UpstairsAnalysis Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	recommended spots in south beach? Clevelander or the entire boardwalk. The area by muscle beach has a lot of action. Regularly see girls recording themselves for social media out there. Gonna need your wallet for those types though.	/r/seduction	29/05/24 04:46 PM
3	You guys need to understand that there is no magical place to meet single women. Walk in a bar alone and watch a sports game. Grab a beer and some food. Be social but not overbearing. It works best if you can go to the same bar once or twice a week without becoming an alcoholic. Basically become a regular. Try to find a bar that local wait staff frequent and you can easily pull hot waiters. Even better if you can find a bar near a breastaurant or something.	/r/seduction	01/04/24 07:35 PM
50	Does the calibre of women that you attract show what level of attractiveness you are? I felt the same when I was younger since a lot of unattractive girls would initiate. They will always be more bold. Key indicator is if you are also getting attention from cute girls or if they are receptive to your approach. Online doesn't mean anything.	/r/seduction	27/01/22 08:09 PM
0	Considering just forgetting about women? The truth is even if you are doing okay with them, or once you get one, they come with problems of their own. If you're going after prime chicks age 20-24 then you will have your hands full with girls who are most likely very image oriented and draining to be around. Especially if clubbing is your primary means of picking up. It's not like you are going to become whole once you find a gf, or bang 3 different girls in one week. Just get better for the sake of being better. Life is much more fulfi…	/r/seduction	15/01/22 04:38 PM
6	Girls look at me when I'm in a bar This guy fucks	/r/seduction	14/01/22 05:40 PM
0	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid Unless you're in small town America, women are very open minded as far as dating is concerned. They will get with a variety of men that they are attracted to regardless of his race. Sure those things exist but it's so insignificant that it's hardly a factor. It's not faux equality, we are not in 1950 anymore. You don't have to look too hard to find women who are into and even (wrongly) fetishize us. Every weekend I go out and see all types of interracial flirting going on. Your mindset is the on…	/r/seduction	11/01/22 07:56 PM
1	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid Both of you are never getting laid anytime soon with your mindsets. It's just funny that each of you blame race, as if someone else has it easier...yet you are both here arguing on an internet forum about not getting laid. Both white guys and black guys get laid. Both have very positive attributes as far as "SMV"....basically equal among girls with no preference. You guys seem like you don't even try. Join a sports league, socialize for a couple of seasons, and you're guaranteed to get laid. If …	/r/seduction	10/01/22 05:52 PM
6	Once I'm actually talking to a girl at a bar or party, what do I actually talk about? Think you and others in this thread got the game kinda messed up man. Your approach in these situations should be 100% situational, in the midst of having fun, or immediately finding something to kinda give her shit about in a playful way. These bar/party girls are not going to be intrigued by yet another guy acting like he's interested in her to get laid. A girl once flat out told me she did not come to the club to talk about her tattoos. When I am drunk I usually just can make eye contact and …	/r/seduction	29/12/21 06:26 PM
1	I go to a small school but every hot girl goes for the hockey or lacrosse players I mean if it's college your chances are even better bro. Have you taken time to work on yourself? Gotten a part time job? Joined clubs? Take about 6 months to improve yourself and you'll have something stronger than most of the lax boyz. College is a time where there are a lot of open minded hot girls who stray away from wanting a jock. Take advantage of this and don't squander your time comparing yourself to guys who have status. I made that mistake and it kinda sucks to look back on.	/r/seduction	27/10/21 04:03 PM
21	[deleted by user] The answer will always be the same...just stop wasting your mental energy on it. All of that flirting stuff means nothing bro. Even if it happened in person it would be negligible. I've been there before and it sucks when you like them, but you will just give yourself a headache/heartache depending on how much you care lol Put her on the backburner and start looking for girls that show higher interest. Keep an open line of communication but don't go out of your way to earn her affection. Just st…	/r/seduction	19/07/21 04:41 PM
5	Going out solo this weekend. Any tips for being successful in hooking up with girls when out solo to bars/dance clubs? This is exclusively in your head. Just simply move on and look for other girls or make your way to another part of the dance floor while still having a good time. Last week I got rejected by two girls back to back ,went to another part of the dancefloor then next thing you know some hottie in a tight white dress is grinding all over me. Nobody cares dude. If anyone sees then they won't care, you're not the only guy out there getting rejected lol	/r/seduction	15/07/21 05:19 PM
2	Does meditation make you act less anxious Yes, mainly due to less outcome dependence. However as someone who's been meditating for a year or so I can't stress the importance of going into it without expectations. After a few months I was pissed that I still got nervous or screwed up around girls but its a lot bigger than that. It helps in terms of acceptance. You will have to apprach girls and simple use meditation as an accessory to your life. You will still get nervous, still strike out etc but will probably dwell on it a lot less. Th…	/r/askTRP	08/05/20 01:19 PM