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Both at once. If you wait, you’ll go down that “I’m working on myself right now” nonsense vortex and never be finished because there is no finish line for that.
/r/seduction08/07/25 05:48 PM
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Everybody here has a gimmick
/r/seduction07/07/25 05:15 AM
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Exactly. A lot of PUA guys are selfish and don’t know how to deliver value. They just go around approaching everyone because they’re scared so they run on the momentum and completely lack any kind of calibration abilities, which is one of the most improper skill. They deliver no value to these women but to treat them as disposable goods and then in the process ruins it for the rest of us.
/r/seduction05/07/25 01:05 PM
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Type is just something on paper and an idea. It doesn’t hold strong in real life interactions. Studies have already shown most people don’t stick with their “type” and “dealbreakers” https://elevationnext.com/2022/06/23/dealbreakers-are-really-dealbenders-in-relationships/
/r/seduction30/06/25 11:41 PM
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Well I think men are very visual as in “she’s hot and I would fuck her, no need for her justify herself”. Women are visual as in “he carry’s himself with a lot of confidence and it appears people like him” but if he’s actually incongruent when they start to talk, he lost her. Men who are scarce tend to think in a way that money and looks is what attract women because they lack those things. But as you meet more women, you realize that those things help you to only a point and see over emphasized
/r/seduction30/06/25 03:20 PM
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Men are very visual! Men turn on based on a woman’s looks alone.
/r/seduction30/06/25 02:06 PM
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Well everyone is picky too and you don’t make the cut. What gives you the right to be picky? Maybe be more open minded and actually destroy that ego of yours, stop surrounding yourself with friends who are not honest about what you’re actually like, stop the porn, stop the drugs, and hit the gym and develop a healthy diet.
/r/seduction30/06/25 02:05 PM
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That’s the entitlement and narcissism I was talking about. She lacks social awareness.
/r/seduction30/06/25 02:04 PM
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You’re not seductive. It’s just eye contact. If you’re seductive, you don’t have to do any work, they just come over. Get over yourself (this is your main problem). I someone make my over to any group or meet the girl somehow if I’m actually interested.
/r/seduction30/06/25 02:03 PM
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wtf. So you’re not intimidating at all. It’s the other men in the group that’s intimidating. See how you’ve painted a false picture to us and then tell us something else? Then go out with them and see what happens.
/r/seduction30/06/25 02:01 PM
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Ok so you also have substance abuse issues. Well that’s another thing men aren’t looking for in the long term. And also sounds like you’re not fun and bubbly at all; it’s the drugs, not you.
/r/seduction30/06/25 01:57 PM
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You won’t figure it out because you’re too deluded in your own mind. It’s like convincing fish what mountains look like.
/r/seduction30/06/25 01:56 PM
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She believes what social media tells her and the men in her life don’t seem to want to date her but feeds her what she wants to hear.
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:05 PM
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She probably doesn’t know the difference between curvy and fat.
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:01 PM
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You’re not “seductive” if you’re not pulling men over to approach you. This literally is the DEFINITION of seduction, to take someone off course and out of their way. You clearly ain’t that based on what your wrote.
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:00 PM
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Street/gutter game is pretty good, not gonna lie. I would but I rather go to bed. In my younger days, Hell yes.
/r/seduction29/06/25 04:58 PM
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🤣🤣🤣. 1, Men approach less because of unjust ridicule from the #metoo movement and cancel culture. and 2, nonsense, beautiful women get approached all the time. Only average women and ugly don’t get hit on. 3, unfortunately society has convinced men that a lot of stuff that is actually bad for them is good and normal like onlyfans, marijuana, porn, video games, masturbation, online dating, etc; men have all these other addictive substances that comes more readily available for their dopamine hits…
/r/seduction29/06/25 04:50 PM
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She chose to delete if. Respect if and let it go
/r/seduction29/06/25 04:47 PM
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This post absolutely reeks of narcissism, entitlement and grandiosity here. You’re probably not as fun and attractive as you think and your delusions about such things has entrapped you in the mental dissociation from what it’s really like for the people around you
/r/seduction29/06/25 04:45 PM
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“Cool. Thanks for letting me know and appreciate the honesty. Take care!”
/r/seduction29/06/25 01:51 AM
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Not using it and talking to women in person
/r/seduction27/06/25 10:23 PM
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I have to agree with everything but the neg. It’s part of any normal flirting dynamic. All mystery did was pointing it out and created an explanation behind it. We trade shots with our friends and we trade shots when we banter as part of flirting.
/r/seduction27/06/25 09:39 PM
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Game is neutral and friendly to everyone. Good game is entirely about consent. If she’s uncomfortable in anyway or you force yourself on her, that’s poor game and you failed.
/r/seduction27/06/25 09:33 PM
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It’s not sexual attention, it’s attention to their money. Men have the freedom to not be in a relationship if they don’t want to. They can say no whenever they want. There’s a difference between wanting sexual attention and a gun to your head. We should aim to protect women and their mental health instead of their bank account. If you fuck up their mental health, Money is not going to save them and they will not have the ability to make more money. Be a man and stop creating excuses for bad beha…
/r/seduction27/06/25 06:32 PM
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Men also have “women for now” and “women for long term”. But to your point, yeah this seems to be more and more true and getting worse with the advent of social media like Instagram and tiktok where their sexual power is being validated but their personality is not…even when they’re spiritual bypassing or virtue signaling as they’re still trying pass off a sexual vibe sublimely. Thats why as men, we shouldn’t be paying for onlyfans or following or liking this nonsense on social media, its bad fo…
/r/seduction27/06/25 05:07 PM
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The fact that you’re calling it BS is a 🚩. Either you’re with the wrong kind of girl or she’s not into you as much as you think or you’re like almost there but you’re still giving her signs not to do this. If she’s really into you, she’ll break whatever rules it is. And if she’s actually going through shit or have some trauma, then you’re gonna have to be sensitive to where she’s at and play much longer game if you care about her and want her for the long run.
/r/seduction27/06/25 03:52 PM
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She’s just passing by you. How are you taking this as an IOI. We all have our favorite spots to study. You can try later with just smiling and waving and see if she reciprocates. Do that for a few weeks nonchalantly without any expectations do return and if she reciprocates, just let it go and go back to what you’re doing. Move up to just saying “hi”. Eventually, far down the road, see if she wants to grab a study break or something, but you’re just doing this as someone who shares a same study …
/r/seduction27/06/25 03:53 AM
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It’s not the bad boy they’re attracted to. It’s the confidence and competency that’s attracting them. Women actually want good guys, but we confuse good with needy and confidence with bad boy.
/r/seduction26/06/25 06:20 PM
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There’s two problems here. You need to flirt better and escalate, create sexual tension, and pull away to create sexual scarcity in her and go back and forth, like conversation penetration. Make her feel adventurous but also safe. It’s like a societal disease. Everyone thinks one date is going to tell them everything. People should go on at least 3 of the first one was ok. You’re not too busy for this guys if you’re just going to be at home swiping, so might as well go work on your dating skills…
/r/seduction26/06/25 06:14 PM
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The amount of rejection necessary is the amount that is needed until you learn something and get better…and from there, more rejections will come until you reach a new level and so on and on
/r/seduction24/06/25 08:45 PM
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I’m not staying stop approaching but you need to reevaluate yourself. Taking a break and finding new hobbies will reinvigorate your game…not to mention you’ll meet women doing other things and you’ll be head above shoulders compared to other guys there
/r/seduction24/06/25 05:19 PM
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Yeah, you’re bored and it has becoming meaningless for you. Stop. Find new hobbies but keep meeting and talking to people
/r/seduction24/06/25 05:05 PM
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Yeah this is just being normal. nightgame teaches you more like body language, dealing with high energy, how to manage other men, how to manage women when they’re at a higher sexual value, etc. while all that will help your day game, day game is where you ultimately need to be more comfortable and better at because there’s more women, more natural, cheaper, and you better for your health. Personally, after a few years of night game, I switched purely to day and never looked back.
/r/seduction24/06/25 11:27 AM
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Yeah you do need help and we’re here to help you. Here’s what you do: forget about her and go meet more women, meet so many women you don’t care if any of them rejects you. You’re always free to try to re-open later with something witty or enticing
/r/seduction24/06/25 02:55 AM
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Nice 🥳
/r/seduction23/06/25 11:18 PM
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Your higher-than-thou behavior is also weird. I’m sure a good guy but you should consider something like therapy to help with your unresolved issues and trauma.
/r/seduction23/06/25 04:23 PM
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You’re the only one raging here. OP posted a well thoughtout video with privacy protected, providing value to a community, and you’re here white knightin’ and guilt trippin and shaming him.
/r/seduction23/06/25 04:21 PM
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Yeah well filming in a gym is just as rude. It’s people’s personal time and a lot of gym video do target people who are just working out including guys who turn to look at a girl while she’s filming or a video complaining about people walking in front of the camera. And if this is such a problem for you, go after the women who are posting videos of themselves talking in the bathroom, that’s wrong too considering what kind of environment that is. So either you can agree with me that both are equa…
/r/seduction23/06/25 04:00 PM
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So go after the people filming in the gym. The guy at least has the decency to blur out the faces
/r/seduction23/06/25 03:30 PM
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Don’t escalate on times of negative feelings. Also, go meet other women.
/r/seduction23/06/25 01:20 PM
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The OP requested the DM first. Why would you ask them to DM you? It just kinda ends in a stalemate. Be an action taker.
/r/seduction23/06/25 01:43 AM
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This is very good work and with persistency it’ll get better
/r/seduction23/06/25 01:32 AM
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Non billionaires are also fuckboys and gentleman too
/r/seduction22/06/25 03:26 PM
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Watch the first iron man.
/r/seduction22/06/25 01:12 PM
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Each interaction is different. Don’t focus on how to recreate it. Be in the moment and you’ll figure out how to create a good interaction
/r/seduction18/06/25 09:19 PM
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Going out to clubs by yourself builds character 👍. Trying day gaming too or change up the kinds of bars you go to. Like somewhere quieter if you’re the type who is better with talking for your game.
/r/seduction18/06/25 09:17 PM
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Just don’t stink.
/r/seduction16/06/25 08:51 PM
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Find something interesting to make a witty comment about
/r/seduction16/06/25 04:03 PM
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Exactly! If you shoot your shot, you get called creepy. You don’t shoot your shot, women will complain that men aren’t bold and are too cowardly. There’s more benefit to shooting your shot. Benefits: you learn lessons about yourself and others, you might get to meet someone you really connect with, someone gets to meet you and may really like you, she gets validation even if you get rejected, and you’re fulfilling the wish of many women Risks: you look creepy
/r/seduction16/06/25 01:28 PM
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Why is this a problem? You’re supposed to get turned on during flirting. Are you even hearing yourself?
/r/seduction15/06/25 03:38 PM
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Look through them or look past them. Or be curious about the details in their eyes that you’re studying the intricacies
/r/seduction14/06/25 11:43 PM
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So let her film. If your game is solid, doesn’t matter
/r/seduction12/06/25 09:04 PM
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Yep sounds about right even though they’re owned by the same company and have the same people on them haha
/r/seduction11/06/25 01:06 PM
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It’s like video games. Move on to a new level or a new game. For the love of god. Be interested in life
/r/seduction09/06/25 02:48 AM
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There’s only so much they can teach and put out there. Plus they got scared of metoo and cancel culture so they ran away and went to hide behind self-help. You can still find their stuff online and they’re still good. If you want to find a coach, lots of current coaches just repeat what prior PUA gurus have said; lots of rehashing without the charisma. The accumulated teachings (not a single guru) is helpful and still relevant today but weren’t worth the price tag they were charging.
/r/seduction08/06/25 11:56 PM
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you can just wave next time or smile and say hi.
/r/seduction06/06/25 11:53 PM
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it's all about how you own it. yes, learn new sounds to enhance what you got. you can blame your accent all you want but on the contrary media has also portrayed hispanics with accents as sexy and desirable which examples also exist in real life too, so don't sweat it.
/r/seduction06/06/25 11:52 PM
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Learn from your friend instead of asking him to do it for you. Watch him, copy him. See what happens. Eventually you’ll find your own style that works for you. And that’s another thing you’ll learn, it’s not about what you do or say, it’s who you are and what kind of unique relationship you can form with them
/r/seduction06/06/25 10:46 PM
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Mah man! Good job!
/r/seduction06/06/25 12:55 PM
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Dude go out and meet people instead of letting the apps emasculate you and take away your power as a man in life.
/r/seduction31/05/25 12:42 PM
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Reach out and laugh it off like it was nothing
/r/seduction30/05/25 08:52 PM
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Basically what everyone here is saying is be creative and have fun
/r/seduction30/05/25 05:24 PM
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Look into her eyes very intensely and don’t say anything until she says something to brrak the awkward silence.
/r/seduction30/05/25 05:24 PM
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Pretty low for guys. The majority of the women are aiming for the top guys (top as in people who get the most likes, not better)
/r/seduction30/05/25 03:57 PM
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