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You shouldn't be going on a trip with a guy you just met and he's doing something called "future faking" where you are supposed to swoon and think he's serious because he's already planning the future and including you in his life. Prepare to be used for the next five months. And if you do make it that far he can buy you a round trip ticket that you confirm with the airline
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:53 AM
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Disgusting, that isn't funny and he looks like all of the above
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:51 AM
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She's so done. She's too cute for this but I think she'll get better men in her DMs from the show. Very smart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:44 AM
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texted a lot over the "holidays, and he hinted at meeting up; he was willing to drive 5 hrs and meet up with me (we were both in CA)" Willing to or actually did? I'm hearing a whole lot of talk and not a lot of action here. He needs an emotional connection but slept with you on the 4th date? He was "willing to drive" but did he? Don't fall for bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 05:46 AM
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You really need to read the book not your mother's rules preferably the audiobook I think it will clear a lot of things up for you and it's a big confidence booster
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 05:32 AM
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Yeah girl I think you should just watch him for consistency for about 6 months before you start falling for him hardcore. I understand he's excited about you but when you spend that much time with a guy that soon sometimes it can fizzle or you can get too invested. plus the fact that he randomly told you he respects sexual boundaries before you even had your fourth date was kind of weird. Nice guys don't tell you how nice they are and presume you want the D after only 3 dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 05:31 AM
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Hilarious "Amal Clooney feat. Spouse"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 05:26 AM
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I'm at the point in my life at 25 years old where I don't even need proof and I know deep down inside you want to be like that too and you can allow yourself to be that woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:33 AM
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Agree 100% she's going to be one of those women who's turning 43 years old freshly divorced. obviously these women aren't worthless but she's probably pretty and she's young and obviously has a heart. her stupid fucking boyfriend or fiance or whatever is going to nightclubs I would break up on the spot. She should listen to audiobooks by Lundy barcroft, Louise Hay and Christiane Northrup and "wolf in sheep's clothing" "gift of fear" "not your mother's rules".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:24 AM
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If he gives you any other response other than to immediately hand it over even if he does Huff and puff a little, dump immediately even if you DON'T have proof and you bet he will get angry and text you constantly you need to break up with him and block him.... The fact that a 26 year-old wanted to date a 19 year old is a huge red flag in the first place. I know you might feel the impulse to defend your fiance but not only is your gut feeling giving you plenty of intuition that you should not ga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:18 AM
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Not your mother's rules and all the rules (audio version only) and Louise hay audio books. Audio is way more effective than book form
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:15 AM
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Amal is fucking strikingly beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:12 AM
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That's right I agree but maybe Beyonce is just not ready to take that step. I was just guessing at her reasoning. She should definitely dump his ass and write an album
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:04 AM
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My grandmother had a boyfriend when she was 92 he was so tall LOL and nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 03:54 AM
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does he know that period Blood is the same thing that was lining the uterus when he was conceived and that he was surrounded by period Blood? Does this guy know what a placenta is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 03:51 AM
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Can we start a GoFundMe for this guy to bleed out of his ass hole for 1/4 of the month?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 03:50 AM
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She is so cute and beautiful. There is no wall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 03:16 AM
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Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:48 AM
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You can make good money on YouTube
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 12:37 AM
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I agree, we have only known each other for 8 weeks and he left a few weeks ago so it's very new, he didn't do anything for my birthday but I'm going to wait and see what he does for Valentine's. I mean he has my address so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 12:34 AM
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No problem, for confidence boost I always listen over and over and over to the audiobook "not your mother's rules". Really changed my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 12:32 AM
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He must have borrowed his friends suit and then taking a picture in front of his friends house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 12:30 AM
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I have consistently noticed that that smirk with one side higher than the other, and with the eyebrows pushed together and forehead raised above (like pensive quizzical eyebrow not a frown) is a red flag one hundred percent of the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 12:29 AM
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You are only 22. When you are older there will be a fuck ton of nice high-value men who are right now finishing college or still kind of growing up a little because a lot of men are convinced they need to have a bachelor phase. I was absolutely shocked because between my teenage years through about age 24 men were a total shitshow but at 24 I met two really high value guys. Just wait until you get into the work world and people have matured a little bit. The places you're hanging out at 22 are n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 12:22 AM
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read the book " not your mother's rules" as well as read the book "He's not that into you " and watch the movie and you will never revert back..... Preferably get the audio version so you can listen to over and over. also I hate to break it to you but a guy who really likes you will not be able to stop himself from texting you every single day because you are on his mind all the time. what I would do in the beginning stages of my relationship is I would literally delete his number and all texts.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 12:19 AM
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Roll tide
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 12:17 AM
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I would recommend taking a solid year off just to lose the weight but to also pamper yourself, maybe on the weekends you read books you like or you go to new places for hikes. I was always attractive but I definitely gained 15 pounds which doesn't sound like a lot but it's noticeable and I do show a lot of weight in my face. I was fucking tired of being constantly rejected for a relationship because I wasn't "my best" physically. If I was going to be rejected, it was going to be for my personali…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 12:08 AM
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I mean humility goes a long way with all people. Tell him you are sorry you abruptly ended things and you were feeling very emotionally volatile because it was the anniversary of your mother's death which I'm so sorry for by the way. A high-value man will hug you and he will say it is no problem. a low-value man is going to make a big stink about how you should be in a perfect mood all the time. it's not like you're lying. If somebody freaked out on the anniversary of anybody's death or anything…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:58 PM
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I would definitely not do a long distance relationship unless he made it very clear that he was going to close the gap within a year. I definitely wouldn't be exclusive with anyone who was distance but even then I'm not one for casual dating so I definitely wouldn't do it at all. I'm actually doing it right now because my boyfriend is at a training camp for 3 months but he is constantly telling me he misses me, he asks to FaceTime me every Saturday night probably to make sure I'm not out with ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:46 PM
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I think some men are in for a huge reality shock when women over the age of 26 or so are not willing to "see how it goes" for years and years and yes one guy was very scared of me when I politely asked him "what are you looking for from this app- a girlfriend or a casual fling?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:44 PM
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"I'm breaking her heart, she couldn't handle it". Fuck off Jerry, my ex said this bullshit and we didn't even date for 11 months... I would constantly ask him direct questions he would passively answer diplomatically. then when I dumped his ass after going through his phone and finding things I shouldn't have, he was shocked and I cried the entire next day but then I literally did not cry again even though I did have authentic love in my heart. For some reason they think that if you love them yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:42 PM
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I hope you blocked I don't understand women who don't block. Don't even give him the mental space. You'll feel better it's not about revenge allow yourself to check your phone without being subjected to slime bags trying to sleep with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:36 PM
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yeah but the high-value woman, if she is over 25 is hopefully well versed in men, can detect the level of authenticity. it's pretty common to be naive in your late teens or early twenties. I can always tell when a guy has a leather jacket and some charm but you can tell he was a total fucking loser before. Also low-value man who turned high-value don't hold up to intense stress. kind of like Sofia Vergara's husband who claims that he needs her to feel better about himself. They still need Mommy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:34 PM
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He got "divorce raped" without an actual court of law. And he's bragging about it. This woman is genius.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:30 PM
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She's pretty AND smart. Of course she doesn't care if he sleeps with others. She doesn't care about him at all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:28 PM
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"guys even if you are ugly there is a poor woman in a European farm town who will sleep with you so long as you give her cash for her living expenses and child expenses"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:27 PM
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Oh sad And he admits he's fucking ugly (incel self label). Wow, this stripper is so pretty and she's dancing for ME? She must love me. She says I'm her favorite guest at the strip club! Spends $500
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:25 PM
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This man says he doesn't even live in the same country as her but he's paying for all her expenses... Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:25 PM
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I can't respect a guy who swoons over me because I"won't put up with his shit". Give me a man who doesn't give me any shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 09:44 PM
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It makes it very difficult to manipulate you into no strings attached sex. Arrrrrg! /S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:49 PM
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How to avoid FDS women- Don't pay for dates Don't ask her out Dont text her first Don't plan in advance And lastly Don't freak out when zero women at all will date you because you fucking suck compared to other men who call for dates and pay for them and love and respect women while we love and respect them back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:48 PM
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Not even real rape charges are prosecuted without eyewitnesses and medical proof (you usually aren't thinking clearly to go to the hospital if it's the first time being fucking raped). The only people I've ever heard talking about fake rape reports were actual rapist themselves, like where I had first hand experience of them ignoring sexual boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:45 PM
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I'm sure he'll dump her at the advice of Reddit and when he's 35 he'll realize that any woman worth having is accustomed to men paying (like it's a turn off if he doesn't because most men do). He looks like weak provider if I ever married and had his children. He probably never would have DATED dated her if she hadn't used FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:41 PM
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"using him" Her time and body "on the open market"would be worth thousands, theoretically. I can make $40 in the two hours I was on a dinner date at a job. You know? My ex was weird about paying but I moved on to someone who made $17k a month (he was bragging and I called BS, it was not BS). my pathetic ex left voice mail (you can't block voice mail) saying how he made 32/hr now. LMAO. They think you are after their money when all you do is go on a $40 date once a week. She could be making that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:40 PM
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That guy has so many spelling errors it's no wonder he can't afford red lobster... He can't even write a resume
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:22 PM
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Yes, because he thinks he "knows better" and can "teach you"and has some weird fantasy about you doing the thing you hate and loving it and then thanking him for showing you. Not only a blatant disregard for your boundaries but an ego thing too. He will also push sexual things on you that you initially don't want and you'll feel disgusted with yourself in and out of the bedroom in addition to not safe (emotionally) and then when you become anxious he'll tell you to "chill out" which again lets h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:16 PM
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The worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:13 PM
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Sending a text takes about fifteen seconds. Shows poor time management and "not that into youness" if he can't take 2 minutes from his day. My guy texts me all day every day if I want to but usually I will keep it shorter. But also I feel you I've fallen for that before in early twenties.i think my desperate attempts to get him to text me more was me noticing he didn't give a shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:12 PM
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One tool that I really love is app timers.you can literally shut down your texting app and make it unavailable unless you turn the app timer off. Makes you feel way less pressure to respond to things right away. or if you want your mental space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:07 PM
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Took me until I was 24 to learn this but men are Very Receptive to boundaries and being ignored if they don't act right. I don't want a guy I have to train, but sometimes a guy is just clueless in the first few days (nothing bad, like maybe if he's not asking me out I'll say "look if you don't want to move this past text I understand but I'm moving on because I want to be asked out, not texted all day" BAM date. Alternatively the bad ones will have some sort of issue with your boundaries. Also i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:51 PM
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I can't believe she hasn't fallen out of love with him and kicked his ass to the curb. You just can't respect a man with no integrity. Maybe she wants blue ivy to have the most normal childhood possible because the paparazzi would make it a nightmare and blue already has so much to deal with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:48 PM
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Am I the only one who doesn't want a man who tells other women he's not looking for anything serious (after sleeping together) for years? That's not a prize for me. It makes me want to reject him for the dignity of the women. It's ok to hookup of he tells her beforehand that's all he wants, or has multiple girlfriends that didn't work out for normal reasons .. But I'm not interested in "catching" a guy who just uses women but I'm "special". All women are special I see so many women every day who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:42 PM
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