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I think for a lot of women, they became aware of a lot of issues men have with dating with "manosphere" content You would never have listened if it wasnt for the "manosphere" how ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:25 PM
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Your living in an alternate universe if you think those are lies. Your female privilege is showing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:23 PM
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People who are average and below average in looks, height, income etc end up in happy relationships all the time. How do you know theyre in a happy relationship? How do you know the relationship is functional and both parties, but especially the men, are have their sexual needs met?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:58 PM
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You seem just as ignorant to the plight of average men than the women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:42 PM
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Bruh, it most lonely men were attractive or hot enough, society would actually care the same way it cares about women. What we're seeing are unnattractive members of the disposable sex dying off 🤣 (includes me)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:33 PM
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Do you think a man could go from the "no" bucket to the other two buckets if he has a glow up of some sort? Whether it be physical like getting slimmer, muscular etc. Or status related like sudden increase in wealth, better status job etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:46 AM
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Something tells me you've never been a short and ugly man before 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:44 PM
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It's not women fault. What happened to personal accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:41 PM
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Wrong. Im saying this because I've actually met and talked with MANY women from many walks of life. You guys are HORRIBLE at picking partners. Ive personally known a woman who got with a married man and had his kid because she had some weird "feeling" and "spiritual connection" with that man. She told me she knew she would be raising the kid on her own too. And I know another women making 200k who has been with the same man for over a decade despite him repeatedly cheating on her. And im good fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:00 AM
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Sounds like the men YOU consider as romantic options bring chaos to your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:58 AM
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Like ive said 1000 of times before its entirely on the womens decisons to choose the route of where we gonna be in the next few years. Can you elaborate more on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:23 PM
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Which is going to decrease the number of dateable men for women like me who want to start a family, because why would men commit when they can just hire a hooker :/ Lol. You weren't thinking that much when you wrote this did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:40 PM
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Even more telling is the ones who are confident their sons are gonna be chad and pump and dump a bunch of women lol. Like yeah, my son is totally going to respect women but still go around playing the field with other women's daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:39 AM
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Love seeing all the women coping in the comment section lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:11 AM
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Okay, but no amount of exercise will compensate for an ugly face or short height. What advice do you have for such men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:49 AM
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Okay bro how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:27 PM
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Ok, what signs exactly do you pick up on?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:54 PM
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If they talk to you 12 hours a day, it's a hint that they like you Hope that's a typo. Dude, I have no problem going up to a girl and initiating conversation. I usually ask them out to coffee or whatever afterwards. We meet-up later and have great(emotionally deep) conversations. But I can never really pick up on signs where the girl has geniune interest. How do you pick up on interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:47 PM
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Is your strategy really just striking up conversation with women and picking up on signs of interest? And acting on those interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:14 PM
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Buddy how tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:04 AM
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You sound privileged. Count your lucky stars your born a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:38 AM
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How tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:39 PM
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She stayed with him for three years, a year of which was after the chlamydia. Every time the rest of us told her to drop him, she would go on and on about how we just didn’t understand (though she thankfully wisened up eventually). Whoa, how attractive or unnattractive was this guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:37 PM
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Good, can you stop complaining about male privilege now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:55 PM
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That's the thing. I didn't know individuals could date THAT long
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:46 PM
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dating for almost 13, married for 4. How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 07:29 PM
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Glad your self aware enough to realize that. Honestly the only way I think modern women would understand is if they had sons who are facing the modern difficulties that men are facing. Honestly the only way they'll understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:40 PM
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Good. Now if you could also convince women that they have it easier so they stop calling men privileged, that would be great. I don't think it's lost on men what a shitty deal most of us have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:24 PM
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I'm glad your acknowledging that women are the more privileged gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:17 PM
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Bro, i think j have that, don't see women breaking down my door to be with me. Just makes me friendzone material
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:15 PM
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Safe choice with a women who's a virgin at marriage. I think the majority of men, and sensible women wish the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:27 AM
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Found the problem. No one is interested in dating someone who thinks he’s better than you because he makes more money or has a more extensive education. Don't give me that BS. Women are always going on how men are falling behind in college enrollment and how men in certain professions or payscales are losers. And women already play the calculus of binning men based on first impressions. Women are just as superficial if not more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:02 PM
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From what i see of people nowadays and online - they tend not to have patience and want instant gratification. One of the examples could be wanting sex after the first date. I don't think it's instant gratification. Based on what I've experienced, it's better men move on quickly. If she doesn't show you any genuine desire it's better you move quick to the next woman instead of getting you emotions entwined and then maybe hurt. Sex tends to be the most direct representation of genuine desire for …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:55 AM
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I agree the spirit of what your saying, not exactly. I actually do have access to different 3rd spaces(bubbles). In these different bubbles different things are valued in a person. I don't think not having anything in common is necessarily a problem, we have a rise of international dating/marriages. I think that can be mended out by spending time and seeing how well people fit. For example. In one of my circles there this single girl that works as a barista, she pretty much has a "goth-vibe" goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:40 AM
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I love how you the just ignored all the points I brought up and you choose not to address them. Ironically, my women friends actually admit the difficulty that men face(why i liked them enough that I keep them as friends) How attractive do you need to be to have any dating success? As I mentioned in my comment, both tall and good-looking i.e. good face, slim/decently muscular. In real life: I've seen first hand how the attitudes of women change around those sorts of guys, they do what they can t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:26 AM
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You must be a woman, or an old man, or a tall attractive man because you seem completely detached to the average male experience. Our grandfather's never had to put up with anything as bad as what we have today. Being socialized will help you understand how to become attractive in other ways, putting you in contact with attractive men you can use as reference As I mentioned in my comment, you have to be VERY attractive, ie tall, good face, if you lacking in even one of those, your going to land …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:06 AM
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As a guy who is not only social but also: Fit, STEM, Six-figures(LCOL), And has female platonic friends, I have to STRONGLY disagree with this post. Being social these days will most likely not be enough unless your very attractive as a man. For one thing, your not considering how alot of women are also poorly socialized like men are. In my experience it's has tended to be the older, grandma aged women that I found the most easy to communicate with and have the most vibrant personalities. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:37 AM
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"Your not entitled to sex" Is what women would be typing in the comments if OP was a man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:59 PM
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True, but what your forgetting how judgemental women and the culture has become towards virgin and inexperienced men. They act like men remaining a virgin is a choice and place unfair blame without considering surrounding circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:47 AM
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Women can hate men all they want and get dates from men. I mean the same can be true for men as well. I've known guys who are straight up misogynists who have had jail time and have abused previous partners, but lo and behold that doesn't stop them from getting women or women loving them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:16 AM
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Exactly, all the answers to this post is just women showcasing how IGNORANT and DETATCHED they are to the male experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:46 AM
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Username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:34 PM
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Must be nice to be a woman. Be social and active with others in person 3 times minimum per week. I already am. Adjust and vary every social/active. Talk to people, make connections, and flirt. Make friends. Go when asked to join after class or event or whatever. Already have. With mainly men and older women. This could look like going to a gym class once a week. Zumba? Yoga? Whatever. Go regularly, say hi to the teacher, get to know the regulars. Ask for help with your yoga practice. Ask for rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:19 PM
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Funny this question showed up on my feed. Was at a friend's house today, and he had some contractors over to put a fence up on his new house. One of them was a college kid. He was I think 5'8, maybe 5'9? (I'm just below 5'6) he was black, and I'd say average attractiveness. (Not ugly, but not model-tier) I was conversing with them and the topic of dating came up. College kid said he was single because dating at his college was filled with women all pining for the top 1% of guys. So, yeah lol. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:19 PM
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Remember, handmaiden tale is only good if women want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:26 PM
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Tall and good looking person can still suffer from mental and physical diseases, and these can be hereditary. A short and average looking person can have a lineage free of cancer and deformities. You do know this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:25 PM
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The flaw in your plan is that there are ALOT of good-looking loser men and women out there. And unfortunately alot of unnattractive honest and moral people as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:29 PM
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People in poverty shouldn’t have kids that will serve as future slaves to the elite. This is a great way to eliminate the classes and ensure a good future for any kids that do come into the world. Mmm, as someone who was raised by parents who started out near poverty line, and now upper middle class, i think your going about this the wrong way. RESPONSIBLE people who are beneficial and pusing society forward should reproduce. People with integrity and raised with morals, because these are the pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:26 PM
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Working on yourself can improve your physical looks, your financial standing and your prosocial and altruistic traits. But does this work on men though? Would it make any difference for a man that's balding/ugly/short?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:16 PM
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I'm 34 and single. I'm so fed up with Peter Pans who are pushing 40 and still just looking for "fun" or "not sure" about wanting kids or marriage or want them "someday" or some other vague BS. My dear, Why should 6'3 chad settle for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:13 PM
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Okay, what's your skin color and height?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:33 PM
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Flair checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:00 PM
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I'm sure there were way more successful in dating than me even if I'm taller. Do you know for sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:11 PM
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Women still like him. But don't prefer him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:42 PM
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My son has a friend who probably weighs 300 lbs. Hey, atleast he isn't short, that's something to celebrate amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:59 PM
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Even the bottom 20% of men can get a girlfriend. This guy got a lesbian to leave her wife and go straight for him. HE WHAT
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:34 AM
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As a man, whom is disappointed with his Lot in life and is involuntary celibate, I'm sorry life is difficult for you women in this way. At the very least, you got to experience some form and intimacy and satisfied your reproductive urge.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:24 AM
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It’s your perception that life isn’t horrible for both genders that is annoying here. I mean in relative terms. The life of the majority of men is relatively worse than that of women. Men work and accumulate wealth their whole lives, Men are so busy trying to fucking prove themselves that they destroy their own lives and it’s sad. Because men are born inherently expendable. Its simply biology. Women are born with inherent value just by virtue that they reproduce. Eggs are more precious than sper…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:30 PM
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Men pay lip service to fat acceptance, they treat overweight women like shit. And so do women with short men. Men are pressured into being stoic by other men. Men are preassured by SOCIETY into being stoic. Personal anecdote being my mother, she would tear into me if I ever cried and would tell how "it's not manly". Women are still pressured to have kids. Indeed, there is an entire narrative built up by tradcon men that this is a woman’s ONLY value. I don't know what universe your living, but it…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:46 PM
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Some guy sticking his dick in for 2 minutes isn’t the thrill men think it should be. And yet the value of a male is derived from it. male virginity or inexperience is not exactly coveted. As for emotional needs men scarcely recognize them and only then just to get sexual gratification. Men are still preassured to be stoic. A man being emotional is never seen as attractive. Just look at all the guys who say their wives/girlfriends lost attraction to then after they opened or cried. Women are cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:06 PM
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It sucks for everyone Mmm, maybe. But it sucks for the sub-80% man the most. Women can atleast have most of their sexual and emotional desires met and still cared for by wider society. Not the case for the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:29 PM
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Is that what men need to feel and do better in life and in dating? As long as you don't mean it in a condescending way. Yah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:13 AM
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I think there is a need to take into account that not all women are attractive. Has anyone here tried dating an unattractive woman with a good personality? I personally know a facially deformed, overwight woman who has kids. She was the concierge at my previous workplace. And I fucking loved talking to her, she was definitely one of the most welcoming women I've ever met. She was an anime nerd. I don't think a facially deformed man will have the same reproductive success.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:11 AM
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Well, atleast you acknowledge how much it sucks to be a man. Even as a guy who considered myself redpilled, I never agreed with the "men age like fine wine" thing. I think both men and women can get better with age, but that takes both work and committment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:37 AM
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