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Those women will be gladly accepted by their looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:31 PM
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Why not? Better than nothing I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:37 PM
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Not saying it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:19 AM
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Dating and relationships in this sense mean a quick and easy access to sex with no strings attached, and no demands or expecations imposed on the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:07 AM
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I'm not fully red-pilled, but I've taken some of the advice. But as of now it hasn't really helped me. Still I have a lot of improvement ahead of me, so it's not the end of the road yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:58 PM
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They don't choose between a real woman and a robot. They choose between no woman and a robot. Something is better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:23 PM
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Well the thought is rather short women chasing after tall men, and then afterwards give birth to short sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:06 PM
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Even If that's the case, it's a valid concern. Specially in regards to cheating and loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:27 AM
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I feel like you're describing the general practice of hookup-culture rather than something that exclusively happens to unattractive women. And again I know it's not high quality attention, but at the end of the day it's still human touch from someone who at least desires you physically. And for a lot of men with zero attention that's more preferably than remaining alone for the rest of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:24 PM
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Please I beg you, every women who feels to not fit into the social norm of attractiveness, can hit up a dating app and have at least 10 likes/matches by the end of the day. I know most of the attention is considered ''low quality'', but it's attention nonetheless. Were as the unattractive guy gets zero attention till the end of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 11:58 AM
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It's actually quite simple. Because they can. Supply/Demand-scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:33 PM
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Just look at social media views. Blackpill content is the mainstream now. And there is nothing people can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:56 PM
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Whales are customers who are willing to spend insane amounts of money in a usually free2play game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:31 AM
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In pretty much every species rape is natural part of reproduction. The stronger male just takes what he can get. Shall we let that slide then too?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:50 PM
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Nah wouldn't want that. Also our kids would be fucked up probably. Don't think they turn out to be healthy human beings if their parents don't love each other and are only together because of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:58 AM
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I usually refer to height requirements or income expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 03:58 PM
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99% of dating profiles from women on Hinge have that prompt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:39 PM
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They don't know these women. They just happen to meet them outside. Either at a club, a bar, grocery store etc. That is the main point of cold approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:49 AM
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I think 25 is a hard cut-off for most people. Although more for men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:49 AM
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Rizz is a thing, but it can't overwrite non-existing physical attractiveness. And if you're highly attractive you sometimes don't even need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:27 PM
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I think people, specially women, use it as some sort of clap-back at men. They can't reach the men above them, so they like to punch down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:07 AM
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Where did I say women in that age bracket wouldn't choose someone like you? Their physical appearance is also declining.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:30 AM
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Ideally your status still rises or atleast stays the same. But it gets harder to counter your declining looks with your status. Of course a multi billionaire has nothing to fear in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:37 PM
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Looks-wise around 24-30. Status-wise probably around 35-45 (you need some time to build up a good career and financial opportunities.). But it really comes down to the person as an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:04 PM
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It's simply not possible to raise children in this economic condition. This is the global reason behind birthrate decline not because men are misogynist or not wanting to do a chore. Yeah I'm sure the women in Afghanistan have such a prosperous economic future...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:19 PM
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Explain to me why a women deserves a guy above 6ft?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:35 PM
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Like I don't think you're actually quite aware what happens at those places. Let me fill you in. A good chunk of those options you've mentioned are filled with older people who want to spice up their sex life. Basically as some kind of second spring. Expecting a lot of young good looking adults in their 20's or early 30's to walk around there, is quite naive. Majority of those events cater towards couples, and not single men. Almost none of these places are eager to get more single men intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:13 PM
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You're sitting in the cuck chair for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:56 PM
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They're happier being single because they know once they're not happy about it anymore, they can simply change their situation in a short amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:40 PM
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Women have a near endlessly amount of attention thrown at them. That doesn't really change much even if she gets uglier, older or stacks up a high number of bodies. Some higher value men with principles will opt out eventually, but there are still enough men left to shower those women in attention. A 70 year old women, a women with an insane high body count or an ugly women are basically equal to a 25 year old guy with a stable job and decent looks in terms of ''power'' on the dating market. We'…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 08:06 PM
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A 70 year old women has the same smv as a 20 year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:12 PM
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I don't think this would happen to me realistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:28 AM
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Nothing more romantic than implying immediate distrust in your partner by making her sign a prenup. And again as the post mentiones, marriage isn't important to women, so it's a plus for both of us if we simply do not marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:27 AM
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Marriage is a bad deal for men anyways. You can have kids and build a life with a women without marrying her. Doesn't seem like that much of a problem. And if you ever break up there is no ugly divorce and she won't take half of your stuff. Win-win for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:19 AM
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Ask yourself why porn made for women is usually novels with complex stories and characters. Yeah I wouldn't call a 8ft tall minotaur with huge dick or the 6'5ft tall muscular vampire ''complex characters''.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 06:39 PM
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If cuddling and kisses are not off the table then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:03 PM
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Yeah that's popular too, but again not a build without muscles. Just muscles with body fat on top. So muscles are important either way, no women would find a man with zero muscles attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:55 AM
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A lean build is basically a guy who doesn't do any sort of bulk, works out regulary and watches out for access body fat. A lean build which women consider attractive is still toned with muscles, just not the overly exagerated bulk look from either heavy diet or steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:47 PM
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Where are the downsides? Why shouldn't I date my looksmatch who is the same age as me?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:04 AM
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I remember it being quite popular when I was around 16 years old. A dance school even hold a workshop at our school back then. There was like one part of the workshop where the girls had to form a circle and the guys a bigger circle around of them, and you basically had to dance with a girl for some minutes and then you moved on to the next girl. And I remember the faces the girls did while dancing with me. So no I think I spare myself from this embarrasement. And I remember a lot of classmates …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:07 PM
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I mean you're missing a lot of points on why ''wokeness'' has been criticized so much over the past years. It's not because woke characters suddenly turned up in videogames. - Games have gotten worse over the past years, basically squeezing the last dollar out of the players while significantly worsening performance, gameplay and storyline. - On top of that new diverse characters were added, that turned out to be one dimensional political statements - Every franchise that didn't ponder to these …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:35 PM
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The point I'm trying to make is, personality only comes into play once the looks threshold has been fullfilled. You won't make up an ugly appearance with an awesome personality. And that goes for short-term and long-term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:12 PM
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No one claimed personality is completely irrelevant. But it's far less important for first-hand attraction than your physical attractiveness. People will put up with bad personality, if the other person is attractive enough. The reverse scenario is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:07 PM
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Yeah surreal concept for me as well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:56 PM
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I think the best way to use dating apps is just having them run besides meeting people organically. Don't put your eggs in just one basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:32 AM
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I mean that's a completely unwarranted fear. There is no sign of a huge increase in violence coming from single virgin men. Quite the contrary actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:27 PM
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That hit a nerve. But yeah it's right. Ladies you don't want so many ugly men running around? Make sure your ugly female friends never reproduce. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:17 AM
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These posts literally get repeated every 2nd day. We got it yeah ''men are trash'' and women are awesome. What's there to debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:43 PM
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The ones who dictate what works on the dating market are women and the top percentage of men. If women decided that tomorrow guys should wear red hats, a lot of guys would wear red hats. Same with promiscuity. The whole sexual revolution of women with the access to their own method of contraception shaped the current dating market. Also a part of the power shift is the current government. The government replaced men in their societal role through social security, daycare, schools etc. So when wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:00 PM
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Yes women have an infinite amount of leverage in the dating scene. We all know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:06 AM
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How on earth did you come to the conclusion Charlie Kirk is RP? Like yeah sure he's a conservative, but far from anything redpill related. He was on the Whatever podcast and that's it. Dating wasn't even a popular talking point of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:03 PM
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Rehab Room is a coping Indian who doesn't want to date Indian women himself. So he's mad he can't get a white girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:33 PM
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Please check your spelling before sending out a post. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:24 PM
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It's a problem regarding certain age-brackets. Younger age-bracket --> More men than women Older age-bracket --> More women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:38 PM
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SK and Japan do everything besides reducing the workload of an average citizen. Like yeah people can't form relationships and have kids if they're stuck at work from 6am to 8pm. Bad example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:37 PM
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Walmart is shit compared to european supermarkets. Of course they couldn't pull through with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:17 PM
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I overall agree with your premise, but not on the political aspects. Like you guys have to realize, voting for any party, any politician or any form of politcal movement won't grant you any benefits. Men are expendable, men are simple pawns in the hands of the government. No political leader will ever truly care about you. They care about women, children and most importantly their bank account. How did Trump make mens life easier, and womens life harder? I honestly don't see a single thing. Whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:55 PM
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As I said, yes there are areas where attraction is subjective. But a large portion of attractiveness isn't. You're not turning 30 and suddenly find short height or asymmetrical faces attractive. That's simply not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:20 PM
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There are a lot of metrics in terms of attractiveness which are objective (facial symmetry, height, hair etc.). Only the small details can be subjective in the end (eye color, hair style, clothing style.).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:23 AM
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If you're referring to Europe, the whole continent became one large vassal state for America after WW2.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 03:30 PM
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Younger women have more options besides dating events. Older men usually tend to leave the dating scene at least for a while after a break-up, or they're more focused on different things during that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:42 PM
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Well those type of events usually have this problem. In younger age brackets there is overflow of men, and in older age brackets a overflow of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:05 AM
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Why do you even call me moid? You're an obese weed addict on hrt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:01 AM
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You're reaching a bit don't you think? I never even hinted at him being lesser than myself. I only pointed out that womens definition of nerdy is often in complete contrast to what actual nerds are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:47 PM
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Nerdy as in 6'5ft tall handsome guy with glasses. Alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:30 PM
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Definition of losing the plot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 09:46 PM
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Okay then don't marry? Just have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:50 PM
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Honestly there aren't really prequisites for anything. Like you can go out dating while smelling bad if that's something you want. But let's face reality, stuff like this makes it astronomically harder to be liked by someone. So I agree on good hygiene. Second thing would be to be a stable person. Mental health problems or something similar are common don't worry. But I think you should take care of those beforehand, so it doesn't affect bonding or relationships. As a third point I'd say have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:48 PM
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Feminists are not gonna raid your house man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:36 PM
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Sucks but I could make it work. What would she have to do? --> Love me, be interested in me and spend time with me. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:41 PM
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Natural selection is a dumb stupid argument anyways. They might think it's fine in the context of dating, but natural selection implies a lot of other things too. You could literally justify a lot of crimes with natural selection, you could justify not giving medical treatment to people who are in dire need of it. You could even make excuses for every war in the history of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:39 AM
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You do realize that's not a gendered issue right? Attractive people usually get better treatment from others. It's called the ''halo-effect''.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:45 PM
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Man who seriously calls themselves alpha or others beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:04 AM
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Men are bad, women are awesome. Case closed. What's the debate here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:03 AM
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Yeah cause ugly men have such a blast on the dating market...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:25 PM
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A genuine loving connection to someone is the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:22 AM
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99,9% of men wouldn't even have the chance to land in such a scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:02 AM
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I don't mind paying for a date, but I mind wasting money. If we're further on in the relationship, I'll gladly pay. But not during the initial phases of getting to know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:27 PM
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Yeah that's about it. But it doesn't match with my observation. Women still can shoot above their ''league'', even when their getting older.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:09 PM
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I just wanted to use common rp lingo. I myself don't really use that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:58 PM
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I don't think older women struggle on the dating market. They still have a higher smv than most men. Sure they may become uninteresting for men who want to start a family, but they shouldn't struggle with normal relationships or casual hook-ups. Yes some of them will receive less attention compared to their younger years, but they still receive enough of it. The ''hitting the wall'' stuff is pure cope and mainly a revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:32 PM
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There is a simple solution to your problem, start approaching guys you're interested in. And then you've basically combined the good things from both worlds. He most likely agrees to date you, and you had the power of choosing yourself. What a miracle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:17 PM
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Yes that's true. It might not be easy for the average guy, but he's still able to get into a relationship from time to time. If you can't manage that, you're not average but below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:01 PM
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Always has been
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:00 PM
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Rulers wielded their power above men and women. What makes you think the average guy had any form of political/societal power in previous centuries? Most men were used to work hard labour, fight in wars and make the rich and wealthy even more rich and wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:50 PM
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Your whole point falls together because you assume men have a hot women on the side, ready for them whenever they need. This is simply not the case. The women you claim to be the ''beta-buxx'' in this scenario, is the maximum those men can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:22 PM
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Women are the pickers, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:01 PM
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No they don't. Gave me less options career-wise, couldn't really choose what I want to do, but rather what brings in them most amount of financial stability and societal recognition. I don't interfere in other peoples lives. Most folks I meet are rather ''normal''. They wake up, go to work, get back home, workout and then go to bed. Not overly traditionally masculine but also not in direct contrast to a traditional lifestyle. No one really commented on my masculinity whatsoever. I feel like myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:08 PM
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Majortiy of dating advice online is bad. You either get empty ''the world is wonderful''-platitudes or the typical alpha-/redpill mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:21 PM
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It's pointless to ask if they should lower their standards. You can't really force that to happen. It either happens naturally or it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:23 PM
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Yeah sure some people won't agree with either way of approaching, but what can you possibly do there? Try to be as respectful as possible, pay attention how she acts or responds and either go away when she's clearly uninterested or engage further if she picks up on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:39 PM
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No i wouldn't blame the victim regardless of the gender. And yes people who commit sexual crimes should get harsher sentences. Here in Europe there are cases where multiple people raped a single person, and then get one year on probation. That's completely insane, everyone of those should be in prison for their whole life or even worse. On some level I can understand why people commit certain crimes like theft, drug trafficking (money problems, poverty etc.), but that's not the case for sexual c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:35 PM
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Man you're straight up just a horrible person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:49 PM
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Mostly fine as of now. But we definitely had our difficulties in the past. He worked a lot, so he was missing during a lot of important times while I was growing up. Still he gave his best to be there when needed. Don't think he impacted me all that much. Only thing I took from him for my own life, I never want to work so much that I'm missing out on important time with my family. Great question!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:44 PM
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I mean seriously what is there to win? Succesful people in dating always set the tone to what's working and what isn't. Why should the winners of such a system give away their priviledge to cater towards the unsuccesful ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:46 AM
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What was there to win in the first place? It was a losing game right from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:27 PM
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Stop beating this dead horse. Weight is changeable. If a women doesn't get attention from men because she has too much weight, she can workout, diet, and lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:16 PM
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He didn't say all Chads are evil. He just used a specific type of Chads as an extreme comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:57 AM
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Most popular animes are shonen, where you're perceived description of animes doesn't even work. You're describing a certain genre of anime, but not all of it. And guess what, most of these animes are liked by women as well. They usually like it for different reason as the male audience, but they still like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:56 AM
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Who said Chad is evil? A chad is just someone who has a lot of success with women. Not more and not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:48 AM
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I don't think the people you're describing right now are the ones who complain about being lonely. Also insane how you talk about depression. Depression comes in a lot of different shapes. It's an illness which needs professional treatment and is not an ''excuse'' for people. Most people don't even realize they suffer from depression because they never get it checked out. Loneliness is having no friends or relationships and not having them but not maintaining them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:44 AM
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Majority of guys i know are average looking (maybe a bit above average if it's a good day). And this goes for women too. It's really rare in my opinion to come across a highly attractive person in my age group. Same goes for the opposite (highly unattractive person). One thing i agree with a lot of women on here is, there is certainly a good amount of guys who don't care about their haircut, grooming or their clothing style. They usually only start to take care of that, if someone directly point…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:10 PM
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It's highly impossible not a single women on earth would like you back. But yeah the chances of meeting them is slim, maybe non-existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:37 PM
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Trump does not care about GenZ men. No political party really does. Men are just a tool for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:37 PM
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Of all the major ai-chatbot sites i know of, majority of them have a lot of male bots in the top 10. Doesn't matter if the site is more restricted or not. Seems to be pretty 50/50 from what I observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 11:14 PM
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No i wouldn't want that. I hate the concept of open-relationships, even if I would benefit from it. Best case would be to either not even enter a relationship with someone who doesn't match your own libido, or to try and find solutions to increase someones libido. Of course some people just have a lower sex drive than others, but there is also a good chunk of people who have a lower sex drive because of lifestyle related issues (stress, anxiety, bad habits like drugs etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 11:12 PM
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The internet made dating more accessible, but not easier. Yeah sure a introvert sitting at home now has a comfortable way to enter the dating-world. But that doesn't increase his chances. He's now competing with thousand and thousand of men in his area for a small pool of women. It's easy to make a profile online, but it's even harder to have success.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:22 PM
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Don't get me wrong. European healthcare has it's benefits, but it's far from being this magical thing everyone praises about. It has it's own problems and it's not that cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:20 PM
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Western Europe is not that different to America. And we face a lot of similar problems like you. Also please stop saying healthcare is free in Europe, it really isn't. We're just forced to pay a mandatory insurance on top of high taxes every month. The monthly fees get higher and higher each year, while the benefits shrink down. More higher quality medical treatments also often require you to pay a good amount out of your own pocket. A good example for that is probably dental healthcare. Free do…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 02:38 PM
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Boring ragebait
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:44 PM
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How is playing video games a bad habit? I understand if you refer it to basement dwellers playing 24/7, but playing a bit after work is not that bad. Freetime is freetime anyways. Some go partying, some workout, some play videogames. Whatever helps you to cool down basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:54 PM
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The RedPill never claimed to be able to detect bad men. Where did you get this? RedPill is just --> level up your stats (money, fitness, status), and you'll be able to date women. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:05 PM
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Reddit users overall are not a good representation of normal average people. I always take everything on here with a grain of salt. And of course most communities are in a specific bubble, creating no real discourse but just general agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:03 PM
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Yes of course. There are bad people in every age-, looks or financial brackets. Some people just get away with it more easily, and it usually alligns with someone being upper-class in a certain segment (attractiveness, financial success etc.). Same thing in the reverse scenario. Meaning there are also good people who treat someone below themselves with kindness and respect, and don't turn out to be a total jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 07:57 AM
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Oh wow you're such a brave warrior...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:53 PM
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Yes women should give their looksmatch a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:50 PM
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I always found it funny how the topic of AI-relationships has been focused on men and their AI-girlfriends. When i checked the most famous AI chatbot sites, most of the popular bots were male ones, specifically designed towards women. That combined with all of the fictional stuff women consume and their attention from good looking guys on dating apps, is a recipe made for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:26 PM
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I don't see that much of a difference between the those methods you're describing. Cold approaching is more direct and obvious, while getting to know each other is more time consuming and less direct. Where or when to use each method, depends on the situation. With a cold approach you get the most important questions answered in a short amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:01 AM
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When is it enough self-improvement? Which amount of money, which amount of muscles, which amount of confidence? Self-Improvement is an endless journey and it won't guarantee you success in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:31 PM
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It's only natural to expect your efforts to be reciprocated. Otherwise, you can't be sure whether the other person is truly interested. Spending weeks or months on dates, getting to know each other, etc., is a waste of time if it all ends up going nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:34 PM
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Muscles are a nice bonus, but won't save an overall bad appearance. If muscles are the only thing going for you, you won't have a great time. Workout for other benefits, better mental health, better phyiscal well-being. But don't expect women falling out of the sky, just because you suddenly look more muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:28 PM
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Every post on the 4b sub is about men. Going down the same route like the MGTOW folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:13 AM
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I never heard a single man talk about ''sexual compatibility''. You're literally just making stuff up at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:37 AM
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Hard to pin-point. I'm not as far into life as other guys in my age-bracket, and I'm more shy in regards to approaching. Hardest obstacle for me atleast, is to even get a women interested in me. Like achieving actual interest in me as a person. Is it unfair that men are expected to do the first approach? Not really, but it makes the whole process more complicated. If women did more approaching, it would solve a lot of problems for both genders. And i encourage women to do so, your chances are qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:22 PM
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Love and children
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:18 AM
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Secretly waiting for the right person to come around is a form of looking. Even if you don't go out of your way to meet people. That's why i said subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:49 PM
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Then you were looking for the ''right-one'', even tho it was unconsciously. 4B would've made you to not pursue your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:43 PM
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Then you weren't 4B-ing. You just didn't actively go out dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:37 PM
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Yeah i heard of that too. It may be hard to meet people, but there is also the benefit of lower expectations. Children are off the table, everyone ages so physical appearance wears down naturally, and most people already accomplished a certain level of wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:36 PM
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A advice is a advice, not a set-in-stone solution. It can help you try something different or reveal new possibilities, but it won't directly help you find a surefire path to your goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:26 PM
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You're dumping a lot of different movements into one basket. I don't think that's fair in this case. MGTOW seemed to be mostly consiting of men, who already went through the struggles of relationships, marriage and later on divorce. Those men decided they're better off remaining single, either mentally or financially. 4B , or specifically the american version of it, took off after the last election. So heavily motivated by politics. I don't really have much to say about monk mode. It's a tempora…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:22 PM
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They are definitely popular. Especially with men. Dating apps are unfortunately the easiest way to meet potential partners. Just think about what a normal day looks like for a regular citizen. Getting up early, working until late afternoon. And in the evening either doing important things, going shopping, exercising or recovering from stress. That often leaves little time to get to know other people. Dating apps are relatively easy to use during work, during short breaks or in between other thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:06 PM
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Yes, of course, such men are no better than virgins. But that doesn't matter in the context of dating. Men who are successful with women usually have some advantage that makes them attractive to the opposite sex. This could be money, looks, or charisma (or, of course, a combination of all of the above). That's why virgins are viewed as "inferior"; from the outside, they have nothing to offer women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:19 PM
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Then what the fuck are you doing on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:12 PM
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That's not what the comment was mentioning tho. They meant men have a higher bar for relationships than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:53 PM
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Men don't have a higher bar for relationships. Keep seething.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 11:42 AM
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You're geniunely retarded if you believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:19 PM
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That is the textbook definition of being an beta orbiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:03 PM
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Another beta orbiter to add to the pot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 02:50 PM
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Plain sweet girls get boyfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:18 AM
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Sleeping around with a whole friend group is not compareable to being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:34 PM
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Unfortunately, many essential jobs are seriously underpaid. Imagine a world without mail carriers, janitors, construction workers, cleaners, garbage collectors, etc. These people have just as much right to enter into relationships and start a family. So, yes, it is reprehensible and shallow to reject someone as a partner just for financial reasons. Exception of course for people who make absolutely no effort to earn money at all and just lie around doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:48 PM
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Large age-gaps in relationships are just a reinforcement of hypergamy, leaving less options for younger men. Basically women having such high standards, that can't be achieved by men in their age-bracket, so they're forced to date older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:40 PM
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This has to be the most blatant lie I've seen on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:01 AM
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Maybe but still it happens in low numbers. It's not a new phenomenon or a huge cultural shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:26 AM
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As they should. It just reinforces hypergamy and makes dating harder for young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:23 AM
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Making the world environmentally friendly and still having a thriving economy are not mutually exclusive. Most western nations just never really cared about it in the past, and now they try to force a change in a short period of time, which naturally brings down the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:25 AM
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Then why are you even active on a subreddit that talks mostly about dating, if you're not interested in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:19 AM
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You gotta leave that fairytale behind man. No such thing like a patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:16 PM
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It's mainly a revenge fantasy. People who may not be as succesful in their early years, dream of still becoming attractive in their late 30's. early 40's and so on. Also happens a lot in redpill circles, where guys think they have a huge chance of dating women in their 20's while they are close to becoming 50. Most people stay in their age range, maybe going 2-3years down or up. This goes for women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:03 PM
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Yeah and it was bs from start to end
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:01 PM
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Pumped and dumped victim
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:00 PM
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It's a internet meme, and happens in low numbers. There is no huge shift in men chasing after older women. Specially not men who are serious about commitment and family planning. This is just a revenge fantasy coming from older women, thinking they attract more men than their younger counterparts. Similar to redpillers who think they get 20yo women, when they get wealthy in their 40's.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:52 PM
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America in a nutshell i suppose. Still eating healthy and working out is not a huge struggle. Take one weekend, construct a good diet-plan and look for a activity which is fun to do, and then start.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:16 PM
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Sorry to bring you the harsh truth. Being overweight is a choice (besides due to illness of course), and a really bad one at that. Eating less and working out is not that hard, and easy appliable for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:28 PM
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Like basically every female-dominated space on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:27 AM
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Yes because being fat reveals a lot about your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:24 AM
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So a guy has to be a bit below average to fit that category, and a women has to be severly handicapped? You see the problem here right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:22 AM
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That's not being single. You had casual sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:13 PM
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Based posts for making the women seethe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:39 PM
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This woman is a pretty good example of the fact that OnlyFans is not the emancipating paradise of the independent woman. Contrary what most mainstream media proclaims. She has to go to such extremes to gain popularity and differentiate herself from the millions of other OF creators. And it somewhat worked, given how popular she became.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:22 PM
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Big companies used studies since the beginning of time, to promote their products with ''science-proofed'' evidence. It's similar to societal topics like relationships, parenthood etc. Whoever wants to push a certain narrative, pays someone to conduct a study. Looking at people in your day to day life, and exchanging with others is 10x better than taking studies as your sole proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:14 PM
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My guy just found out how modern studies work. The ones who pay for it, usually want a specific outcome or result.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 08:00 PM
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Oh yeah the self-report surveys, which claimed women were happier single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 03:18 PM
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He was eritrean. And the women was american.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 07:26 PM
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Not only democrats, left-wing governments all over the world. Similar shift currently happens in Europe and Asia. Maybe even further than what is happening in America.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 05:36 PM
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Weird how american news hide his nationality. German news cleary stated him being a foreigner. It's usually the other way around.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 05:34 PM
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The majority yes. And of course they're not at fault, but they could stop promoting this culture and mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:56 PM
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I'm talking about the type of women OP is referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:42 PM
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Using russia as an example is crazy. Russia is not as ''based'' or traditional as you think it is. Hookup-Culture is huge there, high divorce rates, high single motherhood, low church attendance, high rates of domestic violence etc. It's not the safe haven of traditional values you think it is. But to your overall sentiment, yes a lot of women from countries where they're are more restricted, would probably live similar lives like western women if they got the chance to. Big shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:20 PM
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The truth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:32 PM
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''Look I'm one of the good ones! Take me please!!!''
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:33 PM
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Those women could get casual sex or even LTR from their looksmatch. Don't fool yourself. Even for those ''undesireable'' women, there is a possibility. Complete opposite for men in the same situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 12:11 AM
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High IQ based post. Not a lot will understand it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:40 PM
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I mean the whole model of the RedPill is that you can improve. You can obtain money, a better career, status etc. That's also why a lot of RedPill guys sell products and courses which aim to improve their clients desireability. BlackPill is the complete opposite. And the ''It's Over'' mentality is also more prevalent in blackpill rethoric. But i agree there is a good amount of overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:39 PM
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That's more blackpill than redpill tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:44 PM
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Women have a easier time getting men. That's the reason they might not come off as desperate and wanting like men. Simple as that. They know whenever they'd like to, they could get casual sex/hook-ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:33 PM
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Russianbot detected.
/r/MensRights21/11/24 10:33 PM
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Kremlinbot detected.
/r/MensRights21/11/24 10:33 PM
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Women weren't having sex with the majority of men anyways. Nothing changes. And of course they won't pull through with it when Chad is around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:09 AM
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0/10 bait. Better luck next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:28 AM
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I give this rage bait a solid 2/10. Would normally be a 0/10, but you managed to rail up some idiots. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:43 AM
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Politics are cope anyways. Both sides will f you over sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:49 AM
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Of course it's scary. Technically you could replace everyone and everything, has to be profitable tho. A robot pet would not die, would not require food, shelter, toys etc. So even if you buy it for a huge price, it may still be cheaper than a regular pet. So it's not as profitable for companies than real animals, and wouldn't be promoted and pushed by the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:29 AM
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Maybe, maybe not. Really depends how advanced those robots could become.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:25 AM
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What a odd way to talk about a child ending his life because he was that lonely and depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:29 AM
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I didn't refer to ''average'' men in my response. Average men get female attention, just not a lot of it. I said the type of guys who'd consider buying such a robot, definitely do not get any female attention in their life. Not even from '' fat unfortunate looking women''. So i don't see a reason for a women to be upset about such ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:26 AM
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I don't think it will get that crazy. Let's be real, every man who atleast is able to get some kind of human intimacy from time to time, will not be buying such a AI girlfriend. Only guys who have zero hope for romantic success, could think about buying something like that. And also those robots/puppets whatever, will be crazy expensive. Specially if they really try to imitate a human body (skin, body temperature, fluids etc.). Only a small percentage of lonely guys could afford such AI robots. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:44 AM
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No man who is able to get some validation from women, will be buying such a AI girlfriend. Those who'd buy it, would have no chance of validation eitherway. Also the validation part is probably more fitting for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:39 AM
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Why do you get so worked up about that topic? Those men who would seriously consider buying such a AI robot, are invisible to women anyways. They can't decide between human and robot, they have to decide between nothing or a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:31 AM
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They are real, and the RedPill basically promotes their behaviour by preaching a strongly transactional view on relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:35 PM
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I'm the tooth fairy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:46 PM
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Who doesn't know it? The great womanizer has nothing better to do than celebrate his success on some random subreddit. At least try to make it believable, big guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:57 AM
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Thanks for literally commenting that for the 100th time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:06 AM
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