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6

So you improved yourself and refused to be relegated to be the accessory of someone of the opposite sex?
/r/askTRP24/07/14 01:08 AM
1

I don't have any better advice than has been given, but I just wanted to say I'm very sorry you're in such a horrible situation. It has to be extremely burdensome having such an abusive person trying to tear you down all the time. I know after you work your way out of this you're going to have a fantastic life. Someone who would try so hard to make a marriage work, despite it being with such a monster, is sure to come across someone just as awesome and caring and devoted. You're going to be so h…
/r/MensRights22/07/14 10:57 PM
6

Nxet?
/r/askTRP21/07/14 10:43 PM
2

Well then wtf did you say probably for?
/r/askTRP12/07/14 06:49 AM
5

Probably? Definitely.
/r/askTRP12/07/14 02:49 AM
6

Fortunately we have no shared assets That's what you think. That business of yours? Yeah, half. She is 3 months pregnant with my child, but I'm not going to let her use that as leverage to boss me around. Welcome to 18+ years of her using that child as leverage with the state's backing.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 12:37 AM
2

Another thing is this type of thing would not happen to a Muslim covered women If you had watched the video, you would've seen that they also tried having "her" dress as a Muslim and still received the treatment.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 02:05 PM
1

No, he didn't. He shouldn't have to play counselor regardless. WTF are you even doing on this sub aside from trolling?
/r/askTRP03/07/14 08:31 AM
1

Exactly. He's her boyfriend, nothing is his job. If anything is anyone's job, it's her job not to bring her personal shit into someone else's life and make it an issue they have to deal with. Welcome to adulthood.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 07:49 AM
1

You are supposed to offer her emotional support when its necessary. He's known her 8 weeks and she's laying her life's problems on him. It's weird an inappropriate, and the fact that she thinks it's just a-ok to do speaks volumes.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 07:06 AM
1

Condoms aren't made of kryptonite, and there are things you can catch just from skin contact where the condom isn't covering. Aside from that, sex workers are crazy (that includes strippers). Is orgasming really worth fucking your entire life?
/r/askTRP29/06/14 09:08 PM
2

Condoms make a terrible hors d'oeurves.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 11:29 PM
2

Just tell him the guy was texting you and you felt weird about it. Ask him if he can look at the texts and handle it however he sees fit. Tell him you don't want to cause drama, you just want him to be aware because it made you feel weird.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 01:08 AM
0

See, now I know you know jack squat about mormon society. Their women are kind and submissive? The only time they "submit" to men is in religious matters. When it comes to mormon culture, it is very subservient to women. It's basically "happy wife, happy home" mentality. And to make the wife happy? Give her what she wants. It permeates the entire culture. This is why I'm saying all this "rah rah mormonism!" bullshit doesn't belong in this sub. Yes, women can't get the priesthood. Whoopity doo, t…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 12:42 AM
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Try being non-mormon in mormon majority areas. Or try having a mormon family and leaving the church. Ask /r/exmormon what they think about it. It's pretty sad.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 06:30 AM
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Mormonism creates the biggest betas I know. This is nothing short of the church leadership wanting to keep control of the membership. This has nothing to do with RP, and if you look at how they indoctrinate men, you'd be ashamed for praising them here.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 06:28 AM
3

It's a mix between thinking it will get them women and to make them be liked, and fearing having to assert themselves and put in effort or risk in life. They really want to believe the bluepill narrative, because all of a sudden that means all they have to do in life is talk about feels and they'll get a super model and a million dollars. The fact that there are a lot of demands for men that must be met if a man is to be successful is a burden, so rather than accept reality and face that burden,…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 03:51 AM
3

I usually have a hard time banging a girl I just met. Why? Well: 1: If I barely know her, and she's down with having sex a short period after knowing her, then she's been down with having sex a short period after knowing a lot of guys before me. Can you say STDs? Gross. Instant hard-on assassin. 2: I don't want to hold a grudge, but honestly, on average, the average woman is not someone who I want to give pleasure. The thought of feeding a shallow person's selfish ego is again, hard-on assassin.…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 07:28 AM
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Who cares how SRS interprets anything?
/r/MensRights09/06/14 08:16 AM
1

I'm probably older than you and more experienced with woman. Yes, I have ended a LTR. No, I won't spell out reasons that only serve to hurt the other person. This isn't that hard man, I don't get what you're not understanding.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 12:56 AM
1

Why do you think he needs to give her a reason? Just break up with her. Engaging in all this discussion about feels and reasons is BP and only serves to try to hurt her. Why someone RP would want that is beyond me.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 12:43 AM
0

Well, if he has nothing to gain by saying it, and it only stands to offend her, why should he say it to her?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 09:04 PM
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Yeah he should totally tell her that. Good call. It will gain him so much.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 07:45 PM
1

I think we should see other people Might as well say "You aren't good enough for me."
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:24 PM
1

they're advice is always shitty, always This is your answer.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:23 PM
52

Do be afraid of the public and the state siding with them 90% of the time This is the ironic part. The "progressive" court systems, and public, side with women so frequently because they see them as weak and inferior and constant victims. Whereas if they viewed them as equally accountable for their actions, they would not default to assuming women are victims. All this championing of women is based on assuming they're inferior.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:20 PM
7

This. Why the hell would you care what she thinks anyway? It's just going to be some mental gymnastics that make her some victim and you some asshole. Who cares how she rationalizes that she is perfection and the world is wrong? Who has time for that?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 08:34 PM
15

It's like the common observation people make. If your significant other is constantly worried that you're cheating, they're probably cheating.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 08:31 PM
-1

Agree with her and mock her for starting such a dumb line of conversation "Of course not, that would make the sweet baby jesus cry."
/r/askTRP01/06/14 08:21 PM
1

I'm just saying, if someone gets carried away and goes raw, it's still a good idea to pull out. It's not like it doesn't help.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 12:13 AM
1

Pulling out is NOT protection. It's not great protection, but it's much better than nothing.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 10:26 PM
10

True, but a small win is still a win!
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 02:54 PM
3

Hey hey hey! None of that. That's what got this thing started in the first place!
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 02:53 PM
5

It's amazing how many comments are trying to help her find a way to deny him his child or avoid having to pay child support. "I think someone else has mentioned that if you're able to adopt out to him, then you're more likely off the hook for child support. As in, he agrees to fully adopt the child, not just that OP has signed away her parental rights. From what I can tell, it seems like that arrangement can get you out of child support payments, but OP will still need some legal help in making …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 02:48 PM
1

The purpose is to try to turn horror and sorrow about 6 people being murdered into guilt somehow directed towards women.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 08:24 AM
1

A few months after 4 years is a rebound.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 08:15 AM
1

It's fascinating how all the statements of "man, I sure am glad I didn't grow up on the internet, I could never live the shit I did in my youth down!" back in the day are coming true.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 01:21 AM
2

That's some hamstering right there.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 09:58 PM
1

hanging out and getting drunk and watching movies but that sounds lame to say out loud or type It sounds lame because it is. Having a drink or two to relax and break the ice is fine, but getting drunk is super lame. Especially when it is one-on-one, and not a party atmosphere. She has seen you acting all crazy, and now she wants to see you laid back and confident. Just stick to having a good time. Try to act like you're with one of your buddies, but you're trying to be a little more mature (IE d…
/r/askTRP30/05/14 05:54 AM
1

demote her to plate status Really? Someone cheats on you, and you'd still be willing to give them pleasure and put yourself in a position to contract whatever bar-skank STDs she's picking up from fucking guys the night she meets them? Fuck that. Hard next and never talk to that back stabbing self centered drama queen again. A little pussy isn't worth getting herpes, and she certainly doesn't deserve the pleasure and attention. Let her have her drunken booze hound fucks, that's all she deserves.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 05:47 AM
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a 4 is just as difficult as an 8 Probably worse. A 4 is going to spend a lot of time trying to boost her ego and prove how lucky you are to be with her, while an 8 won't crave as much validation.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:03 PM
2

my frame doesn't feel necessary Forget this shit. Frame is necessary always and for all time. Anytime you don't maintain it, you're fucking up.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 02:17 AM
3

BECAUSE WE'RE ALL ONE CONSCIOUSNESS
/r/askTRP29/05/14 02:15 AM
1

There is nothing to say that will make you feel alright, because it isn't alright. It is wrong that he passed. It is wrong that he is no longer there. Your life will go on, and it will eventually be good. That doesn't mean you will ever feel ok about his passing, just simply that you will eventually be able to accept that the world is not fair, and that if one of us die, we want our loved ones to continue to live. That's what he would want you to do. There's nothing wrong with that. In the meant…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 07:05 AM
1

Know that more often than not, the things you are taught are to help mold you to serve others, not yourself. It is convenient for society to have you develop a certain way, it is irrelevant to them if it's in your best interest (and it actually is not). Work hard to develop your own character, set of ideals, and indepence. Question everything (even everything said here), and figure life out. Don't just accept a road map someone else hands you.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 06:59 AM
7

I wouldn't say I have oneities but... Yes, you are precisely describing oneitis. An abundance mentality means you know sex is available frequently and effortlessly, you don't have to spend money just to get someone to date you, and you are worthy of affection because you're awesome. If you feel like you can only get these things from her, then you are most certainly not RP. This has little to do with her, and more to do with you. Work on yourself, and next her because she's a drama queen, and yo…
/r/askTRP28/05/14 06:56 AM
5

I agree. For the most part, don't give into their baiting, but every once in a while, they'll do something that is just so outlandish, anything less than scolding would make you beta. Sometimes, some women want boundaries enforced with assertiveness, and will push them just to make you reinforce that you are the dominant one in the relationship.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 06:53 AM
5

Throw down? The guy's so little he would've had to throw up. I would pay good money to see you hold him back at arms length with your hand on his forehead, and him swinging into open air in front of you. Ah would've been sweet.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 08:12 PM
3

She has no control of her feelings. You can talk to her, and possibly get her to agree to keep up the original plan, but in reality she has made it plainly clear what's happening, agreements be damned. If you continue, she will become more attached, and more of a liability for fall out when it comes to a head. Being RP means accepting things, and the nature of people, and in this case, women. You have two choices. Make a clean break now, or continue and have it possibly get messy. Whether you're…
/r/askTRP27/05/14 07:57 AM
1

She doesn't deserve an explanation. Cut all contact and never tell her why. That would be the worst for her, and best for you. Anything else will soften the blow. Yes, that includes you blowing up and telling her she's a whore. That will just make it easier for her to blame you. She will want something, anything, to latch on to to make someone else to blame. Any interaction from you from this point on will help enable that. Cut and remove her from your life.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 07:30 AM
1

I think it's about embracing nature and working within reality. Trying to overcome the natural reaction of your women is BP in my opinion, because it's ignoring reality and trying to get a reaction out of them that's contrary to their nature. Doesn't sound like a red pill has been swallowed at all. In fact, defining some set of rules out at the start sounds very logical, which is a very male thing to do. If there is anything that RP subscribes to, is that women hold their promises as long as it …
/r/askTRP27/05/14 07:27 AM
2

I wouldn't be in this situation because I'm not a BP sap, hence my original post. I wouldn't put myself in this situation, because this is the outcome. Always. You're laying some girl. Great. The way you're doing it is going to lead her to this. Wonderful. Thanks for sharing. You've discovered human female nature. What do you want from us?
/r/askTRP27/05/14 06:37 AM
1

Tell her no and cut her off. If other people want to keep her in their lives, that's their problem. If anyone brings her up to you, tell them to STFU, you broke up with her and you don't have to listen to any more shit.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 06:25 AM
1

I'm actually looking to build a relationship with her You haven't even had a date with her, let alone gotten her in the sack and seen what she has to offer. Why the fuck are you thinking in these terms? You need to have an abudance mentality. If you don't, then you aren't RP, and it's pointless to be asking for advice here.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 06:23 AM
1

Look, if you want to embrace RP, good, go for it. This shit is not. So I don't quite get why you're posting here. Go to /r/relationships and they'll tell you everything you want to hear. This is not the place for it. You're so BP it's sick. You're a creep. Stop being a creep, and stop fucking telling us about it.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 06:20 AM
3

If this is how you feel, WTF are you asking TRP for? If you have a monogamous sexual relationship with a woman, she is bound to develop oneitis. It's guaranteed. What do you want us to tell you?
/r/askTRP27/05/14 06:02 AM
2

Socialize a lot. You might do it a little, make some ok friends, then stop because you're comfortable. Don't do that. Make at least one new friend a week that you go hang out with or do something. Make sure lots of these friends are women. If you wind up sleeping with some of them, great, but don't talk to them just to try to date. You need to first learn how to be comfortable and socialize a fuck ton. Make a point to try having a conversation with a new stranger every day. You're going to suck …
/r/askTRP27/05/14 01:55 AM
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So my question is am I going to feel like this everytime I sleep with a woman I just met? You tell me dude, you know your psyche and opinion a hell of a lot better than random strangers. Pesonally, I don't hook up with women I just meet. I think it's kind of gross. I'm liberal when it comes to sex, but jesus christ, she must expose herself to a lot of disease, and she must have some sexual issues to be into doing that. If you didn't enjoy having casual sex with some easy woman you just met, don'…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 05:36 PM
1

Having a vagina doesn't give a person carte blanche to assault others. Help her learn this by reporting her to the proper authorities. Make sure to use the witnesses who saw her attack. You won't have to worry about seeing her daily when you have a restraining order put on her. Make that happen. Fuck that violent thug.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 05:18 AM
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Ignore it. Essentially it is coming down to them demanding you explain yourself. A man explains his actions to no one. I would answer "Wow, you women sure do over analyze normal interactions between people. You should talk about this. With other women. Because they care. I am a man. Just FYI."
/r/askTRP20/05/14 08:09 AM
5

Womens words carry no weight because their promises are as fleeting as their emotional states. If there is one thing that needs to be understood when dealing with women, it's this. It doesn't matter what you've done, what your track record is, or how rationale your line of reasoning. If anything changes her emotional state, all else goes out the window.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 05:17 AM
2

College girl is fucking other dudes. OP said she has a boyfriend. It's funny how he's eating up her "innocent" act. OP is as redpill as it takes for him to get laid. That's it. And to me, that's pretty beta. Redpill is not caring if you get laid or not, not patting yourself on the back for manipulating some dumb college girls.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 11:44 PM
9

Statistically speaking, 5 of those dudes had herpes.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 11:31 PM
1

That would change the median, not the average.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 04:27 AM
1

If the average number of sex partners between men and women is not equal, that is only possible because of homosexuality.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 10:15 PM
0

men have less sexual partners by the age of 25 than women Women start puberty earlier than men, and tend to start having sex earlier. Even if they had sex at the same rate, if you pick an arbitrary age, women will tend to have more partners. So what. I'm not saying whether or not your point is valid, I'm just saying, don't include a bunch of bullshit that has nothing to do with it.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 10:14 PM
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Disgusting. It never ceases to amaze me when bigotry continuously rears it's ugly head, and people say "But this time it's different, it's a different group from last time!"
/r/MensRights10/05/14 01:09 AM
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Upvoting doesn't mean "I like this", dumbass. It means it adds to the conversation. Learn what the buttons are supposed to be for before you bitch about people using them exactly as they're meant to be used.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 05:32 PM
0

No! He said gravy! Pay attention.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 06:14 PM
14

It's all fine and dandy if they want to always consider themselves victims. It's no skin off my teeth. The problem is when society supports this stance. Get in an argument with your girlfriend? Go to jail for yelling. She attacks you? Go to jail again. Woman grabs you at a bar and you tell her not to touch you (happened to me two days ago), bouncers roll up to throw you out for causing an altercation. It is r.i.d.i.c.u.l.o.u.s.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 05:57 PM
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And they're all skinny and stuff too. Gross. You can tell where their face ends and neck begins. Disgusting.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 02:10 AM
1

I'd probably go along with it sarcastically and be like "Oh gee you're right. You're so fucking hot. /s What was I thinking? You should be talking to some other dude who can properly praise it." Then play it by ear from there. If she's super obnoxious, I'd go find someone else to talk to immediately after. If not, I might try to help her pick out a good beta to kiss her ass. "Hey I bet that guy could totally praise your beauty! What about that one? I bet you could get a free drink out of that!" …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 05:59 PM
1

Unless her arm is 14 inches or greater...
/r/MensRights07/05/14 04:10 AM
-1

Assault occurs when a person has a reasonable fear of bodily harm. In all likelihood, this arrest was unfair. However, according to the description, where the man arrested was yelling and screaming in a more and more aggressive manner in his girlfriends face, it's possible she reasonably feared bodily harm. Him being a man, or big, should have nothing to do with the decision. The fact that it was pointed out in the arrest report implies the arrest was improper. But my point is that there can be …
/r/MensRights07/05/14 04:08 AM
3

Kool-aid with double sugar.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 02:58 PM
1

K guy, thanks for telling me you've declared yourself winner of your one sided imaginary interwebs argument. I tip my fedora to you sir.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 03:30 AM
1

Sorry that you're not funny and don't understand the electromagnetic spectrum.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 06:10 PM
1

Infrared isn't visible.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 05:11 PM
1

The joke is that infrared is more red than red. If that's true, it's because it has a longer wavelength. So what's redder than that? Something with an even longer wavelength. Like RF. Try to keep up with your own joke guy.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 02:52 PM
1

Infrared is visible now? And I would think infrared heats more than most RF frequencies.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 12:40 AM
1

Fuck if you're going to claim infrared know your spectrum boy.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 12:43 AM
1

Well I was RF before my dad started jerking it, so there.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:12 PM
2

I would never wife a woman, period, so I guess it's a moot point for me personally. But all those things you put in quotes, I didn't say, so I don't quite understand what you think your convincing me of. To be honest, I've had higher levels of dedication from women who have had a few partners because they more understand how lucky they are. Whereas the ones without many think "wow! If this is so good, I bet there's lots of comparable dudes out there!" No honey, there's not.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:31 PM
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Wow it must be really easy to make points when you completely make shit up. Sorry you're worried about your dick size dude. We just aren't going to see eye to eye. I don't quite understand why my security bothers you so much, but ok.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:19 PM
1

Yep, surprisingly I spend very little time thinking of other dudes dicks. Beyond that, there's an upper limit on what the average woman finds comfortable and can enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:04 PM
1

Actually, you can send an email and have the "from" address read as whatever you want. The originating IP will be wrong, but who the hell knows what the right one is? Google "change SMTP mail from address". Point being, he wouldn't even need old lady's password for the email to appear to come from her.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:55 AM
2

A mother like that makes the red pill easy to swallow, doesn't it?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:28 AM
2

I grabbed her wrists and forced her hands to her side and said 'you are not allowed to hit me'. This can get you arrested. It isn't fair, but it's true.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:22 AM
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Your choice didn't permit justice, but it was pragmatic. It was the right choice.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:17 AM
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As the son of a selfish woman: No, she would have been as horrible to your children as she was go you. Good riddance.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 06:48 AM
1

Wow man, you must have a lot more time than me. I have zero energy to teach a grown adult how to person. I'm fine with defining boundaries, but molding a woman? Please, let some beta sap put forth the effort to make them better.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 07:23 AM
1

Don't care. All I care about is whether she's clean or has kids.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:51 AM
2

So this was the question that answered... Hmm makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:48 AM
0

Virgins won't have emotional baggage. Wondering what other dick might be like is way more baggage than having had a few others. Marrying a virgin is a recipe for either marrying someone with no libido, or someone who's going to think "what if" all the time and be seriously curious about what they missed out on.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:47 AM
0

That's like feeling good because you're the best "cook" because your wife has only had oatmeal her whole life. I mean, sure, maybe, to her, but it's kind of an empty victory if you ask me.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:42 AM
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If she fucks up, show her how it's done right. WTF am I her mentor? A parent?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:39 AM
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every time I bring it up How often do you bring it up? Jesus Christ, just accept that that's the number she's going with. If you're going to assume 3x higher, fine, but why are you bringing it up a bunch?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:37 AM
2

I love how every subreddit has someone demanding everyone talk about what they want to talk about.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 11:40 PM
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It's good that DNA tests rule out individuals with a typical 99% accuracy, because then they'll only need about 100 before getting a positive hit. Sure the guy probably won't be the attacker, but the police will look good!
/r/MensRights15/04/14 07:12 AM
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As a 22 year old busty woman, I have to agree. It's almost like some people mention it to keep their privilege or get special treatment. Upvote if you agree guyz! Tee-hee.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 03:51 PM
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It takes more effort to be a man in the dating world, but I would much prefer have the power to command my own destiny, than simply putting on make-up and sitting back and waiting to see who shows up. Sure, the second option is easier, but it certainly leaves the decisions in someone else's hands.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 03:41 PM
1

The fact is that correlation does not imply causation. I don't see what's so hard about this. I think all you "alpha" guys who can't handle the idea of a woman enjoying her sexuality are beta as all hell. What's the matter guy, afraid you may not be a special unique flower in her book? Why do you even think of such things if you're so alpha and give so little fuck. It's inconsistent. As long as she isn't bringing disease or drama, what do you even care?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 07:43 PM
0

Because correlation equals causation.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 11:10 AM
1

Because fuzzy voting. Learn what that is then never waste our time commenting on imaginary downvotes again.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 11:02 AM
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