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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I'm Unable To Talk To Girls In Nightclubs; Willing To Pay For Help Maybe bars or nightclubs are not the best places to start. No one's there to have a meaningful conversation. Try a communal space like a park, café or library.	/r/seduction	26/01/20 11:01 PM
2	How do you prevent girls from ghosting you? This seems unhealthy that you're pinning results of an otherwise lackluster interaction (failed date or anticipation of a date) as a source of attention or validation. People need to be better individuals I agree, but I feel you need to get to the point where you're comfortable if stuff doesn't happen the way you want it, and it shouldn't affect your need for validation significantly. It's not easy, but you should acknowledge it's a work in progress (for anyone, and for everyone). It's not like …	/r/seduction	15/01/20 07:46 AM
2	How do you prevent girls from ghosting you? I understand the dating struggles, heck, I took it upon myself to grit my teeth during rejection (as a challenge to myself and to put myself in a man's shoes) and learn that it's ok if people don't want my time. I have had failures, but also successes. I learn from the former, celebrate the latter. When someone says no, or don't give me a reply, that doesn't mean they're bad people, they just don't want to, and I should be ok with that. I've ghosted, and also been ghosted. I don't take it person…	/r/seduction	15/01/20 02:50 AM
4	How do you prevent girls from ghosting you? You can't control what other people do at this point, you can only manage your expectations and move on. Not everyone is nice or pulls through meetup plans, you need to realize that. I doubt anyone here can give you a foolproof plan to prevent people from ghosting you. Not being rude or anything, just telling you the truth (been online dating for ~2 years on and off). Tbh, the best dates I've been on are those people I've (26F) approached in person.	/r/seduction	13/01/20 02:29 PM
2	How do you prevent girls from ghosting you? If their ghosting behaviour bothers you, then be glad that you know this now, and upfront. She wasn't interested anyway, so it's a telltale sign that even if you do indeed go on a date, she'll be disinterested. Rule #1 of online dating, people can lie and people can ghost, so you have to lower your expectations. Finding a great person or potential partner is like finding a needle in a haystack. Rule #2, as much as what they do is shitty, you aren't entitled to a date. Ever. Even if you talk for …	/r/seduction	13/01/20 07:44 AM

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