UnusualInjury5506 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How do I know a woman enjoys doing things with me and isn't just pretending out of fear that I'll assault her or something? In my experience women don’t typically date guys they don’t like. What your talking about does happen but I think it’s far from the norm. There are also other reasons they do it. Sometimes they’re just not sure. Sometimes they just want to give you a chance. Sometimes they change their mind about you. It’s not all about fear of being assaulted. Are you making it clear from the beginning that you’re interested? It sounds like you’re asking women to hangout with you but not making your intentions …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 10:53 PM
3	How do I know a woman enjoys doing things with me and isn't just pretending out of fear that I'll assault her or something? The social cues that indicate wether a women is interested or not are not obvious to a men who have little or no experience with women. The problem is made worse when the man has low confidence or self esteem and has convinced himself that women don’t find him attractive or and never will. I didn’t understand until I met a promiscuous women who would just trough herself at me. I thought she was just friendly until she escalated things. After looking back at the situation I was able to see how sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/23 10:23 PM
1	Q4M: How do you define “fat”? My point about remains. Just because you don’t like the language that red pill men use doesn’t mean it’s hateful. The red pill doesn’t teach contempt but the information people learn may cause them to feel contempt. Your issue is with a minority of men in the red pill community who use speech that you don’t like not with the red pill idea. I don’t see anything unhealthy about understanding men and women better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 04:44 PM
1	Q4M: How do you define “fat”? First off I want to clarify that I don’t use any derogatory terms towards anyone. With that being said just because men use derogatory terms doesn’t mean that hate the people they use those terms towards. Men use derogatory terms towards other men also but we tend to not care as much. You’ll probably disagree with me but it is the truth. I understand where you’re coming from but it’s just the nature of the internet and men. If you talked to these men in real life I’m sure that most of them would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 03:42 PM
5	Q4M: How do you define “fat”? The red pill doesn’t hate fat women. It doesn’t hate anyone. It simply states the facts. Most men find fat women unattractive or less attractive than fit women. That’s a fact but “fat” is a relative term. Most men will call obese women fat but they may not consider overweight women to be fat. The answer to your question is that men are not really defining it they are just looking at how big a women appears to be and deciding for themselves if they find that woman attractive or if she is to fat b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 01:25 PM
2	What is red pill, actually? There is no women variant of the red pill because it’s not gender specific. The red pill is just a set of general truths about men and women that either gender can use to make decisions about the best way to get what they want out of life. It can teach women and open their eyes too but that is only if the choose to listen. It can benefit woman the same way it benefits men. If women know the truth about men then they can use that information to make themselves more attractive and attract better m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 11:43 AM
1	What is red pill, actually? The red pill for for women is understanding that men value purity a lot more than women do. Women’s body counts matter more to men than they realize. If men think you’re a hoe, or find out you do sex work then they aren’t going to want to be in a relationship with you. Men can sleep with women that they aren’t attracted to so just because a man of a certain caliber will sleep with you doesn’t mean that you are on the level of that man. Sexual attention from a man is not the same as relational at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 03:56 AM
1	Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating? I don’t care about how much she makes as long as she’s financially responsible. I’m not interested in being with a women who has a lot of debt or that can’t save money because she’s always spending it all on things she doesn’t need. I don’t care if she has career aspirations. There is more pressure on me financially but I’m willing to rise to the occasion if she is committed and contributes to the relationship. I’m not interested in committing to women who places her career or finances before he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 01:17 PM
3	will she eventually leave me for someone "better"? How long have y’all been together?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 01:50 AM
1	will she eventually leave me for someone "better"? Because they have high standards and don’t want to be in a relationship with unattractive men they have as options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 01:48 AM
7	Just pay attention to her You’re clueless. Simps get stuck on 1 girl who they put on a pedestal and you’re not going to simps in the club chasing other women. If they did they wouldn’t be simps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 01:40 AM
5	Do dating age men have any interest in having a friendship with a woman who is solidly nailed down? I don’t mind having female friends as long as I’m not attracted to them but I’m not interested in spending 1 on 1 time with anyones wife or girlfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 12:40 AM
3	CMV : RP's standards mainly filter out high libido/mutual attraction and lead to transactional relationships/ dead bedroom and is a terrible dating tactic I’d also like to add that just because men who subscribe to the red pill men may have unrealistic standards that doesn’t mean it’s what the red pill is teaching or preaching to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 12:14 AM
18	CMV : RP's standards mainly filter out high libido/mutual attraction and lead to transactional relationships/ dead bedroom and is a terrible dating tactic As always the people who are against the red pill don’t actually listen to or understand it. The red pill strategy is to be the best man you can be in as many aspects as possible so that you can have as many options as possible. Then pick a woman who meets your standards who is genuinely attracted to you. It makes clear that only the men with the highest sexual market place value men can truly have their pick. The less sexual value you have the less options you have and the higher the chance tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 12:11 AM
0	Most (straight)mens relationship woes stems from believing that being choosy is being cruel/mean to women OR that you can't afford being choosy in your mate selection. I’m no expert or anything but I think I know a few things that women find attractive. Confidence, leadership, good social skills, charisma, physical appearance, assertiveness, financial security, and physical security. I think confidence probably the most important and most underrated trait that women look for in men. You pretty much have to be confident if nothing else and it alone can get you very far not just with women but in life. It comes naturally to a lot of people but not everyone. If y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 11:21 PM
1	Most (straight)mens relationship woes stems from believing that being choosy is being cruel/mean to women OR that you can't afford being choosy in your mate selection. This was the problem I had and I have noticed it’s the same problem that men who bring up the nice guy argument have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 03:46 PM
3	Most (straight)mens relationship woes stems from believing that being choosy is being cruel/mean to women OR that you can't afford being choosy in your mate selection. I think the real problem stems from the belief that you should just be yourself and women will accept you as you are in a romantic sense. I think most men who struggle with women just believe they don’t have what it takes and that if women don’t like them how they are then there is nothing they can do about it. They don’t realize that if they know the things women find attractive they can actually try and improve in those areas so that women will find them more attractive. I also think it comes …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 03:44 PM
1	Q4M Would you trust an overtly redpill dating profile? No. I would assume they are a troll because only a redpill troll would say those things and I don’t think most guys are looking for a woman who does all those things. The redbill doesn’t claim men are better than women, that women should never disagree or say no, or that they should do or be whatever men want. It’s clear to me that most people who disagree with the redpill don’t even actually listen to whats being preached in the community.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 01:05 PM
7	Fringe opinions promoted by engagement are skewing your conceptions of the other gender I have to ask. What are some extreme views that you have heard from the red pill? Do you realize that red pill teaches men that it’s on them to improve their lives? Do you also realize that there are red pill men who talk to women in real life and that are in relationships. Do you you realize that there are “red pill” men and women who are in happy relationships together? There seems to be this misconception that the only people who subscribe to redpill views are incel men who know nothing about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 04:50 PM
7	Fringe opinions promoted by engagement are skewing your conceptions of the other gender That’s the main point that people who against it never seem to understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 04:13 PM
13	Fringe opinions promoted by engagement are skewing your conceptions of the other gender So you think if men get off social media that all of their issues that the red pill addresses will go away? You need realize that it’s their interactions with women and observations of them that “red pills” men. The red pill is not telling men how to think it’s acknowledging mens problems and helping men with them. The rest of society just stands back and judges and ridicules men. If you’re truly against the red pill why don’t you and everyone else who is against it provide and alternative and s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 03:16 PM
1	Women who believe their “platonic” male friends aren’t in fact orbiters; why do you think they aren’t attracted to you? I can’t agree with that. I’ve seen to many genuine friendships between men and women. I do think that most intersex friendships are not genuinely platonic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 02:50 PM
0	Treat her like an employee . . . not a slave Youre right and that’s what the red pill tries to teach men. But it still addresses the issue of men already being in relationships with women who do that stuff. It also tries to teach women that there are consequences to being promiscuous and dressing provocatively because women are out here doing these things and then getting frustrated because men only want to sleep with them and nothing else. The red pill isn’t just for men it is for women too but women have a hard time taking criticism and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 02:46 PM
-2	Treat her like an employee . . . not a slave See but the issue is that the things you listed are not red pill ideas. They are just simply the way that most men view modesty and respect in regards to women. Those facts are red pills or hard pills for swallow for women. The redpill is not telling men to think that way. It’s telling women that this is how most men think and it’s telling men your not wrong for having certain boundaries. The problem is most women don’t like the fact that they can’t just do what ever they want in relationships w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 01:45 PM
-1	Treat her like an employee . . . not a slave You can do that if you want but it seems to me that most woman want leaders and most men want to be leaders in their relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 01:18 PM
3	Treat her like an employee . . . not a slave How do you think the red pill is advocating men to treat women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 01:15 PM
8	Women who believe their “platonic” male friends aren’t in fact orbiters; why do you think they aren’t attracted to you? As a guy who has been an orbiter I would just like to say that I disagree with the idea that men and women can’t be platonic friends. I have been friends with women that I was romantically interested I but wasn’t actually trying to pursue, I’ve been friends with women who I was hoping would eventually give me a chance, and I’ve also been friends with women who I was not romantically interested in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 12:39 PM
16	Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you? A is average B is average to slightly below average C is below average	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 05:46 AM