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DiscussionUnteryn/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:07 PM
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I don´t think so, it´s the norm and I get pushback for not being submissive...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:26 AM
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Oh God no. I would be in tears with frustration...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:33 AM
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Yeah it gets on my nerves this idea that if only someone is ´the right guy´, a woman will give up who she is and stop having boundaries for him. We´re people. We´re not just biding time until we meet the right man to give it all up for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:39 PM
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Good for you. You split your core down the middle if you want to. Leave mine ALONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:55 PM
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Because he wants to pressure women into having kids against their will
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:43 AM
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What I actually said was...why would I want to experience that even if it´s temporary?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:58 PM
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Diastasis recti is when it doesn´t go back together. The linea alba always opens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:39 PM
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Pregnancy REQUIRES the linea alba open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:30 PM
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Why the absolute fuck would I want a child? Why the fuck would I think giving up my life to clean chunks of poo off someone else´s bottom is amazing? You do it or you shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:29 PM
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Then shut the fuck up about how beautiful it is when someone else´s abdominal muscles split open. Shut up about how beautiful it is that someone else has to push a melon sized baby out of a small orifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:48 PM
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If you think it´s so wonderful, then you become an MTF transsexual, you get a uterus transplant, and you do it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:27 PM
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Push a canteloupe out of your anus and then get back to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:24 PM
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Yeah, it´s not even a looks issue for me it´s structural things like the fact that your abdominal wall muscles split apart. Why the fuck would I want to experience disembowelment-lite even if it´s temporary?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:23 PM
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Age 14 a 28 year old man hit on me in the street. Eww. No. You are old enough to be my dad, albeit a teenage dad. Age 16-17, a family friend used to wait until my mother left the room and start going on and on and on about how he was stronger than me and could beat me up. (Spoiler: He wasn´t. I grappled him in martial arts class and choked him out. He had a tantrum about it for ever.) He was always making comments about my endocrine system and how I must have too much testosterone because I did …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:37 PM
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She never said anything like that. She merely said she stopped seeing men as gods and started seeing them as plain old people. Did you not notice some of the bad behaviors she listed, including one threatening to rape her?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:09 PM
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Well, I think this person did a good job of making an ass of himself in public. Sunlight is the best disinfectant. I´d just share this far and wide, without blotting out the username.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 04:28 PM
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Yeah. Women are just...people. Flawed human beings who fart, burp, have sex and make bad decisions. I don´t know why society can be so obsessed with pretending women are sanitized angelic beings. People can be so dead set that we don´t really want sex, we want LOVE, that we´re somehow purer than men, that we´re fragile and vulnerable and only ever ´surrender´ sex to ´someone special´, whereas men are nasty pigs who just want sex, unlike us pure, pure angels who would never indulge in something s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:19 PM
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It is indeed silly, I admit haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:17 PM
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The loser has nice angular facial bones and she wants him for sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:57 PM
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In my own case I never liked tall men until I was about 19 and it was a sure thing I´d stopped growing. I wanted to BE tall and strong not depend on someone else being tall and strong. I poured absolute scorn on girls who said they wanted muscular boyfriends. I wanted to just be muscular; who the hell wants to basically drag around a minder everywhere? I topped out at only 5´5 though...and I know this is irrational but I never got rid of this feeling that if I just spend time around tall people …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:54 PM
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I rarely ever feel that way unless I´m really tired and run down and have been working too hard on something. 99% of the time I find chivalry or protectiveness irritating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:52 PM
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Fair enough but I do wonder where you´re getting all these lazy entitled women. Most data I know of shows that women do roughly half the breadwinning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:03 PM
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Wait a minute. So you admit that women doing both is the norm? Why then post about how entitled women are?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:27 PM
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Gender neutral rape laws. Doesn´t matter if it´s envelopment or penetration. Off to jail you go. Job interviews, college applications, everything else are made gender neutral. No names or photos attached, only alphanumeric codes. Interviews happen behind a screen, with a voice changer. Abortions are legal for everyone and freely available. Financial abortions freely available to men. Women who expect men to pay for them shall have buckets of manure dumped over their head. Men who pressure women …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:18 AM
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I´ve always done the DIY myself as well. I´ve heaved around 200-lb railway sleepers myself. Built a flowerbed out of them. But hey, what would I know. Just a woman. Just a dependent leech who can´t even put her own shoes on without men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:16 PM
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To be honest I absolutely do think we could do with a ´responsibility feminism´ movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:50 AM
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Whatever term you wanna call mine, it can be disruptive sometimes...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:54 PM
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Yes it does. We´re adults and really not that frail. And yet sex for us is called ´being used´, ´being played´ and other many sayings that frame us as victims. We´re supposed to want LOVE, not sex. Why? Let him have his fun.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/21 11:20 AM
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I´m a woman...
/r/ExRedPill04/07/21 11:17 AM
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Have your fun. Don´t feel bad. A lot of women don´t help themselves by falling over this idea that sex always has to be about muh love and muh commitment.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 08:23 PM
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LOL ¨without a sex drive¨. I´m a woman and I wish I had the luxury of not having one. I get tempted to see an endocrinologist about mine, but I´m too embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:53 PM
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As a woman, I don´t get why other women whine so much about men only wanting sex. I don´t get the obsession with muh love and muh commitment. Why not just have some damn fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:03 AM
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Thanks for the links. I agree 18 is a bit of a low number and that yes, those factors were nothing to do with chivalry. Do you know of any studies that analyzed more than just 18 shipwrecks?
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 06:23 AM
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Here´s the thing, I DO NOT WANT that treatment. I don´t want to be rewarded for having a uterus. That´s DEHUMANIZING. If you want to do something nice for me do it because I earned it, not because I have a gross organ that bleeds every month.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 03:34 AM
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OMG I love this. Needs to be the name of a death metal band.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:20 PM
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I´ve broken someone´s bed while riding cowgirl. I´d love to know what part of that involved submission, vulnerability or being degraded...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:20 PM
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I think it´s stupid, but what would I know. Sex is a normal part of being human. Might as well demonize eating food, or going to the bathroom. I never thought of sex as submissive as a woman. I always associated it with hunger and eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:17 PM
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Yeah. I find it a bit painful to see people making fun of him and ripping him a new one. Can we not be a bit kind to someone who is probably an abuse victim?
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 02:59 AM
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Held the door for me? That one is a mixed bag. Yes, men have sometimes held doors for me just to be polite because they were ahead of me. Sometimes, I have held doors and men have gotten ridiculously offended about it. I held a door for a disabled man on crutches once and he threw a fit. As for bus seats: No. No one has given me a seat on a bus nor would I feel entitled to one. As for dates: I´ve always been the asker out. I didn´t know that culturally, I was supposed to be passive and leave it …
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 02:57 AM
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Yes but...it´s not rational but when around the taller guy I almost feel like I can absorb some of his strength by osmosis and carry it around with me for a while. I can´t fly, but I can enjoy seeing an eagle up close.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:10 AM
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If it helps you feel better, I´m a woman and I feel the same way. I get tempted to take some vitex agnus-castus. I don´t like turning on a dime when I see a highly attractive guy.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 11:39 PM
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I do have a degree of sympathy with this guy. It sounds like he´s been shit on in the past. I know he´s being an idiot but he´s a human being who sounds like he´s been abused. Can´t we separate the person from the stupid behaviour and have some sympathy?
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 11:37 PM
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I can count on ONE hand the number of times I was treated preferentially for being a young, fit woman. And I don´t even end up using my ring finger or baby finger to count. Once was when a male musician gifted me a cymbal as a romantic gesture. His bandmates hunted me down and accused me of stealing it, which ruined that. Once was from an older woman who gave me a discount on shoes. The third was when a random young man gave me a free necklace shaped like an eagle talon. I still have that. And t…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 11:34 PM
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Can I PLEASE collect that Vagina Pass society keeps saying I have? Seriously I could use one. I never got to be emotional, vulnerable or need help. Sure, no one tells me to man up, but they DO tell me I´m a spoiled millennial brat who couldn´t possibly have real problems ¨yet¨, because younger people don´t have problems, only older people do. I´m 31 now and people only just started treating me like a human rather than hammering on about perspective and starving Africans every time I dare look a …
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 11:27 PM
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Height is just more visually striking, so I´d still prefer the tall one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:33 PM
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6´2. Definitely 6´2. More of him to radiate that energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:28 PM
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I would be absolutely fine with prostitution if it could be somehow verified that all those sex workers were doing it of their own free will, that they had options and were happily choosing it. I toy with the idea of finding male prostitutes myself. They´ll never start saying I love you or want me to move in with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:04 PM
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I never liked taller boys/men until I was about 19 and it was clear I wasn´t going to grow any more. I dreamed of being taller myself. I didn´t want to need a protector, I wanted to be my own. Who wants to be a fragile being constantly dependent on a protector? I topped out at 5´5 though, and then being around tall men was the next best thing to being tall myself...it´s irrational but I felt like I was absorbing some of their strength by osmosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:01 PM
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I honestly just thought of it in these terms: children are annoying, therefore whoever gets to avoid the children is the privileged one. I feel cruel for that now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/21 08:35 AM
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Thank you for the perspective. All my life I never really considered that perhaps men having to work longass hours is a form of oppression rather than an escape from shitwork. I always saw it like this: the man gets to avoid the annoying screaming children and the dirty nappies! It wasn´t until a few days ago at age 31 that I saw a post in r/mensrights about how much a father loved when his son snuggled against his chest for a nap, that I realized that fathers were getting shortchanged too...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/21 08:35 PM
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Please do link me more. Useful for some activism I am doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:39 AM
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Stop making excuses for sex offenders. Men may be bigger but not everyone is a rough and ready personality type and men can freeze or just be caught unawares just like women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:38 AM
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Oh for God´s sake. Of course it´s violating to have a stranger grab your genitals. Stop making everything all about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:37 AM
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Google made to penetrate. The CDC´s stats will shock you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:35 AM
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I just don´t think saying no to sex should ever be listed under abuse. Men do not owe sex, women do not owe sex, no one owes anyone sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:28 AM
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And therefore it should never be lumped in with actual abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:08 AM
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I don´t think that should be counted under abuse. Sorry, I feel VERY strongly about consent for both men and women. It´s one of my few hills I care enough to die on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:59 AM
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I hate that anyone of either sex calls not having sex ´abuse´. Everyone has the right to say no. Not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:27 AM
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Finally a sane person contributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:19 AM
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I will :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/21 10:25 PM
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Who mentioned hedonism?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:56 PM
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I think it´s really sad that you´d wish kids on people and bullshit them that poo is meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:55 PM
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I LOVE your quote ¨down the toilet baby¨.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:55 PM
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I forget who exactly changed my mind. But I used to hugely look down on female subs and to a lesser extent male doms. I changed my mind, though, and realized that people can´t help liking what they like, and that it is my problem that I´m the odd one out. Better for them to be honest than bottle it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:26 PM
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OP, stop being so hard on yourself. Women absolutely do go mad over men visually. I went slightly crazy over a bass player´s hands once and walked up to him after the gig and asked him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:40 AM
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But...it´s normal. I´ve gotten wet in public seeing attractive men, but unless women wear too-thin leggings, that´s not a problem because it´s not visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:32 AM
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Please can we swap?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:30 AM
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No, I truly thought I wasn´t supposed to have a sexuality, only a love-uality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:27 AM
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No I didn´t. I think I´d know if I peed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:32 AM
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He was hot, I was wearing thin leggings, and the wet patch looked like I peed my pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:16 AM
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We don´t like admitting to having a sexuality. We´re supposed to be saintly beings who just want love, not sex. I got made to feel like an alien for not being pretty much dead cold asexual. My female friends all insisted they never masturbated as a teen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:06 AM
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Rapid quickfire hunger like when a cat sees a mouse. I don´t turn on a dime over just anyone, but seeing a hot guy is definitely distracting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:03 AM
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I absolutely have. You may have hormone problems. I made the mistake of wearing light green leggings in public once. An attractive man walked past. The result was mortifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:52 AM
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Personally I find it just as gross if an older women goes for a much younger guy. I had a teenage boy fall in love with me once. I told him no a few times and when he didn´t listen, I chewed him out rather harshly. I was 27, he was 17, the only reason we even knew each other was that we both posted in a music forum. Having anything sexual to do with him would be basically rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 07:53 PM
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I think women say this stuff because we´re supposed to. We´re not supposed to poop, fart or have sex. We´re supposed to be above all that. Saying we want love is acceptable, saying we want sex is like farting loudly for women...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:34 AM
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that too, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:20 AM
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Everyone told me that growing up...and then real life was a letdown. ¨Where´s my mindless penetration machine????¨
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:02 PM
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No thanks. I don´t plan on either children or bums.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:01 PM
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Not sure that analogy works; how hungry are you really if there´s a boring sandwich available but you still really want a steak? (analogous to masturbation)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:34 PM
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I don´t do meal tickets or orbiters. I find it insulting if a man tries to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:00 PM
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but it also guaranteed women an inherent value in that they have biological worth. This imo is like saying a cow has worth because people eat it. That ´worth´ involves going through the HR Giger-esque brutality that is pregnancy and birth. If you had said biology was unfair to men because they have testicles that can get injured, I´d totally agree with you, but this one, I must beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:53 PM
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Agreed. No one should ever be forced into parenthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:38 PM
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I don´t understand waiting. Sex is the whole point of things...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:32 PM
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Agreed, compliments or staring are harmless, it´s when it turns into anger or aggression that it´s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:25 PM
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No, if it can be done noninvasively without killing the embryo, then killing it is no longer moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:22 PM
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Casual. I like my freedom and alone time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:18 PM
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Vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:53 PM
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Yeah. I have never in my life let a man pay for dates. The idea that I can´t do it myself is upsetting and insulting. It was a point of pride for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:44 PM
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Did you miss the part where I said I personally don´t do those things? Women aren´t exactly free to mindlessly have casual sex either. We CAN...if we don´t mind taking the risk that someone might beat, choke, spit on us or otherwise abuse us during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:40 AM
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I agree that men have it harder getting sex. But I also think the two sexes basically complain at cross purposes here. Women are indeed pickier. I own that. I don´t get a hormone rush looking at just anyone. At the same time, women take far more risks having casual sex. I have heard so many horror stories of women hooking up only to find halfway through sex they were being smacked, choked, spit on or having some other unpleasant fetish sprung on them. It´s why I never dared go that route myself.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:18 PM
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kissmetilyouredrunk haha ¨love¨
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:55 PM
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Why compare sex to breaking something? I mean if you think your dick ´breaks´ a vagina that does not cast you in a good light
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:09 PM
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LMAO not true. I break for men with nice lat muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:39 PM
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Because sex is a normal part of being human and it makes no sense to demonize it. It also makes no sense numerically and logically...if women are not supposed to have sex, who are men even going to fuck? Each other? We could also make the equivalent analogy with a pencil sharpener, too, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:09 PM
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I REALLY dislike this user. She´s a whining, sniveling victim. Gets on my god damn nerves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:41 PM
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Can confirm...I caught myself laughing and being smug when a former female friend I fell out with developed Addison´s. I thought it was the absolute funniest thing in the world that she was so annoying, even her own adrenal glands did not like her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:57 AM
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WTF is it with men and women farting lololol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:56 AM
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Oh Christ. I can´t stop laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:54 AM
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I like that men have deep, more chilled sounding voices. I actually prefer a male doctor when sick or injured unless the issue is something intimate and embarrassing. The pitch of their voices is more reassuring and calming...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:53 AM
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Okay, that´s clever. I respect him for thinking that one up.
/r/MensRights29/05/21 11:33 PM
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Short answer: women don´t rape less.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/21 06:52 AM
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As if women can´t earn money, and all they have is vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:12 PM
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There´s such a thing as dignity and self sufficiency but that´s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 05:03 PM
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That´s seriously so utterly fucked.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/21 10:58 PM
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JESUS VELASQUEZ CHRIST. Was that judge drunk?!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/21 10:39 PM
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Yeah, agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 09:01 PM
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Yeah. That´s why I could personally never be a sex worker. Some women otoh have incredibly high disgust thresholds and nothing grosses them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:22 PM
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What if the woman just...wants sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:03 PM
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Not me, but then I am easily grossed out. Hated helping a disabled family member with bathroom stuff and would use nearly an entire roll of toilet paper rather than risk touching someone else´s butthole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:02 PM
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I do think a lot of issues on both sides, not just men, basically boil down to ´shit or get off the pot´. I see an awful lot of men who want casual sex but also then complain that women are used up if they have high body counts and bemoan that they can´t get a low-N-count, relationship-oriented younger woman for marriage. I see a lot of women who want equality but also want men to pay for everything and initiate everything. Seems like two sides of the same coin to me. I realize being human invol…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:02 PM
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Man, that sounds miserable. No pleasure, only someone else´s pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:23 PM
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Unsure if I count. A male musician once gave me something of his because he thought I was hot. His bandmates then came after me because they thought I stole it. That´s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:15 AM
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Uh...man penetrates woman. Man speaks in lower pitched sounds. That´s it as far as I´m going with tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:13 AM
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Exactly the same here. I would want to fight the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:11 AM
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But then why do some women treat it as a service they deserve to be compensated for? If you want sex, then you got what you wanted, and no need for compensation. If you don´t want to fuck, why are you doing it?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:20 PM
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I´d order you a beer, but we don´t know each other and you probably don´t trust me enough to PM me personal details lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:15 PM
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Me, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 10:21 PM
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I absolutely have seen this from a few idiots on here. Most men don´t, but I´ve come across a certain personality type that acts like I took a dump in their soup by not being submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 03:29 AM
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It´s more that some men get so butthurt at the idea that not all women are submissive. ¨What´s WRONG with submission??!!! You must think submission is sooooo bad! You must wish you were a man!!11!!eleventy-one´
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:31 AM
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Honestly if submission is so great, let men do it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:23 AM
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He shouldn´t be nosing into her adulthood relationships. Or pushing his personal views on her at an age when she´s too young to handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 01:24 AM
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I understand but we´re adult humans not cats in an alleyway. Women can decide to have sex if they want it or not have it if they don´t want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:52 PM
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What the hell. What if she doesn´t want to be submissive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 05:44 AM
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Please just shut that anus you call a mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 04:04 AM
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I´d love to have that problem. Mine is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 11:56 PM
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I can´t understand why someone would even have sex if they find it so lacking and boring they experience it as work they deserve compensation for. I´ve heard former sex workers say the most fucked things about sexuality. For example, some of them actually said that if they´re going to have to have sex, they might as well get paid rather than ´give it up for free.´ Jesus Christ. Firstly, you don´t have to...secondly, don´t you have a libido yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:54 PM
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Yeah, I hear other women say such morbid things about sex sometimes. Giving it away. Giving it up for free. WTF. Something very wrong if they see sex as an unwanted sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:22 PM
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Expecting cooking and cleaning is one sided, expecting flowers and other gifts is one sided. Unless you take turns cooking and cleaning, and buy each other gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:46 PM
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I think they´re both self centered but that´s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:23 PM
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Agreed. And to be fair women are doing this at higher rates than in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:47 PM
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Basically. The exact ammount of times she did it for previous partners though. So probably only once. Which is pretty abusive. You expect her to go through something even if it was excruciating, for the sake of your ego. You do realize anal sex can be so painful that people vomit or faint? ​ I do give a fuck. I rather not ask for something that was painful to her. But if I did ask and she is not willing, I am out. So, you would want her to be in pain for the sake of your ego. You don´t even want…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:17 PM
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So in a nutshell you put your ego above someone´s physical pain and even their safety. ​ Because she was willing to go through it for someone else. ​ There´s a difference between trying something having never done it before, and forcing yourself to do it again while knowing it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:01 PM
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So for example, if she tried anal and it was painful before, she must do it with you anyway otherwise she gave that partner something she didn´t give you? You don´t give a fuck about the fact that it was painful? Imagine for a second if women did this with men. Imagine if it was women who expected men to do painful or gross things. Imagine women wanted to, say, shit on your face, or slap or choke you during sex, and women treated this as some requirement for their ego. ´You let ANOTHER woman poo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:00 PM
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Yeah, if a man expected me to serve him I´d have nothing to do with him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 08:35 PM
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You´re doing a bit more than allowing if you actively get on top of it. Let´s ask Prince Yahshua how dominant he felt when Bethany Benz lost her balance while on top of him...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:32 PM
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No I don´t. Being dominated is a huge turn off for me. I have dumped dates for wanting to ´take control´. If I use my hand to put him there, that is not merely ´allowing´. He sees it the same way, and uses language like ´swallow it up.´
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:22 PM
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No. It just doesn´t interest me at all. I don´t see my submissive boyfriend as inferior. I just prefer the Domme role.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 05:09 PM
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I guess I was just born with a weird personality type because I never saw it that way. I actually find it hard to get my head around sex as submission. To me, it´s like saying that eating a sandwich is submission because I´m receiving the sandwich.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:11 AM
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Some people of both sexes whine about lifting that much yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:09 AM
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Doesn´t work for me. Being dominated or feeling inferior is actively a turn off for me, not a turn on. I would actually be turned off if the guy was super successful and way above me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:10 AM
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True, I probably am a bit atypical. I grew up in an isolated area as I´ve mentioned and therefore never really absorbed mainstream views on sex. I had the internet, yes, but mostly used it just for listening to music growing up. I didn´t come across the idea of sex as submission outside of a few radical feminist nutcases until later on, although it does explain the whole idea of ´not giving it up´, ´respecting myself´ by not having sex etc...the whole idea that I give something up by having sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:06 AM
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There´s such a thing as ADULTHOOD. I solve my own emotional needs. I don´t dump them on other people because that would be burdening them. But I´m not into the idea of getting married anyway. I´m an introvert who likes freedom too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:59 AM
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I wasn´t ¨twisting¨ anything. That was how I naturally thought of it all my life; I come from a fairly isolated area and was cut off from most mainstream views about sex. I didn´t know I was supposed to think of it as passively being penetrated. I saw it as essentially being hungry and eating. I only even came across the idea of sex-as-submission when I started reading through various subreddits about sexuality. Before then I just thought of it as eating. Your point goes both ways. If the man is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:47 AM
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You´re avoiding my point, or not getting the point, I cannot tell which. You can conceptualize the penis as some sort of weapon, yes. You could also conceptualize the vagina as a mouth that consumes the penis. That was how I thought of it as a teenage girl who had only just started experiencing sexual arousal. I wondered why on earth I had the feeling that my vagina was ¨hungry¨. It took me a moment to realize that was just called being horny. I never thought of it as yielding. I thought of it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:44 AM
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Fair enough. I´ll go through the sub in a while and list some examples. I still can´t get my head around how sex is supposed to be submission. How is it I am submitting to him when I am in a sense ¨eating¨ him? You not liking it doesn´t mean I´m just some edge-monger trying to be contrary. Your point goes both ways. He is allowing someone to jump up and down on his most sensitive body part. That´s pretty dominant, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:35 AM
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No, I have not changed my premise. Many of those posts mentioned cooking. As for nurturing: that´s not my point. Real life involves both nurturing and strength based skills. Should a man never even give his own small child a hug because that would be nurturing and therefore feminine? Sex: Not really. It goes both ways. Sex for women involves being penetrated, yes, but sex for men can involve someone jumping up and down on his most sensitive body part and possibly breaking it. I never saw it as s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:06 AM
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I remember being 14 and being grossed out that a 28 year old man thought it was appropriate to ask me out. But women must just be old hags if they disapprove of age gaps where the younger one is still a late teen or in their 20s. I guess the opinion of 14 year old me didn´t matter because hey, I was 14 and I´d hit the wall. No longer 11 or 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 11:29 PM
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oh ok lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 11:16 PM
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No one explicitly made a thread saying ´women should smile and cook´ but I´ve seen threads about female value with tons of men saying they want submissive nurturing women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:58 PM
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IN HERE LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:54 PM
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Haha, clever!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:37 PM
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Completely agree. Also can I ask what the orange pill is?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:29 PM
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Jesus. People are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:48 PM
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The equivalent would be more like taking a kegel weight and seeing how much weight you can lift with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:52 PM
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Eh. Dividing useful, practical skills into masculine and feminine just seems silly to me. Is a man being feminine every time he hugs his own son? Comforts him? Gives him advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:20 PM
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I think these archetypes are a luxury for people with too much time on their hands. In the real world, adults have responsibilities of both types. Men sometimes need to handle fine motor tasks. Women sometimes need to heft something heavy around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:38 AM
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I relate to this so hard...if I was naturally sexless why the need for ¨don´t give it up! make sure he LOVES YOU! don´t get taken advantage of!¨ Why the assumption that I´m this asexual being who gets ¨used¨ for sex, rather than wanting it, in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 03:10 AM
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Agreed. I don´t feel well served by a movement that incessantly insists I´m a frail victim figure. I don´t feel well served by a movement that tells me I can´t wipe my ass by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:32 PM
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I have a female friend who sees sex as something a man has to earn. I don´t understand it. Why deny yourself sex because he hasn´t jumped through hoops yet? I´m a woman. I cannot imagine seeing sex as something a man has to earn. I don´t make someone else earn things before I eat food, or drink water.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:06 AM
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If someone perceives a neutral expression to be a ´horrible bitch face´, they need to grow the fuck up and stop whining about minor things. What sane adult gives a shit about that? Even if someone legitimately looked angry, who cares? Go about your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 10:53 PM
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Sorry I thought you were blaming the women for not smiling. Apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:15 PM
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If you are that offended by someone having a neutral expression, you are a weak, pathetic snowflake. I have had creepy old men raise hell before because I wasn´t smiling. Once I was out for a walk, and an old man accosted me and made a huge scene, ranting about what a negative person I was because I wasn´t smiling. I was FOCUSING on my WALK. Another time I was taking an art class, it was early in the day and I was groggy as my morning coffee hadn´t hit my bloodstream yet, and an old man made a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:12 PM
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A neutral expression is not ´spreading unhappiness around´.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:10 PM
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I don´t know. I find it rude though. No, it´s not rape or oppression but it is rude to go up to a stranger and demand they do anything, whether that´s smiling, giving you the time of day, farting on command lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:03 PM
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People, in general, think of women as nurturers, and when we don´t always want to be nurturer figures, it upsets people and they think of us as selfish. It´s faulty thinking. We´re not animals and have individual personalities a lot more than animals do. I´m not a kids person. I´m just not. Plus what sane person wants to experience being pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:52 PM
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Some women make me wanna shrivel up and die of second hand embarrassment. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 03:17 AM
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I agree. OP gets on my nerves SO much. Wouldn´t know what personal responsibility was if she fell in a 8 foot tank of it and drowned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 03:03 AM
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When I was younger, I was on some internet forum having an argument about something, and a woman said ´Men don´t understand how it feels to be penetrated.´ A man shot back ´Yeah and women don´t understand how it feels to have your most sensitive body part jumped up and down on by a woman´s entire body weight.´ He was absolutely right. It´s ridiculous how some women hog the concept of vulnerability and victimhood. Makes me cringe and feel embarrassed to have a vagina. We´re ADULTS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:51 AM
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It does take a submissive personality to be penetrated. No it really doesn´t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:49 AM
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You again. You need a hobby other than whining. 1) Google the term penile fracture. I´ve never heard of sex going so badly wrong for a woman it requires surgery to fix. 2) ¨Vulnerability¨ depends on how you conceptualize things. I never thought of sex as passively being entered. I always thought of it more like being hungry and needing to eat. I didn´t know I was supposed to see it as a scary act of surrendering my insides. Sorry, I absolutely do disagree about ¨primal vulnerabilities¨. I never …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:33 AM
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I think that´s a myth. Who wants an old fart, or an overweight guy? Not sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:09 AM
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I don´t blame either sex for being wary. People are animals, and don´t always behave nobly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:52 PM
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Yeah. It sucks. I´m sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 06:41 PM
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As ¨the penetrated¨ no, just no. Let´s have some adult responsibility here. I think women don´t help themselves, and society in general doesn´t help with all the one sided power symbolism. Small children stick all manner of inappropriate things in their noses or ear canals out of boredom or curiosity. Doll shoes, pen caps, etc. They don´t see this as emotionally vulnerable. They don´t carry around trauma around it. And yet adult women with functioning brains carry so much baggage around penetrat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 05:07 PM
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I´ve never thought of it as vulnerability but that´s just me. I feel a bit sad for women who do. Must be incredibly restricting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 05:03 PM
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Hard disagree, and I´m a woman. I think it´s unfair to parse things that way. Female on male rape exists, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 05:03 PM
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I think we should all stop framing this as a gender issue, and teach consent and understanding in a gender neutral way. Women are not the only ones who can have sexual trauma or insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 04:53 PM
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She. I´m a woman. And yes. I dislike the assumption that I should risk my life for a kid because it´s a kid. I kind of matter too you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 04:13 PM
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Shame on me for deciding who I risk my life for? Yeah no. I´m not disposable ballast. And I completely sympathize with men getting fed up of being asked to protect just anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 04:12 PM
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I do decide who I get injured and die for. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 04:08 PM
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LMAO gun and CCW. I wish. Illegal in my country. Also that has never happened so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 04:06 PM
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Fuck kids and elders. Tired of hearing about how they´re worth more than me. Kids get to throw rocks at my pets because they´re kiiiiiiiids and can do no wrong. I must never complain about my problems because older people have it soooooo much worse and went through worse when they were young. I don´t have any problems because I must just be a spoiled millennial. I would save anyone I thought was worth more than me. So a few close friends, my lover, and a few opera singers I am unreasonably mad a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 06:37 AM
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As a woman that shit always made me feel insulted and less-than. I´m not a victim. I may be small, but pulling a knife, screaming some obscenities and threatening to disembowel a pervert usually works. As for sacrificing myself for men? Certain men, absolutely. Just anyone? No. My lover is absolutely worth my life, the local bum who yells at people to give him free booze money is oh, so very not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 06:26 AM
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I´d rather not have a libido. WTF do I need this distraction for? I don´t want kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 08:21 PM
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I wish life was actually that easy...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:25 PM
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As a woman...Girl children absolutely do get into fights. They just usually use different tactics. Hair pulling and nails rather than boxing. That said you got a point. I have a half joking saying ¨all women are part scorpion¨. Only half joking. I caught myself laughing that a female friend I had fallen out with had developed Addison´s disease. I was happy to hear it. Not my proudest moment, I admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:04 AM
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Privilege is a stupid term that just oversimplifies everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 07:02 PM
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I completely agree it should be changed to include female-on-male rape. It´s a travesty right now in most countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 02:25 AM
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Ugh. VOMIT. YUCK. Sorry OP, your attitude makes me want to projectile vomit for ever until the whole universe is drenched with vomit. I have always at least gone 50/50 and often insisted on getting men expensive gifts. I´m a fucking WOMAN. I have a vagina. Paying for things doesn´t fucking cancel that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:09 AM
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Oh yes we are. I think it´s a myth that women are not visual. I can´t fuck someone´s nice personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 02:05 AM
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I think there´s a linguistic reason behind this one. We don´t have a widely used equivalent term for ¨to penetrate¨ so, we tend to think of sex as something men do to women, rather than something two adults do together. I agree, you are absolutely right. Women are adults. I always found it insulting the idea that the man is the doer and I´m just a passive recipient.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:56 AM
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I personally don´t. I really enjoyed a relationship I had once where I was the stronger one. It was fun being dominant. That said, I admire strength and power in any context, so yes, jacked men are attractive. I´ve had some men insist that must mean I secretly want to be dominated, but I don´t buy that one. I´m mildly obsessed with large powerful birds. I have a big fascination with eagles, albatrosses, and generally anything with large wingspans. I just admire torque hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 02:02 AM
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So you see men as no more than utilities? Eeek...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:44 PM
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Yeah, I´m totally going to spend money travelling to fight over an internet comment. Grow up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:04 AM
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What an intelligent reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 05:58 AM
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Of course, but that was not my point. My point was that the extreme exaggerations don´t help. Yes, he is most likely stronger, but he is not a gorilla. I see people make way over the top comments sometimes about no matter what, even if a woman has a ranged weapon, he can just grab it out her hand. These do not help. There have been cases where CHILDREN have escaped kidnappers by picking the right moment to kick, bite or scratch. If CHILDREN can manage that, women have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:12 PM
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People don´t help themselves by exaggerating about how all men are orcs and all women, even 6´2 tanks, are utterly defenseless. I HAVE overpowered a man on a date who tried to pin me with my hands behind my back. If I had listened to overblown advice about how I could never ever ever beat a grown man, fuck knows what might have happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:18 PM
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Eh, as a woman, I can´t imagine using that as an excuse. It´s still violating a private part of someone else´s body.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:17 AM
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I have never treated dating that way in my life. I always thought it was grossly insulting the idea I can´t pay for my own things. My first date, I asked him out, and I have done most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:09 AM
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Man, where is this world you grew up in where women get kid glove treatment? Might go on a little vacation there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:04 AM
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Pregnancy. Why would I want to go through something so brutal? Being supposedly treated specially. That never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 11:45 PM
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Wait a minute, that is not normal. Pain is absolutely not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 09:19 PM
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I´m a woman and I´m pretty much the opposite. Dangerous situations are almost relaxing for me while everyday annoyances drive me nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 02:25 AM
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I don´t diet, I have to eat a ton of protein to keep muscle on, not off. I just don´t like the narrative that I get handed things for nothing. I didn´t get my six pack by sitting on the sofa eating bon bons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 10:49 PM
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Yeah seriously, where is all this free help and attention I supposedly get for being a woman? I have ONCE, once, been given free attention for being a woman. A male musician gave me one of his cymbals as a gift...then his bandmates tracked me down and accused me of stealing it. Once. When I was about 18. And I wasn´t just given my looks. I have always worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 09:28 PM
1

Learn to use your false cords, which are thick pieces of cartilage. You can sing death metal all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 04:09 AM
1

What happens when women actually don´t want the relationship and just want the sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 04:04 AM
1

Oh God. I am crying with laughter at the wording ´giving up penis in exchange for vagina´.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 04:03 AM
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Two words...false cords. You can do those things while keeping your normal female voice for everyday use.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:48 AM
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I have had a drink bought for me just once too. It was from a much older, overweight man I didn´t want to fuck, and he got it for me because I had volunteered at an event one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 03:36 AM
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If I had the power to rule the world? 1) Blind meritocracy for everyone. Job interviews would be done from behind a screen with voice changers. 2) Even handed rape laws. Equal sentences for men and women. Gender neutral consent education. Get rid of that stupid term made to penetrate. 3) Heavily fund artificial womb research. 4) Abortion on demand for women, financial abortions for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 10:32 PM
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There is everything natural about not wanting children. Look at it without the sugar coating and rose tinted lenses. Having children involves a lot of negatives and the only things you get back are a few intangibles. Yes, I´m sure it´s cute when a child says ´I love you Mommy´, but is that really worth putting your body and health on the line, sacrificing decades of your life, spending such huge chunks of your life on rote, repetitive care tasks? I´d rather do something actually meaningful. As f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 10:42 PM
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I´ve given symbolic gifts such as an ornamental sword sheerly to be nice. Why not? IDK. I´m not into traditional roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:02 PM
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Why on earth would you want someone to lack confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:37 PM
1

I'd absolutely love to be 6 feet and strong. It's practical and useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:14 PM
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I think it's perfectly fine to want casual sex. It's not necessarily about using people. Not everyone is a feelings-and-commitment person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:06 PM
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Sounds like my thing. I've always wished male prostitutes were more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:33 PM
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She's an adult making a choice. I don't buy that women go on Tinder to find husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:15 PM
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I think it's weak and submissive for a woman, too, and I don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:33 PM
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Why the assumption that she is 'being used'? You make it sound like she doesn't have agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:30 PM
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Yup. Not sure what it's called for women, but I've experienced it. Used a large aerosol can as a toy and then wondered 'why am I putting up with this drama when I can get the same thing from an inanimate object'.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 03:00 PM
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I feel really bad for Sarah, but at the same time, she's an adult who's capable of buying a gun. IDK. I like masculine men too but I don't expect them to be my unpaid bodyguard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:14 PM
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I don't want to commit to anyone. I can't see myself marrying even if he were the most wonderful person alive. It's just not what I am wired for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 01:58 PM
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I don't do commitment. Life's too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:13 AM
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I don't care if there's a jacked male athlete next to me who could do it. I like the dignity of doing things MYSELF. I'm not some pathetic little victim who can't do things without help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:38 AM
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I'd say good riddance to bad rubbish but that's just me.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/21 02:49 AM
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Indeed it's not, but my sisters are cunts. I swear it would be easier to have a healthy relationship with a dog turd than those two.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 08:43 PM
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That's what contraception is for but sometimes condoms rupture, plus I never made that argument you just mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 09:03 AM
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I'm female so I'd be a Stacey, not a Chad haha. That's nice but sometimes we literally just wanna be penetrated, not 'committed to'.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:20 AM
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I didn't mention a chad. I said screw commitment. Relationships are a price you pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:01 AM
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I have one body. One. Why should I put that body through the brutal torture process that is a human pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:03 AM
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That's a shit argument because born children are not damaging your body in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:01 AM
1

Fuck commitment. Commitment is a price you pay for some penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:59 AM
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Blaming social influence doesn't make sense. I don't think anyone has ever tried to pressure me to have casual sex. People always wanted to 'protect' me from sex as if it were something men wanted and I was afraid of for some god knows what reason. 'Don't get taken advantage of! Make sure he loves you!' When I did mention love?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:40 AM
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No usually cargo pants and sneakers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:02 AM
1

Also, sometimes women just WANT SEX. FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:34 AM
1

Because anuses are a private, embarrassing body part...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:32 AM
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I disagree because rape involves intimate body parts that we quite reasonably think of as private, so of course it's going to be more traumatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:31 AM
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1: Heavy lifting is not that hard. I'm a 120 lb woman. I've built flowerbeds out of 200lb railway sleepers. 2: It is indeed men who keep many vital industries going. Let's not shit on them, yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:30 AM
2

I like these. Good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:22 AM
1

Why the assumption that women who have casual sex are being 'taken advantage of'?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:17 AM
1

Yeah if men are so desperate for sex why have I so often had them bottle out?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:51 AM
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I think it's a complete myth that women want love rather than sex, that we need MUH LOVE and MUH COMMITMENTZ and that if we have sex without love being involved, we're 'being used'. We're adults with agency. Not victims. I never wanted marriage or commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:51 AM
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I'm not a fan of either excessive modesty or showing the world my butt. I'd rather just wear practical clothing I can move around in, and leave sex appeal out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:44 AM
1

Oh God, just the word 'family' makes me want to kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:41 AM
2

IDK the idea of my sex organs being on the outside just makes me uneasy...like a sense of 'Help! Something fell out and now it's hanging outside!' Like a herniation or disembowelment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:35 AM
2

Yeah the female body is pathetic. Still the idea of having a penis and testicles makes me really uneasy, I'd rather just be a jacked woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:23 AM
2

Yeah. Female singers' voices do go up sometimes when they take estrogen or progesterone. I like being able to sing Russian folk songs and sound the part. I also like having muscle and not much body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 11:53 PM
2

Yup. I've seen porn where there was definitely optical illusions at play. One guy looked like he was 15" long, that's just not physically possible. He'd faint from how much blood would have to reroute to his dick every time he got an erection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:51 PM
3

Better not ever reject a woman even if she's 400 lbs and smells like she hasn't showered in decades. You're denying the meaning of her existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:48 PM
2

It matters full stop. Shallow penetration really, really sucks. That said, everyone has different anatomy. Some women are raging size queens and others find even average dicks painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:45 PM
2

But, but. This doesn't ever happen! Men take on the world and women just leech, remember? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:43 PM
2

I'd love to get rid of mine, but I also like having a low, raspy voice, and having low body fat and visible muscle, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:41 PM
2

I hate that. I've always preferred to go on top. I HATE how female sexuality itself is seen as some kind of byword for passivity and submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:35 PM
1

Which?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:30 PM
4

Not you again. Why are you always hammering on about how women are victims and men are Scary Deadly Penetrative Monsters of Doom? Go read a fucking book.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:17 PM
1

I don't think I've ever even experienced unwanted sex. I've quite the high drive. Then again I do sometimes wonder if I have some hormonal anomalies...my voice is very rough and low...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:00 PM
15

Woman here...female friendships are not necessarily tightly knit or kind. We can be absolute vicious cunts to each other.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 08:11 PM
1

Agreed. Relationships are a price you pay for some penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 05:51 PM
2

I think it's that marriage and kids involve giving up freedom, and however much it might be rewarding, it can still be a heavy sacrifice. However much you dress it up in the language of meaning and fulfilment, you still gave up your life to wipe someone else's poopy bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:18 PM
2

In women's case it's probably that they feel they're not supposed to want sex. They're supposed to want 'love'. Women are supposed to be above basic animal things like farting, pooping, and having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 01:32 PM
1

Because she can't penetrate herself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 10:23 PM
1

Hard angular facial features, a fit body and a big penis. There ya go. There's your honesty. There's my top 3 anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:05 AM
1

I think children have a right to boundaries, but there was no need to demonize an entire gender in the process of teaching that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:03 AM
2

I'd rather just stick to a silicone toy for life than have kids with anyone full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:43 AM
1

Why should other people be forced to have kids so you can have your ideal world?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:21 AM
1

Be nice to just pay to take the social and emotional element out of things though, and also to be sure I won't end up with my vocal cords damaged after someone springs a choking fetish on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:15 AM
1

I guess I'm just an anomaly. I'd love if male prostitutes were easily available.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 02:02 AM
1

A sex drive does not require acting exactly like men. Women are not necessarily selectors. Some women are picky, yes. And some women get drunk and fuck anything that moves. Some women rape. Women commit half of rape, but it's not called that, the milder term made to penetrate is used.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:46 AM
1

Most species don't have the option of masturbating. Cats, dogs, birds etc. don't have prehensile hands to pull on a dick or stroke a clitoris. Yes, masturbation is a sex drive, why else do you think some men become porn addicts but won't fuck their girlfriends/wives? They use up their sex drive on porn...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:39 AM
2

If someone needs to masturbate, that IS a sex drive. Your criteria for a sex drive is just odd. You're basically describing someone with 0 boundaries and that's not the same thing as libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:10 AM
1

This isn't not having a sex drive. Why do ya think Bad Dragon even have any business
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 01:01 AM
1

According to your logic men don't have sex drives either because they usually do have some boundaries and standards. Most men wouldn't fuck a 300 lb grossly obese woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 08:49 PM
1

Agreed. I'd give you a reward but I'm all out of coins.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:07 PM
1

Unless women are having sex by pegging rather than the normal way, they're not 'masculine'. Having your own life and independence is not 'masculine'. It has nothing to do with penises, balls, Y chromosomes, testosterone, lower voices etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:06 PM
0

Exactly...isn't it men who give something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 07:05 PM
2

A logger? No the female equivalent of a man doing a physical job is a woman doing a physical job. We have limbs and backs as well as vaginas...Christ...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 06:35 PM
1

Women donate organs to husbands far more than the other way around, does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:26 AM
1

Okay, cry and be offended
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 02:42 AM
1

Why so upset at the concept of personal responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 02:23 AM
1

Perhaps that's purely anatomical in some cases, but women don't help themselves by being excessively passive. IDK. I've never had trouble orgasming but I also don't treat sex as something a man does and I just lay there and benefit from. I always preferred going on top, and then I can do angles that work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 12:26 AM
1

Why is sex always described as a woman 'letting' a man use her or otherwise passively 'letting' a man do things to her? She's using him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:42 PM
1

Oh hell no. I've physically fought off a date once who wanted to 'take control' and tried pinning me down. So not my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:40 PM
1

I wish male prostitutes were more available. I legitimately just want the sex. I know as a woman I'm supposed to want love not sex, but I so could not be assed with muh love and muh commitmentz.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:35 PM
1

Why not. Sounds vicious, like it means to bite or maul.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 09:34 AM
1

Cunted as a verb? Never heard that before
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:09 PM
1

No. What is even the point of that? I'd honestly rather have it the other way around: have the sex but not a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:05 PM
1

Firstly, all those things go both ways. At least no one thinks I'm 'strong and independent' for not wanting to get married or have kids. People either badger me about how I'll end up ALOOOOOOOONE! as if 'alone' were the name of some terrifying torture method, or they needle me about how I'll change my miiiiiiiiind and how I can't really know my own mind and really I'm just rebelling against society and I must secretly want to cook and clean and be dominated and have babies. Secondly...what's wro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:02 AM
1

Agreed. I DO NOT want the victim/dependent role shoved at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:21 AM
1

I wouldn't consider them an adult, but I would respect their intellect, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:18 AM
1

I was replying to the user who made a blanket statement that men can love women but not respect them since women are 'children'. I realize I shouldn't have taken it too seriously; most sane people don't see half the human race as children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:16 AM
1

Yeah I'm seriously sick of her insisting that ALL women are whiny victims because she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 06:02 AM
5

Yeah I prefer being left alone. One time I was minding my own business, writing lyrics in my head, and a male neighbor made an absolute massive scene because I didn't want help lifting some firewood. Agreed. People aren't entitled to free manual labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 04:55 AM
3

I think I give up. This is so far from reality. Seriously, people often break their fucking backs for elderly parents. Similarly, I've known plenty of people for whom it was the other way around: the woman provides for the man. I had a few relationships when I was younger where I was the one getting the gifts, making the thoughtful gestures, writing songs especially for him, being the free therapist. And I didn't break up because I was 'hypergamous', I broke up because I wasn't really a commitme…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:02 AM
1

I'm not talking about myself, but a couple I know - and you are actually avoiding my point here. This is not about people 'complaining'. This is about your ridiculous notion that women are children and men are adults, because only men have to prove themselves. How can it be the case that a breadwinner wife is equivalent to a four year old child while a stay at home husband who focuses on hobbies all day is the adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:48 AM
3

According to that, most men are children, since they complain about their wives at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:21 AM
4

I can't imagine finding anger funny even if it was a much smaller woman who was no threat to me. If someone is angry, there's a reason, maybe a good one, maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:06 AM
8

I live in the real world where everyone, not just men, has to work for a living, get various tasks done, and generally put in effort if they want a result. So, I find it a bit arrogant when a man goes on about how men have to prove themselves whereas women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:05 AM
1

So to recap: a woman can be the sole breadwinner while a guy sits and paints all day, but she's the four-year-old and he's the adult who has no real need to respect her. Okay. I thought XYs were the logical ones, apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:03 AM
4

Wanting to be left in peace is being a brat. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:54 PM
2

I can never relate to women dating up. I don't want a superior. I would be put off by a neurosurgeon or a lawyer. I don't want to be in the shadow of someone doing better than me. But I'm not much of a commitment or marriage person so it's immaterial...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:50 PM
2

You keep going on about how horrible sex without a connection is and how it makes women feel violated. Stop claiming to speak for all of us. Not all of us want to be tethered to feelings and commitment just to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:39 PM
2

You literally said 'all women feel this way'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:29 PM
3

Or...I can mind my own business and life my own life, and get on with other things while the men wrestle and mock. Although I've usually been pretty good at holding my own at those things anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:27 PM
4

STOP claiming to speak for all women. All women find sex without Muh Twue Wuv degrading? LOL no. I wish male prostitutes were more available.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:24 PM
3

But...you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:22 PM
4

Men don't get treated as if they must be disabled, as far as I know. I find it rather insulting when men make a huge show of 'helping' me do things I can do myself. I don't mind them OFFERING help. But when I'm minding my own business carrying some firewood home and a man refuses to back off on 'helping' me when I just said no five, six, seven, eight times...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:20 PM
-1

Same. I'm ZERO into being dominated. My first boyfriend shyly offered me a kiss and that was hot as hell. Men sometimes think if we say we don't want to be dominated, we're shit testing them. Nope. Some of us are legitimately not into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:13 PM
5

I also think people are confusing two different senses of 'respect' here. There's respect as in treating someone like a person, and respect as in awarding someone additional status because they earned it. I'd respect a child in that I wouldn't call them a rude name or intentionally step on their foot because that's rude. I wouldn't respect them in the latter sense because they didn't earn it yet. I find it a bit disgusting that men see us as equivalent to four-year-old CHILDREN.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:11 PM
12

Why the assumption that women don't earn respect? I've known men cheat on women even though those women were the breadwinners in their relationships. Surely she earns respect by going to work every day and keeping them all fed and clothed?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:06 PM
1

Same. Porn is an extra for when I'm bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:46 PM
2

I have no clue because it's just not in my nature to be passive or submissive. I remember when I first learned what sex even was and that different positions existed my first thought was 'I'm going on top!'. I was too young to even really understand what sexuality was, but I hated the idea of submitting or losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:25 PM
2

True. I just never cease to find it shocking how adult women just lay there and then wonder why they don't get off. I've never done that in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:51 AM
2

I know but my point is she has agency. She can choose to get on top of him and please herself. As opposed to leaving it up to him to do all the work. She can also communicate and say what she likes and doesn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:48 AM
1

LOL what planet are you living on? I didn't buy a bunch of sex toys because coronavirus lockdowns prevented "emotional intimacy".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 06:47 PM
2

Why is there even so much emphasis on the man needing to be skilled? I never relied on men to be 'skilled'. I just got on top and did what worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 06:45 PM
1

To masturbate to, why else? I like porn where there's actually attractive guys and I can see all of them and not just their dicks. I also prefer seeing woman on top positions; I'm not much into being passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 05:30 PM
1

Why would men be intimidated by a 120 lb woman? And again I thought men were supposedly these mindless penetration machines who fuck anything...No?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 05:15 PM
0

People SAY men are the highly sexed ones but man, I so often experienced the opposite. My first official date as a teen girl, the guy got cold feet and started talking about how he worried we were going too fast and how he wanted to keep his virginity. I had a boyfriend who would walk off and ignore me and smoke weed at parties instead of fuck me. I remember going home with a guy and him refusing to penetrate me after kissing and touching all night. Where were all these mindless sex-crazed hound…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 05:27 AM
4

You're confusing 'having a sex drive' with 'having absolutely no boundaries or standards'. I really wish I had no sex drive, because I'd have absolutely no reason to put up with crap from men ever. I could devote every bit of mental energy to writing a novel or learning a language instead of putting up with someone's drama in exchange for some penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:36 AM
3

I should have known better than to try and have a sensible conversation with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:43 AM
5

That's kinda like saying women don't have an appetite because we don't eat poo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:36 AM
1

Agreed. Kellan Hartmann would still be hot if all men were suddenly super-hot tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 03:29 AM
1

I've successfully used it on a date who was dead set that I must secretly want to be dominated and tried to pin me down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:56 PM
1

They're not exactly teachings but the entire thing consists of treating women as enemies that you get sex from via hostile treatment such as negging. Like, why do you even want to fuck someone you see as an adversary and as an inferior to be put in their place? I get couples sometimes 'hate fuck' but why are you looking for what is essentially a hate fuck RIGHT from the get go?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:06 PM
3

The casual sex part is fine, the part where they rant and spew about how women have no value other than their vaginas is rather alarming. I've seen quotes from that sub talking about how men planned to raise their daughters to think their only values were youth, obedience and submissiveness. I saw one about how telling a woman you're not interested in her is 'like taking a sword and piercing her aorta' because sex is her only route to power or relevance. You tell me why women might be wary of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 08:58 PM
2

Definitely an external expectation. Being the initiator, lifting heavy objects myself, paying for things myself, are perfectly natural for me, and it was society that told me no, I was supposed to be passive and need help with things. I don't know about attractiveness. I dress reasonably modestly but not in a burka because that's what's practical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 12:00 AM
1

I had to learn not to geek out about things because it caused massive annoyance and blow ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 09:10 AM
7

Not you AGAIN, going on and on about victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 12:00 AM
2

Yeah, quite partial to them. Be nice if 'Dark Haired Penetrator' from that Russian pornhub channel could join in, too, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 09:00 AM
4

No...I've sometimes fantasized about Kellan Hartmann or Dima appearing out of thin air naked with an erection, but I'm not into being forced or overpowered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 08:52 AM
7

Dreams? No thank you, not submissive in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 08:39 AM
5

So why was it those 1950s housewives had to be on drugs to get through the day? Because being stuck at home with kids was just so delightful?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 08:25 AM
5

You're describing kidnapping and rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 08:20 AM
1

Height is useful but not necessary. Yuri Van Gelder couldn't be unattractive or unmasculine if he tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 09:35 AM
2

The hate men might have for women doesn't even come close to the seething cauldron of visceral hate women have for each other. Women are vicious to each other with a ferocity I have NEVER seen men dish out to women. I really dislike admitting this but yeah, it's not one of our finer points. I caught myself smiling when I found out that a former female friend I fell out with now has Addison's disease. I thought it was quite funny that even her own adrenal glands don't like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 08:51 AM
1

Stop. Already. Stop extrapolating your victimly whining to every other woman in the universe. You had vulvodynia according to your post history. You have an actual, medical condition that makes sex suck, and you're projecting that on to HALF THE HUMAN RACE. Nobody needs your incessant whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 09:22 PM
1

Female. Spontaneous...automatic...visceral...unpleasant even. I can't relate to other women when they talk about how theirs is responsive. Mine will bubble up even if I'm around other women, elderly people, or fat ugly men. It's purely physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 06:32 PM
1

I don't. I'm so very not into being passive. I've one sidedly done all the gift buying before and never minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 10:55 PM
1

Partly disagree. I'm a woman. I've had relationships where I was the one paying for things and buying the gifts before. I liked it that way. I find the idea of being provided for insulting. I'm an adult. At the same time yeah. Society told me men want sex and women want love. It has so often ended up being the other way around, that he was the romantic one and wanted to do things like say I love you regularly and I was the more pragmatic one who just wanted sex rather than mushiness or commitmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:30 PM
2

You're describing YOUR reality. Leave the rest of us XX adults out of your whining victimhood crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:51 AM
3

I tend to lean forward a certain way when on top to hit the right areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:50 AM
1

Hard disagree. You're forgetting that masturbation exists, and people with high sex drives can just use a toy a few times a day rather than go for someone unattractive. Being hungry doesn't mean it's a good idea to resort to eating poo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:49 AM
3

I wish I could hop on a dick, come, hop off and fall asleep. If you know what you're doing, you can. Look, I'm a straight woman and I have literally never had painful or orgasmless sex. No, not even as a 17 year old virgin. Why? Because I never saw sex as something passive. If anything I was a bit selfish - I had the attitude that sex was for me and that the guy would orgasm any which way anyway. But to get back to the point - it frustrates me when women go on about this because a bit of persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:42 AM
3

Speak. For. Yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:34 AM
2

Just stop. I'm a straight woman. I've never felt that 'impact'. I just enjoyed giving and receiving pleasure. If you think of it as something scary and shocking that's on. YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:30 AM
1

Stop making it sound like all women are whiny victims because you are. One, you're being utterly overdramatic, two, there are plenty of men who only want relationships and women who just want a dick to ride on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:29 AM
0

Dormant. LOL. Please just shut up, you have no idea what you are talking about. Mine gets so high sometimes I've considered seeing an endocrinologist about it. Being pickier doesn't mean we don't feel the need. We're just less likely to resort to eating a turd because we're so hungry. Toys exist, our fingers exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:32 AM
1

Being overly vicious to other women is a major weakness of mine, I admit. I caught myself smiling when I learned that a former friend I fell out with now has Addison's disease...I have a very nasty and bitchy streak indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:44 AM
1

me paying for things is how she feels “like a girl”. That is so narcissistic. I want to shove this person's head in the toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:36 AM
2

Woman here...we can have incredibly high drives, but we're also pickier. We'd rather just use our own fingers or a silicone toy rather than someone we're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:28 AM
1

Yeah right. I've considered seeing an endocrinologist about mine sometimes, it's that high. Ultimately I didn't though, it might be annoying but removing an important part of yourself isn't a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:26 AM
1

I would if I had the spare money to go to the Netherlands and hire one! Always had this rather unrealistic fantasy of an all-male brothel, I'd call it 'The Penetration Pen'...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:21 AM
2

I wish that were actually the case. Mine has distracted me at work and previously school...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 07:04 PM
1

Oh man you are talking out your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 06:39 PM
7

LOL...if women have no sex drive why the hell do you think we pay for silicone toys?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 07:06 AM
4

Eh, men are human beings. They don't have to be in committed relationships if they don't want to. I think it's human nature to feel caged by commitment - look at that thread on Ask reddit about living alone where people raved about how much they loved the freedom and personal space.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 02:37 AM
1

I'm 30. And if all you have is ad hominem arguments, sorry, I'm not impressed. Why do you want to force your way of living life on everyone? Why the hell would you want to force me to be in a LTR when I just find them inherently wearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:54 AM
0

LOL. Nice ad hominem argument. I don't go around 'having sex with hundreds of different men'. I carefully pick FWBs who I have known for some time and can reasonably trust not to give me STDs. I don't let things segue into a serious relationship, though. Relationships are a sacrifice and I'm just not interested in making that sacrifice. Life is too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:46 AM
2

I never wanted to marry or be in a LTR but as a teen and younger adult, I felt like I couldn't argue with the surrender model of female sexuality. He gets some, she gives it up; he is active, she passively 'lets' him inside her because he's special and she trusts him and she's in love. Weapon and wound, invader and white flag. I should have listened to my own biology. I never conceptualized it as surrender but more as being hungry and needing to eat. But I felt like I couldn't argue with the log…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:22 PM
1

Honestly I'd be heartbroken if my only options were commitment or celibacy. Took me a while to admit that, but I am just not a feelings-and-commitment person. Caused some wreckage when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 08:50 PM
3

I don't want to marry anyone because the thought is like going to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 05:22 PM
4

It's not just about imitating men. Women are HUMANS. Some of us genuinely find committed relationships a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:17 AM
7

Why get married at all? I'm too lazy to wash my own socks let alone a husband's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 09:01 AM
1

Weird for sure. He'd want me to fake pain or seem scared and that didn't even happen my actual loss of virginity. The broken hymen scenario is mostly a myth. If I tried to recreate my first time it would just involve a really awkward attempt at vigorous riding since I didn't know it was better to plant my feet and squat, and I got incredibly tired whiplashing my hips like a madwoman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 02:58 AM
5

And if they were women they'd feel as horrified about unwanted pregnancies as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:00 PM
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Vitex...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:31 AM
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I feel the same way. I hate that my biology makes me need men. I hate to need anyone. Hate having a high drive. Hate stifling a moan when a male singer rasps the word "penetrate". Granted I think that's just a me problem. I hate to need people full stop. I still feel hideously embarrassed about crying over a friend's death.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:25 AM
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I feel the most feminine when showing off, eg. playing a musical instrument, singing, fixing something with small complicated parts that someone with bigger hands couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 10:53 PM
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I agree. We can't make things truly equal because only one gender gives birth but we can make life fairer. Men should get to sign away parental rights, otherwise they can get caught in situations where they had no choice but still have to pay.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/20 05:55 PM
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Wow. Look at the sewer I just wandered into. Quote: I think childfree (by choice, not infertility or other health issues) women are a plague to society, selfish, and something is medically and mentally wrong with them. Childfree people also tend to be incredibly immature, irresponsible, and self-centered - typical millennial garbage. These women can't think of anything but themselves and are too lazy to be mothers. Crazy cat and dog ladies. (I love animals myself and I have a bunch, but they are…
/r/RedPillWives27/11/16 01:18 AM
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