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| 1 | What do women mean when they say they want to feel protected by a man?How did she act emotional? Was she a really happy person who smiled all the time? Was she easily angered? Was she sad and mopey? How do you emotionally support people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?and you dont think there is anything wrong with universities putting political pressure on students? is that freedom and democratic? It is wrong. I got knows for you. that applies to all government, all media, all platforms, all banks, all education. they are all run by the exact that shadow government. The system isn’t perfect. But I trust that voting isn’t rigged. Mainstream media is heavily biased in some respects. Banks have served me well through investments. I got lucky with my early educa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?that makes zero sense. I disagree. hive mind answer. No. your like "my friend is fat so I stopped eating to make him loose weight. " No. ”I take medications so that other people dont die" it's idiotic If that’s idiotic, then I’m happy to be an idiot. if that person isn't vaccinated or doesnt want to, Im not threatening anyone. Increased risk of transmission. this is marxist group rhetoric. Eww. I think there’s a Marxism political science class before my number theory class (Fermat’s Little Theor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?no, you support the current thing and popular opinion, like most people. Oh? Why was I pro-choice in terms of abortion when a lady in my community was shunned for being pro-choice in terms of abortion? Why am I against gender ideology even though I go to a university where it’s unwise to voice that aloud? you said you support mandates if the majority does That’s not what I said. I supported vaccine mandates. If the majority of people in my country didn’t want vaccine mandates, then we should hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?makes zero sense. I disagree. if you dont want to die, take that shit if that makes you feel save. I got vaccinated because I want to help protect myself and others. how does me taking a shot change what happens to someone else? It prevents a person from getting Covid-19. If you don’t have Covid-19, you’re one less person to possibly transmit the virus to [insert person here], who you came in contact with recently. if the shot prevents deaths, it prevents deaths in people who got it. Yep. if I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?that's extremely disturbing. It’s pro-democracy. it shows that you have no real opinion I supported vaccine mandates. If the referendum pointed to getting rid of vaccine mandates when I think we needed them, I would still want vaccine mandates. and not thought about it but are ready to support abolishing human rights if the collective wants to. No. I support human rights. I’d move to another country if the majority of our citizens were against human rights. It wouldn’t be a safe country to live … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?The gain is less people dying of Covid-19 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?I’m a big believer of short-term pain for long-term gain. If I had it my way, my country would have closed our borders immediately before the virus ever entered our country. Then we would have had on-comers quarantine before continuing life in the country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?I wouldn’t call restaurants a luxury either. It was awful that people were deprived of socialization and were isolated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?I’m pro-referendum. If the majority of people in my country want vaccine mandates, then let’s go for it. If the majority of people in my country don’t want vaccine mandates, then let’s get rid of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:43 AM |
| 0 | What do women mean when they say they want to feel protected by a man?I think you want to talk about “women in general” and not “woman anomalies”. I think you want to look at your version of “the bigger picture”. Is that your point? I don’t know. Yes, good luck to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:39 AM |
| 0 | What do women mean when they say they want to feel protected by a man?Oh, I’m a nobody. I’m insignificant. Obscure. Nobody asked about me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?Yes. In my country, vaccine mandates were for privileges such as eating in restaurants, travelling, going to recreational centres and things like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?the question is why do you support force medication? I don’t support forced medication. why would anyone do this? Control. If you fear illness, mediacate yourself. I don’t think medication is the answer to fear of illness. I think diet and exercise is the solution. I’m into living off the land in terms of hunting, fishing, foraging, and gardening. why force others to do the same when you can "protect" yourself regardless? I don’t do that. People who do that might want control. thats the hypocris… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:29 AM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?Nobody in my country was forced to get a vaccine. My sister and her family are unvaccinated. They’re wonderful. I love them dearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:22 AM |
| 0 | What do women mean when they say they want to feel protected by a man?I was talking about me. I wasn’t being noble. I think I am self-righteous in some respects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:20 AM |
| 0 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?My one aunt and uncle are antivaxers. They’re crazy people though. Even one of their kids changed her name, moved away, and cut off the whole family just to be rid of them. Another person in my family doesn’t have the Covid-19 vaccine, but is otherwise fully vaccinated. She’s not an antivaxer. She just chose not to get vaccinated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?I was pro-vaccine mandates when they were a thing. I’ve always been pro-choice (abortion). There is no patriarchy in my country. I’m against gender ideology and identity politics. I’m against genital mutilation. I’m pro-hunting/fishing/foraging/gardening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:07 AM |
| 0 | What do women mean when they say they want to feel protected by a man?I specifically talk about myself because I can speak for myself. I don’t know what the fuck other humans are thinking. I’m not interested in psychology, sociology, and whatnot. I think there is a lot of bullshit in those areas of study. I view people as individuals. I don’t support identity politics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 01:58 AM |
| 2 | What do women mean when they say they want to feel protected by a man?I’m responding to your comment because I think men should not give a woman what she wants just because she wants it. I want to point out that it’s wrong for a man to console a woman spouting off crocodile tears. This subreddit provides me with entertainment. I take joy in commenting on posts like these. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 01:54 AM |
| 0 | What do women mean when they say they want to feel protected by a man?Correct. Nobody on this post has specifically asked me anything so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 01:47 AM |
| -2 | What do women mean when they say they want to feel protected by a man?I like the idea of physical and financial protection. I can protect myself, but it’s nice to have the protection of others too in those regards. For instance, my mom and dad would try to physically protect me and I’d try to physically protect them. My parents made sacrifices to financially protect my and their futures. I’m a financially independent university student (scholarship; high school jobs) so I’ve financially protected my parents from spending money on my further education and passions.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 01:41 AM |
| 0 | What do women mean when they say they want to feel protected by a man?I feel protected by my family. If someone were to pick on me, my family would stand up for me. I stand up for my family too. My mom and dad would try to protect me from physical harm. I would try to protect them from physical harm too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have?What the fuck is neurodivergence nowadays? People are retroactively labelling fictional characters and historical figures of the past as neurodivergent. Particularly, they’re placing the labels on people who are highly intelligent and/or creative. I greatly value intelligence and creativity so perhaps I view the label of neurotypical as an insult. Mental illness is a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of Jordan Petersons claim that “marriage is for children”?I don’t NEED that. No human NEEDS a legally enforceable government contract to love one’s spouse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of Jordan Petersons claim that “marriage is for children”?Ya, and I’m just explaining why people in my atheist family value marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 10:32 AM |
| 4 | What do you think of Jordan Petersons claim that “marriage is for children”?My grandparents, parents, sisters, and I are all atheists. Each set of grandparents were married. My parents are married. My second-eldest sister is married. In our family, we celebrate some Christian traditions because we think they’re meaningful in a non-religious way and fun. To us, marriage is a symbol for the ultimate kind of love between a husband and wife. Weddings are just super fun. Cool destinations. Fun dancing. Sweet gifts. Food and cake. The works. Marriage, like you said, is helpfu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 09:01 AM |
| 3 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singlePerhaps @uglysalidisugly would benefit from reading the novel “Where the Red Fern Grows”. There are also many films that depict “death by a broken heart”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 08:47 AM |
| 4 | Men are happier in marriage and women are happier singleMy dad would be devastated if my mom died. It’s a tale as old as time. He knows how to cook, clean, and go to the doctor, lol. My mom would be equally devastated if my dad died. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 08:35 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of Jordan Petersons claim that “marriage is for children”?I think it’s false. Marriage is for the ultimate love between a husband and wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 08:25 AM |
| 1 | People here try to answer questions rationally, engaging their brain and taking pause whilst also considering morality. The discrepancy is that attraction is irrational, emotional and reactionaryIs attraction rational and logical? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | the n-count and the bi-men debate is about dicks being grossI’m not into cads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Should couples have separate bank accounts or share them ?I’m assuming TFSA’s and RRSP’s are individual by law. I know my parents used to do income splitting to lower their taxes. My dad takes care of the investments. I forget what is in whose name to maximize profits, but it’s all informally shared anyway. They also inherited investments from my paternal grandparents (my grandma was the one who took care of investments). My mom and dad have separate Visa cards, debit cards, and GIC’s. They use each others’ visa and debit cards though. They live on a b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Thankful for the university-grade education I’ve learnt in this space to enhance my dating life going forward, But I Need A Distraction and Way Out of HereSwim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | If most women wouldn't date a bisexual man why are fictional gay relationships so popular with straight women?Oddly, I think at the end of the show, the bride says she’d call the story a love story (the romance being between lesbians) rather than a ghost one. But ya, I’m not into sexually explicit content at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 05:16 AM |
| 0 | What should women (and men) bring to the relationship and what should their responsibilities be?What’s this bargain you speak of? All of men and women living amongst each other in society? The marriage between any ol’ husband and wife? The marriage between a particular husband and wife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | It’s not good for women if women getting to choose their guy is emphasized so much that guys have to throw out their standardsMy grandpa was born just over 100 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 03:59 AM |
| 5 | What should women (and men) bring to the relationship and what should their responsibilities be?Responsibilities aren’t gendered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 03:50 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on the idea of AF/BB?AF - cads like Picasso (watch the TV series and you’ll see…) Ewwwww BB - fat, balding, dull dudes who attract gold diggers Ewwwww | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 02:39 AM |
| 2 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?Yep. My dad became an engineer stay-at-home-dad when I was in grade 8. My mom was an artist stay-at-home-mom from the time I was born. I don’t know what the intent behind the question was. If the intent was different from my interpretation, the OP made a huge mistake in the wording of his question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?As @toasterchild said: “So there was no point to the entire question besides would you like to be rich if you could just wake up and live your life how you want?” Yep :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?Well I work from home already , so you’re just saying I could continue what I’m doing but I can’t continue to call myself by my profession? You could still call yourself by your profession. But I can still ‘do’ my profession if it’s creative…I just can’t call myself that, or earn any money from it? It would appear that you could still earn money from something labelled as “creative”. If you didn’t want to label your work as “creative”, you could say you’re a philanthropist and donate all the mon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?It was a money question. You could have a career while being a stay-at-home-wife as long as it met certain criteria. Personally, I think any form of work can have a creative slant, thereby meeting the criteria. Otherwise, you could donate the money you earn and say you’re a philanthropist. The post said nothing about motherhood. How would I be able to google what you do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | What is the possible solutions for imbalance bargining power for sex?Citizen Kane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?Ya. In the hypothetical situation, I would be able to do whatever I wanted to do. If I wanted to work, I’d just label the work as “creative”. Furthermore, I could donate all the money I earn (since we’re already billionaires) and call myself a philanthropist raising money through voluntary work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?Yep :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 09:55 PM |
| 2 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?Then just say the work is creative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 09:48 PM |
| 0 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?You mean a waste of YOUR lifetime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 09:41 PM |
| 3 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?To meet the dumb criteria laid out in this post, she’d just donate all the money she earns. Easy. They’re already billionaires. If she doesn’t want to work, then that’s fine too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?You’d be billionaires. You could hire a maid, handymen, gardeners, and more. My mom was a stay-at-home-mom. She didn’t literally stay at home. Even though my dad worked, he still cooked classic dinners, did chores, and fixed the house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?I imagined a maid would do all the house work. I also imagined the wife would be able to still work without pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 09:32 PM |
| -1 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?Why don’t you work in robotics and such while just not getting paid? In the hypothetical situation, I’d work on math and physics related projects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?Why don’t you pursue your career while just not getting paid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it?That would be awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | If most women wouldn't date a bisexual man why are fictional gay relationships so popular with straight women?Some movies/shows with gay characters have really good story lines. I like “The Haunting of Bly Manor”. I’m a woman. I’m straight. I wouldn’t date a bisexual guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?My eldest sister has had a series of boyfriends. She got a science degree. She had a kid when I was in grade 6. She was scheduled to marry her baby daddy when I was in grade 7 - we had the plane tickets booked and everything. Then they broke up right before the wedding. She’s had one boyfriend since then. Their relationship status is a big question mark right now. He’s TERRIBLE. Her baby daddy wasn’t a bad guy. Her past boyfriends weren’t bad either. Just not the right matches. My second eldest … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?My mom has not explicitly given me marriage advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings?Actually, I have used jeweller’s saws in the past, just not on a ring that’s on someone’s finger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings?Oh. Hopefully I’m never in a situation where I have a ring on while my finger is turning blue at an alarming rate (blue from lack of circulation, not bruising)! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings?What kind of cutters did you use? (We have various tools.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings?In that situation I’d be inclined to call an ambulance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings?Dang. It must have swelled up really big, really fast for the ring to have been cut off presumably at the site of injury. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings?Oh, and how far was the hospital from where your mom was? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings?How sudden was the swelling? What was the rate of swelling? What caused the swelling? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings?Nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 08:00 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings?By the way, you can easily resize (enlarge) a ring by yourself with a hammer. My dad did that for me with a ring I inherited so I could wear it on a non-wedding-ring finger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings?If the ring gets stuck on your finger, you get it cut off by a goldsmith and they’ll resize it for you (happened to my mom). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 07:57 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings?The downside of opals is that you can’t use soap with them on. They’re really delicate. But yes, they’re beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 07:49 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts about diamond engagement rings?I inherited four rings from my maternal grandma: her diamond wedding set (wedding and engagement rings), an old hand cut diamond ring, and a very unique opal ring. If a guy were to marry me, I’d happily use the opal ring as a wedding ring. It’s sentimental. It looks “magical” and mystical. I’ve never seen an opal ring of the same, almost spherical shape. The downside of opals is that they’re delicate. I’d understand if my potential future husband wanted to buy me a new one though. I’d want a col… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 07:44 PM |
| 4 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?My mom’s ex husband (my sisters’ biological dad) was abusive. They divorced when my sisters were young kids and my mom became a single mother. My mom got her GED and went to college. My mom married my dad at age 38. I was born a year later. My mom has only seen her ex once during my lifetime, and that was less than a year ago when he was staying at my eldest sister’s place for a tiny bit. My mom went to drop something off for my sister or go on an outing with her or whatever. So basically my mom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 07:34 PM |
| 6 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?My mom married at age 16 and had my sisters at ages 18 and 19. She dropped out of school at age 16. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | socializing isn't rational and even the most well understanding of the opposite gender isn't going to stop double standardsI think men can understand me, a woman, perfectly. I’m not going to discount someone’s understanding just because he’s a man. Socializing can be rational. It can be rational to socialize in order to network and open up job opportunities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?It’s funny how they define patriarchy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Ya. A lot of said weirdos are not actually feminists in my opinion. From my experience, they’re not after equal opportunity for the sexes. After all, how would the eradication of grapefruit improve equal opportunity for the sexes? The eradication would prevent people from realizing whether or not they like grapefruit and furthermore deprive grapefruit lovers of grapefruit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 04:40 PM |
| 2 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Nah. That’s not a feminist thing. That’s a weirdos who call themselves feminist thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?My grandpas served in WWII and were never traumatized. One of them was even part of D-Day. I also have family members who served in WWI. You have family members who served in WWII and Vietnam. There is no competition. War is awful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?What competition? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Lol. I don’t like grapefruit so I suppose grapefruit is part of the patriarchy. Those darn patriarchal grapefruits! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?You can’t gate keep trauma either. My grandpas both served in WWII. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?I don’t think it’s harmful to say “cured”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Perhaps we think similarly, but are adamant on using different words (cured Vs. managed). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 04:05 PM |
| 0 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Yes, it isn’t a disease. I’m fine with being “wrong” in your eyes. Why are you “right”? Me typing this comment to you right now has a permanent effect on my brain and my life. Why do you think trauma can be managed, but not cured? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 03:58 PM |
| 0 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Yep! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Only stupid people think that. The majority of Canadians will laugh at those people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 03:43 PM |
| 0 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?There are no feminine and masculine mental traits in Canada. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Gender bias exists everywhere and it will always exist everywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?I think women and men have equal opportunity Canada. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 03:36 PM |
| 3 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Personally, I don’t think a “patriarchy” exists in modern day Canada. Google is neither a friend nor an enemy of mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 03:33 PM |
| 2 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?What’s patriarchy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?By the way… I think the other person was saying that the trauma described was bullshit (based on exaggerated bullshit experiences) not actual trauma (based on actual trauma-inducing experiences). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 03:17 PM |
| 2 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?I’m a firm believer that trauma can be cured. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 03:15 PM |
| 8 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 03:05 PM |
| 3 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Personally, I don’t think a “patriarchy” exists in modern day Canada. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How do people feel about people who only approach them because they are attractive?That’s fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | What is your hormonal composition? Do you lean more masculine or feminine?I don’t know my hormonal composition since I haven’t had it tested. I love hanging out with family, fishing, crabbing, clamming, prawning, foraging for mushrooms and berries, gardening, swimming, snorkelling, practicing mathematics and physics (my field of study), doing art (polymer clay charms, manga, writing songs, and sewing), playing Nintendo video games, playing basketball and badminton, trampolining, watching movies and TV, reading fictional novels, collecting coins and stickers, studying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Men should push for less gendered dating/engagement normsDarn. I was kind of hoping you’d provide me with a summary since this is your post so you’re familiar with the comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: If a random guy asked you to make onlyfans content with him how would you respond?E | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Men should push for less gendered dating/engagement normsWhat exactly are they angry about and is that anger valid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Men should push for less gendered dating/engagement normsI think you’re oversimplifying the mission statement that has been behind humanity for generations - happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Men should push for less gendered dating/engagement normsI’m going to delete my comments now because they were personal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 02:48 PM |
| 12 | Men should push for less gendered dating/engagement normsI’m a woman. -I’d go Dutch on dates. -I don’t think anyone should “[date] down”. -It doesn’t matter who makes the first move so long as someone makes it. -I inherited 2 diamond rings (an old one with a hand cut diamond and a wedding one) and a very unique opal one from my paternal grandma. I’d just use the opal ring as a wedding ring. -Anyone can propose so long as someone proposes. Personally I don’t solely go against gender norms nor do I solely follow them. I choose to do what I want to do, r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | What’s wrong with seeing sex as a love language?Okay, I agree with you on casual sex. How far do you take this? For instance, I’m a virgin who won’t have sex unless I’m married to my soulmate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | What’s wrong with seeing sex as a love language?I think sex is a symbol for the ultimate kind of love for a soulmate, which is kind of similar to how you see it as a “love language”. However, I think I run with my view of sex in a different direction than you. I think sex should be reserved for your soulmate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 03:50 AM |
| 2 | People should be picky and have incredibly high standardsYes to being picky and having high standards! This should apply to areas of life beyond dating too. I appreciate people who take pride in their work without price gauging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | People should be picky and have incredibly high standardsOops. Will this comment of mine get deleted? If so, I’ll post it under some other comment I guess??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 02:19 PM |
| 6 | People should be picky and have incredibly high standardsYes to being picky and having high standards! This should apply to areas of life beyond dating too. I appreciate people who take pride in their work without price gauging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | There's Nothing Immoral About Valuing Physical Appearance In A PartnerI agree that there’s nothing immoral in valuing physical appearance in a partner. I’m an artsy person. I feel bad for ugly people. Just because I value appearance doesn’t mean I don’t have other values too. I have plenty of other values that outweigh appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner?Haha. Thanks. There’s still time for you to pursue math as a hobby if you’d like. Fermat was a lawyer who made some marvellous discoveries in mathematics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner?I was thinking of becoming a doctor to make loads of money. I’m happy I scratched that to pursue my passion of mathematics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner?By “everyone,” I meant “an overwhelming majority.” I should’ve been more specific. Then I agree with that sentence. I’d also reckon that some people don’t even want to be fiscally responsible either. You have a fiscally responsible mindset to the extreme. Not really. It’s OK to relax a little, but as long as what you’re doing makes you happy, that’s what counts. Saving money brings me happiness. The real problem is people splurging on unnecessary quantites as well as racking up little expenses t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Being monogamous does not benefit a man in any way except oneWell said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner?Everyone says they want to be fiscally responsible but can’t resist material spending. I can resist material spending easily. From the time I was a young kid (maybe grade one), I’ve been asking for money for birthdays and Christmases. I wouldn’t spend the money. I put it in my bank account. I didn’t spend a cent of the money I earned lifeguarding in grades 11 and 12 until I headed off to university. I love keeping track of money. It’s one of my hobbies. I started out counting coins in a jar. Now… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner?Option 1 sounds better. Depending on what you mean by “no real skills”, I’d choose Option 1 or neither. I wouldn’t want to date someone who just lays on the couch all day. I’m going to list the problems I have with each one. Option 1: He has “no real skills”. What the fuck does that mean? Option 2: -no money pile -debt -spends money frivolously -doesn’t save money much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | What is a stereotype about your gender you hate?So it represents the ultimate kind of love, without actually being the ultimate kind of love? Exactly. ngl this sounds like a great defence for casual sex 8-) Since it isn't actually the ultimate kind of love And I can easily use it as a great defence against casual sex. It all depends on whether or not you care about the symbolism. I care about the symbolism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 11:05 AM |
| 1 | What is a stereotype about your gender you hate?Oxford dictionary definition for “symbol” provided by Google: a thing that represents or stands for something else, especially a material object representing something abstract. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:37 AM |
| 1 | What is a stereotype about your gender you hate?A symbol represents a thing without actually being the thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | What is a stereotype about your gender you hate?You’re 100% correct in saying that sex isn’t the ultimate kind of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:33 AM |
| 1 | What is a stereotype about your gender you hate?Sex is a SYMBOL for the ultimate kind of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:32 AM |
| 1 | What is a stereotype about your gender you hate?Let’s examine what I meant when I said, “I think sex is a symbol for the ultimate kind of love.” Being a symbol of the ultimate kind of love between soulmates, I think sex should be reserved for soulmates. Sex is not a requirement for soulmate status (the ultimate kind of love). However, I think soulmate status should be a requirement for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | What is a stereotype about your gender you hate?”I think sex is a symbol for the ultimate kind of love" isn't a very good rationale for why you think those things are morally wrong. Why? I also doubt you ACTUALLY believe that. Why? When you're 80+ and no longer have a strong desire for sex, does that mean you no longer love your partner since you aren't showing them that 'ultimate kind of love' ? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 09:52 AM |
| 1 | What is a stereotype about your gender you hate?I’m not the person you’ve been going back and forth with on here, but I’m going to jump in to give my two cents. I think sex work is morally wrong. I also think casual sex is morally wrong? Why do I think that? I think sex is a symbol for the ultimate kind of love. Obviously, I’m not going to ban people from having casual sex. I’m not going to shame people for having casual sex either. The same goes for sex work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 08:56 AM |
| 1 | What is a stereotype about your gender you hate?I’m a woman. If a woman does something bad, then she’s making herself look bad, not the entirety of women. There are numerous stereotypes I hate. I hate a lot of the seemingly “good” woman stereotypes too because it’s so painfully obvious that men can have those traits too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Are Men and Women Truly Compatible?It’s just the truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Are Men and Women Truly Compatible?Answer to the title question: Some are. Some aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Are Men and Women Truly Compatible?Oh, soft “sciences”. I’ll stick to math and physics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Do Women Hate Being Women?Oh yes. Statistics is another place where “female” and “male” are commonly used. Those words are also commonly used in certain areas of academic study, such as medicine and biology. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Do Women Hate Being Women?Here’s some further information. A tampon can only hold so much blood before it leaks. At the pool, this can lead to embarrassing situations. At the pool I worked at, we were specifically told that period blood is fine in the pool. The same goes for breast milk. Period blood on the pool deck is hosed off. Depending on the amount of blood, the area of the deck is disinfected too. This is done discretely as the woman is already embarrassed. Lifeguards are way more cautious with non-period blood. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Do Women Hate Being Women?As a former lifeguard, I’m well aware of tampons and diva cups. Yay to teaching lessons in the water for 4 hours straight with no bathroom breaks! I assure you, tampons get wet when you swim. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 12:16 AM |
| 0 | Gender Issues are Thoroughly FuckedOh gosh. Lately, I’ve found views similar to mine from the LGB Alliance YouTube channel. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Do Women Hate Being Women?Yep. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 04:34 PM |
| -2 | Do Women Hate Being Women?I scored 1/100 on Neuroticism for the Big Five Personality Test. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 04:01 PM |
| 11 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?Oh gosh… Handmaid’s Tale | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 12:44 PM |
| 14 | Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries?Skilled, educated migrants are good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Do Hallmark style romantic movies endorse TRP Views?Sometimes real life is a fairy tale. My dad cries whenever he watches Les Miserables (not the musical). He “feels” the movie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Do Hallmark style romantic movies endorse TRP Views?Just make sure to save some hot chocolate for me too! Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 12:27 PM |
| 4 | Do Women Hate Being Women?Oh. Now do you want me to explain why I think the concept of gender as a social construct is sexist? | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 11:24 AM |
| 4 | Do Women Hate Being Women?How do you define gender? | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 11:22 AM |
| 8 | Do Women Hate Being Women?It’s a sex based definition of gender. It’s not an opinion. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 11:22 AM |
| 7 | Do Women Hate Being Women?So gender doesn't exist then That depends on how you define gender. and men and women are simply expressions of baseline biological instinct? No. Men and women are categories based on the culmination of genotype (sex chromosomes) and phenotype (physical expression of genes: ie. natural private parts). | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 11:18 AM |
| 4 | Do Women Hate Being Women?Sex | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 11:15 AM |
| -15 | Do Women Hate Being Women?Nah. I think that’s a sexist thing to say. Maybe you’ve met really shitty women in your life and not many (if any) good ones. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Do Women Hate Being Women?There’s still hope. My paternal grandpa lived to be at least 6 years older than my paternal grandma | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 10:13 AM |
| 10 | Do Women Hate Being Women?The concept of gender as a social construct is extremely sexist. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 10:10 AM |
| 19 | Gender Issues are Thoroughly FuckedI’ve also been banned from the Feminism sub and the AskFeminists sub. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 10:03 AM |
| 90 | Do Women Hate Being Women?There are several different branches of feminism nowadays. I’m a woman. It wouldn’t matter if I were a man or a woman. I’m not particularly fond of having a period because swimming is a huge part of my life. However, male private parts come with their own disadvantages. I don’t mind being called a female. I am a female. It would be weird for someone to say, “Yo, female in the white shirt. What game is that? Mario Galaxy?” Nobody says female in that way in in real life. What are some common areas… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 08:30 AM |
| 43 | Gender Issues are Thoroughly FuckedI got banned from TwoX. I have XX sex chromosomes. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/22 08:19 AM |
| 1 | How many here are still virgins in their 20s? What is your reason for that?:) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Do Hallmark style romantic movies endorse TRP Views?Cool! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Do Hallmark style romantic movies endorse TRP Views?60 and 61. My sisters (same mom, different dad) are 40 and 41. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Do Hallmark style romantic movies endorse TRP Views?Take a guess at how old they are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Do Hallmark style romantic movies endorse TRP Views?Yep. My sisters are closer in age to my mom than they are to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Do Hallmark style romantic movies endorse TRP Views?Oh, I just remembered that my mom, dad, and I all have the same favourite Christmas movie: Rudolph the Red-nosed Reindeer (old claymation version) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Do Hallmark style romantic movies endorse TRP Views?Lol. I’m 20. My parents are boomers. We all hate Hallmark movies . Is it funny that my grandma’s favourite movie is “Rosemary’s Baby”? I don’t actually remember what my parents’ favourite movies are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Do Hallmark style romantic movies endorse TRP Views?Don’t we all just want to drink hot chocolate and decorate for Christmas 🎄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 03:58 PM |
| 0 | Do Hallmark style romantic movies endorse TRP Views?I wouldn’t know. I don’t watch them. They seem terrible. Plus, I’m not into romance movies to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 03:56 PM |
| 2 | How many here are still virgins in their 20s? What is your reason for that?Okay, that clarifies things! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?Cheating basically shows the cheater is a fucked up person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 12:53 PM |
| 5 | Anyone notice that in a lot of male-oriented space, the general consensus is that they hold themselves accountable for their self improvement, while in female-oriented spaces, they focus on placating their members?Answer to the title: no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?For reference of my agreement, earlier I said: “The divorce is about mommy and daddy not loving each other. It’s not about a broken promise. Cheater was just a fucked up person for cheating (for breaking the promise).” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 12:36 PM |
| 7 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?Oh gosh. If I were told that by a parent, I’d hate that parent for the rest of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?The divorce happened because there was a broken promise. But what led to the broken promise? A lack of love. There’s a good chance one of them still loved the other, Sure. otherwise nobody would have cheated A wronged person in love with the cheater wouldn’t have cheated. The cheater clearly still wouldn’t love the wronged person. It would be a loveless marriage. and they would still be together Yikes. Hopefully they’d separate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?The divorce is about mommy and daddy not loving each other. It’s not about a broken promise. Cheater was just a fucked up person for cheating (for breaking the promise). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?A lot are smarter than most adults | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?A lot of kids would make some of the following assumptions: -Cheater doesn’t love me -Mommy and daddy separated because of me -We would have been a happy “family” if cheater didn’t cheat -Mommy and daddy should have stayed together even though cheater cheated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?A lot of kids are ignorant and naive little dummies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 12:00 PM |
| 0 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?It was a family and the person that cheated broke it. No. It wasn’t a family. The cheater is fucked up in the head. The good thing about kids though is even if you decide not to tell them why they separated, they still figure it out pretty quickly, especially when the new gf/bf is suddenly forced into their lives Idk if that’s good or bad or neutral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?I’m sure the kids don’t see it like that, How would they see what? Be specific. I’m sure they’re prefer for mummy n daddy to work things out Then they’re ignorant and naive little dummies. or separate as friends Ya. and co-parent well together, Ya. not cheat on each other 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?I'm sorry, Don’t apologize. but I don't think I will ever be able to look at any of my parents the same way if I would've found out. Same. Matter of fact, I will feel betrayed in every way possible. I’d think the cheater was bad. Had it been 10 years ago, I don't know, but at the age of 21, I definitely will be pissed off to the point of not calling them for probably a lifetime lmao. Same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:54 AM |
| -1 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?It is though, I disagree. you’ve broken the trust, I agree. the safety, I think the safety is still there unless the person was abusive or something. the family unit. It wasn’t a family to begin with. The parents relationship is the foundation of the family, I disagree. I think a parent’s relationship to their kids is the foundation of the family. when that goes that’s it for the future of the family What family? The trio of original mom, original dad, and original kids is not a family. and the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:52 AM |
| 4 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?In my opinion, it’s good that the family broke apart. The cheating was fucked up and totally wrong. Yes, they’ll have to deal with the fallout from the cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:48 AM |
| 4 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?I agree. Cheating is fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?I won't put it like that, K. I'll say it's the best choice available now. I agree. Still the damage is done, thanks to one person's immaturity and selfishness. The cheating was wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?What happiness? The happiness of a family with a husband and wife who don’t love each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:24 AM |
| -3 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?Cheating on a partner is not equivalent to cheating on your family (ie. your kids). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:22 AM |
| -2 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?It’s good they broke the family apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:19 AM |
| 0 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?It’s a good thing the marriage broke apart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:16 AM |
| 6 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?You could tell the truth by simply saying you guys don’t love each other anymore. Obviously, the cheating means you don’t love each other. It might be wise to follow up by saying you will always love your kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you perceive a loner of the opposite sex? Does being a loner make him/her undatable in your eyes?It all depends on the loner. There are different types of loners. I think someone who dates online is undateable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 11:08 AM |
| 6 | How many here are still virgins in their 20s? What is your reason for that?I’m not reserving time and emotion. I’m spending my time doing what I want to do. I’m experiencing the emotions I currently have. I let my happiness be visible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 08:55 AM |
| 0 | How many here are still virgins in their 20s? What is your reason for that?It might matter what you think. Think of the placebo effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | How many here are still virgins in their 20s? What is your reason for that?29 isn’t old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 03:31 AM |
| 14 | How many here are still virgins in their 20s? What is your reason for that?I’m a 20 year old virgin woman. I’ve never had a first kiss nor a first date. I’m content with the family and friends I already have. I haven’t met the right person. I’m afraid of romantic love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 03:28 AM |
| 7 | I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date?I’ve never dated anyone. Just because I’m happy alone, doesn’t mean I couldn’t be happier some day with someone special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 03:24 AM |
| 0 | Dreading the rat race I thought I wantedThere are more options than that depending on what you mean. If you have family, the choice should be family. For instance, my dad had a career and was a family man at the same time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Why is that men aren't judged for their preferences?Men and women are both judged for their preferences by some people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Stay at home moms - what do you do during the day?My mom was a stay-at-home mom. She did tons of things. There was never a dull day. My dad retired when I was in grade 8 so then he was also a stay-at-home dad. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/22 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Dreading the rat race I thought I wantedDo what makes you happy. My mom was a stay-at-home-mom for me. She could have worked, but she chose not too. We actually saved money this way because my dad made so much more money. Although my mom didn’t work, she was president of our town’s art club (unpaid position). As a kid, my mom would take me to art club with her (I was unusually well behaved and cognizant as a toddler and young kid). My mom also did volunteering and pursued different hobbies. As a family, we did many hobbies together. A… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/22 12:31 PM |
| 5 | Dreading the rat race I thought I wantedI’m happy to hear you’re finishing your Master’s. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Dating outside of religion, any success?I think the movie (and novel) “Life of Pi” discusses religion in an interesting and thoughtful way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/22 12:10 PM |
| 7 | Honoring Husband in DeathAutomatically, I think of the novel “Where the Red Fern Grows” by Wilson Rawls. I’d assume your husband would want you to live on in happiness, keeping his memory alive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/22 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Do men you know advocate for their own mental health?As a women, I would never engage in talk therapy. I would never go to therapy either. Personally, I would go fishing. People like to deal with things in different ways. My paternal grandpa served in WWII. When he got back, he just never talked about the war except to say war is awful. By the time he was in his early 90’s, I got him to tell me a little bit about the war because I was a curious little kid learning about WWII in school. My dad was surprised he said anything at all. After all, he ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Social-stereotypes & doublestandards on interracial dating?Some background: I’ve never dated anyone. I’m of Gen Z. I’m a Caucasian woman. A great proportion (compared to race percentages in my country) of my friends are Asian. For example, my best friend is a woman originally from Taiwan. A great proportion of my dad’s friends happen to be Asian, particularly Chinese. Perhaps there are some strong Asian cultural ties to some of the values held by my family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 06:15 AM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion about female Jordan Peterson fans?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 12:21 AM |
| 3 | PPD would be far more neutral if people would stop turning general statements into personal attacksYa, the generalizations are annoying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 04:09 PM |
| 2 | What’s your opinion about female Jordan Peterson fans?1984 is still on my list of books to read and movies to watch. There are a bunch of other dystopian novels I have to read too. Right now I’m watching the TV version of The Handmaid’s Tale starring Elizabeth Moss. In terms of books, I’m keeping it light hearted at the moment with some Jules Verne. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 03:36 PM |
| 2 | What’s your opinion about female Jordan Peterson fans?Lol 😂 Here’s hoping we do more than just survive. Here’s hoping we actually live and thrive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion about female Jordan Peterson fans?I edited my reply a bit so now I have 3 bullet points for each category | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 02:25 PM |
| 2 | What’s your opinion about female Jordan Peterson fans?Examples of things I agree with JP on: -Gender ideology is fucked up -People need to “clean their rooms” -I’m against compelled speech as it relates to pronouns Examples of things I disagree with JP on: -I think the Canadian “Freedom” Convoy was anti-freedom -I supported vaccine passports when they were a thing in Canada -I’m an atheist and he’s said some weird things about atheists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion about female Jordan Peterson fans?The probability of someone agreeing with everything he has said or disagreeing with everything he has said is extremely small. I’d say the probability of someone saying he/she agrees with everything he has said or disagrees with everything he/she has said is higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 02:08 PM |
| 19 | What’s your opinion about female Jordan Peterson fans?I like some things JP has said. I disagree with other things he has said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 04:08 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever kissed another girl?No. I’m straight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone changed their dating habits as a result of SCOTUS reversal ON Roe v. Wade?Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 09:35 PM |
| 10 | Has anyone changed their dating habits as a result of SCOTUS reversal ON Roe v. Wade?No. I’m Canadian and I’m a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menI’d think of the state of happiness you described earlier as being content. I would think that a relaxed person can be in the utter depths of despair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menYou're trying to smuggle in moral concepts (right/wrong) into a discussion You already said it was wrong. I want to know why you subjectively think it is wrong. that is already subjective, such as the concepts of happiness and pleasure. It is subjective. This is a loaded question, I don’t know. hence I have no need to answer it You have no need to answer any of my questions. It’s up to you. You can even block me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menWhy do you think it is wrong for one’s happiness to be contingent on the activities that person does? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menWhat’s the opposite of a state of happiness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 02:49 PM |
| 2 | There are different layers of sexuality, and the Redpill and Bluepill are not talking about the same one.The rest of the world can play their little games. I’ll just continue on with my beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menSo is fishing a pleasure activity rather than an activity that brings me happiness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menI used “should” on purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menI think this discussion suits your post. So I should be happy if I’m an overweight slob with heart disease and no friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menFor instance, fishing makes me happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menHow do you be happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menWhat do you mean by “internal”? What brings you internal happiness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menWhat makes you happy and what gives you pleasure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menWhat are your motivations for life? How do you want to live? What’s the plan for how you live life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 12:38 PM |
| 7 | Women's instinctual desires often contradict what they consciously desire. This isn't the case for menAre you emotional? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | I don't think men "see" messes and dirt as they actually existMy eldest sister has the highest tolerance of mess of anyone I know. Her house is disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | I don't think men "see" messes and dirt as they actually existMy dad cleans properly. My grandpas did too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Major gender differences in how the brain worksAs a kid I watched a documentary on people who developed cancer from oral sex. I think it’s weird to put someone’s private part in your mouth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Major gender differences in how the brain worksI edited it to just say weird. I actually don’t know if I’d call them degrading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Major gender differences in how the brain worksTo be honest, I do think blowjobs are weird. I don’t shame people who do them though. And I’ve never done one myself so I’m not a hypocrite. But ya, I don’t think anyone should be shamed for performing a consensual blowjob. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Major gender differences in how the brain worksSo she was a hypocrite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Major gender differences in how the brain worksUnfortunately, that’s very predictable. My atheistic parents were never strict with me and gave me a lot of freedom. Somehow I’m 20 and still a virgin. I’ve never dated anyone. I’ve never done drugs either. I’ve never gotten drunk even though my family has gotten tipsy in front of me plenty of times (they’re not alcoholics, but they make their own wine so… it’s some recreational fun). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 03:58 AM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?Well, I know I can think through visualization rather than words (ie. imagining engineering-type designs; thinking through mathematical imagery and formulas) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?How would a person “think with emotions” though (ie. in solving mathematical problems)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Major gender differences in how the brain worksThat really depends on the Catholic school and the person’s religion. My parents are atheists and put me in Catholic elementary school. As soon as I moved to public school, I starred in the school plays and such. I had no problem socializing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 01:40 AM |
| 2 | If you could change genders, would you do it?Ya, but you don’t honestly believe women “think with emotions”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 01:35 AM |
| 2 | If you could change genders, would you do it?Lol, I’m hoping people realize I’m joking. It’s kind of frightening that some people think I’m serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 07:06 PM |
| 2 | If you could change genders, would you do it?It’s a joke. I chose -2 specifically to make a pun. I’m really a woman who studies math and physics in university. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?Just edited my reply to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?People do treat female strangers differently than male strangers. That depends on how sexist the person is. You can see this simply from spending a single afternoon at a busy park or walking around a mall. Not necessarily. I’m going to the mall today. Wish me luck. It's a frequent topic of conversation here too. Ya. Those conversations are fucked up. So it seems like you're either "playing dumb" or somehow actually do live in a place where this doesn't occur. It’s the latter. I would probably re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?Ok. I tried to understand or at least learn more about what people other than me (like you) think of this topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?From what I gather, you think people treat you differently because you’re a woman. You seem to derive happiness from a specific kind of treatment from strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?I don’t understand why. I feel like you’re not taking the conversation seriously, unlike our conversations of the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 03:11 PM |
| 0 | How do straight guys feel about dating someone who would like to use a surrogate to have kids?I agree that anyone who loves working is weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | How do straight guys feel about dating someone who would like to use a surrogate to have kids?I have sisters that are 20 and 21 years older than me. Adoption is also an option. My mom worked since she was a kid to the time I was born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?So you want to be taller? To have an Adam’s apple? To be stronger? Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?Good day to you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:48 PM |
| 8 | How do straight guys feel about dating someone who would like to use a surrogate to have kids?My mom was 39 and my dad was 40 when they had me. They’re the best parents in the whole wide world. Interestingly, they had/have more energy than the parents of most kids my age. Good genetics. My mom was a stay-at-home mom for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?I’ve had some sexist things said/done to me though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:37 PM |
| 0 | If you could change genders, would you do it?Strangers treat me as a woman obviously. Whatever that means. I assume you've seen differences in your own life between how the sexes are treated in public, No. both positive and negative? In other countries, women are treated extremely poorly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?Why not? To keep your current physicality. Why switch bodies? A different outer body only provides a person with physical differences. You want physical attributes you don’t currently have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:32 PM |
| 0 | If you could change genders, would you do it?It's not "the wrong body" anymore that me having an autistic brain is "the wrong body". Okay. I’m glad you know nobody is born in the wrong body. I'm treated as a man by my friends, Okay but would prefer strangers did it too. How do strangers treat you differently? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?Also, why would you want your “brain to match your outer body”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:27 PM |
| 0 | If you could change genders, would you do it?Because I would prefer for my brain to match my outer body. Nobody is born in the wrong body. I hope you know that. I would prefer to be seen and treated as a man. I’m a woman who is treated as a man. It’s easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?I don't know what it would do for you, Nothing since I don't know what your sex is, much less your gender. I’m of the female sex. You’d consider me to be of the male gender. If they match I don't think it would do anything except cause dysphoria. Nah. Dysphoria is a separate issue. Being the opposite sex for me would mean my masculine gender would have a matching outer body. Why would a “match” do you any good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?I’ll clarify that I say gender=sex=(genotype [sex chromosomes] and phenotype [gene expression, ie genitals]). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?I go with gender = your brain structure. Sex = your genitals. Okay. For the overwhelming majority of people they match, but for a very small amount of people they don't. Ok. Why would being of the opposite sex do anything for people like you and me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?It might ease conversation for me to first ask what you define gender as. After all, there are several different definitions for gender nowadays. I go with gender=sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:06 PM |
| 2 | If you could change genders, would you do it?That makes no sense to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 01:58 PM |
| 2 | If you could change genders, would you do it?I must really be a trans man then! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 01:58 PM |
| -2 | If you could change genders, would you do it?You get a short term advantage in math. Instead of performing math using logic and definitions, you can perform math with emotions. Women perform math as follows. Consider the problem 1+2. When women think of this question, when 4 pops in their head, they become angry as 4 is too high. When -2 pops in their head, they become sad as that number is too negative (get it, -2/too negative, lol). When 3 pops in their head, they become happy. Showing work goes something like this: 1️⃣➕2️⃣🟰😐🤔4️⃣🤔😡❌ 🟰🤔➖2… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | If you could change genders, would you do it?I’m indifferent to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you enjoy being friends with someone of the opposite sex?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Does religion still play any role in modern dating?Christmas is fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:18 AM |
| 7 | Women: Can you expand on or give examples of men not "getting it"?Periods, pregnancy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Should there be an institution to develop mens emotional intelligence?Lol 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Should there be an institution to develop mens emotional intelligence?Lol, whatever that means 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Should there be an institution to develop mens emotional intelligence?I’m 20. Just get rid of your social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:07 AM |
| 0 | Should there be an institution to develop mens emotional intelligence?In my number theory university class, we have group projects. Also, there are only 9 of us in the class so that’s fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 05:59 AM |
| 0 | Should there be an institution to develop mens emotional intelligence?Off the grid sounds good. Look up Richard Proenneke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Should there be an institution to develop mens emotional intelligence?Define emotional intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a prospective partner if you found out they were an avid redditor?Yo. What’s your job? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 09:38 AM |
| 2 | How did your fathers example affect your dating life?I don’t know. I know I’ve said it before, but… Man, oh man. It’s so fricken weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 02:39 PM |
| 2 | How did your fathers example affect your dating life?It’s so weird. Out of all her children (2 girls, 2 boys), my maternal grandma decided to pick on my mom. She’s all proud of saying she metaphorically “yanked the silver spoon from my mom’s mouth”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Women, why do you want to work?Fuck off. My mom was a single mom for my sisters (20 and 21 years older than me) and a stay at home mom for me. When my mom was a stay at home mom, she was never financially dependent on my dad. She could have gotten work at any time. My mom was an adult during my childhood, especially after having raised two girls on her own. My mom had responsibilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Women, why do you want to work?I’d want to do what would lead to me and my hypothetical husband both retiring as soon as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 02:11 PM |
| 2 | How did your fathers example affect your dating life?Ya. And it’s really complicated now because my maternal grandma changed for me. She’s been really good to me. When I found out about the past, I felt like Harry Potter learning that Dumbledore wasn’t all that good of a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 02:03 PM |
| 1 | How did your fathers example affect your dating life?That’s good. It makes me think of how my mom is such an angel despite her mom, most of her siblings, and her ex husband treating her so poorly. Interestingly, my maternal grandpa was a great dude. He was the light in her family life. His only fault was that he didn’t leave my maternal grandma and take my mom with him. But that’s complicated in itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 01:59 PM |
| 1 | How did your fathers example affect your dating life?My dad is the best dad in the whole wide world. I’ve never dated anyone yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | How did your fathers example affect your dating life?Thanks for sharing. Yikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Is there a biological "attraction drought" going on in the United States right now, with obesity, sedentary lifestyles are poor diets?An overweight guy from the UK was sent to the US for some time to scare him into losing weight, lol. I saw a YouTube video of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Women, why do you want to work?I worked as a lifeguard to pay for my university studies which will hopefully lead to a career I enjoy Nobody in my family really, really enjoys work. Work is fine, but we’d rather do other things. We work to retire young so we can do the things we actually want to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Women's dating experience?I've never tried Maple Walnut tho but I don't think you can get that flavour easily in the UK. It’s a staple here in Canada. You should try it! Thanks for asking and to be honest it's a few things. I've not really got my life together as much as I'd want it to be and I struggle with OCD intrusive thoughts which makes things more difficult. I also fully acknowledge that I'm not an easy person to be around and I don't really want to inflict that on any poor soul. Oh. The culmination of my issues m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Women WANT to be a man's sidepieceOh gosh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Women WANT to be a man's sidepieceIt was so cringey. Like wtf. That teacher was weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Women WANT to be a man's sidepieceDon’t worry about the home wrecker comment. I once had a married biology teacher who made a joke about people suspecting him having an affair with the art teacher because they hung out a lot for collaboration in artistic endeavours. The joke was distasteful, but we knew he meant well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Women's dating experience?Haha well that's quite a thing for your grandma to say and I don't know you as well as she does, but from our conversation I think that you're wise in the fact that most people your age don't think about love as thoroughly as you are doing. Lol. In fact when I was 20 if you asked me about love I'd have told you Ben and Jerry's Cookie Dough ice cream, but that's pretty much all I loved and thought I'd ever love at the time. Several years (and some serious flirting with diabetes) later it's only n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Women WANT to be a man's sidepieceI'm saying that for men, they supposed to have their hobbies/passions/career above their wife or gf. Oh, so if they place their wife above their hobbies/passions/career, then they’re proper good men, but defective in terms of attraction??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Women WANT to be a man's sidepieceIndeed, if I were to get married, it would be to someone you’d view as a terrible man because he’d value me over his hobbies/passions/career. Why make a home wrecker comment? To lighten the mood? It just doesn’t flow with everything else you wrote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Women WANT to be a man's sidepieceDon’t forget the ole JoeandDavidaredifferent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Women WANT to be a man's sidepieceIf men are supposed to have their hobbies/passions/career above their wife, then my dad makes for a terrible man. Same with my grandpas. Thank goodness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Women WANT to be a man's sidepieceWell yea you're a woman so you're supposed to have your husband above your own hobbies. I’d say the same thing if I were a man. I'm saying that for MEN, they supposed to have their hobbies/passions/career above their wife or gf. No. Then they don’t love each other as a husband and wife should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Women's dating experience?Hmm I see, so I think I'll probably get this wrong, but it sounds like the fear is to do with like the feeling of love Probably. and that being serious and some kind of representation of a big change? Maybe. All my life, I’ve been perceived as being wise beyond my years. My grandma says it’s as though I’ve already lived my life before and am just now going through the motions (like muscle memory). My grandma is eccentric though, lol. Perhaps I’m not so wise when it comes to love. Perhaps it stem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Women WANT to be a man's sidepiecePretend I have a husband and kids. Important things: Kids My health My husband Other good family members My hobbies which I do with my family My hobbies I do alone or with friends … Infinity. My particular job … Infinity X 2. The dust particle floating in the air closest to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Women's dating experience?Perhaps it’s to do with growing up or change or an image of independence or something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Women's dating experience?Here’s an inkling of my thoughts. Whenever people kiss on TV or movies, I cover my eyes, even when I’m watching the films alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Women's dating experience?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Women's dating experience?I guess I’ll see what happens, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Women's dating experience?I think this fear is depicted well in certain movies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Women's dating experience?Oh ok, so is this a scenario where the guy is in love with you AND you're in love with the guy too? Yes. Or is it that you'd love the guy but he wouldn't love you back? No. That would be rough, but I think the answer would be clear. If you love him, let him go. If it's the latter then yeah, that situation definitely sucks and personally not one I'd want to be in. Ya. If it's the former then what about both of you being in love with each other would you fear? I can’t think of an eloquent way to c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Women's dating experience?Ya. At that point, I wouldn’t call that love. I think you captured that scenario perfectly with the word “obsession”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Women's dating experience?In the other scenario, where I would also be in love with the guy, I’m not quite sure how to describe the fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Women's dating experience?Your last sentence sounds like something from a crime documentary or a horror/thriller film. Yikes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Women's dating experience?Ahh I see, that's very interesting. And so what would you say you fear the most about someone falling in love with you (and that love not being reciprocated by you)? It’s happened to me before. It doesn’t feel good. Is it that you'll break their heart? Or are you afraid about them becoming obsessed with you and potentially threatening you mentally or even physically? In the case where I’m not in love with him, breaking his heart isn’t fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Women's dating experience?Well there's nothing to be embarrassed about imo and tbh I think that you should ultimately do what you truly feel makes you happy. I agree that I should ultimately do what truly makes me happy. If you're truly content with how your life is set up and a partner would just be a bonus then I say live it to the fullest. Yep. Exactly. But if you think that you'd actually really like a partner but it's fear that actually holds you back then I think it's worth it to put yourself out there (of course i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 01:25 PM |
| 9 | Women's dating experience?I’m a 20 year old virgin woman who’s never dated a guy. I will not actively seek out a significant other. I’m content with the family I have and my hobbies. It would just be a bonus if I stumble upon the right guy. I feel embarrassed to admit that I purposely make an effort to avoid love from people other than my family. Perhaps I’m a little bit afraid of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 12:36 PM |
| – | Attracting foreign guys as a italian white girlYikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 09:21 AM |
| -1 | All issues with dating in the west stem from women and their standards.I think a lot of people in my generation (Gen Z) are ungrateful. Don’t confuse ungratefulness with always wanting something better. My paternal grandparents always wanted something better. For instance, my paternal grandpa was upset that he was forced to drop out of school in grade 6 to look after the family farm. Later in life, he read lots of books to make up for lost education opportunities. He, with the investing skills of my grandma, saved enough money to make sure his kids and grandparents… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Women on this sub, how important is it that a man you date pays the bills for you?I like the principle of “carry it forward”. If some guy’s out on the ocean and low on gas, I’ll give him my spare Jerry can of gas. No payment necessary. I just expect you to carry the favour forward to someone else in the future, whether it be you water your neighbour’s garden when they’re away, you buy your mom a box of chocolates, or you volunteer at a soup kitchen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 08:35 AM |
| 1 | How is having sex with someone to have your career be promoted any different from moneyI like his movies. From what I’ve heard, I sure wouldn’t get along with the fellow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 08:21 AM |
| 1 | How is having sex with someone to have your career be promoted any different from moneyTippi Hedren’s (known for the film The Birds) career tanked when she refused advances from Alfred Hitchcock. There was some sabotage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 08:09 AM |
| 7 | Family is the cornerstone of inter-generational success, yet it has been completely neglected by both red and blue pillers to the detriment of allYou don’t seem like a family man/woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Would you call yourself a "feminist"?I strive for equal opportunity for men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 07:08 AM |
| 1 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 10:14 AM |
| 1 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?In response, I’d ask why people should be concerned with rankings made by shallow people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 09:31 AM |
| 5 | I think I might hate men despite being biologically attracted to them.There are great men out there. It seems like you haven’t met any of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 04:25 AM |
| 4 | I think I might hate men despite being biologically attracted to them.You and OP sound perfect for one another, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 04:24 AM |
| 5 | A note on desires before a relationshipI’ve never dated anyone yet. I’m a 20 year old virgin. I want to be a Renaissance man. I’m continuing my studies in math and physics. I fish, forage, and garden (I will have a proper garden when I have a house of my own). I write songs. I make polymer clay charms. I want to learn how to sew to utilize some of my art as fabric patterns. I want to create clothing prints inspired by my math (theorems, graphs) and physics (pretty graphs) classes. I swim and snorkel (I used to be a competitive swimme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 04:21 AM |
| 4 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?My favourite character in “Anne of Green Gables” (novel and 1985 movie) is Matthew Cuthbert. He never dated. He never married. Him and his sister Marilla (she also never married) adopted Anne Shirley. This movie has been my favourite since I was a toddler. It’s perfectly fine to be a virgin. I’m a virgin myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 04:10 AM |
| 20 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?Like the pills given to people in dystopian films like “The Giver”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Women do not need to be sympathetic to mens dating strugglesBy the way, I like your reply to the OP’s idiotic post, but I think you weren’t quite headed in the right direction with it. I’m just giving a critique based on my own reasoning. That’s all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 01:43 PM |
| 0 | Women do not need to be sympathetic to mens dating strugglesI don’t think this post reeks of privilege. I think it reeks of (dare I say) stupidity. Obtaining a relationship or sex doesn’t seem like a privilege to me. I think it would be stupid for me to seek a relationship or sex. I don’t think men should battle for a relationship or sex. I don’t think a relationship for the sake of a relationship makes life worth living. I think it leads to a very drab life. I also think it’s not fulfilling to seek sex just for sex. I think people should have sympathy f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Women do not need to be sympathetic to mens dating strugglesIt’s not worth it to put oneself in an unnecessarily dangerous situation. One time I was waiting for food I ordered and a scary looking guy stole my order. I just let him take the order and told the food booth what happened (they saw what happened too). Naturally, the food booth remade my order free of charge. I ain’t risking my life for a god damn BLT sandwich. Anyway, your comment makes me think of “The Handmaid’s Tale”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 01:27 PM |
| 8 | Women do not need to be sympathetic to mens dating struggles“We men are trying to express ourselves in maybe the one venue (an anonymous online forum) where men are allowed to express themselves.” Yes. “And yeah in trying to articulate one’s frustration, sadness and anger, the result is sometimes harsh, messy, pathetic etc.” Yes. I can sympathize with some stuff. Some stuff is fucked up though. “OP is right women don’t need to care about mens struggles” Yep. “but this is a forum where people can comment and women who do make the attempt to understand and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 01:21 PM |
| 13 | Women do not need to be sympathetic to mens dating strugglesNobody needs to be sympathetic to anything It’s rather ironic that you seem to be unsympathetic while expecting sympathy from others (the child custody example shocked me) Your lack of sympathy is reasonable for some of the scenarios you talked about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | How old are you, and have you had your first love yet?20 No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are inexperienced with relationships/sex should just lie about itHot take: people shouldn’t actively seek out relationships. If a person stumbles upon a relationship, then that’s great | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 03:53 AM |
| -1 | Q4W Is there anything you like about men?All I got from that was blah, blah, blah. I’m totally not fit for studying literature, social science, psychology, and stuff like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 06:17 AM |
| 7 | Q4W Is there anything you like about men?It was never specified whether we discuss men as individuals or men in general. I can’t think of anything I like about women or men in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Q4W Is there anything you like about men?Your brother and boyfriend sound like absolute sweethearts. It makes my heart melt just reading this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 04:36 AM |
| 6 | Q4W Is there anything you like about men?A deep baritone voice can sound real nice Edit: Now you’ve got me listening to “You’ve Lost That Loving Feeling” by The Righteous Brothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Q4W Is there anything you like about men?True, true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Q4W Is there anything you like about men?I love my dad, my grandpas, my brother-in-law, and my nephews so, so, so much. Some of my uncles are pretty darn great too. I have some amazing friends who are dudes. I’ve become acquainted with a good assortment of happy, go-lucky dudes too. The kind that would give you the shirt off their back. Some comical nerdy dudes who will make physics jokes with me. Some dudes that swear at each issue during a lab as preparation for the obligatory “Fuck ya!” when everything comes together at the end. Dud… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | What is a feminine woman? Which actions prove that someone is feminine?You Americans and your debt and drunkenness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 11:02 PM |
| 3 | What is a feminine woman? Which actions prove that someone is feminine?;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | What is a feminine woman? Which actions prove that someone is feminine?Hey, I don’t like Wonderwoman so maybe this guy’s onto something with “Superwoman” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessHonestly, I think I’d have a strong chance of getting diagnosed with “autism” if I went to get diagnosed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessNo. In many respects, I’m bothered by discussions of “neuro-atypicality” and “neurotypicality”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 09:59 PM |
| 2 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessI appreciate that you look at this from different angles. When I grew up, the term “asexual” was only really used to describe reproduction (i.e. asexual reproduction in fungi and plants). I also grew up watching “Anne of Green Gables” (1985). My favourite character of that movie was Matthew Cuthbert. He never dated anyone. He never married. He never had biological kids. This pretty much circles back to how I use real life experience and art (novels, movies, TV shows, and paintings) to make sense… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessI’m glad you asked. Sometimes I write things that totally make sense in my head, but can be easily misunderstood by others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 02:03 PM |
| 2 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessOh wow. Cool. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessI’m glad you’ve found a good relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 01:57 PM |
| 2 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessInteresting. I will say that I also don’t think souls/spirits exist. And yes, people have to decide what they want from a relationship if they choose to have one at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessI am in fact young (20). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 01:51 PM |
| 2 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessI think I have a proclivity to be vague when it comes to topics like love and friendship. Sometimes I think fictional stories can describe such topics way better than a detailed essay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 01:45 PM |
| 2 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessIt’s funny you say that (and I’m being sincere) since I consider myself to be a detail-oriented person. But perhaps my appreciation for clearness and concision is restricted to a limited area that includes math and physics (my field of study). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessNow I’m curious. What are your views on relationships, soulmates, and such? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 01:37 PM |
| 2 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessI’d hazard a guess that the goodness of a trait has a lot to do with how it is used | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 01:30 PM |
| 3 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessI’m glad you recognize that. Stubbornness gets a bad rap, but I think it can be a great strength. My parents are both stubborn so I doubled up on it from them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 01:24 PM |
| 2 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessOh, thank you. I wish you a happy life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 01:22 PM |
| 3 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessI suppose I’m stubborn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 01:18 PM |
| 3 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessI don’t feel the need to put a label on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 01:01 PM |
| 10 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessI wouldn’t be upset with that. I’m perfectly content with the family I have and my passions for science, art, and living off the land. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 12:54 PM |
| 5 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessSure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 12:52 PM |
| 7 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessOne’s ultimate best friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 12:39 PM |
| -3 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessI don’t get all of the fear surrounding age gaps. I’m a 20 year old woman. My maternal grandpa was 16 years older than my maternal grandma. They are soulmates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 11:51 AM |
| 13 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessI think sex is a symbol of love for one’s soulmate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 11:36 AM |
| 13 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessI’m a virgin woman in university. I haven’t dated anyone. I’ve had a few guys fall in love with me. I was like nah. I think casual sex is wrong. I wouldn’t have sex unless I was married. I’m not religious. I wouldn’t call myself conservative. I think I’ve a childish soul in some ways and an elderly soul in other ways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 11:15 AM |
| 1 | QM: How do you find more traditional women?Oh. K, that explains things. I can take solace knowing that you agree with me in terms of egalitarianism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | QM: How do you find more traditional women?Someone ought to make a post on this sub explaining that egalitarianism doesn’t imply casual sex. Idk why this post was removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | QM: How do you find more traditional women?Yes. Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | QM: How do you find more traditional women?Egalitarianism: the doctrine that all people are equal and deserve equal rights and opportunities. Casual sex is not a necessary condition for egalitarianism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 03:51 AM |
| 1 | QM: How do you find more traditional women?Well, perhaps you shouldn’t lump the OP and I with those people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | QM: How do you find more traditional women?Wtf. I don’t encourage PEOPLE to sleep around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 03:46 AM |
| 3 | QM: How do you find more traditional women?Egalitarian does not imply casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | QM: How do you find more traditional women?I’m a 20 year old virgin woman. I’m non-religious. My parents and grandparents are non-religious too. I’m egalitarian. Idk what to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Do men love women more than women love men or do men just follow and get pushed into these ideals?Basically, my trans comment was one big joke. We shouldn’t care what other people think. Also, people can’t swap genders. Gender is purely based in biology. Men suffer prejudice, women suffer prejudice. Might as well become non-binary at this point (another joke). You think men suffer from prejudice more than women. I think men and women suffer equally from prejudice. And ya, it’s not an oppression olympics. So what if a bunch of men think women love less than men. They can continue living their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 09:06 PM |
| 6 | Do men love women more than women love men or do men just follow and get pushed into these ideals?Could you elaborate? The trans man comment was a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 09:22 AM |
| 1 | What's A Relational Value That You Have That Doesn't Benefit You?I think I benefit from all my relational values | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 07:50 AM |
| 15 | Do men love women more than women love men or do men just follow and get pushed into these ideals?It’s sad to know some people think I love less just because I am a woman. I might as well become a trans man because of a bunch of other awful assumptions too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 07:42 AM |
| 1 | How do attractive women pick a man to commit to?Then none of your male friends are your ultimate best friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | if you were a mid-20s virgin what would you doI’d keep doing what I’m doing. I’m a 20 year old virgin woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Many women fight for equality but only when it suits themMoney isn’t the true currency of the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 10:09 PM |
| 30 | How do attractive women pick a man to commit to?It’s wise to marry the guy who is your ultimate best friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV, Do you ever recognize that many men don't understand venting the same way that women do?Sure. I’m just headed off to university now. Later today I can write up a small piece. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV, Do you ever recognize that many men don't understand venting the same way that women do?I do have an interest in a conversation. I’m a straight shooter. I could be more diplomatic, but said “screw it”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV, Do you ever recognize that many men don't understand venting the same way that women do?I’m surprised you’d respond by saying “thank you” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationGo, go Go Johnny, go, go Go Johnny, go, go Go Johnny, go, go Go Johnny, go, go Johnny B. Goode | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationYes, very good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationNo. It isn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationNo. A woman could biologically sacrifice her youth by eating mostly junk food, effectively sacrificing her health in her older years too. Said woman could still have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationWhen a woman sacrifices her youth, does that logically imply that she had no kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationYes, but you’re not answering the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationYou think a woman sacrificing her youth means she never has kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationYou should have written the following: Do you think women have that option? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationMy mom and dad sacrificed their youths. Apparently, they had me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationEvolution is an ongoing process. It doesn’t make sense to say “during evolution”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationThere are many different ways to sacrifice one’s youth. I’m guessing you’re referring to a particular sacrifice? Which particular sacrifice are you referring to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationAnyone can sacrifice their youth in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationSacrifice my youth. Retire young. Fish. Do math. Swim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationAccording to your view of men and women, men are completely and utterly superior to women in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV, Do you ever recognize that many men don't understand venting the same way that women do?Sexist fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationLife is strange | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationImpossible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationOf course, but not because of child bearing. Both men and women cannot withstand the pressure needed to form a diamond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationI’m sure glad diamonds exist. I think they look rather magical in jewelry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationYes, precisely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationYep. Pressure and heat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationYou’d have to elaborate. I’m seeing some buzzwords here with no explanations. It’s like a lawyer handing me a brick and saying, “Case closed!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationThat’s your claim. Do go on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 02:24 AM |
| 3 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationAll kinds of knowledge and skills? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationNah man. I want to know what you think intelligence is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 02:04 AM |
| 3 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationSo sense of direction is a component of intelligence? What are the other components? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationSo what do you think intelligence is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationDo you think intelligence is based on IQ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 01:11 AM |
| 5 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationIt’s not bait. So you agree with the definitions of intelligence provided in that link? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Men vs Women intelligence and communicationWhat do you think it means to be intelligent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 12:15 AM |
| 0 | By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege.I’m very privileged. I have pretty privilege, intelligence privilege, family (awesome parents, grandparents, etc.) privilege, artistic privilege (i.e. decent singing voice), physical privilege (I have lots of energy), and more. The things you mention seem insignificant compared to the privileges I just listed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Women aren't looking for wealthy guys, they are looking for guys that splurgeIt’s up to you. I’ll spend money for health and happiness. The happiness part is quite subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't looking for wealthy guys, they are looking for guys that splurgeI get that. I think we’re just driven in different ways. Don’t get me wrong though. I do love money because it allows me to do the things I want to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't looking for wealthy guys, they are looking for guys that splurgeI’m a woman. I want to live below my means, save and invest my money, and retire young so I can spend my golden years doing the things I really want to do (fishing, gardening, swimming, practicing mathematics, writing, etc.). I’m 20 years old and I have the same pencil case that I used in grade one. I also definitely have a rain jacket from grade five. I think we’re incompatible. At 8 figures, I’d easily retire and just invest my money in a low-risk way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?Why is that? We’re both on Earth, aren’t we? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:33 AM |
| 3 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?Money is not the currency of the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:12 AM |
| 2 | If you expect men to handle roughly half the housework and childcare, would you also be willing to split expenses halfway?If I were to marry a guy, everything money-wise would be shared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:11 AM |
| 3 | 20 year old's dont want 30 + year old'sPeople mention that all the time in this subreddit. I particularly take notice when that is mentioned because my mom was 39 and my dad was 40 when I was born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:06 AM |
| 11 | 20 year old's dont want 30 + year old'sI’m a 20 year old woman. I’d date a 30 year old guy if he was the right guy. Ten years isn’t huge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | As a woman, I think gender roles are natural“Gender roles” don’t exist. Change my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a younger guy who looks older or an older guy who looks younger?I guess I just don’t understand your view of values and expectations. So be it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a younger guy who looks older or an older guy who looks younger?I don’t get how people weigh age so greatly in terms of relating to someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a younger guy who looks older or an older guy who looks younger?I don’t romantically love anyone yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather date a younger guy who looks older or an older guy who looks younger?I don’t understand you as a person and that’s okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a younger guy who looks older or an older guy who looks younger?One fall can mean a lot. My grandpa slipped in the bathtub when he was around 94. Broke his hip. Became wheelchair bound. He passed away at age 96. He candidly told us all… When you’re old, whatever you do, don’t fall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather date a younger guy who looks older or an older guy who looks younger?I had the grandma/grandpa thing happen with my mom/dad. I thought it was fun when people would mistake my sisters for my mom. Furthermore, I thought it was really fun when people thought my eldest nephew was my brother or cousin. It seems like you had a rough experience with that kind of a thing though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather date a younger guy who looks older or an older guy who looks younger?It sounds like your family would have benefited from hiring a nurse too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a younger guy who looks older or an older guy who looks younger?If your mom loved teaching so much, she should have continued teaching. My parents sacrificed their youths so they could retire as young as possible and do the things they love to do. I’m sorry your mom missed out on happiness she would have otherwise had teaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:50 PM |
| 2 | The importance of male neurotypicality is underrated in datingThanks for the understanding and interest in my perspective. I’ll try to say something about this in the next few days. I don’t want to say the wrong words, but I inevitably will, lol. Some time might help me ground some of these abstract ideas of mine in concrete words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Are worse economic conditions motivating younger women to date and marry older established men?Yuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a younger guy who looks older or an older guy who looks younger?I’m 20. My sisters are 40 and 41. My mom is 60 and my dad is 61. Lol. My parents are more fit than the parents of most kids my age! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather date a younger guy who looks older or an older guy who looks younger?My dad got married to my mom at age 39. Single at 40 is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a younger guy who looks older or an older guy who looks younger?Give me a break. You’re serious? Good for you I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a younger guy who looks older or an older guy who looks younger?Lol. My dad is 61 years old (I’m 20). He fishes, gardens, hunts, forages, hikes, fixes the house, and stuff like that. Was your dad 80 when your mom was 40? Your parents sound like they were rather old for their age! You’re supposed to retire as young as possible. You like work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault.Your welcome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Women cry more than meI cry very rarely. If I cry, my day is ruined. I can’t go anywhere or else I’ll be embarrassed by residual signs of crying (red eyes, puffy face). Crying usually makes me sick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault.Nice username | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | do you think you have perpetuated toxic masculinityToxic masculinity doesn’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Question for All. What would you do if you we're an ideally attractive male? would u sleep around? who would u date? would u date at all etc.I know exactly what I’d do. I’d retire young. I’d invest my money. I’d purchase an island (in Canada, Pacific). I’d fish, swim, hunt, forage, garden, snorkel, paddle board, clam, crab, and prawn. I’d hire a guitar and piano teacher to write music to accompany lyrics I’ve already written. I’d write a novel. I’d study mathematics and try to prove a bunch of theorems. Stuff like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 09:48 AM |
| 2 | The importance of male neurotypicality is underrated in datingThe topic of neurotypicality and neurodivergence bothers me. I’m not quite sure how to put it into words in an eloquent way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:13 AM |
| 1 | The importance of male neurotypicality is underrated in datingI never said I was neurotypical or neurodivergent by the way. I value those who can understand abstract thought so now the neurotypical title is looking even more undesirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:02 AM |
| 2 | The importance of male neurotypicality is underrated in datingI sure as hell wouldn’t want to be classified as neurotypical if neurotypical people have “feeble minds”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do you believe that men have an obligation to disclose their intentions to you?It’s fine for a man to keep it a secret that he loves a woman. I don’t think it’s fine for a man to date multiple women at the same time. This is particularly wrong when he hasn’t told one of the women that he’s currently dating other women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 03:54 AM |
| 3 | How many of you have read the Rational Male?I haven’t read anything entitled “The Rational Male”. I had never heard of such a series of posts before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 12:32 AM |
| – | Why over emphasizing superficial things like looks leads to a downfallhttps://youtu.be/_AJstxQZR5E Scene from The Swan Princess in regards to beauty https://youtu.be/A4q0x414z8o Scene from Little Women in regards to beauty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?In the words of my paternal grandpa, they have “no shame” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?I never said it happened all the time. A lot of perpetrators are happy about what they did. A lot are just like whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?Yes, memories of bad deeds torture perpetrators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?A lot of people become jaded. Furthermore, some people have the following mentality: I got screwed over so it’s acceptable for you to get screwed over too. Then there’s other people who think: I got screwed over so I want to make sure nobody gets screwed over like I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?Anger is not always like “holding onto a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?Don’t underestimate kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?In Catholic Elementary School (my parents are atheists, but decided to enrol me in the school), we were taught it was wrong to hate in grade three. I immediately thought that it was okay to hate. I defiantly wrote in my journal that I thought it was okay to hate. For instance, some people hate broccoli. I added the broccoli remark to soften my claim with some humour. To be tactful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?I’m not talking about hedonism at all. I am in fact talking about inner peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Which is worse on dating apps: men demanding sex or women demanding money?Thanks for the clarification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 08:18 AM |
| 4 | Which is worse on dating apps: men demanding sex or women demanding money?A sexual demand can be permanent and cause more damage than a monetary demand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 08:17 AM |
| 5 | Which is worse on dating apps: men demanding sex or women demanding money?What do you mean when you say "a sexual demand isn't permanent unless careless"? Demanding money doesn't necessarily cause permanent loss of wealth "unless someone is careless". Someone can refuse the demand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?What do you mean by “purifying your mind”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?In terms of spiritual philosophies, I’m rather fond of the novel “Life of Pi”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 06:22 AM |
| 0 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?I’m not sure as to what degree genetics contributes to happiness. It’s kind of interesting that I have two older half sisters (same mom, different biological dad). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?Cool. I’ve always admired scientifically oriented monks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?I think my paternal grandparents and parents have exemplified happiness and contentment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?For some reason, I’ve always admired monks. I’m mathematically and scientifically inclined, so Gregor Mendel automatically comes to mind. I wish to be a Renaissance Man of sorts, like Leonardo Da Vinci. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 06:06 AM |
| 3 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?From my experience, I disagree that those who understand happiness best are involved in spiritual philosophies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 03:40 AM |
| 2 | How has your relationship with your own mother changed after discovering the red pill?What are the things you like about women from older generations. Personally, I come from a family where I’m like my dad who is like his mom. Because of that, I tend to connect with older generations in a way that some people don’t. I know this is vague, but I don’t how interested other people on PPD are in this stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | How has your relationship with your own mother changed after discovering the red pill?Elementary School: Me: “My parents are the best parents in the world.” Suzy: “No! My parents are!” Tommy: “No! My parents are!” Jimmy: “No! My parents are!” Lily: “No! My parents are!” … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How has your relationship with your own mother changed after discovering the red pill?Oops | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | What is something you didn't know about the opposite sex until PPD? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI don’t know if my dude friends are sexually successful then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 07:44 PM |
| 2 | What is something you didn't know about the opposite sex until PPD? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIf a guy is sexually successful if and only if he has had sex, then I have dude friends who are sexually unsuccessful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | What is something you didn't know about the opposite sex until PPD? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWell, what exactly do you mean by “sexually successful”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | What is something you didn't know about the opposite sex until PPD? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADLol. In all seriousness, most of my friends are guys. I doubt they’re all “sexually successful”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 07:26 PM |
| 2 | What is something you didn't know about the opposite sex until PPD? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADGood point. I’m going to edit #7. Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 06:16 PM |
| 4 | What is something you didn't know about the opposite sex until PPD? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYep. I’m adding this to my list right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 05:17 PM |
| 10 | What is something you didn't know about the opposite sex until PPD? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD1) A lot of men (and women) on PPD have lost their fun (if they ever had it to begin with). They seem to have forgotten to seek for and enjoy “the magic of life”. I’m referring to what I think of as fun and magical. A lot of people here will probably have a different view on what is fun and magical. 2) I wouldn’t date most men on this sub. I wouldn’t be friends with most men (and women) on this sub. Some men on PPD “don’t believe in love, or think women are incapable of it” [@AstronautLoveShack]… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 04:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV Its ridiculous to have a body count requirement but not an education level requirementI’m a virgin university student so we’ll see if the correlation applies to me too, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 04:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV Its ridiculous to have a body count requirement but not an education level requirementYep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 04:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV Its ridiculous to have a body count requirement but not an education level requirementMy grandpa had to drop out of school in grade 6 to work on the family farm. He was smarter than most people in my university classes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What's the most optimal way for men to approach womenBecome friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Women do not like baldness everI don’t like baldness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 11:27 AM |
| 1 | What is femininity according to you ?Femininity boils down to physical features and fashion in my opinion. Fashion changes over time and is subjective though. Physical features: a small waist, a “feminine face”, a higher voice (vocal chords), etc. Fashion: dresses, skirts, long hair, nail polish, high heels, ponytails, etc. I don’t associate femininity with personality traits, interests, ways of thinking, etc.. That’s just the way I was raised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 09:51 AM |
| 2 | The actual consequences of a woman's high N count.”Any woman or man for that matter that's on here has some form of trauma stemming from negative interactions with the opposite sex.” False. Personally, I participate on this forum for entertainment. Here are some consequences of high N count: -bad reputation -time lost -potential meaningful connections sacrificed for shallow ones -etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How many women would date a bisexual men if he himself never had sexual experiemces with men and dont want to?I’m not homophobic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How many women would date a bisexual men if he himself never had sexual experiemces with men and dont want to?I won’t date someone who’s attracted to people other than me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | How many women would date a bisexual men if he himself never had sexual experiemces with men and dont want to?🎽🎽🎽🎽🎽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | How many women would date a bisexual men if he himself never had sexual experiemces with men and dont want to?Contradiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | How many women would date a bisexual men if he himself never had sexual experiemces with men and dont want to?I don’t approve of the structure of your “if” statement. An appropriate statement is: “He’s bi” AND “he loves me”. That statement is always false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | How many women would date a bisexual men if he himself never had sexual experiemces with men and dont want to?Lol. It’s okay that you don’t understand what I mean. 🍻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | How many women would date a bisexual men if he himself never had sexual experiemces with men and dont want to?I wish your username was “Tandrew Ain’t” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | How many women would date a bisexual men if he himself never had sexual experiemces with men and dont want to?Refer to my woman/women comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 12:05 PM |
| 1 | How many women would date a bisexual men if he himself never had sexual experiemces with men and dont want to?If he loves women, then he doesn’t love me either. I’m a woman. I’m not women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | How many women would date a bisexual men if he himself never had sexual experiemces with men and dont want to?Nah. That’s a contradiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 12:02 PM |
| 1 | How many women would date a bisexual men if he himself never had sexual experiemces with men and dont want to?If he loves me, he loves me. If he waffles, then fijekxojekkdnrkekcke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | How many women would date a bisexual men if he himself never had sexual experiemces with men and dont want to?Not hate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 11:56 AM |
| 1 | How many women would date a bisexual men if he himself never had sexual experiemces with men and dont want to?I wouldn’t date a bisexual man. If he’s bisexual, he’s not in love with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of evolutionary psychology, especially as it relates to sex?I don’t like psychology so whatever. I’ll just continue living my life. Hasta luego | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Women who won't see a man who's visited prostitutes, how would you even know that they have?I would know if: -there are incriminating money transactions left out in the open -there are incriminating emails/texts/voicemails left out in the open -the guy admits it himself -I witness the act | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | The Need For ContextContext does matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 09:29 PM |
| 2 | The emotional/domestic labour vs “nagging” debateOh, I guess it depends on where you live and the situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:19 PM |
| 3 | The emotional/domestic labour vs “nagging” debateTwo 6 fig jobs! Congrats 🥳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:10 PM |
| 11 | The emotional/domestic labour vs “nagging” debateMy mom and dad had a wonderful system. My dad had such a high salary that it made no sense whatsoever for my mom to work. Since my parents got married at age 39 and 40, respectively, they each had a good stock pile of money. My mom was a stay-at-home mom. She was also president of our town’s art club (unpaid position). My dad worked from just before I went to school to just after I got back from school. My mom and dad both did chores. As a kid, I didn’t have to do any chores whatsoever. My mom d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Women need men as much as men need women, but women have the government as proxyMy dad saved my mom and my mom saved my dad. They’re truly best friends. My mom did fine raising my two half-sisters as a single mom. No government help. No help from her ex. No help from my dad. My dad met my mom when my sisters were adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Does the relationship between high n-count women and the female aversion to bisexual men suggest a type of discrimination against male sexual partners in general?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Does the relationship between high n-count women and the female aversion to bisexual men suggest a type of discrimination against male sexual partners in general?I don’t identify as being green-eyed. I am green-eyed. I think identities (and lack of identities) communicate personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Does the relationship between high n-count women and the female aversion to bisexual men suggest a type of discrimination against male sexual partners in general?My name is arbitrary. You could call me “bluebell” instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Does the relationship between high n-count women and the female aversion to bisexual men suggest a type of discrimination against male sexual partners in general?How you choose to identify yourself is based on your personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Does the relationship between high n-count women and the female aversion to bisexual men suggest a type of discrimination against male sexual partners in general?Personally, I’ve never had an identity other than my name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Does the relationship between high n-count women and the female aversion to bisexual men suggest a type of discrimination against male sexual partners in general?If it’s a social construct, then it’s obviously rooted in personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Does the relationship between high n-count women and the female aversion to bisexual men suggest a type of discrimination against male sexual partners in general?Well. I grew up being told gender=sex. So, under my definition of gender, I am a woman. After all, I have XX sex chromosomes, natural boobs, and a natural vagina. According to the new personality based definitions for gender, I would be considered a man. Some people would probably classify me as agender or non-binary under their own definitions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Does the relationship between high n-count women and the female aversion to bisexual men suggest a type of discrimination against male sexual partners in general?Do you understand what my post was getting at? Do you need some clarification? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Does the relationship between high n-count women and the female aversion to bisexual men suggest a type of discrimination against male sexual partners in general?Ya, “issue” is the wrong word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Does the relationship between high n-count women and the female aversion to bisexual men suggest a type of discrimination against male sexual partners in general?That was my attempt to reach out to gender confused people without getting banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Does the relationship between high n-count women and the female aversion to bisexual men suggest a type of discrimination against male sexual partners in general?What gender fluidity issues do I have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Does the relationship between high n-count women and the female aversion to bisexual men suggest a type of discrimination against male sexual partners in general?I’m a virgin. I wouldn’t date a bisexual man, whether or not he’s a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Statement, with a question for both men and women, concerning attractiveness.In my opinion, Jeannie looks better. Both look good though. It would be nice to see Allecakes without makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 11:46 PM |
| 1 | why aren't open relationships more popular?I don’t want an open relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Being *too* attractive not worth it/a handicap for women when it comes to achieving socio-economic status?I feel uncomfortable sending you my award certificates and financial documents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Being *too* attractive not worth it/a handicap for women when it comes to achieving socio-economic status?I’m a 20 year old, naturally beautiful woman who doesn’t wear makeup or fancy clothes. I’ve also never dyed my hair. Here are my responses to your bullet points. people will assume your looks are inversely correlated with your intelligence unless you seriously prove them otherwise No. women will be envious and potentially exclude you from social or business opportunities Mean women will. I wouldn’t want to be friends with a mean woman. I don’t do business with friends. Money and friendship don’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherWell. My dad relates to my mom because they both like saving money. My dad relates to me because I like saving money. Sweet Home Canada (Depression Era Money Values)! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 11:48 AM |
| – | Q4W why won't you give our fucking hoodies back after we break up????We have a difference in opinion. I think it’s weird you kept those plants. The necklace could have been used by someone else? Really? You must really hate the ending of the movie “Titanic” when the old lady throws the sapphire necklace into the sea. I have the same sentiment towards the painting. Your gift hierarchy seems good at first glance. I think it lacks nuance though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 07:54 AM |
| – | Q4W why won't you give our fucking hoodies back after we break up????I guess it depends on the gift? I think strictly monetary gifts should be kept. That’s a one and done thing. I’m a very sentimental person. I ascribe meaning to different objects. When my wicked aunt gifted me a necklace, I cut it up and threw it in the trash. When she gifted me a painting, I karate kicked the painting in the backyard while my dad held it in place. I think it would have been wrong to sell the necklace and/or painting too. I don’t want no dirty money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Who do young people look up to?At 20, I look up to my parents and my paternal grandparents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 07:02 AM |
| – | Q4W why won't you give our fucking hoodies back after we break up????In a hypothetical situation where I’m dating a guy and then we break up, I’d return his clothing and any gifts such as expensive jewelry. Such items have bad Feng shui. I’d throw away cheap items once given to me by him that are clearly unwanted by him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Who do young people look up to?Nah. It’s not a generational thing in my opinion (I’m of Gen Z) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Let's say due to a population crisis your government started issuing lump sum payments to women who had kids. How much would the payment have to be to move the needle for you?Canada covers healthcare too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 03:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherCool. I don’t agree with your opinion. Frankly, I never found that opinion of yours to be insulting. I was insulted by your statement that, in my opinion, lumps free thinking people with sheep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherThis here is not insulting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherYou seem to think debates aren’t right for me because I’ve been insulted during our conversation. I don’t understand why you’d say that. I’m perfectly comfortable with being insulted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherI’m not afraid of being insulted. I don’t see a reason to fear being insulted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherWhy should I fear being insulted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 01:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherI am insulted. You’re piling on a whole lot of assumptions with that vague little passage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each other“Ok so they married in the 1950s. I'm glad they had a great marriage and everything. But nearly everything about life society, and expectations in general are vastly different.” I forgot to address this comment before. It’s really insulting of my maternal and paternal grandparents. They’ve always marched to the beat of their own drums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherAn ultimate best friend. And I’m not looking. If I stumble across a relationship, then it’ll be a bonus. I’m prepared to stay happily single for the rest of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 12:21 AM |
| 0 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherYep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherThe more important reason is that I would never have been born if they had met sooner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherI didn’t agree with you. My parents met when my sisters were adults. My mom divorced her ex when my sisters were little kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each other??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 04:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherI’m actually content to stay single for the rest of my life. A relationship is a bonus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherWhatever you say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherWell. I’m 20. I’ve never dated anyone. I’m picky. I’m not going to be like my eldest sister who is obsessed with finding a relationship. She’s miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherMy dad wasn’t previously married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherMy grandpa related to me in several ways. For example, he sacrificed his youth for a better future. I was sacrificing my youth for a better future. We both value long term gain over short term gain. If I were to get a husband, I’d hope we relate in that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherMy mom and dad would have married sooner if they met each other sooner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:54 PM |
| 0 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherI know what familial means. Perhaps one can relate to a member of a familial relationship in the same way that they relate to a member of a romantic relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherMy maternal grandparents were both previously married with kids. My mom was married when she was 16. She had my sisters when she was 18 and 19. She divorced her abusive ex when my sisters were kids. My mom and dad married when my mom was 39 and my dad was 40. They’re soul mates. My second eldest sister was married when I was a toddler. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:49 PM |
| 0 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherRelating to a romantic partner is different than being/having a romantic partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:43 PM |
| 0 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each other“Relating as a trusted much older family member is way different than being a romantic partner.” Well duh. That’s not what you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherMy maternal grandma was 25 when my mom was born in 1962. My mom has an older brother with the same biological parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:37 PM |
| -1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherI don’t know about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherFor further context, I’ve never ever dated anyone because I’m picky and willing to stay single all my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 11:16 AM |
| 2 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherInteresting. It’s interesting to see what other people think of the matter. My mom and dad are only a year apart in age, but my paternal grandparents were 16 years apart (they were both previously married and divorced before they met, too). I disagree with your opinion and I don’t understand it, but it’s interesting to hear nonetheless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 11:12 AM |
| 1 | What is femininity to you?I’d consider kilts to be masculine and robes to be neutral | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 08:36 AM |
| 3 | What is femininity to you?Fashion is fickle and changes over time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 08:36 AM |
| 1 | What is femininity to you?Fashion such as women’s hairstyles, dresses, skirts, hair accessories, nail polish, high heels, leggings, and jewelry. Physical characteristics such as boobs, a higher voice, a smaller height, and a “feminine face”. That sums it up. Fashion and physical characteristics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 07:50 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherYou’ve claimed that you’ll never find yourself dating someone in their 30’s at your age. Why? Edit: Obviously you have a boyfriend. You were talking of hypotheticals though so I will talk in hypotheticals too. I’m a 20 year old woman by the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 05:57 AM |
| 4 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherI’m glad you mentioned life expectancy. My parents were 39 and 40 when I was born. I love them dearly. I wouldn’t trade them for any other parents in the world. I do feel kind of sad that I won’t have as much time on this earth with my parents as most children have with their parents. But, hey. “We’re here for a good time, not a long time. So have a good time ‘cause the sun can’t shine everyday.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 05:31 AM |
| 2 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherShared values are key. As someone who is very family oriented (fortunately, I have a great family), I share many, many values with my family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 05:27 AM |
| 6 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherWell. At age 96, my grandpa related to me more than most people his age. I was in elementary school back then. I’m really family oriented though so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 05:13 AM |
| 4 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherMy maternal grandparents had a 16 year age gap. They were soulmates. To address your commonality thing… I wouldn’t say it’s necessary for couples to have a lot in common with one another. There are obviously some important commonalities, but certain differences can be good or neutral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.A lot of intelligent women are family oriented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.Yep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.How do you define intelligence? Is it possible that most surfer chicks are more intelligent than most mathematicians? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.I’m not upset by this post. It’s reminiscent of my eldest sister who complains that guys are intimidated by intelligent women. Perhaps I’m taking my thoughts of her out on you. After all, I can’t share these kinds of thoughts with that sister. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.I’m surprised that you consider yourself to be intelligent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | You are given the task to design an enviroment for people of both genders to mingle and get aquainted with. How would you go about it?“Dispatches from Elsewhere” in real life!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 11:28 PM |
| 3 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?Frugality is valued in my family. A dollar saved is worth more than a dollar earned. Live below your means. Retire young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | what's the difference at the end of the day?Yep. That’s what you value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | what's the difference at the end of the day?Okay. You value both, but you value sex over an actual relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | what's the difference at the end of the day?Those two people you’ve described are sexually incompatible. I never said sexual compatibility wasn’t a thing. I don’t think sexual compatibility is important. You value sex over an actual relationship. That’s your prerogative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | What comes after "Work on yourself" has failed?Something here seems creepy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 11:19 AM |
| 2 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?Yep. That’s why I apologized for answering the general question instead of the specific one as intended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | How bad is it being a tall girl romantically?My second eldest sister is 5’9 and happily married (since she was in her early twenties). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:32 AM |
| 10 | Women should not feel bad for losing sex appeal as they get olderMy mom was 39 and my dad was 40 when I was born. My parents looked better than all of my friends’ parents who were much younger. Genetics my friend. I don’t give a damn about “sex appeal”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | what's the difference at the end of the day?Ya, I’d say she’s an ass in that situation. That’s my opinion. I don’t buy into the whole “sexual compatibility” thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:43 AM |
| 5 | What are some of the predatory and power dynamic issues you’ve seen with women in dating?-Wrongly bad mouthing an ex in front of their kid -An adult woman forming a relationship with a minor (I haven’t seen this in real life, but it happens) -Threats of false rape and/or abuse allegations (I haven’t seen this in real life, but it happens) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | So today’s theme seems to be “is it okay to lie”, and it’s a common trend in this sub. Why do people try to justify being bad to others when it comes to dating?It is okay to lie in certain cases. Suppose I was in Nazi Germany and I knew Anne Frank was hiding in my closet. If a Nazi soldier asked if there were any Jewish people in my house, I’d lie and say, “No.” Sorry for answering the general question. I had to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | what's the difference at the end of the day?I’ll copy and paste my comment to you: Guy #1 is a manipulative asshole. Guy #2 is a relationship asshole if the reason for dumping the girl was sex. He values sex over an actual relationship. That’s my opinion, based on how I define a “true relationship”. Either guy should specify that they value sex over everything else in a relationship. Guy #2 is innocent if he has some other good reason for dumping her (ex. she doesn’t make him happy). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:25 AM |
| 4 | what's the difference at the end of the day?Guy #1 is a manipulative asshole. Guy #2 is a relationship asshole if the reason for dumping the girl was sex. He values sex over an actual relationship. That’s my opinion, based on how I define a “true relationship”. Either guy should specify that they value sex over everything else in a relationship. Guy #2 is innocent if he has some other good reason for dumping her (ex. she doesn’t make him happy). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Questions solely for women/men are of little value due to people's unconscious desire to protect their self-image/lack of self-awareness“Given your views on casual sex, and your reticence to see human relationships as mutual exchanges,” What do you mean by “mutual exchanges”? I think a relationship is the ultimate friendship. “I think that if we unpacked that paragraph, we would find a lot to disagree on.” Interesting. I’m not quite sure how we agree with one another. I’m also not quite sure how we disagree with one another. “However delightful that might be, I fear we are drifting away from the original thrust of the post.” I’m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Questions solely for women/men are of little value due to people's unconscious desire to protect their self-image/lack of self-awareness“I have children, but I needed a person of the opposite sex to make that possible.” Congratulations. We all know you needed someone of the opposite sex to have children. That’s a no-brainer. I don’t view having children as getting something from the opposite sex. That kind of wording is weird in my opinion. It is my opinion that it’s not right to have a relationship/marriage with someone just to have biological children. “You may think casual sex is wrong; many people think there is everything r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Questions solely for women/men are of little value due to people's unconscious desire to protect their self-image/lack of self-awarenessMy point is that people should examine your walk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Questions solely for women/men are of little value due to people's unconscious desire to protect their self-image/lack of self-awarenessOkay. Your first paragraphs seem to line up with my views. Now let’s examine your last paragraph: “But when you are creating strategies to get what you want from the opposite sex (casual sex, children, marriage, friendship or other relationships), there are practical rules of thumb that can stand you in good stead until you discover what a particular individual is like.” I think it’s foolish to actively seek casual sex, children, marriage, friendship or other relationships. To start, I think cas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Questions solely for women/men are of little value due to people's unconscious desire to protect their self-image/lack of self-awarenessA lot of untrue, vile things were said of scientists who made groundbreaking discoveries in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:50 AM |
| 3 | Questions solely for women/men are of little value due to people's unconscious desire to protect their self-image/lack of self-awarenessI think it’s better to focus on individuals rather than the broad groups of men and women. Unfortunately, a lot of men/women will give you inaccurate answers to questions about another person. A lot of people don’t walk their talk. Examine peoples’ walks. Good luck deducing what a man is like by asking a plethora of women. You’re not examining first hand what the man does. You’re learning how a bunch of women talk of that man. Reverse the genders in this paragraph and the message is the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:41 AM |
| -1 | How do you judge religious trauma in people? Is it a deal-breaker for you?My atheist parents put me in a Catholic Elementary School. Friends loved coming over to my house. In fact, one of my Christian neighbours tried to run away to our house as a little kid (kindergarten age). She packed a suitcase and everything. Her parents were strict and would ration her gum! I don’t see virginity as a defect. I’m a virgin who is an atheist. I wouldn’t go ahead and date a Christian man who says I’m going to hell because I don’t believe in his god. Your bullet points aren’t limite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 02:24 AM |
| 2 | I believ that The bar to be considered attractive for a woman is way lower than It is for menDating apps, lol. It would be incredibly easy for me to get a date. However, I don’t want a date just for the sake of having a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Makeup plays a significant role in increasing the demand for womenI don’t like makeup. If that makes you laugh, so be it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 12:52 AM |
| 0 | women dont want to settle down and have kids anymoreNah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | "you need a child"My mom and dad had me and now the three of us are best friends. We’re also best friends with my paternal grandparents. I take it as my job to get my parents’ arses in gear to adventure and enjoy the magic of life. Plus, I make for an excellent fishing buddy, having been trained since an infant. Like my parents took me fishing as a child, I’ll make sure to take them fishing when they’re old. We’re a team. I have wonderful nephews and a niece. I don’t feel the need to have kids because they’re so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 07:48 AM |
| 1 | If you magically woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex do you think you would easily get everything you are seeking in a partner?I wouldn’t say men or women are generally more open about those sorts of things. I can see how some people would be bothered by a lack of that kind of openness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Do you think social isolation is damaging the relationship between genders?On a lot of my report cards from elementary school, teachers would “encourage me to break out of my shell”. I’m like my dad in that way. I’m quiet. I like doing activities like fishing, swimming, hiking, etc.. When I hang out with friends, I like to do an activity. I’m still confident, assertive, and creative. I’m just quiet. I observe. I listen. I have high quality friends and some ditzy fun friends. A lot of teachers confused my quiet demeanour with shyness and trouble socializing and were sur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 06:22 AM |
| 1 | If you magically woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex do you think you would easily get everything you are seeking in a partner?I should also add that a lot of folks are quiet about such things. For instance, I haven’t shared my most important thoughts with others, not even my mom and dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | If you magically woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex do you think you would easily get everything you are seeking in a partner?Basically, I disagree with your generalization of men and women in regards to emotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | If you magically woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex do you think you would easily get everything you are seeking in a partner?“usually with how they view the world,” How do you know how someone views the world? “day to day interactions,” Okay, we’re getting somewhere here (I think). “how they reflect on past experiences” How do you know how they reflect on past experiences? “and how they view their general day to day being as a whole” How do you know this? “- add to this the ability to read between the lines” How do you know someone is able to read between the lines? “as well as their ability to relate and empathize wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 12:13 AM |
| 0 | If you magically woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex do you think you would easily get everything you are seeking in a partner?How to you tell observance and reflectiveness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 12:03 AM |
| 0 | If you magically woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex do you think you would easily get everything you are seeking in a partner?How can you tell if someone is emotionally aware/connected? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Makeup plays a significant role in increasing the demand for womenWhat’s nonsense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Makeup plays a significant role in increasing the demand for womenThanks for pointing that out. I’ve never gotten a chemical peel and I don’t know much about them. Sun damage can be brutal. My grandpa got skin cancer and had to have it removed via liquid nitrogen. Knowing that as a kid, I made sure to slather on loads of sunscreen. In fact, I was more diligent about sunscreen than my parents! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 11:40 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don’t shame older women who go after barely legal/early 20s guys the same way they shame men who do after barely legal/early 20s womenReddit is a joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:03 PM |
| 17 | Is it true that most women in college are promiscuous?I don’t know. What I do know is that I’m a 20 year old virgin woman in university. Edit: I’m not religious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 08:28 PM |
| 0 | Hypothesis: Women in the close future will become poorer, even after earning more than men, as gender relationships decay moreThat girl you know is stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Hypothesis: Women in the close future will become poorer, even after earning more than men, as gender relationships decay moreBullshit. This goes both ways. Live below your means. A dollar saved is worth more than a dollar earned. Make money from your money (investing). Retire young. Spend your golden years doing the things you want to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Makeup plays a significant role in increasing the demand for womenMakeup isn’t good for skin. Nail polish isn’t good for nails. Is nail polish related to acne? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | If you magically woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex do you think you would easily get everything you are seeking in a partner?I’d argue that the most “emotionless” people are truly the most emotional of us all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | If you magically woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex do you think you would easily get everything you are seeking in a partner?Nothing (beyond physicality) would change if I were a dude instead of a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Women on Reddit are generally extremely hypocritical when it comes to age gap relationshipsMy grandpa was 16 years older than my grandma. They were excellent together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Makeup plays a significant role in increasing the demand for womenWhere did I say acne was associated with dirty skin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Makeup plays a significant role in increasing the demand for womenMy mom doesn’t get acne. My dad gets acne. They have they same lifestyle. My dad is just unlucky in terms of acne related genetics. Maybe it’s a hormonal thing. The fuck do I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Makeup plays a significant role in increasing the demand for womenWhat? I don’t like makeup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Makeup plays a significant role in increasing the demand for womenSee, idk much about this stuff. Thanks for the correction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Makeup plays a significant role in increasing the demand for womenCool. I’m more so referring to people who had bad acne and don’t have acne anymore, but the acne left scarring (in terms of medical peels). My dad has adult acne. He has never had crater face (scarring). He has to avoid eating chocolate when it flairs up. Further more, he has special cream from his doctor. I made three separate points in my original comment. I wasn’t trying to say that makeup is the sole cause of acne. Makeup isn’t the greatest thing to have on your skin, whether or not you have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 07:05 PM |
| 0 | Makeup plays a significant role in increasing the demand for womenWell. Are you someone who prefers short term gain or long term gain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 10:08 AM |
| 0 | Makeup plays a significant role in increasing the demand for womenEating healthy is a HUGE factor. Thanks for mentioning that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:43 AM |
| 6 | Makeup plays a significant role in increasing the demand for womenI’ll add that makeup can do a lot of harm to skin. People who had bad acne as a kid and now have “crater face” might want to look into chemical peels. I’ve also heard that microdermabrasion is supposed to be good for wrinkles maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Makeup plays a significant role in increasing the demand for womenTo each their own. Personally, I don’t wear makeup, except for when I star in musical theatre productions. Sometimes I’ll wear makeup for Halloween too. Truth be told, I never learned how to put on makeup myself. I have dark, thick eyebrows so I don’t have to fill them in like most people. Fortunately, I don’t get a unibrow either. My mom uses castor oil to thicken her light eyebrows (that she dyes). I’m curious about using castor oil on my eyebrows to see just how thick they could get (as a lit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Over consumption of the Sex’s.Western society is on a decline is some ways. Western society has always been declining in some way. The way in which western society declines, changes over time. This is how I see western society declining right now: -social media, gaming, internet addiction -gender ideology -anti-abortionists gaining control -gun violence (particularly, school shootings) -increased social acceptance of drugs (I think drugs such as marijuana should be legal; however, I think it should be seen as a bad thing to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 04:33 AM |
| 0 | Women put virtually zero effort into dating, and certainly far less than menOnline dating seems weird. Maybe try just making friends with people. If the relationship grows stronger, so be it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out?Ya | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 12:46 AM |
| 0 | women dont want to settle down and have kids anymoreWomen aren’t more gullible and easier to manipulate than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 09:54 PM |
| 2 | women dont want to settle down and have kids anymoreIf a woman thinks it’s not worth it, she shouldn’t do it. It’s as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 08:29 AM |
| 9 | women dont want to settle down and have kids anymoreNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 08:17 AM |
| 2 | women dont want to settle down and have kids anymoreThanks to men too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 07:54 AM |
| 4 | women dont want to settle down and have kids anymoreLol, “a death sentence for marriage.” It seems like a lot of people just want sex. That just seems sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 07:54 AM |
| 7 | women dont want to settle down and have kids anymoreMen are very susceptible to propaganda. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | women dont want to settle down and have kids anymorePregnancy takes a physical toll. Other than that, the dad goes through as much as the mom in my honest opinion. The mom can just give her kid up for adoption if she really wanted to. I’m going to have to disagree with a lot of the things you said (other than the physical stuff). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 07:50 AM |
| 6 | Women like being playfully roasted and playfully demeaned. It’s the most attractive personality traitLots of men and women roast each other. It’s fun. I would never demean someone though. By the way, this isn’t just a relationship thing. It’s a friendship and familial thing too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | how accurate is the advice to men that they should just be socialI’m not saying you should drop everything to pursue a hobby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | how accurate is the advice to men that they should just be socialWell, keep it in mind as a hobby. A lot of people are surprised I’m someone in the field of math and physics who writes songs, draws manga, fishes, forages, swims, snorkels, etc.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | how accurate is the advice to men that they should just be socialIf that’s your area of interest, why not do something related to that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | how accurate is the advice to men that they should just be socialWell, are you actually DOING anything related to that area of interest of yours right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | how accurate is the advice to men that they should just be socialAre you still interested in those kinds of things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 01:17 AM |
| 1 | how accurate is the advice to men that they should just be socialHigh five | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 01:17 AM |
| 1 | how accurate is the advice to men that they should just be socialWhat was your motivation behind starting organizations and such? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 01:15 AM |
| 1 | how accurate is the advice to men that they should just be socialThe fuck if I know. I’m a hybrid of social and antisocial. I’m a lone wolf who attracts people of all stripes like some sort of social butterfly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 01:14 AM |
| 0 | I’m tired of the same debate so I wanna switch it up, would you date an inexperienced man if so why or why notYep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 06:51 AM |
| 4 | I’m tired of the same debate so I wanna switch it up, would you date an inexperienced man if so why or why notThat’s perfect for what I consider a real relationship. That’s perfect for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 06:48 AM |
| 1 | The dating world is unbalanced because, on average, women desire dates, love, relationships, sex, kids, and marriage less than menYou think women desire [list of things] less than men. I think random person Jenny can desire [list of things] more than random person Dave even though she chooses hobbies over [list of things]. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 05:57 AM |
| 2 | The dating world is unbalanced because, on average, women desire dates, love, relationships, sex, kids, and marriage less than men@Lift_and_Lurk has a valid point., but I think he/she worded things incorrectly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | The dating world is unbalanced because, on average, women desire dates, love, relationships, sex, kids, and marriage less than menI’m not going to actively try to get a relationship. That’s not how true love operates in my opinion. Maybe I’ll stumble upon someone someday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 05:53 AM |
| 9 | I’m tired of the same debate so I wanna switch it up, would you date an inexperienced man if so why or why notYa. I’m a virgin. A guy being a virgin is a bonus in my book. I think virginity says something about one’s personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 05:49 AM |
| 1 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?I wouldn’t assume suppression though. Maybe it just is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?I think stoicism is misunderstood by a number of people. It is my experience that the most “emotionless” people are really the most emotional of us all (very introspective). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?Basically, I’m looking at the OP’s claim that the only women unanimously hated by women are Jada Pinket and Amber Heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?Stoicism is a valued trait among all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Older women "warning" younger women about dating older epitomizes why older women are less romantically attractiveWhy do you want vagina? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Older women "warning" younger women about dating older epitomizes why older women are less romantically attractiveGood thing I quoted you when I did then. Anyway, you can respond to my question whenever you feel ready. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Older women "warning" younger women about dating older epitomizes why older women are less romantically attractiveLooks like your post has been deleted… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:03 PM |
| 4 | Older women "warning" younger women about dating older epitomizes why older women are less romantically attractiveYou said “older women are less romantically attractive” in your title. You later said you won’t “[torture] [yourself] for some vagina”. Are you looking for romance or vagina? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Older women "warning" younger women about dating older epitomizes why older women are less romantically attractiveAre you looking for “some vagina” or a relationship? I need clarification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:50 PM |
| 2 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?Thanks :D. If you couldn’t tell by the Alice in Wonderland quote, I study math. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?The Story of the Curious Oysters tells a valuable lesson… if you’re an oyster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?To summarize all of my thoughts on the matter, psychology is a soft “science”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?I enjoy biological psychology (example: different structures of the brain). That’s it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?Which women have been unanimously hated by men, but not by women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?Calling psychology a science is generous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:42 PM |
| 2 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?I don’t think gender is the issue. I think we should be wary of the so-called experts. I consider psychology to be a fluffy area of study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?Sorry, but I’d assume a lot of psychological experts are incorrect about a topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?“Mansplaining usually occurs randomly by the man.” No. A lot of women are condescending. I wouldn’t say it’s mostly men who are condescending. “His advice or teaching was not asked for.” A lot of wonderful advice that is appreciated is not asked for. “So women going to a man’s dating seminar is not mansplaining because they actually want his advice.” I think someone can be condescending whether or not the advice is sought after. “Also, a lot of men and women don’t know how to talk to each other.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:35 PM |
| 2 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?It’s condescension (and sometimes just pure idiocy). Mansplaining isn’t a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?Legally Blonde… We also saw this with the recent winner of US Big Brother winner Taylor Hale. She was bullied like crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:26 PM |
| 2 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?Thanks :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Virtue Signaling, the "need to be right", "im not like that" and the exception negates the rule. These counter-arguement styles seem to be common in online forums. Why do we get soo triggered by generalities in gender .Perhaps most surfers in the world are smarter than most mathematicians in the world. A lot of people would laugh this proposition away without critical thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 06:33 AM |
| 2 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?“Why do women hate “mansplaining”, but if a woman hosts a dating seminar basically discussing dating strategies, relatable feelings and thought processes, women will clamor and clap in agreement ?” Some women are stupid. Mansplaining isn’t a thing. Condescension is a thing. I don’t like condescending people. “It bothers me how upset some women get at the seminars of men essentially explaining womens psychology TO women.” Well, psychology seems so “fluffy”. “Unbiased statistics that may not even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Would you take a college course on love and relationships?Mathematics is a form of art. It wasn’t mandatory for me to take any course outside of math, physics, and first year chemistry and computer science in university. Still, I chose to take an English literature course, an academic writing course, biology courses, and a psychology course. In my spare time, I create stories, work on my dream journal, draw manga, sew, explore the culinary arts, make polymer clay charms, read books, watch movies/TV, and more. When I had more time on my hands, I starred… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Would you take a college course on love and relationships?So, I really think relationship education would be like placing a bandaid on a broken pipe and hoping it sticks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Would you take a college course on love and relationships?A lot of people have broken spirits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Would you take a college course on love and relationships?Perhaps it’s not relationship education we need, but an ability to imagine and dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Would you take a college course on love and relationships?Timeless tales, classic novels, poetry, paintings, theatrical performances, movies, TV shows, and more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Would you take a college course on love and relationships?What if I told you that the best way to learn about relationships is to look at art? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Would you take a college course on love and relationships?Interesting. People like me who have wonderful families which have already taught us (implicitly and/or explicitly) about relationships will be bored af. It’s laughable and sadly expected that some people need such education. I’d like to point out that the career courses I had to take were all about self-exploration. Ironically, the course took away time for me to truly delve into self-exploration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Would you take a college course on love and relationships?Non-penalty, but mandatory, Or Non-penalty and mandatory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 06:40 AM |
| 12 | Do you guys think you could last dating for a man if you were given 5 years?I’d just not try to date. That’s what I’m doing right now. If I stumble upon someone cool, great! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 04:48 AM |
| 0 | Would you take a college course on love and relationships?I WOULD BE SO FUCKING ANNOYED. I’M HERE TO STUDY MATH AND PHYSICS. In high school, I had to take these STUPID courses: -Career Education 9 -Planning 10 -Capstone 10 -Career Life Exploration 11 -Capstone 11 -Career Life Connections and Capstone 12 These courses eat away kids’ time to actually be kids and explore hobbies and career opportunities on their own without penalty of failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Men: What is your age, how much money do you make and how does it affect your dating life?I’ll add that friendship pays a daily dividend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Men: What is your age, how much money do you make and how does it affect your dating life?Money is such a beautiful word I know, I know It soars in my mind like a beautiful bird I know, I know Better than that It makes me feel like an aristocrat That’s where it’s at Money is such a beautiful word Quite so, quite so, quite so Money is such a wonderful thing Ah yes, ah yes I find that I use it for everything No less, no less Money is power If it were food, it’s a dish I’d devour Every hour Money is such a beautiful word Oh yes, oh yes, oh yes Money's my passion, always in fashion Stash… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?Yes, kids shouldn’t be isolated. My best memories are those I’ve spent with my parents who’ve taken me on all sorts of fishing and foraging adventures. We were always playing and adventuring. A kid is good for getting adults to rediscover the magic of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?-Babysitters -Art club folks (+ kids from Chernobyl who stayed with an art club member) -Swim club -Sailing club -Piano lessons -Children’s creative -Musical theatre/kick boxing combo. -Musical theatre -Lots of activities with friends -Grandparents -School -Blah, blah, blah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?Well, it sounds like we both had similar experiences except my mom was a stay-at-home mom, I only went to daycare once, and I couldn’t see my dad’s workplace until I was older because it was a pulp mill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?Interesting area of study. If my personality/thought-process changed drastically, I would hope my family would kill me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Dating strategies : making the first moveWhat’s the first move? I would have to be friends with a guy before I consider dating him. After all, a significant other is the ultimate best friend. A lot of my friends are guys. I’m just a friendly person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?Then they weren’t soulmates. They were partners for some time though. My mom was once married to her abusive ex. They weren’t soulmates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?I really don’t know what you’re bitching about. Soulmates don’t divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?I guess, if the guy got all the money, he could buy a bunch of toys such as yachts as well as retire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?Well. They saved up the money together. They were both retired. Do you think only the guy should get the money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?I’ll add that is of my belief that soulmates don’t cheat on one another. That’s just wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?Well, the people in my family are raised with Depression Era values. My dad was able to retire when I was in grade 8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?I disagree. My mom and dad are happily married and reap the financial benefits of being married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?My mom was a stay-at-home mom. My parents, paternal grandparents, and I are all best friends. My mom was president of the art club at our town, so she’d take me with her. What an enriching experience. I also had teenage twin babysitters. Day care sucked. My mom took me there once and that was enough for me. I told her I didn’t like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?My dad made more money when he married my mom who became a homemaker and then stay-at-home mom for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 09:36 PM |
| 5 | Is this a safe strategy for a man to have a family with a woman these days?Just adopt or get a surrogate. It doesn’t seem like you’re after a happily ever after soulmate anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to be obnoxious than anxious?A relationship should be a person’s greatest friendship of all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to be obnoxious than anxious?Shy, anxious guys are endearing and sometimes mysterious with a quietness that holds power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to be obnoxious than anxious?The anxious one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to be obnoxious than anxious?Anyway, it seems like you’ve come across a lot of retarded women who cling to obnoxious men and obnoxious men who attract retarded women. May obnoxious men and retarded women be happy together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to be obnoxious than anxious?“When a person is confident but cool and pleasant to be around, both men and women enjoy being around him/her.” Sure. “When a man is loud and annoying and/or obnoxious, males will disregard/avoid him, idk if they can differentiate bween confidence or arrogance, but theres no point/benefit in being around such males. If its a woman and shes hot, then they will still communicate with her I must admit 😂 If a woman is anxious and annoying it will be the same as shes hot. That wont be the case if she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to be obnoxious than anxious?Anxiety, to a degree, can be a strength. I’m not going to take your word that society, particularly women, favour assholes over anxious folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to be obnoxious than anxious?It’s better to be anxious. I think it’s thrilling to feel excited and anxious before a musical theatre performance. Anxiety keeps us in check so we can walk our talk. Someone who experiences anxiousness can still be confident and assertive. Furthermore, an anxious person can still be blunt and tell it like it is. Obnoxious people are annoying. I don’t like assholes. I like straight shooters, but not jerks. Arrogance can crumble so easily too. There’s a difference between being an asshole and cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is it okay to make relationship material men wait for sex?Oh. I’m an introverted STEM student who has never been to a party so my mind is stuck in fairytale land. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | "Work on yourself bro" is actually bad advice for young dudesDo what you want to do. Personally, I want to sacrifice my youth so I can retire young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 07:24 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Is it okay to make relationship material men wait for sex?Weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 07:22 AM |
| 2 | I really just want to know how many guys have been able to pull this off. Over 1650 likes and all my messages look like this. I know dating apps are trash, I just wanna know if this approach actually works for you guys?By the way, it’s safest to meet someone you met online at a public place during the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 05:18 AM |
| 2 | I really just want to know how many guys have been able to pull this off. Over 1650 likes and all my messages look like this. I know dating apps are trash, I just wanna know if this approach actually works for you guys?Just meet people in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 05:17 AM |
| 2 | "Autism Acceptance" is largely hypocritical virtue signalingIt really leads me to question what people really mean when they say someone is “emotional” or “empathetic”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?In school, there was this “supposedly attractive” guy who was a fricken jerk. He kept picking me to partner up with him. I was so fricken annoyed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?No. I’d call them lazy, negative, Cheeto-stained, blah blah blah guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?No. A lot of ugly men are friendly, positive, fit, charismatic, hard-working individuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?Not all fat people are lazy. Not all Cheeto-stained people are sedentary… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?Who did I call those vile things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Women Overvalue Charisma Aka “spark” in menYes, of course. I’m only speaking on behalf of myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?Excellent point. That reminded me to think of all the quarantines of yesteryears, long before we were born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?A lot of fat, sedentary, lazy, negative, ugly, unhygienic, Cheeto stained people scrolling on their phones for days on end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?A lot of women online are mentally-ill losers too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Women Overvalue Charisma Aka “spark” in menI’ve always felt bad for the good looking people who don’t think they’re good looking, get demoralized, and fall into a pit-fall of becoming fat, lazy, negative,…, and eventually lose their good looks. Oh, and I feel really, really bad for the people who are just plain ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Women Overvalue Charisma Aka “spark” in menIt’s incredibly attractive when a quiet guy of few words speaks up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Women Overvalue Charisma Aka “spark” in menI myself have never had a boyfriend. I’m also a virgin. We’re university students. I can’t speak for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Women Overvalue Charisma Aka “spark” in menThat’s okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Women Overvalue Charisma Aka “spark” in menInteresting. Like my dad, my school report cards are filled with comments that say “I encourage you to break out of your shell”. I would always star in the school musicals (lead female role), yet I’d get comments like that on my report card. I’m quiet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Women Overvalue Charisma Aka “spark” in menYou’re correct if you assume I wouldn’t date someone who I perceive to be unattractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Women Overvalue Charisma Aka “spark” in menLol. I’m friends with a lot of unattractive, shy guys who have a kind of endearing charisma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?First paragraph: Yes. I’d add that it doesn’t hurt to wear a seatbelt when driving a car (you touch on this in your next paragraph too). Paragraph 2: I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?I suppose some people wouldn’t think it would be worth it to be polite to minimize danger (based on statistics). I’m a cautious person though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 09:25 PM |
| -1 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?Danger can be minimized. Public places, easy outs, being polite,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?And then the online world makes them more mentally ill and more loser-like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Evolutionary PsychologyDig deeper in your questioning. Why do you think a lot of women you talk to are offended by the concept? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?I’ll add that I’d assume the online world attracts mentally ill losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 08:30 PM |
| 9 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?I’ve never been to an actual party. I’ve never been clubbing. Maybe I’ll try it sometime. I think I have an odd personality. I’ll star in musical theatre productions, but I’m a quiet person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 08:17 PM |
| 8 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?I’m a 20 year old woman and I haven’t been approached by a guy. I usually just study, swim, fish/forage, and work on creative projects in my own time. There aren’t many opportunities for a guy to meet me other than at school or at the pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Women Overvalue Charisma Aka “spark” in menShy guys can have a kind of endearing charisma | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 08:06 PM |
| 9 | Has the average attractiveness of the men who approach (in real life) gone up?In our online world, people generally meet up less than they would have years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | As a male I always feel like my job is to woo the person. Curious how women see it.Love is complex. What can I say? I can only speak for myself. Some people are scared of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | How much do you think your relationship with your father has affected your dating life?100%. I have a WONDERFUL father. I will never look for a relationship as I go through life. If I stumble upon love, then that’s great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Women’s “types” when it comes to looks is almost entirely trend driven and they don’t even realize itI think there are a lot of attractive guys in old movies made long before I was born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:50 AM |
| 2 | "Autism Acceptance" is largely hypocritical virtue signalingPerhaps autism is normal in some scenario | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:35 AM |
| 5 | "Autism Acceptance" is largely hypocritical virtue signalingSome of the most “emotionless” people are really the most emotional (ie. a stoic, introspective person). At least that is my opinion. My dad and I can “get each other” without saying a word and just fiddling with each other’s hand in some random made-up pattern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Should a man with a low sex drive pursue relationships with women?Go through life not expecting love. If you stumble upon love, then that’s great. If all you want are biological children, maybe you should just get a surrogate. I don’t care for sex. I’m a female virgin in university (STEM). My parents married when they were ages 38 and 39. I was born a year later. My mom, dad, and I are all best friends with similar interests. We love to fish, forage, and garden together. When my parents are old, I’ll make sure to take them fishing (it’s a big part of our and m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:07 AM |
| 2 | What solutions are there for older virgin men?The solution is to live life not expecting to find love. If a person stumbles upon love, then that’s great. I’m a 20 year old female virgin who isn’t religious. I think virginity (before marriage) says something positive about a person. I don’t care about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Okay so I get that virtues are virtues and don’t have a gender but if they were to what are more feminine ones since redpill only tells us masculine onesWell, it looks like all women should adopt “masculine traits”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 09:58 AM |
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