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Why is it that a man is never entitled to have a preference? Ever. But women are entitled to any preference they want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:36 PM
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People are entitled to their preferences Women are entitled to only desire men who earn 600k+ and are 6’ tall and muscular. There’s nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:34 PM
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No he can’t. Just having an average job is not enough for average women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:59 PM
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Most men do not hate older or fat women, you shouldn’t be a bully no, but I feel like you would not be accepting it a man just said I am not attracted to those women, you would chastise him even if he isn’t being a bully
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:46 PM
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Do you assume most men think this way? I literally prefer older women and I am a young guy so miss me with this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:40 PM
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I don’t know what you’re showing me sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:35 PM
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Is men having standards misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:32 PM
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Yeah so they’re flooded with terrible options
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:28 PM
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This is false and you know it. Just as many women are cruel towards men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:22 PM
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This has to be aspen or some tight knit resort community
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:11 PM
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What do you do to earn 175k?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:10 PM
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There are women who can’t even get an employed man? That doesn’t square with PPD claims that all women are flooded with options , it also doesn’t square with what I’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:08 PM
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What do you do to earn six figures?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:05 PM
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I mean I’m just going off of what comments here are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:01 PM
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Why the hell are you going through my post history? Why are you even on this sub? Yeah I have no income right now. I would like to do that. Donating plasma is one way. Earning 175k isn’t that hard once you have a career in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:22 AM
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That doesn’t matter. Having an income is a prerequisite
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:15 AM
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There are women who like unemployed men? I didn’t know that was a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:42 AM
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Ones who demand this type of salary
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:40 AM
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I don’t care. It’s weird that this sub has so many high income earners all convening together and I want to know how they amassed their wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:24 AM
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Why wouldn’t I ask how people who are experienced professionals in a sub where experienced professionals are posting, how they made their money?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:50 AM
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What is your role specifically? Tech is pretty vague
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:21 AM
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What do you do to earn 250k? What does your friend do to earn 500k?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:06 AM
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Money is the be all end all for attracting women period. A commenter in here said she’d rather date an obese man making 200k+ than a fit man who is making a lesser salary
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:05 AM
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Because it is. It’s not that much, it’s certainly not enough to date women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:04 AM
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I think you could lower it to < 5’5
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:01 AM
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What do you do to make 130k?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:58 AM
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Because paying for bills and groceries is more of a priority than dating. What kind of conclusion is this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:47 AM
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That wasn’t my claim, that wasn’t my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:58 AM
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Another example of how skewed the perspective of many on this sub is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:46 AM
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You think most people work at one of the Big 4 consulting firms? That’s a very small sample of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:45 AM
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What do you do- I mean what field are you in to earn 170k?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:44 AM
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That doesn’t really address what I said. The average person isn’t in tech earning > 175k
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:43 AM
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I’m so surprised at the number of commenters on PPD making 200k+ who show themselves in so many threads
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:56 AM
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Under 29?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:35 AM
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10% is still a LOT of people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:28 AM
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No, If so many people are making 150k+ on this website then it really must not be that difficult, more indicative of the average then previously thought
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:24 AM
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What are the professions of the men you know who make over 300k?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:50 AM
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Most Americans earn that much. It’s not hard to earn that much
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:50 AM
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The real world, where most people make 150k
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:49 AM
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Software engineers are over represented on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:46 AM
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No they aren’t out of touch, I’m just lazy and unambitious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:44 AM
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How did you enter those fields?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:42 AM
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May I ask what you do to make 175k? Or at least what field you are in? There are so many high earners on this sub Also do you think 175k is the average salary?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:31 AM
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are you expecting the average man to make 175k? Like if a man doesn’t make 175k he is a failure You must live in the San Francisco Bay or NYC. Really can’t think of any other metro area where 175k individual income is the low end of average In fact this sub seems to over represent people living in these two or three metros
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:28 AM
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If I could ask, how did you secure a Silicon Valley firmjob despite being a drop out? You really have no advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:26 AM
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Obvious choice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:25 AM
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No it certainly isn’t slowing down. There still plenty of positions available in Silicon Valley firms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:20 AM
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Were you a computer science major? I live in proximity to Silicon Valley; is there a way I can secure a position at a tech startup with a political science and planning background?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:13 AM
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Would you rather a man who makes 175k and is in poor shape versus a man who is low earning but fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:12 AM
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Where did you work to earn over 175k?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:10 AM
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Do you know what they do to earn 7 figures?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:09 AM
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What did you major in to get there? If you could share your path, I would appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:08 AM
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What do you do to earn 165k a year? What field are you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:06 AM
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What do you do to earn 200k? What’s your career?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:05 AM
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What do you do to earn 240k? What’s your profession?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:05 AM
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You’re kidding that 175k is nothing. That’s very high above the median annual salary in the United States -considering only 40% of people graduated college Jesus you people are out of touch. You think the average person is earning > 175k?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:05 AM
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Why is it yes for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:03 AM
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What did you do to make that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:03 AM
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What do the men you know who make over 175k do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:03 AM
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What do you do to make a quarter million annually? Consulting? Consulting in what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:02 AM
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What do you do to make six figures
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:48 AM
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I agree. It’s not okay. You need to get your priorities together
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:44 AM
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I agree. That’s why I made the post. It’s unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:29 AM
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Yes completely understandable. I too am driven and definitely wouldn’t date a woman who isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:03 AM
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No women typically want a man who is doing well economically
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:52 AM
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I think when you are younger finances aren’t as much of a concern
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:42 AM
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Ok I agree, you’re correct, but I think a more reasonable argument would be if you are underemployed- say work at McDonald’s you really should be improving your station in life before considering dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:37 AM
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Yes and my post was about men who don’t have a job. So most of the women you dated are career women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:35 AM
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Yes I agree, you can cook on a budget and should, but it doesn’t negate the fact that igniting romance in a relationship is easier when you both have money to spend on quality experiences I agree with you that you can absolutely contribute value to a relationship if you don’t have money or are broke, however as a man, I personally think you should be prioritizing career over dating when you are broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:33 AM
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Working as a high school teacher is not what most think of when someone mentions their career
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:31 AM
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Hopefully it does happen, because dating will be much much much easier once you have a career
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:30 AM
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Cooking nice meals often requires you have money to buy quality ingredients
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:25 AM
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You unemployed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:23 AM
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No it’s not correct. Employment and monetary status is the most important thing that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:19 AM
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Those are more commonly thought of as jobs. There’s a difference between a job and a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:07 AM
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Yeah that’s not women’s fault. A lot of women want men who are competent adults who have a strong career and not directionless and without ambition. Women may be earning more but it’s understandable for them to want men on their level
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:05 AM
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Yes they are careers but I’m trying to get across that they aren’t what the common perception of a career is. When most think of a career it is a man working in a high powered attorney or surgeon role
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:03 AM
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Of course they are careers! When someone thinks of a career, what we perceive is something with high pay and status
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:01 AM
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I’m a man saying this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:58 AM
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I agree. Which is why it’s easier to date when you have a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:55 AM
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Do you think any woman is going to find a man desirable if he is underemployed and works at target part time well into his 20s? He’s just a joke to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:52 AM
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The implication in having a career is that it is more desirable and valuable, so yes by having a career I mean you have a source of income which is respectable and has status attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:50 AM
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I agree but in case you don’t find your sweetheart then, you should putting dating on the back burner and prioritize career stability
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:49 AM
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Exactly. It’s a much better idea to date when you have an income
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:48 AM
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I think the vast majority of your time and energy should be poured into finding a good job and being financially secure. I think most people would agree with me and hell on Reddit subs where people are unemployed they always share the same advice- you need to be focused on your finances and dating shouldn’t be a concern right now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:47 AM
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Exactly. Some things take priority
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:45 AM
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It’s not 1950s, it’s literally the absolute bare minimum to have a good career and a plan for your life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:44 AM
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Age?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:43 AM
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You know why? Because it will be much, much more difficult to date. Not having stable employment lowers your desirability in the eyes of many women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:42 AM
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But attracting women your age, yes you should have a solid career
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:40 AM
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That’s what I mean. Being able to live and support yourself as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:38 AM
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Isn’t it to be expected a man, even of average income, would be taking women on nice dates and buying their partner’s valuable gifts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:37 AM
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In general, it is better for a man to focus on career over dating until he is financially stable That’s what I’m trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:35 AM
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Which men do you know personally who are financially well off and have dating issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:32 AM
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I didn’t say rich, read my post again, I said unemployed or underemployed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:31 AM
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There are few men who have success with women who don’t make money and aren’t financially secure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:30 AM
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Yes 23 years old +
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:30 AM
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But my argument is a man should not even be considering taking a woman out until he has established a career for himself. You’re not in the place to date if you are unemployed or broke, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:20 AM
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Once a man is past early 20s he needs to be focusing on his career and earning potential. If he is that age and is underemployed he needs to get his life together before ever even thinking about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:18 AM
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Because I want to become wealthy at a young age but I’m finding it hard to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:59 PM
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Because it isn’t realistic to become UMC at age 26
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:56 PM
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Do you think everyone has the intelligence to go to medical school and be a doctor? Like 1-2% of the population has medical degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:48 PM
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I’m a graduate degree holder who completed 9 internships in undergrad -that still not a fast track to wealth in your 20s unless your in a select few professions Are you wealthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:47 PM
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Can you explain how being UMC is achievable?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:44 PM
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What type of “good jobs” were these?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:43 PM
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Do you have proof of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:38 PM
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Do you think everyone is capable or intelligent enough to succeed as a surgeon or investment banker?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:38 PM
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Do you think everyone is capable of just entering a high paying profession?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:38 PM
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May I ask you what you mean by spend that cash?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:34 PM
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This is what I said. My question was merely asking all of you if you actually believe romance is a true need
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:19 PM
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Exactly. We cannot outsource attraction to the state without infringing, quite horrifically, on women’s autonomy and human rights
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:14 PM
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I don’t know but some men here complain about it so frequently that it is kind of like they believe there is a duty for society to get them a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:09 PM
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I mean in general women can find a partner a lot easier than men so they don’t necessarily need to prove themselves to men. Not in all cases but a lot of the time they are enough as they are The fact you worked hard for your man is special and sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:47 PM
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Men need to earn the right to be in a relationship, women have plenty of options and can choose since they are the selectors
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:31 PM
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Why does that bother you? They’re kind of right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:26 PM
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There should absolutely be no duty to provide or help people struggling with lovelessness Let’s be clear on that. There should be encouragement though to improve yourself and become the type of partner a person would want. That’s all If a person can’t make themselves desirable enough to be an appealing partner then they will be alone and that’s just how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:17 PM
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What do you believe is an unreasonable expectation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:57 PM
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Do you believe if you haven’t mastered it by 24 it’s pretty much over?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:50 PM
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Why do you believe it’s rare? I’m 24 going on 25 and haven’t had a relationship yet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:45 PM
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I have damaged vocal cords so crowded bars aren’t the optimal place for me to meet people I didn’t want to go but my friend and I vowed we’d go to bars to practice socializing. He went to a bar and I went to one. I’ve never really been to a bar alone so I’m glad I went. I think I’ll keep going and gradually building confidence I’ll try again at a different bar, but I’d need to stand really close to a woman to flirt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:13 AM
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I went to a bar tonight. A pool hall. I went and briefly talked to a guy but everyone was already there in pre established groups and the music was blaring. I didn’t end up chatting up any women. Too nervous I guess I’ll go to another quieter bar tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:26 AM
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Your ex just approached you in a bar? I’ll go tonight then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:56 PM
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Where would you be open to be approached by a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:37 PM
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I had a woman the other day tell me “you’re very good looking” and sending hearts before ghosting me for no explanation. Women have a line of men to date on the apps, it’s very competitive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:11 PM
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So women aren’t attracted to men that fail romantically? Which leads him to failing more romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:31 AM
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Apparently someone here posted that the majority of men are doing fine and had data to prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:22 PM
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I thought most men don’t struggle. Most men are getting in and out of relationships and going on dates left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:10 PM
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Why do you assume it means you’re weak? I can make women laugh, I am fit and workout frequently, go hiking regularly and mountain biking, ambitious. Still never done it. You can’t make women attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:09 PM
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Yeah I think it’s better if I give up and live the rest of my life alone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:59 PM
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I think 25 too, and 26 Once you’re in your 30s it will be easier
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:38 PM
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No. Women shouldn’t have to settle for less than they deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:37 PM
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I think I will just give up on dating and focus on every other aspect of my life. It is too difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:32 PM
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What about the below average geeky woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:26 PM
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Do you think average or below average women’s standards are as high as you described?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:20 PM
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I’m 24 and I’m working my tail off trying to find my first full time job out of grad school I don’t want a woman out of my league. But I think nowadays to attract a woman below a man’s league he needs all of what you described
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:16 PM
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Women are entitled to a good man. Women are amazing and deserve the world
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:12 PM
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How do you drive an 80k car? What exactly do you do for a living? Are you in your 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:05 PM
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Is liking assertive woman a weird kink to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:43 AM
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No not if they don’t work on themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:28 PM
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Because they shouldn’t settle for less
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:28 PM
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So is a man pathetic because he can’t attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:19 PM
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Men who do that are so pathetic. Instead of working to make yourself desirable for women they just want to give up like a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:45 PM
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Women many women not all say it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:44 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:22 PM
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All women deserve the best
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:41 AM
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They do. Women deserve a good man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:35 AM
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Men shouldn’t be paying for escorts. Men who pay for escorts are pathetic. Instead of working to become the men women want, they are taking the easy way out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:59 AM
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I think it’s that these men expect women to lower their standards instead of realizing women are entitled to their preferences If they want to date women they need to become good men for them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:54 AM
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Men aren’t entitled to sex. They should be content being alone. Why do men always feel so entitled to a relationship? Women don’t owe you anything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:22 AM
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That isn’t most men who behave that way. More generalizing men but you know you’d hate if women were generalized
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:07 PM
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This is a really low iq take
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:07 PM
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Why don’t you think men handle their stuff without complaining? Any evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:57 PM
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It’s not objective that men are more emotional you’re making a baseless claim
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:46 PM
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You are just biased against men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:28 PM
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That this post is misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:02 AM
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I’m unemployed but I’ve applied for over 200 jobs and am moving out of my parents as soon as I get a job. I’m applying everyday. I’ve had my resume revised and reviewed and my changed my LinkedIn multiple times. I’ve attended networking events and am currently having a custom cover letter written for me I’m also starting a side hustle and I volunteer and invest. I also pay for my own gas car insurance food clothes and cook for myself Are you saying there’s no difference between a video game play…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:12 PM
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Women here seem to be worried about men being “worthy of them” given they are announcing they deserve top 15%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:59 PM
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And why do you feel bad for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:58 PM
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The women here are saying men need to improve themselves to be in the top 15% and become the men women deserve. I’m just repeating what women say they want!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:47 PM
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They are the choosers and men are the ones who need to prove they are good enough. That’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:33 PM
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I agree. I think this post should be shared with every average young man out there to let them know how totally worthless they are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:05 PM
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High average isn’t top 15%, it isn’t enough to be the man a woman deserves, so you’re contradicting your earlier statement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:54 PM
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No women don’t need to adhere because they are the choosers. Men work to be chosen. It’s men’s job to become worthy of women, not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:48 PM
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Exactly. I’m trying to tell them women wanting men who are worthy of them is just common sense. So many men here want to complain instead of working to make themselves deserving of women and meeting their standards Women aren’t going to settle for men they don’t deserve Women are the choosers men are chosen based on their desirability- never forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:45 PM
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All women are perfect 10s. They deserve nothing but the best. Average men are trash
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:39 PM
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It can’t improve height which you said is important to be in the top 20% and you also can’t improve your face after a certain extent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:38 PM
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Why does a 1/10 woman deserve a top 10% man? You haven’t answered that. Yet a 5-7/10 man deserves nothing and has to work to impress every woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:37 PM
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Do you think most men are subpar men? Not worthy of the average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:34 PM
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Women are entitled to date men who are attractive. Deal with it! Tough for short pathetic manlets. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:32 PM
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But if you’re being serious, does this apply to women with heritable diseases/ sick and addicted women/ poor women/ fat women/ anorexic women/ aging women? Should they not reproduce under your model of life or are they all perfect 10s? Because all women are perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:15 PM
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I can’t tell if she’s trolling or not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:13 PM
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TIL women having dating standards is misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:10 PM
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I’m fit yes and educated, financially secure, relatively good looking, but I’m still in my career search so don’t have a good job yet But that doesn’t matter because being 5’6 bars me from being top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:07 PM
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Well I am out because I am below average height
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:01 PM
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Why is acceptable to reject a short man but UNacceptable to reject a fat woman?? Please elaborate on why you think this? Why do you think men are inferior because of their height? Women are beautiful at every size absolutely but so are men. You’re just a misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:17 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:13 AM
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How is being old or short a man’s fault???? I cannot believe you are serious right now. Is it women’s fault they have small boobs or a weight disorder??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:06 AM
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I want to know why windmill flowers said this I want to speak to her directly and ask her why she thought this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:33 PM
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Windmill flowers says women are beautiful at every size and it’s only society’s preconceived notions about weight which make men who care about weight shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:33 PM
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A woman commenter up there said that it’s not acceptable for men to reject overweight women (keep in mind I have no weight preference) because women are beautiful at every size While she basically says short men are inferior
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:57 PM
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No both are shallow why exactly can’t a shorter man protect a woman? Why are shorter men inferior and not real men to you? What if the shorter man is muscular and fit? Is he still inferior to you? So women are beautiful at every size but men who aren’t tall are inferior? I agree it is shallow to reject women because of their weight but it’s also shallow to reject a man because of his height. It isn’t acceptable. There’s no valid reason you think a short man is inferior. You just are a judgmental…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:53 PM
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I kissed 8 or 9 women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:12 AM
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I went on 30 first/ second dates and no gf. I’m probably boring them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:14 PM
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Because all women are perfect 10s while most men are undesirable losers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:06 PM
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It is my fault If I were exceptional in every other way I would be attractive to many women. If I were a multi millionaire I wouldn’t have any problems with women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:11 AM
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Like me!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:10 AM
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I’m short too dude. I’m working on to overcome it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:09 AM
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5’6 ish I love chubby women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:06 AM
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So you really are saying you don’t care about women’s opinion? Women dictate our worth as men. If women like you you’re a winner, if they don’t you’re a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:05 AM
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Well most women aren’t you. I don’t have proof but I think a lot of women would rather date an obese guy over a good looking fit short man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:03 AM
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I am a short man myself. I know I’ll have to work 100x harder to have a chance to find a partner than an average guy would, and that’s just how it is If anything short guys should be thankful. Women are forcing you to pursue success and excellence in life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:02 AM
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Ok so then I have a chance with chubby girls? Who are my type
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:57 AM
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Exactly. If you have enough positive traits height doesn’t matter as much. Yet so many guys want to complain
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:57 AM
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I mean I’m just saying there are ways to overcome your height disadvantage. Like yes it’s a huge disadvantage but if you were rich and famous women wouldn’t mind as much Maybe focus on pursuing excellence and not complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:56 AM
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What type of men do you think plus size or chubby or less attractive women prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:54 AM
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5’6 or below
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:53 AM
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Rich? I’m on trajectory to get there. Famous? No. But I recognize I’m going to have to work 100x harder than an average guy to find a partner and that’s just how it is for short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:52 AM
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So then stop complaining and elevate your status So many short guys want to complain their height is a disadvantage but don’t want to put in the effort to over come it (IE be exceptional). They’re just lazy losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:51 AM
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Do you have any proof of this? Plenty of women like big bear bodied guys, not many women are into short guys even if they’re good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:47 AM
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Would you rather give up and stop self improving or work to be attractive to women by becoming a top 5% man, nullifying your height disadvantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:46 AM
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Sorry I have no sympathy for other short men who want to whine instead of doing the difficult work of making themselves attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:45 AM
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Yeah because you can overcome your height disadvantage by becoming rich and famous. Most short men are just lazy and don’t want to work to pursue excellence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:40 AM
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You’re seriously saying a man should feel proud of being considered an undesirable loser to women? Lol come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:38 AM
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Women are the choosers and you as a man are supposed to meet their standards If you can’t meet women’s standards because you are short, women perceive you as a loser, even if this unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:37 AM
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Do you believe men are more shallow than women? Please answer honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:34 AM
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I am short and I agree with this If you are short there is no excuse to not be working to be top 1% in every other category. I don’t care how hard it is. You need to compensate. You don’t have control over being short but you do have control over being very successful, well dressed, fit, and charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:29 AM
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Tell me how I’m delusional man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:58 AM
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I’m 24 and maybe a 6/10 nothing special I realize the game has changed from before the time I started trying to date, but that can’t dismiss the fact most men are not good looking or that high status and still have plenty of romantic success
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:55 AM
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Explain please. Because most men don’t look very good and aren’t high status and do fine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:34 AM
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But what drew them to you? There had to be something appealing about you physically or personality wise
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:03 AM
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If a man is not a loser a woman or women will express interest in him, that has never happened for me so I must be
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:22 AM
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I guess I am a total loser because no woman has ever approached me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:20 AM
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How do you not know how to get a girlfriend yet you had one before?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:15 AM
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I look better than Chris hems worth bro
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:02 PM
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You think they just go for low quality women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:28 PM
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No.. I genuinely believe any man can become the type of man who has 15 women wanting to sleep with him a day. Men who are losers with women just don’t want to put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:05 PM
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Then why do commenters here say to attract women you must have a lot going for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:38 PM
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Most men find partners and I don’t think women date boring unremarkable men as some here have said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:23 PM
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Too simplistic of an answer. Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:10 PM
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No sorry you need to have a very interesting life full of passionate hobbies to date. That’s what appeals to most people You really think most people live boring lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:09 PM
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Most short / ugly/ overweight/ low status men date at least once in their lives, end they all have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:48 AM
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No most men don’t have misogynist standards. This sounds like misandrist bs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:12 AM
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Awesome. What are some of your hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:03 AM
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Can you help me? I’m short and don’t have the greatest social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:55 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:19 AM
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I’m being serious. I’m a man who likes assertive women and being in a female led relationship would be great
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:17 AM
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It’s not that simple I
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:17 AM
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I want to be an oofy doofy I want to make a woman feel like a goddess. That sounds awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:39 PM
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Agree status is very important
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:24 PM
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I’m handsome and short but have led a life of perpetual singleness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:24 PM
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You don’t think me being a man completely changes the argument? I don’t have any in group bias to rate that woman higher No I don’t see ugly men with women who are hot as fuck all the time but with women? Yes all the time But yes I do see couples commonly where the man is fat/ semi unkempt/ not a great dresser with a woman who is dressed decently and not attractive but not unattractive What is an Oofy doofy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:55 PM
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I’m a man The guy wasn’t ugly nor bald but he wasn’t anything special and dressed in plain t and shorts The woman was curvy and dressed well in a pink dress
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:01 PM
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Today at the outlets I saw this out of shape not very stylish guy with an attractive looking woman, shopping with her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:46 PM
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Can hiking fall under that? I do hiking and photography
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:44 PM
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Most guys aren’t good looking and don’t have great careers and they have multiple girlfriends throughout life. This is what I was talking about. It just isn’t true in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:43 PM
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What about the guys who have low standards and still can’t attract anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:38 PM
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I too am talking about normal men I see so many men with overweight women. You’re perception is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:29 PM
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The goofy dudes seen older than me maybe 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:05 PM
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What about short and otherwise attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:58 PM
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I realize this is me. I’m so boring. I have little to no attractive qualities besides nice clothes and a Semi attractive face, and money I’m short
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:34 PM
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I’m at the outlets and I’ve seen multiple doofy looking not that stylish guys with perfectly fine looking women in the last hour. This is observable if you just leave your room
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:33 PM
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Well I don’t know guys like that. Most guys are perfectly understanding that it is not wise for them to have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:02 PM
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Skills as in talents?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:54 PM
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What ways do you think those are?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:47 PM
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I guess I have absolutely zero going for me because I can’t attract anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:20 PM
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What exactly is a stimulating hobby to you? Also no most men are not overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:59 PM
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No they don’t Most men have no standards and will date any woman with a pulse
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:34 PM
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Enough to point as proof you don’t need to be wealthy and a celebrity to find a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:05 PM
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What is status to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:55 PM
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There’s literally tons of men in middle America or in the inner city who are struggling economically, or fat, or rabid fentanyl users who have partners. You’ll find plenty of unhygienic comic con attendees with partners
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:51 PM
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Then how do you explain guys who are completely unremarkable with girlfriends fiancés and wives? Most guys are not outstandingly sexy Only 1% of men are virgins past 30
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:39 PM
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What do you mean fucked up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:37 AM
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Not me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:31 AM
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What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:30 AM
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I definitely keep up with my appearance but yes I’m somewhat awkward, though have held conversation for hours on dates
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:28 AM
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I am the guy who made the comment. I am introverted and awkward, though have been able to hold conversation on dates
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:09 PM
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I am the subject of this post. I think most guys who don’t have success including myself it is a variety of negative traits and not necessarily one quality you can pinpoint. I dress and groom well, and don’t have weird hobbies, but I’m not very socially skilled, don’t really have a social circle, and have no status. I’m close to just giving up though. I hope no one judges me for that decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:02 PM
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Yeah I am the subject of the post Reddit likely isn’t helping me but I find it difficult to log off My old friend never has posted on Reddit and never will. In ninth grade he was already hooking up with girls while I didn’t have my first kiss until 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:55 PM
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I am that guy. I think it’s a combination of height, low status, and social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:51 PM
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I am a man who is a 6-7 and has a masters and I go to the gym and I am dead average. You are being conceited
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:42 PM
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No misandry is not part of feminism. I think you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:37 PM
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I do but she is saying women find men who approach them who they don’t personally find attractive as viscerally disgusting and repulsive Why would I approach with that reaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:26 PM
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There’s a reason we as men are critical of ourselves when we aren’t attracting women because we know it’s because we aren’t good enough. We know if we worked to be better we would have options and we would be successful. Working to become desirable to women can only have a net positive gain on your life as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:20 PM
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Would you not agree that regardless of their starting point, men should be aiming to be the type who is attractive to many women and his choice of options? That’s a virtue that has to be cultivated
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:14 PM
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I should have added an /S. Yeah if you have a negative opinion about someone’s body keep it to yourself nobody wants to hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:21 PM
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You’re responding to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:19 PM
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Definitely not something a blue pill woman would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:17 PM
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It’s not BS, it’s important to be reminded about women’s opinions on short men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:12 PM
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Well tall men are attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:59 PM
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I have never had a partner so yes they find me very undesirable. That’s something I am bothered by and am working to change through getting my competence and career going/ cultivating my hobbies/ exercising frequently If women don’t find you attractive you should be doing everything in your capacity to become desirable to change that. You can’t accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:16 PM
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Because women finding you undesirable is not a trajectory you should be content with. It signifies deep personal inadequacy and character flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:07 PM
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I workout, don’t play video games, don’t watch anime, and dress well- I can’t be a beta male
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:46 PM
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Because women dictate your worth in society
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:33 PM
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My understanding is flawed Tall = attractive Not tall = ew
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:32 PM
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Yes it does. Men who can’t get women are pathetic basement dwelling losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:44 AM
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What if he was shorter than you but muscular? What would you think then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:36 AM
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I’m just surprised she said that But honestly I agree with many that just approaching women you don’t know (ie cold approach) is not socially acceptable anymore? Approaching in social settings/ groups appears to be more appropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:31 AM
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A woman here literally said a man she doesn’t find attractive (tall) approaching her and expressing interest is “viscerally disgusting” so yes women are saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:18 AM
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You literally just said that you would be “viscerally disgusted” by a man if they approach you and attempt to strike up conversation if you don’t find them attractive. Why would any man approach a woman they like? Also the fact you equate to tall to attractive without taking into account face and body doesn’t make sense to me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:04 AM
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Why should I approach a woman I like one more time if she is going to find any advances I make uncomfortable? Honestly reading this is just astonishing. I have never felt “viscerally uncomfortable” when the few times a woman I didn’t find attractive expressed interest in me. This doesn’t sound blue pill of you at all. No wonder men my age are giving up on dating, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:00 AM
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Average in some ways but I have an above average face, a master’s, and come from a well off family. No I plan to put myself out there more in the coming weeks and give it my all. I need to try more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:08 PM
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Sorry you have no proof of this. most men are getting laid. This is just incorrect. If you’re failing with women you are in the minority If you’ve “worked” on yourself and aren’t desirable, then you haven’t worked on the right things or haven’t worked hard enough. As my role model, Jordan Peterson says if you were a better person you’d be successful with women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:39 PM
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This is totally wrong. If a man cannot attract women there is something or many things deeply wrong about him. Women dictate your worth in society and if a man is repellant to them, there is likely an extensive list of things wrong with him that he ought to fix You can’t just ignore it if no one finds you attractive, you should work to become more desirable and make yourself worthy of women. “I’m going to give up on women, women have too high standards” - that’s the mark of a very pathetic man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:30 PM
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Exactly but still I think Incels are pathetic Any man can be attractive to tons of women if he just works on himself and is a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:06 PM
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Only losers don’t reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:57 PM
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Absolutely! If women don’t like a guy he is an undesirable loser. If they do, he’s successful in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:34 AM
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Sure I feel better after exercising and wearing nice clothes… but if women would still see me as an undesirable loser it would negate any positive feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:08 AM
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How many barely 5’6 guys do you know who were players vs guys who were perma single? Probably many more who were the latter I mean wouldn’t blue pill say it’s all about personality for most women and any man can be attractive and can have plenty of options
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:09 AM
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5’5.5-5’6
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:39 PM
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I am never going to have a girlfriend Fiancé or wife due to my height. Due to this one immutable trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:38 PM
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Can I ask you something? A woman from this sub told me that muscles don’t matter and height is the most important factor for attracting women This made me so depressed because I am fit and attractive facially and height is the one thing I cannot change.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:12 PM
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Honestly what you said makes me extremely depressed There is no point in me to continue going to the gym or improving my style because height the one thing I can’t change is the most important factor in attracting women Honestly you can’t be blue pill. No blue piller would say this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:07 PM
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Do you think women are picky? I don’t think they are picky enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:51 PM
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No I don’t I have never had a girlfriend. I’m primarily attracted to older women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:04 PM
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Yes that’s so odd to me since every woman I see my age to under 45 is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:44 PM
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Yes but it takes a lot of time To develop a successful career and physique and many do not see prosperous returns on their career until their 30s and 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:43 PM
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Thank you for sharing about your situation Houses seem so expensive for us Gen z If it’s ok to ask why did you get laid off?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:43 PM
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Yes it’s hard to believe how many rich people are active on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:36 PM
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I guess I’m just shocked coming on this sub and seeing so many people in the top 1-5%. It’s like a theme you will observe if you remain here. I actually have never seen a forum where so many rich people associate other than this one I grew up in wealth- just not enough to be a multi millionaire in my 20s. I’m 24, have my masters, savings and a car, and pay for my bills/ needs myself. I’m applying for jobs every day so I can save more and move out of my parents
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:06 PM
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You continually come across self professed multi million dollar entrepreneurs on this sub. I feel like I’m the only guy in this sub who is not in the top 10% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:41 PM
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Would you agree that being short as a man is a significant HUGE disadvantage for finding a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:25 PM
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Oh ok. Thank you for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:02 PM
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Without prying too much and asking you to divulge too much, may I ask how you managed to pay for his house and schooling at a young age?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:59 PM
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I actually am open to them, they’re my type
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:58 PM
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I wish I could make six figures one day Continually encountering people like me in their twenties here who make six figures and own homes makes me feel insecure It seems like rich young people are over represented on this sub. Several seven or eight figure earners have commented here. Here I am looking for a decent job while i moved back to my parents house like a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:54 PM
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Good. I’m glad we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:50 PM
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I don’t care. If a man is attractive he should be able to attract both short and tall women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:40 PM
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What if we are mainly attracted to taller women? Why should I have to limit myself if I’m attractive other than my height?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:36 PM
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So what if we are not tall (I’m short) but we are fit? What then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:35 PM
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It’s WAY easier for men to become attractive compared to women. All men have to do is become muscular and wealthy- just grind it out in your business or the corporate world for a decade and keep on top of your diet and exercising. It’s very easy for a guy to become attractive. For women they literally have to work to maintain their weight, style themselves appropriately and do their makeup, and hair. Have the right personality men like. It’s much harder as a woman to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:29 PM
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I agree and I’m a straight man. It’s super easy to be an attractive catch as a man. The bar is pretty much in the basement. Just grind for ten years to get educated, or start a profitable business and become wealthy and high status, be charismatic, and work in the gym so you can have a muscular body. That’s literally all it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:23 PM
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Dude it’s really easy to become wealthy and muscular. All it takes is learning some entrepreneurial skills or getting a master’s degree and grinding it out for a decade, both at your business or in the corporate world and at the gym, plus dieting properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:20 PM
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It’s not even true. Men have way more advantages in dating. As a guy all you need to do to become attractive is become wealthy and muscular. But as a woman you need to look amazing and act amazing, lose weight, wear the correct clothes, style makeup and your hair correctly. It takes more time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:19 PM
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Exactly. It’s really easy as a guy. You just need to become muscular, wealthy, and charismatic. Just grind it out until you become a multimillionaire- which for most guys is attainable. You just need to develop your entrepreneurial skills and workout everyday in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:17 PM
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Exactly. Men have more advantages in dating and I say this as a straight man. Men on average have less options so they don’t have to weed through so many undesirable, low value, unemployed, unhygienic men losers. I actually don’t envy women because it must be difficult to have to continually encounter and have to put up with loser men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:14 PM
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Why should a man who is ambitious, with plans and financial stability work to impress a woman who is broke with no goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:52 AM
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Oh that makes sense You said you were open to reviewing my profile. I messaged you and provided the photos I typically use and my profile for one of the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:41 AM
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Same question. How ? There are so many beautiful women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:09 AM
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You’re asking me if I am saying women only date multimillionaires and I’m not saying that. I’m saying men should be continually improving themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:31 PM
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I wear cologne and buy new clothes yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:40 PM
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I’m not grilling you. I agree but still short men should be working hard to improve themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:37 PM
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I am not personally saying I AM dating down I’m meaning that red pill states I would be dating down. I don’t think of it as dating down personally. I should have specified that I would be glad to date a less prosperous woman. Yes I agree men who think of dating less ambitious women as dating down should be avoided
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:32 PM
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No I’m merely encouraging men to become best version of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:20 PM
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Am I doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:02 PM
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But I think men are more willing to date down. Plenty of ambitious productive men are willing to date a woman with no goals or plans. I know I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:59 PM
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Do you think it would be easier for a type A guy like him to date a lazy directionless woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:12 PM
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Yes I agree it may be a better thing to say for the average woman… But maybe this guy wants to attract the hyper productive and accomplished women who are always working. Maybe he wants the type A woman who is competitive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:06 PM
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Yeah partner. Just wondering. It requires a lot of time to become partner apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:48 PM
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How long did it take you to get there?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:44 PM
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I don’t workout daily but several times a week including hiking And am careful about what I eat -no processed foods. I cook. I don’t think I’m that rare. Most men are working out and watching what they eat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:33 PM
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What do you do to earn a high salary?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:24 PM
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Don’t you agree that’s objectively untrue? Like 98% of men can’t be unattractive. So the perception is skewed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:45 PM
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No it’s weird to only find 2% of men attractive. Pretty sure there’s more than 2% of decent looking men more like 15-20%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:43 PM
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What else do you think puts you above the competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:28 PM
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You said you’re looking for an average man and then you also say you only find 2% of men your age attractive… don’t you think that doesn’t make a lot of sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:18 PM
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What about 20-30? No younger, in shape, chiseled jaw men in the Midwest? Guess men like me are a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:53 AM
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A woman here said she talked to her friends and they don’t appreciate cold approach Stop doing it. Women find it bothersome and irritating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:48 AM
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Where do you warm approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:48 AM
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What is a warm approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:47 AM
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How do you only find 2% of men attractive? How ? What!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:46 AM
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How many do you average per week?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:29 AM
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What if we’ve tried to improve our profile and get no matches? Could I show you mine for review? I think it’s top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:26 AM
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Short kings aren’t kings. Let’s stop the delusion. Most women find them to be completely undateable but you only need one woman to find you attractive Yes you will need to compensate 10x harder than an average man in every other category but that’s how it is. Become very rich- tens of millions in the bank, become jacked, have a super charismatic way to you- and you’ll be good. Short men should be working on becoming top 1% if they want to attract a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:11 AM
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What do you define as moderately fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:56 AM
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Nobody said it would be easy lol But if you have a flaw which makes you undesirable (being short) then you’ll want to compensate in other areas. You’re making it harder than it sounds. It really isn’t that difficult to become top 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:19 AM
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In what field?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:13 AM
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I mean it’s pretty achievable. If you’re unattractive in one area (being shorter) you need to compensate in other areas Idk why short men complain but don’t want to put in the work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:51 PM
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Why would you suggest something you don’t know much about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:47 PM
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Plenty of short men who are fit good looking charismatic multimillionaires have no issues finding women to date. Work on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:47 PM
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Can you provide more information on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:42 PM
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Right! Complaining gets you nowhere. Plenty of short men who are fit, good looking multimillionaires have no issues with women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:42 PM
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And also- why do short men expect to attract women if they are unattractive? Tired of men who complain about height but don’t want to put in effort to be wealthy and good looking other than their height If a man is shorter but a multi millionaire, extremely good looking and fit, he probably is going to be able to find find a partner and get married
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:40 PM
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It is good advice It may be harder for short men but they should be working on themselves to be good enough for women. If a man is short but a multi millionaire extremely good looking and jacked he can probably find a partner Complaining without putting in the work is pathetic imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:39 PM
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Exactly. I think short men should try their best to compensate for their disadvantage. They need to be very wealthy and fit to get a partner/ lose their v card etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:37 PM
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Exactly. Short men should not give up. They should work to make themselves worthy of women. Just become jacked. Become a multi millionaire and you can have a partner. It’s really not that hard. I’m a short man who’s working on becoming jacked and extremely wealthy before I start dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:36 PM
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What is a BBW bash? Is that a thing? I’m a shorter (though not balding or unattractive at all) and heavier women are my type. If this is an actual thing, I would be so happy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:22 PM
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Why will he be fishing in a shallow pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:07 PM
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Where do I meet women IRL? I’m genuinely asking, as a man who is no longer using dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:34 PM
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Sorry if a man is a loser who can’t get a woman in his life then he needs to work on himself Men who are fit, very wealthy, and good looking don’t have problems with women. Maybe try to put in more effort
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:31 PM
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Sorry but if you can’t attract women it’s your fault. No excuse for being a pathetic loser Work to become wealthy and fit instead of whining about women, which makes you even more unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:30 PM
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What do you do to earn that kind of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:22 PM
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That sounds a bit extreme. Any man can work on himself and become a man who has tons of romantic options
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:22 PM
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Most men can attract women within their own country. It’s only drastic times for loser incels
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:11 PM
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Ok I’ll put myself out there a lot more frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:10 PM
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Do you think there’s a common reason why a man couldn’t find a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:56 PM
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:( I wish I could experience love at least once
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:53 PM
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Yeah the issue isn’t money it’s that only pathetic men would choose to be a sexpat in my opinion You might as well give up on dating if you need to travel across the globe to find one woman you are worthy of. I’m serious about this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:49 PM
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Do you take issue with a man who wants to focus on constant productivity?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:56 PM
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If the vast majority of men date then why can’t I find anyone? I have tried over and over only to be rejected for years every time. I am still working on self improvement but I would like to experience a relationship at least once in life By the way I’m 5’6
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:53 PM
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This isn’t a real option
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:49 PM
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If you have to do passport bro then you should just give up. You shouldn’t have to leave your country of millions tens of millions of women to find a partner. If you have to do that just give up on dating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:49 PM
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Why do you think apps are the best option?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:48 PM
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I’m so SO sick of men complaining about women’s standards and I’m a straight man. Women are allowed to not want virgin men. Literally just work hard to become very wealthy and take care of your looks and you can have success with dating. Men here are so lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:39 PM
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Why poor?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:00 PM
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I think people like this are rare in western culture, respectfully
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:53 PM
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Ok thank you for answering my question
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:16 PM
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97.5% of the pop makes love by 21?? So you wouldn’t have any assumptions if a person wasn’t waiting for marriage and desperately wanted to lose it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:12 PM
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Most of us who lack experience aren’t ugly or conceited. We just have bad luck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:11 PM
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What do you think could be off putting about this person if no one wanted a relationship/ to be intimate with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:00 PM
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Awesome, what’s your reasoning?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:45 PM
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No im not fat. I am thin and active athletically. I have been told I should model by other guys before so please don’t presume anything I do need to put on more muscle and have a gym plan for that Awkward somewhat yes though I can hold a conversation It could never occur to you there are guys who are in decent shape, who take care of their appearance, and ok socially who still struggle with women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:26 PM
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I have been addicted to literary porn, and am working to untangle myself from that craving, and it has absolutely affected me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:24 PM
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Not being that skilled of a flirt
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:50 PM
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Poor social ability ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:41 PM
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Why weird
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:39 PM
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Hey I will answer this quickly since I have to work on something Yes I am 5’6 and one of my old friends is my height and has always had success. I suppose they are more confident and have bigger social circles. I think making a social circle is basically impossible for me I would like to go to bars/ parties/ clubs- again kind of difficult to socialize there with a vocal disability from my experience but another friend wants to take me out to the bars so maybe I will go when I visit him and try a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:24 PM
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Yes I would be fine dating a broke directionless woman because beggars can’t be choosers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:28 PM
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I have and I’m planning on going to several hiking meetups in the next few weeks. But since I’m out of grad school now, I don’t know a lot of places to meet women. I frequented bars and clubs with my friend when I visited him in august and it didn’t work- no signals so I’m not going to attempt that again Yes, but I cannot go to loud places since I have damaged vocal cords, so I have to be selective about where I choose to meet people I would be fine having an alcoholic, directionless, or broke g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:23 PM
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I’ll try hiking groups. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:32 AM
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Where did you form your social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:19 AM
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No I have work to do on myself still of course But I like to think I’ve improved at least a bit. Better fashion sense, educated, traveled more, more financially stable. Did the father of 5 my dad was telling me about yesterday who can barely make ends meet for his family and is struggling need to retool himself? Did all the poor couples on poverty finance need to retool themselves? Do all the drug addicts with devoted partners need to retool themselves? No matter what self improvement I do, it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:17 AM
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I’ve used it. My best photos have gotten a strong 6- 7.3 for attractiveness/ dating. Do I need to hire another pro photographer? Why was I getting dates when I had shittier photos in 2021 but now that I’ve curated my photos I can’t get any matches
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:43 AM
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So you flirted with 40 women/ they approached you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:43 AM
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Can you judge my pictures? I have ones taken with a pro photographer and by my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:37 AM
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I’ve retooled my dating profiles over and over I used to in 2021 get at least some matches with shittier pictures and now I have better pictures and get no matches
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:30 AM
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I don’t believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:29 AM
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Why do you believe 60% of men have never approached or asked out a woman? Don’t you agree that’s pathological?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:35 AM
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At what age is it weird to have no relationship experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:52 AM
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So where do we meet people outside of school?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:11 AM
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Why by 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:10 AM
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What if we receive zero matches
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:10 AM
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Please give actionable steps
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:09 AM
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What do you think reading literary porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:02 AM
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