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Lose-lose situation for him. Even if he went for a younger women initially he’d still be labeled as a creep. Apparently everyone should just play sports and no one should become doctors…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:28 PM
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Paradox of human thought is that you can’t separate concept and function. All of attraction is based on utility. Some individuals just conjure immediate responses from others because they lower our trust threshold; doesn’t actually mean they’ll actually be able to make our lives easier when push comes to shove. Everybody needs help with different things when ensuring the satisfaction of biological imperatives for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:09 PM
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Not OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:31 AM
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Where’s the link? A lot of us don’t actually take social “sciences” seriously as sciences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:26 AM
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Who the fuck is Mrs_Drgree and why should we care? No, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:20 AM
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I haven’t done those things and I’m almost 28. However I’m not looking to get married, so what does that make me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:05 AM
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Because they sleep with circumcised men…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:03 AM
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Cringe. “Looks” are relative to function; are we talking kids as an end goal? I can only stand being around obnoxious women when I’m drunk. Low and behold I am now sober for life as of a year and a half ago and somehow still celibate at 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:55 AM
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Because they’re older now and probably can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:43 AM
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Where did he say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:31 AM
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I’m partly trolling. But honestly, some guys need to make up their own minds; do your own thing or “become the best version of yourself” in order to inversely be wholly preoccupied with attracting women. But then again, existential philosophy doesn’t need to make sense. I regress.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:12 PM
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Not everyone is trying to be a fitness guru. Standards are relative. Some men actually want to improve the standard of living for others. So if I’m going to have to settle for someone who is a “nice girl” and complains about everything including but not limited to the patriarchy, then I’m not getting married or having kids. We’ll all be stuck with Chad looking people who can’t fight entropy as well and who are intellectually slow because of time dilation and the distance it takes for stimuli to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:49 PM
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Ahem, quarantine…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:36 PM
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Everyone has their phases… I’d like to think that at some point you become a loser by your own admission if you actually believe life has winners…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:00 PM
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OP will never understand her own cognitive bias. Women and businesses create objectification; men just confirm what you already believe about yourself, because you attract those particular men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:51 PM
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Women improving? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:40 PM
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Ikr
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:29 PM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:28 PM
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You haven’t either 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:27 PM
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I just stay inside mainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:27 PM
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Men and women both harbored Jews. Both men and women donate kidneys; aren’t kidney’s not interchangeable between genders? And what about the actual war? You have what is known as a martyr complex. It’s impossible to be morally superior, because morality is a relative concept. I just see confirmation bias and anecdotal examples. I hate psychology and even I know this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 03:52 PM
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So you believe that humans just existed in a vacuum throughout all of history? Free from the sea of variables that endanger human lives? Men protected women and their offspring from Nature; the same mother nature that gave you your limitations. And woman are biologically wired to spew morally relative bullshit to gas light men into doing what they want. News flash, you’re just as shitty of a person as anybody else, drop the martyr complex and woman up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 03:33 PM
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You don’t have a point. Red herring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 03:16 PM
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Why thank you. Don’t misconstrue nice and virtuous next time. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:34 PM
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You’re literally doing the same thing as “nice guys” but for different reasons. And then you feel entitled to all sorts of things and bash on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:48 AM
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“Heroic”. Women can barely lift a box, let alone carry another man on their back. The standard is always so much lower for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:26 AM
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Women used to be worth protecting…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:24 AM
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Compassion is a relative social concept… Doesn’t matter how you measure it, that study will always be biased. Social science is not science because our society doesn’t exist in a vacuum…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:22 AM
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As*
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:14 AM
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It’s an ethical assessment because this is an ethical discussion. I didn’t call her a “bad” word or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:01 AM
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Pretty sure love is a relative social concept. I’m not any pill, but she’s probably with him because she never has to worry about him leaving her. He probably literally worships her, some women just fantasize about becoming an idol lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:54 AM
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Sometimes, people don’t even realize when they stop making sense; I hope you’ll realize that.
/r/AntiFeminists30/08/21 06:26 PM
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Sounds narcissistic.
/r/AntiFeminists30/08/21 05:53 PM
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Someone gets it 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:40 PM
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I don’t believe in true meritocracies, so you’ll have to come up with a better ad hominem. Societies don’t exist in vacuums.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:29 PM
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Idk, we must live in different worlds. Men do behave differently in the presence of women so it’s totally possible. Both of my best friends are at least 6’ while I’m at 5’8” and I’m not jealous of them at all even though I’m still celibate at 28. But neither of them are going to be millionaires soon, or are interested in things like AI/ML and Quantum Mechanics, so there’s that. We’re on different journeys. Whatever irrationality you see in men, there’s most likely a women in the center of it. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 04:59 AM
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I don’t know… I thought it was pretty funny. You can clearly see the guy in the mirror fucking her 😆
/r/AntiFeminists26/08/21 03:31 AM
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Men don’t put each other down unless they’re preparing for a physical altercation. Everything else is meant to make sure your buddy doesn’t take himself too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:20 AM
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My first reply was to your example; not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:31 AM
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As long as you’re okay with being called out as an online narcissist then I’m fine with your anecdotal examples. Up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:29 AM
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How am I suppose to know when? Don’t make this only about yourself. That’s just something I remember always circulating around as a kid no matter where I went.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:09 AM
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Women can hit a man, but a man can’t hit a woman? As old as time itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:57 AM
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That’s not competition, that’s sounds like misogyny among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:48 AM
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Or they just didn’t hang out as frequently as you think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:51 PM
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No they don't. Women don't fawn over the former. All of those things you mentioned are just arbitrary relative social concepts. In reality there are huge responsibilities associated. Those casual flings will tell you just about everything to get laid again, including and not limited to "I feel objectified"; why? because it takes work to get laid. Don't think being objectified is wholesome? Then don't defend this approach because you're making women who do this look even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:00 AM
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Pretty sure 22 vs 28+ negates your point. You probably have yourself a catch, I’m just hoping for someone who’s not crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:17 PM
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Projecting your experiences onto a different gender won't work. I am in a "similar" situation as you regarding abstinence, although I am almost 28 and I'm not married. What is the difference? Your dating experience happened to you, for me I have to make it happen and not be picky on top of it all. Who's the actual toxic one here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:14 PM
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Men don't seek "sexual attention"; only sexual gratification. They are distinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:08 PM
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That’s not how sex works. Terrible analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:50 PM
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“Experience” is a euphemism for “emotionally unstable”. It does not mean what you think it does. Sexual skill is relative to the context. You can become more proficient at identifying how to make a wide variety of people orgasm, but you’ll never learn the mastery of how to blow one particular individual’s mind. Hooking up doesn’t translate into LTR’s period. They are antonyms. Opposite behaviors. You’re not “better” at sex because you couldn’t control your impulses lol. You’re just better at hoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:43 PM
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So you're a proponent of self-ownership? Isn't self-ownership bad logic though? Circular reasoning? That's a whole different discussion I did not sign up for lol, maybe some other time. You should just do some research instead of having me have to explain everything to you. I've got stuff to do. Farewell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:17 PM
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So, like a game? Don’t use a word somebody else used? I don’t follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:19 PM
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I can’t help you there. Everything influences everything, directly or indirectly. I can’t see there being anything “original”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:12 PM
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You are delusional, so alright, we’ll go with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:03 PM
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It’s a figure of speech. This is a mental exercise; exercising isn’t always fun. It’s a good thing that I don’t actually have to change your mind to successfully complete the exercise. You’re willfully ignorant and that would take a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:54 PM
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I’m antisocial. I wouldn’t prefer it, but I could do this all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:32 PM
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Oh; no, it didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:09 PM
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Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:52 PM
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If it wasn’t important, you wouldn’t have posted it. Not if you took yourself seriously. Once information becomes the new currency and everything is placed on a digital public ledger, let’s hope you don’t lose your mind comparing yourself to other people. Because then it will be nearly impossible to distinguish reality from the digital meritocratic lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:26 PM
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Kind of like how you created this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:15 PM
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Are you talking about a mmorpg or something? You can’t escape from “reality”. True meritocracies don’t exist. Reality itself is relative. Thoughts and actions are inseparable. Thoughts are physical action potentials going through your neural pathways. Consciousness is not transcendental. You can’t separate “you” and physical existence. “You” are apart of existence. And maybe if you’d stop thinking about “you” so much, you’d help out with insuring the survivability of our species. Have a great da…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:08 PM
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That would only be true if I actually evaluated myself like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:55 AM
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You have the attention span of a fly. Were you not defending your position that mental illnesses exist (psychology is a science)? Otherwise, you’d have to admit that even logic is relative. But, then you really wouldn’t have any way to keep evaluating yourself (which I suggested for you in the first place). I knew you were going to “lose” this discussion/debate before we even started, I just thought you’d catch on sooner and not actually try to “win”. Did you at least learn something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:51 AM
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Clearly you are though lol. You seem to contradict yourself at every turn. That’s an ad hominem fallacy you just did right there. There goes logic/rationality again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:26 AM
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I’m antisocial. I don’t ever worry about taking myself seriously. Ego doesn’t exist. You do. And yet, here you are. The real question is how you still take yourself seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:54 AM
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I just can’t take you seriously anymore, I’m sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:02 AM
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Circular reasoning, nice. So, not only are you dismissing the scientific method, but now you’re abandoning logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:58 AM
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I’m fairly certain psychology is not a real science. It does not self-correct, nor meet the requirements of the scientific method. You should study neurology instead. But, then you’d actually be required to see your patients before diagnosing them. Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:51 AM
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It just needs to be done, and clearly you’re not going to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:27 AM
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Don’t feel threatened, it’s all relative. You might hate me now, but one day you’ll be thanking me for all of my contributions toward creating a more decentralized autonomous society. Have a great life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:19 AM
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It really is lol. At least we agree on something. Well, good luck in life; you’re going to need it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:31 AM
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Right!? But, then you showed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:27 AM
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I’m getting dumber by the second just talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:25 AM
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Did you just experience cognitive dissonance? Describe what it felt like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:21 AM
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Ex. Criminals discuss things. Some of them can even talk up a storm. Criminals are antisocial. But the two aren’t necessarily mutually inclusive. It’s all relative. How is it that someone who is social, is using social as a misnomer?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:07 AM
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I don’t follow? Are you aware of what it means to be social? From our discussion so far, I would assume not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:58 PM
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I wish that were true, but I’m antisocial. I have trouble caring about anyone, whatever that means. It does seem like you are beginning to ascribe emotions to someone you can’t actually see. Would it be safe to assume you are in distress?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:55 PM
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Was just trying to be courteous, and then I changed my mind. Why are you so quick to check up on my replies lol? Face it kid, you’re not a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:35 PM
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Whoa there scumbag, grow up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:17 PM
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So much for intelligent discussions… here’s an exposition for slow humans like yourself. We don’t live in a vacuum/space controlled for all variables. Whatever method you are using to evaluate yourself is complete bullshit. Women don’t ACTUALLY “care” about you or think you’re special. You’re clearly susceptible. They don’t exist to meet your arbitrary “levels of beauty”. The concept of beauty is derived from utility. And it doesn’t matter what a woman looks like, there will always be someone wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:38 AM
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What the fuck lol. 😂. Is there something wrong with curtesy? Are you a messiah now? Bearing some new moral code for everyone to follow? Clearly you’re the miserable one here; responsibility is a relative social concept. You’d make yourself feel better if you’d just stop evaluating yourself so much. It’s not junior-high.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:29 AM
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Hey, man; you really need to just stop replying. You’re intentionally wasting my time now. I was being courteous and so is everyone else on here. So don’t propagate meritocratic lies and stop acting like an entitled 12 year old. Have a great day. Jesus Christ lol…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:18 AM
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Words are still words. Mechanical waves. Wasting time to deter you from wasting more of other people’s time is a public service. You should thank me for it. Of course I won’t be expecting anything in return though. Have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 10:18 PM
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I’m glad you placed it in quotes, given that it doesn’t exist. There is no point. Relative discussions are inherently pointless. It isn’t natural for a woman to compete with other women. If you believe it is, then confirmation bias might have you too far detached from reality. I hate relative discussions like these. Only designed to enable further bias. It’s alright though, everyone is biased. Your course of action should have just been to keep living your life and to not post stupid shit like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 10:04 PM
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Willful ignorance. I’m pretty certain women do these things for themselves and for other women. At least by their own admission. And what about before modern day makeup? Do you honestly believe men wouldn’t find women attractive enough without makeup? History would prove otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:14 PM
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You’re just wasting time. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 11:57 AM
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Whoa, slow down. Deal with the first one first, then worry about the rest. Not regarding generalizations, but about whatever possessed you to act pretentiously. Socialization and interpersonal relationships don’t work the same way. You fill each other’s gaps. If you already view yourself so highly don’t expect the other person to make it a priority to worry about your introspective perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:09 AM
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Great… more relative social bullshit lol. How about, just forget about love? Love is a relative social concept. Respect is also one. Men respect each other, women change the meaning of respect with every conversation. It’s just a concept; she’ll never ACTUALLY ever “respect” you. Whatever that even means. Women say a lot of things. Things involving phenotypes men can’t change, even though their clitoris isn’t buried up towards their cervix and their cervix doesn’t really have any nerve endings… …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:58 AM
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Because you’re too pretentious to realize your: A. sample size is too small. B. You’re not an objective source for morality, and; C. Whatever you say will never reach statistical significance because you have no incentives to help others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:25 AM
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Because it’s not feminism. You’re not even in the realm of rights and opportunities anymore. You’re trying to police language and devalue certain interpersonal relationships. What gives certain people and things in our lives more subjective value and meaning as opposed to others, depends on our ability to form opinions about those people and things. Here’s a secret though: lobby against family court bias, and men who want to marry will give zero fucks about your sexual behavior because they’ll h…
/r/AntiFeminists06/05/20 05:49 PM
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Different people go through different stages of life at different times. Don’t compare your timeline to other’s. You’re on the brink of realizing that only you can determine whether or not you are a man. It’s up to you to respect yourself and to not give a shit about what others think. And it’s hard; because you have to decide for yourself where you are going and what you want to accomplish. It’s always easier to do what others think you should do, because there is no push back. But it never wor…
/r/MGTOW31/12/19 11:47 PM
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India is more dense, yes. But the U.S. isn’t the controlled factor here. With that said, India isn’t exactly rainbows and sunshine atm. Economy isn’t so hot. And they’re experiences a lot of the same men’s issues as the U.S.
/r/MGTOW31/12/19 02:04 AM
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Is that a sleeping mat or for bouldering?
/r/MGTOW22/12/19 11:56 PM
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Let’s rephrase this: How do I regain self-respect? Society is very confused about what men and women need. So they have tried stripping men of what makes a man a man. Anger is not a bad emotion. It drives change. It’s what you do with that anger that makes it right or wrong. Forget about self-love. Start doing what is honorable and right. Stand up for the truth. Once you see yourself becoming the man you want to be, you will respect yourself and others will respect you. But it it all starts with…
/r/MGTOW19/12/19 05:30 AM
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Not a priority for me anymore atm. I was raised in a conservative/Christian household, so I’ve always wanted to save myself for marriage. Had quite a few things start up with different girls, where there was intense mutual interest (would hear from others while said interactions sparked early on), but then the caveats would start showing up. One of them got to a point, after dating for some time, where I was sure I was going to marry eventually. Had all the qualities I was looking for. But like …
/r/MGTOW16/12/19 09:56 AM
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Same direction, different setting.
/r/MGTOW16/12/19 08:48 AM
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Yeah that’s a strat lol. I used to have a thin line semi-hollow body tele. Miss that thing. Grab a vox tube amp while you’re at it. All you really need.
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 04:14 AM
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No one is “given” positions of responsibility and influence. You earn it, you take it. That’s on you. You’re basically using this argument as a way to justify your entitlement. I don’t see a difference between you and them.
/r/AntiFeminists02/09/19 07:32 PM
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