UpstairsPass5051 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Confidence for the Single RPW I think men like when a girl has confidence in her appearance, but not in her agency. Men want responsibility and to be heroic, and if women can just do everything themselves then there’s no heroism	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/23 02:37 AM
1	Attempting reconciliation while keeping traditional gender roles What behaviors? Many women don’t submit today in large part because men suck. It depends on why	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/23 10:51 PM
–	I need help to make my bias go away I know exactly what you mean. The world is increasingly characterized by this cynicism and vanity.. no one sees the big picture. I am by no means a feminist, but I think feminism is more of a symptom than a cause. I think it all boils down to a disintegration of trust between the sexes and men becoming less respectable, less masculine.. So their feelings are somewhat justified but it’s like putting a bandaid on a festering wound. What we really need to do is focus on building strong families and…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/23 03:23 AM
4	Attempting reconciliation while keeping traditional gender roles It’s natural to stop submitting if you have reason to believe he isn’t able to lead or if he’s done something to wrong you, which sounds like is the case here. Also remember when you’re submitting he’s supposed to be serving you as well, such as protection and provision	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/23 02:57 AM
29	Why does submitting make me love him more ? Women naturally submit when they have respect for a man. If you’re willing to submit it’s because you love, trust and respect him Can I ask how old you are by the way?	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/23 02:37 AM
1	Staying feminine during adversity I’m a guy but it’s a natural response if there are no men to rely on. I think women need to just tell men to act more like men, if we even still know what that means.. Part of me wants to say men have failed women, but women for decades have also said they don’t need men and want this responsibility. There’s a lot at play but I think that’s part of why men are giving up. I think basically trust between the sexes has disintegrated and women just lost respect for men as they stopped being men. The…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/11/23 02:09 PM
1	Finding courage as a modern man Yeah it's interesting. Mass media still seem to be pushing for strong women, but I've personally noticed a rapid shift from women in concern for men and especially boys. So I try to just ignore the media and recognize that women at least seem to care. I am increasingly convinced the issue is decreasing testosterone levels and porn, since chronic masturbation decreases the effects of testosterone on the brain. If we focus on quitting porn and increasing testosterone and women will respect us agai…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/03/23 02:13 AM
1	"men aren't men anymore" This does nothing to help men. From the time they're born, males are slightly more autistic. They are less interested in people. They are less interested in and capable of inferring a person's mental state from their facial expressions or body language, and similarly less interested in expressing their own mental state for others. So clearly connecting with people the way women do is, for most men, of no use or interest to them. So it'd be great if you'd stop insisting men be more like women. It…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/03/23 11:16 PM
1	"men aren't men anymore" Men disagree.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/02/23 04:46 AM
15	Feminism's privilege to rewrite reality I agree with a lot but especially about the lack of accountability. What most bothers me is how they always have to be right, and use personal or strawman attacks when you try to make a point. In my experience, which is almost exclusively online, they can never be at fault for anything or take any argument seriously	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/02/23 02:53 AM
1	I think that positive masculinity is just traditional masculinity without of the negatives of traditional masculinity, how it really isn't realistic for most men, and how some on the left use this to push bootstraps narrative for men Not being able to show emotions and enjoy life is some of the horrible shit that has burdens us in traditional masculinity. Not sure where to begin.. I think people should always feel free to be themselves, but it is a fact that showing emotions is not a masculine trait. I know you're going to say it's a social construct, so if you really think so then why are men more autistic? Do you really think they're socialized to not be able to read body language, facial expressions, and social cues? If y…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/02/23 12:52 AM
7	Male inequality, explained by an expert \| Richard Reeves, BigThink I like how at the end he says men need purpose in life. I think understanding this and other differences both between and among the sexes is the first step. We have to know what we’re working with Also interesting to note how much more suddenly people are concerned about men than they were women in the past, which is something I attribute to men simply complaining less than women. Everyday people haven’t known men, specifically lower class men, have been seriously struggling because they don’t c…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/01/23 09:36 PM
2	What does crying actually do for men? You think you're helping by insisting they be more emotional, but really what you're doing is trying to feminize men or destroy masculinity. Men are less emotional than women for natural reasons - that is a fact. Men not being emotional is not a social construct, it's not toxic. It's biology and is plain as day from the day we're born. So when men tell you we don't WANT to talk about our feelings, we mean it and have good reason for it. Maybe some men do, and that's fine. For me personally it's …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/01/23 05:33 AM
3	Understanding men: The importance of work Wow. Even as a more conservative guy, I agreed with a lot of this and thought it well said One issue I see in society is people just don't seem to understand men. Meaning why men behave the way they do and what their motivation are. This is something I've felt for a long time, that everything has become gradually more feminized. In recent years I have noticed more of an attempt to recognize men's plight, but only in the form of an insistence that men deal with it in the way women typically would…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/01/23 04:42 AM