Unusual18 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
58	25M: Doing great in my career, but my dating life is non-existent. Sometimes this thought physically hurts my chest	Escalation & Calibration	Unusual18	/r/seduction	24/07/26 09:17 PM
14	Did i do something wrong?	Field Report	Unusual18	/r/seduction	28/02/26 02:49 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us? I’m actually quite social and love being an extrovert. I know 'everyone' at my gym and at work, people come up to chat with me all the time I love connecting with strangers. Meeting new people and will happily start chatting with whoever is next to me in a queue or while waiting for the bus, etc I also work in B2C sales, where I’m a great relationship builder and pretty good at my job. However, I struggle to escalate things with women and have some fun. I haven't been able to make that leap, …	/r/seduction	26/07/26 01:13 PM
1	Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us? May I ask how you met so many new people? How you cracked the code? I feel like I'm living the same loop all the time, and waisting my years. Just work, gym, eat, sleep, repeat	/r/seduction	26/07/26 01:00 PM
1	Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us? Hey man, may I ask how old you are, and at what age did you get the most action. M25 here, I am somewhere between 5-10	/r/seduction	26/07/26 09:14 AM
1	Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us? May i ask how old you are? When did you get the most action? M25, im somewhere between 5-10	/r/seduction	26/07/26 09:12 AM
1	25M: Doing great in my career, but my dating life is non-existent. Sometimes this thought physically hurts my chest They really do make me feel like shit	/r/seduction	25/07/26 12:05 PM
1	25M: Doing great in my career, but my dating life is non-existent. Sometimes this thought physically hurts my chest We won't die alone, bro. We'll be at each other's funerals😂🤷‍♂️	/r/seduction	25/07/26 12:04 PM
1	25M: Doing great in my career, but my dating life is non-existent. Sometimes this thought physically hurts my chest Perhaps im just dumb🤷‍♂️	/r/seduction	25/07/26 11:04 AM
3	25M: Doing great in my career, but my dating life is non-existent. Sometimes this thought physically hurts my chest To be honest, I sometimes think my mental challenges and my chest pain is triggered by something else, and I’m just looking for comfort in dating. I used to stress because of school, then a job, and now that I’ve sorted all of that out, it's dating. I actually don't think dating is the underlying issue Maybe I should talk with someone	/r/seduction	25/07/26 08:45 AM
1	25M: Doing great in my career, but my dating life is non-existent. Sometimes this thought physically hurts my chest How do i "start working on it"?	/r/seduction	25/07/26 08:30 AM
1	25M: Doing great in my career, but my dating life is non-existent. Sometimes this thought physically hurts my chest Panzerwagen	/r/seduction	25/07/26 08:30 AM
2	25M: Doing great in my career, but my dating life is non-existent. Sometimes this thought physically hurts my chest Hahaha, I tried being fancy. Well, we use each other for sex and stuff. I think she wants to escalate to the "next level," but I’m not interested	/r/seduction	25/07/26 08:29 AM
2	25M: Doing great in my career, but my dating life is non-existent. Sometimes this thought physically hurts my chest I’ve actually thought about this before, I’m worried it might make me seem desperate. It feels like a stress-induced pain How can I start doing this? Are there any good books on the topic that you'd recommend?	/r/seduction	25/07/26 08:27 AM
2	25M: Doing great in my career, but my dating life is non-existent. Sometimes this thought physically hurts my chest Yeah, maybe I’m just delusional and not as good at this as I think. My daytime approach count is pretty low right now because I don't really find myself in environments where I feel comfortable approaching women. It’s mostly just work, gym, eat, sleep, repeat. But most of the time when I do approach, we chat, flirt, and have a conversation. How long we talk depends on what we’re doing, but I usually get their number or social media. We text and send pictures back and forth. But as soon as I try …	/r/seduction	25/07/26 08:23 AM
1	What do you guys do when you propose a meeting and she will "let you know" if she can? Can you elaborate please?	/r/seduction	29/05/26 06:05 AM
1	Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple. You say "don't say it" towards the end. When do you say this?	/r/seduction	21/05/26 06:26 AM
2	How to give out vibes that get me hookups or get me laid? Daym, you guys get matches?	/r/seduction	03/05/26 06:53 PM
1	Did i do something wrong? I agree. As long as I am just normal, nice, and respectful toward her, not much can really go wrong from here Maybe she thinks, "Nice, he can handle a rejection properly" and that it does not affect our professional work relationship	/r/seduction	28/02/26 07:38 PM
3	Did i do something wrong? We looked at our calendars together and agreed on a time and day that works for both of us. I really do not believe that is the case about me not respecting her time. I think it's pretty simple, actually. I think she likes me as a person but is not interested in "sleeping with me." She didn't know how to decline without being rude, so she ghosted the text. To be honest, that's fair. I can understand it from her perspective. It was a great learning experience for future me	/r/seduction	28/02/26 07:35 PM
3	Did i do something wrong? Word, I may have made a big fumble. I think as long as I don't make a "big deal" out of it, it will be fine. The most important thing right now is that I can't start to act rude or have an attitude against her. I just have to be the same guy I always was and act "professional" and funny	/r/seduction	28/02/26 07:27 PM
1	Did i do something wrong? I'm not really trying to "save" anything. I'm more interested in learning from this experience and improving myself for next time	/r/seduction	28/02/26 07:22 PM
3	Did i do something wrong? Got to give it to you, this is great feedback! I did ask her when she gets off work early. We landed on Monday or Tuesday, but we planned to set the time later. Perhaps I should have locked in the time right away. My intention wasn’t really a 'date,' though, just to have some fun. Your second point is great. I don’t think I did anything wrong, I think I was just her "office flirt" and that was fun, but when I invited her home, it got 'too serious.' She was not into that. But like, how do you sep…	/r/seduction	28/02/26 03:40 PM
2	Lunch date Love this comment. It’s easy to forget this perspective in a world where women get a lot of attention and compliments compared to men	/r/seduction	28/02/26 02:56 PM