?
/r/MensRights17/06/12 03:21 AM
0

We can play hard, and win, without playing dirty. Let's not become what we are striving to end.
/r/MensRights17/06/12 03:16 AM
-1

Comments http://www.reddit.com/r/gameofthrones/comments/v54tq/feminist_fiction_in_defense_of_sansa_stark/
/r/MensRights16/06/12 09:41 PM
9

While funny enough, I do not want us to sink to their level. We are better than this.
/r/MensRights16/06/12 04:50 AM
4

... Daily mail...
/r/MensRights12/06/12 01:16 PM
1

Ouch. I'm sorry your life is the way it is. You deserve better parents. The upside is this, my dad's mom was a schizophrenic and his dad an alcoholic. If he can pull himself together after that, to raise 2 boys and find an awesome wife he has been married to for a hair under 40 years, you can too.
/r/MensRights11/06/12 01:24 AM
1

Of course wives cheat too, it's just not wrong when they do it. If their husbands were taking care of business at home there wouldn't be a problem, so it's really the man's fault when a woman cheats. That's the difference. /s
/r/MensRights10/06/12 06:42 PM
2

Well, there ya have it.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 04:56 PM
2

Not in the slightest. I wanted to make a clear statement for any others who may have been likewise confused.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 04:32 PM
4

It doesn't border abuse. It is abuse. Misspelled is.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 04:09 PM
16

Quite possibly, however one lesbian or both would likely end up in the father role. A big argument for homosexual marriage is that there is no data to suggest that having homosexual parents will have a negative outcome on a child. There is no data the other way either to my knowledge, or both sides of the argument would be spouting it. With blurred gender lines it is possible that a child coming from lesbian parents will be fine, able to function very well in real life. The parents need to be ve…
/r/MensRights09/06/12 03:38 PM
5

It is wrong to use your child(ren) to hurt, control or extort money from your husband/boyfriend/ex. In fact, it borders on child abuse. Borders?
/r/MensRights09/06/12 03:02 PM
2

I would settle for an idiot who listened to brilliant advisors. I think Obama is just too young for the job. Out of his depth. It's almost too bad he got elected when he did, the guy has the charisma to be great, I just think he needs to grow some more first.
/r/MensRights05/06/12 06:26 AM
1

Tried last time too
/r/MensRights05/06/12 03:10 AM
6

Let's see, I am not an obamafan. I think he is a weak president who hasn't done anything right, save happening to be in office when Osama bin laden was found. I do not like socialized medicine. I do not like his attempts at gun restrictions. I do not like the way he handled OIF/OEF. I think he has handled economic policy poorly. I think he has misinformed the public about the unemployment rate. I think the way he has handled government agencies (like the TSA) was very poor. I don't like the way …
/r/MensRights05/06/12 12:52 AM
2

It does.
/r/MensRights05/06/12 12:15 AM
2

Fair point. At least I haven't received spam from the GOP... Yet... New campaign party the leftist anti-spam party. Against email spam and canned meat.
/r/MensRights04/06/12 10:14 PM
3

Ha! Sad that each election boils down to lesser of two evils these days.
/r/MensRights04/06/12 10:12 PM
5

It scare anybody else that Obama is getting re-elected?
/r/MensRights04/06/12 08:41 PM
3

Plus, the ethical considerations of a person in a position of power using that position to get sex can't be ignored Yes it can, apparently.
/r/MensRights01/06/12 07:44 PM
9

Like posting to reddit?
/r/MensRights01/06/12 07:30 PM
1

Read first paragraph, was going to argue. Second paragraph covered everything I was going to say. There are times for the government to act slowly and drag their feet when implementing something, there are also times when the hammer needs to be dropped. IMO this is the latter. However we are in a pretty hard situation where the lobbyists are all on the wrong side, it's political suicide to side with this "hate group," the people in power are wealthy and powerful enough to not get screwed like th…
/r/MensRights01/06/12 12:36 AM
1

Ah, in a rioting city is one thing, especially after you have evacuated everyone you possibly can. From what I remember in my time in Iraq was that most military aged males were willing combatants when the shit hit the fan. They would gladly shoot at you if given half a chance. The difference being, if I decide to hit a target in a random neighborhood that has all of its people indoors and most sleeping, I then decide to say all military aged males are combatants so any accidental deaths aren't …
/r/MensRights30/05/12 03:06 PM
1

Wow, that kinda makes it worse. Oh well, I didn't vote for him.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 02:33 PM
1

In that culture this isn't too far from the truth. Women are not really combatants. That being said, from a political standpoint, this is awful. If Germany had named the Jews as combatants or the US all Japanese, or whatever, this is dead wrong. And likely the future. Lesson learned from my time in the middle east: the media is a battlefield. Win there and you win everywhere.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 03:22 AM
1

That's exactly it. The law of unintended consequences in full effect. These laws were intended to protect those who could not protect themselves. In the end it hurts people who did nothing wrong, and makes me not want to believe people who may have been actual victims. It cuts both ways.
/r/MensRights29/05/12 10:09 PM
9

Holy crap, after I strike out at a bar I rape myself. While actual rape is no laughing matters, these laws make it hard for me to want to give credence to legitimate victims.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 10:05 PM
3

I believe someone posted here having said something similar to a feminist recently, the response was something like; you just have victim envy.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 05:54 PM
4

It's a hard job, but someone has to do it. All that blood sweat and tears. Hours working towards a single purpose. Sacrificing your life, losing friends and loved ones. But a good figure is so hard to maintain these days, right girls? /s
/r/MensRights23/05/12 08:39 PM
11

There are reasons the military did not want women in combat arms. this is one of them.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 05:05 AM
14

So, because women are being welcomed in male dominated fields, and men need a place to go so they can afford child support, alimony, and subsistence it is sexist. It all makes so much sense now!!!
/r/MensRights23/05/12 03:02 AM
1

Damned I you do, damned if you don't. The message here is that it is not ok to be a man, as any action is wrong. How dare you show emotion you pussy ass faggot. How dare you not be upset you cold hearted asshole pig. You have no option save to not have anything happen to you, essentially non existence. Especially now with such blurred gender roles, a man doesn't have any single good role model to go off of. This would be ok, provided that whatever a man chose to be was accepted. These days it se…
/r/MensRights22/05/12 04:23 PM
1

I am usually pretty nice about it. I can recognize that shoving it down other peoples throats is not going to win us any friends, even if I'm right. It's important to remember that you don't have to fight every battle to win the war. That being said, I started dropping Facebook friends like flies. Life is too short to put up with stupid people.
/r/MensRights20/05/12 05:23 AM
2

Despite all the drama, I love this subreddit.
/r/MensRights20/05/12 03:08 AM
1

If she really thinks what she said, she will likely say the same. It's convincing the rest of the faculty that those ideals are actually sexist. If they allowed the teaching of that type of self defense, it is likely an uphill battle.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 03:58 PM
1

Methinks if gender rolls were reversed and some dude was saying "for your birthday I was going to buy you a whore, but you already have a wife" things would be different.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 04:41 AM
21

Wait, you came to this realization on your own, without having anyone bring it up to you? You are an amazing person! Wow. It shocks me that people are really that introspective and honest with themselves, I know I struggle with that. My wife and I went through 7 marital counselors who all told her pretty much exactly that, but I just don't think she could see it. Anyhow, good on ya for introspection enough to call yourself on something. The world needs more people like you.
/r/MensRights15/05/12 02:49 AM
-2

Yeah, I was thinking about this last night and trying to come up with an example that is as sexist, came up pretty dry, but here's what I got. When you see your children, remember not to murder them. If your baby daddy wants the baby, don't accidentally have an abortion. Remember, when you see a cute guy across the street, don't accidentally he pregnant. But these, as stupid and sexist as they are, don't really work because it is at all possible to accidentally do some, and the other is so burie…
/r/MensRights10/05/12 03:05 PM
7

It's pretty sexist against men, that much is obvious. If we want it to change we are going to have to point out that it's very sexist against women, assuming they can only afford a less than 1/3 full price ticket, being stay at home moms and not having jobs and all.
/r/MensRights09/05/12 07:51 PM
1

There were a few volunteers
/r/MensRights09/05/12 02:39 PM
6

This astounds me. That poor kid is going to have problems the rest of his life, and I am not even talking about psychological problems yet. Mom needs to see some jail to say the least. To willingly torture a child is horrific. Edit: I tried watching the video but I can't get through it, it's too upsetting. People like that are why I am for capital punishment.
/r/MensRights09/05/12 04:52 AM
18

Doesnt need to claim...
/r/MensRights09/05/12 04:11 AM
3

Went to a men's Christian event some years ago. There were 0 girl bathrooms.
/r/MensRights09/05/12 04:02 AM
2

In theory I would love it. Getting to play with my kids all day appeals to me, in practice I think I would quickly hate it.
/r/MensRights08/05/12 09:00 PM
10

Not likely any time soon. Too many lobbyists against the idea.
/r/MensRights07/05/12 04:51 PM
2

Had a similar experience. It was a rather nice break, but I don't like the idea of hurting regular normal body function for personal gain. There is another problem as well, if a drug like this were ever produced, there is a good chance parents will force kids to take it, or the government will, etc etc. Not a good idea.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 05:17 PM
1

I think it might be more old timey. Leftist for liberals, rightist for conservatives. The only time I hear about leftists is when people are talking about commie scares in the 50's, where leftist meant everything from neo-Marxist to pinko communism. The slur the other way was to call the right wing the GOP, as both republican and democrat political parties are both a split from the same party. Correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/MensRights05/05/12 08:48 PM
1

Wow, my wife was almost exactly the same with the no job and crazy mom stuff. Though I don't think my ex-wife was as capable of living like a human and getting a job, or holding one down. She moved in with me after we were married and had never lived on her own. Under traditionalism this was fine. Mind you, we had been long distance for quite some time, and while still together she made more money than I did. It came as a shock to me that the only thing she wanted to do all day was sit on the co…
/r/MensRights04/05/12 02:28 PM
1

Rightly so. I humbly apologize for any offense I may have caused, I'm not racist, or anti-mythical creature for that matter, I swear.
/r/MensRights03/05/12 04:25 PM
4

Went through this. My, now, ex-wife wasn't working so she went to most of the drs appts. I would go to any of them I could make and try and get caught up. I would get talked over, ignored, talked down to, and when I forced them to pay attention they were extremely rude and made it quite apparent that I did not count. Mind you, I am in the medical field, I understand most of the stuff they are saying but I had big holes I wanted filled in. I am still in the dark about much of my son's condition.
/r/MensRights02/05/12 05:42 PM
4

Yes, that's exactly the flip side. The point of my postings was to show the misogyny. It's completely misogynistic to show women like this, therefore it is misandry to show men the way they were shown in the article.
/r/MensRights02/05/12 03:52 PM
9

Except that most people still see only men capable of rape. For most people, accusing women of rape would be like accusing men of being unicorns. They just don't get it.
/r/MensRights02/05/12 02:14 PM
13

Yeah, I guess the reverse would be putting up women's names as prostitutes. More than the standard for a good time call though. Stuff like Jennifer whoever, blowjobs $6, etc. but because it's not true, they shouldn't be threatened by it. I hate seeing this stuff.
/r/MensRights02/05/12 01:05 PM
4

That old way of chivalry died when traditionalism did. A woman was someone to be taken care of because she could not do it herself. It quickly becomes impossible to give women equal rights and treat them as people without rights that need to be taken care of. The death of chivalry is a product of feminism. With equal rights comes equality.
/r/MensRights29/04/12 10:28 PM
6

While this may not strictly be a "men's rights issue" as a woman was arrested for assaulting a man, but it is nice that we can post both fair and unfair stuff here. Kinda makes me feel like this group is about equality and change rather than being mad and yelling about nothing.
/r/MensRights29/04/12 03:37 PM
1

Not sure why you got down voted. My point was immature arguments are the same regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights28/04/12 11:12 PM
37

Yeah, this feel like it was written by a 14 year old girl who wanted to control her boyfriend. Childish to the extreme. The other side of the coin is also as immature: always bring me a beer, if I'm mad give me a BJ etc. Stupid people being stupid.
/r/MensRights28/04/12 02:40 PM
2

Had a teacher at a trade school I went to accused of sexual harassment. He was let off the hook as the girl claiming harassment was full of shit (crazy ex-stripper who was mad that she had to work to get good grades). What blew my mind was that women were openly discussing that since he was a good looking man he needed to be careful.
/r/MensRights27/04/12 02:15 PM
6

Srs is really out to crush us aren't they. Ah well, if we have to deal with them, we need to check our sources boys.
/r/MensRights26/04/12 12:44 AM
-1

I can't really see much of an assault. Battery absolutely, but assault? I guess technically he did attempt a violent action towards her, but really?
/r/MensRights25/04/12 11:21 PM
8

Just when I think I have that figured out, I realize how much more there is.
/r/MensRights25/04/12 11:19 PM
254

How dare you extend the same courtesy to a man that you would extend to another woman!
/r/MensRights25/04/12 11:00 PM
7

This subject has came up several times, men being unwilling to marry that is, of course it's the man's fault he doesn't want to.
/r/MensRights25/04/12 10:53 PM
5

I'm wondering I this trolling is actually men posing as trolls at this point. You have to realize how damaging this statement is to your strong indep cause.
/r/MensRights24/04/12 04:50 PM
1

Well, you and I differ there, my point is the same, a double standard was upheld in the article.
/r/MensRights24/04/12 02:30 AM
-2

You srs trolls are getting so obvious.
/r/MensRights24/04/12 01:07 AM
-3

So a man fucking a married woman is doing no wrong? I disagree. You srs trolls are so obvious.
/r/MensRights24/04/12 01:06 AM
1

Masturbation is not a crime. In most places.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 11:48 PM
9

Wrong? Yes. Illegal? No. It takes 2 to screw. She knew full well he was married and what her deeds meant for the marriage. The article is about how horrible men are for our sexual escapades. It mentions Clinton but not Lewinsky though both of them engaged in the sex act, not just him. The double standard is obvious and sexist.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 11:33 PM
1

My point exactly, the article itself is quite sexist.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 08:22 PM
1

He resigned prior to.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 07:18 PM
1

Wording differences, my bad.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 04:39 PM
3

They have been. Impeached means brought to trial.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 04:04 PM
76

I like how it talks smack about Clinton, but lewinski comes out clean as if she had done nothing wrong.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 04:01 PM
1

A man can dream. There is a reason why parliament is one arm plus one broadsword length apart. I did feel the need to pipe in due to reprinting later.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 04:55 AM
27

Let's all burn jock straps too! Seriously though, we are a bunch of big boys, MRM should reflect that. Throwing stuff is for feminists and PETA.
/r/MensRights22/04/12 04:36 PM
1

These are the first Legos my daughter has taken a real interest in for years. How dare they market to girls! I can see why the fem army would be upset, the play sets I saw had "gasp" traditional female role focus. So, let's all get up in a tizzy because they are marketing to a group that likes that kind of thing. My daughter wants nothing to do with her star wars, pirate, or castle legos. All she does with them is play house.
/r/MensRights22/04/12 02:32 AM
17

Yeah, article is BS. I don't put much stock in maxim articles either though, and at least I know what maxim is all about. Is this magazine a trashy gossip mad like people? For forever alone girls like Cosmo? It seems like this is a gossip column with no factual evidence just extreme opinion. Men's magazines are just as bad.
/r/MensRights22/04/12 12:42 AM
14

A story came up here recently where your worst fear happened. He called cops, he went to jail, she destroyed his house and property. Be careful. Another plan would be to get outside and in a safe place, a car for example and then make the call stating you feared for your safety so you left but are nearby, you need them to come escort her off your property as she is now trespassing. She likely won't be in too much trouble for the battery as you two were having a shouting match and it simply escal…
/r/MensRights21/04/12 11:29 PM
0

Sadly. Just texted one of them. Looks like it was from a class, even he is unsure as to the validity of the claim. So much for my sources...
/r/MensRights19/04/12 11:16 PM
3

Of course. That and he would get to pee standing up, have to shave far less real estate etc. When interviewed he was on his period.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 10:48 PM
0

Drunken police friends talking about someone getting off on a technicality. That was the technicality.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 10:47 PM
3

Just checking.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 10:00 PM
7

But outlawing peeing while standing up, while in privacy, into a proper receptacle should be outlawed? Explain.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 09:54 PM
7

Fuck him indeed, the hermaphrodite I mentioned chose to live as a male. No one else would have ever had a better view of what it is like to be both. Being male is awesome. We should be more than merely tolerated, we should be valued in the same way we value women.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 08:40 PM
-3

Not necessarily true, transgendered men decided to become male, I am only pointing out that they choose physically, I am not disputing the reasoning for it. A mosaic hermaphrodite, has fully functional parts from both genders, was raised a girl and ultimately decided to live life as a man. Was interviewed by Dr Drew. What any of that has to do with this article is beyond me.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 07:58 PM
18

The trade off used to be that a women's restroom was better furnished to facilitate breast feeding, if that isn't the norm anymore because of women's choice, men shouldn't be punished. Urinals are a low flow equivalent to a regular toilet, especially as waterless urinals begin to emerge and become more commonplace. The idea of removing them is preposterous and can be taken as seriously as a movement to ban feminine hygiene product disposal units in restrooms on the idea that they are less hygien…
/r/MensRights19/04/12 07:53 PM
-2

I'm saying we don't know enough to paint either.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 07:41 PM
2

I read that as he was wounded while trying to disarm her, not that he tried to disarm her after being wounded.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 07:41 PM
-3

It may have played out that she had armed herself in fear of getting punched in the face. When he realized that the knife would stop him from hitting her, he attempted to take it away. We don't have enough facts to go on, save that she wasn't really punished much. It's all purely conjecture. My point is, we are circle jerking with a scant few facts. Based on her stated behavior of yelling out the window and arming herself, I am guessing she was in the wrong, but I can't rule out that he wasn't a…
/r/MensRights19/04/12 06:24 PM
-1

Could be true. Fact is, we don't know one way or another.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 06:11 PM
-4

Of course I made that assumption, though looking back I did not clearly state that it had been an assumption. If she was yelling out the window that he was a bad husband, she was already past the threshold of sane, calm argument. My conjecture is based on her not really being charged. Seems too odd to not assume both parties were at least somewhat at fault.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 05:30 PM
-2

That's the part that's hard, article doesn't say who got physical first. Drunk husband screaming at you and looking threatening might be good cause to feel a need to defend yourself. Article doesn't say one way or another.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 04:50 PM
3

I'm willing to bet at that point attempted murder would be viable. 8 times is more than shooting to stop someone.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 04:41 PM
-2

Ah, misread that then. My point about gender bias remains the same, however it seems that if he was defending himself, disarming her should be the least of her worries. The article still doesn't say whether or not he had threatened her, nor if she had armed herself in an attempt at self defense.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 04:40 PM
14

Obvious troll is obvious.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 02:01 PM
10

True, however in cases of a shooting, a shot above the waist is considered attempted murder. OP likely meant that since she attacked him with a deadly weapon she should likely have, at least, been charged with more than she was. However article states that he tried to disarm her when he was wounded. This to me suggests it may not have been a one sided attack, and she may have armed herself out of fear, not aggression. Is this a gender issue? If a man attacked his wife with a knife and then lied …
/r/MensRights19/04/12 02:01 PM
9

TIL folded paper has sexual preference and political ideology.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 05:57 AM
2

I would never plagiarize (while a group who could call me on it still existed), who do you think I am?
/r/MensRights19/04/12 05:33 AM
1

This group is great and all, but I look forward to a day when r/mensrights won't need to exist. I have a dream and all that.
/r/MensRights19/04/12 01:38 AM
3

This deserves a shot in r/wtf
/r/MensRights18/04/12 09:53 PM
3

Indeed. I really hated one guy in particular for having a girl who was his sex toy. He had been dumped by his baby mama because he wasn't around enough (he had been deployed to Afghanistan). He really wanted to get back with baby mama and have any access to his kid (mom took him to the cleaners as he wasn't there to represent himself and didn't know what was happening being busy invading a country). Anywho, broke up with sex toy, she was ok with it and had wanted the same from him.
/r/MensRights15/04/12 09:40 PM
17

She should be free to report every alleged rape. As should I. Arrest without proof is what needs to be worked on.
/r/MensRights15/04/12 09:26 PM
5

Yeah, but the stereotype is that we are all dumb simpletons who are desperately horny always. It's a woman's job to control the amount of sex in the relationship. You mean, men can be complex individuals with deep emotions? No way.
/r/MensRights15/04/12 08:47 PM
8

Yeah, that falls under the careful selection strategy though. A good mix may be the thing. I am not really willing to become an ass hole player type of person, but I used to really hate on those people. Now I have a hard time being hard on them for their dating habits.
/r/MensRights15/04/12 07:23 PM
30

I went with strategy 2. The nice guy. Got burned. Hard. Be careful out there. People can be very deceiving. And abusive.
/r/MensRights15/04/12 06:39 PM
2

I can vouch for this.
/r/MensRights14/04/12 07:29 PM
6

If wanting to make sure my tax dollars aren't being put into drugs makes me an asshole, then I am an asshole. I dare say, your comment makes you a jackass. Sorry but if I have to be drug tested to get the income I work for, people need to get drug tested for the income they don't work for.
/r/MensRights14/04/12 07:23 PM
33

No, they are spitting out programmed responses.
/r/MensRights14/04/12 04:17 PM
4

To be fair I am also all for drug testing for welfare etc.
/r/MensRights14/04/12 06:52 AM
8

If I am willing to have surgery as birth control, I will damn sure take a fucking pill. But that's not what it's about is it. It's about power, and it's about control. Giving men control of birth would be giving up a corner stone in control.
/r/MensRights14/04/12 06:50 AM
0

I wish...
/r/MensRights14/04/12 04:21 AM
11

Wow, I think you really nailed American culture. I hate to say it, but I have been thinking the same for years, but each time I bring it up I get destroyed. I hate agreeing with the idea that we, as a people, are out of touch with reality. Well said.
/r/MensRights13/04/12 06:40 PM
5

This is very upsetting. I am saddened that he felt the need to take his own life, I am far more saddened that his kid has to be without a dad. I am eager to see what the future of his ex-wife will be. Her actions are pretty atrocious, and I hope justice is served. I wish you the best in your future, these things are never easy. I'm glad this group could be here for him when he needed it, I only wish we could have done more.
/r/MensRights12/04/12 04:41 AM
2

Were we with the same woman?
/r/MensRights12/04/12 12:02 AM
3

Agreed. It's a harsh system. This sub has so far been a pretty good support group as well as a movement for change.
/r/MensRights11/04/12 08:11 PM
3

Sounds exactly like my story...
/r/MensRights11/04/12 07:20 PM
3

It makes sense in worst case scenarios. Dad really is a deadbeat, a drunk, a druggie, a horrible roll model etc. That is also the stereotype for any single father. We are incompetent, didn't you know? Now that men aren't kid stupid and can raise children single handedly, these kind of laws need to go away. I just wish it wasn't taking so long, and the change wasn't so opposed.
/r/MensRights11/04/12 07:07 PM
18

Obvious troll is obvious. Go back to srs
/r/MensRights09/04/12 05:33 AM
5

Obvious troll is obvious. Using a made up male name won't help you.
/r/MensRights09/04/12 05:33 AM
2

Very likely, however I have met plenty of people who honestly believe that black people cannot be racist. The rest is equally as silly to believe, but just as possible.
/r/MensRights06/04/12 04:39 AM
1

Wow, this is really awful. I am without words.
/r/MensRights02/04/12 09:56 PM
1

That sounds exactly like the titanic to me. Overconfidence in the sturdiness of the ship, arrogantly not putting the proper number of life boats onboard. Maybe it's just me. What analogy would you prefer?
/r/MensRights02/04/12 09:51 PM
23

This article is a really good find. The parallel theories are fantastic, for example, girls don't go into physics, business, and basketball for, at least, similar reasons. It isn't that boys and men are keeping them out, they are keeping each other out. Maybe it's time to stop punishing boys for the behavior of girls.
/r/MensRights02/04/12 03:12 PM
0

I thought so too, I guess not many else did.
/r/MensRights02/04/12 04:55 AM
1

You are standing up for a great cause. You may be floating a titanic in the north Atlantic of that class, or whatever bad analogy you want to use. Either way, you are doing the right thing based on what you wrote.
/r/MensRights02/04/12 03:27 AM
-3

Oh I got yours, apparently no one got mine. That awkward moment when your sarcasm is so advanced people take you seriously. Oh well.
/r/MensRights02/04/12 12:56 AM
9

Without doubt.
/r/MensRights02/04/12 12:55 AM
-22

Yeah, because that's exactly how it works...
/r/MensRights01/04/12 07:29 PM
58

Yup, imagine if the genders were reversed and three men harassed a lesbian wanting to see her vagina. Big time no no.
/r/MensRights01/04/12 06:53 PM
3

I would love to pin all of that on Cosmo, but I think the issue is far larger. Oh well, either we will fix it, or we won't. I just pray we unscrew western culture before my kids are old enough to get married.
/r/MensRights28/03/12 10:37 PM
2

Exactly my point.
/r/MensRights28/03/12 07:05 PM
37

That's exactly it. The magazine also states that it is NOT fair for him to do the same as it is forcing the woman to be uncomfortable. I don't need to know every detail about her day, but being deliberately vague is a bad sign. I wonder what the article about how to tell if your boyfriend is cheating says about this situation in reverse.
/r/MensRights28/03/12 04:57 PM
1

Yeah, that will do it. Had one like that in college. She and I did not get along.
/r/MensRights26/03/12 02:53 AM
1

Hold on to her. She is level headed and intelligent. Well done.
/r/MensRights25/03/12 09:08 PM
2

You have not been put through the ringer yet. If you are married, engaged, or otherwise happily occupied by a significant other please ignore the previous statement. I think most women are great, level headed, wonderful people. Odds are, you found a good one, if not a great one. I think the problem is society. The reason MRM is so hated is because we absolutely challenge the status quo. We fly in the face of the long established feminism, and destroy the remnants of modern chivalry. We tear apar…
/r/MensRights25/03/12 07:57 PM
1

The trolling was hurting our cause. People posting horrible things and claiming it was one of us who said it. Looks pretty bad. Ultimately the trolls are here to hurt us. If we let them fester they will eventually find a way.
/r/MensRights25/03/12 06:44 PM
8

Yes indeed. I had come to pro MR conclusions on my own, and was overjoyed when I realized I wasn't alone. I can't be the only one.
/r/MensRights25/03/12 04:17 PM
2

We have already done some good weeding. If they show up, who knows how much damage they will de before we can get them gone.
/r/MensRights25/03/12 04:15 PM
5

Obvious troll is so obvious it tickles.
/r/MensRights25/03/12 04:13 PM
1

Yeah, I think he was a tad off topic. As I recall, in my home state of California, boys can absolutely be jailed like this based on the parents of the girl. The girl committed no crime.
/r/MensRights24/03/12 10:49 PM
3

I have a feeling this conversation will be copied and reposted to mean exactly that, and I think I should remind you that I was referring to us being labeled as a hate group. But, I like your sarcasm, so I will let it be.
/r/MensRights23/03/12 07:43 PM
12

But it's ok if feminists and the college itself do it, right?
/r/MensRights23/03/12 05:49 PM
9

Hate group
/r/MensRights23/03/12 05:48 PM
34

Use time served against a future crime... I like where you are going with this.
/r/MensRights23/03/12 01:39 PM
23

Fear they are going to end up as the next story like this?
/r/MensRights23/03/12 01:38 PM
1

Adolph Hitler was a devoted cultist. I fail to see how murder could even begin to be a Christian ideal as it goes directly against one of the ten commandments. I have never read mein kampf, nor any other literature that is that full of hate, so I cannot say one way or the other what's in it. If you are well schooled in that book, well... Lest we forget that Christianity was the thing to do at the time, uncle Adolph had likely gone to church once or twice in his life. Just like I have watched a N…
/r/MensRights22/03/12 03:28 PM
1

My comment was a follow on. Methinks it was troll that was deleted. Unless I posted and forgot (unlikely). Or mods deleted and didn't tell me (also unlikely).
/r/MensRights22/03/12 05:51 AM
1

Agreed. Have seen this in action with an infantry battalion's POGs. It was ugly.
/r/MensRights22/03/12 05:50 AM
1

Yeah, 9 months to a year plus off sets you back to cherry private standards.
/r/MensRights22/03/12 05:49 AM
4

Having spent 8 years in the infantry (airborne), I can tell you the problem with having women in those rolls is not related to any actual gender weakness. Instead it is due to the sad double standard the military hands out to genders. Women do not need to do as well in a raw PT score to get the same numerical score as men. Men do not require feminine hygiene products. Men are more willing to put themselves at risk for a female in need rather than a man in need, potentially creating needless casu…
/r/MensRights21/03/12 09:20 PM
4

Say what? How dumb are you?
/r/MensRights21/03/12 09:12 PM
9

I like your mom
/r/MensRights21/03/12 09:12 PM
7

Is it hard to see the monitor with your head that far up your ass?
/r/MensRights21/03/12 09:11 PM
2

This is pretty dead on.
/r/MensRights21/03/12 01:27 PM
4

Of course this idea is ridiculous. It seems to me that every despot has made that claim, and would follow through, after eliminating every opponent, both real and imagined.
/r/MensRights21/03/12 01:07 PM
3

Get back under your bridge!
/r/MensRights20/03/12 05:27 PM
1

Agreed. It feels like the equivalent of a white supremacist deciding someone is a race traitor. They are demonized.
/r/MensRights20/03/12 03:23 AM
1

So the argument is that small groups of people have been doing horrible things in the name of Christianity for a long time, therefore Christianity is bad. I daresay your problem is not with Christianity, it is with Christians. Christianity without its purported followers is pretty great. If you remember, Christianity has been around for about 2000 years, atheism far less. In the life span of atheism, atheists have done some pretty awful things. The holocaust was sold on atheist concepts. Stalin …
/r/MensRights19/03/12 10:42 PM
1

Maybe true. Still don't want my daughter to live in a place where that is an option for her. Call me crazy.
/r/MensRights19/03/12 04:18 AM
0

Do I seem worried, I really don't care about imaginary points.
/r/MensRights19/03/12 04:18 AM
3

I really liked this one.
/r/MensRights18/03/12 11:40 PM
1

The last line made my night
/r/MensRights18/03/12 05:30 AM
5

That seems to be the way we are heading.
/r/MensRights18/03/12 05:15 AM
1

I agree, but we have still been labeled a hate group, like the KKK.
/r/MensRights18/03/12 05:15 AM
-1

Actually it was a response to a topic somewhat praising me for my behavior and being crass about a religious group. The downvotes occurred when I identified myself with the religious group.
/r/MensRights18/03/12 01:04 AM
-4

I dare say the same extremists exist who fall under atheism who want to impose their beliefs without proof of the lack of said deity. That being said, people going out of their way to hurt you or even act in an unkind way to you is not very Christian. Even when doing so under the guise of Christianity (see westboro baptist). However awful, cruel, mean spirited things done in the name of atheism are absolutely done in the name of atheism. Furthermore I think the term Christian fundamentalist is a…
/r/MensRights17/03/12 09:45 PM
53

Chivalry is dead, acts like this killed it. It's really stupid to me that there was even police follow up. Waste of tax payer dollars, police energy, and reputation of said "offender." If the article had said something about him driving an unmarked van, no windows, and offered them something like a pedophile would, I think he should be charged. At this point I am afraid to be a good Samaritan. The best parts of society are quietly being castrated. Also, the parents of the girls are most likely b…
/r/MensRights17/03/12 08:19 PM
0

So the constant trolling on r/Christianity in the name of r/atheism is ok because only a few people do it. Or all the downvotes I get for saying I practice religion? The hate mail and angry pms? That's all justified because only a few do it? Last I checked anti-atheism sentiment on r/Christianity was either non-existent or only anti-troll. Before I finally unsubscribed from r/atheism the only thing on that sub was anti-Christian. Explain how upvoting all of that to the front page is nullified by…
/r/MensRights17/03/12 08:15 PM
2

As apposed to radical feminism?
/r/MensRights17/03/12 08:09 PM
1

The constant insults are why I am not a fan of r/atheism. If I set out to insult you all day every day, you wouldn't like me either.
/r/MensRights17/03/12 08:08 PM
-11

I rest my case.
/r/MensRights17/03/12 05:17 PM
7

How dare we feel wronged!
/r/MensRights17/03/12 04:59 PM
19

No, I am a hate group. Duh.
/r/MensRights17/03/12 04:55 PM
-3

Nope. Never was a goon.
/r/MensRights17/03/12 04:51 PM
-14

Or force their immorality on people. I, for one, was pretty offended at the endless pot shots r/atheism was taking at r/Christianity. Especially when the former fired first and the latter refused to stoop to their level.
/r/MensRights17/03/12 04:51 PM
1

I'm religious. Edit: downvotes for this post? Am I not allowed to practice religion?
/r/MensRights17/03/12 03:56 PM
21

As much as the content on r/atheism offends me, I don't think it needs to be shut down. Why the hate on us? I don't get it. Seems to me our frustrations are with getting destroyed financially after divorce, and having no control over our lives or kids. We are tired of not having any control while being told we have male privilege. This doesn't seem so bad, does it?
/r/MensRights17/03/12 03:42 PM
1

Exactly my point
/r/MensRights17/03/12 05:49 AM
1

I know I know, downvote and hate me if you must, but read all I have to say first. I am not really against the pornography ban. I could care less. My point is, even with that in mind, I cannot see how that would necessarily help end misogyny nor violence against women.
/r/MensRights16/03/12 04:50 PM
1

It feels awkward to me that you would likely be more welcome in r/Christianity than r/lgbt
/r/MensRights16/03/12 02:36 PM
6

Hate group! Hate group!
/r/MensRights15/03/12 04:21 AM
2

I have to agree, we aren't going to win by those tactics.
/r/MensRights15/03/12 02:43 AM
2

So then we are in agreement?
/r/MensRights13/03/12 09:03 PM
10

I'm starting to like this meme
/r/MensRights13/03/12 05:02 PM
27

I read that as dripping with sarcasm, as I hope you read the following: he should act like a big boy, she's just a little girl, how can she hurt him. Also, a hug and a big wet kiss from a woman should obviously undo any wrong she could have possibly done him. After all hasn't he already hurt her enough with his male privilege?
/r/MensRights13/03/12 05:01 PM
8

I get the feeling the feminism movement is going to step away with all the evidence the way it is.
/r/MensRights13/03/12 04:58 PM
34

That's it exactly.
/r/MensRights13/03/12 04:54 PM
1

I think you need to look at context in the OP
/r/MensRights12/03/12 03:08 AM
5

Indeed. We are so full of hate!
/r/MensRights11/03/12 11:34 PM
2

Not unless he actually gets accused of rape. He is still a wife beater and abuser.
/r/MensRights11/03/12 06:55 PM
19

So, it's ok for her to break my nose, cut my face, gouge my eyes, kick my groin, and I'm not allowed to defend myself unless she is trying to kill me? So it's ok for me to be severely injured, just so long as I am not going to die from it. Just want to be clear.
/r/MensRights11/03/12 04:35 PM
1

So, it's ok to humiliate and hurt men publicly for a pro-women's issue, but if I do the same to my son it's child abuse? Saying that it's the cause that makes it ok is like saying its ok for me to abuse my wife if it's for a good cause. Cue dr Farnsworth: I don't want to live on this planet anymore!
/r/MensRights11/03/12 04:25 PM
3

We did just have a mod walk out, I'm still not sure of the reasoning. What I have noticed is a change away from what feminists accuse us of being. I still have yet to see much that shows this subreddit selling its soul to remain PC.
/r/MensRights11/03/12 04:16 PM
5

I do fear for my young son, growing up this way, unless we change things. There is nothing wrong with being a boy. We can do lots of cool stuff, and shouldn't have to feel ashamed about it.
/r/MensRights11/03/12 04:12 PM
0

This wouldn't bother me if the reason was that women were trying harder. Sadly not the case here.
/r/MensRights11/03/12 04:05 PM
2

Unless she gets caught with a crack pipe in her hand...
/r/MensRights11/03/12 01:34 AM
1

Didn't we already know what CNN is really like?
/r/MensRights11/03/12 01:31 AM
1

It's going to get worse before it gets better.
/r/MensRights10/03/12 05:46 PM
3

I was thinking the same. If comes out strongly any way but a white knight his career would go down in flames.
/r/MensRights09/03/12 08:37 PM
1

Fair, as I said, a polite email to Microsoft might do the trick.
/r/MensRights08/03/12 07:40 PM
1

You raise a good point. Don't forget we are a new thing. It takes a while for people to catch on. Just look how long the civil rights movement took to gain credibility. Also, I don't want us to become PETA, shouting so loud about everything that no one listens to us. If it bugs you it might warrant a nice email to Microsoft detailing how you were shocked it wasn't there.
/r/MensRights08/03/12 07:20 PM
5

That's the difference, if genders were reversed it would be outrage.
/r/MensRights08/03/12 06:46 PM
8

I think she is refusing debate for a variety of reasons. Without a platform for us to stand up for ourselves and be heard, we are whatever she says we are. By just being up there and speaking rationally we hurt here credibility. I know there are going to be extremists here who are going to live up to her expectations, but radfems are just as bad, and pointing that out can only hurt her. She might lose the debate. Imagine if she were forced into a paradigm shift where she was shown what we really…
/r/MensRights08/03/12 03:35 PM
0

I vote you speak openly and honestly. Remember to not go on the attack no matter how satisfying. Even if you don't convince her, at least both of your followers will have good information presented to them. Also, don't lie. Always a bad idea.
/r/MensRights07/03/12 03:17 AM
6

That stings a bit. I would love to go on about how maybe I should train my son that women are objects. Don't train them, throw them away or give them to tech support if you really want them back when they don't behave. But fighting fire with fire isn't the best solution; I don't think women are object, and I don't want my son to; and I would rather try and find a solution rather than win the fight.
/r/MensRights06/03/12 04:23 PM
3

So, forcing more qualified people out in the name of "equality," seems legit. What could go wrong?
/r/MensRights05/03/12 07:19 PM
4

Love the novelty account. Still going to Downvote and ignore.
/r/MensRights05/03/12 06:58 PM
-1

Exactly like that? Not often if ever. But each part of that has been pulled from an article or video posted here. Or personal experience.
/r/MensRights05/03/12 04:35 PM
1

Not all at once to the same person, but each part of it has happened to someone in an article posted here.
/r/MensRights05/03/12 04:26 PM
-2

Yup, how dare I get seduced by a woman only to have her drug me after sex so she can steal the still full condom, run down to the local sperm bank and get impregnated against my will then successfully sue me for over 100% of my gross income and send me to jail. WTF is wrong with men! Edit: to be clear, this sickens me, sarcasm only above the word edit
/r/MensRights05/03/12 04:46 AM
6

I agree. We need to work towards and be seen working towards equality. At this time we are seen as a mirror to radical feminism. Good call on the throw away. I have taken some flak for a similar view.
/r/MensRights04/03/12 11:29 PM
1

Indeed. Can that be taken any other way? Really?
/r/MensRights02/03/12 01:39 AM
-13

False rape accusations don't happen, and even if they did, it's not like it would hurt anybody. This really bothers me more than most other stuff here for some reason.
/r/MensRights01/03/12 04:35 PM
3

I like this one. They barely touched on her getting swept under the rug, but that is what strikes me as the most shocking. When reddit had something unsavory pop up we, as a community, cut out the disease as best we could, we did not deny it or hide it. Sad that feminism won't.
/r/MensRights01/03/12 02:58 AM
5

He came within several feet of her personal space? He was obviously attempting to rape her, I mean, there is no way that a guy might just be walking past her, right? WTF... If genders were reversed, campus security would have laughed at him. How the hell is that worthy of a call to the police? Lesson learned, if you are a man, cross the street before passing a female. Also, don't cross the street, it would likely be considered sexual harassment. Real lesson is, never go outside. Wait, you can't …
/r/MensRights27/02/12 09:39 PM
8

According to a friend in law enforcement it is legally impossible to discriminate against a man based on gender(and a Caucasian based on race). Sad, ain't it?
/r/MensRights26/02/12 04:28 AM
15

Well obviously, since he is so much stronger than them, he can defend himself. And then go to jail for beating up women... Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
/r/MensRights26/02/12 04:09 AM
2

Quit staring at my boobs! So what if my shirt is cut so low you can see my belly button, I paid $6,000 for these things, and a ridiculous amount of money on a bra to better show them off! You are a pig!
/r/MensRights21/02/12 01:08 PM
-1

If they want to co opt and actually work together to find balance, I'm all for it. I have some nagging doubts, however.
/r/MensRights20/02/12 07:46 PM
2

I like how we should aspire to be dogs. Like that's the best we can do. What's as bad is that our job as dogs is to keep all of the men who aren't deemed good enough to be dogs away from her. Imagine if the gender roles were reversed. Women are sheep to be herded by the dog I am willing to screw. When I get tired of her I will likely promote a sheep to dog. The end.
/r/MensRights19/02/12 11:10 PM
11

Quick! Send that man to debtors prison!
/r/MensRights19/02/12 06:05 PM
-5

To be fair, I'm all for free birth control. Provided if/when a male version arrives it is also free. I also wouldn't have a problem with free feminine hygiene products. That stuff is a fact of life. Also, birth control benefits both genders, as homosexual couples don't need it.
/r/MensRights17/02/12 06:03 PM
11

It's interesting to me to see the anti-men's rights groups being openly for castration, mutilation, child abuse, etc, and somehow that is all ok. But me saying child support payments in excess of 100% of my income is a horrible and wrong thing. Repost to WTF.
/r/MensRights14/02/12 02:58 PM
3

Every activist group has come under hard times at its start, abolition, women's suffrage, civil rights etc. Hang in there boys, it's going to be a long ride, but we can make it.
/r/MensRights14/02/12 02:55 PM
1

A child called it comes to mind.
/r/MensRights14/02/12 02:53 PM
28

This is sad. Imagine if it had been grandma. No cops, nothing. Lesson learned; white males are pedophiles and criminals.
/r/MensRights12/02/12 06:28 PM
9

Ah yes. We made women shitty. Just like we owned slaves... Consider yourself ignored sir.
/r/MensRights11/02/12 08:30 PM
1

I believe the pro-racism subreddit is elsewhere. Easy mistake to make I guess.
/r/MensRights11/02/12 08:29 PM
23

Becoming or has become?
/r/MensRights11/02/12 08:27 PM
2

Or we could say that it seems to happen often enough that it warrants a generalization. Before I get jumped on for discrimination etc, I would like to point out that I am talking about decision making, eg: all teens make stupid decisions. While not all do all the time, I certainly did a time or two, as do most. A few make constant bad decisions making the stereotype stick.
/r/MensRights06/02/12 07:00 PM
18

Good definition for the man. The woman's definition would be a tad different.
/r/MensRights06/02/12 04:47 PM
11

While I would really love to not give a crap about high school kids doing high school things, I do have to say that if the genders were reversed this would be a huge news story.
/r/MensRights06/02/12 04:43 PM
2

Well done sir.
/r/MensRights05/02/12 11:19 PM
2

My only thought it: lol wut? I'm going to go back to repressing women by eating a huge lamb shank, a side of bacon, a beef roast, and one of every domesticated bird (parakeet is tasty)... Lol, veggitarian...
/r/MensRights28/01/12 05:48 AM
12

This is printable, yet if the gender roles were reversed and the command was make me a sandwich... Watching my best friend get trained like this. It's sad really.
/r/MensRights27/01/12 03:42 PM
3

PAS at work.
/r/MensRights27/01/12 03:33 PM
104

I am afraid of you. I am afraid you will decide that I am looking at your boobs and successfully sue me for sexual harassment. I am afraid you will get drunk and hit on me, then the sexual harassment thing again. I am afraid to speak to you for fear you might in some way, somehow, decide what I have said offends your femininity, again with the suing. I am afraid not to talk to you, because not talking to you and talking to others represents being sexist and is therefore sexual harassment (this a…
/r/MensRights27/01/12 12:05 AM
2

Meant with utter sarcasm, but I think you get it.
/r/MensRights22/01/12 02:07 AM
4

Men should bend over backwards to please women. It's the least they deserve.
/r/MensRights20/01/12 05:56 PM
2

That's the best part about oral tradition, it's easy to change/screw up. Point being, falsely accusing a man of rape likely dates back to the first time rape was considered a crime.
/r/MensRights17/01/12 06:37 PM
2

What's in Genesis were likely passed down orally before they were written. It's likely gone on as far back as rape was a crime.
/r/MensRights17/01/12 06:29 PM
0

The dead friends of which I speak died in the line of duty, and I brought it up because I don't like it when people piss and shit all over what I bled for and they died for. The point is, it doesn't matter what the war was, but if you want the right to vote, you gotta sign up. Fact of the matter is without a draft Germany would still own France. Lest we forget that our involvement with WWI and WWII (the more popular sequel) were considered unjust by many. Our involvement in the former was moneta…
/r/MensRights17/01/12 01:45 AM
0

Ok, I've said this three times now. Drop this line of conversation here. This isn't the subreddit for it. Furthermore, me and all my dead friends say quit whining hippy.
/r/MensRights17/01/12 12:32 AM
2

For my, now ex,-wife it was my joy to provide her with something to show all her friends. The trade off was that I got a truly epic wedding ring where hers was far cheaper. All told the cost of her wedding and engagement rings cost almost double what my wedding ring cost. It was, at the time, fun for me to give more than I got. If the engagement ring thing offends you, work a way around it as a couple. If she is willing to listen to you and work with you she is likely a keeper. If not, well... D…
/r/MensRights16/01/12 08:21 PM
1

Wow, missed that one. While I would likely get a good laugh out of a girl wearing the kick balls shirt I would never let my daughter wear it. The reverse is worse. Boys kick tacos/the cunt/cats etc would be a horrible wrong thing and people would get sued into oblivion...
/r/MensRights16/01/12 07:07 PM
1

Ah, that sentiment is rare, and I apologize for getting the wrong impression. Historically speaking, go airborne or air assault and you will be free and clear of draftees.
/r/MensRights16/01/12 07:05 PM
2

That is absolutely a good point. I will re-iterate what I think is a good point. Equal rights come with equal responsibilities.
/r/MensRights16/01/12 05:53 PM
-1

Of course not, no one wants to be drafted. If they did they would join prior to getting picked. With that in mind I would, if called, go to war at my countries call willingly. The needs of the many vs the needs of the few kind of thing. That being said, I am trying to shut up about this and move conversations like this to r/politics and r/military. So ima shut da fk up naow.
/r/MensRights16/01/12 05:51 PM
1

Unsure about the sexism, if I boy were wearing a shirt that said "I'm too good looking for homework, I make my little sister do it," it wouldn't bother me either. That being said, my daughter is very pretty, and she does her own homework. Her brother will not be doing it for her, ever. What I take away from the shirt is that pretty girls don't think they have to work. Isn't that funny. Now get back in the quarry!
/r/MensRights16/01/12 05:22 PM
-7

The sad truth behind your words is that you are afraid you would get drafted and don't want to go. The rest of the statement is false as most people in this country would rather be ruled by a foreign power than sign up for the military. I can also guess from the way you speak that you were either a) never in the military, or b) were in a soft skill job in a soft branch. While morale and overall skill level would drop, sheer numbers can overcome that. I'm going to stop here, this isn't the subred…
/r/MensRights16/01/12 04:57 PM
7

Sadly the possible need for selective service in the future prevents its elimination. That being said, I'm all for chivalry in these situations. But if it's true equality they want, it's true equality they have to put up with. If I change a diaper she can unclog a toilet etc. if she wants to vote, she can go to war the same way I would.
/r/MensRights16/01/12 07:50 AM
24

Selective service should include women. Even bringing it up is political suicide. Unless we as the United States take a major turn, this will never change.
/r/MensRights16/01/12 07:00 AM
1

All hail!
/r/MensRights16/01/12 06:59 AM
10

What the... I don't even... Like its something we have to control? Why not have anti-murder posters that are similar? Don't accidentally murder someone. This is blatant stupid sexism.
/r/MensRights15/01/12 07:39 PM
1

Wow... Is it even legally rape?
/r/MensRights14/01/12 05:57 PM
1

Does an Upvote count?
/r/MensRights11/01/12 06:53 PM
1

So, maiming king it harder to prosecute is part of the plan?
/r/MensRights11/01/12 06:45 PM
8

Masturbation denial? No. Pornography denial? Fine with me.
/r/MensRights11/01/12 06:36 PM
1

Have to agree. So, what can we do to fix the problem?
/r/MensRights11/01/12 06:32 PM
1

Where one innocent person getting convicted is too many, there are too many guilty people free. So, how do we fix it? Good guess. I don't really know either.
/r/MensRights11/01/12 06:05 AM
1

Then don't believe them, I don't care.
/r/MensRights11/01/12 06:04 AM
2

It's so many of the little ones that bother me. For instance, I saw an individual smoking weed while driving his car, called a cop friend, he said there really isn't much point to pulling him over as proving his level of intoxication is nearly impossible, and that all he would have to do would be to show a medical marijuana card and he skates. This individual almost caused 3 accidents in the less than 5 minutes I was behind him. Obviously doing wrong, but police powerless... Also, murderers gett…
/r/MensRights11/01/12 02:07 AM
1

If I had a good way to fix it, I'd run for office. Again, my opinions come from observations and opinions of friends who work in law, mostly enforcement.
/r/MensRights11/01/12 02:02 AM
0

Very possibly.
/r/MensRights11/01/12 02:00 AM
2

Without doubt. Vigilantism is a bad thing, but our courts are awash with garbage and too many guilty people are going free. Hence the poo-pooing. That being said, I live in California, the courts here are bad. I work in the medical field in the bad areas of Los Angeles. My job is full of criminals, they all have at least one story of how they beat the system. They know very few who actually got the sentence they deserved.
/r/MensRights11/01/12 12:41 AM
10

Yes, I'm willing to bet he could get creamed as it was all pre-meditated.
/r/MensRights10/01/12 11:43 PM
-2

Oj got off, the drunk driver that paralyzed my aunt got off, a heroin dealer I met once got off, a million other examples, that's not what it's for, that's what it's been doing.
/r/MensRights10/01/12 11:39 PM
24

Assault and battery is what he did, could upgrade to attempted murder with knowledge of 9mm, saying he chickened out etc.
/r/MensRights10/01/12 06:50 PM
125

He should go to jail for assault and battery. If the guy actually raped her, I don't feel bad. He does deserve due process however. As do terrorists etc. That being said, due process is to keep the not guilty out of jail, not to let the guilty off the hook, as the way it is now.
/r/MensRights10/01/12 05:09 PM
6

This way of doing things was started when women wouldn't have stabbed a husband, and a man did not know how to run a house without her. Times have changed. Women can vote and have a job. Men are great at cooking and running a household. The laws need to keep with the times. Had a cop friend tell me that the way the law worked was; if a woman called the cops, he went to jail. If a man called the cops; they went to jail. That is better than what happened here. That was 7 years ago in north Carolin…
/r/MensRights10/01/12 05:04 PM
8

To? Are women finally able to rape men? Also, I thought the other definitions were very informative.
/r/MensRights09/01/12 08:10 AM
1

Thought provoking article. Good find.
/r/MensRights06/01/12 07:11 PM
1

Well put
/r/MensRights05/01/12 01:15 AM
4

It's absurd the woman lost, duh...
/r/MensRights01/01/12 10:15 PM
2

I think you question can be answered by the nerd factor. I am willing to bet that most redditors are male. As far as your comments, I think you raised a good question and were not out of line at all. In my humble opinion, on reddit, if you are receiving hate mail, you are likely doing the right thing.
/r/MensRights01/01/12 08:17 PM
2

Circumcision doesn't make a girl less want-able when her tummy is all huge and full of baby?
/r/MensRights31/12/11 09:56 PM
17

Blatantly inappropriate. With the genders reversed society would actually. Are... Not fair and not ok
/r/MensRights20/12/11 01:49 AM
5

He careful, it might take court to save your job. As for limiting your career, you might need to separate from that company if you want to come to full fruition. It seems going to HR with these might be a good idea, do it quietly and make statements there about not wanting anything done about it for now, just wanting to make sure there is a record of what really happened.
/r/MensRights19/12/11 06:43 PM
1

I am glad someone wrote this with such eloquence. I completely agree. This does ring true for any group or movement ever.
/r/MensRights16/12/11 06:58 PM
4

Every movement has its extremists. Seems we keep empowering feminism's.
/r/MensRights16/12/11 06:54 AM
2

Alas, about 10 years too late
/r/MensRights15/12/11 07:18 PM
3

Why am I not surprised?
/r/MensRights15/12/11 07:14 AM
2

I have this nagging feeling this is going to echo my kids before too long.
/r/MensRights14/12/11 12:31 AM
1

That was actually exceedingly well put. Neither side is really going to go anywhere unless we can cooperate. I like this idea. That being said, third world countries absolutely need some women's rights. As far as a few, or the many, speaking for all of them, PETA is a good example... Only takes a few rotten eggs to ruin a movement.
/r/MensRights09/12/11 10:32 PM
1

your text was a tad tl;dr, but I want to respond really quick. I think what you are saying is that you are a level headed individual who doesn't like where many feminists are taking feminism. That's great! I didn't think people like you really existed in any real sense. With that in mind I will happily listen to your opinion and give you credibility where I would ignore others. I will try and fi ish reading what you wrote soon, however I am very busy and will likely have to do it in snippets.
/r/MensRights09/12/11 07:02 PM
1

Planned parenthood is fine. Roe v Wade is still something that irks me. Granted, the woman is the one that has to carry the child, but the child belongs to the father as much as the woman. As I understand it Roe eventually admitted it was not rape, she was pregnant by her boyfriend. I struggle with the fact that this has been so ignored and even denied, let alone change the ruling. Roe v Wade is based on lies anyway. That being said, feminism is fine with me. So long as it's sole purpose is to m…
/r/MensRights09/12/11 12:20 AM
8

This is fantastic news!!! I cannot imagine a worse nor more ruinous slander than a fake cry of rape.
/r/MensRights08/12/11 04:08 AM
1

Feminism was about women's rights, just like this subreddit is about men's rights. Having achieved equal rights compared to men, the movement turned out just like any other, hungry for more. Now it seems feminism wants to have its cake and eat it too. They want to maintain superiority and continue to fight for more.
/r/MensRights06/12/11 08:34 PM
1

Of course not, it's her peril. Now, if you stalk your neighbor watching her every move waiting for her to get naked... That being said, beating off on a city bus, or in full view of others from your car isn't exactly right either
/r/MensRights06/12/11 12:37 AM
1

What I read said there aren't many details available. If he is deliberately doing something grossly inappropriate then he needs to be dealt with. It seems odd that he would even come under fire unless he was actually doing something wrong. If that is not the case, and someone is suing him because he can put MD after his name and found something silly that will be trumped up in court because of a gender bias, then it is absolutely wrong. I, for one, am not going to jump to conclusions based on pe…
/r/MensRights05/12/11 09:09 PM
1

It's one thing if he is using a telescope, binoculars, and/or video camera. Quite another if he is seen looking out his damn window. Addendum: not masturbating
/r/MensRights05/12/11 07:19 PM
2

If you know you have aids and have sexy times with someone without telling them I believe it's attempted murder... Unless its the girl...
/r/MensRights04/12/11 12:06 AM
2

No joke, I'm glad people are reading this with the appropriate level of sarcasm.
/r/MensRights02/12/11 01:30 PM
2

Very.
/r/MensRights01/12/11 10:55 PM
1

Going through similar. Ex-wife is border line abusive neglectful hoarder who can't do anything but watch I love Lucy reruns. In talking with a lawyer, if she is not caught with a crack pipe in her hand I am getting 50/50 custody max.
/r/MensRights01/12/11 10:53 PM
20

Of course it's the man's fault. Women are incapable of being psychopathic imbalanced killers...
/r/MensRights01/12/11 10:44 PM
3

I'm glad someone found this. I heard this on the radio and I am aghast that the girlfriend hasn't broken any laws. Now two children will never live a normal life, a man will forever have an anchor on his hopes and dreams. What a mess. Unless he wins the law suit, the only person who didn't come out ahead is the man in question. Ugh, what a mess.
/r/MensRights28/11/11 01:43 PM
1

Can put things in like it's your job to stop it too.
/r/MensRights26/11/11 06:35 PM
3

But cutting their benefits seems like a good idea! PTSD treatment is something they can get themselves.
/r/MensRights25/11/11 02:43 AM
2

Exactly
/r/MensRights23/11/11 10:40 PM
10

Laws like child support and alimony came into existance because women could not support themselves at the time. Now that women can, I think it's time to reevaluate. My point being, if a man has child support dumped on him like in the situation the OP pointed out, it seems silly that he should need to pay child support. It was her idea, he shouldn't be stuck with the consequences of her decision. As far as not deserving equal pay etc, I think the current laws are sadly necessary. Hard on the busi…
/r/MensRights22/11/11 08:05 PM
12

Having my now ex-wife do exactly that, not once, but twice, I can tell you it certainly doesn't feel fair. Especially these days where women take up 50% of the work place and have the same wages and better job protection than we do. The counter argument is likely it's my body I can do what I want. That's fine, it shows why you won't have an abortion, it doesn't show why the woman gets to make such huge life changing decisions for men, like me, who are dumb enough to trust them
/r/MensRights22/11/11 03:54 PM
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