UroPV Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
460	The greatest power you have is emotional control. Only you, yourself, matter, ultimately.	Building Power	UroPV	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/18 03:02 AM
262	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth.	Red Pill Theory	UroPV	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 04:18 AM
197	There's a lot of negativity about the culture war that feminism has been winning, but it IS coming around to bite them:	Red Pill Theory	UroPV	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/18 01:57 PM

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1	The greatest power you have is emotional control. Only you, yourself, matter, ultimately. That's a reasonable point, though I would think there's value in setting a boundary of what is and is not acceptable behavior towards you, especially in a workplace. There's something to be said for the line from south park I'll paraphrase. "Just because you tolerate something doesn't mean you have to approve (or in this case, essentially condone by doing nothing) of it. Tolerate means you're putting up with it. You tolerate a cold or a baby crying on a plane, but it can still piss you off." A b…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/18 03:35 PM
1	The greatest power you have is emotional control. Only you, yourself, matter, ultimately. Just wanting to have a discussion. Explanations help you see where I come from and help me learn your perspective and incorporate it. It is a forum, after all ;)	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/18 03:18 PM
1	The greatest power you have is emotional control. Only you, yourself, matter, ultimately. Posted below. Sometimes a situation will demand a reaction. It's hard to ignore a child entirely if quiet is necessary in the moment to carry on a conversation, for example. However, the tone and delivery of a chastising statement makes all the difference. A simple and firm, "you need to be quiet, now" is more effective than a threat or raising ones voice or making a scene by removing the child, to me at least.	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/18 02:34 PM
1	The greatest power you have is emotional control. Only you, yourself, matter, ultimately. I do think that writing emotions down rather than expressing them outwardly is a healthy and practical way of handling them. Do you agree with that statement? I'm thinking in the mold of something like writing a letter and not sending it, ala Abraham Lincoln. Emotions are a natural thing and hard to prevent entirely, but dealing privately with them is growth to me.	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/18 02:32 PM
1	The greatest power you have is emotional control. Only you, yourself, matter, ultimately. These are good takes on the value of non reaction. In the situation in question the guy was attempting to interrupt me as I spoke to someone else, so a reaction was warranted as it was disrupting our conversation. Agree that if it's isolated or just a simple call out, might as well ignore it.	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/18 02:30 PM
1	The greatest power you have is emotional control. Only you, yourself, matter, ultimately. You learn through practice and failure to maintain. An internal conflict is just fine if you externally don't lose it. I'm certainly guilty still sometimes of letting my emotions get the best of me, but every time I keep it together I feel that rush of endorphins for having done so, rather than the embarrassment that comes later after foolishly indulging the emotion in the moment.	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/18 01:52 PM
8	There's a lot of negativity about the culture war that feminism has been winning, but it IS coming around to bite them: I wouldn't worry too much. It's getting to the point where crying wolf is going to fall on even more deaf ears. If women thought people not believing them saying they were raped was bad before, it's gonna be atrocious in 5-10 years when high fiving a woman at work is assault.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/18 02:57 AM
2	There's a lot of negativity about the culture war that feminism has been winning, but it IS coming around to bite them: Thanks for educating me, admittedly I know very little about politics due to my work, but you're right that any Bernie supporter is liberal as to be sickening. Ironic that he sends a guy over to the other side of the room entirely, where it counts at least (voting)	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/18 09:38 PM
1	There's a lot of negativity about the culture war that feminism has been winning, but it IS coming around to bite them: That's fair to point out. I always took his stuff about medicine and drug legalization to be libertarian, but honestly his being a bonafied liberal reinforces the overall point more and I'm glad you corrected it! What do you think?	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/18 09:23 PM
1	There's a lot of negativity about the culture war that feminism has been winning, but it IS coming around to bite them: Same here. I fancy myself a liberal, but when I think of what group of people are more a threat to my reputation and livelihood, it is liberals who would mercilessly pillory me if I have a misgiving at work. They've lost a supporter of logic and progress with their hostility and threats. Who would've thought that the party of guns and prejudice would've brought a deep thinking guy over?	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/18 09:20 PM
1	There's a lot of negativity about the culture war that feminism has been winning, but it IS coming around to bite them: Businesses will lose good people through this sort of thing. Not just skillful ones, but pleasant ones. If a workplace becomes a place that everyone hates, the workers will not be as productive as they would be in a place where people pull in the same direction. Ever notice how much more on your shit you are and how much more motivated when trying not to disappoint a friend vs someone who is threatening you? I sure feel that at work.	/r/TheRedPill	19/02/18 08:05 PM
1	Pussy is a Commodity. So much so that Bilzerian has had a heart attack from cocaine use. It doesn't scream happiness/dreams to me to be chasing dopamine wherever you can find it, nom sayin?	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/17 04:02 PM
1	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth. You make some great points, but do seem angry about something. Is it worth it to be alpha to you if you still have poor emotional control? The end goal of this subreddit isn't more sex with better women, it's the implied result that this will make ones life better or happier in some way. You may have achieved this, but your tough love approach really indicates that some sort of issue is destroying much of the benefit you're getting. Let's say you're completely right and I take all your advice ab…	/r/TheRedPill	16/08/17 03:54 AM
1	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth. You seem intent on provoking me, but I'll refrain from taking the bait, if not posting here. Perhaps it's true that I imagine times before hypergamy was truly given space to roam as better times for things like marriage, but that doesn't mean I don't acknowledge that things have changed and accept it. I think the insight of my original post is proof enough of that. By acknowledging the way things are and reminding people of it, I think I'm being very realistic about what does and doesn't attract…	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/17 10:47 PM
1	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth. This is the hardest truth of them all. The feeling is always temporary, whether it's next week, next month, or next year. Society now creates people who will always bore of their current high, it'll just happen slower to the true alpha. Damn.	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 11:45 PM
1	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth. You're right on a lot of levels. I have actually tried what you suggest with less attractive women. It's ended badly, because my not being aroused by them put this look of complete shame on their faces. Even so, the less attractive women still craved the alpha. It didn't go away, but the drug was stronger than they'd ever had before so they would've been hooked with zero effort on my part. I actually used beta tactics to drive some of them away :D	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 11:42 PM
1	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth. Do you honestly believe that the rebels of society in the 1950s were the revered, alpha men that all women ran off with? Men with no ambition, prospects for children, or value in high status circles? Maybe those men can make it in the world now, but it wasn't so back then. Maybe women did love those men, but they were smart enough to know it was metaphorically suicidal to indulge. Just like I avoid drugs, despite how great they are when actually doing them. The hangover is too much for me to bea…	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 11:37 PM
1	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth. I think we disagree on this at some level, and that's totally ok. I'd happily sacrifice my life for a fairly sizeable number of people, and my life's work is based around making sacrifices for complete strangers as well as my family. I don't do it for people without good reason, so not new ladies I've met, but that part of my personality manifests as a willingness to forgo pleasure (read: take things slow) for the sake of getting to genuinely know someone. It's backfired several times with some …	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 11:20 PM
1	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth. It sounds to me like you're saying Dwayne Johnson has a persona that he must maintain in front of a woman for fear of judgement. That's all well and good, but when he divorced his wife of 10 years, do you think he did it because she had truly taken the time and energy to learn and appreciate who the real Dwayne Johnson was and was his closest friend in the world, or that he just got bored of maintaining the alpha image of The Rock in front of her and found someone new? Either way, it seems that …	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 11:14 PM
2	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth. I understand where you're coming from, but, in my opinion, men (at least in the top 20%) have not changed as much as women have. This was the point of the Misandry Bubble article in the sidebar. I don't necessarily know if my grandparents have had the perfect marriage for every day of 71 years, but what I do know is that my grandmother never would have considered leaving, and vice versa, because what will they be leaving to go do? Raise children by themselves? Get half custody of 9 children? Hav…	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 10:59 PM
1	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth. I disagree with this. Take any famous person as an example. They may seem alpha on the surface, because they're loaded and attractive and confident and whatever the fuck. Dig deeper, and you may find they have a drug problem and are horribly depressed. Say, Eminem, or Lamar Odom, or Jamarcus Russell in his prime. Where do you think that drug problems came from? Do You think that these men are truly the alpha male they project because they could have any woman they wanted eating out of their palm…	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 07:43 PM
1	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth. I like the way you put all that. I think I've always equated thoughtfulness with beta traits, simply because acting on emotion and want seems to fit more with what the caricature of an alpha male does in general. Not to say I don't do that, but I certainly give a great deal of consideration when it comes to professional, financial, and personal development. Looking before I leap, put simply. It's true that the popular portrayal of the alpha male isn't necessarily reality, depending on where you'…	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 07:26 PM
1	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth. My image is really incidental to my normal motivation to better myself. A nice side effect of my pursuits. That said, my image is just that, an image. Women want the image, as that's what gives them tingles. They aren't able to reconcile later that there's more to a man than that. I think most people here would agree that girls generally don't care at all about why they care about. We tolerate this fact because sex is great and women are fun, but the fact that you can replace any woman is eviden…	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 03:26 PM
1	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth. The issue is that I like being the beta male at times. I actually do enjoy giving people gifts for no reason, calling friends often, listening to people's problems, talking through my own with them, and just generally being a nice person. If I enjoy time with someone, I'm apt to want to hang out with them again and maybe, just maybe get to know them in a non sexual way for a bit before going for the close. The issue I run into is that the girls I actually enjoy usually want to move faster than I…	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 03:17 PM
1	Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth. I think it particularly applies to relationships with the opposite sex. While my brother and sister do love the image I put forth, they are able to see that there is more to my psyche than a confident man with a good job and nice body. They know that there's weird quirks to me and a way of thinking that they appreciate much more than my looks, job, or social status. This is what I am referencing when I say "you" or "me." It's the difference between being in love with Tom Brady or Katy Perry and …	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/17 01:27 PM
1	Is it maturity or weakness to not antagonise aggressive people? Would you acknowledge a child's tantrum and get in a fight with it? No. People who make such gestures or act out against colleagues or subordinates in the work place are by and large children. Whatever relationship you think he has with those women is probably a tenuous hold on their interest until they move on, at which point he goes into a depression or rage fit for several weeks. Meanwhile, you allowed him to fume, which ultimately makes people who do that feel worse because they then have to…	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/17 02:36 AM
5	girlfriend who keeps in touch with exes on social media You're here because you know something. What you know you can't explain...but you feel it. You've felt it your entire relationship, that there's something wrong. You don't know what it is, but you know it's there, like a splinter in your mind, driving you mad... Welcome	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/17 03:54 AM
3	Science says: Women most attracted to arrogance, confrontative behavior, and musculature for short term relationships Chasing a ghost is basically the definition of our society's relationships now. Everyone gets idealized by those who pursue their outward traits to the point where if you catch them you're ultimately disappointed because they weren't what you thought you wanted. You finally catch him/her and poof! Our princess is in another castle!	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/17 05:36 AM
–	Fat? You either lazy, a liar, or mentally weak. (Unless you can show me the sonogram of a 40 pound tumor.) Research is against you on this one, my friend. A lot of obesity is tied in with social factors, depression, and good old human physiology. You could probably echo all these sentiments about drug addicts too, except that it's even harder to break a food addiction (read: obesity) than it is to break any kind of drug addiction. I'm happy to retrieve the data backing my claims for ya tomorrow. Sources will include weight loss clinicians at a major academic medical center.	/r/TheRedPill	15/04/17 05:38 AM