Unusual-Jellyfish-54 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	A man with kids My husband has a daughter from a previous relationship. I love them both and now we have another beautiful daughter together. I love our family and I don't regret anything but there were times before my daughter was born when I did think that if we broke up I wouldn't date a man with children ever again. Being a stepmother is a very challenging role emotionally. Yes, the child will take away attention from you and will always come first, and that's how it should be. That doesn't mean he doesn't …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/24 01:51 AM
3	Why do some women get proposed to a lot? I had three boyfriends and got proposed to by two of them within a few months of dating, the last one is my now husband. I didn't do anything consciously to provoke that and appeareance wise I'm a solid 6. I think I did a couple of things that put me in the right place to meet the men that would want to marry me: 1. I was an all or nothing kind of girl. If I didn't feel wanted and actively pursued by a man I would quickly lose interest. 2. I wouldn't go on a second date if I didn't think he was …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/24 10:45 PM
4	Want kids before 30 but BF wants to wait In my opinion you should have an honest conversation with him in which you tell him how important it is to you to have kids, tell him the biological factors at play in having kids after 35 and why that's a concern to you and ask him to be fully honest whether he is sure that he truly wants to be a dad someday so you don't wait on him for nothing. Because saying that 5 years from now is not that far away sounds like having a little bit of anxiety around the idea. If it's just because of financial…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/01/24 01:47 PM
11	Talking to first red pill guy He made a problem about her having guy friends and it being a red flag after seeing each other just a couple of times ... That alone is a red flag to me	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/24 03:57 PM
23	Talking to first red pill guy Sorry because you said it was no problem for you but imo being into Andrew Tate is the only actual red flag here...	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/24 03:21 PM
3	Men don't care about women with high body count if they are attractive Disregarding the part about only fans (which I don't think is true that those girls have high value men wanting to marry them) if we talk about normal beautiful girls with a body count on the higher side who don't show signs of being promiscuous in the present, I agree that a HVM won't necessarily care too much. The guys that care too much about that are insecure men who have fear of being cheated on or moralist religious men, which are not the kind of men you would want to marry anyways. Of cou…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/24 09:57 PM
6	should I pick the guy I love or the guy that loves me? Please don't get back with him then... Give this other guy a year or so of grace and if he hasn't decided yet move on to something better. You're too young to settle for a loveless marriage with a rude, disrespectful man.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/23 01:50 PM
1	Long time commenter, my first post Thank you, I hope it helps. Think that even if you do come back to the same mess you will in fact be more relaxed to deal with it 😂... Wish you luck!	/r/RedPillWives	28/12/23 10:34 PM
10	Long time commenter, my first post In your place,I would play what I call the 'delicate flower card'... I'd say something along the lines of: 'oh im just too overwhelmed, I feel tired and dirty (which is in fact, the truth) I hope you don't mind if I take the kids somewhere for the rest of the afternoon so we can take a breath and you can have more peace of mind by being by yourself to figure it out without us bothering you around'... Then you pass it on to him to resolve it before you come back, he'll either figure it out himsel…	/r/RedPillWives	28/12/23 10:18 PM
79	I think I triggered his fear of commitment and scared him away I'm sorry but if after four months of dating he hasn't asked you to be his girlfriend and then drops a joke about himself being the 'fun SINGLE uncle' to his friends' children in the future, I think he's being very straightforward with you about not wanting to be with you long term. No man who is really interested in a woman would ever make a statement like that, it was clear and intentional, and he ghosted you after your response to make sure you got it. I don't think it has anything to do with…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/12/23 08:52 PM
5	Do y'all let your husband cheat on you? If so, what are the agreements and terms of your relationship and at what point do you consider the boundaries to be crossed meaning divorce may be on the table? My "traditional" standing on this matter is that first and foremost, we have a monogamous relationship built upon mutual trust and respect where fidelity is expected. Having said so, I think I would be willing to forgive an infidelity if it was a one time kind of thing, for the sake of preserving the home we have built together and our children, but ONLY if he showed genuine repentance and willingness to take the necessary steps to heal our bond and make sure it doesn't happen ever again. And I …	/r/RedPillWives	22/12/23 01:24 PM
4	RPW: How much does it impact your world view? I use this as a way to connect with other countercultural people who also question many trends that modern times have imposed upon us women and men, which deprive us from living in harmony with what is naturally best for human beings, their health and development, and most importantly what is best for raising children. Because if you're single and childfree you do you, but I think that modern misconceptions about family, gender and what children need to grow healthily are primarily failing child…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/12/23 12:55 PM
3	What are some YouTuber content creators that you enjoy watching? I currently watch Mrs Midwest, the Spillover, Farmhouse on Boone, Angela Braniff, Jasmyne Theodora, Brett Cooper Edit: Susan Venker is gold also	/r/RedPillWomen	11/12/23 09:19 PM
6	You are a nice girl but… I think this might be the problem. Immature men who don't know what they want yet and perceive that you're all in for marriage and don't want to waste your time. I partially agree with those who say that men marry whoever is in front of them when they are ready to get married. I don't agree with the part of "whoever is in front of them" but it's def true that they could have a total catch in front of them and they won't value her if they're not ready to settle yet. There could be more to your si…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/12/23 04:27 PM
9	Should Women Defend their Men from Feminists who Call them Misogynists for wanting Traditional Wives? If I were to defend our lifestyle against liberal people I would go with 2 and 3: "he spends hours at work, the least I can do is cook and clean" and/or “This is how we share the workload, this job is my duty, he has others” I think they're both true statements and sound totally reasonable and common sense even for a feminist audience. I would save the one about showing love through service for a more traditional audience, because that one is maybe more controversial. The others sound too combat…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/12/23 03:44 PM
2	How to inspire him to be a leader I think you are being the masculine one here with a more masculine career and therefore he has taken the feminine role in this relationship, allowing you to disrespect his career and take the leadership telling him what to do. Either you start relaxing in your feminine and stop emasculating him, start respecting him and his career, and stop shoving into his face your higher income. Or you consider leaving him and finding a man that has a higher paying job than you if that's really important to y…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/11/23 03:17 PM
2	Does your captain continue to initiate contact/plans as your relationship progresses? If you are aware that you have a tendency to be overbearing work on it keeping it in mind and try to balance the amount of times you take initiative with the times he does. He should keep initiating more often than you do. A ratio of around 3:1 times him taking initiative vs you would be a healthy rythm to go imo.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/11/23 04:17 PM
2	Does your captain continue to initiate contact/plans as your relationship progresses? he has expressed his desire for me to initiate more often so that he feels needed. This sounds awesome! he is being vulnerable showing he really cares for you! Feel free to show some vulnerability too and iniciate some time. It seems like you're definitely going somewhere so drop the games and start being yourself, building a genuine, long lasting love.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/11/23 02:05 PM
2	Making my mother a red pill woman Thank you! I'm glad it resonates with non religious people too <3	/r/RedPillWomen	25/11/23 12:42 PM
34	Making my mother a red pill woman The best way to influence someone into adopting your lifestyle and beliefs is to focus on improving your own life so they notice how genuinely happy and fulfilled you are when they are around you and maybe think that if it works so well for you, it might be worth trying. You probably won't be able to just talk her into it. I would apply the 'surrendered wife' perspective with this type of situation also... Just surrender and stop trying to 'make her' anything. She's your mother and it could be v…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/11/23 05:06 PM
1	Red Pill Wives, are you still there? Check in! 🙋🏽‍♀️ Hi!! I'm 25, and we've been married with my husband for 6 wonderful years and have one daughter. I've been embracing biblical femininity since almost the beginning of our relationship and my husband, who studies psychology and used to be quite progressive (pro abortion, LGBTQ, equal roles in marriage, etc), would say I was too square and conservative... But thanks to the Lord and my work in myself he saw the blessing that traditional gender roles are to our life and a few years ago he star…	/r/RedPillWives	22/11/23 12:16 PM