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OYS#6 Stats: 6', 232lb, 22% bf, Lifts: BP255x5,OHP115x8, Age47, Wife40, Together 20 years, 5 kids Reading- TWOTSM How long until you are an attractive man with options?- 32 to 50 weeks CUT: Losing bodyfat is my first goal in becoming the man I want to be. On 9 month (1/19-10/20) Cut: 251lbs/31% bf -> 195lb/8%bf My hip injury is fucking with me. Doc forbade squats, deadlifts, running, bike, muay thai, bjj, etc. for another week. I'm still doing bench and overheads and arm accessories. Paused diet…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 05:52 PM
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Fuck. That insight is amazing.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/22 11:18 PM
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I used to always be trying to manipulate my wife into fucking me. I'd shell out big cash for an expensive date, listen attentively to all her problems... pretend I liked her stupid cat. Every word was calculated to not pick a fight, every touch was designed to make her feel a certain way, slightly sensual, but not so aggressive that I'd scare her away. Every blue moon, I'd get laid. The other 4 out of 5 dates, I'd angrily clench my jaw as I cried myself to sleep wondering how could do a better j…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/22 07:12 PM
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I guess this is ultimately what I want. But I want it in the context of being with a girl who knows I'm her best option and would do anything to keep from fucking that up. I know I'm not there yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/22 11:54 PM
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It's about how you think about it in your mind. If you feel a lot of emotions like resentment and butthurt when it comes to sex, then it's probably your ego that's trying to fuck her. Your ego is what is needy. Your id just wants to grind his cock on her ass because it feels good and because that ass looks round and fuckable. Your id doesn't seethe inside when someone tells it "No", it just looks for the next opportunity to rub its cock on something pretty. A good way to think about things is ju…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/22 09:29 PM
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I'm flirty and feeling it. But the kids are around, especially on weeknights. I'm swimming in kids... 2 to 17. My house is laid out like shit. The bathroom is down the hall from our room, and the family room shares a wall with our bedroom. Half the time we fuck at least two kids come knocking to cry about being hurt, asking for treats, OTP codes from mom's email, or maybe just attention. The older kids are completely aware that we are fucking as eventually the bed starts hammering against the wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/22 10:43 PM
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OYS#5 Stats: 6', 230lb, 22% bf, Lifts: BP255x5, DL275x5, OHP115x8, Age47, Wife40, Together 20 years, 5 kids Reading- WISNIFG, MMSLP, Day Bang How long until you are an attractive man with options?- 33 to 51 weeks CUT: Fat loss is my prime directive. On 9 month (1/19-10/20) Cut: 251lbs/31% bf -> 195lb/8%bf I took a hard fall and injured my hip enough to keep myself mostly off my feet and out of the gym for a few days. I decided to up my calories by 500 to help with the recovery. I went backwards …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/22 04:31 PM
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This is a great idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/22 11:07 PM
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I'm making more strides than I have in 20 years, but I have a long way to go. I've realized that most of the things I've been passionate about over the years: Religion, Technology, and Politics are retarded, boring, and the opposite of being a fun interesting person. When I was religious, I fucking taught Sunday school, and was so fucking intense and boring that they asked me to be the assistant pastor. So far, I've been trying to throw myself into as much active things as I can fit into my sche…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 12:46 AM
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OYS#4 - Dropping pounds Stats: 6', 228lb, 22% bf, Lifts: BP255x5, DL270x5, OHP115x8, Age47, Wife40, Together 20 years, 5 kids Reading- WISNIFG, MMSLP, Day Bang How long until you are an attractive man with options?- 34 to 52 weeks ​ CUT: Fat loss is my prime directive. On 9 month (1/19-10/20) Cut: 251lbs/31% bf -> 195lb/8%bf Strict Calorie/Macro/Logging- 1911cal, 242g-Protein, 130g-Carb(min. 29g-Fiber), 47g-Fat). ~6.5 hrs/wk working out(incl 5 hrs weightlifting). Starting to slow and feel rundow…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 09:40 PM
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Thank you! Great post. This explains a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 11:35 PM
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Noted. At first my whole plan to improve was a covert contract, but that just makes me angry because it is something I have no power over. I'm a little confused about Dread Levels. One of the starter posts said to put them in your OYS. It took me quite a while to find them, and they aren't anywhere on the sidebar. Most of the posts I came across while searching were just mocking them as stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 04:52 PM
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OYS#3- Fork Putdowns Stats: 6', 232lb, 23% bf, Lifts: SQ215x5, BP255x4, DL270x5, OHP115x8, Age47, Wife40, Together 20 years, 5 kids Reading- WISNIFG, MMSLP, Day Bang How long until you are an attractive man with options?- 35 to 53 weeks ​ CUT: Losing fat is my number 1 priority . On 9 month (1/19-10/20) Cut: 251lbs/31% bf -> 195lb/8%bf Strict Calorie/Macro/Logging- 1933cal, 247g-Protein, 130g-Carb(min. 29g-Fiber), 47g-Fat). ~10.5 hrs/wk working out(incl 7 hrs weightlifting). I stalled this week.…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 12:44 PM
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Thanks. I got a copy and will start reading today.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/22 05:38 PM
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At least half of it was for you guys, but it seems like you'll spot my fuckups either way, going forward I'll only repeat what I do need to remind myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/22 05:20 PM
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I've been researching on how to best STFU, and I found this... https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/cwgn5sb/?context=3 ​ Should you withdraw your attention if your wife is behaving in a way that doesn't deserve your attention? Of course. What you should not do is clumsily bring your attention level from 100 to 0. ...And this is why I typically advise against newly unplugged guys doing exactly this. A "hard no" will come across as changing the rul…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 09:37 PM
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STFU This will be my new way of life. I printed out the fogging exercise from WISNIFG, and I'll be practicing it most of the day. I need to use it when it counts.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 08:48 PM
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think about how people who know you can see thru that kind of BS. I never talk myself up IRL, but I'm sure if I tried to act cocky, it would come out just as badly. Did you really get laid 7 times this week and last week? If so, what's your major issue in the relationship? Yes. Sex isn't the problem. I command zero respect in the relationship. I have no agency, and have failed so badly at enforcing boundaries, that my wife is all set to leave if I even bring up things that I'm not comfortable wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 07:50 PM
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How about you fix this week. Go to the grocery store and speak to a women... Noted. I will do something about it this week. I'm all for irrational confidence, but false, ego driven, bravado is disgusting. The truth is that I am a fat, pessimistic, socially disconnected plowhorse, that has allowed myself get completely beaten down over the last 20 years. It's actually hard for me to say anything good about myself, or come up with any reasons to feel confident. But despite how lowly I feel, there …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 05:32 PM
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OYS#2 - Slowly Consuming My Bodyfat Stats: 6', 234lb, 25% bf, 1RM: SQ245, BP275, DL315, OHP175, Age47, Wife40, Together 20 years, 5 kids Questions: Read- NMMNG, TRM, Gorilla Mindset Reading- WISNIFG, MMSLP. Test- 3 weeks into TRT Weekly Sex Initiations- 9, Rejections- 2 Other women I could chill with?- None Last girl you flirted with who isn't your wife- Can't Remember Days over the past 15 you have actively gamed your wife- 13 Two things you do that make you a good catch- A genius-tier IQ. A ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 12:47 PM
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That's him, biolayne is his youtube, i think.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 10:39 PM
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Yes
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 10:12 PM
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Fucking Noted.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 08:50 PM
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don't punish your wife with increased sexual stamina It's worse than that, because I'm usually pounding pretty hard for a while, but I run out of breath before I can nut, and then I have to slow down and catch my air before I can go hard again. If I had more (cardio) stamina, I could get things wrapped up in 20 or 30 minutes, and maybe have enough left in the tank to go again. The good thing is that she's some sort of masochist when it comes to being crushed.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 08:48 PM
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I've done a ton of unsuccessful dieting in my life, and I really recommend biolayne's book "Fat Loss Forever" Simple things like calibrating the amount of fiber and protein can make a huge difference in how hungry you feel. I feel like I am eating more protein than any human should, but am never hungry. Also, he goes into the science of metabolic adaptation and just how severely any binging fucks you over. When your body is in a state of scarcity, a few thousand extra calories can set you back w…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 08:25 PM
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Thanks for the feedback, I appreciate it. I've been trying to do as much research as I can in order to be the most effective, but sometimes I run into conflicting information, and I don't fully understand the science. My understanding is that cardio doesn't cause a net increase in calories burned as your body slows and limits NEAT (movements, twitching, tapping, etc.) to compensate. But there does seem to be two effects in play for cardio. The first and most important is that there is a minimum …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 07:04 PM
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OYS#1 Stats: 6', 236.3lb, 25.4% bf, 1x(SQ245, BP275, DL315, OHP175), Age47, Wife40, Together 20 years, 5 kids Questions: Read- NMMNG, TRM Reading- Gorilla Mindset, WISNIFG. Test- Started TRT Weekly Sex Initiations- 11, Rejections- 4 Other women I could chill with?- None Last girl you flirted with who isn't your wife- Can't Remember Days over the past 15 you have actively gamed your wife- 14 Two things you do that make you a good catch- Great in bed, Good at business What you would do today if yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 12:37 PM
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