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Its simple: Don't use dating apps if you got some standards. Makes no difference how good you look.
/r/seduction24/08/22 08:12 AM
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It depends in what you look for. If you only look for casual stuff being good looking is the only thing you need yes. But if you want to date the girl longer your game needs to be good aswell.
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:19 PM
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get's better around the age of 30. woman in their 20s have to much options and they don't know how to choose. they have to learn it first, so yeah keep on playing i guess and hope for a lucky one
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:15 PM
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in the end it's still a numbers game a bit. experience comes from repetition, not just doing something once or twice... Also i would advice you to keep doing small steps towoards your "goal". if you can already make out, than try to take a girl home next time. even if you are not having sex that night. and from that keep going. sadly its kind of a longer way but worked for me
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:02 PM
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This 100%. been there done that. now i am good too
/r/seduction10/03/20 03:14 PM
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Like i said its unconsciously. If you are not scared but feel like you lost attraction go meet her anyway for the reason of becoming more social. See it as a learning experience to become a better person. And maybe you click with her surprisingly and the attration is back. If not you still view it as a learning experience
/r/seduction26/02/20 09:54 AM
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there are accually studies that show that woman respond to it even far more than man. So yeah definitly a weopon!
/r/seduction26/02/20 09:11 AM
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Tbh scent is accually really important. You wouldnt guess how crazy some girls get over that shit.
/r/seduction26/02/20 09:06 AM
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... because you should only text a little bit (~3-5 messages) to build comfort and then ask her out!
/r/seduction26/02/20 09:02 AM
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I have to be upfront. Its probably because you are scared of accually meeting her. So your mind tricks you into not liking her anymore. Was there too... You have to go meet her anyway, its the only way to say fuck you inner devil.
/r/seduction26/02/20 08:56 AM
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Well there is more things you can do with a girl ;)
/r/seduction24/02/20 02:33 PM
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Try drink less every time you go out. At some point you only drink one beer and you will still be abel to talk to them. Been there done that. But the overall answer to your question is yes.
/r/seduction14/05/19 12:15 PM
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some flirty negging alway spikes attraction when done right. But dont be a dick just because people tell you it helps. See it more like childish making fun of her. Please do it in a fun way not in a serious way tho.
/r/seduction08/05/19 07:24 PM
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A second text is not needy. A third one is.
/r/seduction22/04/19 11:51 AM
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Go out to clubs with her. Start dancing Close with her. If you freak her out you have your answer. Also i would lower contact with her.
/r/seduction22/04/19 11:47 AM
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You are too much in your head. Worst that could happen is that she doesnt like you. Thats not the end of the world dude. You don't want her to be disappointed, that is your problem. You Put her in a pedalstal and yourself down. Try to relax and don't view her as special because she is not. Girls don't like to be Put on a pedalstal, especially the model typ of girls. Just try your best to be "normal" around her. And If it doesnt work out between you two its fine you will find a new girl to paint …
/r/seduction22/04/19 11:43 AM
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Just say her how it is. Eather she ist fine with it or not. If you lie to them about your intentions they fugure it out anyway someday. So Just say you are not interested in anything serious and wait for her reaction.
/r/seduction16/04/19 12:01 PM
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Good one but could you give some more examples how to build attraction. Also in my eyes you need physical attraction aswell. Whitout any physical contact its really hard to attract her
/r/seduction16/04/19 11:55 AM
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Its because you get a dopamine Hit when jerking Off. That makes you Happy and active. But it doesn't last very long.
/r/seduction15/04/19 11:59 AM
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Also you probably demonstrated a dependency on her and she immed was turned off by that thats the thing i was accually not needy at all. But i know why you think it could have been that. But i gotta admit sounds like she really is not interested. Will see what happens
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:43 PM
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There's no concrete answer to this. Every person is different, and she could mean this literally or it's the common : "I am not interested in dating __you __." thats the question i try to find a answer too haha
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:39 PM
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Sounds good gonna try that. Thx dude And don't be butthurt about her not wanting anything with you. nah i am not i told her its fine and then quit contact
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:30 PM
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Yeah that was my first guess aswell, but who knows...
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:29 PM
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Thx dude so inner game it is... Lets see what i can do.
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:36 AM
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have fun! sounds too ez but is true. give value by creating your own party and let them join. that way you can give value and dont need to get value from her. what i mean is that if you have fun around them they will want to join or you can help it a bit by bumping into them slowly
/r/seduction09/04/19 06:32 PM
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Europe
/r/seduction05/04/19 08:58 AM
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It was just a question dude no need to get personal :)
/r/seduction04/04/19 02:48 PM
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;D
/r/seduction04/04/19 08:25 AM
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Most of the times its something that happend in your childhood.
/r/seduction04/04/19 06:02 AM
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Work on your Pussy licking
/r/seduction02/04/19 08:51 AM
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Damn dude you are 100% right its probably the biggest problem that people have and i have aswell, but its easier said than done... For me and probably some other people aswell its what they gone through in their childhood. For example not being liked or strict upbringing or the biggest thing in my opinion is bullying. I know its just in the head but being honest its hard if that happened to you, to just shut it out. You always have it in the back of your head, being scared to become the guy agai…
/r/seduction28/03/19 06:19 PM
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Rsdmax is in my opinion the best Out of rsd for beginner
/r/seduction25/03/19 09:44 AM
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Go out and meet chicks or tinder or through friends and start flirting.
/r/seduction22/03/19 12:44 PM
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If you wouldn't do something different and impressive for any other girl you are not coming from the mindset even tho you say you do. You are trying to impresse. Impresse her with your personality not with a Special crazy date aspesially for the first date
/r/seduction22/03/19 12:42 PM
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you got this sir!
/r/seduction20/03/19 07:59 PM
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You are clearly overthinking it bro. Be OK with not being smooth. You cant make it perfect. Its the same what i already said. Smile get close and escalate. Its that simple but you won't get results If you don't Go out and try. Asking question after question won't give you results. Just try dude nothing bad can happen. Like seriously even If you fuck up. Who gives a fuck? There are plenty of girls to try after that. BUT YOU NEED REFERENCE EXPERIENCE! Worst that happend to me was a girl looking we…
/r/seduction20/03/19 12:45 PM
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I'll take 20 of each. Will BE my Christmas present for the whole family
/r/seduction20/03/19 12:37 PM
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There is really nothing to elaborate tbh haha. Best way of learning is by going out and practicing it. You will fail at some point but that is fine everyone does. No techniques or anything pure reference experiences. Trust me If you Push thru failure you will win at some point. Just try to be as relaxed as you possibly can. Otherwise Just Go out and try dude
/r/seduction19/03/19 12:55 PM
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Get Out of your head. You don't need the perfect dancemoves. Do what feels good for you
/r/seduction19/03/19 09:42 AM
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1.If you have a Girl you are interested in look at her. 2. Now Smile at her 3.move near her 4.stand with your side facing her 5.move your frontside in her direction 6.start touching 7.let her Grind 8.kiss her Neck 9.go for the normal kiss 10.go for the pull Do everything with a Smile in your face. And If she at any point Starts to show negative response move a step Back and try again later. If she leaves you let her go. Hope that helps
/r/seduction18/03/19 09:56 AM
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too expensive, bad for health, game is not at its best when drunk. just a few haha. Getting girls is not the problem, just want to try out sober game and wanted to know some tips. But thx anyway
/r/seduction17/03/19 09:44 PM
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meditation hmm seems interesting... maybe ill try that. But i dont mean a date i am talking more about nightclubs
/r/seduction17/03/19 08:51 PM
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You definitely whatch to much porn lol
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:49 PM
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Tell her what you meant and If she is still angry let her and give her space. She will Hit you up or you try again texting her in like a month or so. If she is still angry next her
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:46 PM
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She seems to be down. Send her a day and time suggestion and ask if thats fine for her. But make it a fix date.
/r/seduction10/03/19 01:14 PM
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move one feet infront of the other until you are near her?
/r/seduction09/03/19 04:24 PM
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Start small and do babysteps. So you are not running against a wall. Like that you show your brain its nothing to be scared of. But progress more and more. Good reference experiences will help you alot in this situation
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:09 PM
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nope you are good to go. If you dont get to attached and not clingy you are all right. No shame to let a girl know you like her. Wasn't the best way to let her know so early but no problem at all. I would suggest even though she kind of know that you like her, that you let her second guess it. What i mean by that is, if she asks you if its true, you simply say stuff like "hmm maybe... Try to find it out yourself ;)" So you are not running open doors.
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:07 PM
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get more girls lol
/r/seduction07/03/19 09:46 PM
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I haven’t hit her up on snap yet because I literally don’t know what to say, and I’m honestly kinda bugging out Do it! Nothing to lose. Just say anything tbh. But ask for a date ASAP Like all these thoughts of “you’re not good enough” are basically spiraling in my head Yes you are good enought! Get that into your brain god damn. Otherwise she will take the next fuckboy in some dirty ass club. Like I have friends who get girls always hitting them up on snap, insta, all that Jazz, and here I am no…
/r/seduction07/03/19 09:42 PM
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definitly try to go for fun rather than picking up chicks. Do it while having fun. Its like the cherry on the cake haha
/r/seduction07/03/19 09:26 PM
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Having enought girls around so you don't care If one doesn't want you
/r/seduction07/03/19 12:14 PM
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sounds like a good technique! will try that one.
/r/seduction06/03/19 10:08 PM
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i guess you are right gotta leave the comfortzone more. thx for your response
/r/seduction06/03/19 10:06 PM
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thx dude. ill definitly check it out!
/r/seduction06/03/19 10:01 PM
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Craig Ferguson, he is literally the best when it comes to seduction
/r/seduction04/03/19 12:52 PM
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I partly agree because if a newbie thinks and fakes his confidence he will take action and that will give him more success than someone that is not. Doesn't really make your game better thats right but will give you chances and for a newbie thats success
/r/seduction04/03/19 12:47 PM
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i love the challenge haha
/r/seduction02/03/19 01:29 PM
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Thats accually some really good advice. Thx i'll try that
/r/seduction01/03/19 06:26 AM
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hmm sounds interesting. kind of expected something like that. appreciate your answer dude.
/r/seduction28/02/19 08:08 PM
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try to fing your own style bro, dont do stuff they do and expect it to work haha. Its not about just copy pasting a line someone else said. I think todd even mentioned that in one of his videos, but i cant find it. Its like telling a girl a pickup line and expecting her to suck your d haha. It will come off very unnatural. Also you have to follow up with a conversation. So try to do your own way from the beginning, will come off way better.
/r/seduction28/02/19 07:02 PM
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yeah ofc you are right i implied that people already know that :D
/r/seduction28/02/19 06:55 PM
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In my opinion you did the right thing tbh. Do what you want to do. Grinding is nothing Bad! Girls Like that even If they never would say that. All because of social conditioning. But thats fine. Tbh i would advise you to dump her. I don't know who chose the First Date to be in a Nightclub but i would suggest something else. But both of you agreed to get there so its Just normal that Things get physical. And Like i Said If she is not ok with that thats fine but you should not See her again. Or ma…
/r/seduction27/02/19 01:15 PM
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Dude Stop being a nice guy when you Go Out. Girls want a challenge. Also don't try to find your soulmate in a Nightclub. You won't find it. Get Girls Numbers and Date them then have good conversations. And If you want to pull then be more high value and If you are not Fake it. Be more bold aswell. Especially in nightclubs you cant pull with good conversations, thats simply boring. Girls Go Out to have fun. So be the fun they want and speak with your actions not words. If a girl is not down to ge…
/r/seduction27/02/19 01:07 PM
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The basic statement of the Video is that people are subconscious destroying their game because they are scared of sex. Be it because of inexperience or because of insecureties how they look. So the sabotage their game to get the value of the Girl but do not have to show their weekness with Sex whatever that is.
/r/seduction26/02/19 06:37 AM
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There are YouTube Videos where you can train to hold eye contact. Look it Up. Eye contact in my opinion ist the most important thing when it comes to seduction. If you are good you can seduce a woman by just holding eye contact the right way without any words.
/r/seduction25/02/19 10:12 AM
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Girls want what they cant get. After you took away your invest she wants it again.
/r/seduction24/02/19 06:14 PM
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Depends on what kind of girl you look for. Probably everywhere. Just not in a high quantity
/r/seduction22/02/19 06:47 PM
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Get Out of your head and actively try to fail. With failing you will progress. Don't expect you are really good from the beginning. You need to learn how to act while failing. You won't progress without failing first. Plenty of opportunities out there.
/r/seduction22/02/19 12:58 PM
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Confident: Fake it till you make it. Nearly nobody knows you in the Club. You can be who ever you want. You took action thats the most important! Keep doing so! Be consistend. You will need some time. Also keep improving but babystep your way up. You will see progress if you keep going. Trust me.
/r/seduction21/02/19 12:23 PM
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Believe in yourself. Don't focus in what others might think of you. Control your mind. Girls sense it If you act a sertant way. But If you act confident and so in your good. What i mean with that is that you should not be needy, don't show to much interest, don't be a little bitch all that stuff that you probably already know. CONTROL YOUR MINDSET. Thats it
/r/seduction18/02/19 01:11 PM
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Not a big thing aslong If you know how to Deal with it. Keep your cool and don't do needy and weird shit treat her like any other girl and your are good to go my friend
/r/seduction18/02/19 01:05 PM
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Good advice but way too mindfucking. Just go for the kiss if you want to. If she is not down to do it accept that. Try a bit later again.
/r/seduction14/02/19 08:42 AM
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hmm well where is the point then? I mean if you don't want to be around people. Why do You want to be good in game then anyway? The thing is that by doing game you are around people and you interact with them especially girls. So you get out of your shell or you won't make it dude. You can be introverted, don't get me wrong but being a loner and wanting to be one makes it impossible.
/r/seduction13/02/19 07:27 PM
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For Text its not being available all the time. In Person its being touchy and Push and pull.
/r/seduction13/02/19 01:01 PM
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If you don't want to be a loner, you can simply stop being one. No front but to me it sounds Like you want to be a loner. Which is not wrong but don't be mad about it then. Live with it or change Something. And you can change If you truly want to!
/r/seduction13/02/19 12:57 PM
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Yeah happened to me aswell. But i guess thats normal.
/r/seduction13/02/19 12:51 PM
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Thats not what i said. It was no excuse. I just said that there is a big diffrent between enjoying validation which contains sex and making out and giving free value(that he gives her) away. She enjoys being in the driver seat. And she won't give that free value away just like that.(not comfortable)
/r/seduction08/02/19 05:12 PM
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They always say that. She is probably not comfortable telling you to leave her alone. Its like a girl you try to hit on and get a number from so she gives you her number but never respond. Let her go plenty of other chicks out there that are single.
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:02 PM
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Well thats a difficult Situation. First of all i am not an expert but i would say you did the right thing with taking a break. If you don't feel the same she deserves to know that even If she cries. Now to you Problem. I would advise you to try to start to give yourself as much Love as you need. Because of you cant love yourself you cant love someone else. So start by being happy just being you. Depending on someone elses love is not a good thing. You should rather have so much love for yourself…
/r/seduction08/02/19 12:54 PM
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We got a new overthinker here! Dude chill, If she agreed to go on a date with you, you are good to go. Stop thinking about why she responded after 2 hours the first time and then she answered after 2 hours and 5 min. That will only fuck your braun haha
/r/seduction08/02/19 09:44 AM
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Approach girls when you go out for fun dude. Your description of it sounds not really like something fun. Go out to have fun for yourself. Before going out i always sleep like an hour or so to be ready, could help. Surround yourself with people you like spending time with. If you are old enought alcohol is nothing bad but don't drink to much either. Also what helped me was talking to random people before going out. People like cashiers or just anyone accually. Go out to places you really like. I…
/r/seduction07/02/19 08:09 PM
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Don't focus too much on finding "the one". I guess you are still pretty young and that means you should enjoy life like it is. And if you can't love your current life, change something. And i don't mean finding "the one", because that won't make your life better trust me. Change your mindset from "finding the one" to "getting to know many new people". Also don't think getting girls happens in 1 week. Sry but that's stupid. It will take a while and only if you can manage to get beaten down by lif…
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:37 PM
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Not weird but wouldn't recomand because the girl you want to ask probably wants the Attention for herself
/r/seduction06/02/19 11:37 AM
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You are too much in your head
/r/seduction06/02/19 11:33 AM
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Society tells them to. If people only like you for your looks you are a slut. Well thats what they believe. Their bitchshield is sooo high at some point that they just try to defend themselfs.
/r/seduction05/02/19 12:59 PM
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Being the best Version of myself makes me feel good looking. And If you truely believe you are good looking you will act a way other people will believe your behaviour aswell. The biggest part is that you believe it. Others will follow.
/r/seduction05/02/19 12:55 PM
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Nightclubs ezpz
/r/seduction05/02/19 12:52 PM
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Own it or look for other friends.
/r/seduction02/02/19 02:51 AM
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experience and repetiton
/r/seduction02/02/19 02:48 AM
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Why do you give a f*ck about non important peoples opinions? This just f*cks with your head way too much. Been there done that. And also nearly nobody accually cares what you do, especially in bars. Its just in your head.
/r/seduction31/01/19 08:29 PM
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I will shatter your world now. Ready? Girls like to be touched! Wooooow i know. Crazy right? But its true. Get some positive reference experiences. That will help. I would suggest dancing. Its the best way to start showing your mind 1. its not an impossible task 2. girls like to be touched (the right way ofc) 3. Its so much fun and nothing to be scared of. Go to clubs and start moving your body near some chicks or take dancing lessons. It helps trust me. have fun and good luck bruh
/r/seduction31/01/19 08:18 PM
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At bars and clubs speak with your actions not your words.
/r/seduction30/01/19 12:57 PM
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From a evolutionary standpoint its accually the perfect time because they look for someone who can warm them up.
/r/seduction30/01/19 12:50 PM
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Aboundance thats what you need my friend. Was in your situation before aswell and i was as blind as you. Its stupid trust me she doesn't deserve you if she ignores you. Also you should stop texting girls constantly. You seek value by doing that. Instead get value from your awsome life. Texting is only for making plans to see in person.
/r/seduction30/01/19 12:42 PM
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Move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction30/01/19 11:44 AM
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going cold is probably the best way tbh. Doesn't work all the time but most of the time they text you first anyway if they are interested. Otherwise always have an aboundance mindset.
/r/seduction29/01/19 09:31 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efSueRtm2_w
/r/seduction29/01/19 06:54 PM
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Ofc you should always get better at everything. But don't see it as not doing good. See it as you are able to do even better.
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:42 PM
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Sure you can hang out with them. But have other options aswell. And don't let them make you their b*tch. Don't be too available aswell.
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:31 PM
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Well babysteps. Start talking to strangers-> talk to strangers that are female-> talk to strangers that are female and who you find attractive -> get numbers-> get dates-> make out-> bang bang bang
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:29 PM
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Well there is always in everything someone better. Thats life. why would it bother you as long as you try to be the best that is possible for you. If someone doesn't appreciate your effort, they are not worth it.
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:21 PM
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The question is if you think its weird? Who gives a flying sh*t what others think about it? :D Its nice to get in touch with someone if you are really shy but you should switch to personal contact ASAP.
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:16 PM
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Do stuff with friends, that will help you recover :)
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:14 PM
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you are overthinking, all fine.
/r/seduction28/01/19 06:12 PM
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You didn't get my point. It's not about what you think right now. Even if you think you are not "hot", thats why you have to do the exercise. By saying it out loud while looking into a mirrow, your brain will slowly start to believe what you are saying. If you do it for a longer time! This exercise is only for changing your mindset. At the beginning you will just say it but probably don't believe it. But with time your brain will adopt the mindset what you are telling him every day. Thats how ou…
/r/seduction26/01/19 01:49 PM
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Your missing on self love bro. Start appreciating what you achieved. Tbh if what you wrote is true, be fucking proud! Not many people in your situatuion have the will power to go through that and try to get better. Most people just hate and cry but never really tried. Also you need to know that looks is not everything to girls. Sure you need a decent look to attract girls. But girls in general are more into personality. males rate looks from girls way more than girls do with a dude. Also what i …
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:03 PM
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You should flirt in person. way better but now to your problem. We cant look into your soul you have to figure out alone if you are attracted to her or not. try teasing her in a flirty way. Otherwise your question lacks at info to go deeper into that.
/r/seduction24/01/19 06:02 PM
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You can always change your looks. Not everything is genetics. With hard work and some time spend everyone can get to a solid 8. But rarely anyone wants to put in effort. Thats the problem
/r/seduction24/01/19 05:55 PM
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well best way ofc is to ask her personaly and your chances of a yes will be higher. But if you have no balls, then you can always ask her on IG. But if she is not already crazy into you your chances are pretty thin.
/r/seduction24/01/19 05:48 PM
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2 words : social conditioning. If they make it ez for you, society will call 'em bitch.
/r/seduction24/01/19 05:46 PM
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Yeah sure we all have that "friend"
/r/seduction23/01/19 12:41 PM
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She is fake
/r/seduction23/01/19 10:58 AM
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Maybe sounds like a joke but i am serious. Get older. Gaming in your age is kind of difficult because of many reasons. The feeling of being scared is just in your head mate. Proof your mind your not scared by taking action.
/r/seduction22/01/19 07:24 PM
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You need to own it bruh. Past is past. Live in the present:) Also you should not care sh*t about people that bully you! Keep your head up and ignore those haters. Liking a girl is nothing you have to be ashamed of. Those people just tried to higher their value by making others look bad. Focus on opinions from people that you are close to like friends and family. Tbh i kind of was in the same situation like you when i was younger. Its all just in your head! Get over it by jumping into cold water,…
/r/seduction22/01/19 07:19 PM
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Experience that will give you value. Nobody got good at something without failing!
/r/seduction22/01/19 05:58 PM
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"tells me that she doesn’t think she’s good enough for me and she doesn’t want to waste my time. I took this as a rejection that she doesn’t see me anything more than a friend" Sounds more like a shit test to me bruh.
/r/seduction19/01/19 10:25 AM
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How do you rate girls? Only appearence or personality aswell? If its only appearence you are probably pretty inexperienced with Girls because trust me there are some really cool 6-9s out there. I would advice you to be more open about really getting to know more girls to show you that they are not as awful as you might think. 1 Date doesn't mean that you have to Marry them. But maybe your problem stucks way deeper than what you think. It might be possible that you only want 10s because you are s…
/r/seduction19/01/19 10:18 AM
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Clear Case of oneitis. She is using you when she is bored. If you don't want to meet her there ist no Point in texting so Long... My advice ist Stop texting and start Dating. Because where ist the Point otherwise lol
/r/seduction18/01/19 02:45 PM
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You are only 21 dude. Chill! Like seriously. Enjoy the journey and don't focus to much on getting the one girl. Have fun living your life instead. Girls are not everything. They are a bonus. If she is not the one she is not the one. Tell her how you feel about the situation and if she can't handle that, let her go. That's life. Don't let her treat you like that, you don't deserve that. It will work out in the end if it is supposed to. And if not just continue a life full of other girls and exper…
/r/seduction17/01/19 09:57 PM
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Well dude its true when people say you have to be physical. Tbh when i started i always thought girls don't like to be touched and that this would just be weird. But i quickly learned that it's the opposite. If you feel attracted to a girl you show her by touching. Some slight touching here and there does not hurt her and definitly not you. I learned it through going out to nightclubs and dancing close with girls. They actually enjoy that. So i thought why not try to touch them too? When talking…
/r/seduction17/01/19 08:29 PM
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You got to fix your mindset. From reading your text it seems a bit like you are too desperate when approaching, they can read that pretty quickly tbh. Also you are to focused in getting layed. That makes your behaviour desperate. Go out to have a good time and don't worry to much about "winning" something. Enjoy the experience instead.
/r/seduction13/01/19 07:18 PM
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Think of how they take a shit. Otherwise just realising that these girls are only humans like any other girl aswell.
/r/seduction12/01/19 06:32 PM
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Only tip i can give you is to do small steps. Get comfortable with these but do them, because no one will do them for you. You can do whatever you want if your brain is trained to do shit. So go out and fail dude. Life is too short for being too scared!
/r/seduction12/01/19 06:28 PM
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well then you did everything right in my opinion. if she went to far its your task to let her know. But if she promises to better herself be able to forgive.
/r/seduction09/01/19 10:31 PM
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How is a guy supposed to stand out when we live in a world of women having near unlimited options at the swipe of a finger? Change your mindset! You make yourself rare and special too. It's all in your mind bruh. Also numbers are not screwed, pretty balanced. How can I overcome approach anxiety? You won't! Never. Thats the hard truth. You can just reduce it by taking action and failing. Nobody became good at something without failing. If your mind is strong enought to stand up again and again, y…
/r/seduction09/01/19 10:27 PM
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You don't need confirmation if calibrated. You go for it or you don't. That's it. Learn to take what you want and get some balls! You are clearly too scared of failing. But without failing no progress.
/r/seduction09/01/19 10:15 PM
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You know you can fake infield right?
/r/seduction09/01/19 10:10 PM
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I do it all the time bruh. But you need confidence otherwise it looks weird. You need to dance really intimate. For example it shouldn't be a problem for her if you touch her ass while dancing. Thats pretty much green light. Now look her deep in her eyes and smile! Next move is to change your view between her eyes and her lips, but don't do it to quick, all smooth. Well and now you only have to go for it:) Quick tip at the end: if she denies you the kiss, start kissing her neck and try again a b…
/r/seduction07/01/19 08:07 PM
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Well it's a jump into cold water. You never know until you do it. thats life bruh
/r/seduction06/01/19 08:55 PM
3

repetition builds comfort
/r/seduction06/01/19 08:50 PM
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you should isolate her first, and then make a move but calibrated.
/r/seduction06/01/19 08:43 PM
1

Where are some good places I can go solo and have a good time? What do you mean with having a good time? Finding girls to talk to? Having the most fun for yourself? Doing something new? Metting new people in general? You should ask yourself first what you want. For example someone that hates to go out to nightclubs will probably not get any results with girls. You need to do shit that makes you happy. ​
/r/seduction06/01/19 08:37 PM
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Fear of the unknown
/r/seduction06/01/19 08:22 PM
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i get your point but in my opinion you can't see it only black and white. Many men don't know shit about women too. So i think that some men but also some women know stuff about female behaviour that can help men to understand better.
/r/seduction02/01/19 10:01 PM
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i know but i think its actually good advice in my opinion
/r/seduction02/01/19 08:21 PM
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So bad in fact, it shattered my ego your ego, thats your problem. Only thing you can do is go on. Keep on trying, keep on failing, but some day you get the big win :) Don't do it just for the validation dude, do it for the fun!
/r/seduction31/12/18 05:07 PM
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Tbh you probably won't be able to stop masturbating completly but thats fine, you don't really need to. There is no real effect if you stop completly in my experience. But what you should do is first of all stop watching porn! Its influencing your view on sex, that is proven. And second of all i would give you the advice to just masterbate once a week. That will help boost your testosterone and you don't have to force yourself in a position were you can't enjoy a orgasm.
/r/seduction31/12/18 04:56 PM
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Maybe start by just saying "hi" when you see her. Then when you feel comfortable with that strike up a convo. But definitly in person. Small steps will bring you to your goal.
/r/seduction27/12/18 09:10 PM
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sometimes they only say stuff like that to shittest you. So i would stay persistent and just keep on talking if it was no harsh rejection. But if you feel like its a waste of time just leave, or if they leave you have your answer aswell. Otherwise just be kind, smile and say something like "oh well ok" and leave. Don't take rejection personal, there are literally thousands of possible reasons why she rejected you. And most of the time it doesn't even has to do with you.
/r/seduction27/12/18 09:06 PM
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i borrowed it. Not spend any money on that
/r/seduction27/12/18 02:13 AM
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well maybe you are right. i am not an expert in that. thats why i am asking. But tbh i fell like 200 dollar for a hoodie is pretty expensive aswell.
/r/seduction27/12/18 02:02 AM
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yeah i know its crazy what people spend on clothing these days :D
/r/seduction27/12/18 12:35 AM
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Oh well then they have a big range of prieces. Saw a box logo Hoddie for 1300$ :D
/r/seduction27/12/18 12:34 AM
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Hoddies are around 1000$. otherwise its probably fake.
/r/seduction26/12/18 11:27 PM
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You're clearly overthinking this :D
/r/seduction26/12/18 09:46 PM
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well maybe not fuck but you get more attention? And if you can top that with good personality? Its a win right?
/r/seduction26/12/18 09:35 PM
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good point but many guys never had to do sh*t for their money for example rich family
/r/seduction26/12/18 09:32 PM
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just any expensive clothing brand. but in my example it was supreme.
/r/seduction26/12/18 07:29 PM
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hmm makes sense, thx for your opinion :)
/r/seduction26/12/18 07:27 PM
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She was not worth it then my dude! Everybody has to decide for hisself if he wants to tell the truth or not. And if you felt like you had to tell the truth thats completly fine, but we have to live with the consequences of our actions.
/r/seduction24/12/18 12:52 AM
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if you really just want to talk then the answer is yes. But if you are into dancing aswell then do the dancing thing aswell. It doesnt mean that you should not dance if you think you are not good at it. I dont know what genres are played in clubs where you go but in most clubs the music is pretty mainstream, and thats good because then you can easily just do the "side to side" move. You dont need advanced danceskills for that. if you want to get "better" at dancing just go onto youtube and searc…
/r/seduction24/12/18 12:45 AM
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If you got some good moves, just start dancing near her and look her in the eyes. Normally they smile or they give you that disgusted face, then you got your answer :D. Well if they smile thats a go, you can now dance even closer. Remember she can always go away, but if she is not, you are good to go. Now you can start standing behind and let her grind or you can whisper something in her ear or ask if she wants a drink. You can basically do what ever you like and what is fun to you :D Never appr…
/r/seduction24/12/18 12:06 AM
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Well i would tell it to my best friends, but not to girls i am interested in. Even if they don't really care if a guy is a virgin, its kind of weird to them. See it like that: How would you feel if there would be that guy you know from a friend and all of a sudden he tells you he is a virgin. Weird right? So i would give you the advice to not tell her if she is not directly asking for it.
/r/seduction23/12/18 11:51 PM
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haha dude happens :D nothing wrong with that :) try to improve your smile when looking into a mirror. And next time you get that chick to smile back. Never stop improving!
/r/seduction22/12/18 04:30 PM
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ok thx dude ​
/r/seduction19/12/18 09:34 PM
1

my main question is, to you veteran pimps out there**, how do i move this forward**. I want to fuck this girl hard. thats your problem bro you want it to much and it drifts in the direction of a oneitis... i am sorry to tell you but she looks like the girl who just wants the attention. And if she ignored your suggestion for a date you should next her. And if you are really a male model it should not be a big deal to find another girl who is as pretty as she is or probably even better looking and…
/r/seduction19/12/18 12:04 PM
1

Simple answer is : DO BOTH!
/r/seduction18/12/18 11:12 PM
1

tbh thats the problem with online dating. Girls can even be more picky with dudes. Even if you probably won't like to her it i would suggest you go out and meet woman irl. And the online dating stuff is just a thing you do here and there when you have time. Its much easier to find girls that are interested irl if you put some work in trust me. Also many chicks that do online dating only want the attention sadly...
/r/seduction18/12/18 11:10 PM
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tbh i am not a big fan of texting much because its wasting time in my eyes. Dont get me wrong texting for a few days to build comfort is good but you should aim to ask the girl out asap because that is and should be your goal. Like that you find out if she is into spending time with you or not and your not wasting time and energy into texting for months just to find out she wasn't interested from the begin on.
/r/seduction18/12/18 07:07 PM
1

damn dude good job with that text. Gonna try that thx!
/r/seduction17/12/18 03:23 PM
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you dont need a personal trainer. if you really want to lose weight you can do this on your own with enought willpower! In general i would recomend working out 2-3 times a week 1h each session. Not only helps with looking better but with feeling better in your mind aswell. All of the things you mentioned like good looking cars(only if you like the car not because you think other people like it), good looks, nice style will make you feel better about yourself and will boost your confidence and th…
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:11 PM
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hmm sadly there are too many of those out there. Or maybe i search at the wrong places :D i guess its the numbers game again...
/r/seduction16/12/18 07:50 PM
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