TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Ur_X Archive

View 9 posts and 493 comments by Ur_X on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Okay, how do you suggest one goes about stop caring about that
/r/seduction25/07/26 11:55 PM
1

If you got 1000 times to practice youll eventually hit a shot
/r/seduction24/07/26 04:07 AM
11

“You arent trying as much as you think” amen brother, its all input and output. The more you put in the more youll get.
/r/seduction23/07/26 05:14 PM
-1

Thats the problem, putting too much of your self worth on whether a girl likes you or not, a recipe for disaster
/r/seduction05/07/26 09:38 PM
0

Confidence, self esteem, purpose… you could start reading some books about it and hitting the gym
/r/seduction05/07/26 01:55 PM
4

You may need some inner game work to do
/r/seduction03/07/26 04:43 AM
5

Right now it might hurt but the important thing is not to take it personal, just now i was at a bar - i approached a group of three girls and ask for one of their names, she says Tracy and then just stare.. i asked if she would like to know mine and she goes “nah im ok” even her friend said “damnnn” and i just laughed it off and said have a good night
/r/seduction03/07/26 04:23 AM
1

Love it, yes, you can feel the intention
/r/seduction15/06/26 02:37 PM
1

How grandiose of you
/r/seduction15/06/26 07:18 AM
10

What are you doing here then?
/r/seduction15/06/26 05:56 AM
2

Ok this is actually prime for debate. Im with you, agree that texting should be only used to set up a date and im also annoyed at girl that text to chit chat and asking what im doing. However, it feels like “yo you down for drinks this week” text that comes out of nowhere its not usually reciprocated. How do you feel about building rapport? Or am I overthinking this sh
/r/seduction15/06/26 04:21 AM
2

No and thats precisely the main chink in my armor, great at the first impression but horrible at the follow through because i overthink it. But im challenging myself to just text the first thing that comes to mind. At the end of the day whatever i put into it is what im gonna get out, so im restarting the comms with a few dead numbers i had and get some momentum, fucking a by the end of summer ill get a 3 girl rotation
/r/TheRedPill06/06/26 03:26 PM
2

My man i was just thinking about re reading your stuff so its a sign to get your reply. I think thats my main challenge, feeding the top funnel, i get lazy with texting and they end up taking my inconsistency by lack of interest. I know its my fault i dont currently have a rotation and i know what i gotta do, just have to do it
/r/TheRedPill03/06/26 10:06 PM
2

Yeah i know, my main obstacle i think its texting. I know only should be for logistics but even with that im inconsistent so have to push myself. But damn im lazy with it and overthink what to say so end up not doing it all together
/r/TheRedPill26/05/26 06:17 PM
20

Advice? Half people agreeing and other half are blaming women 🤣
/r/seduction25/05/26 08:28 PM
3

I have a pretty complete life, just missing a rotation, how do i push myself to go get it?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/26 12:09 PM
41

One time i heard a pimp say “fuck with the girls that fuck with you, not with girls you wanna fuck with”
/r/seduction02/05/26 04:09 PM
2

Jumped like 4 years in one day
/r/seduction27/04/26 07:01 PM
5

You seem green here, women do not judge men the same way we judge them. Sure looks are an easy way in but its personality, status and money what makes a man stand out
/r/seduction16/04/26 04:24 PM
2

Ive been finding myself in the unavailable part of the scale and the amount of girls that think im not interested is plentiful, gotta find a balance
/r/seduction15/04/26 02:39 PM
7

Easy, girls are the gatekeepers of sex men are the gatekeepers of reltionship. Both of those things may, can, and at times are at odds with each other
/r/seduction10/04/26 02:13 PM
1

Tf does this even mean
/r/seduction21/03/26 05:53 PM
-2

Youre much more likely to find a remolded nice guy
/r/seduction19/03/26 01:50 AM
41

The less you care the more she’ll be intrigued (if she is attracted to you)
/r/seduction14/03/26 06:11 PM
1

So basically, cant get the biscuit if you dont risk it
/r/seduction14/02/26 05:54 PM
1

If youre not getting the date after getting the numher is because youre not hooking them properly. This “post-match” makes it more important than it is in your head so youre overthinking it. Heres the trick, call back humor. Text about something that you two laughed about or talked about.
/r/seduction13/02/26 02:00 AM
1

I agree 100% but struggle in communicating it. The only tool in my box is not answering texts quickly because im busy with my life but that also tends to make them feel neglected
/r/seduction12/02/26 11:09 AM
1

I know no one here, do you?
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:01 PM
1

Ha well welcome to the gray area of sex, whats hot for some its objectifying to others. I love it, use me for your pleasure? Nothing hotter.
/r/seduction28/01/26 04:25 AM
1

Im gonna diagnose oneitis
/r/seduction28/01/26 12:28 AM
3

Look, for a threesome with two girls who are lesbian, you gotta know your role.. and youre not more than just a dildo at that point. Thats not a bad thing but trying to lead this one will end up how it did. If i were you i wouldve let them fuck and then just do whatever they wanted with me
/r/seduction25/01/26 04:22 PM
5

No, but society makes weak men that settle
/r/TheRedPill18/01/26 06:38 PM
7

Im holding onto the golden era of RP material from the likes of Vaz, HumanSockPuppet, Archwinger, GLO, Pook.. the stuff they wrote was eye opening and made me understand sexual dynamics. But it dont have to be them just more authors like them. I wish for more stuff on plate management in a digital world, for an expansion of the “text only for logistics” maxim that tbh has shot me in the foot more often than not, just more stuff on getting a rotation going, more debate about indirect vs direct ga…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/26 01:04 PM
1

Why is this the only comment you replied to lil bro?
/r/seduction11/01/26 03:14 PM
5

Well thats why indirect works. She thinks you like her but you talking about anything else but her will instill some doubt, hence tension. The other side is also true, approach directly and tell her why you did with no subtext, youve created tension and she has to decide on the spot how she feels about you
/r/seduction10/01/26 05:50 PM
17

I use AI for work as a tool assistant, at the end of the day ChatGPT is a LLM (language learning model) so it sticks to certain patterns. One blatant one is the one i mentioned called contrast strcture “its not this its that”. And the other is the formatting, big bold title and then smaller bold subtitles is also very much how GPT structures its responses
/r/seduction10/01/26 02:14 PM
2

Totally right! Being direct with your intentions and with what you want is also part of the game. However id say it requires a certain type of personality to do that, and also lots of confidence. Its all about calibration, gotta know when to use which and with what type of girl. Some girls respond way more to indirect than direct, and vice versa.
/r/seduction10/01/26 02:10 PM
144

Oh my lord can people write without the use of AI now a days? “Its not about x, its about y” already used three times in the first couple paragraphs. I stopped reading but theres something here, the concept that attraction is built on tension is very much true, thats why women lose interest if you tell them you like them from the start, no tension, no mystery
/r/seduction10/01/26 01:25 PM
3

I get a few of these while im out walking, should I immediately break the ice with a quick hi? Many times i wanna chat a girl that smiled at me but doesnt feel like the right time in the street (not a bar etc)
/r/seduction07/01/26 01:07 PM
2

Yes i mean plans. Women like a man with a plan not wishy washy. If you want to invite her out for drinks id either find a spot you wanna go to and ask “have you been to xyz” shell say yes or no and you can use that as an invite “been thinking about checking it out, wanna come with”
/r/seduction15/12/25 03:49 PM
10

You tell her you’re going to do xyz and ask if shes down to join, shell say yes or no or ghost. Easy man dont over think it
/r/seduction15/12/25 03:39 PM
1

Its theory vs practice, inner vs outer game, direct vs indirect.. look into them and youll get a foundation
/r/seduction30/11/25 12:57 PM
1

Situational sits under indirect. There isnt a third option when approaching a girl you want. You either tell her why you approached or you use your environment or any other reason to do so (indirect)
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:26 PM
4

Indirect vs direct, a debate as old as PUA
/r/seduction22/11/25 09:19 PM
15

My dude didnt even mask that it was AI slop
/r/seduction16/11/25 06:22 PM
2

Yeah man… with you
/r/seduction11/11/25 05:17 AM
12

Im with you id rather go direct and not waste time but gotta understand that for woman the pregame to sex starts with a conversation, and in those comfort building instances you gotta flirt, touch her, so she knows you’re not building comfort towards friendship. Seduction is not a black or white, it’s an art not a science. Gotta calibrate
/r/seduction09/11/25 02:53 PM
45

Many reasons, coming across as creepy, being mee tood, etc. But indirect vs direct exist because they meet different functions, when you say “you’re so hot I want to take you home” only a girl that’s very very attracted to you will respond positively to that, indirect works because you get to build comfort first
/r/seduction09/11/25 02:30 PM
3

A ping of their story is good but no problem with cold dming a opener that gets her curious like “hey quick question..”
/r/seduction08/11/25 02:09 AM
1

There could be a million reasons why they take long to answer and none of them should be taken personally. Like others have pointed out the key here is abundance mentality
/r/seduction05/11/25 11:41 PM
1

I realized most of my dating was happening on dating apps during 2017-2020, during quarantine it’s when I decided that as soon as we were done with the pandemic I was going to start meeting girls IRL. It’s been a process but I can now say I’m able to get contacts from cold approach and a small amount of dates but is something and it’s growing and now I’m thinking about going back to dating apps just to supplement IRL game
/r/seduction03/11/25 02:42 PM
1

Hahahhaha this is exactly who I am, I’m inviting them to meet my family down in Brazil
/r/seduction02/11/25 04:17 PM
-1

Can’t imagine what it must be like to be a virgin in your 20s in such a sexually charged society. My advice is to not get discouraged keep trying and if you are just fed up take a break from dating, forget about getting laid for a month and see what happens
/r/seduction02/11/25 02:56 PM
4

The duality of man
/r/seduction01/11/25 10:14 PM
1

Yeah I can see you got some room to grow. I don’t think it’s loser behavior because I have 5 other girls that are showing interest so I can send a ping every so often to see if she bites, believe me every so often they do and if they don’t who cares?
/r/seduction27/10/25 06:31 PM
1

Of course context, I wouldn’t send 10 texts but there’s something on being persistent without being needy
/r/seduction26/10/25 05:13 PM
5

Depends. If the girl is into the guy then the dude that doesn’t answer. If the girl is semi interested then persistency is key but make sure you time those 10 messages a over the course of months
/r/seduction25/10/25 07:57 PM
3

It really is a numbers game
/r/seduction20/10/25 12:00 AM
23

I can’t stand people — abusing — this — damn — grammar dash it makes you look full ai slop
/r/seduction19/10/25 11:55 AM
2

Brother this is great for a bar but for a club the interview doesn’t play that well, lots of non verbal cues
/r/seduction19/10/25 04:07 AM
12

It’s called abundance mentality and what we all should strive for
/r/seduction17/10/25 04:50 PM
1

Yes, next question
/r/seduction17/10/25 02:36 AM
1

Amen
/r/seduction15/10/25 09:33 PM
3

Swingers is a must
/r/seduction14/10/25 08:52 PM
18

Truly crazy how important being fit is to get glances
/r/seduction10/10/25 08:43 PM
1

Man my experience is totally different the more disengaged you appear in the first message the better
/r/seduction02/10/25 11:43 AM
2

Sounds like your version of the Jungian archetypes. I stick to the Warrior Magician Lover King ones
/r/seduction28/09/25 03:27 PM
2

Ding ding ding
/r/seduction26/09/25 12:22 PM
5

Lmao if you running away from girls with butterfly tattoos that removes half of the tatted girls population, add an infinity or semi colon to that silly rule and you might as well not date any tattooed girl, great tho more for us
/r/seduction26/09/25 06:20 AM
11

In what world to say that a girl preferring a guy that treats her like a human being is lowering her standards? A rich dude that sees girls as possessions or as divine beings is not the “high standards” you think
/r/seduction26/09/25 06:02 AM
164

Because they don’t pedestalize women the way you do
/r/seduction25/09/25 09:02 PM
1

Been dating 4 months
/r/seduction07/09/25 09:57 PM
1

A week before I told her I wanted to have one with her and I guess she just found one
/r/seduction07/09/25 07:18 PM
8

This girl offered me a threesome and I said I was too tired. I learned that sometimes you just gotta push through
/r/seduction07/09/25 03:41 AM
1

It’s all about the senses. Dim the lights, spark an incense, play some slow music on the background and of course dress for the night you wanna have
/r/seduction07/09/25 03:19 AM
2

And then there’s the other half of that complaint about not being approached
/r/seduction04/09/25 01:18 PM
1

What’s the grocery store approach?
/r/seduction01/09/25 07:25 PM
4

Great advice. Been thinking about muting all of the girls
/r/seduction26/08/25 02:13 PM
10

The amount of chances I’ve missed because of self doubt man…
/r/seduction24/08/25 04:14 AM
2

What open questions you using?
/r/seduction24/08/25 01:53 AM
2

That’s hilarious
/r/seduction20/08/25 02:43 AM
13

And somehow this is the message I needed today
/r/seduction09/08/25 11:01 PM
1

A what? Cute? Pretty? Do you actually compliment?
/r/seduction07/08/25 12:05 PM
2

What do you consider an approach?
/r/seduction19/07/25 04:08 PM
1

I usually say “what’s the best way to get in contact” and they can decide if they want to give you their number or IG
/r/seduction12/07/25 04:14 PM
1

Idk if you’re trolling me but I’d recommend you look into your inner game amigo.
/r/seduction06/07/25 03:06 PM
1

Exactly. Sounds like you were too invested in what they thought of you and what you could get out of the interaction. But player, women have slept with men for way less than what you described, criminals even, have you seen the cult following behind Charles Mason and the now recent Luigi Magione? Truly all you need is to believe YOU are enough, who cares if you haven’t traveled much, that could be such a good point of conversation “whare would you like to go?” “Paris” “nice we’ll have to start p…
/r/seduction06/07/25 12:10 PM
36

Listen up players, the single most important aspect of seduction is not being emotionally invested yourself more than you have to be at the different stages of a relationship
/r/seduction05/07/25 10:25 PM
3

Preach brother. Now wanna share some cold approach tips for those still in the come up? Specially on the streets it seems intrusive
/r/seduction04/07/25 12:45 PM
4

She did all that and still didn’t come home with me in the first date 🥸
/r/seduction30/06/25 11:18 PM
2

That we are all a bunch of horny bastards pretending not to be due to social boundaries we’ve upon on ourselves (mainly due to a few bad apples)
/r/seduction13/06/25 05:40 PM
2

Tbh the “have we met before” line works just as well and I’d even say better in a cold approach in a bar or club, starting to realize it’s about not being serious just have fun
/r/seduction08/06/25 03:40 PM
2

Bahaha anything to make my life easier man at the end of the day texting is just a means to an end, in person it’s a different ball game
/r/seduction08/06/25 07:17 AM
143

Another piece of advice is talk to the FIRST person you see when you arrive. If this is a hostess great, a bartender perfect but even if it’s someone else in line waiting to get it, it’s a great warm up exercise
/r/seduction07/06/25 10:16 PM
4

That’s fair, I think it’s a matter of perception. You probably think it’s slimy because you know it’s not true. To me, it’s a way of figuring out if we are compatible, 80% of the time they answer “no” and that’s when I say “we should change that” response reate goes down to 10% after that and that’s when I know I may have a chance
/r/seduction07/06/25 09:55 PM
11

So I’ve been mastering the art of the first text but what goes after is a shit show. A short message that spikes curiosity like “hey quick question..” or “have we met before?”, has gotten me lots of answers but then I haven’t been able to master the second hook
/r/seduction07/06/25 02:07 PM
12

It’s always been my biggest tension point in game. The girl might be wearing the skimpiest fit yet I have to ignore that’s probably what’s making me attracted and comment on something else
/r/seduction02/06/25 01:28 PM
3

Exactly. It’s why you have so many different paths stemming from it. Purple pill, mgtow, etc
/r/TheRedPill24/05/25 05:41 PM
3

Yes that’s definitely true but I wish I was desire less so I could talk to them like I talk to a friend
/r/seduction11/05/25 01:17 PM
12

And how do I remove this motivation and desire? 80% of the time I’m chatting up a girl because i want something from her
/r/seduction11/05/25 12:13 PM
4

I don’t think you even realize this but precisely the two you chose (Doctor and Lawyer) are top field earners. I wonder why you didn’t choose to say I’m ok with an scientist or a philosopher.. no money so not interesting
/r/seduction07/05/25 07:07 PM
1

You got that Rules of Game PDF?
/r/seduction29/04/25 07:54 PM
3

Then 45+ babes also need company ;)
/r/seduction29/04/25 05:09 PM
5

I’ve been inspired by your post, keep fighting the good fight
/r/seduction29/04/25 01:45 PM
2

This is a good question, why you ask?
/r/seduction07/04/25 02:06 PM
3

Yeah I meant walking on my day to day. On the subway too I see so many girls, sometimes they sit next to me and I have been able to strike a convo at times but it’s so hard to get out of my head. Great insight and so very appreciated. I generally use indirect approach but I want to start being more direct for sure. Definitely trying to adapt the “doesn’t matter if she rejects” mentality it would be much easier that way. Going to check out Day Bang one of the few I haven’t read.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/25 03:39 PM
11

I see plenty of women in the street that I want to meet but for some reason I freeze about it. I don’t know what to say to them or how to break the ice. I come up with excuses like “they don’t want to be bothered” but I feel like I don’t take chances at all. How do I get out of my head? I have the skills to do it in a social setting but never on the street..
/r/TheRedPill04/04/25 01:19 PM
0

I’d ask if I can join or something along the lines
/r/seduction23/03/25 03:05 PM
16

LA is close to Mexico, Miami is close to PR, Cuba, DR, Colombia.. choose your poison
/r/seduction22/02/25 04:08 AM
1

I have
/r/seduction21/02/25 02:20 AM
8

Right to the addiction, been actively corn free for 2 months and never looking back
/r/seduction20/02/25 04:57 PM
10

Even worse when you can’t even get hard with your lovely gf because you’re thinking about other sex you could be having, fucking sucks
/r/seduction20/02/25 04:44 PM
1

Mind sharing what you did to remove this conditioning?
/r/seduction11/02/25 07:05 PM
4

Can’t make a hoe into a house wife Or Don’t marry the best sex you’ve had
/r/seduction27/01/25 09:11 PM
6

Good head at 18? FWB no more
/r/seduction27/01/25 08:40 PM
2

I hear you. I’m on a same situation - I like to balance asking for them but also love a good surprise. Good to know she might be fucking someone in town tho lmao
/r/seduction19/01/25 03:42 PM
2

He meant that must be nice to have a woman attracted to you who’s down to take pictures for him. On that note, do you like it when he asks for pictures or do you send them by your own
/r/seduction19/01/25 03:32 PM
1

Yes I’ve had and I usually do it with someone from another team, never one I interact on a daily basis
/r/seduction07/01/25 03:56 PM
2

Wild girls do that
/r/seduction07/01/25 03:55 PM
3

So early in the relationship I wouldn’t disclose any feelings. Women are so good at reading you that they will KNOW if you really like them. Personally, I only start explicitly disclosing feelings when she starts sharing hers, make her work for that side of you don’t just quack anytime a girl makes you feel good
/r/seduction03/01/25 04:06 PM
4

This is terrible mentality imo. Why not instead be positive that she’ll show up. And if she doesn’t it’s her damn loss
/r/seduction03/01/25 04:08 AM
1

You asked what we like
/r/seduction01/01/25 01:29 AM
0

We need a bot to auto comment on posts like these, I’ve seen like 4 in the last month. And I’ll say the same thing I said before… touch us, we like it
/r/seduction31/12/24 07:33 PM
1

Inner game, you need it. Confidence comes from within not from whatever reaction you get from a broad. You are rejecting yourself before giving them a chance to do it themselves. Need a lot of calibrating and failures before you get there. Fake it til you make it. Godspeed you handsome insecure man
/r/seduction31/12/24 07:15 PM
7

Can’t shoot a hoop if you ain’t shooting
/r/seduction28/12/24 11:48 PM
1

The book is a toolbox. Use what is congruent to your frame. I would never say that because I just don’t want kids but I’m glad you shared the receipt
/r/seduction27/12/24 04:10 PM
10

The Sex God Method by Daniel Rose
/r/seduction27/12/24 02:00 PM
6

Honestly I dont think this is a bad thing as long as you have other options that are giving you the time of day. Always think from an abundance mentality, who cares if the lil babe says no 5 times, you got other options and as you know women change their mind by the minute
/r/seduction27/12/24 01:53 PM
60

Touch us, we like it
/r/seduction26/12/24 08:38 PM
1

While I agree with you. It can be wishful thinking. I know of two friends of mine that have been affected by girls crying “rape” for way less than what you described.
/r/seduction26/12/24 06:50 PM
7

I’m still in the process but lots of books and lots of leaning into the fear. She’s a girl ffs what’s the worse that’s gonna happen, in the metoo era I’ve realized as long as you are respectful when you approach and be able to take a rejection you should be ok. I used to put so much of my self worth into the concept of approaching woman but truly your value comes from within, get to a point where if she tells you to fuck off you can smirk and say, your loss
/r/seduction25/12/24 07:14 AM
18

When did we start complicating shit man I don’t get, I had to go through a full de-conditioning to realize it’s that easy yet I still feel just a tad anxious before the move
/r/seduction25/12/24 06:20 AM
7

It’s really wild but true. The young ones get most of the attention however are too insecure and take it for granted.
/r/seduction24/12/24 03:07 PM
2

I sure wish the girls I go out on dates lay it this hard on me it would sure make it easier. All of your examples refer to things you verbally said, but seduction happens in the nonverbal space too. Try to look at them with puppy eyes, try gracing their shoulder after a joke they said, touch is a big indicator and when a woman breaks that barrier, for a shy dude, it’s everything
/r/seduction22/12/24 03:53 AM
2

Ppl under 30 (even those that are late 20s) will call you old as a joke.. but besides that all good
/r/seduction17/12/24 03:24 AM
1

She just needs a bit of prodding tbh, sounds like she is more comfortable with the idea of finding someone herself and someone that is safe. I’d ask if she’d be down to do it with a friend of hers or prefers a stranger
/r/seduction12/12/24 06:35 PM
1

You know your issue. What if from the other side she was expecting you to be the hard core dude you say you were but all she’s getting is a soft boy. All I’m saying is be congruent with your self. Don’t try too hard to appease her, she’ll notice and resent your for it
/r/seduction10/12/24 03:42 PM
14

For some reason Lawyers love me
/r/seduction09/12/24 07:03 PM
1

Are these the ones? https://youtu.be/C2PpWs4U7ms?si=C4CEDvgTcsj8ABUA
/r/seduction26/11/24 07:47 PM
13

Stop seeing dates like a job interview
/r/seduction21/11/24 03:33 AM
1

Gotta see it like your business. Let’s say you are a new salesman growing your business, you sell charm, in fact you need to sell it to make ends meet. So you HAVE to sell even if one costumer told you to fuck off, you just brush it off and move on to the next one. Eventually someone will buy your charm
/r/seduction14/11/24 06:11 PM
11

Attention is the only real power a man has over a women, they crave it, in fact they need it. So they go to places where they will be able to get it very easily without having to give out much for it.
/r/seduction14/11/24 12:45 PM
3

The numbers game indeed
/r/seduction14/11/24 12:43 PM
2

If it’s over saturated with woman why can’t I get a match…
/r/seduction13/11/24 11:24 AM
1

Into THE bedroom? I guess not counting a bathroom at the bar… A couple hours, met at the nightclub (I had preselection because I was with my hot roommate at the time) and invited her over for drinks after the club closed.
/r/seduction04/11/24 11:56 PM
5

I keep going back to what a mentor once told me - when you were trying to walk you failed over and over again… and you have to approach your dating life the same way. You’re never gonna be a star player from the get go, sure some other ppl got the genetics (and you can help yourself through gym and fashion) but what will help you the most is just keep shooting, calibrating, and you’ll start to gravitate towards the interactions that will lead to your success
/r/seduction23/10/24 06:17 PM
5

How does one stop behaving needy?
/r/seduction17/10/24 02:07 PM
2

Ok fair, what about when you already have some sort of relationship going. You still avoid the heart ones?
/r/seduction26/09/24 03:52 PM
0

You get yourself a Monday girl a Wednesday girl and so on OR get yourself a movie night girl and a night club girl so they will never be in the same environment
/r/seduction25/09/24 02:09 PM
19

The e fuck you expected asking on Reddit 🤣
/r/seduction24/09/24 11:56 PM
7

Find more girls to pay attention to
/r/seduction15/09/24 10:11 PM
7

The obstacle is the way bby
/r/seduction15/09/24 01:49 PM
1

I don’t pity you man. I’m on the same dry spell boat but at least I’m trying and for some reason I can feel the spell coming to a close
/r/seduction14/09/24 05:14 PM
1

Honestly it sucks that you feel this way about being banned from the apps. I think it’s crazy we allow an algorithm decide who we get to date. Fuck that approach 100 more and then some, as a man we have to be able to be shot down but get up every time and stronger
/r/seduction12/09/24 02:46 AM
7

You tried it? Feels kinda cringy in this day and age like at what moment are you taking them home to get a massage
/r/seduction11/09/24 08:37 PM
7

All you need is $$$$
/r/seduction30/08/24 11:30 AM
41

Someone just read “The Courage of being Disliked” huh
/r/TheRedPill13/07/24 04:01 PM
3

Care to share some texting tips?
/r/seduction03/07/24 11:16 PM
9

Hahaha yes the mental gymnastics here were something else
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:21 AM
16

And don’t even get me counting how many that will get him in those countries OP wants to go to
/r/seduction26/06/24 01:43 AM
1

I felt attacked by the full head of hair, mine is slowly vanishing but I know I’ll be a hot bald guy
/r/seduction16/06/24 05:23 PM
3

Based on your logic you mean those men that are community oriented AND are able to provide for their family are the… high value men
/r/seduction16/06/24 04:18 PM
4

Wow you think that low of us
/r/seduction16/06/24 02:49 PM
2

No better course than just shooting your shot and recalibrate
/r/seduction14/06/24 08:23 PM
2

wtf is verbal game 🤣💀
/r/seduction14/06/24 08:04 PM
2

Wow ok what are the ones you recommend play boy?
/r/seduction07/06/24 11:28 PM
2

The Game and Mystery Method are great foundation books. Sure their style is old but a lot of the mind set stands
/r/seduction07/06/24 01:02 PM
1

Im not a photographer I just heard a story once
/r/seduction07/06/24 01:03 AM
9

When I hear husband material I immediately think about someone who shows himself as somone that’s protective and a provider, the safe bet that they want after they jump on all the bad boys
/r/seduction06/06/24 11:14 PM
1

But don’t they hate it when you try to use your position to hook up with them?
/r/seduction06/06/24 10:52 PM
37

Work smarter not harder right here, and this can be achieved by having a strong circle of friends
/r/seduction06/06/24 03:53 AM
1

It’ll pass queen
/r/seduction01/06/24 06:04 AM
0

Yes and no. Yes because of course ghosting is a character flaw. And no because there is such thing as her reaction is a reflection of your poor game
/r/seduction29/05/24 01:10 PM
1

Bro 6 hours is nothing. I only considered being ghosted after 24 hours. I don’t even sometimes text back within 6 hours to a girl I really want because I’m busy living
/r/seduction24/05/24 01:36 AM
1

Thanks for sharing your perspective. Less is more always
/r/seduction21/05/24 12:27 AM
20

Kinda disrespectful for the community for straight girls to be looking in there no?
/r/seduction19/05/24 03:55 AM
4

Funny this gets posted. I asked a girl out for cocktails and she said “I’ll accept the invite if we add a nice dinner to it” I didn’t want to come across as cheap and I do t mind paying the girl a dinner if it means I can seduce her over the meal. So I accept the counteroffer, suggest a place and she goes “ok I’ll let you know if I can tomorrow” I think accepting the dinner date fucked up my chances
/r/seduction08/05/24 03:18 AM
0

So… she paid and now she’s charging you for them? lol that’s honestly on her for not having you order them
/r/seduction24/03/24 09:47 PM
3

It works?
/r/seduction26/02/24 02:40 PM
1

Stupid social anxiety
/r/seduction18/02/24 04:04 PM
7

Abundance mentality achieved
/r/seduction03/02/24 04:04 PM
7

Dress to impress Dress for the job you want
/r/seduction02/01/24 04:02 PM
7

I could read and reread the book of Pook and still learn something new each time
/r/TheRedPill24/11/23 12:10 AM
10

Like OP sugar coated the post
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 12:09 AM
24

It’s an interesting take that I’ve been weirdly thinking about lately. Feel like I’m disconnecting from my current friend group and this might be the reason
/r/TheRedPill16/10/23 03:23 AM
15

Ha 100p this, I tend to be straight up crude with my social circle and if there are girls they tend to laugh at my non sense instead of eye rolling or think of me as a creep
/r/seduction23/05/23 04:52 AM
95

To be completely honest we gotta thank the feminism wave of the 70s where the sexually liberation happened and the pill was commercialized Men back in the day thought this was appalling, the modern men rejoice in the idea that sex doesn’t have to involve commitment.
/r/seduction08/05/23 06:25 PM
7

If he’s touching you he likes you. It’s that simple
/r/seduction18/10/22 03:13 AM
111

Well all I know is that divorce rate is at an all time high and the people getting married have been decreasing since the sexual revolution in the 70s. Monogamy is a broken dream full of lawyers benefitting from “love”
/r/seduction02/10/22 11:43 AM
7

Same as don’t try to attract be attractive
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:42 PM
12

There will not be anything that raises your value more than hanging out with a bunch of girls, preselection does wonders
/r/seduction25/08/22 07:41 PM
6

Pick up artist
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:16 PM
2

I find that frame is something I still need to work on, any material out there on how to work on it?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/22 01:01 AM
2

Nowhere do I see how to do what the post says
/r/TheRedPill02/08/22 03:40 AM
1

I’m gonna go on a limb and say that by “psychiatrist” you are bringing this type of energy to your interactions with girls, which is the one of a friend and someone that listens. (which to educate you a psychiatrist is the person that subscribes pills for mental illness, I’m sure you meant therapist) But I digress, you gave up but an advice I can give is to go for what you want. If it’s a hook up be more sexual and fun instead of “I’m here if you need to talk about anything bestie!”
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:12 PM
1

Excuse me?
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:55 PM
1

This is good advice for people that are already trying to improve themselves and in the field. It a lot of us also need to improve communication skills, no girl is gonna choose if you can’t make them feel comfortable around you
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:09 AM
7

I won’t call her cute necessarily but an action she does or something she says I’ll throw a “that’s cute/sweet”
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:25 AM
3

If you’re not confident on the product you’re selling you’re not gonna feel comfortable when dealing with potential customers, if you know what I mean
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:14 AM
1

You don’t. She will bring it up if she doesn’t welcome your approach.
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:12 AM
1

I’d be down to pick your brain
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:31 AM
2

Eh it’s not about lying. I think the “I have a boyfriend” comment is usually a defense mechanism to get rid of someone. Even if the girl I approach has a boyfriend there’s no need to stop the interaction there, maybe she can become a friend and introduce you to her friends (has happened to me)
/r/seduction15/07/22 02:59 PM
3

If they are married drop em but the boyfriend comment can be disarmed with “I also have many boyfriends!”
/r/seduction15/07/22 02:55 AM
2

The grass isn’t always greener. In those cities your pool of competition is gonna be millionaires and models and musicians, all the most attractive personalities. I personally have had a lot of luck in Latin American countries
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:07 AM
6

Don’t see it as a interview. See it as a way to express your personality. Start by asking how was her day, if she doesn’t give you anything to keep the conversation she is 100% going to ask about yours, take it as an opportunity to make something up, how the homeless man told you to love yourself and that’s probably the deepest thing someone you’ve never met ever told you, get her to giggle. If you make a girl enjoy the conversation rather than a boring “Aw just went to work and then came home” …
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:05 AM
0

Nah don’t put morals on this
/r/TheRedPill29/06/22 04:17 AM
0

Alright I have a question for you on indirect va direct game. Usually whenever I go for direct “you’re cute” all I get is a smile and a “thanks”. How am I supposed to keep the interaction going? I feel is full sperg to go “go out with me” right after that. What’s your follow up?
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:10 AM
2

This is hilarious I’m gonna have to try it out
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:06 AM
2

Hahahahahahhahahahahahahha bet if it was your celebrity crush you wouldn’t mind if they approached you on the street
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:06 AM
1

I wouldn’t suggest trying to go for a coworker. I’m going through the same, the new intern at work and I have been getting closer and I would love to take her out on a date but I know better. There are power dynamics at play. But if you really want it. My advice is to play the long game and wait a bit more to ask her out, I think you should KNOW that she’s gonna say yes instead of risking a No before asking out. You may suggest stuff like “there’s this stand up comedy club I’ve been wanting to c…
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:33 PM
0

Lol I’ve been chasing the OF model in the big city so thanks for pointing it out
/r/TheRedPill05/06/22 01:16 AM
1

It is definitely signs of low self esteems because if I really internalized my value I wouldn’t mind if someone that I ve never seen before rejects me
/r/seduction04/06/22 08:49 PM
51

Might be the ones you’re going after bro bro cuz I have plenty of dates where we just go to a pool or jazz bar
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:16 AM
5

The pulling away is key and when you slowly get closer she does the same. Her being comfortable with your touch is key
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:16 PM
1

Best way to test out if she’s attracted is to ask her out. You’re overthinking it and I know this because you just wrote a whole lotta hamster in here. Next time you see her ask her out, if u need help on that lmk.
/r/seduction22/02/22 08:35 PM
6

Teach us your ways o supreme leader
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:57 PM
3

I like it, you say you like letting them control what to do and that's what i enjoy the most, getting rowdy with the head mouth and hair
/r/seduction29/01/22 03:32 AM
3

ayayayay que rico
/r/seduction29/01/22 03:09 AM
1

Kino man. It’s all about the touching. If a girl touches you even as simple as a tug on the shirt, game on. It is the act of breaking that barrier that puts you in the sexual partner bucket when a lot of the guys out there freeze in the friend world
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:00 PM
1

Google “escalation ladder”
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:26 PM
9

My intentions are usually to get them out on a date. But it feels awkward to say that, too overt. How do you usually carry out the convo?
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:12 PM
1

It’s part of the game. The amount of times I’ve been ghosted is a lot. Even my ex decided to ghost me when she broke up with me, sent me a text and blocked me. Talk about getting your self esteem ruined when someone decided to cut you and block you right after a trip to a Caribbean island
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:14 PM
2

You have to lead the courting. By telling her to let you know when she wants to see you you are putting her in the leading position when she may not even know if she wants to see you again
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:57 PM
3

Definitely a lesson. Hard when the ones that are surrounded by men are the hottest ones. But also the bitchy and dishonest ones that no other girl wants to befriend. I wasn’t able to say anything anyway, she blocked me from everything right after sending her breakup text
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 04:25 PM
7

Sure man i was sharing my experience it’s not black and white
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 05:04 AM
3

Not oblivious to that either. Totally aware that played a role, she’s the type of girl that “only has guy friends” so she was constantly texting with men
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 12:38 AM
1

I’m gonna have to try this. You combine baby powered with cologne?
/r/seduction08/01/22 09:08 PM
1

Chocolate one only
/r/seduction08/01/22 06:47 PM
15

100% - smell plays an incredible role in attraction whether is conscious or not
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:31 PM
5

Calvin Klein eternity
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:29 PM
5

Thanks is perfectly fine but if you want to tease you can try something lighthearted like “thank god I didn’t forget to shower today”
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:28 PM
42

This is right and a painful truth we have to accept as men playing the game and unplugging from a blue pill idealism. Attraction can only be uncovered but at a certain point you’ll start sliding the slope if your game isn’t tight. The hottest women out there have more options than you could ever imagine. And they will not tolerate being with a chump, even worse, suddenly realizing they are dating a chump they thought was alpha at the beginning. Save your weak episodes for your close friends and …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 04:39 PM
48

Yeah, we got into a big argument about the relationship, I brought up some things that had been bothering me and I opened up about some issues I’ve been working on, but I didn’t bring it up in a calm manner, I was visibly upset about it. It was a whole night of feeling puking on my end.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 03:26 PM
167

The minute I broke frame with my ex LTR was the beginning of the end. Her perception of me changed from being a strong and unfazed man to someone weak, took her two weeks to decide it was time to break the relationship, I woke up to a long ass text saying how she can’t help me in my problems and how she needs someone to help on hers, prime example of women are the volatile ones and we are supposed to be the unmovable mountain. The light switch effect and the burden of performance is real.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 01:57 PM
435

Yes. The amount of times that I’ve gotten “u smell so good” comments is higher than you’d think.
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:37 PM
14

I just wanna be able to cold approach whenever I see a girl that interests me. Learn to be okay with rejection. Understand that external validation is bullshit.
/r/seduction07/01/22 07:38 PM
11

Thanks for this. As my end of year ritual I deleted all pictures of her and her number from my phone. She’s probably slutting around while I was still checking the nudes I had of her, no more
/r/TheRedPill01/01/22 07:21 AM
2

Damn homie why you even here
/r/TheRedPill13/09/21 05:06 AM
1

This was the first thought that came to mind. However it also feels like this gives false hopes if you’re not really thinking that it may go to LTR stages
/r/TheRedPill03/09/21 12:31 AM
1

You move on man.
/r/seduction01/09/21 01:33 PM
3

Yup. Didn’t reach out for a full week, told myself I wasn’t going to until she did. She texted me a week after and we ended up meeting up. Patience my fellow men, patience.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/21 11:31 PM
1

Definitely a great PSA. Think the moments I tend to ruminate about women are when I’m bit busy exercising or making sure I improve. Always always keep moving never look back
/r/seduction08/03/21 02:14 PM
42

Yes... now go lift and build abundance so you’re not thinking about losing the hot girl
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:11 PM
10

Don’t arrive with expectations Do take it slow, you may want to duck her in the first thirty minutes but it takes time for them to warm up Good luck, the game is yours to win
/r/seduction07/03/21 09:53 AM
19

Not really. I think we as men miss on so many chances of meeting a girl that would click with us because of fear of rejection. That’s why we gotta practice cold approach
/r/seduction07/03/21 08:48 AM
33

Yeah I think this is what I’m missing on my pictures. A bit of wealth
/r/askTRP06/03/21 05:30 PM
6

Same thing was happening to me in South America, wouldn’t go more than 10 swipes without a match.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 05:29 PM
4

How do you go about mentioning it early in the relationship? Feels like I always wait too long
/r/askTRP04/03/21 03:22 AM
1

Hahaha this happened to me today. I’ve also been wondering how weird it is for them to think doing that is okay but if we ever bring up another girl is an instant nono
/r/askTRP01/03/21 06:25 AM
2

Nah I doubt it she’s hot, I’m sure of the opposite, she usually doesn’t get guys not replying to her in a timely manner.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 05:48 PM
5

I actually had a girl text me and then reach out on bumble asking if I had blocked because I didn’t text her back in over 24h... attention is your most valuable currency. Use it wisely
/r/askTRP28/02/21 05:28 PM
7

Also No
/r/askTRP28/02/21 04:46 PM
1

Yup that’s why it’s an art and not a science. I also watched some of their stuff but ultimately it’s all about discovering what works for your character
/r/seduction28/02/21 03:38 PM
2

Wtf
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 12:07 AM
1

One additional point on IG followers. If she follows more than 5k people when she only has 700 followers, look for how she is constantly comparing her self to others, signals low self esteem
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 09:38 PM
1

The richer you get the less time you may have to actually game so that’s the issue for me. Unless you are one the top percent content creators, they do have a great life. But in the corporate environment the higher you go the more time you need to invest on your career
/r/seduction26/02/21 03:37 PM
1

Ah man I make okay money and have VERY little time to socialize. I’m doing okay for myself but if I was able to have more time to improve my social circle I’d probably have more success with girls.
/r/seduction25/02/21 04:30 PM
3

Yeah also the part of focusing on your social circle last is also debatable. Girls prefer a man that has preselection and has a fun circle of friends. Girls would rather get with the fun one than the rich one. IMO. Unless... they are looking for a provider then everything goes out of the window
/r/seduction25/02/21 03:41 PM
1

What do you suggest then. Ignore or be dry when they reach out
/r/seduction24/02/21 03:36 PM
1

It took me about 61 women to understand what I was doing wrong. So yeah keep failing until you don’t
/r/seduction22/02/21 01:07 AM
1

Would a slideshow be any worse than having a list?
/r/askTRP21/02/21 08:03 PM
3

I lost both of my last relationships because of this. Since then I’ve started to invest in my male friends more than women and my life has changed. Women see you as a stable person because you deal with your shit (but not with her)
/r/seduction20/02/21 08:03 AM
1

I regret ten folds all the times I cried in front of my LTRs. I’m sure their opinion of me after I did changed because shortly after the relationship was over. But I’m owning it and improving as I go
/r/askTRP19/02/21 08:27 PM
3

I usually attract ones that have unresolved father or rape issues. I’ve been told we attract the same issues we dealt with through our childhood trauma.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:16 PM
9

lol take a number
/r/askTRP10/02/21 10:29 PM
1

Isn’t the fact that she was still entertaining attention from someone that was interested in her a form of keeping her options open/branch swing stuff? I don’t think there was insecurity here just a hunch and a bit disrespectful.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 08:46 PM
2

You're right. Glad it got to the point where I just said I couldn't take it anymore. I was way too lenient with her.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:34 AM
1

Oh she's the kind of chick that says wants a LTR but has nooo idea how to be in one. Lived it first hand and then she sabotaged it by invading my privacy.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:29 AM
1

26
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:07 AM
2

Interesting take... First time I hear it to. Mind expanding? Think she knew I wasn't someone for a long term either?
/r/askTRP13/01/21 03:02 AM
2

100% I made so many mistakes in that relationship that I'm still having trouble forgiving myself. I'm glad I'm out of it and will never let a girl disrespect me like that. Would you have walked away? She was a good lay so I should've known best to not get involved and keep her as a plate
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:45 AM
6

Take it slow. Notice when you're at a 7 when it comes to ejaculating and stop. While you go down and/or finger her while you cool off for a bit.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:29 PM
12

It's either fuck yes or no.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 04:19 PM
1

I've seen my response rate drop as soon as they ask "How are you?". How do you answer these to keep the convo going
/r/askTRP09/01/21 05:10 AM
12

What I've learned is that a "nice guy" is someone that is conditionally nice until proven otherwise. There are a lot of examples of the guy asking a woman out and when the woman politely rejects them their real character comes out with "you're ugly anyway" and stuff like that.
/r/seduction08/01/21 03:21 PM
5

I thought simping was only attributed to those that spend their hard earned money on women that have not done anything for them like OnlyFans
/r/seduction08/01/21 03:14 PM
4

Be a man of integrity instead
/r/seduction08/01/21 03:13 PM
4

I've been wanting to try hypnotherapy for the sole reason of becoming more confident and shed approach anxiety. Any tips I can try at home?
/r/seduction08/01/21 01:33 PM
1

Fuck you too
/r/askTRP06/01/21 03:31 PM
4

You sound confused, like you want to have and eat your cake. You say the relationship was on and off (first flag), he was judgemental (second flag), you were not sexually satisfied and went look for that satisfaction somewhere else (third flag). He is trying to blame you for something he is in control of, not you. My advice? Set boundaries and move on.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:17 AM
25

This is the kind of negative visualization we all have to get used to doing
/r/askTRP04/01/21 02:30 PM
0

In NYC I could eat three meals with 10 bucks. Imagine the opportunity cost just to confirm what we all know to be true.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 02:28 PM
1

Oh man you're blue pilled as someone who is in love for the first time. The fact that she asked you to do something that she didn't do is a big red flag.. "rules for thee not for me". You always have to assume a girl has orbiters, that's just how life is. As soon as the relationship starts getting comfortable she will look for a branch swing. I'd recommend the side bar and if anything read at least "The Manipulated Man"
/r/askTRP04/01/21 01:52 PM
3

I'm tempted but 10 bucks just to stalk if your ex is using Tinder seems like a simp move
/r/askTRP04/01/21 01:47 PM
25

Hahah thanks I hate it
/r/seduction02/01/21 01:45 PM
8

Totally, the thing is we weren't dating exclusively at the time we were just starting so this Chris guy had the upper hand being her "best friend" and shit, maybe he realized he was losing to me and invited her on a small weekend trip. I'm almost positive they fucked but since we weren't dating what was I to do besides appear like I didn't care
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:46 PM
4

Lucky you man. My last relationship went on a trip with "her good friend" a dude she knew wanted to sleep with her. There were a couple of nights where I did not hear from her, she of course told me nothing happened but we know better than that right?
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:29 PM
33

and that 10% left probably has at least a couple orbiters that she keeps around just in case. The ones she tells you not to worry about, the ones that she tell you're being jealous. Yeah, fuck you Chris, take her baggage you simp.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 05:01 AM
78

Hypergamy doesn't care. Doesn't matter if you paid her college debt, it gives no fucks. I used to be the kind of man that would do the big gestures and would get upset if she didn't reciprocate (good ol covert contract) but now I'm all about the simplest things
/r/askTRP31/12/20 04:59 AM
0

I call that a having a soccer match on your face. Used to have it, just keep shaving it will grow evenly
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 12:55 AM
1

Pick up skills work well to get the girl. Keeping the girl, now that's a whole other ball game
/r/seduction30/12/20 03:14 PM
1

Thanks man that's great insight. In reality I definitely would like to try again but the thing is she is 3,000 miles away and we wouldn't have broken up I hadnt moved away. She resents me for moving too, I know she still likes me (why would she reach out if not). But it's also dumb to try again with an LDR, so I'm kinda trying to do damage control in a way... Would you suggest straight up telling her I'd like to try again in the future? Or just run because it's an idealistic idea and who knows w…
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:12 PM
89

well sounds a lot like thirsty simps drooling over any woman that has a vagina
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:23 AM
3

Ruthless, Ii don't know why all these stingy words come out when the relationship is coming to a close. My ex told me that she hadn't enjoyed sex with me ever because she kept thinking about my sexual past... fuck off
/r/askTRP29/12/20 12:03 AM
2

ah this is the kind of sense I was looking for. AWALT
/r/askTRP28/12/20 10:35 PM
2

Appreciate it. You read me right, I will take a look at your writing!
/r/askTRP28/12/20 10:31 PM
0

yeah that's the sad thing, I still am thirsty for her, she knows this of course. And like an idiot I answer every time she texts me... I even got the "I miss our friendly friendship" cut my balls thanks man I will just ignore her texts and if it gets heavy ill block.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 09:44 PM
3

You're right. She was the one who offered to cook for me I shouldve rejected. we live and calibrate. We've been kinda talking as friends and wants me to dj a party at her place whenever it's safe so since she's cool I can build social value with her.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 03:36 PM
2

Top 3 head I've gotten unfortunately. Here's the catch, the next time we saw each other, she cooked for me, and I guess I wasn't on my best mood and she said "let's just hang tonight" after we had had sex the previous (first) date. Sigh
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 11:56 AM
13

One time this girl thought was okay to tell me that she had been pig roasted by 4 dudes in college.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 03:32 AM
1

If they are having smex. That's hypocritical of anybody.
/r/seduction24/12/20 01:39 AM
1

You keep grinding
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:11 AM
1

Hell of a lot tougher but also a bit simple minded
/r/askTRP24/12/20 12:52 AM
14

Nothing like a good head man and seeing some of the cum sluts of reddit it really makes you feel like I'm missing out
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:39 PM
1

I would've tried to sneak in a joint shower
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:37 PM
2

Good ol text only for logistics, a lot of men still don't get it that attraction will never be increased through a screen
/r/seduction23/12/20 03:57 AM
2

What the actual fuck? Are you asking if it's okay to be actively dating?
/r/seduction23/12/20 03:43 AM
1

This might be on the side bar, I'm half way done but can you expand on how hypergamy is cruel to a woman?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 03:40 AM
1

Honestly, guys need to be less salty about OLV. She doesn't know you and you're just pixels to her. Until you see her you're face to face you should never get emotionally invested.
/r/seduction23/12/20 01:42 AM
9

Get the braced man. You'll be able to go on many trips with beautiful teeth in the future
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:58 PM
1

Did you framed them yourself? My pad is pretty much all set all I'm missing is some rad art on the walls. Looks like a shrink now
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:44 PM
1

Share for the non FB users too
/r/seduction20/12/20 01:41 PM
3

Lmao
/r/askTRP20/12/20 01:27 PM
80

“Need experience to work, work to get experience”
/r/seduction20/12/20 01:19 PM
13

The Tag The Sponsor website gets real dark
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 04:24 AM
2

Lol I skipped to the middle and she stats talking about how she's not friends with any other girl from the website it's all a competition
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 03:54 AM
1

Nice. What's Mission 2?
/r/seduction20/12/20 03:48 AM
1

I've gotten better results by insinuating a ONS instead of being explicit about it.
/r/seduction20/12/20 12:57 AM
1

Okay. Idk why she rejecting head is a jab to your ego. It's her issue, I love head too I would never be able to be with a girl that doesn't enjoy it. Next
/r/askTRP20/12/20 12:56 AM
3

Good ol covert contracts. Still trying to get rid of that
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:51 AM
46

Women are fun, you just gotta accept their nature. Wish I had found the red pill on my teenage years, it would have saved me a lot of energy and pain. Focus on yourself and they will follow.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 04:48 AM
1

How long does it take you to do one of these?
/r/seduction17/12/20 01:34 AM
1

Burnnn
/r/seduction14/12/20 02:32 PM
1

Game her friends then your target
/r/seduction07/12/20 08:17 PM
17

Lol one time an LTR asked if I would bare her last name if we got married.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:17 PM
2

I fear rejection. It was holds me back from cold approaching.
/r/seduction05/12/20 10:49 PM
3

You’re ofc going to get the “depends on what?” And then what..
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:00 AM
2

How do you go about deflecting?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:00 AM
4

So wait do you just like pop out your phone and go on the voice recorder app and leave it rolling whenever you’re about to get sex? That sounds illegal, recording without consent
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:58 AM
4

What are some of the PUA videos you see? I feel that after the whole RSD thing getting taking down there hasn't been any good ones. Share the light!
/r/TheRedPill02/12/20 12:37 AM
1

The after party is a good move. I’ll try it out
/r/seduction01/12/20 03:51 PM
1

I feel like gay men stare more at me than women.
/r/seduction30/11/20 01:27 PM
2

TikTok influencer, give me a break. It’s like the sex survey trend where they give the guy they just had sex a survey and they read the complete form to their followers. The amount of choice you need to have in order to find 100 dates is baffling too. I maybe have 25 first dates in a year.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 01:20 PM
1

I've heard a lot about it, but theres gotta be better books out there. What makes it Blue Pill tho?
/r/askTRP29/11/20 02:48 PM
1

Yeah I have lots of friends in LTRs, that’s not enough to be BP but I also see how they put their partners on a pedestal. I just make a mental note that maybe in the future they are going to need me if the relationship fails and I will be there to help and that’s when I will whip out... “have you heard about hypergamy? No? You should look it up”
/r/askTRP27/11/20 01:31 PM
1

Nah it’s too much of a philosophy and they wouldn’t think I’m sexist anyway
/r/askTRP27/11/20 01:28 PM
1

That's why you don't aim for the LTR and try to remain pseudo-poly and be honest about it when she wants to be exclusive.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 12:18 AM
2

Why did he delete it
/r/seduction23/11/20 10:48 PM
2

Any suggestions for people who moved to a new town during the pandemic? I’ve been having a hell of a hard time getting to meet people. I’m also non white in a very white town so makes tinges a tad more complicated
/r/seduction20/11/20 04:25 PM
7

Charity is important
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:24 PM
4

How many girl slaves do you have
/r/askTRP19/11/20 10:43 PM
10

This is true. I’m a bit hesitant about TRP being popular knowledge
/r/askTRP19/11/20 06:58 PM
1

Send them my way I get along better with the stoner chicks than the party animals
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:58 AM
7

Grow a beard. That’s what I’m going to have to rely on when I bald out. Got a friend that uses wigs from time to time and girls think it’s funny when he ultimately reveals he’s bald
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:45 AM
20

Yeah man I wouldn’t take it personal. Until they have officially met you you’re just pixels on her screen and just one more guy from the 15 she has waiting. Women have an inherent sense of abundance so flaking on you is fine because tomorrow she could meet someone else. I’m trying to include calling them before setting up the date and after getting their numbers to establish some sort of comfort and rapport. Your voice may be what is needed to lock em
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:01 AM
10

Hmmm I’d like to believe but oof
/r/seduction18/11/20 05:50 AM
2

This is great advice, thank you
/r/seduction17/11/20 05:08 PM
5

I’ve been number two all my life and want to slowly convert into number one. May have lost a potential relationship this weekend for being too eager. Sigh...
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:12 PM
15

I had a few girls there that accepted my invitation on the condition of dinner first, NEXT
/r/askTRP12/11/20 06:09 PM
8

Cold approach
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:05 PM
94

Or OnlyFans subs
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:04 PM
2

Yeah this is where he lost me
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:54 PM
6

It’s a 500 page document so it’s understandable but only the real ones take the time to read it.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:41 PM
3

I'm not sure if your question is whether you disagree with your therapist or if you are being too eager. Inviting them over is fine. You can plan to have sex but don't expect it. In regard to your therapist, I'd switch to a male one
/r/askTRP11/11/20 08:38 AM
5

Art museums or gallery runs but I usually do these ones after I know I enjoy their company and she’s a bit invested because it’s a side of me I know some women would not be interested in
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:32 PM
2

I get the drinkers and the stoners so one or the other. If neither, she isn’t a party girl and would go for coffee or tea date then try to move to your place
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:58 PM
1

Is that a proven fact? Weed makes you horny?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 09:37 AM
3

First post I see that encourages hair loss
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 06:47 AM
-2

Yeah, this. Imagine if she found out about it. She’d be gone the next day
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:34 PM
1

yeah exactly. she was definitely among the hottest ive been able to string out from an online app hence why im asking the question lol. appreciate the input, cant have much expectations that she'll accept a second date. I'm also not a big texter and dont want to orbit around the idea that i want a second date so I'm just going to be straight with her on my first text and see where that takes me.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:29 PM
2

Got it. Just go full dark tried and learn to love it.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:42 PM
1

I get that. How about some existentialist or nihilist reading such as Camu or Satre? Nausea is great. Are you just looking to get by through live accepting that you won’t have probably what’s the two biggest natural desires such as wealth and reproduction?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:08 PM
1

Appreciate the input man I’ll give maybe three days and text
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:05 PM
9

“In your dreams beta boi”
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:05 PM
1

I can totally see her fucking a guy in the first date. And can also see her wanting to take it slow because she likes me and sees me as a potential long term, I don’t want this lol. I want to be the alpha guy she breaks her rules for. But I also gotta take it slower sometimes, sometimes the long game is better and make her wonder why I didn’t go for the kiss.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:02 PM
1

Why do you think that?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:54 PM
1

Ya this is what I was thinking. My follow up q would then be do I text or call her for that 2nd date. A text is always low risk but also low reward. Calling may spark some attraction. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:53 PM
2

Start looking for other shit to do besides what you just stated with girls and money. Life is whatever purpose you give it - are you good at art? Do that. Want to have a great body? Lift. Increase your SMV in other ways, learn game, read about seduction (not only for women but for men too in order to get that job you want)
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:42 PM
13

That’s a way to score a threesome if I ever heard one
/r/askTRP05/11/20 05:27 PM
8

the hardest cash out of all
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:19 PM
1

If you accept constructive feedback, don't focus on the girl you want to seduce. Get her friend to like you and get her wondering why you're not hitting on her.
/r/seduction04/11/20 10:15 PM
1

It’s so fucking hard when Im constantly stress eating due to my stupid job
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:06 PM
3

2020 has definitely toughen me up tired of being a weak man
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:15 AM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:15 AM
3

With 90k a year and living under your parents roof im sure you can afford a decent car (great for bedroom substitute) and if she’s not into it (all girls are into car sex anyway) just get a motel room somewhere
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:12 AM
2

Im going through the anger phase right now and it’s tough to not become black pill with Only Fans and simps fui long that economy. Also feels like everybody is having sex but you because of social media and all the content out there. I’m hella sexually repressed
/r/askTRP31/10/20 01:56 AM
3

Tease her. “Oh yeah looks like you need a wheel”
/r/askTRP24/10/20 01:54 PM
2

The frequencies of life
/r/askTRP20/10/20 11:47 PM
1

One itis. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:21 AM
2

Of course she had to add the anal card. So predictable
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:13 AM
4

I did this. She got so insecure about it that she ended up snooping, needless to say we are not dating anymore. Damn BPDs
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:09 AM
3

Nah dude in NYC people will look at you weird if you try to strike up a convo
/r/askTRP19/10/20 05:41 AM
6

A rep is a rep bro and not all women are gonna like you. Also interrogations are not sexy, you should try to initiate your interactions with a statement
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:44 PM
2

“Thanks for letting me know what’s on your mind”
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:16 PM
4

Burnt out from approaching. That just sounds like you gotta be more selective with the girls that you approach instead of treating it like spray and pray
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:46 PM
4

night or right before sunset.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:52 PM
1

Different spectrums I’m not your gym muscular guy but I can pull. I’m not saying I made it, have long ways to go and I guess benching 135 is one!
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:47 PM
10

Alpha is a mindset bruh it has nothing to do with how much you bench
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:52 AM
1

I think the part that rubs me the wrong way is how easy the thots have it, at a young age I guess, then the wall hits.
/r/MGTOW211/10/20 04:20 PM
1

They will probably end up going into porn
/r/MGTOW211/10/20 04:18 PM
10

Bruh this is the type of chick that would cry rape
/r/askTRP09/10/20 02:20 PM
2

Wait is that real? Women can get an order but men can’t? Or was that sarcasm..
/r/askTRP09/10/20 02:19 PM
2

I have gotten the “you’re too easy” and “too sensitive” from past LTRs. One was a BPD and the other a feminazi and helped me find the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 01:59 PM
2

Bruh I had sex with a girl on the first date and then rejected on the second, after she cooked for me. That was weird. I wonder if I appeared beta the second date by assuming we were going to have sex
/r/askTRP01/10/20 02:45 PM
2

So... this comes at an odd time. I just had a second date that ended at my place with us enjoying a nice joint. I went for the kiss and while she seemed receptive she also was backing away. I could see her getting a bit flustered and saying she had to go. I wonder if she got nervous.
/r/seduction23/09/20 05:49 AM
4

Dude that’s the most idealistic shit I’ve read all day. Attraction is not something you choose
/r/seduction19/09/20 10:42 PM
8

There’s no the one, please
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:26 PM
2

No selfies if you can avoid it. Not every picture needs to be a close up of your face, show fun/cool pictures that they can imagine themselves next to you (I have one inside a beautiful mansion that you can’t really see me that well). You get ONE group shot, preferably with a mixture of female and male friends (because preselection, Google this), your bio doesn’t really matter if you have good pictures
/r/seduction18/09/20 12:35 AM
1

Now that you say this I actually wonder how many people are from America. I’m also not from the US.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 02:08 PM
6

Underrated comment. OP wants the cake and eat it too.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 12:55 AM
7

Be a man has becomes a polarized term however in my opinion. Want me to be stoic or sensitive and vulnerable? Probably a mixture of both... it’s thought to be a man, man.
/r/seduction15/09/20 09:01 PM
2

Rule number something, watch their actions not their words
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:11 AM
31

Or wealth in that sense. All those rich geek developers don’t mind paying 5 bucks just to see a pair of tits and get a dm
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:10 AM
1

Damn you white knighted the hell out of that chick
/r/seduction13/09/20 02:41 AM
15

Because society and potentially some trauma from our childhood has wired to us to place them on pedestals as if they were some prize that you need to have. Just have to remember women are people too, they fart and get morning breath too.
/r/seduction12/09/20 12:37 AM
2

Abundance mentality sir. You may be developing one iris for this woman. Try this, go out with another woman that doesn’t have FOUR excuses to hang out with you. Women are wired to let you down gently, they will never tell you straight up no and hope that you get the hint. Game other girls and remove your attention from this one. You’ll see how her attitudes might change
/r/seduction09/09/20 02:09 PM
1

Unrelated question. Do you feel if you are successful in online date you will be successful in street cold approach? I have semi success online like 1 date a week and 2 if I really wanted.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 02:00 AM
1

Its an epic adventure to your eminent death
/r/seduction13/08/20 01:52 AM
2

Uh, no
/r/seduction13/08/20 01:52 AM
1

What's this thirst trap doing here
/r/seduction10/08/20 01:02 AM
0

I like eating ass, is that a red flag for them?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 07:31 PM
8

Hmmm big big generalisation. But also to anybody having sex at any point please use a raincoat
/r/seduction12/07/20 10:29 PM
14

Meh, over rated. If the girl is keen enough she won't care about the pandemic. There are some that do, so those I'll reach out to after the vaccine
/r/seduction12/07/20 08:42 PM
2

Preach. I've given her enough time and resources.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 09:54 AM
1

God damn of that ain't right. Always the crazy end up on top 10 fux. What kind of creative shit tests was she throwing your way.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 09:43 AM
9

Exactly. I don't even bring it up, I just assume she's being faithful until proven otherwise and when she gets caught that's when the rain falls, for me.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 06:45 PM
58

Ah but this is just going to make her be a lot more sneaky about it. You may find out but since she knows it's a dealbreaker they will be astute about it.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 02:49 PM
6

This is some bullllshit. Her own decisions, her own path. Now she wants it deleted like it didn't happen and people are actually behind it? I'm sure 50% of those sign ups are people that jerked off to her at some point. The hypocrisy and double standard in this world is just... Wow.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 06:34 PM
1

Definitely not. Marcus noted you should try to educate every time you can, if they don't listen that's their fault but at least you tried.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:35 PM
4

I'm a fan of don't worry about the things you can't control. And how there is no reason ever to be angry because everybody else is just clueless.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:36 AM
2

Take acid and youll understand
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:35 AM
1

I'd start with No More My Nice Guy first, it will be easier to accept the The Rational Male ideas after understanding yourself.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:34 AM
5

Marcus shakes in his grave. Didn't event want the thoughts to be public and now they are being pirated the irony
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:32 AM
2

Why would that suck? You trying to find love online? Invest on the field
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:31 AM
2

Tinder is a numbers game and where the standards get lowered in an attempt to get an effortless lay
/r/askTRP20/06/20 05:31 AM
3

You can't make him do anything. Attraction isn't a choice.
/r/seduction03/05/20 01:44 AM
3

Hoy shit brother. Did she actually file for rape? Sometimes I think there's a succubus inside of all that's just dormant. I never expect any of the things my past girlfriends have done.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 05:36 PM
4

Does this mean we should always expect our wives to cheat, and should we always have plates ready to be activated if this happens?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 05:45 AM
1

If suggest when she is hot texting you all the time to ask for the date at this point and stop texting.
/r/seduction27/02/20 12:39 PM
1

haha sorry, but thats bull shit and have a good night.
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:27 AM
10

Man, the blowjobs initially. Then her company and sweetness.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 03:24 AM
2

I'm helping a fellow male friend who seems to be in distress and in no moment I said I was offended by it. What if the guy you texted this reacted in a way you didn't like? You probably (more than likely) would cut him. Hence, a shit test to help you filter who to go on a date with.
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:20 AM
14

I have not been told this by any woman before a first date but if anything it seems to me like a shit test. I would happily say "no worries" and even end the date 15 mins before the time she has to leave so she knows Im indifferent and have other things to do anyway. If chemistry was there I would then try to set up a second date two days after.
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:11 PM
4

Basically means taking the interaction to the next level. An example of escalation could be asking for her phone number
/r/seduction19/02/20 05:52 PM
1

Don't spend more than 10 minutes with a woman you just met. Approach have some banter and then ask for her number and say you gotta go back to whoever crew you came with or whatever excuse to leave the interaction.
/r/seduction19/02/20 05:51 PM
4

I can vouch for this. Last year I met a woman that taught me everything about how non linear love can be. We both had just gotten out of LTRs and proceeded to have a messy summer relationship/rebound. Because of circumstances and inability to move past some of our past baggage we decided to take some time off, the quintessential "need space". After a month she reached out and we decided to go out on a date with no expectations. Now we are together and I'm very happy.
/r/seduction10/02/20 01:54 PM
1

hahaha so generationally true
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 08:08 PM
5

Well it took you 4 years homie.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/20 03:29 AM
3

Real indifference comes from being focused on what you truly want. Your vocation, your passion, your hobbies and friends. If you focus on yourself they will come.
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:48 PM
2

Well, I wouldn't shit where you eat. Anything that starts will inevitably end so proceed with caution.
/r/seduction05/01/20 01:20 AM
1

I see your point, but this is in no way my idea, let's discuss. Why do you think women like make up? Because it makes them look pretty, most of them will say. To which i would say, that's not being "yourself", what is wrong with your (the women's) face without a mask of facial paint aka make up. If a woman was confident enough on her natural beauty, you'd see her wearing less make up. You sound as if I was against women wearing make up, I don't care whether they do or don't, it's not like I judg…
/r/seduction03/01/20 08:55 PM
1

Definitely not. By wearing make up women are either enhancing features or hiding spots/freckles/black eyes. whatever they want to hide.
/r/seduction03/01/20 03:20 AM
1

Hahaha glad it sounds like sarcasm to you. It's 100% true. Providencia, Colombia.
/r/seduction03/01/20 01:13 AM
1

There's gotta be a balance between building through discipline someone you are satisfied with yet also accepting who you are.
/r/seduction03/01/20 12:13 AM
2

Ah got it. I'm currently on an island on the caribbean writing (pen and paper) my life story trying to understand why I am the way I am.
/r/seduction03/01/20 12:12 AM
2

That sounds controlling and misogynistic. Let them wear their make up, wear the shortest skirt. When you are able to woo her, she'll wake up next to you without make up and you'll have her with and without a mask. What should really matter is not the outside but the inside, cliche I know but it's true. Looks fade.
/r/seduction02/01/20 05:04 PM
4

Women will never be themselves in a social setting. Is wearing make up being themselves? No, we as men need to navigate this masks hence we put invisible masks of our own.
/r/seduction02/01/20 03:05 PM
3

Sad to know that people think it's tacky to "find yourself". It's a beautiful thing, without facing your problems head on you'll never grow to become comfortable on your own skin.
/r/seduction02/01/20 03:03 PM
5

I have definitely been conditioned to look for women's validation as I was raised by a single mother and 90% of my primary school teachers were women. I fear rejection so I don't even try, I want to change that. And the way to change that is indeed accepting who you are and not putting any masks on.
/r/seduction02/01/20 02:59 PM
6

Everything in moderation, including moderation
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 04:34 PM
1

Read No More Mr. Nice guy
/r/seduction31/12/19 03:09 AM
1

Lol just ventured on /r/nicegirls twas a trip
/r/seduction29/12/19 05:14 PM
1

Awesome, thank you for the recos!
/r/seduction28/12/19 06:43 PM
2

Psychological Science
/r/seduction28/12/19 06:42 PM
6

Been a while since I had a handful o'tity sleep... :(
/r/seduction26/12/19 04:55 PM
1

Thats what you think. She may be complacent about the fact that you stayed when she asked for friendship. Try pulling away from the relationship.
/r/seduction25/12/19 10:56 PM
3

I recommend honesty. Something along the lines of "I am not interested in friendship, I see you more as a romantic partner, how we used to be. If you change your mind let me know. And proceed to do no contact, when she/he reaches out (big if), set up a date and go for the kiss. Good luck.
/r/seduction25/12/19 07:40 PM
2

But brother, that's what you should have been doing from the start. Indifference, purpose and mystery is the formula of attraction.
/r/seduction24/12/19 07:16 PM
4

I went skee balling and dart throwing. It was fun.
/r/seduction24/12/19 05:48 PM
13

If a girl loses interest because of my instagram profile. That's not a girl I would want to be with. Seems shallow as fuck in my opinion, and those IG models with loads of followers and thirsty men commenting on them are a fucking lie and usually depressed.
/r/seduction23/12/19 03:10 PM
3

I'd say trust your gut. Just go slow if it's a longer distange.
/r/seduction22/12/19 03:46 AM
1

If you see her looking at your lips from a decent distance I wouldn't move in for it but you already have your indicator right there. Just keep the conversation going and find a way to get closer and then go for it.
/r/seduction22/12/19 03:33 AM
9

I always assume they are interested if they are out on a date with me, better than to question myself whether they do or not. The biggest indicator for me is physical touch, I never touch them unless they do first - even a gentle push after you tease or tell a terrible joke is already enough to know she is down for at least a kiss.
/r/seduction21/12/19 01:40 AM
70

Here's what I do: I look at her in the eyes, then slowly gaze down to her lips, then slowly up. IF she does the same by the time you are looking at her again after looking at her lips. It's go time. You go champ, I've been rejected plenty and it's always better to get rejected than not trying at all.
/r/seduction20/12/19 09:48 PM
13

"Always be my mystery" - Words from a gal I used to date, I ended up not always being a mystery and chased her away. Amen to this.
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:08 AM
2

Setting up boundaries is something I need to start doing. The girl in question in retrospective has shown me many many red flags and because I am emotionally attached I tend to brush them off and play the "It's okay, I understand" card. Not anymore.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 09:02 PM
2

Will try, it would be a tough one since we both agreed that space would be good for us and said we'd see each other after the holidays. She wrote me a letter that ended with "see you soon". What I really need is to detach from any expectations, if she comes back my idea was to not put her on a pedestal and avoid acting weak, needy while spinning other plates. I am aware this sounds very blue pill but I am what you could define as a "recovering nice guy"
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 07:32 PM
2

Yes sir. Also, funny story, I just got into Stoicism and have been reading Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus writings. The fact that someone with a username as LettersFromAStoic commented this while I struggle was a sign that I should really drop it. But question, ghost her when/if she reaches out?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 07:20 PM
1

Yup, totally aware of that hence why I'm also trying to get some plates up (have not acted on any, yet). EDIT: Just thinking about how fucked up this would be since she asked me to wait for her. Hypergamy strikes again.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 07:17 PM
1

I needed this. I am currently in a situation where she asked for "space". Most likely because I started showing signs of weakness and stopped doing what attracted her in the first place. So I am basically on this break up limbo where I have no clue whats going to happen/when she is going to reach out. But I want and should treat it like a break up, if we get back together it would be a new relationship, the old one is dead.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 02:10 PM
6

Yup, very often we start changing when we start getting emotionally involved. Need to learn how to "like" a woman without having to remove parts of the character that attracted her in the first place.
/r/seduction16/12/19 08:25 PM
11

I think there's a problem with "toxic masculinity" here and when a guy gets too intense too quick, subconsciously it may rise a red flag. It happened to me, when I was very wishy washy with this one girl she was all over me. When I actually started to show interest she pulled away. It's madness.
/r/seduction14/12/19 12:26 AM
5

I've been dating a girl that is always late. To try not to appear needy or desperate I have been playing it cool and brushing it off. Yesterday she was supposed to come over at 8p and at 9p sent me a text saying she fell asleep and if it's okay to come over. I called her and said "Hope you know that's not okay"... she still came over and spent the night. I am a recovering nice guy so I have been feeling guilty about having reacted this way but I don't know if I should.
/r/seduction12/12/19 02:43 AM
1

Thanks. Needed the reality check.
/r/seduction27/11/19 01:51 AM
1

Lol. The "not looking for anything" aka "not looking for anything WITH YOU" excuse.
/r/seduction20/11/19 12:15 AM
0

But she said "You should probably go"... by asking if he could power nap with her would be sort of a needy/beta move don't you think?
/r/seduction16/11/19 04:20 PM
8

And reproduction but who am I.
/r/seduction16/11/19 04:17 PM
0

Had a similar story. After we get home she told me that she needed to sleep at hers that night, after I said okay yeah no worries and continued hanging out and had one last drink at mine.... she then asked if she could stay the night.
/r/seduction16/11/19 04:16 PM
2

That's just natural male evolution. We have an innate desire to spread our seed.
/r/seduction12/11/19 12:16 AM
1

Which one of your boys are you the most attracted to? The one you text all the time or the one that doesn't text much? My problem is that the girl im crushing hard on is not the biggest texter, takes a lot of time to answer me. But still tells me she likes me a lot when we get together.
/r/seduction08/11/19 11:49 PM
4

But dude you did not close any of these. And frankly they seem like the kind that would ghost as soon as you suggest it. Unless you can prove me otherwise?
/r/seduction08/11/19 01:02 AM
1

Hm, interesting that you think it's a generational thing. Sometimes I think young women are interested in older men because of the reduced amount of texting they get from them.
/r/seduction08/11/19 12:40 AM
2

How do you build rapport and still stand out from the other men that are probably texting her first?
/r/seduction08/11/19 12:38 AM
1

Amen on number 7. I actually realized it not too long ago how pathetic my emoji use was.
/r/seduction08/11/19 12:29 AM
1

Scarcity mentality though, keep her wondering why she hasnt heard from you and when she reaches out to you (which she will if shes interested) assume she wants to see you and set up the date. Then put the phone down and wait til you meet in person. This of course only works after a few dates. Early stages there needs to be some rapport before you ask her out, that's where I fail.
/r/seduction08/11/19 12:02 AM
1

This is my issue, I have no idea how to build good rapport through text before asking for the date. I think I scare some women away by being too direct/assertive.
/r/seduction08/11/19 12:00 AM
2

Care to elaborate?
/r/seduction07/11/19 11:54 PM
2

Same, more importantly though, why did he delete the comment.
/r/seduction07/11/19 11:52 PM
4

I'm just a terrible texter and overthink everything. I'm starting to lean on the "if she texts you, she wants to see you" approach. So I just answer whatever she said and follow up with "we should get together, when are you free to meet?" and then put the phone down.
/r/seduction07/11/19 11:51 PM
1

You say he's jacked, is one of his pictures shirtless?
/r/seduction29/10/19 12:45 PM
1

My approach, which could be used by a woman. Is to limit texting to once a week and only use it to set dates. If you think he is interested I would go the passive route and text things like "we should grab a drink sometime" if you don't know that he's interested and need to get to know him a bit better then the active route of "when are you free to grab a drink"
/r/seduction06/10/19 01:03 PM
105

i wouldnt even go as far as trying to make sure that she gave you the right number. If she is giving you a fake number she's not interested.
/r/seduction30/09/19 02:58 AM
3

Yes, always assume every girl is interested in you when they approach you. Little to no female would approach you for friendship, if you don't know them.
/r/seduction29/09/19 11:08 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter