UranusJohnson Archive

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1	Telling women to date men “with potential” is the gender flip version of “If you cant handle me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best”. These aren't really equivalents Knowing if a man has potential is actually pretty (from a man's perspective) easy, unfortunately most women are not taught the proper things to look for in a man that indicate not only he's drive for success, but also the values he has (as well as how genuine those are related to the decisions he makes). With potential refers to driving towards achieving something later on. Especially for young women, if you want to date men your age, this is a better strategy tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 03:24 AM
1	CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause. Also with what you said about "men need to get their shit together" sorry but that'll never happen. If you're in the US, you are so so unlikely to be raped by the vast majority of men because American men are the best quality men out there. I'm saying this as an Indian American who's mother pointed that out to me actually. She believes American women are really ungrateful for how well adjusted and just GOOD American men are. The unfortunate reality is bad people will always exist, you as an Amer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 03:08 AM
1	CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause. Uhh yea more or less. I've heard before by this lady I respect that the biggest men misunderstand about women is how unsafe women feel almost always. Whether it's for their physical safety, emotional safety, stability, etc. When I took that into consideration with literally EVEYRYTHING to do with women the pieces started to come together. Especially in the more "negative" aspects of female behavior in general. For example, a lot of womens unreasonableness and mood swings MIGHT be explained by in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 03:03 AM
–	CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause. Also the bear was an awful choice for this. What this trend did more was make a lot of women look really dumb. Better choice would be a pack of wolves or even a tiger/lion/or LITERALLY anything other predator. Bears are omnivores, they don't have a kill instinct before eating their prey the way predators do. If a bear will eat you, they will won't kill you first, you're getting your leg eaten while you're a live. All the while a lot of women are like "oh yea I'd choose the bear, because at least…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 12:34 AM
1	Women consistently base their selection and opinion of men on what other men and women think of them, this is very strange behavior So, what people say about someone is therefore 100% true? How someone is portrayed isn't 100% reflective of their actual behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 03:00 PM
–	Study of singleness I think the whole thing he's going at is it seems a greater proportion of people of the same age demographic are single than maybe was the case in the past and maybe that has some underlying implications for the state of modern dating (something this subreddit is very interested in talking about). Also again, why are you even trying to be part of this discussion if you're not even remotely interested?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 07:01 AM
1	How well do women actually handle sexual rejection. If they can handle it better than men what are the reasons and what can men learn from that? Good point, next time a woman on here mention's a story of being sexually assaulted, it would be best I make sure to point out her story might not true, because there's benefit to the doubt, right? Or maybe in some situations trying to push the whole devil's advocate doubt angle in a situation where there are no real repercussions (no legal or reputation repercussions) to believing it's true on the chance it COULD be a lie (like something you read on a reddit thread) isn't all that useful and ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 06:39 AM
1	How well do women actually handle sexual rejection. If they can handle it better than men what are the reasons and what can men learn from that? Nice... response? What I said was in response to you saying it sounds like hearsay even though plenty of men have experiences of women accusing them of rape to manipulate or get back at them. No idea what your response was hoping to achieve, I don't think anyone was saying rape is uncommon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 06:21 AM
–	Study of singleness What was the point of this response? The whole point of this thread is addressing loneliness. 22-year-olds for the most part not being in relationships is an interesting and maybe even concerning thing to take note of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 06:18 AM
1	Arranged marriages in East I think you're just saying thing's now. A lot of older women especially in cultures where arranged marriages are the norm will at times push it harder than men because they understand that young people "dating" involves a lot of naive feelings especially from men in the pursuit of sexual desire and not really any respect for the prospect of marriage and children. The issue with dating is young men are heavily influenced by horniness and many young women don't do the best job of discerning men's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 06:09 AM
1	Arranged marriages in East I promise you there are a PLENTY of men who get arranged marriages only to end up in a position to have to work to provide for a woman that can sometimes just be an unpleasant/ungrateful person. "because they're getting what they want regardless," you sound like you're aggressively biased. No grasp of the negative experiences some men in arranged marriages have had.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 06:04 AM
2	How well do women actually handle sexual rejection. If they can handle it better than men what are the reasons and what can men learn from that? Women accusing men of rape as a weapon isn't exactly an unheard of phenomena	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 05:40 AM
1	Why do you women vilify some men who are doing nothing to them? Then you deserve all you get if you dish it out to people who mind their own business.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 05:16 AM
-2	Can you empathize with the other side? I can empathize with a lot of women's struggles in dating. Despite what a lot of men might say, an entirely average woman is invisible, and most men don't actually want a girl who's ENTIRELY average unless he himself is on every metric. Most men aren't willing to admit that even though it seems like a lot of women have options MANY don't beyond guys who will just fuck them not to mention lots of men nowadays are unserious, not trying to date, or are just with basically no morals. It's slim picki…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 05:03 AM
2	Women consistently base their selection and opinion of men on what other men and women think of them, this is very strange behavior His point is more focusing on OTHER people's perceptions of said man, not his behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 04:31 AM
-2	Women consistently base their selection and opinion of men on what other men and women think of them, this is very strange behavior I don't think you read what he wrote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 04:05 AM
1	Is there a solution for women’s delusion and inflated standards? I mean you mentioned one is a frickin D1 athlete and the other sounds like he's probably intelligent. I don't think you can apply their success as a counter to hypergamy. You'd have to give an example of a man that is ENTIRELY average on every metric. Average in looks, personality, intelligence, charisma, etc. and look at that guy's success. His compared to his female counterpart is night and day. He has to work way harder to prove himself I'd imagine. Being unremarkable as a man is probably the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 01:39 AM
–	The general perception of casual dating is highly dark tainted He's right, guys I know that were REALLY cool people and got along with most people (hence why they were good with girls) would even obviously pretend when with a girl. I think you're a bit naive to how a LOT of men are. A lot of these interactions turn the woman into a man and they wouldn't be interested in having a friendship with said girl. Maybe reverse is true, I don't know, you tell me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 04:43 PM
0	Is there a solution for women’s delusion and inflated standards? You gave superficial counter points. Are your boys above average in intelligence and or personality? I think that's a much bigger part of what makes up female hypergamy in my view. Most women beyond just looks also want a man with more personality and intelligence than them (in my experience).	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 04:39 PM
1	FWB is the best relationship for both modern men and women Then most people get divorced soooo	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 04:29 PM