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| 1 | Simple question. Got a girl's number, what's next?Thanks for reply. Basically my doubts were rather revolving around wheather to text her something in the next days before attempting to ask for a date or just go with the invitation. What should be suggested as a date is a whole another topic. EDIT:, she doesn't seem to care even answering my first message, so I guess we don't need to bother to plan the next moves... But thanks anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 08:52 PM |
| 1 | The number one thing you must do from here on out if you are serious about changing your luck with women.Nope, in no way did the OP suggest it's your fault for STRUGGLING. He said it's your fault for not putting the work required to getting a partner DESPITE of the struggle. And it makes a world of difference. And, as of your last sentence, it's true about height and bone structure, but I'd argue about personality though. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 05:47 AM |
| 3 | The number one thing you must do from here on out if you are serious about changing your luck with women.Nobody says it's not going to be hard. The OP even mentioned that the uglier and shorter you are, the worse for you it is. And maybe you'll gave to put in 100x more work and attempts while being 5'5 compared to 6'3, but it isn't f*cking impossible. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Some guys prefer to be marriage material, some girls prefer to be hookup materialWhat did you mean with the statement "love for men is like sex for women"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 11:02 AM |
| 3 | Why do people double down with age? Why not just adapt?Underrated comment. If someone rejected dozens of potential mediocre partners throughout their 20', it would be a pitty settling with one mid 30' knowing they could have go ahead 15 years ago and have some fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 10:52 AM |
| 1 | When asking out, should I always go for specific time or can I let it be arranged later?What do you mean? I didn't get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | When asking out, should I always go for specific time or can I let it be arranged later?What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 04:21 AM |
| 5 | When asking out, should I always go for specific time or can I let it be arranged later?Thank you for an input. I didnt have too much of an oppprtunity for conducting a proper convo, cause there's really little time during classes. Thats why I would like to take her somewhere outside classes. Its really hard to say anything about mutual attraction. We always smile to each other, some situational laugh, thats all. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Feeling awkward talking with girls from "my league" but pretty confident with 9-10'sWell, I don't think that's the case here. I'm perfectly smooth in talking with 7's, 6's, 5's or even 4's. The problem is when I genuinely like some girl, no matter her "league". I usually like the 8'-9' range, but sometimes I liked some 5's like there's no tommorow. I've just got some peculiar taste when it comes to women. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Feeling awkward talking with girls from "my league" but pretty confident with 9-10'sOh, thank you so much for such an extensive answer and time devoted to compose it, I appreciate a lot! It sounds legit, that we should strive to be ourselves no matter what, bc sooner or later, that other person will expose us as a fraud. As obvoius at it seems, there's always the emotions inside your mind that make your heart jump out of your chest when speaking with your crush. But I believe its quite an exciting experience and, as you said, only natural. As for the leagues, I guess it origina… | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Feeling awkward talking with girls from "my league" but pretty confident with 9-10'sHi, thanks for replying. Tbh, i didnt quite get your message language-wise. Could you maybe paraphrase it for me? I guess me not being a native speaker has sth to do with it. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Feeling awkward talking with girls from "my league" but pretty confident with 9-10'sOh, so to put things in context, Im not saying about the pick-up in itself or other cold approaching social settings. I'm talking about my interactions during dance classes I'm attending since June, so the girls are only half-strangers. With many of them I danced/spoke once or twice, but with some a dozens of times. And there are plenty of them, like hundreds accross different groups. And one more thing, I'm talking only about my inner feeling of confidence or rather lack of it. This has nothing… | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Having a crush on a girl who's soon coming to my university residenceNo. Just ignore this message, wait some moment as you usually would (like 3days or sth) and hit her up with sth else. Treat that message as nonexisting or else you turn out a desperate indeed. So decrease the amount of texting till she's there. Then you would ask her out. Point 2. above. It doesnt make sense to text her back and forth, especially if she's not eager to reply. If she knows some basics about you i.e. who you are and how do you look like, then just ask her on a date when she's back.… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Women ALWAYS want to split the billWhy does it bother you? In my opinion it speaks very well of, because she don't seem a gold digger. I would rather her insisted on paying her part to be honest instead of being happy that I pay. Of course I would suggest covering the bill, but it's always good sign imho. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:12 PM |
| 1 | She hesitated after I asked her name. Would that always mean a "no"?I would love it to be the case :) | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 10:57 AM |
| 2 | She hesitated after I asked her name. Would that always mean a "no"?Thanks! | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 10:14 AM |
| 1 | She hesitated after I asked her name. Would that always mean a "no"?Normally it would be the case, but we did not exchange names yet. And the environment is not like a classroom, when a teacher reads your name aloud every 5 minutes | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 09:52 AM |
| 2 | She hesitated after I asked her name. Would that always mean a "no"?So you're implying it's not a bad sign? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 09:08 AM |
| 5 | When she says she has a boyfriendYeah, like others said, it's game over. The feeling that she's into you, you have a chemistry etc tends to be deceptive more often than not, so its total bs. That statement means just her rejection, nothing more nothing less. She might either have a bf or not, doesn't matter at this point. Move on and try somewhere else. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | I like a girl from work. Thoughts?Hi, would you tell me how this story ended? | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to get a girls number working the front desk at a gym?So what? | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Any advice on how to get a girls number working the front desk at a gym?Hi, I'm not sure if it's still relevant as I'm a bit late, but here's my advice. A girl being at work may be a bit reserved to your advances, as the pressure tells her to be professional only, let alone the (possible) co-workers. What I'd do in this type of setting is try to do some short convo with her maybe 2-3 times. Start with sth gym related and add sth semi-personal every time (eg ask what's her favourite time to work out), also (important!) throw in some joke now and then and don't forget… | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Is getting texts and initiation from women considered "abundance"?Abundance isn't something you possess absolutely. It's not like an iphone 10 in your pocket or ford mustang in your garage, which could be certified that you either have them or not. No. It's a state of mind and it depends only on your perception if you see yourself abundant or not. One can feel abundant texting two girls from tinder and the other could have regular sex with three gals and still be uncertain. For me it starts from the moment you have some good streak when it comes to dating and … | /r/seduction | 29/09/20 05:40 PM |
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