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Oh no answer...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:07 PM
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Yes it is that easy I turned it down multiple times. Getting ONS is the true test for genuine desire, odds are that most of those guys who will be settled for basically won't even register as at least ONS/FWB material despite being considered so much better than the guys women thirst after "just for meaningless fun" In my opinion all the girls who I thought were relationship material were definitely ONS/FWB material but somehow despite being a perfect breeding ground for a potential relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 10:01 PM
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I don't think otherwise though, I was being sarcastic by poking at the women here denying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 09:51 PM
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Lmfao what about those guys in this very same predicament you all always point to who "get sex all the time and so can the ugos here" ? What happened to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:24 PM
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Just like women and any other socially validated victims of the oppressive society are always online complaining about imaginary (at times) privileges. I don't see any problem with it as whining online is what people do to get their way hopefully. They clearly just show a counter example of those allegations about male privileges and showcase women's hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:21 PM
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Yes it is just a part of this bigger dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:17 PM
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No it is not a "must" by the way, besides they definitely don't mind the hot guys they date for "expecting" what she usually do. They even call it "assertiveness"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:12 PM
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Yes those are basically the same, stop grasping at straws. They lead to the same conclusion : leading your date on while you KNOW that you are usually down for it with the guys that you actually like. Just let them go then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 06:08 PM
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They are the ones to do so, if it wasn't the case then this whole argument wouldn't be happening and women would see those relationships fizzling as relationships fizzling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:22 PM
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Yeah? Can you change someone's body type? Features? Sexual organs colour and shape? If it is also important for the guy then he might as well find someone else with who things will workout better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:02 PM
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Sounds like what women chose not to do with this very issue. Personally I have never been a player I was way to worried about not hurting women's feelings, but it seems like a lot like to be burned like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:59 PM
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She may feel duped but as long as it is only that...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:53 PM
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A "scam"/"con" isn't assault
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:49 PM
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They already do and it is not what it is. Plenty of dudes are like that, they are warned when someone in their circle understands what is going on and chose not to listen. They should just learn to appreciate it for the sake of it and let go of the obsession of it happening in a relationship if they can't make the right choices to select a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:45 PM
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At least here men are holding simps/niceguys and naive manipulative women accountable. Women don't do the same at all and will defend the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:41 PM
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They didn't LIE to exploit anyone, it just so happened that they changed their mind after the fact because something that they didn't like happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:35 PM
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Maybe it was bad? Maybe that's exactly what has changed in the relationship ? They are allowed to change their minds, get over it and seek commitment before jumping on someone's bone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:30 PM
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No you just need to listen when people can obviously tell when those guys are manipulative. But you don't, that's on you. What happened ? That radar isn't working, how come ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:26 PM
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It is not rape you consented to do it. Being in a relationship or not is just a label you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:21 PM
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Yes like he said. Date for commitment if that's what you want and don't expect people to be what they pretend to be when they have all the possibilities to lie to get what you give. Guys feel the same when women act interested only if they entertain them with dates, the two are dead giveaways of someone trying to rip you off. You clearly see that a lot of people don't need to pay for dates for women to be interested, hell a lot of the times there aren't even dates. They can definitely get intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:13 PM
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Somehow he/she didn't answer 🙃
/r/ExRedPill24/07/26 06:25 PM
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And when they do it is never acknowledged
/r/MensRights21/07/26 09:06 AM
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Maybe? Seriously this is a probable cause, most people assume that most of their male peers wouldn't be a predator but we don't know until rubber meets the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:13 PM
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It is not made up, hot guys do what they want when they want and usually get to be picky while ugly people are treated worse on average, unlike those who want to preach the just world view life isn't fair and doesn't reward plucky hard working ugly people that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 10:31 PM
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I totally meant that they CAN'T do that and their only way to get sex is to begrudgingly get in a relationship oftentimes with women who aren't remotely as physically attracted to them, as they have factually been with hotter guys with whom she didn't need commitment, dates, effort, etc... to have one night stands and/or sex friends relationships. Those guys ARE the only "beta bucks" since they are only and arguably relevant only when guys able to pour their resources in a committed relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:53 PM
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The hot guys who can chose whatever they want, being a player, having sex friends and/or one night stands, or getting in relationships. The "beta bucks" are guys who typically will never be attractive enough to do that except ending up in a relationship. But they will probably be settled for at a middle age, or else, they would have had their pick of the litter and way earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:36 PM
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"Alpha fuck" I don't think that, I think that they have their pick of the litter. Hence why I said that at least they would be "Alpha fuck", they can decide to enter a relationship when they want since they are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:51 PM
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Because those men are typically less attractive dudes who were basically invisible before women decided to settle down and for them. Otherwise they would have gotten attention before on multiple occasions given the frequency at which people usually meet people of the opposite gender. And yet it doesn't happen, they are also the ones who have to stay in relationships in which they don't have a satisfying sex life and such. They literally have a worse experience that the guys who get to bone those…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:33 PM
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Oh god a woman who understands Jesus Christ, I have encountered two women on Reddit who could genuinely empathise. Don't change !
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:30 PM
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Because they are typically in the AF category and aren't concerned by the latter. We aren't talking about them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:28 PM
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But evolved people evolved only by tricking themselves into desiring to get something more convenient at the expense of something pleasurable. When money is important as well as stability, somehow reliable billy is great to keep around. But when there is no obligation from life in general, casual encounters with hot guys are fine. It will always be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:22 PM
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It is the case for the hot guys women don't mind fucking casually so why would the rules change for the beta bucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:18 PM
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Yeah the typical "fear" goto... Maybe it is more about not being the ones they truly desire? If it was the case their "qualities" should have made them far more noticeable and attractive from the start. In general people do know even young what they need for a successful relationship people aren't dumb. They know that they will get the excitement from certain guys, and only when it matters cut their loss with reliable nice guys. They have no business being in the latter, I would rather become a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:15 PM
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Holly shit no wonder you consider 20 a rookie number lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:02 PM
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Well if one is decently attractive he would miss much opportunities to meet someone in the first place, the fact that it takes so long is an indication.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:59 PM
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Yes I also share your feeling about what baggage means. In this context I think that baggage means bad experiences/regrets, not necessarily a trauma. Like trying anal, it may just be very uncomfortable even though the partner did everything to make her comfortable. It may just happen, it is no one's fault if both were clearly consenting. In this context I wouldn't regret being that guy, all my life I was just baffled by how people can just allow themselves to make "mistakes" like allow themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:58 PM
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To some extent you could help by explaining things, you feel to emotional about the redpill and the views/habits men get from it, but it is one of the few resources inexperienced men, who don't have the luxury of attracting dozens of women a month, have. Like any social topic you have a possibility to help or let it worsen and act as if you didn't contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:39 PM
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Okay as long as they are transparent about this so that their partners can decide if they want to stay or not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:37 PM
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I gave you an example, attractive guys are kept around because people like to be with them platonically or not. Of course they will be if no one does shit with them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:47 PM
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It is not desire for conquest. It is simply having a genuine fulfilling sexuality. If a guy is longing for more variety, is willing to experiment, or would potentially be willing to experiment if proposed to. Then having a partner who is totally into that and doesn't "withhold" those experiences and practices is a better treatment objectively. Hiding all of it and seeking a inexperienced guy who doesn't even know that you may be into that if you were attracted to him like that, or simply doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:45 PM
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I was referring to being about being a random guys cumdumpster. If you value your intimacy you can figure out that you won't like being left alone right after especially if the guy doesn't care. If you are someone who can get attached to people easily random ons clearly isn't for you. If you are an attention seeker, same. If you have trauma that you avoid dealing with by doing anything exciting, same. Getting a trustworthy partner is also an option too btw. Experimenting with random guys each ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:38 PM
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It is not ridiculous and toxic, wanting to find a partner who feels the need to explore her sexuality fully and trust you for any acts shows how invested she is sexually. If she doesn't even feel this desire then they feel less desire on certain aspects which show objectively that she is less attracted. Just because she has been in a relationship with multiple men doesn't mean that she necessarily feels as attracted to each of them. It is a very PC way to look at this. So yes, not wanting to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:22 PM
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As usual
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:13 PM
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Man, you are the one implying that the RP men hate those who they would somehow definitely get the type of sex they want from. But it is far from being a guarantee, besides the RP men "hate" promiscuous women, they aren't necessarily kinky and don't necessarily have the qualities that you think they may have. Like the other person said, you can find women who aren't interested in monogamous relationships who may have the qualities you mention. Therefore it may be important to figure out if they …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:00 PM
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It shows how dishonest they get, they can't be convinced by anything but will outright admit that any of their opinions are hard truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:54 PM
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If those are the only to possibilities that you can grasp then yeah, anyone would rather be the one who gets to experience for the first time rather than the guy who does nothing because she doesn't like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:47 PM
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Those are things you can realise before doing it, if someone can't then they probably aren't worth being with anyway. Do people need to get in a car accident to realise that they may be more cautious while driving? To people need to lose all their money in a scam to be more cautious of people? Those are basic things that people have always warned you about, the truth is they were definitely more than willing to do it because of the aforementioned reasons and has always been the case. Ugly guys w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:44 PM
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Because they could be interested in it? Besides the reasons you have given are also linked with men's attractiveness : how confortable women are with them, which may correspond to the speed at which he did get to do x and y, it is even worse if she was okay doing x and y for the first time with a total stranger. how long did they know the said guy(s), this is also correlated with mid or straight up unattractive guys experience that they may only get opportunities when laying around in the friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:40 PM
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They only pretend that because women themselves act as if those who don't manage to have sexual encounters or relationships with a healthy sex life do struggle because of some moral failures. This is why the low lives are always compared to the successful guys who struggle romantically and sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:18 PM
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And yet they still expect their partners to have these traits no matter how progressive they act
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:15 PM
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They think that they can and will magically escape the consequences of such dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:13 PM
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They do take that risk many times, those who don't jump in bed with the attractive stereotypes of men who don't struggle to date don't have that problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:38 AM
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Goomba fallacy once again, I was right to stop expecting much from women here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:37 AM
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Yes it has, you may like attractive people but you can do better by actively assessing their morals, it is easy. The other guy is right by pointing out how switching up and leading less attractive but financially stable guys on is being inconsistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:43 PM
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Moral and past actions maybe? If know wife beaters and rapist are better than unattractive guys (because it always boils down to this) then we are beyond cooked since it only went downhill for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:41 PM
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How men are kept around like slaves if their partner committed a paternity fraud, this and the fact that multiple government took away men's ability to operate paternity tests on their own children. Women do get the possibility to throw money at the problem of not wanting to be a mother by abandoning their child eventually but men don't get to do that.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/05/26 04:39 PM
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She just want to leave out women's implications in those to make them look innocent.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/05/26 04:37 PM
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On erome or eporner mainly Ahah thanks those are also things I have always wanted to accomplish in my life : being a nerd who tinkers around and eventually built impressive things like Tony Stark, Frantz Hoper and any other mad scientist I grew up watching. I would have loved to share it with someone who loves AND desires me for me and not the money I will make and the stability I will provide. I will have to do it alone, I can consider myself lucky, many men don't have something exciting to loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 08:06 AM
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Same about efficiency, porn is great thanks to OF girls getting their videos leaked. To some extent it hurts to see how wilder they are as compared to typical porn lmfao, and it hurts even more to know that you will never get none of that. I picked up league of legends it takes a lot of time which is good. Besides I also picked up electronics and quantum physics. I look forward to make my own work shop and my own dedicated clean room for nano manufacture chips at home and see how far I can get !…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:02 PM
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Welcome to the club bro, which are you copes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:23 PM
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Because it is true that she deceived herself by seeking a highly promiscuous and untrustworthy man just like most women who get cheated on do? It is their decision but most men have the right to dissociate themselves from those guys. Many guys don't even get to make "mistakes" like them and still get women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:04 AM
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This doesn't contradict that men who also have all of that may still feel bad for not being in a relationship and get 100% better in one. I find no problem with that personally
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:31 PM
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I don't know if you reported my comment (which wouldn't surprise me) but anyway, young black men tend to not be interested in serious relationships unlike others ethnicities which is another consequence of the same dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:52 PM
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So if someone hurt you deliberately you wouldn't press charges because you decided to hang out that day anyway? I don't see why it is a problem to chose to date and expecting people to do better. The two aren't even mutually exclusive. Women are the first to do so and are typically more liberal, this whining philosophy extends beyond dating. So there is no problem expecting women to stop tricking men into believing that they are sincere when they just plan on settling for them. Just like society…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:48 PM
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More than a third doesn't at all, and more women than men in that age bracket do get to experience dating. Many don't get to have more than 1 relationships, it appears to be exactly what he said. Luck. If you had a brain you would be doubtful of those self reported data anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:36 PM
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Funny how people will parrot this all day but will never turn down getting in a relationship and acting the most butthurt when it ends abruptly. Everyone is like that, people need to stop with this "self improve first, you don't need a partner" all that to cry their heart out after a divorce or a break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:31 PM
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All I see is that all women are beautiful, not men, that being lesbian is great and in real life it is accepted among heterosexual men while the opposite is false women who date bisexual men are often disgusted to learn that, women know that they can rely on their cuteness to get ahead while boys are on borrowed time at best, and same for DEI. Women have always been the biggest whiners and got a massive leg up to reach this current state where they feel big on the shoulders of the men who's mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:25 PM
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A lot of them are often open to dates a wide range of women regarding looks, it works like a chain it is not hard to conceive. So yeah, women mostly have the last word regarding this oftentimes as men are socially expected to approach, plan, take the risks, etc... If they stopped nothing would get done and that's literally what many people complain about of social media you just want to play dumb...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:13 PM
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They deal with less reported and acknowledged DV than women* Women have the highest rates of DV when dating women by far which is inexcusable btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:05 PM
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Do you live near under a rock? Don't you see videos of women saying that if even such "quality women" get cheated on then there is no need to trust any man?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:02 PM
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[ Removed by Reddit ]
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:58 PM
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It is what it seems to be for sub par men though so they have all the reasons to proceed with caution
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:45 PM
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They don't care, your daily life that contradicts their just world fallacy is necessarily false and not worth addressing correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 10:13 AM
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I disagree with you second paragraph, it is not uncommon to see those nerdy women seeking out attractive men which aren't even in their close environment. This is something I witnessed in HS, prep school and even my engineering school. Form my experience most of the women who are a tiny bit like that don't care about "the most attractive nerd in the ugly nerd group" they are attracted to attractive people too. I remember watching videos about guys in the same predicament talking about how even n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 10:12 AM
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Yes absolutely and I find it beautiful that more and more future excess young man wake up thanks to the "manosphere content" which is a big swing but compensate the conditioning done so far
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:23 AM
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No it is pretty common such women often complain of the internet about the backlash they get from men who look down on promiscuity. Besides this wouldn't happen if they searched in the environment they have found the other fuck boys to have fun with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:20 AM
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The concept of "fault" comes in when it comes down to "mistakes" people make in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:17 AM
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Yep, a pain in the ass sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:56 PM
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So true they are just horny and having sex casually doesn't matter. But doing it with their friendzoned buddies is not envisageable at all. But fwb are just friends they just so happen to be horny at the right place and right time though. It is so annoying how everything are just things randomly happening to them and they don't make any conscious decisions at all...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:01 AM
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It is reddit, you can witness the Schrödinger self-righteousness in plain sight
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:55 PM
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Women are the first to state otherwise deal with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:52 PM
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If it wasn't the case women wouldn't come up with their "slow burn" concept which basically consist of trying to create as much tension as possible with a relationship material guy since you won't want to fuck him like ONS guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:48 PM
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It still doesn't stop millions of college sluts to jump the bones of hot guys all around the world. They even lie about it to the guys they will date seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:45 PM
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You can even use that busted logic with marriage ... This is even the main argument against the idea that just because a woman willing to settle for an unsuspecting bastard doesn't necessarily mean that she actually desires him much. Like of course ONS/FWB feels validating, being attractive is the point of reaching a looks threshold to instil arousal in someone...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:43 PM
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Not enough to know who to make "mistakes" with and who not to lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:38 PM
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But women are the most likely to mistreat their own kids for any reason, besides kids are less safe in single parent households with a mother than with a father. Those facts are disregarded by those same people, they are even excused for acting like that...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:10 PM
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No they do ask women to use men, to recondition boys, to shame men's sexuality while expecting men to let women act freely, they expect institutions, the security and legal system to take women's side by default. By the way many countries have already buckled (DNA tests, rapes definitions that changed but only considered that only women can get raped, police taking action only for women, in many countries relocating women is a priority even if they are not directly threatened by someone like hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:46 PM
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This isn't what the women who settle for other men after getting fuckedzoned do. Many women have a hard time to "just go home and being happy to cook themselves a dessert" after getting pumped and dump when they wanted more. So much that many women would rather "take it slow" after such misfortunate events and have baggage, not to say that they are damaged and figuratively take it on the next unsuspecting fool. Many women do find it heartbreaking and insulting. They don't decide to focus on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:28 AM
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Support, companionship, genuine raw sexual desire coupled with emotional intimacy and frequent sex, which seems to be mutually exclusive to people I don't know why. According to reddit (oftentimes women justifying this weird dual mating dynamic) : either you are hot enough for ONS/FWB, but if you meet someone who puts you in the relationship material zone, they find it offensive to feel the same way AND develop the romance for the relationship. I personally couldn't care less. Besides, I would l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:14 AM
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It is something that women struggle to understand, but I get it, it is hard to grasp dealing with uncertainty when you get to sit back and wait for men to come, court and entertain you like a simpish baffoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:01 PM
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If they don't start spontaneously in the first place, then maybe they were fine enough to begin with? I don't care to maintain a haircut (like waves/twist barrels/etc + taper fades every two weeks), smelling cologne (I don't care to smell good, I just want to not smell bad), getting interesting things to say about me while I couldn't care less about the things normies want me to do to fit in, etc... Those things that unpopular/unsuccessful men do to be better is LITERALLY for others, they never …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:57 PM
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They aren't, who are those millions of people liking posts about women's struggles in dating, or why they don't like the fact that they don't have any incentive to start doing so due to the lack of buffoons for their entertainment in the dating scene ? Personally I see this just as often as men complaining, everyone loves to downplay it and antagonise way too much RP/BP influencers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:51 PM
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No not every women actually has the "option" of getting a "top man" they may sleep with them but won't get in a relationship with them. So oftentimes they can't. Besides I agree and disagree, more and more men are trying to make peace with or are envisioning staying single. I think that I might go that route since I am pretty sure that I won't get what I want from a LTR and don't have what I takes to get ONS/FWB so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:47 PM
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Every men start with the blue then the red pill. Think for yourself why they the black pill forced itself into their lives...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:46 AM
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Or cope before you sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:39 AM
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Anytime anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:31 AM
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But they CAN'T jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:30 AM
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A simple fix would be to point out to people that they are annoying as hell with their generalisations while their own problems come from the people they chose to date and those they decided to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:20 AM
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Again they only fall for certain guys lie and not others, I know because I knew guys who could do it and how those girls reacted to them and their presence. It had nothing to do with how the medium ugly struggling guy make them feel, they don't care about them. After some times they learn towards who to go for what. They also know who to keep in their friendzone and who to take risks with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:53 PM
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Thoses are not mistakes, they are well known traps idiots fall for, and they know who they take those risks with and who they would make wait by covering it up with their "slow burn" bs. It always comes back to the same old dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:42 PM
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Vet EVERYONE or if you fuck early don't adopt a sudden dual mating approach where you fuck quickly guys you see as hookup material while stringing along long term dating prospects like many women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 02:39 PM
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Those women aren't those towards who they post aimed at since they would basically be cautious with everyone. There are a lot of women who don't mind having variable waiting period for sex, wether it is genuine or if it is just manipulative they string along men they aren't even into. Usually those guy pay for the dates all that to go nowhere while it could have been predicted all along. If men like to to quite fast especially when they are likely to meet women who lie about being okay with fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:07 PM
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How come she didn't vet like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:55 PM
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Goomba fallacy once again, the go-to gatcha of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:46 PM
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They don't care they just want to enforce their opinion. Men just want sex to feel validated and liked physically hoping that women do too. Knowing that they don't even feel the same way is demoralising, especially when they didn't mind doing it before. Or if they definitely have ONS/FWB on the side which is common. And in this case it isn't something noble or whatever, it is just being a user. I would never want to wait that much for those women. The rare exception would be women who are inexpe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:39 PM
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Yes if she is typically promiscuous for example the only excuse is if she doesn't have much experience dating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:25 PM
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It won't happen anytime soon man lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 07:32 PM
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No I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:33 PM
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So it is just binary ? Those guys could be with girls who are almost asexual when it comes to the intimacy they have and it would be great just because they have some on the paper ? I don't see being in a relationship and having some sex as great just because, how it happens qualitatively and quantitatively matters too. Setting with an average girl who has a barely average attraction for me wouldn't mean shit to me, but a girl I would be attracted to and with who I always have a great time would…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:32 PM
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No one said anything about coddling deadbeats, I don't know who they are and can't control them neither. It is clear that they are reliable and won't change there is nothing I can do or say to change them. Women on the other hand have everything to lose, they know it but still make those choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:25 PM
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"Do great" proceed to date or get in relationship the first average women who show attention to them I don't see that as doing great personally...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:56 PM
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You are right, in my experience average guys get in relationships/dates the first average or below average girl that shows interest in them. To be honest it is just how it is for most average or below average people anyway, they won't get much attention in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:55 PM
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Because they deliberately chose them, it is their preference and thus what happens next is their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:49 PM
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It is actually free and it feels good to receive positive attention without putting much effort to get it, period. The analogy doesn't work, a lot of women do positively receive this kind of attention all the time when it comes from someone they find attractive and suddenly have the same intentions back. Somehow that's how the hookup culture works who could have guessed. I disagree people approaching on the street are offering something, just say that you don't value it. Only because it doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:57 PM
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Which is stupid and will cause a mental health crisis and a rise in depression cases amongst men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:49 PM
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You literally pointed out the problem, forcing yourself to make "better choices" when you can't really sustain your previous lifestyle IS settling. Being a pragmatic woman from the start and choosing men for character traits men in your dating pool looksmatches have and which you are actually attracted to would be fine. One is switching up because it will be convenient in the end like incorporating vegetables in your diet to not die from diabetes, hypertension or a stroke. And the other is findi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:48 PM
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The two were MavaChou (or Maeva if I am not mistaken) and Adrien, there are still reaction videos of the drama, in french though.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/12/25 03:51 PM
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Yeah that's what I felt, I was considering it a few times at some point that's why I commented. But I understand your viewpoint.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/11/25 09:26 PM
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Come on she was a bad person but she must have felt really bad to go that far and do that.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/11/25 06:27 PM
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And the humiliation ritual of cheating, truly despicable
/r/EverydayMisandry28/11/25 06:27 PM
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They don't care, in the US you might not have heard about this story but there was a streamer in France who was in an abusive relationship with a bipolar woman. He was gaslit in doing this and she made fun of him for "shooting blanks now", she cheated very soon after and they divorced. I don't have the words for this. Unfortunately though, because if the shitstorm she took her life.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/11/25 05:04 PM
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I am absolutely not surprised, especially on that sub
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/25 08:21 PM
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It is worth trying if they suffer that much but depending on their potential it can be a big waste of time. The money and time spent could very likely amount to nothing especially for those who couldn't even get an ounce o interest from women before having to "glow up". And another thing to consider, is that the quality of the relationship they will get by always putting 100% as a bare minimum could not be as satisfying as they perceive it to be for naturally attractive guys who almost never get…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:21 PM
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Sure it requires effort but the results are so marginal that it is not worth it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:11 PM
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It is not even worth it for them really a waste of money and time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:51 PM
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Sure, hence why those guys don't do it. "Moving the needle" isn't their goal, it was being casanova as women love to imply it when giving those hypocritical advice knowing that it won't help them to get the reactions they actually want, which men often state by the way when they ask for advices. But hey they asked to me more attractive right? Barely better is still better so they technically didn't lie. But understand how it feels like getting handed a glass of water for you crippling back pain.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:47 PM
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I somewhat agree, wether they didn't have any bad experiences and just happened to browse frequently here since they don't have much social interaction irl or that they got burned badly and tried to make sense of this by browsing those forums, or even if they never had any chance to begin with, it does indeed deteriorate the view they have on women and their interactions with them. The ecochambers forums are quite bad at helping young men to change for the better and accomplish their goal, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:34 AM
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It is not shitty personality, it is bad social skills and a lack of romantic experience. Being able to arouse women and satisfy them sexually aren't personality traits but skills tied to their social skills which are required to have deep interpersonal interaction with women, Jesus Christ. People with bad personality don't really struggle in my experience if they have the social skills to make up for it, that's literally why a lot of women still go towards them for short term satisfaction, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:21 AM
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