Upper-Professor4409 Archive

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–	Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has. Yeah Trump wont fix anything at all, but the intention for a lot of his voters is not to fix their own life, its to make others suffer. Misery loves company after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 09:02 PM
–	Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has. Yeah Trump wont fix anything at all, but the intention for a lot of his voters is not to fix, but to make others suffer. Misery loves company after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 09:02 PM
–	Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has. I'm in my 30s, still live with my parents, and I STILL can enter relationships with men I'm attracted to at any time I see fit. See how the standards are a little different for men though? I highly doubt a man in his 30's whos living with his parents would get much of any success with women, regardless of his looks. Men have to hit certain milestones at very specific points in our life to be considered attractive. Thats part of the reason why men still out earn women and tend to occupy higher po…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 06:42 PM
3	The “average man” line of thought plays a sizeable role on my men are miserable but only a small percentage of men try to lose weight let alone go to the gym, this tells us that a sizeable reason why most miserable men are that way. The obesity rates between genders are roughly equal so this is a moot point. If obese women are unwilling to date obese men then those women need to adjust thier standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 03:00 PM
1	Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior. Yeah It really depends man, my uncle was severely physically abused by his ex wife and it culminated in her smashing a half bottle of liqour across his head. He still has some motor control issues due to brain damage 10 years later. Because of my personal experience and that of my family I dont view female on male physical abuse as any less severe than vice versa. The strength of humans is not in our raw physical ability, its in our capability to use tools, and both men and women are capable of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 06:09 PM
2	Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior. But why? If a woman wants to give her child up for adoption that child is now the responsibility of the state until they can find new parents for them. Why is it ok for women to leave a child to the state but its not ok for a man to do the same?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 03:36 PM
2	Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior. A guy who beats his wife is worse than a woman who verbally abuses her husband As someone who has been a victim of both, the physical abuse is scarier in the moment, but its some of the things my ex said to me that have really stuck with me and caused lasting pain. Physical wounds can heal over time, mental wounds are more elusive, you can think youre over them, but then they come roaring back when youre in a dark place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 03:31 PM
–	Why does it seem like many women online feel entitled to so much from men? Ok so is manosphere content just rage bait, or is it a worrying trend?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 09:45 PM
–	The Sexual Diversity Movement is a Cultural Invasion Culture does not give a person the right to dictate others sexuality of gender expression. If a person identifies as gay or trans thats their prerogative, others who share their culture have no right to tell them how to live their life just because such life choices arent a part of their culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 05:44 PM
–	The Sexual Diversity Movement is a Cultural Invasion Some people talk about male or female brain but it is by no means a broadly accepted theory among gender studies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 05:39 PM
–	Sexism and hypocrisy/little boys and adult female teachers I mean, its not just men who are saying that gross shit, all the perpatrators of these crimes seem to believe theres nothing wrong with a female teaxher sleeping with their underage male student. And theres a significant number of women who jump to the defense of these statutory rapists by saying the boy wanted it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 02:45 AM
–	CMV: Dating apps work perfectly fine and the way they should; there is no actual way to improve them. Apps absoluetly do not work how theyre advertized. Their is documented evidence that suggests their designed to encourage hookups and casual flings instead of serious relationships. And of course they are, if they were successful at getting their users into LTRs they would rapidly lose their userbase. No, they want to make sure you keep coming back for more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/25 07:09 PM
3	False Rape Allegations: An Overexaggerated Truth All high quality studies, large representative sample size, with consistent definitions and review from researchers trained in rape myths and bias determine that the rate of false accusations to police is between 2-10 %. Blue pillers cite this number as if it strengthens your argument, when it really doesnt. Thats still a 1/50 to 1/10 chance that a sexual assault allegation is false, thats huge. Its a perfect example of why all allegations have to be scrutinized, and why defendants must be assum…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/25 04:48 PM
0	What is a high value woman? I dont like to categorize people into "high" or "low" value, I think thats dehumanizing. What I look for in a woman is high compatibility because I know the things I value in a potential partner do not encompass the whole range of things that can make a person valuable. First off she has to be beautiful, appearance is important and Im simply mot going to ask out a woman who I dont first find attractive. But for me attractiveness is not purely physical. I have seen the beauty of a woman just melt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/25 03:45 PM
7	What issues that men experience should we focus on? Studies have been done on it and the researchers found no correlation between violent videogames and propensity for violence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/25 12:22 AM
9	What issues that men experience should we focus on? Videogames do not teach a person about anything related to war. Thats like saying kids playing make believe with sticks are training for war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 11:21 PM
3	What issues that men experience should we focus on? Ok, one side does that and the other side does that plus deploys tradtional ground, sea and air forces. Guess whos going to win...	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 11:19 PM
4	What's your impression of femdom? Idk about femdom, but quite a lot friends throughout my life have told me they wished their girlfriends/wives took a more proactive role in the bedroom. Like they felt it was almost always up to them to not only be the initiator of sex, but also be the one to set the pace and make the decisions during it. I myself have felt that very same feeling, and although I didnt bring it up it was a part of the reason why I felt we should break up, I too want to feel desired and relinquish control sometime…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/25 02:27 PM
1	Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually. Idk, I just hear from a lot feminists that mens problems are mens alone to fix, and that we shouldnt ask women to help or to change, we should just shut up about our problems because us talking about them somehow detracts from womens issues. But in this case it is a pervasive problem across gender lines and it will take all of us to change things for the better. So thats where I get the feeling that a lot of feminists are unreceptive to any suggestion that the toxic ideals about masculinity held…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/25 12:20 AM
2	Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually. Yes it is a part of machismo, but we have to remeber that this form of harmful masculinity is upheld and enforced by women too, not just men. For myself and a lot of other men it was our mothers or other female relatives, and the women that we've been in relationships with that were the primary enforcers and encouragers of machismo. It was my mother, not my father, that told me boys dont cry. A lot of the women in my life believe that men are supposed to be rugid, stoic, and strong, and to be re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 09:42 PM
–	Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck you Fsir enough but dont you think those guys are assholes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 05:34 PM
4	Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually. There is still the notion that women are weak and thus won't do damage to men. Id say its not just that, theres also a deeply ingrained macho standard at play here that tells men they are supposed be tough, and that admitting pain or suffering is weakness, and weakness is specifically reviled in men. I agree that there is still a pervasive and harmful stereotype that women are weak, but it can also be beneficial to women in some ways. It gives women permission to be weak, which is fundimentally …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 05:02 PM
–	Men, stop whining about women not wanting to passionately f*ck you How do you feel about guys who dont care to sexually satisfy their psrtner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 04:43 PM
4	Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually. Point out where in my comment I ever agreed with the OP, I just stated something that happened to my family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 04:33 PM
5	Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually. But my comment isnt contentless agreement, its a personal anecdote that is relevant to the topic at hand. Like seriously I have never seen this rule enforced in this way on any other debate post, I see plenty of people agreeing with the OP all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 04:28 PM
5	Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually. How is this circle jerking? Through personal experience Im pointing out how its hard for men to even recognize theyre being abused until something extreme happens, because our culture tells us that female abusers either dont exist or arent harmful in the same way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 04:21 PM
3	Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually. Youre just wrong buddy. Look up the Duluth model, its a prime example of the invalidation and systemic discriminstion that male abuse victims are subject to, and it was adopted by police forces and judiciaries across the western world. Its changing slowly, but many still believe women cannot be abusers, or if they can abuse its harmless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 04:16 PM
8	We have been conditioned to rely on our spouse/partner for everything and I think this puts a lot of pressure in marriages/LTRs Yep, this is caused by the nuclear family concept that refuses to die. Post WW2 the nuclear family in a suburban castle, disconnected from one another beyond the occasional garden party, was marketed as the "traditional and healthy" family. This could not be further from the truth, the nuclear family is a thoroughly post modern concept. Truly traditional family structure places large extended families within a tightly knit and culturally homogenous community, essentially a tribe, or a family of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 04:05 PM
–	Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually. My Uncle didnt recognize his alcoholic ex-wife was abusive until she smashed a half full bottle of liqour across his head. To add insult to injury the cops tried to arrest and throw him in holding for the night, but the EMTs insisted they bring him to a hospital. Thank God they did because he had a brain bleed. He lost hearing in one ear and is still suffering from brain damage to this day over 20 years later. And the best part? His ex never spent a day in jail, the cops didnt even think to char…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 03:36 PM
17	Women Don’t See Themselves as Abusers—Physically or Sexually. Yes but broadly speaking our society is far more likely to recognizes them as an abuser. And if someone sees signs of abuse theyre far more likely speak up and take action if the victim is a woman. Female abusers can get away with physically assaulting their man in public and chances are no one will intervene, some people will even cheer as if its funny or entertaining. Like it wasnt too long ago that the Duluth model was in widespread use by police agencies across the western world. The Duluth …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 03:22 PM
–	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD How is ragebait meaningfully different from hate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 06:33 PM
11	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD A lot of feminists have been telling men that their standards are harmful to women for years now, and that men need to adjust those standards for the sake of women. But when we say womens standards are harmful to men its suddenly "just personal prefrence bro, no changing it." Just be consistent. Are all personal prefrences imutable, or should we ask people to broaden their prefrences to be more inclusive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 06:24 PM
1	How can men be physically sexy in a tasteful way? Do you think "being sexy" is a social skill? The CEO absoluetly does not get to decide those things, they would be fired by the board of directors if they even tried to. No, the board of directors chooses a ceo based on his ability to find and manage talent, not to be the talent. A lot of focus testing and market research is involved as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/25 02:02 PM
0	How can men be physically sexy in a tasteful way? Do you think "being sexy" is a social skill? Im sorry but youre just wrong, what gay men find attractive and what straight women find attractive often overlaps. Also the fashion industry isnt entirely gay men, thats an ignorant myth. There are plenty of female designers that make clothes for men and they get to choose the models that wear their fashion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 10:02 PM
1	How can men be physically sexy in a tasteful way? Do you think "being sexy" is a social skill? Bullshit, many of the biggest hearthrobs for women started out in the modeling industry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 06:25 PM
3	How can men be physically sexy in a tasteful way? Do you think "being sexy" is a social skill? All of this yes. Also when it comes to beach/pool attire formless knee length trunks are the opposite of sexy. I see so many guys with great physiques wearing these and it does them no favors. They dont have to be super form fitting, but they should be nicely tailored and not go lower than the middle of the thigh, let me see them legs!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 06:15 PM
5	Benevolent sexism is just called privilege After Vietnam, the draft is so politically toxic that neither party can trigger it, at least for another half century if not more. The draft has been politically toxic every time its been used, even in WW2 and the Civil War, two wars where the best case could be made for its necessity. It being a radioactive political issue has never stopped a draft from getting bipartisan support because the wants and needs of the DoD will always supercede the will of the people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 07:29 PM
6	Benevolent sexism is just called privilege Likewise, the current president bragged about not starting new wars and keeping America out of foreign conflicts, only to immediately start threatening Denmark, Panama, and Canada. So then why do you believe mens concerns of a draft are unfounded? And saying that the last draft ended over 50 years ago is not a compelling argument. Before WW1 there hadnt been a draft in the USA in over 50 years, that didnt stop the US government from bringing it back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 07:01 PM
7	Benevolent sexism is just called privilege A lot of women in my country are concerned about the status of reproductive rights because of whats happening in the USA right now, even though none of our political parties intend to take away womens reproductive rights, and reproductive rights are written into our countries equivalent of the American Bill of Rights. Would you say their concerns are invalid?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 06:12 PM
7	Proof of innocence is not enough to save a man's reputation/ life when accused of sexual assault. And that's why we should scrutinize every accusation But accusations of sex crimes carry a lot more weight than anything else you mentioned, some see them as equivalent or worse than murder. Like even among convicts sex criminals are treated as pariahs worthy of violence. Because they are so serious we have to scrutinize sexual assault alegations more than most other crimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 10:47 PM
–	The common retort of “let women be delusional it only hurts them” is disingenuous and ignores the very real implications of hypergamy and inflated standards What about the beauty standards society places on women, arent they harmful?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/25 02:27 AM
1	Men reported significantly higher rates of child sexual abuse by religious perpetrators Id like to point put that this happened far more often under the American occupation and secular rule of Afghanistan than it did before or after American pressence.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/02/25 08:34 PM
–	Misandry is just as bad as racism. I agree that a significant ammount lf of the panic is online. But I do also see it IRL. When I was still in uni there were regular radical feminist seminars that would scaremonger about how dangerous everything was for women on campus. Disregarding the fact that the city my uni was in is among the safest in the world, and the part of the city its in is known for having a nearly non existent crime rate. It was just a level of fearmongering that was entirely inappropriate for the reality of the si…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 05:30 PM
–	Misandry is just as bad as racism. Agreed, its important to be wary of every stranger, man or woman. But its the constant fearmongering that really grinds my gears. Like in my country of nearly 40 million people about 200 women were murdered last year. While every one of those deaths is tragic, is it really enough to warrent the ammount of paranoia some of the women in my country have about men? Enough to say that every single man is a potential killer waiting to happen and should be treated accordingly? I dont believe it is. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 05:21 PM
–	Healthcare, Social Security, Welfare, and Education aren't needs. (The Matter of Fact) The law is predicated on coercion. The threat of law enforcement is the only way to ensure laws have any meaning and are followed. Its the reason why law enforcment and the military has a near monoply on legal violence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 06:59 PM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. Thats an irrelevant distinction. My point was that plenty of men do care what kind of csreer their partner has.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 06:37 AM
3	Ukrainian men charged over killing of army draft officer Simple. If you wish to receive the benefits of living in a nation during the good times, you must also be willing to support it when times get hard. And what if he doesnt feel his countries government has been doing a good job? You seem to believe citizens owe their life to the state, which is again, kind of fascist.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/02/25 03:34 AM
1	Ukrainian men charged over killing of army draft officer What if a man doesnt want to fight for his country because he no longer believes in his country? Should he just be thrown in jail or shot for being anti-patriotic? Because that sounds a lot like fascism to me.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/02/25 03:32 AM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. Plenty of men wont date an OF model.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/25 12:08 AM
1	Fix for dating and loneliness lies in valuing happy singledom (mostly for men) Im sorry but I disagree with this entirely. Its predicated on the old myth that women are not sexual beings, that women merely put up with sex to please their partner. If this were true why are there so many women who are willing to get into and stay in bad relationships, even ones that dont materially benefit them? Why are there women who seek out casual hookups? Why are romance novels that the reader is supposed to self insert into so popular among women? The truth is most women arent perfectl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 09:20 PM
9	Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true. Modern medicine does not stand by the notion that needs are linearly hierarchichal, base suvival needs on their own are not enough to maintain physical wellbeing. The heirarchy of needs makes the false assumption that humans are perfectly rational beings, but mental and physical needs are understood to be strongly intertwined, both affecting eachother deeply. A lack of social interaction or intimacy can and will lead to mental health conditions that have negative effects to physical wellbeing. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 09:12 AM
0	Men dont care about men’s issue. What women’s issues? Well its obvious women who vote for Trump dont care about abortion rights for one. I outline why I said that in the post. Read the post And I found your argumemt unconvincing. In my experience as a man plenty of men care and talk about mens issues, we're just not doing that around women. And your argument that men dont care about mens issues because were not as zealous as MAGA fans is flawed, because you could say the same about faminism. Feminists arent as zealous as MAGA f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 05:43 PM
1	Men dont care about men’s issue. Such as? I have a feeling I know, but I want you to say it. A majority of older white women voted for Trump, and a signficant portion of young women also voted for Trump. Anyway, that was not my point. My point was that some women not giving a damn about womens issues does not mean all women dont care, or that men shouldnt care about womens issues. Men in general dont is my argument. Not true. You just think that because men generally dont talk about mens issues to women. Especially women like y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 05:14 PM
7	Men dont care about men’s issue. And here I thought women were supposed to be better at multi tasking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 05:11 PM
6	Men dont care about men’s issue. Im sorry, what are you asking?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 05:06 PM
9	Men dont care about men’s issue. Its was mens issues meeting, stop being willfully ignorant/obtuse, its obvious that feminists were protesting it because anarchism has no quarrel with mens right activism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 05:06 PM
6	Men dont care about men’s issue. So when feminists are anti-mens rights activism are men justified in going into their meetings to sabotage them and vandalize them? And the articles you posted dont prove theyre anti-feminist either, criticizing individual feminists or certain feminists principals does not mean a person is against the entire concept of feminism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 05:00 PM
1	Men dont care about men’s issue. Women dont care about womens issues. Example: plenty of women voted for Trump. This idea that some men dont care about mens issues, and thats why no woman should ever care about mens issues, is really flawed. Just because some women dont care about womens issues and actively vote against their own best imterests doesnt mean both men and women on the left should stop fighting for womens rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 04:54 PM
1	Istanbul Convention, ratified by 38 countries, lies that women are the primary victims of war and that women are held in subordinate positions to men, with violence. Ok, but thats your choice. Why should someone else who does not want to fight be forced to remain in an active warzone? And if this violation of rights is neccesary why should women not be subject to this aswell? Women are also capable of serving in the armed forces.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 04:50 PM
1	Istanbul Convention, ratified by 38 countries, lies that women are the primary victims of war and that women are held in subordinate positions to men, with violence. Trust me, homophobia rarely prevents a person from engaging in homosexuality, it just makes them more eratic and potetnially violent afterwards. I Know from experience. And in the other major ongoing conflict, the Israel Gaza war, its actually far more common for males to be raped. Rape is very common in Israeli concentrarion camps, and the inmates are by and large men and boys, some of whom are as young as twelve. And its not just male guards commiting these acts, female guards are chosen for t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 04:44 PM
1	Istanbul Convention, ratified by 38 countries, lies that women are the primary victims of war and that women are held in subordinate positions to men, with violence. How is forcing specifically men to remain in an active war zone not both gendered discrimination and a violation of human rights?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 02:30 AM
1	Istanbul Convention, ratified by 38 countries, lies that women are the primary victims of war and that women are held in subordinate positions to men, with violence. Because implying sexual violonce is a concern primarily for female civilians erases the fact that rape is commomly committed against male civilians and prisoners of war. I really dont understand what is so hard about recognizing rape is something that civilians of both genders suffer from during war.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 01:52 AM
1	Istanbul Convention, ratified by 38 countries, lies that women are the primary victims of war and that women are held in subordinate positions to men, with violence. But female civilians dont face more impact, the rape of male civilians in war is also very common, and adrocide(systemic killing of males 15 and up) of civilians is far more common than femicide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 01:28 AM
3	Istanbul Convention, ratified by 38 countries, lies that women are the primary victims of war and that women are held in subordinate positions to men, with violence. Sexual violence is commonly commited against men during war. Just look at Abu Ghraib or Guantanamo, and many Americans cheered for that during the war on terror. Sexual violence against Palestinian men and boys in Israeli concentration camps is also a common occurence. And before anyone tries to say this is men doing this to other men, no, its not just men doing this. Many female guards actively participate in these crimes, female guards are specifically chosen for the job because it is thought …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 12:43 AM
1	Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far right The white feathers werent a feminist movement. They were a British government sponsored pro war movement. And the bomb making feminists came way after rhe early feminists Im talking about.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/02/25 10:49 PM
0	Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far right There is no amount of purity in a men's movement that is going to be "pure enough" for ideological feminists not to find something thats misogynistic. Thats why I say we need to ignore them whenever possible, and engage calmly if we must. When we engage with their anti-male rhetoric in a combative way we essentially legitimize it, they become "truisms" that we're forced to debunk because of the negative stereotypes we're already working against. We have to recognize that theyre coming from the p…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/02/25 08:16 PM
6	Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far right Did either movement even try to police their members? Ime most feminists and BLM activists do everything in their power to excuse or downplay the bigotry coming from their ranks.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/02/25 07:40 PM
4	Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far right Yeah this sub really needs better moderation, I think rightwing users need to be flaired appropriatly so we can know where theyre coming from.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/02/25 07:38 PM
4	Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far right as if feminism wasnt full of misandrists. Not just used to be full...but still full Shouldnt we strive to be better than that? I think we have to try to ignore feminism. Criticize misandry and feminism when and where it misrepresents or dismises mens issues, but this endless tit for tat gender war, that ammounts to nothing more than oppresion olympics, is a waste of time at best and harmful to our movement at worst. I agree that prof you quoted is a misandric ass, and that kind of rhetoric is al…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/02/25 07:25 PM
-6	Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far right I mean, it goes both ways. The MRA movement hasnt done a good job of keeping far right influences out either. Just look at the top posts and comments of arr/MRA, its riddled with rightwing talking points that are mostly upvoted. If we do decide on a new title to work under we'll need be very vigilent in policing it to remove bad actors on the right that inted to co-opt the movement to their own ends, and also those who want to discredit mens rights activism by saying purposefully inflamatory thi…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/02/25 05:02 PM
5	Discussing gender issues--my friend wants me to abandon the 'MRA' label because they feel the movement is beyond redemption and I don't want to be guilty by association of propping up the far right I believe MRA as a title should be abandoned by anyone who actually wants to advance mens issues. Not only has it been dragged through the mud by those who are against mens issues activism, a lot of genuine mysognists have used that title to push their own vile ideology. In a way both the mysoginists and misandrists have succeeded at posing the MRA movement in oposition to Feminism, and I dont think productive conversation can happen under that paradigm anymore. I dont really know what our movem…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/02/25 04:51 PM
2	Quiet people are always assumed to be “too scared and self-conscious to just socialize like normal people”. However, some times this is not the case. Some people aren’t shy, they simply have a blank mind through no fault of their own. This effects men’s dating prospects more than women’s… Again, youre just wrong. Like women, men value compatibility when choosing a long term partner as much if not more than physical appearance. There are some shallow people, both male and female, who value looks above all, but theyre not the majority of either gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 09:31 PM
1	Are you woried about feminism? I would tell her to be cautious of any stranger. Many women participate in the sex trafficking industry as perpatrators, they actually prey uppon this very notion of sisterhood and the myth that women are safer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 08:40 PM
3	Are you woried about feminism? Last year in the USA about 1000 men were murdered by their wives and about 1300 women were murdered by their husbands, so no, this idea that men pose a unique risk to their partners is false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 08:36 PM
4	Are you woried about feminism? And your statement is also just an opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 08:21 PM
6	Quiet people are always assumed to be “too scared and self-conscious to just socialize like normal people”. However, some times this is not the case. Some people aren’t shy, they simply have a blank mind through no fault of their own. This effects men’s dating prospects more than women’s… Thats simply not true. Men are just more forgivning of certain personality quirks in women, like shyness or awkwardness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 06:55 PM
7	Quiet people are always assumed to be “too scared and self-conscious to just socialize like normal people”. However, some times this is not the case. Some people aren’t shy, they simply have a blank mind through no fault of their own. This effects men’s dating prospects more than women’s… The ND women I know dont really stuggle to get relationships. Sure they dont have men falling all over them like some NT women, but they dont struggle nearly as much as some of the ND men I know. And these guys arent socially inept either, theyre good at coping with and working around their difficulties, but ime women are much less forgiving of ND traits in men even if theyre well hidden.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 06:47 PM
1	Men should care about friendship for the sake of friendship on its own, but if that’s not compelling enough, they should care because friendship has benefits for potentially leading to romantic love Almost all men do care about friendship for the sake of it, I do not understand where anyone got the idea that men in general dont value friendships. But when has friendship ever been enough to completely fill the void of loneliness? When youre a chlid it is. But almost all adults want to have both friends and a romantic partner they can spend their lives with. The vast majority of people desire a romantic partner, so much so theyll stay in bad/unfulfiling relationships just to avoid being alone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 09:00 PM
–	Selective Service is not proof that men have harder lives Thats what the US governement would like you to believe, but its simply not true. Americans had the privilege not to be drafted into either Afghanistan or Iraq because Afghanis and Iraqis were drafted to serve as rank and file grunts for the meat grinder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 08:23 PM
–	Selective Service is not proof that men have harder lives Oftentimes they conflate it with the draft despite the fact that there has been no draft in the United States in 50 years. So what? Before WW1 there hadnt been a draft in the US for almost 60 years, that didnt stop them from implementing one. Just because one hasnt happened in a while thats not a valid argument to say it will never happen. And I see a lot of comments on this post saying a draft would never happen again because it would be unpopular. Bullshit. The draft has never been popular amo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 08:15 PM
–	Women are the superior gender for modern society. What the fuck are you even on about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 03:41 AM
1	Thoughts on Fathers who invoke “parental alienation” in custody fights have a high chance of success, even when their abuse has been substantiated? The first two links are news articles, so theyre essentially worthless drivel. Journalists often take studys and spin them to completely misrepresents the actual conclusions of the study, to serve their own partisan ends. From the last link, the one thats an actual scientific paper: Again, these data do not prove that these custody reversals were ill-advised; the data tells us nothing about why the courts deemed the mothers to be worse parents than the fathers Why are these articles assuming the…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/01/25 04:09 PM
6	How are young men being disenfranchised? Youre just wrong though. Education is by no measure a level playing field for men and women. Multiple studies show teachers grade female students better for the same work as male stuedents. Admission departments have been instructed to favor female candidates over male candidates for years now, all things equal, they will pick the female candidate 9 times out of 10. And there are countless grants and scholarships specifically for women on top of all the ones that are gender nuetral, there are ve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 07:47 PM
1	The true RP position is that male friendships, not romantic relationships, are the answer to the male loneliness epidemic If friends is all a person needs why is everyone not fully satisfied with only having friends? Why is it that 99.9% of people desire to have a romantic partner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 10:36 PM
3	CMV: Confident, smart women intimidate males Its a white lie, theyre preserving her feelings. She needs to eork on her humility. Like lets flip it around. Think of a guy who is super average looks wise, hes even a little obese, but he claims hes really smart and he also thinks hes hot shit, hes confident and hes obnoxious about it. Do you find that type of guy attractive? Now think of a guy who is looks matched and just as smart as the guy above, but instead hes humble, dont you think he would be a lot more attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 05:06 PM
7	CMV: Confident, smart women intimidate males Plenty of fat men, and even some normal weight men, are willing or even seek to date fat women. Its actually been studied and shown that women tend to have a more stringent weight prefrence than men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 04:57 PM
2	CMV: Confident, smart women intimidate males Yeah no, her friends are lying to her to save her feelings. They know just as well why shes single, and its not because shes smart or confident. Its because shes obnoxious. Women dont like men who are over confident or a smart ass either, in general those are bad traits to have. Both confidence and inteligence need to be balanced with some humility for them to ne attractive traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 04:55 PM
2	Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single. I mean, you hear plenty of unsuccessful men claim to have lots of opportunity and they get ruthlesslesly torn to shreds, called liars, etc. When an unseccessful woman starts to go on about how she gets so much attention i highly doubt it. Like maybe she gets a lot of matches on dating apps, but thats not reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 04:49 PM
7	Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single. For example hyper gamified dating apps that enable and encourage antisocial behavior because it’s profitable If you think about it, what incentive do these dating apps have to actually help anyone find a relationship? If anything they have the opposite incentive. If they actually match you with a good partner, and you both get serious, theyve lost two customers. These apps only want you to get into hookups or short term flings at most, because thats what keeps you coming back for more. I dont ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 04:43 PM
3	My take on how society has failed men and has contributed to extreme red pill ideology. No but there is a cultural stigma applied to men who are diagnosed with mental health conditions that is simply not present for women. This discourages a lot of men from seeking help for mental illness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 03:02 AM
3	My take on how society has failed men and has contributed to extreme red pill ideology. The point is going way over your head. The fact that so many more women are medicated for mental health issues shows that more women sre getting the professional help they need.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 01:28 AM
1	My take on how society has failed men and has contributed to extreme red pill ideology. Plenty of men were sterilized for being deemed "mentaly unfit"	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 01:25 AM
1	Q4Men: how would you feel if your wife made these typically “male” comments/ posts online? And many women act like this online as well	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 09:32 PM
0	What does your ideal society look like My country already requires community service to graduate high school	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 04:45 PM
-2	The reasons women show while talking against "financial" abortion is eerily similar to the same reasoning that conservatives show for banning abortion. But if a woman wants to abort solely for financial reasons shouldnt she be entitled to it? If so why should a man not have that right as well?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 03:06 PM
2	There is a double standard where it's socially acceptable for women to be rude and controlling with their male partners. I think he means girlfriend as in friend who is a girl, not romantic partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 12:05 AM
2	You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything. The two largest predictors of child abuse are poverty and single parenthood. Deadbeat fathers are major contributors to this problem. Single parenthood isnt always the fathers fault. I know its just one example, but my brother was abused by his ex wife, so bad that he had to divorce her eventually. Even though he was begging for at the very least an even split, he wanted full custody because of her abusive behavior, the court decided he would only get on week a month cuatody. He even provided ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 07:18 PM
1	You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything. It is a fact, not a hypothesis. Its not a fact. Its an assumption made from a flimsy corelation. There has been no research to suggest ammount of time spent with a child leads to abuse, there are plenty of parents who spend all day with their children and yet dont abuse them. Mothers who abuse children generally have anger management issues. And why should poverty be an excuse? Is poverty an excuse for a husband to abuse his wife?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 06:42 PM
1	You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything. Was I talking about sexual abuse? No. So why did you bring it up? Id also like to point out that instances of mothers sexually abusing children is rarely reported, and even more rarely acted on by authorities in comparison to cases of fathers sexually abusing children. Fact is theres a deeply ingrained cultural bias thqt tells us mothers dont do these reprehensible things. So its far more common than crime stats would suggest. Study backing this: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/2706553/ So…..pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 06:08 PM
-1	You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything. Ah yep, there it is, spending more time a child does not give a persom the right to abuse that child, the fact that you try to excuse and justify the bahviour of abusive mothers is frankly disgusting. This hypothesis that mothers abuse their children more because they spend more time with their children does not explain why single mothers are two times as likely to phyisically abuse their children as single fathers. And it also doesnt explain why mothers are more likely to phyisically abuse sons…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 05:49 PM
1	You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything. I agree that FDS is all fringe femcels not at all representative of the average womans opinion. But TwoX is a lot closer to the average lib feminist you might find offline. A lot of the talking points on TwoX are thd same shit I roll my eyes at coming from lib fem coworkers and aquaintances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 05:32 PM
3	You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything. If one man says something and then another man says something contradictory thats not them "being hypocritical" thats just two different people with different opinions, men are not a monolith.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 05:26 PM
-2	You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything. But women are responsible for their own behaviour. Turns out women are more likely than men to physically abuse their children. And boys are much more likely to be subject to extreme physical abuse while growing up. A common theme among violent criminals is a violent upbringing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 05:24 PM
2	The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”. Oh great wise one, please grant us your wisdom on how one might choose better...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:20 AM
12	The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”. Its paradoxical how some people say a woman can tell when a "nice guy" is just being nice to lure her into a false sense of security, but cant tell if an abuser is being nice to lure her into a false sense of security. I tend to ere on your side of reasoning. No, people often cant tell when someone is being nice to them with ulterior motives, there are a lot of good liars out there. And yeah I agree "choose better" is a very calous and useless piece of advice, if you can even call it that. But b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:03 AM
5	Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested. So youre saying youve had instances where you wanted to fuck a guy again but he refused. You couldve avoided that by being more attentive to his needs in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 04:24 PM
11	Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested. And whos to say he wants to fuck you again?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 04:16 PM
5	Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested. Its easy for some men to get off, not all men. If she doesnt do any foreplay, and just lays down like a dead fish I will not be able to get off. I need different positions and effort on her part to enjoy sex, and youd be surprised how many women cant be asked to even do the bare minimum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/25 04:15 PM
–	If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better life I mean, that goes both ways doesnt it? Theres no good reason for a man to stay with a boring/unapealing girlfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 03:51 AM
0	The Provider Man Model No Longer Works in Modern Western Relationships. It's a scam. The studys show housework split is about 60/40 woman/man, but also men tend to work more overtime and commute further so it balances out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/25 03:15 AM
0	Women try to dismiss their delusional entitlement by saying “women should be able to date who they want” despite the obvious fact that literally no one is suggesting otherwise Would ypu say the same about an incel thats waiting for a 10/10 model to fall in his lap? Because I wouldnt, id call that mf delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 02:41 PM
–	Why are Men's Troubles with Dating Invalidated by Women? You could make the argument that mens standards also relate to family formation in that bueaty is generally a sign of good health. This is all just speculative. Fact of the matter is a majority of women still believe the patriarchal idea that their man should make more than them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 03:11 AM
1	The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit No, but Dobbs is something that effects people here, and its fate is determined by politicians that people vote for. I dont think the Taliban care what anyone in the west says.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 12:49 AM
0	The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit If Che was a mass murderer then so was George Washington, even moreso. Revolutions are messy. And his supposed hatred of gay people is completely fabricated, nowhere in his writings did he ever even mention gay people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 12:10 AM
2	The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit Really? Cause I see news storys whenever the Taliban takes away more womens rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/25 12:05 AM
–	Why are Men's Troubles with Dating Invalidated by Women? Ok so rules for thee and not for me, got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 11:16 PM
–	Why are Men's Troubles with Dating Invalidated by Women? Im constantly hearing women on reddit say mens standards are harmful and overly restrictive, and plenty of men listen. You see womens dating concerns brpught up in the media too. But when a man talks about womens standards its on him to meet those standards. From my point of view there is a double standard at play.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 11:14 PM
–	Why are Men's Troubles with Dating Invalidated by Women? And women have no reservations about pretending to like a man just to get access to his money. See how everyone can be made to look evil if you interpret it that way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 11:08 PM
1	Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women? Id say a lot of thst has to do with the stigma about men who are abused by their wives, in the moment they were hurt by them but after both the police and peers dismiss their concerns they say their report was false. Id also like to point out that what you posted was a singular study, the one I posted is a meta analysis of multiple studies, so its stronger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 10:25 PM
1	Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women? How come every single bachelorette party my girlfriends have gone to has had a male stripper, and yet every single bavhelor psrty ive been to hasnt included a single stripper? Men and women are visual in different contexts, and it has a lot to do with whats considered socially acceptable for the genders. Id also like to point out that 30% of porn hubs userbase is female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 07:00 PM
2	Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women? You can come to Toronto and enjoy our clothing optional beach, its the only public clothing optional beach on the east coast of Canada. But I urge you to please be respectful. And maybe try going nude, its very liberating, though I would avoid the weekends cause it can get very crowded. The clothing optional beach was started as a primarily LGBT space, but all these straights staring at us has made it kind of unwelcoming to the community. My buddy that used to go often wants a section of the bea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 06:55 PM
2	Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women? What it means is there is no mental difference between men and women, just a physical one. Some feminists try fo suggest that women are mentally superior to men, and this study along with others disproves that. And I think we should all exercise the same level of self control, dont be violent towards others, thats a rule both men and women should follow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 06:22 PM
3	Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women? I dont see how that relates to what I said, my point was that there are lots of women who are visually stimulated, because why else would these women be at the clothing optional beach being voyeurs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 06:04 PM
3	Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women? Im sorry what is that supposed to mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 05:53 PM
5	Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women? Studys show that women are more likely to initiate domestic violence. Here it is if youd like to take a look: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2994556/#:~:text=In%20a%20meta%2Danalysis%20of,have%20used%20IPV%20more%20frequently. Women are just as violent as men, its just that people tend to get more hurt when a man is violent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 05:39 PM
8	Why do we as a society make up these random fallacies about women? Women are not less visual, the format of porn mags does not appeal to the vast majority of women. I went to a local clothing optional beach last summer and the ammount of fully clothed women gawking at nude men would suggest that yes, women are just as visual, and just as perverted, as men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/25 05:37 PM
1	Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or Act Great, and there are men who value women for things other than looks, but its a fact that a lot of men have some pretty toxic standards about womens bodies. Dont you think we should strive to lessen/ eliminate the pervasive beauty standards placed on women? And on the other hand, dont you think the financial standards a lot of women place on men is toxic and patriarchal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/25 03:03 AM
10	Guys Usually Have Problems With Dating Because of Money, Not How They Look or Act Do you really want to be with a woman who is only in to you for the money? Wouldn’t you rather be with someone who is hot for you for you? I find this response to be a bit of a cop out because it could be used to dismiss anyone who raises concerns about broadly held standards. Like imagine saying the same to a woman who is ciriticizing the unrealistic beauty standards some men have for women "do you really want to date a guy that only values you for your body?" It completely sidesteps her critic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/25 02:52 AM
2	Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs? Well youre wrong, being attracted to someone who is over the age of majority is categorically not pedophila	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 06:18 AM
2	Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs? Ok so anecdotes is all you have, no actual evidence, thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 06:16 AM
2	Only 14 countries have full legal protections for women Just because a country isnt currently at war doesnt mean it wont ever be at war. The US government wouldnt put so much effort into administrating and maintaining the selective service act if it didnt intend to use it again, and as of now it only applys to men	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 08:33 PM
2	Only 14 countries have full legal protections for women Its unacceptable even for religious reasons. Female circumcision is banned under all circumstances, even for religious reasons in the western world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 08:16 PM
–	Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs? Race is actually more predictive of behaviour in ragards to crime than gender is. Obviously this is due to social factors and not genetic ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 07:56 PM
4	Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs? Actually yes. Btw, most men have pedophilic preferences, sadly. Prove that please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 07:46 PM
3	in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problem I agree that men should make a concious decision to compliment their friends more, I myself make an effort to compliment and uplift my buds on their style or their fitness when theyre clearly putting in effort. But I also kind of agree with OP as well in some regards, specifically in the way online discourse and mass media outlets address dating issues differnetly wether they come from men or from women. When men complain about dating we're often told we have to improve ourselves to meet the sta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 07:33 PM
7	in the US the women are wonderful effect is on steroids and this is part of the problem Well your dad is an idiot	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 06:28 PM