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Introversion vs extraversion is completely irrelevant. It's all looks. I know TONS of introverted socially awkward nerds who get sex on demand from 8/10+ girls on dating apps, all because these guys happen to be tall, handsome, white, and well-built.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:52 PM
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Are you also South Asian? If not, then wouldn't it be super obvious to the guy that the kids aren't his? Like why would he be paying for a kid that obviously looks half-white? This sounds like a LARP tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 02:53 PM
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I can walk (no longer than 20 or so minutes at a time) but it doesn't do much for me. Just burns me out and makes me feel worse. I'm learning piano but I don't see how that will help me with dating/relationships. My driving ability sucks, I have terrible hand eye coordination and sensory issues (because of the autism).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 01:46 AM
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Go to groups that deal with disabilities, emotional support groups, or even just regular socializing looking for new friend groups. I have. It's the same story in every group. 95% of the group consists of men, and then there may be one or two women, but they're either married, in a relationship, or much older (like in their 60s or older) and not interested in dating. I've been to disability support groups, hobby meetups, emotional support groups, looking for friends groups, you name it - but I'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 01:41 AM
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Getting rich is a near impossible challenge given my mental and physical disabilities. Holding a regular steady job is an immense struggle on its own for people suffering from autism. Also, where would you suggest I go where prostitution is legal, safe, and affordable? Flying to Vegas and paying $350-400 a pop is obviously not a long-term solution. Maybe a couple of times a year at best. I've thought about Thailand but apparently Indian men are not welcome in the "sexpat areas" and hookers refus…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:35 PM
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I'm actually learning piano right now because of personal interest and curiosity. But how will this help me when it comes to dating and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:42 PM
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Yes. No luck there either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:31 PM
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I've tried changing my location to South America or Southeast Asia and try online dating there just to see, and it's the same exact thing. Zero matches, zero likes, zero messages. Also from what I've read online and from talking to several Indian guys who've traveled there, Southeast Asia is notoriously racist against Indian guys. Especially the women. In places like Thailand even the prostitutes and "sexpat areas" have strict "no Indian men" policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:31 PM
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I would say to accept it and stop focusing on it and try to focus on other things that bring you joy. I honestly don't think this is possible. Sex and intimacy are core parts of the human experience. I don't think a life without any sex, intimacy, love, and physical connection is worth living. I mean, would you be willing to go without all of that for the rest of your life? Answer me honestly. Now, for sex. Go to some state or country where you are allowed to hire whores. That's not a good long-…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:22 PM
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EDS = Ehlers Danlos Syndrome TFCC = triangular fibrocartilage complex tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:15 PM
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I suppose this could be an option for losing my virginity, but this is not a long-term solution. Also, I do find the idea of resorting to prostitution somewhat repulsive. Just reminds me that I'm so subhuman and physically unattractive that the only way I can ever have sex is by paying someone. And there's no real intimacy or a sense of validation from seeing an escort. Just clinical mechanical sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:14 PM
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Where do you suggest I find these disabled women then? They're not at any of the support groups, and they don't match with me on online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:09 PM
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Yes, but it causes me considerable pain in my joints and tendons
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:07 PM
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I think I'm in a hopeless situation when it comes to dating/relationships. I'm a 34 year old virgin in Texas. I'm 5'3, bald, Indian, quite ugly, and physically disabled (fibromyalgia, EDS, chronic TFCC tears, and spinal issues). I'm unable to work out or lift weights because of my disabilities. I'm also autistic and struggle with social interactions (despite years of therapy and coaching). Things I've tried so far: I've tried online dating for several years (Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, Match…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:20 PM
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But you're ok with the women on FDS calling for boys to be automatically castrated at 13?
/r/MensRights04/08/21 04:50 PM
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If it’s very common then they’ve probably worked out a lot of the kinks, right? Unfortunately no. It's still an immensely painful and expensive surgery with a long recovery time. Chances of something going wrong and ending up in a wheelchair or with a limp are also high.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:29 PM
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That's short by Western standards tbh. Especially when it comes to online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:27 PM
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This study doesn't even account for height. Male height is a HUGE deal in not just China but Asian culture in general. Leg lengthening surgery is very common over there for men (far more than in the West). The male ideal in Asia is someone who is tall, pale skinned, handsome, and lean/slender. All of those things except for the slenderness are out of your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 08:43 PM
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I agree. Unfortunately the overwhelming majority of women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:49 PM
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At 5'11 he is too short for most women on dating apps, who only want 6'2 at minimum. It's the 95/5 rule now. Women only want the top 5% of men, looks like he is in the top 30%, but not the top 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:27 PM
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Lol I've seen guys say much more ridiculous and creepy things and still have success with Asian girls. Of course, they were all tall, white, handsome, and fit though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:38 PM
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It doesn't get more forward then approaching a woman and asking her for bobs and vagene in broken English.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:26 PM
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https://youtu.be/YfCkAMIXCtw Not really, we're pretty forward in person as well. Unfortunately, women find assertiveness and confidence coming from short ugly guys (and let's face it, that's most of us) as "creepiness" and thus the stereotype is reinforced.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:23 PM
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By your logic then, Indian men would be having the most success when it comes to getting play. But we all know that isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:06 PM
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The problem is that all women do this. So your only option is to put up with it if you are a heterosexual man who wants to have sex in this life without paying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:59 PM
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Forced marriage is not the same as arranged marriage, so don't conflate the two. Arranged marriage has been the norm for all cultures and civilizations since the dawn of history. It only stopped being common in the West less than 150 years ago, and in East Asia less than 60 years ago. It's still the most common form of marriage in South Asia, Central Asia, the Middle East, and Africa. India in general is a very sex-negative culture and many people (mainly boomers) still have the puritan notion o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:36 PM
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No, I'm physically fit and in shape, but unfortunately I am 5'3, bald, ugly, and Indian which puts my SMV at 0/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:05 PM
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Maybe you won't get the hot girls but you will find some that match your level of physical attractiveness. The juice isn't worth the squeeze at that point. I mean, why work so hard to self-improve and build a good life when all that's waiting at the end for me is some 400 lb hambeast single mom with a face like a cave troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:30 PM
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Leg lengthening surgery Lifts HGH in your teens
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:20 PM
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K. Then you don't "have to" work. You are chosing to. If you are indeed a 7 you could easily find desperate men (simps) to pay your way through life, if you wanted to. Unfortunately men don't get the privilege of having this option.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:04 PM
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It was done in 2019. Pandemic hit the UK after March 2020. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:52 PM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:38 PM
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"Being an ugly woman is like being a man. You're going to have to work." - Tosh.0
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:37 PM
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I've always thought about doing this but I don't want to end up getting scammed, robbed, or blackmailed as a foreigner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:19 PM
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When it comes to dating and relationships as a man, 99% of success comes down to your physical appearance. Personality, hobbies, temperament, values, confidence, etc are all irrelevant. Real advice: Be tall, be handsome, and be physically fit. If you're short, look into leg lengthening surgery. If you're ugly, look into plastic surgery. If you're out of shape, start lifting and look into steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:17 PM
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Not sure what you mean??? I've been using Hinge since 2017 and have yet to receive even a single match. Like I said, your advice doesn't work for short, ugly, bald men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:33 PM
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This is not an option for short and ugly men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:07 PM
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So 99% of women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:57 AM
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